Tight Pant GYM GIRLS! Freedomain Livestream

Stefan Molyneux

Philosopher Stefan Molyneux talks about a comedian saying women wear tight pants at the gym and argues both men and women use clothes to attract mates. He says people pretend it’s just for comfort and use claims of helplessness to dodge responsibility when they pick bad partners, especially in talk about feminism and “all men are bad.”  0:00:00 Opening Reflections 0:01:39 Gym Culture and Displays 0:06:53 Mating Signals at the Gym 0:11:25 Makeup and Attraction 0:18:05 Q&A and Audience Chat 0:24:01 Feminism’s Origins 0:35:52 Dating After Divorce 0:43:37 Halloween and Community 0:45:18 Women, Intuition, and Bias 0:46:46 Work-from-Home Contracts 0:48:58 Dating Lessons Learned 0:53:07 Evaluating Men’s Character 0:58:24 Bad Boys and Attraction 1:01:31 Finding Quality Women 1:05:50 Gym Wear Debate 1:07:10 Going to the Gym 1:10:47 Purpose, Drama, and Relationships 1:12:13 Carrot Cake Bliss 1:14:12 Honesty and Therapy 1:14:31 Pregnancy and Fitness 1:15:46 Diet, Brain Fog, and Rules 1:16:56 Single Moms and Time  Support philosophy! https://freedomain.com/donate/  GET FREEDOMAIN MERCH! https://shop.freedomain.com/  SUBSCRIBE TO ME ON X! https://x.com/StefanMolyneux  Follow me on Youtube! https://www.youtube.com/@freedomain1  GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND THE FULL AUDIOBOOK! https://peacefulparenting.com/  Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!  Subscribers get 12 HOURS on the "Truth About the French Revolution," multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material - as well as AIs for Real-Time Relationships, Bitcoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-In Shows!  You also receive private livestreams, HUNDREDS of exclusive premium shows, early release podcasts, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!  See you soon! https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/FREEDOMAIN2026

Transcript

00:00:00All right, good evening, good evening, my friends. Welcome to Wednesday Night Live with Stefan von Molyneux Head, and I

00:00:06hope you're having a good week. I hope you're having a good week.

00:00:12I just, of course, just a reminder, since I'm 60, I got blood work. Please get your PSA tests done

00:00:20to check for prostate stuff.

00:00:24I am, there's no way I'm going to be taken down by the prostate because I'm an anarchist, and to

00:00:32be prostate is, oh, there's a, there's a, it's not even a dad joke. That's a granddad joke. That is

00:00:39a granddad joke. So there you go.

00:00:42Anyway, that's my, yeah, you can book a call in, call.freedomain.com, and love to chat with y'all,

00:00:51with y'all. Now, is it Shane Gillis? He's the guy who looks like he should be repairing your plumbing,

00:00:56but he is a comedian.

00:01:01And there is a kerfuffle and a khabab, and a khabab, because he was on X. He was on X.

00:01:15And, sorry, he was on Saturday Night Live, probably on X as well.

00:01:18He was on Saturday Night Live, and he had the temerity to say that he went to the gym, and

00:01:26the women are dressed like hoas, dressed like hooies, hooies and fooies. And that is interesting.

00:01:38Now, I've known a smidge of gym culture myself over the years. If I add it up, I've probably been,

00:01:47including university gyms, I've probably been to 10 or 12 different kinds of gyms.

00:01:55Not even counting home gyms. With home gyms, it's probably 14 different kinds of gyms. Obviously, the only person who's

00:02:02dressing like a hoa in my home gym is me.

00:02:04So, that's one aspect of it. And he's talking about how women wear tight booty shorts and halter tops. And,

00:02:14spoiler, they do. They do.

00:02:18And, of course, somebody's saying, look, here's a literal prostitute, and then here's a woman at the gym. They choose

00:02:22a more extreme version of the woman at the gym.

00:02:25And people are, it's kind of predictable, this rolling the grenade into the estrogen tent. It's kind of predictable, right?

00:02:34So, of course, women are outraged, appalled, shocked, horrified, fainting couches are raining down like turkeys on WKRP.

00:02:44And women are just shocked and appalled. And, of course, they say two things. They say two things.

00:02:50Number one, wedgies are super comfortable. Now, to be fair, if you don't have the testicular orientation,

00:03:00then I suppose maybe, maybe, maybe it could be comfortable. I know myself that if I have tight

00:03:09underpants, I spend my entire day going, shifting and moving. Testicular management is one of the great

00:03:17unsung tragedies of the patriarchy that the only thing I can say to women is take a couple of,

00:03:26take, you know, four or five hacky sacks, jam them down your crotch, and have them be really

00:03:31uncomfortable, because they would be, right? And your whole day is like, as a man, your whole day

00:03:35is trying not to fart too loud, and trying not to obviously adjust your Nutella sack. That is just,

00:03:43it's just what men do. And if you sit down wrong, it's a little tricky. That's why tablecloths are

00:03:51invented, tablecloths, so that men can move things around, shift things around. It is, it is awkward.

00:03:59It is a challenge. But, so this is why men in general will avoid tight pants. I remember a friend

00:04:09of mine bought these sort of Joey from Friends, a little, little snug. He bought some, some pants,

00:04:18Valentino pants that were super tight, and I remember his girlfriend at the time, took his

00:04:23wallet out of his back pocket, actually, had to wrench his wallet or his keys out of his back

00:04:27pocket, threw them on the ground and said, I would give you five bucks if you can pick those up

00:04:31easily. So, men as a whole will avoid tight clothing in the nether regions, but to the girdle do the

00:04:40gods

00:04:40inherit below is all the fiends. For women, maybe, maybe those atomic wedgies are super comfortable.

00:04:47I have doubts. I have doubts. I can't imagine that they're as comfortable as loose shorts, but

00:04:52nonetheless, that is how the ladies go. They say, number one, it's comfortable.

00:05:00I have doubts. I have doubts. For me, if your legs are turning purple and there doesn't appear to be

00:05:05any particular blood flow and you're trailing toes, like the Trail of Tears, it may not be super

00:05:12comfortable. And then the second thing they say is, it's not for men. It's what they say about

00:05:20makeup, right? It's not for men. It's for me. It's for me. You know, like a woman's home alone all

00:05:25day.

00:05:26She puts on hugely tight pants and puts on heavy makeup. So, that's the thing. Now, I personally

00:05:41do recognize, and I have no particular issue with it. I just wanted to point out, I do recognize

00:05:48that women put on sexual displays. Shocker. We're animals. Women put on sexual displays,

00:05:56as do men, right? So, you see these men with these most absolutely ridiculous, it looks like

00:06:02they've made a t-shirt out of a g-string and some dental floss, you know? Like, they have the

00:06:08tiny little threads on the back to make the shoulders look ginormous and all of that. And

00:06:15it's a little easier maybe to work out, but it's not like cotton is some big restrictive thing.

00:06:20Men, in general, will not wear tight pants, but men will wear shoulderless muscle tees,

00:06:26right? To bring the guns out, right? So, men put on a mating display as well, which is

00:06:35big old wide shoulders, right? The viper back, right? So, narrow waist and wide shoulders, which is like

00:06:41narrow waist and big boobs for women. I mean, it happens. There are guys who have that kind of

00:06:46shoulder structure, the viper back. So, men put on their display as well.

00:06:53One of the things that I thought about, I was at the gym the other day with my daughter,

00:06:59and I was talking to this woman about something she had to take her headphones out.

00:07:04And, of course, one thing you have to remember is if you're in somebody else's music video,

00:07:08like when you're working out, you're in somebody because somebody's listening to some hard drive

00:07:12and hard pounding music. And I used to have this mixtape back in the days of cassettes. I used to

00:07:19have this mixtape. It was fantastic. It started off with Obvious Child by Paul Simon. And then it

00:07:27went to It Can Happen by Yes. And then it went to Face the Face by Pete Townsend. And then

00:07:32it went to

00:07:33Dragon Attack by Queen. And it was just like, oh, it was a great workout tape. I don't know

00:07:38what the hell happened to it. Of course, long time ago. It's been a long time running.

00:07:45Drop a caribou, tell on you. So, yeah. So, women put on a display. It's totally fine. There's nothing

00:07:52wrong with it. And why do women put on a display? Display, in general, for women in the gym,

00:07:59women in the gym tend to have better butts than boobs, right? I'm married. I'm not dead,

00:08:03right? So, they put on the gluteus maximus mating display. Okay. It's a little, I guess,

00:08:11rap and ghetto coded, but that's sort of the way that it is. And they put on a mating display.

00:08:19I mean, I don't know why it's so impossible to talk about these things without everyone losing

00:08:24their minds. Are women embarrassed because they put on mating displays? You know, if there's these

00:08:33guys who have these tiny little muscle tees, you know, like a bare hint. I've got three pieces of

00:08:41cotton and I'm, cotton balls, and I've made it together with a Q-tip and I'm pretending it's a

00:08:46shirt. Because, you know, you have to wear a shirt. You can't go, tiny shirt, right? Nipples out.

