00:00You try to change each other, not grow and learn together.
00:05The hallmark of any strong, healthy relationship is having a partner who gives you the drive
00:09and motivation to change for the better.
00:11And that's the point.
00:13It must be something you want for yourself.
00:16Your idea, not theirs alone.
00:19Despite your partner expressing irritation or dissatisfaction with the current you, it's
00:24generally ineffective and not sustainable if you're forcing change on yourself solely
00:28because they want it and you don't.
00:32You have to want it for you.
00:34And this goes for many things, whether it's the way you dress, speak, or who you hang
00:38out with.
00:40Only you have the right to decide who you want to be.
