00:00My mother puts that pressure on me all the time.
00:03My mother's like, I can't wait till you have grandbabies.
00:07As a woman, I mean, that's all you get,
00:09is pressure about having a baby.
00:10That's all you hear from everybody.
00:11Once you graduate college and your family
00:13starts wondering about when you're
00:15going to get into a serious relationship
00:17and then when you're going to get married.
00:19I've never been in a serious relationship.
00:21My longest relationship lasted four months.
00:23I can't get married to someone or be in love with someone
00:26if I don't even know who I am yet.
00:28And I'm still finding myself at 22.
00:31Most people do want children.
00:32And so I feel really lucky that I have a husband that doesn't.
00:35His family definitely wants us to have kids pretty soon.
00:38So we might start trying either next year or the year after.
00:42Since we literally do have a biological clock that's ticking,
00:45it's like so much pressure.
00:46All my friends have children.
00:48So everybody I know has children or is pregnant
00:51or wants to be pregnant.
00:53For the longest time, I said I wouldn't have kids
00:54until I was like 28, 29, just because I would have my doctrine.
00:57I would have, hopefully, a private practice by then.
01:00I work for the New York State Senate.
01:02And Jessica has been coming to work with me nearly every day
01:05since she was six weeks old.
01:07It's still very scary.
01:10Yeah, it's that scary.
01:12I would want to work.
01:13I would want to know that I'm contributing to the household,
01:16that all the work that I spent in college
01:17is actually going towards something.
01:19I love my career.
01:20It's very important as well.
01:23But that would never stand in the way of me having a family.