00:08:52I mean, the men, do they say, well, I like these shirts because they make my shoulders and arms

00:08:58look bigger. It's pretty well understood. No, it's just because it's so comfortable and it's just for

00:09:03me. Oh, okay. I mean, I wear muscle tees when I work out at home, so whatever. It's just a

00:09:08little

00:09:08bit freer motion or whatever it is. So, I think men say, you know, if you ask a man, why

00:09:17did you get

00:09:18this cool car, right? Why don't you get this cool car? Why did you buy this cool car? I think

00:09:22the

00:09:23answer in general is because I'm hoping that the girls will like it. Why do you work out? Well, I

00:09:29want to be attractive to girls. I remember when I was a single man and I had my 1998 Volvo

00:09:35S70,

00:09:36the red match car box car of passionate bachelorhood, and I would go and get the car cleaned before going

00:09:43on a date, going to pick up a girl for a date. I remember once the car, I was going

00:09:48to, my car was

00:09:49all dusty and dirty, and I had to, I wanted to clean it before I was going on a date,

00:09:54but the

00:09:54car wash was broken, so I ended up having to use the windshield cleaner to clean the car, which was

00:10:00not ideal. Not ideal. So, yeah, why do you buy these nice things? Why do men buy nice clothes? To

00:10:06impress women, right? For women, a guy in an expensive shirt, like open, expensive shirt is

00:10:14very sexy because the expensive shirt signals resources. For men, and generally, the topless

00:10:19woman is attractive for obvious reasons. Also, youth fertility, breast buoyancy. What's that great

00:10:26line from the movie Top Secret? My name is Helge. Oh, what does that mean? She whose breasts defy

00:10:32gravity? What is your name? Nick. Oh, where does that come from? I don't know, just something my dad

00:10:37thought of while he was shaving. So, yeah, men and women put on mating displays. Why is this so bizarre

00:10:44to talk about? Is it some massive secret? I mean, a woman who has twin orbs poised at the gym

00:10:53in super tight shorts, or not even shorts, a spray-on pants or whatever, right? I mean, is it really

00:11:01shocking that she's trying to be physically attractive, maybe to women? I assume a little

00:11:07bit more than average to men. Is that a shock? I don't think so. I don't think so. Why is

00:11:13it? I

00:11:14mean, if there are women here, of course, I'm sure there are. If you could tell me, let me know,

00:11:18put it in the chat. I'd love to know. Why is it so impossible? Like, why is it impossible to

00:11:24talk

00:11:25now? There's Ashley St. Clair, who now is a dues-paying member of the Democratic Socialists

00:11:30of America, aka Communism Light. She's now talking about all of that. And, you know, she does this

00:11:38thing, a lot of female influencers do. They wear spaghetti straps and then total makeup and soft

00:11:44filters and so on. And the spaghetti straps are to make it look like it's bra and nudity. And I

00:11:51like

00:11:51the women who do the videos of them lying back on the bed. It's so obvious. And of course, as

00:11:56I've

00:11:56talked about before, eye-popping is a signal of physical attraction. Blush is a signal of physical

00:12:07attraction. Red lips are a signal of physical attraction. So makeup is a, in general, there's no

00:12:15hate on makeup. I'm just pointing it out for what it is. That makeup is an O-face for women

00:12:21as a whole.

00:12:21The equivalent is for a man to have a raging vagina-seeking boner in a pair of gray sweatpants

00:12:28striding around with a fully, full-on Freddie Mercury icebreaker ahead of him, right? So women put on

00:12:39makeup to simulate sexual attraction because they can get more concessions from men if men think that

00:12:45the women are sexually attracted to them. So if you put on makeup and then you talk to a man,

00:12:50particularly if you have spaghetti straps on, you look like a naked woman who wants to have sex.

00:12:56I mean, Adam didn't even have a sex drive and a naked woman wanted him to eat an apple. He's

00:13:02like,

00:13:02okay. Okay, Eve, let me just check with this here. Okay. Who told you? Satan. Okay. Okay. I mean,

00:13:12you are kind of naked. Satan told you to. Okay. What was the one commandment God had? Don't eat that

00:13:19apple. Okay. Satan, one commandment. Okay. What's going to be the result of this? Doom all of mankind

00:13:28forever. Open up the portals to hell. Cast out of the perfect paradise. Flaming sword bars are away,

00:13:33coming back. I got to work for the rest of my life as to all of my descendants in gut

00:13:38-busting,

00:13:39blistering labor from hell. And you now have to, you have to have childbirth. You're going to die in

00:13:47childbirth some of the time. You're going to have to have your period. You're going to have to have

00:13:51menopause. Oh, we're also going to age and die. I got to tell you, honey, that does seem like a

00:14:00fairly robust pile of negatives. Disobeying God, being cast out of paradise, labor, childbirth,

00:14:07death itself, sin, hell, and eternity of original sin, enslaving our descendants.

00:14:16But you're naked. So, okay, let's do it. Even though I don't have a sex drive, I'm a man. I'm

00:14:24a man. I

00:14:25spill him a child. So that's, that's how we do. So yeah, women are on a mating display. So what?

00:14:36That's why there are women. That's why there are men. Because we mate. We mate.

00:14:43That's why we have marriage. That's why we have those naughty bits that friction so well together

00:14:50and literally rub out the light of new life, right? So that's why we have marriage. That's why

00:14:56there are males. That's why there are females. That's why we have hormones. That's why we have

00:14:59lust. That's why we have genitals. That's why men get out of bed in the morning and women make the

00:15:04bed.

00:15:06That's why we're all here. I don't quite understand why it's so impossible for women to say

00:15:14yes, I wear tight shorts because I wish for men to be attracted to me.

00:15:21And why do women want men to be attracted to them? And why do they put on these very robust

00:15:28mating displays?

00:15:29It's not complicated. Because, well, for men, okay. All right, all right. Let's say that you're selling a car.

00:15:45And how many buyers do you want to put an offer on your car? Do you want one,

00:15:54one buyer, to put an offer on your car? Or would you like 10 or 50 or 100?

00:16:02Of course, the more people who want to put an offer on your car, or in this case, the bumpers,

00:16:09the better deal you can get. If you're selling a house and only one person wants to buy it,

00:16:13you either don't sell it or you take whatever they're going to offer.

00:16:15But if you have 20 people or 20 families who want to buy your house, you can bid it up.

00:16:22Is this, this is not rocket science at all, right? And so the more men that a woman can attract,

00:16:29attract the higher quality man she can choose because she has her options. Now, whatever you

00:16:34mean by quality or whatever. So yes, women put on a mating display to do with fertility because one of

00:16:42the things that happens to women's butts as they age is they sag. And so a firm, uplifted set of

00:16:47butt

00:16:47ox is a sign of youth and fertility. So nothing wrong with that. It's fine. It's a little, again,

00:16:56a tad on the baboony side, but you know, everybody has their particular tastes.

00:17:02So what's the problem? Yes, women go to the gym, put on mating displays. Men go to the gym

00:17:09and put on mating displays. And you can make as much fun of the male outfits, which tend to be

00:17:14around making the shoulders look wider and the arms look bigger as you can for women's. Men put

00:17:19on mating displays at the gym, also known as wearing baseball caps. So if they're losing their hair,

00:17:25you can't immediately tell. So anyway, I don't know what the issue is. I don't know what,

00:17:32what's the big mystery? What's the big secret? Women, women want to attract more men so that they

00:17:37can choose a higher quality mate. What is wrong with that? Why can we not talk about these basic

00:17:44things? Is it like women pretending? You know, there are these videos of like, the woman comes

00:17:49home after a hot date, and then she lets loose like 45 seconds worth of gas because she can't fart

00:17:54or

00:17:54toot when there's a man around. Anyway, so it's all very goofy. And I don't really understand what the

00:18:01point is. So. All right. Let us get to your questions and comments. Hey, Steph says, Jake from

00:18:10Phoenix. Been watching you for years. Oh, very nice. Very nice. Freedomain.com slash donate. Yes,

00:18:17tip.freedomain.com to put the tip out now in life and the show podcast archive. FD podcast.com

00:18:26freedomainpodcast. FD podcast.com. All right. Have you seen what women in China and Japan wear?

00:18:35Normal baggy shorts like men do. Yeah, maybe. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I mean, as long as I've been going to

00:18:43gyms, women, well, there would, so there was one guy, I used to go to a gym at Young and

00:18:52Eglinton.

