00:00I don't know if I want to have kids.
00:01I want to have six kids.
00:03I don't know, I feel like I still am a kid.
00:08If we could genetically, like, somehow create a child, I would be lit.
00:16If it's your genes, the kid will be swinging from chandeliers for ten years.
00:21He's gonna come out of the womb with like a glass of wine.
00:24Can't wait.
00:25I can wait.
00:27I can wait, but I can't wait.
00:29I can.
00:33I think at the beginning of a relationship, I think you want to at least see if it's a goal
00:38for someone.
00:50Like for me, it would be a deal breaker to not have kids on the table.
00:55Yeah, you have to talk about it for sure.
00:57We discussed that probably pretty early on, because I definitely want to have a child.
01:01Yeah.
01:02Kenya needs a sister.
01:07No, I would definitely not marry someone who didn't want to have kids.
01:12I probably would marry them thinking I could change them.
01:16So, no.
01:20I would not marry someone who did not want to have kids.
01:24After her?
01:26Yes.
01:27After her, yes.
01:28Oh God, Ray.
01:32I actually really want dark babies.
01:35You have really pretty skin.
01:36Nice skin color.
01:38Nice hair color.
01:39Eyes.
01:40Yeah.
01:40Dark.
01:41Everything.
01:42Everything.
01:43She has really pretty eyes and eyelashes.
01:47And cute little ears.
01:48That's right.
01:50And one dimple.
01:51And that's adorable.
01:53I definitely want them to be smart and driven like Adriana is.
01:57Competitive.
01:58His really ripped body.
02:01When they grow up.
02:02They don't have to be born that way.
02:06The Latina craziness.
02:08That they don't leave their socks all over the apartment.
02:16They're always on the same page with each other.
02:19And if I have kids, I know I'm going to need to be on the same page with my wife.
02:34My parents were so supportive.
02:36They always backed me up 100%.
02:38I want to distill that in my kids.
02:40My parents were strict.
02:43And I will be strict too.
02:44Yeah.
02:44Very strict.
02:45Like Donna strict.
02:49Lenny was always like a struggle.
02:51And I wouldn't want my kids to kind of see that.
02:54Well, my parents worked a lot.
02:56I definitely want to make sure we're available.
02:59I don't want you to be an alcoholic.
03:04I think I was way nicer.
03:06Oh my God.
03:07I was going to say that.
03:08When I became pregnant, I thought I had the best husband in the world.
03:13I mean, he took care of me over the doors.
03:16This is real life.
03:18Making time for each other when you have kids is really hard.
03:21We made friends with people who had kids,
03:24and we created situations where the kids could have their space
03:28and we could have our space.
03:30Right.
03:30We'd lock them in a room.
03:33We made everything possible to be able to grow
03:39with education and respect to others.
03:45What if we get divorced?
03:46Like if we have kids, all I think about is like what I went through twice.
03:51As much as people try to be like, oh, like the kids are okay.
03:53Like, it's difficult.
03:55Not fucking them up.
03:56Yeah.
03:57You cannot scream in front of kids.
03:58Basically just not.
03:59Yeah.
03:59You can't yell.
04:00And you can't drink two bottles of wine in front of kids.
04:06Your super awesome ability to listen.
04:09You root for people.
04:10Kids need that kind of encouragement and I think that they'll get that from you.
04:13You have this need to provide and take care of people.
04:18God forbid if I got sick or something happened to me, you would always be there to protect them.
04:25And Brooks loves to be hugged, so I would imagine you'll hug the child a lot.
04:30Our kids are going to grow up being amazing because Jeremy has such crazy structure with life.
04:37There's going to be a lot of rules going on.
04:39Yeah.
04:40But I think that's good.
04:41Yeah.
04:43That's cute.
04:43This is like couples therapy.
04:44Yea.
