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00:03 Ever wonder just how often you're on someone's mind?
00:06 Picture this, you're strolling through the park,
00:09 lost in thought, and a soft wind carries a melody
00:12 that takes you back to a shared moment
00:14 with a special someone.
00:16 The memory warms your heart, and you can't help but wonder,
00:19 are you on their mind as well, just as they're on yours?
00:22 Let's dive into this and explore five signs
00:24 that might suggest someone is thinking about you a lot.
00:28 Top name, you ever glance at your phone
00:30 and find their name more often on your screen
00:32 than anyone else's?
00:34 It could be a just saying hi text,
00:36 or maybe they sent a funny meme that sparked a memory of you.
00:39 Their messages frequent your screen
00:41 as though there's an invisible thread
00:43 pulling them back to connect with you.
00:45 This behavior isn't without merit.
00:47 According to social psychologist,
00:49 Dr. John Barg at Yale University,
00:51 he suggests that someone reaching out,
00:53 even for seemingly trivial reasons,
00:55 might be a clear sign that they're thinking about you
00:58 quite a lot.
00:59 The thought of you linkers in their mind,
01:01 prompting them to keep the connection alive.
01:04 Each text subtly revealing the space you occupy
01:07 in their thoughts.
01:08 Imagine that.
01:09 Your presence is continuously in their head,
01:12 shaping their actions,
01:13 inspiring them to keep the conversation going.
01:16 Quite a thought, isn't it?
01:17 The little things.
01:19 Have you ever found them remembering little quirks
01:21 and stories about you that even you've forgotten over time?
01:24 It could be something as simple as an offhand comment
01:26 you make about your favorite childhood dessert.
01:28 Yet, weeks later,
01:30 they surprise you at a get together
01:31 with the exact same dessert.
01:33 A twinkle in their eyes
01:34 as they watch your surprise reaction.
01:37 It's as if they have stored your conversations
01:39 in their memory like cherished keepsakes.
01:42 It makes you wonder, doesn't it?
01:44 According to psychologist, Dr. Arthur Aaron,
01:46 when someone is thinking of you often,
01:48 they're more likely to remember these small,
01:51 seemingly insignificant details about you.
01:53 It's not just about having a good memory.
01:55 The frequency of their thoughts about you
01:57 enhances their ability to recall these details.
02:00 Your presence is imprinted in their mind,
02:02 so much so that they remember the smallest of details.
02:06 It's a wonderful feeling to be remembered
02:08 in such a detailed and thoughtful manner, isn't it?
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02:16 Now, moving on to the next point.
02:18 Dreams about you.
02:19 Do you recall them mentioning your cameo in their dreams?
02:23 Where you may have played the heroic adventurer
02:26 or perhaps the intriguing stranger in a surreal narrative.
02:29 These dreamy encounters might seem random,
02:32 but they might indicate something more profound.
02:34 According to famous psychoanalyst, Dr. Carl Jung,
02:37 if a person frequently appears in someone's dreams,
02:40 it might be a sign that the dreamer's mind
02:41 is frequently occupied with thoughts of that person.
02:44 Jung believed that dreams serve as a window
02:47 into the unconscious mind,
02:48 providing insight into hidden desires,
02:50 conflicts and unresolved aspects of one's psyche.
02:54 Therefore, if you find yourself a recurring character
02:57 in their dreams, it's possible
02:59 that you're also a constant presence
03:01 in their waking thoughts.
03:02 Your presence, whether as a protector,
03:04 companion or a mystery,
03:06 persists even when they close their eyes,
03:08 a testament to how often they may be thinking about you.
03:11 Protective.
03:13 Ever found yourself under their wing
03:15 and you feel secured and safe?
03:17 It's in the way they stand up for you,
03:19 deflecting hurtful comments,
03:21 or perhaps it's in the manner
03:22 in which they insist on ensuring
03:24 you reach home safely after a night out.
03:27 You feel their unwavering support,
03:28 almost as if they've taken up the role
03:31 of your personal guardian,
03:32 ready to step in whenever needed.
03:34 Renowned psychologist, Dr. Elaine Hatfield,
03:37 suggests that this protective behavior
03:38 often stems from their thoughts
03:40 being deeply invested in your wellbeing.
03:43 It's almost as if your safety has become a priority
03:45 in their mental landscape.
03:47 It may seem as if their mind is constantly aware of you,
03:50 prompting them to act in ways that safeguard your interests.
03:53 Isn't it nice to know that someone cares about you?
03:56 When their actions are influenced
03:57 by the frequency of their thoughts about you,
03:59 it creates a comforting feeling,
04:01 knowing that you're on their mind.
04:03 They look forward to seeing you.
04:05 Have you noticed their eyes kindle at the sight of you?
04:08 Even if it's a fleeting encounter in a bustling coffee shop
04:11 or a quick hello in a crowded hallway,
04:13 that instantaneous spark,
04:15 the way their gaze softens,
04:17 the anticipation that seems to animate their eyes,
04:21 it's almost like you've ignited a hidden joy within them.
04:24 According to esteemed social psychologist,
04:26 Dr. Susan Sprecher,
04:28 anticipation accompanied by visible delight
04:30 often arises from the frequency of thoughts
04:33 directed towards you,
04:34 with your image occupying their mind.
04:36 So there you have it,
04:38 five signs that may suggest someone thinks about you a lot.
04:41 Do you experience any of these signs with someone?
04:44 Feel free to comment down below
04:45 and share this video with someone who might relate.
04:47 Until next time.
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