00:18:55And there was a guy there who wore really tight shorts. And I mean, to be fair, he had a,

00:19:02he had

00:19:02a great ass. He had a great ass. Al Pacino style, right? He had a great ass. Absolutely. Like,

00:19:09like two oranges in a, in a stocking. And, but he was gay. So he was putting his rump out

00:19:16for

00:19:16display because he was gay. So what if nudism was normal? Wouldn't everyone be into fitness and

00:19:25nutrition? No, nudism cannot be normal for any civilized society. I don't think it's a mating

00:19:36display for women. My three-year-old was desperate to wear a bikini when she saw it at the shop.

00:19:41She

00:19:41just thought it was pretty. Do you know how hard it was to get women to wear bikinis originally? It

00:19:46was insane. All right. I think that women have evolved to find things pretty that men find

00:19:55attractive. Yeah, I think that's true. Oh, the degree of crazy. It's all for me stuff within

00:20:01feminism is wild. Absolutely wild. Research I've been doing the past couple of days. Oh,

00:20:06yeah, yeah. So here's the thing too. I mean,

00:20:13this is, I did a whole show on, somebody asked me what my thoughts were on Eastern European and

00:20:18Russian women. Having had a little bit of experience with this, maybe more than a little

00:20:22bit, I went through the shite test, right? So women who say stuff that are false, it's just a test

00:20:29of

00:20:29your integrity. That's all. They're just looking for you to be like, yeah, okay, whatever. I mean,

00:20:35they don't want you to, you know, obviously grab them by the, no, why are you telling, why are you

00:20:40lying? You know, it's terrible. It's like, yeah, okay. I mean, you want to say this stuff, whatever.

00:20:45But they're looking for you to call them out, but not in a hostile way.

00:20:51Okay. And this is true of things like astrology, mysticism, mind reading, and so on. Like, as I've

00:21:00mentioned, I dated a woman in my early 30s. She was a stewardess, sorry, purser. And she said that

00:21:10she believed she had psychic phenomenon. And I was just like, no, you don't. I wasn't hostile. I was

00:21:15like, no, you don't have psychic phenomenon. And she's like, I do, I do. And I said, well, you know,

00:21:20the amazing Randy's had a million dollar prize forever and ever out in Vegas. If you can go out

00:21:24and prove it, we'll split the money. I mean, I could use half a mil. Who couldn't, right?

00:21:28It was not on command. It doesn't work that way. And I'm like, no, it just doesn't work. You know,

00:21:33no hate. Like, everyone believes things that aren't true. I'm sure I believe things still. I'm sure I

00:21:37still believe things that aren't true. And women who say silly things, I mean, they're just looking for

00:21:46you to, you know, reasonably and in a sort of friendly and humorous fashion, just call them

00:21:50out and so on. Like, I remember, I remember when I was dating a woman in my twenties, the big

00:21:57book at

00:21:57the time was, it was called The Brief History of Time by Stephen Hawking. And I saw it in her

00:22:03bookshelf. I'm like, wow. And she's like, yeah, I love that book. And I pulled it out and the spine

00:22:08was completely flat. And I said, you really, you love this book? Have you been able to read it

00:22:14without opening it? Because this spine has never been cracked. And I was just, it was just funny.

00:22:22I was just like, you know, we all do goofy, pretentious things. But I guarantee you, you've

00:22:26not read this book. I mean, or if you have it, it's not this copy. This one is for show.

00:22:30Because,

00:22:31you know, when you open the book, it's like, it's like my cheapest friend when I was a teenager

00:22:37opening his wallet. Moths and dust floating out. So when people say silly things, it's whatever.

00:22:45We all do it, right? We all do it. We all do it. And especially when we're young. And people

00:22:50are

00:22:50just looking for you to call them out in a sort of friendly and positive way. You know, don't take

00:22:54any crap. You don't ever have to be mean about it, right? So when women say obvious things like,

00:23:01it's just because it's comfortable. And it's just for me. It's like, no. I mean, come on. It's not.

00:23:05It's not. It's fine that it's not. It's totally fine that it's not. But it's not.

00:23:11Right. All right. It's false advertising. I can tell you that yoga pants are the push-up bras

00:23:18for cheeks. Yeah. Have you ever seen those videos of the women who are like, they do sort of lumpy

00:23:23and saggy. And then they put on these yoga pants and it's like, boink. Sure. Sure. All right.

00:23:30All right. If a company you work for has work from home, sorry, WFH. If the company you work

00:23:44for has work from home in the offer letter and six months later requires you to sign to now come

00:23:49into

00:23:49the office every day or get fired, would this be a form of coercion? Well, it depends. It depends

00:23:54whether the contract has the fine print that says this can change at any time.

00:24:02All I can say is that the man hating goes back to the very beginning, well before the first wave.

00:24:07Oh, yeah. The man, yeah. James is doing some research on feminism. And of course, I mean,

00:24:11most of the feminists just had brutal fathers, violent boyfriends, and so on. And so most people

00:24:22take their own experience and try to make it philosophical. Most people take their personal

00:24:33experience and try to make it philosophical. They try to make it universal. I had to fight this,

00:24:43of course, because when I sort of grew up with a crazy mother, of course, as you know.

00:24:51And because I had a crazy mother, I inevitably, sort of domino effect, ended up with some crazy

00:24:57girlfriends. Nothing like my mom, right? But I would say that I really wanted to make sure that I

00:25:14wasn't going to mistake femininity for the domino effects of deranged femininity that I experienced

00:25:23when I was younger. Really, really wanted to make sure I didn't do that. But that took some real

00:25:31therapy and all of that. So yeah, women don't hate men in the abstract. They hate men in particular.

00:25:39And then the sort of psychological mechanism goes like this. So let's say, and there are a lot of

00:25:45feminists who grew up with violent fathers. Terrible. Men should never be violent in the home and never

00:25:51violent except in self-defense. So what happens is they have violent fathers. And given that women

00:26:03choose men, all but the most homely, women choose men. We've all seen it, particularly in high schools.

00:26:13Women choose men. Any reasonably attractive woman, you've heard me ask this a million times on the

00:26:20call and show. Any reasonably attractive woman has dozens of men that she can choose from. Dozens of

00:26:26men. And this is even prior to dating apps and things like that. Any reasonably attractive woman

00:26:33has dozens of men she can choose from. Now, what that means, of course, is that the more choice you

00:26:37have, the more responsible you are for that choice. So if you only get one job offer and you're desperate

00:26:45for work, then you just take that job. If you have 20 job offers, then you are responsible for the

00:26:54job

00:26:55that you, you're more responsible for the job that you take. So women want choices. In other words,

00:27:00they want to have as many men attracted to them as possible. And then they want to, not all,

00:27:07but a lot. They want lots of choices, but they don't want the responsibility that comes with

00:27:12a lot of choices. Men in general will sleep with a woman who offers to sleep with them because of

00:27:20evolutionary advantage, right? Women who are reasonably attractive have dozens of boys or men

00:27:28who want to sleep with them or want to be with them or want to be their boyfriends, want to

00:27:31marry them

00:27:32maybe. And the more office you have, the more you're responsible for what you choose. That's

00:27:37a basic fact. Now, feminists come from, mom had her choice of men and she chose a violent man.

00:27:48Now, the patriarchy is saying, my mother is not responsible for the violent man she chose because

00:27:57all men are violent.

00:28:02All men are violent. So let's say that

00:28:07the young girl's mother chose a man who sexually was hyper-aggressive. Let's just put it as nice as

00:28:14possible, although we can all understand what that means, right? Hyper-aggressive.

00:28:21Now, if she looks at her mother, knowing that her mother had a wide variety of choice,

00:28:26she could have chosen the nice guy, she could have chosen the stable guy, she could have chosen the

00:28:31moral guy, she could have chosen the good guy, but no, she chose the local squint-eyed Genghis Khan

00:28:38of Grapery, right? Well, that means that her mother is kind of sick. Her mother has

00:28:47massive mental health problems that she is attracted to a hyper-aggressive violent man like that means that her

00:28:58mother has a fetish for brutality and her mother is really sick. Can't do that. Can't do that. And the

00:29:11mother sure as hell doesn't want to admit that. So, if the mother chooses a violent man, there are no

00:29:19nice

00:29:19guys around because nice guys don't hang around with violent evil men. Don't do it.

00:29:27So, the genesis of the patriarchy is it's an emotional defense against the fetish and violent

00:29:36attracted corruption of the mother. So, it's not that mom chose a violent man out of all the men

00:29:45she could have chosen, including the majority who aren't violent. No. Mom chose the violent man

00:29:55because all men are violent. See, it's a fundamental defense to take away agency from the mother.

