00:00Husbands, one of the things that we are totally clueless about
00:04is that women need constant reaffirmation of love.
00:10This is human nature.
00:11Women want to be reassured constantly.
00:15And our Prophet ﷺ replies,
00:16look at the poetic response.
00:18And of course in Arabic it sounds even better in English.
00:20It's even not bad in English.
00:21But he said, like a tight knot.
00:23Means it's permanent.
00:25It's always there.
00:26Like a tight knot.
00:27Then the hadith goes on that every once in a while,
00:30Aisha would tease the process.
00:31And especially if there's something going on,
00:33issue, how is the knot right now?
00:35Is it still tight?
00:36How is the knot right now?
00:37So this really shows,
00:39this is what we call the language of love.
00:41That you actually have.
00:43And also another key point is that there are key phrases
00:46that couples have for one another.
00:48Phrases that are inside jokes that only they have.
00:50And this is a sign of healthy love.
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