00:30:03Even though, everybody knows, women in the West choose mates and husbands from a wide variety or

00:30:12array of men. And if a woman chooses a violent man, not just to date, not just to get engaged,

00:30:20but to get

00:30:20married and to give children to, then the woman is deeply disturbed and seriously freaking sick

00:30:32if she is turned on and attracted to a brutal and violent man. She can't admit that. She can't say

00:30:41to her daughter, yeah, I'm sorry that dad beats up on both of us, but you know,

00:30:46I like the bloody D. What can I tell you? It's what get mama's juices flowing. Good crack across

00:30:53the jaw. This is what Camille Paglia said many years ago, that sometimes domestic abuse is women

00:30:58who have a masochistic fetish. Not justifying it or anything like that, but these are certainly

00:31:03possibilities. And so, the mother who chose a violent man now has to play the victim.

00:31:17And I'm not even theorizing about this. I've been doing this for blackjack years. I've been doing

00:31:24this for 21 years. And I've talked to thousands of people. And I see it from both sides of the

00:31:33equation. So, the woman who says, oh, he was violent. I say, okay, well, what were the signs

00:31:36early on? No, nothing really. And I say, okay, what were the signs early on? Well, you know,

00:31:40he did punch my dog. And then he did key my car. And then he did beat up a goldfish

00:31:47and so on,

00:31:48right? And then he came out as a serial killer for Halloween and actually killed some people.

00:31:55So, you see that. And of course, on the male side, yeah, I was violent towards my girlfriend.

00:31:59Oh, yeah. Well, how would you raise? Well, with a lot of violence. And you know,

00:32:02I screamed at her before we even got together, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, right? So,

00:32:05it's all, it's all there. It's all there. It's all there. But the mom can't say to the little girl,

00:32:13yeah, sorry, sorry, kid. But these bruises get me going. I have a sickness within me. I have a

00:32:20masochism within me. I have a 50 shades of whoa within me. 50 shades of, hey, that's hot. And I'm

00:32:30not

00:32:30saying it's healthy. I'm not saying it's right. It usually comes from prior abuse. It's desperately sad

00:32:34and sick and wrong and bad, especially if children are in the environment. But the mom can't say,

00:32:39oh, yeah, no, there were tons of nice guys around, honey. Tons of nice guys around. Yeah.

00:32:47Most of the guys who wanted to take me out were nice. I just liked the guy with the face

00:32:52tattoos

00:32:53who had no job and barely bathed. I just, I found him hot. I knew he was violent. I mean,

00:33:00guy came from a trailer park. Guy punched a girl guide because she brought him the wrong cookies.

00:33:08Got me going. Got me flowing. You got me hotter than Georgia asphalt. You better run me on back to

00:33:14the hotel, honey. I've never seen that movie. But

00:33:24some women really like it rough. It's bad. It's wrong. It's sick. But they do. She can't say that.

00:33:34Oh, I'm, you know, hey, you know, the fact that dad beats us both up. I had your brother too.

00:33:41It's what gets my bean a jumping, honey. Sorry. You got to put up with that because

00:33:47that's what mama likes. She can't say that. Oh, it's so sad. He does these things to me. I'm so

00:33:53helpless, right?

00:33:58Masochism to a brutal husband comes with sadism to the children, right? Masochism inflate. Sadism

00:34:04are the flip sides of each other, just like sentimentality and brutality.

00:34:12All men are bastards. All right. What's the old geologist? What does she say? Men are all the same.

00:34:17Men are all the same. That joke was old when I was young.

00:34:25Or as my daughter points out, when I talk about when I was young, she's like,

00:34:2918th century? 17th? Ah, nothing like teenagers to pop your ego, yay verily, to the moon.

00:34:40It's fine. It's funny. But yeah, so the feminists come from the manipulation of the mother who can't be

00:34:50honest about choosing a violent man for reasons of usually sexual masochism. So the mom plays the

00:35:03victim, men are all bad. Patriarchy, as a concept, comes from universalizing the masochistic choices

00:35:12their mothers made to bed down and have children with a brutal and violent man. And they then mistake

00:35:21that. To defend their mother's choices, they have to say, well, all men are like that. It's crazy.

00:35:30Crazy. Crazy. All right, let me get back to your comments.

00:35:38Oh, oh, oh my god.

00:35:44Young and Eglinton have been destroyed by condos. Well, there were a lot of condos when I was there.

00:35:52All right. Steph, soon to be divorced from a marriage of seven years, still optimistic about

00:35:56finding a better woman. But how to meet someone. I've asked three out in person and I'm trying apps.

00:36:01No real results so far. Well, you cannot meet a good woman until you can explain the bad woman.

00:36:17Doesn't matter so much what's happened to you in the past. What matters is, can you explain it

00:36:23in a way that gives a good woman some reasonable comfort?

00:36:31It's important. You have to be able to explain your life

00:36:35so that you can indicate to a woman or a man that your lessons have been learned.

00:36:45Right? Have you read Fifty Shades of Grey? I have.

00:36:50I have. In fact, I interviewed a woman about Fifty Shades of Grey.

00:36:56So. All right. So, I mean, you're welcome to call in on X, of course, and you can type it

00:37:00in.

00:37:00But if you've had a marriage of seven years and it didn't work out,

00:37:04then let's say you were together for two to three years beforehand, before you got married,

00:37:10which is quite common. So, you've got ten years of bad choices under your belt.

00:37:22So, you are looking, here's the analogy that helps.

00:37:37If you invested ten years into a business that totally cratered, like just got wrecked,

00:37:46you ended up horribly in debt, maybe some lawsuits, just an absolute cluster of frack,

00:37:53intergalactic catastrophe. And then, and then, you go to a private investor saying,

00:38:02give me a million dollars, I want to start a new business. Right?

00:38:11Are you going to get the money?

00:38:14Not necessarily no, because if you augured in and utterly, like Superman baby crashing from Krypton

00:38:27in Smallville cratered a previous business, that doesn't mean that you can't have a new business.

00:38:33You could, but you better have learned your lessons.

00:38:38Now, if you go to some dude and you say, I want to start a new business, man. I want

00:38:45to start a new

00:38:45business. Give me a million dollars. Oh, okay. You're 35. What's your business experience?

00:38:52Oh yeah. Like I researched this business for two or three years. I started the business

00:38:57and it totally cratered. Flurry of lawsuits and problems. Then I had employees key my car or whatever

00:39:04it is. Right? Well, the guy's going to be kind of hesitant to give you a million dollars,

00:39:09unless you can explain exactly what went wrong and why. Ah, I didn't watch the cash flow, man.

00:39:14Cash flow is king. You know, like a metronome, your paychecks requirements, your payroll requirements

00:39:20come every two weeks. And I didn't lock that in terms of payment schedules from my customer,

00:39:24whatever. Right? Have you learned your lesson? Okay. If you've learned your lesson,

00:39:27maybe you get the million dollars because you're asking a woman to invest a million dollars into you,

00:39:34right? Her precious eggs, her life, her future, her children. You're asking a woman to invest

00:39:42her precious eggs, particularly if, I assume, if you've been married for seven years and you got

00:39:46divorced, you're in your thirties. So I assume you're looking for a woman somewhat close in age.

00:39:53You're her last chance for children if she's in her thirties, right?

00:39:58So you're asking her to invest the entirety of her happiness, fertility, the continuation of her

00:40:04bloodline into your divorce-scarred ass. Which she might do. She might do. I'm not saying she won't,

00:40:14necessarily. But you better learn your lesson. I had to explain to my wife.

00:40:21Well, you're a pretty attractive and successful guy. Hey, quick question. Why are you single in your

00:40:28thirties? And I had to give the answer that made sense. You got to have an answer that makes sense.

00:40:39You got to learn every, you got to extract, extract like an anteater down an ant hole.

00:40:45You got to extract every possible lesson that you can out of the catastrophe of your marriage

00:40:52so that you can reassure a woman, you've been burnt, you got your scars, you sewed them up.

00:40:58You know it's not going to happen again. Here's what you learned. And here's why it won't happen

00:41:03again. If you can't explain that, you can't get anything.

00:41:11Why am I not getting my chat? Let's try refreshing. Oh, did that just make it go away completely?

00:41:18All right, fine. I will move it on this monitor. Monitor lizard. All right. I wish to monitor a

00:41:26lizard. All right. What have we got here? Oh, we've got it going on and on. On and on. All

00:41:32right.

00:41:33Asian women, we did this. And she smiles when she feels like crying. All right. Let's get here.

00:41:50Well, and this is, yeah, you make it make a good point. Thank you for reminding this.

00:41:57It's funny how women complain constantly about hyper dangerous male grapey patriarchy and then

00:42:05dress as skimpily as humanly possible. I'm like, ladies, you're going to have to pick a lane here if

00:42:10you don't mind for us, people who go insane with an excess of massive anti-consistency. Please,

00:42:15if you could pick a lane. If men are so dangerous, then you can't be dressing like that. And if

00:42:22you

00:42:22aren't dressing like that, it's because you know men aren't so dangerous. But there is a lot of thing.

00:42:30There's a lot of... And men do this as well. Men do this, you know, if you're going trying to

00:42:36get a job

00:42:37and you say, well, you know, I got another three offers. So you're going to have to

00:42:40make your decision quickly, right? You'll artificially raise demand. And one of the ways

00:42:46that women, not that women aren't sometimes in danger, I get all of that, but more men are victims

00:42:52of violent crime than women. So if we can move through the universe in relative peace, so can women.

00:43:00But women will often say, it's so dangerous for me out there as a way of impressing upon others

00:43:07how insanely desirable they are. You know, I can't walk down the street without people throwing

00:43:15themselves at my feet and begging me to come and work for them and threatening me and demanding that

00:43:20I come and work for them. That's how economically valuable I am. Well, the same thing can happen.

00:43:24Right. They didn't know they were naked until after they ate the apple.

00:43:37Mr. Bedanket. Mr. Bedanket. Do you like Halloween? Halloween is a lot of fun. I didn't care about it,

00:43:42in particular, when I was older. Of course, you love it as a kid. When you have kids, Halloween is

00:43:47a

00:43:47beautiful, wonderful thing. Because it's completely insane. Oh yeah, like and share the stream. Stream if you

00:43:53could. Halloween is completely insane. It just shows you how much society can self-organize,

00:43:59if it wants to. So the great thing about Halloween, of course, is that you take your

00:44:06kids around dressed up and strangers open the doors and give them candy. It's completely mental,

00:44:13when you think about it. Like, why would people do that? You know, if you're sort of some cynical

00:44:17Marxist, you know, why would people want to give candy to strangers? They're not even their own

00:44:21kids, right? So this sort of cynicism. There's something really quite beautiful about Halloween,

00:44:26in that people are goofy, they dress up, they put a lot of effort. Some people do put a lot

00:44:31of effort

00:44:31into making their, you know, the cobwebs and the spiders and the tombstones and so on. And they,

00:44:36ooh, music. And they really get into it. And then they give candy to strangers.

00:44:42It's a beautiful thing. It's a beautiful thing. And it just reminds you that people aren't about

00:44:48maximizing economic efficiency. They don't really care about that at all. They care about

00:44:56social graces and all of that, so. All right, let's see here.

00:45:18All the women who showed interest in me when I was young and I rejected are all single mothers now.

00:45:24No, no, they're not. You've got a confirmation bias. All right.

00:45:34Let me get to your comments, Christians.

00:45:39Women have intuition until they get pumped and dumped by Chad.

00:45:44Yeah, I don't, um, I mean, you have a thing about all women, but it's just the women you know.

00:45:53Right? It's just the women you know. It's just the women you know.

00:45:59And if you don't know the difference between women and the women you know,

00:46:05then you can't get any quality women. Like, if you don't even understand that difference,

00:46:10there is a difference between women as a whole and the women you know.

00:46:16So don't talk to me about women as a whole, because all you're doing is talking about the

00:46:23women you know, and who are willing to spend time with you.

00:46:30All right. I've compiled a list of stephisms that would make great album titles.

00:46:35Infinite Hellscape, Jank, Jaundice Purity, Fresh Air, Supremacist, Flaming Headed Monkey Attack,

00:46:41roofied by cleavage. I think I feel like I'm having a stroke. It depends if the contract has

00:46:47the fine print saying this can change at any time. The fine print said nothing of the sort.

00:46:51This was for software development for more context. Well, if you have a work from home contract,

00:47:00then talk to a lawyer and say, I have a work from home contract now. They want me to work

00:47:04for the

00:47:05office. So what I would do if I were in your shoes, I'd talk to a lawyer and I would

00:47:09sit down and I

00:47:09would say, so I took a salary. This is what I would say to them. I would say, I took

00:47:15a salary

00:47:16based on being able to work from home. And I charged less for my services because I didn't have to

00:47:22pay

00:47:22for car, gas, insurance, maintenance, parking, whatever, right? It's like $6,000 a year to run a car,

00:47:29at least, right? Even if it's paid off. So I would sit down and I would say, listen, I'm happy

00:47:35to come

00:47:35into work, but we're going to have to renegotiate my contract because you're asking me now to dress

00:47:44more professionally because I can just basically put on shorts and a t-shirt and do my programming

00:47:48from home. You're asking me to either get a car or use my car a whole lot more. I got

00:47:53to pay for

00:47:53parking, gas, insurance, maintenance, wear and tear, and so on. So listen, I'm happy to come into

00:47:59work, but we have to renegotiate my salary because you got me for 10 or 20% less than I

00:48:05would have

00:48:06otherwise bargained for because I was working from home, which I want to do and I'm happy to do and

00:48:11I'm

00:48:11very productive. But if you want me to come into office, totally fine. But then we have to

00:48:15renegotiate the salary. That's all. When I see tight, short shorts, I immediately think promiscuous

00:48:26and therefore low quality. It doesn't necessarily mean promiscuous, right?

00:48:40All right.

00:48:47I have never used violence as somebody when raising my son. I generally swatted his cheek

00:48:51once to break him out of a crying fit when he was very little. He's almost 15 now and very

00:48:55well

00:48:55adjusted. Good. I pursued all the mousy women in high school. They all said they had boyfriends

00:49:03from another school. Ah, you know, I wish that somebody had given me better advice about dating

00:49:08in high school. I just lasered in on the hotties. I remember there was this woman, girl, girl,

00:49:17and she was in my science class and she was a cello player and she used to have this t

00:49:21-shirt that said

00:49:21cello power. And she had no particular sense of style or dress or anything like that. But she was

00:49:27very nice and she was very funny. I should have dated her. If you're out there. Well, I'm happy now

00:49:33with where I am, of course, right? But I should have dated her.

00:49:40And there was another woman in university when I was involved in a long relationship that was

00:49:45okay, just never really quite, never really quite got traction, never really quite got to where it

00:49:49needed to get to. And I chatted with her. I chatted with her in the library. She was very nice

00:49:54and very funny and quite warm. And then she showed up at the gym, worked out next to me and

00:49:59I'd smile

00:50:00and chat with her a little bit. And of course, now, of course, in hindsight, I was like, that's...

00:50:04Women will just be around and be reasonably friendly. And that's them shooting their shot,

00:50:09right? All right.

00:50:14There is no patriarchy when a democracy is mostly women who vote.

00:50:21Hmm. Well, it's sort of an interesting question, right? Or let's say that there was this patriarchy

00:50:27that men just kept women away from power for the last million years, which means women have not

00:50:32evolved to handle power because they didn't have access to it. So then even if we are to say,

00:50:38well, there was this patriarchy that kept women away from power, you can't just give women power

00:50:42because they have not evolved to deal with it. They have not evolved the brain structures,

00:50:46the social... If we take this argument, right? The social structures, the brain structures,

00:50:50the language structures, and so on, right? They haven't, right? So we'd have to take a couple

00:50:56of generations to adapt women to power. Jake says, my fatigue in females is so off the charts.

00:51:06Talking about human depravity in the females of this culture is like talking about how water is wet.

00:51:12I was talking to this young woman not too long ago, and she was saying that boys don't talk to

00:51:17girls

00:51:18anymore. And to me as a whole, I've really, really tried hard not to let bad people keep me from

00:51:30good

00:51:30things. I've really tried. So I grew up with a lot of low-quality females around. That's what happens

00:51:38when you're the son of a single mother and all of that. You grew up with a lot of low

00:51:42-quality females

00:51:43around. And I've really tried to work hard to make sure that the trash females that I grew up with

00:51:50didn't keep me from quality women. So, you know, there's a lot of... Yeah, there are a lot of

00:51:57disturbed women out there. Right? This Jane Doe from Cornell 7, in my view, very disturbed woman.

00:52:07And... Don't let her keep you away from women. All right. We've got a cowl-er.

00:52:16Uh... Uh... What have we got here? If you wanted to say some... I'm all ears, man.

00:52:26I think you might be muted. Let's see. Let's try that again. Can I hear you? I cannot.

00:52:34All right. You're muted again. All right. So let's get back to your comments.

00:52:40Have you considered writing a children's book? Eh, people don't really read books anymore. You know,

00:52:44it's funny, because I pour heart and soul into... It's not a big complaint. It's just a sort of fact

00:52:48of reality. So I pour heart and soul into writing my novels, and I get, like, a comment a month.

00:52:53I

00:52:53know people are reading them, because I can see the numbers, but, you know, if you don't get any

00:52:57feedback, it's kind of tough to stay enthusiastic or anything like that.

00:53:02Uh-oh.

00:53:07If the mother chose a violent, unknowingly father, and then leaves the father and keeps the child,

00:53:12does that redeem her original choice?

00:53:17Well, women have evolved to evaluate male character, the character of the man.

00:53:27Women have evolved to evaluate men, because the stakes for women having children are so high

00:53:36relative to men. And so, because of that,

00:53:43any woman who says,

00:53:45I had no idea

00:53:46that this guy

00:53:48who came from an alcoholic, drug addict,

00:53:51violent family

00:53:52was violent, right?

00:53:54Because women have,

00:53:58as do men,

00:53:59but women have a greater incentive,

00:54:01women have

00:54:02the entirety of the woman,

00:54:05of the man's family tree

00:54:06to evaluate,

00:54:07right?

00:54:08If you want to know,

00:54:10the best predictor of future behavior

00:54:12is relevant past behavior.

00:54:13If you want to know how someone's going to act tomorrow,

00:54:15just look at how they acted yesterday.

00:54:18So, a woman

00:54:21has

00:54:22the entirety of the man's genetic lineage,

00:54:25his entire family,

00:54:28to evaluate

00:54:29before she settles down with him.

00:54:32So, the idea that

00:54:34a mother has no idea

00:54:36that a man is violent

00:54:38before she has children with him,

00:54:40dates, get engaged, do get married,

00:54:42has children with him,

00:54:43is not true.

00:54:45It's not true,

00:54:46it's never true,

00:54:47it never will be true.

00:54:48A species literally could not have survived

00:54:50if women could not evaluate men,

00:54:53because when,

00:54:54throughout all of our evolution,

00:54:57women

00:55:01would be

00:55:03pregnant,

00:55:04raising children,

00:55:05or raising grandchildren

00:55:06from the age of 18

00:55:08to 85.

00:55:1167 years.

00:55:13So, that is,

00:55:14that is a,

00:55:15that is a long-ass time.

00:55:16That's longer than I've been alive.

00:55:18So, women

00:55:19unite their scarce and precious eggs

00:55:21into the entirety

00:55:22of the man's

00:55:23genetic lineage,

00:55:24into his family,

00:55:25and also

00:55:27what she does

00:55:30is she has the capacity

00:55:31to evaluate

00:55:32everything about him.

00:55:35And of course,

00:55:36for the most part,

00:55:37women,

00:55:38sadly,

00:55:38needed violent men,

00:55:39because

00:55:40the world was violent,

00:55:41right?

00:55:42They needed violent men.

00:55:43So, the idea that

00:55:45a woman

00:55:46is going to spend

00:55:47her entire adult life

00:55:48being provided for

00:55:50by a man,

00:55:50but women

00:55:51have no way

00:55:51of evaluating

00:55:52male character

00:55:53is absolutely

00:55:55completely

00:55:55and totally

00:55:55false.

00:55:57Now,

00:55:57the myth

00:55:58of female

00:55:59irresponsibility

00:56:00regarding the

00:56:01dating market

00:56:01is a convenient

00:56:02fiction

00:56:03that allows

00:56:04women

00:56:04to swap

00:56:05to monkey branch,

00:56:06to leave one guy

00:56:07and go to another.

00:56:09So, the typical

00:56:09strategy, of course,

00:56:11is the woman

00:56:12who cries,

00:56:13oh, he's so mean,

00:56:15he's so terrible,

00:56:16he's so horrible,

00:56:17he doesn't listen,

00:56:19he's drunk,

00:56:20he's the worst guy

00:56:21ever, right?

00:56:22And she is trying

00:56:23to then monkey branch.

00:56:25Now, she can't say,

00:56:26well, I chose this guy

00:56:28even though

00:56:28his family is violent,

00:56:30his older brother

00:56:31is violent,

00:56:31his sister was a

00:56:32horrible witch to me

00:56:33when I was growing up,

00:56:34and so,

00:56:38of course,

00:56:38I mean, of course

00:56:39I knew he was violent,

00:56:40right?

00:56:40I mean, he was mean

00:56:41and I asked around,

00:56:42he was mean in school,

00:56:43he was mean to the

00:56:44other kids,

00:56:44he drank,

00:56:45he had no discernible

00:56:47source of income,

00:56:48yet always seemed

00:56:49to be rolling in cash.

00:56:51So,

00:56:55yeah,

00:56:56I guess I like him

00:56:58violent, right?

00:56:59Because if the woman

00:57:00likes the men violent,

00:57:01then she can't

00:57:02monkey branch

00:57:03to a better guy.

00:57:03So what she has to do

00:57:05in order to monkey branch

00:57:06to a different guy

00:57:07is she has to,

00:57:09and of course,

00:57:10she may want

00:57:13to mate

00:57:14with the aggressive guy,

00:57:15but the aggressive guy

00:57:16may be too aggressive

00:57:16to provide her

00:57:17a stable income.

00:57:18So the strategy,

00:57:19of course,

00:57:20is to mate

00:57:21with the aggressive guy

00:57:22and then monkey branch

00:57:23to the less aggressive guy,

00:57:24maybe give him

00:57:25a child or two,

00:57:26which is his only chance

00:57:26to breed perhaps,

00:57:27in return for him

00:57:28raising the aggressive

00:57:30guy's children.

00:57:30And that way,

00:57:31she has both

00:57:31aggressive children

00:57:32and less aggressive children,

00:57:34alpha children

00:57:35and beta children,

00:57:36which means that

00:57:37she's got her bases covered

00:57:38because women,

00:57:39of course,

00:57:40need their children

00:57:41to take care of them

00:57:42in their old age,

00:57:42and if she only has

00:57:43aggressive alpha children,

00:57:44then they're not going

00:57:45to do that,

00:57:46so she kind of

00:57:46want to have a mix.

00:57:47So it's just a mating strategy

00:57:49where the woman says,

00:57:49I didn't know

00:57:50and there was no way

00:57:51to tell and he was just,

00:57:53he seemed so nice

00:57:54and then he just changed,

00:57:55right?

00:57:55I mean,

00:57:55it's just a bit of nonsense

00:57:57to be able to swap up

00:57:58your partners

00:57:59and get the alpha-beta combo

00:58:02that is the most reliable

00:58:04for being taken care of

00:58:07in your old age.

00:58:08Do you remember

00:58:09the Halle-Bopp comet

00:58:10in 1997?

00:58:11Oh,

00:58:12not particularly.

00:58:13That's quite a long time ago now.

00:58:15All right.

00:58:24Young girls like bad boys

00:58:25because they think

00:58:26love will reform the bad boy.

00:58:27Smart girls figure it out

00:58:28after that

00:58:29and know that love

00:58:30doesn't hurt like that.

00:58:31I don't know

00:58:32that they think

00:58:33love will reform the bad boy.

00:58:34Or maybe it's that

00:58:35they like thinking

00:58:36that they're so powerful

00:58:37and virtuous

00:58:38or their hoo-hoo

00:58:39is such a black hole

00:58:41of sucking in evil

00:58:43and spitting out virtue

00:58:44that the man

00:58:45will change for them

00:58:46or maybe the man

00:58:47promises to change

00:58:48for them

00:58:49and so on,

00:58:49right?

00:58:52But wanting people

00:58:52to change

00:58:53is the hardest thing

00:58:54to change,

00:58:54right?

00:58:59Men who are not violent

00:59:00but are also not pushovers

00:59:01of very high value.

00:59:02Most of these women

00:59:03are probably not high value

00:59:04enough to attract one.

00:59:06Yes.

00:59:06To be assertive

00:59:07but not violent

00:59:08is the peak

00:59:10of masculinity,

00:59:11I think.

00:59:14Women get bored.

00:59:15Nothing a man can do.

00:59:16No.

00:59:19No.

00:59:20That's not true.

00:59:21Women don't get bored.

00:59:24I mean,

00:59:25if you choose a woman

00:59:26just for her hotness,

00:59:28then you are choosing

00:59:29a low-quality person.

00:59:30Again,

00:59:31I'm not saying

00:59:32that all hot women

00:59:33are low-quality

00:59:33but if that's all

00:59:34you're choosing her for

00:59:35and not any qualities

00:59:36of character,

00:59:37then you're going

00:59:40to get bored

00:59:41of each other

00:59:41because you're not there

00:59:42because you actually

00:59:43like each other.

00:59:45I mean,

00:59:46one of the things

00:59:47I love to do

00:59:47in the morning,

00:59:48love to do in the morning

00:59:50is my wife used

00:59:51to get up earlier

00:59:52than me often.

00:59:53Now I'm getting up

00:59:53a little earlier

00:59:54than her.

00:59:55Oh,

00:59:55I'm getting older,

00:59:56less melatonin

00:59:57or something like that,

00:59:58right?

00:59:58Oh,

00:59:58got to pee.

01:00:00So I will

01:00:03put on

01:00:03my slippers.

01:00:05I have slippers

01:00:06because I'm married.

01:00:06I never had slippers

01:00:07before I got married.

01:00:08It's actually quite

01:00:08a lovely thing.

01:00:09Now I can't live

01:00:09without them.

01:00:10And I'll come down

01:00:11in the morning

01:00:11and I'll make a coffee.

01:00:13I wrote about this

01:00:14because I was like,

01:00:15it's three scoops

01:00:16and five cups

01:00:18of water

01:00:19or is it

01:00:20five scoops

01:00:21and three cups

01:00:21of water anyway?

01:00:22So I'll make coffee

01:00:25and pour her a cup

01:00:26and then she comes

01:00:27downstairs,

01:00:27we have her coffee

01:00:29and we just chat.

01:00:30Oh,

01:00:31beautiful.

01:00:33Beautiful.

01:00:35She's great to chat with,

01:00:37very funny,

01:00:38very warm,

01:00:38very thoughtful

01:00:40and very insightful.

01:00:41Of course,

01:00:41she's a psychologist,

01:00:43very well trained

01:00:44and very well,

01:00:45very experienced.

01:00:45So just the insights

01:00:47she has,

01:00:47the thoughts that she have

01:00:49are just amazing.

01:00:50It is like

01:00:51the greatest thing

01:00:51and I'm finally,

01:00:53I'm regretfully like,

01:00:53I gotta go get some work done.

01:00:55So,

01:00:56no,

01:00:57you get a quality woman,

01:00:58you're not bored.

01:00:59This is why

01:01:00I have stayed single

01:01:00for almost 14 years now,

01:01:02says someone.

01:01:02I make terrible choices

01:01:03with women.

01:01:04No.

01:01:05No,

01:01:05that's not true.

01:01:07That's not true.

01:01:08So,

01:01:10the reason why

01:01:11you can't get a quality woman

01:01:12is your mother

01:01:13doesn't want you

01:01:14having a quality woman around

01:01:15because a quality woman

01:01:16will take on your mom

01:01:17and win.

01:01:19So,

01:01:19people who continue

01:01:20to date

01:01:22bad partners

01:01:23are just

01:01:24pleasing their

01:01:25dysfunctional parents.

01:01:30Oh,

01:01:31this is the guy

01:01:31who was married.

01:01:32Steph,

01:01:33I learned my lesson

01:01:34can explain everything

01:01:34that went wrong,

01:01:35understand myself better

01:01:37and have been going

01:01:37through therapy.

01:01:38I'm more ready now

01:01:39than ever

01:01:39for a healthy relationship.

01:01:41Good.

01:01:41That's great to hear.

01:01:42That's great to hear.

01:01:46Just don't know

01:01:47how to meet a woman nowadays.

01:01:48Can't even,

01:01:49can't seem to find

01:01:49any serious ones.

01:01:50Thanks, Steph.

01:01:53You are looking,

01:01:54if you're listening

01:01:55to this show,

01:01:55you're looking for

01:01:56one in a hundred women

01:01:56so you just,

01:01:57it's just a volume business.

01:01:59It's just a volume business.

01:02:00Like,

01:02:01when I was in the business world

01:02:02and I did some cold calling

01:02:03and so on,

01:02:04I would have to talk

01:02:06to a hundred people

01:02:07to make one sale.

01:02:08Now,

01:02:08the sale could be

01:02:09anywhere from

01:02:10a hundred thousand dollars

01:02:11to over a million dollars

01:02:11so it was worth it.

01:02:13But I had to talk

01:02:14to a lot of people.

01:02:17And,

01:02:17it's just volume.

01:02:18If you're looking

01:02:19for something rare,

01:02:22then it's just volume.

01:02:24It's just volume.

01:02:26You know,

01:02:26if you're looking

01:02:27for some,

01:02:29something of value

01:02:30metallic on the beach,

01:02:32you don't just

01:02:32dig around randomly

01:02:33and dig deep.

01:02:34You get a metal detector

01:02:35and,

01:02:35right,

01:02:36so.

01:02:38You just got to talk

01:02:39to a lot of people.

01:02:40That's,

01:02:40that's,

01:02:41I've spent my whole life,

01:02:42like I didn't just sort of

01:02:42bounce into doing this show

01:02:44and just talking to people.

01:02:45I've spent my whole life

01:02:45just talking to people

01:02:46and sometimes talking

01:02:47to people would end up

01:02:48with dates

01:02:49and sometimes talking

01:02:50to people would end up

01:02:50with friends and so on

01:02:51and just talk to people.

01:02:53Just be out there

01:02:54and talk to people.

01:02:55Most people love

01:02:55to exchange five minutes chat

01:02:56or three minutes chat

01:02:57or one minutes chat.

01:02:58Just,

01:02:59you know,

01:03:00I mean,

01:03:01out with my daughter,

01:03:02like,

01:03:02I mean,

01:03:02she's like,

01:03:03oh,

01:03:03I love your nails

01:03:03and you should just

01:03:04start chatting with people

01:03:05and it's great.

01:03:06I love making little jokes

01:03:08with people.

01:03:08I love chatting with people.

01:03:09I love asking them

01:03:10about their lives.

01:03:11Fantastic.

01:03:12So,

01:03:12you just be out there

01:03:13and talk to people

01:03:14and even if it's some woman,

01:03:15she's got a boyfriend,

01:03:16she might have a friend

01:03:17or a sister

01:03:18who is looking for a boyfriend.

01:03:19Just,

01:03:20just chat with people.

01:03:21Make the world

01:03:22a little bit more connected.

01:03:23Make the world

01:03:24a little bit more friendly.

01:03:24Make the world

01:03:25a little bit more positive.

01:03:26Hold the door open for people.

01:03:27Smile at people

01:03:29and so on,

01:03:30right?

01:03:32You know,

01:03:32if somebody,

01:03:33if you're at Starbucks

01:03:34and somebody's offered

01:03:35a really good looking drink

01:03:36and you haven't,

01:03:37just say,

01:03:38all right,

01:03:38try these.

01:03:39Easy.

01:03:39I just,

01:03:40roll the dice.

01:03:41I'm sure it's good

01:03:41but yours is better,

01:03:42right?

01:03:43Just,

01:03:43I don't know,

01:03:43have some fun.

01:03:44Enjoy.

01:03:45Enjoy yourself with people

01:03:46and just make people stay

01:03:48a little bit more connected,

01:03:49you know,

01:03:49because everyone kind of

01:03:50runs around with this,

01:03:51this shield,

01:03:52this,

01:03:52this moat,

01:03:54this like space helmet

01:03:55of isolation.

01:03:56Just doing the thing,

01:03:57doing the thing.

01:03:57Don't talk to anyone.

01:03:58Don't really,

01:03:58just break the ice a little.

01:04:00It's in a,

01:04:00it's a fun thing to do

01:04:01and I,

01:04:02I started out as a shy child

01:04:04so I had to really push myself

01:04:05to do that but,

01:04:08all right.

01:04:10Um,

01:04:15somebody says,

01:04:16I'm in love with a woman

01:04:17that I work with

01:04:17but she is married

01:04:18to a loser,

01:04:19I might add.

01:04:21I mean,

01:04:21I think every man

01:04:22and probably every woman

01:04:23at some point

01:04:24has been attracted

01:04:25to someone who's unavailable.

01:04:26You gotta,

01:04:27just gotta punch yourself

01:04:28in the nads

01:04:28and move on.

01:04:37All right.

01:04:39Men are dangerous,

01:04:40says someone,

01:04:41isn't even a good

01:04:42categorization necessarily.

01:04:44White men are less dangerous

01:04:45than black women

01:04:45according to the FBI.

01:04:46Feminists overly equalize

01:04:48everything.

01:04:49Yeah,

01:04:49I mean,

01:04:50so,

01:04:50you know,

01:04:50violent men,

01:04:51if you're not breaking it out

01:04:51by race,

01:04:52it's just an insult

01:04:54as a whole.

01:04:57All my exes went baby crazy

01:04:59is a bad answer

01:05:00for being single.

01:05:01Oh,

01:05:01it's terrible.

01:05:02Yeah,

01:05:02it's terrible.

01:05:02Yeah,

01:05:03because women in general

01:05:05want children.

01:05:06I mean,

01:05:07there's no greater guarantee

01:05:08of happiness

01:05:09other than virtue

01:05:10than being married

01:05:11and having children.

01:05:12It's the big cheat code

01:05:13for happiness.

01:05:14There's almost no

01:05:16greater way

01:05:17to be happy

01:05:18than

01:05:20to be married

01:05:21and have children.

01:05:22So,

01:05:24if all your exes

01:05:25went baby crazy,

01:05:26what that means

01:05:27is that

01:05:28you dated women

01:05:31who perhaps

01:05:33didn't even know

01:05:34themselves well enough

01:05:35to know

01:05:35that they wanted children

01:05:38and then they just

01:05:38went baby crazy

01:05:39which means

01:05:40that you didn't even

01:05:41have conversations

01:05:41with women

01:05:42about having children

01:05:43before you got

01:05:43involved with them.

01:05:46So,

01:05:47don't say that.

01:05:51I dated over 30 women

01:05:52says Jake

01:05:53in the last few years

01:05:54as one final desperation

01:05:55mostly from church.

01:05:57It was always

01:05:57the same response.

01:05:58I'm not feeling

01:05:58a connection.

01:05:59Maybe you're

01:06:00emotionally unavailable.

01:06:01Maybe you're

01:06:01disconnected.

01:06:02I'm telling you

01:06:02call.freedomain.com

01:06:07Halloween is about

01:06:08community.

01:06:09LOL.

01:06:11This LOL

01:06:12is such a bitchy

01:06:13thing to say.

01:06:13It's so female coded.

01:06:15LOL.

01:06:16LOL.

01:06:16As if.

01:06:18Totally.

01:06:22Hope we're still

01:06:23talking about

01:06:23women's gym wear.

01:06:24I actually talk about

01:06:25this quite a bit.

01:06:27Being almost a daily

01:06:28gym goer.

01:06:29It's sad to see

01:06:29women competing

01:06:30with each other

01:06:31to devalue themselves.

01:06:34Well, of course,

01:06:34in the past

01:06:35you got to know

01:06:36a woman's character

01:06:36because you all

01:06:37grew up in the same

01:06:37community.

01:06:38You probably grew up

01:06:38together.

01:06:39But now,

01:06:40how is a woman

01:06:40supposed to get

01:06:42a man's attention?

01:06:45I mean,

01:06:46she's going to have

01:06:46to advertise

01:06:47herself physically

01:06:47because virtues

01:06:48aren't in big

01:06:50display on the

01:06:51forehead.

01:06:51I'm not saying

01:06:52it's fine or

01:06:53perfect,

01:06:53but it usually

01:06:55is the way

01:06:55that it is.

01:07:00All right.

01:07:01Matchmakers are

01:07:01superior to women

01:07:02picking on their

01:07:03own.

01:07:11If women aren't

01:07:11giving a little

01:07:12mystery,

01:07:12concealing something,

01:07:13then it takes away

01:07:14a lot of the

01:07:14appeal of a man

01:07:15to put in time

01:07:15and effort to get

01:07:16the reward in

01:07:17the relationship.

01:07:18Yeah.

01:07:18You should start

01:07:20going to the gym.

01:07:20I mean,

01:07:21honestly,

01:07:22how do you even

01:07:22know who you are

01:07:23or what you believe

01:07:23if you're physically

01:07:24weak?

01:07:25If you're physically

01:07:25weak,

01:07:26your body programs

01:07:26you to be

01:07:27conformist.

01:07:28I mean,

01:07:29when you give

01:07:30men testosterone,

01:07:32they can speak

01:07:32the truth more

01:07:33in social

01:07:33situations.

01:07:35Right?

01:07:35It's one of the

01:07:36reasons I work

01:07:36out is I'm such

01:07:37a high wire act

01:07:38of confronting

01:07:39falsehoods in

01:07:40society that I

01:07:40need the

01:07:41testosterone.

01:07:41I can't live

01:07:42without it.

01:07:43I have to.

01:07:43I gotta have it,

01:07:44man.

01:07:45I gotta have it.

01:07:47And testosterone

01:07:47doesn't make you

01:07:48violent.

01:07:48It actually just

01:07:49makes you assertive,

01:07:50which actually

01:07:50reduces violence

01:07:51as a whole.

01:07:53So yes,

01:07:54please,

01:07:55please,

01:07:55Lord above,

01:07:56start going to

01:07:56the gym and

01:07:58don't just do

01:07:59cardio.

01:07:59Do some muscle

01:08:00stuff.

01:08:05Yeah,

01:08:05when I met

01:08:06my wife,

01:08:06she's got a

01:08:06great figure,

01:08:07but she was

01:08:08dressed in

01:08:09something she

01:08:10affectionately

01:08:10called the

01:08:10tent because she

01:08:11was tired of

01:08:12being chosen for

01:08:12her looks.

01:08:13And so she

01:08:13was just in

01:08:14this big tent.

01:08:15This giant

01:08:16t-shirt.

01:08:17It's not quite a

01:08:17burka,

01:08:18but it wasn't

01:08:19exactly the

01:08:19opposite of a

01:08:19burka either.

01:08:24She chose the

01:08:25cello over me.

01:08:26No,

01:08:27she never.

01:08:28Never.

01:08:29Never.

01:08:30Never.

01:08:32Never.

01:08:36Guys,

01:08:36get a few

01:08:37kettlebells.

01:08:37You can walk

01:08:38out at home.

01:08:38Spare the

01:08:39BS.

01:08:41But it's

01:08:41kind of

01:08:42important to

01:08:42leave the

01:08:43house,

01:08:43isn't it?

01:08:45Get out of

01:08:46the house.

01:08:48We're not

01:08:48cave fish.

01:08:49We're supposed

01:08:49to be out

01:08:50there in

01:08:50the world.

01:08:54Some

01:08:54gym wear is

01:08:55literally more

01:08:55revealing than

01:08:56bathing suits.

01:08:57Oh,

01:08:57not quite.

01:08:58Not quite.

01:09:06All right.

01:09:07Going to the

01:09:07gym is great.

01:09:08It's a great

01:09:08time to meet

01:09:09people.

01:09:09I've had

01:09:09several

01:09:10philosophical

01:09:10discussions,

01:09:11talk about

01:09:11morality,

01:09:12control systems,

01:09:12etc.

01:09:13Yeah,

01:09:14I'm telling you,

01:09:14man,

01:09:15I used to

01:09:15go to do

01:09:16yoga.

01:09:17I did yoga

01:09:17for an hour

01:09:18and a half

01:09:18and then I

01:09:18did an hour

01:09:19and a half

01:09:19of aromatherapy

01:09:20with a masseuse.

01:09:22Greatest

01:09:22Sundays ever.

01:09:23All right.

01:09:26And,

01:09:26you know,

01:09:27I would

01:09:28chat with

01:09:28girls doing

01:09:29cardio,

01:09:30so I'd be

01:09:30on the,

01:09:30I do,

01:09:31um,

01:09:32seated bike

01:09:32machines.

01:09:33It's the only

01:09:33cardio I can

01:09:34really do

01:09:34other than

01:09:35like playing

01:09:36pickleball or

01:09:36badminton with

01:09:37my wife or

01:09:38friends.

01:09:38So I do

01:09:39seated bike

01:09:42machines because

01:09:43then I can

01:09:44hold something,

01:09:44right?

01:09:45It's kind of

01:09:45tough to sit

01:09:46up and hold

01:09:46so I can

01:09:47read a book

01:09:47or whatever

01:09:48it is,

01:09:48right?

01:09:49And,

01:09:49uh,

01:09:49just read

01:09:53a cool

01:09:55book and

01:09:56see who's

01:09:56interesting,

01:09:57see what

01:09:57other people

01:09:58are reading.

01:09:59Oh,

01:10:00I've seen

01:10:00that,

01:10:00right?

01:10:02Books are

01:10:02at

01:10:02freedomain.com

01:10:03slash books,

01:10:04yes.

01:10:06They find

01:10:07it entertaining

01:10:07to be with

01:10:08drug addicts

01:10:09and alcoholics.

01:10:09Absolutely some

01:10:10women do,

01:10:11and all they're

01:10:11doing is

01:10:12protecting their

01:10:12mother's choices

01:10:13for bad

01:10:14men.

01:10:18Do,

01:10:18do,

01:10:19do,

01:10:19do.

01:10:19And of

01:10:20course,

01:10:20people who

01:10:20don't have

01:10:21purpose love

01:10:21drama.

01:10:23People who

01:10:23don't initiate

01:10:24purpose in

01:10:25their life,

01:10:26generally what

01:10:27they do

01:10:29is they

01:10:30are around

01:10:31chaotic people

01:10:32and are

01:10:32constantly

01:10:33having to

01:10:33put out

01:10:33fires.

01:10:34And that

01:10:35way they

01:10:35can avoid

01:10:36the emptiness

01:10:36and

01:10:37purposelessness

01:10:37of their

01:10:38lives.

01:10:47I'd love

01:10:48to see a

01:10:48discussion

01:10:49between

01:10:49Stephen

01:10:50Stephan and

01:10:51the jolly

01:10:51heretic on

01:10:52several topics

01:10:52including this

01:10:53one.

01:10:53Maybe,

01:10:54for some

01:10:55reason,

01:10:55I think he

01:10:56has a

01:10:56problem with

01:10:57me.

01:10:57I don't

01:10:57know why,

01:10:57maybe I'm

01:10:58wrong about

01:10:58that.

01:11:01When I

01:11:02was 20,

01:11:02I knew I'm

01:11:03still happily

01:11:04married to

01:11:04the same

01:11:05man.

01:11:05I was

01:11:05stupid,

01:11:06but smart

01:11:06at that

01:11:07age.

01:11:08Thanks.

01:11:09Instinct,

01:11:09all true.

01:11:10Sorry,

01:11:10that's probably

01:11:11something in

01:11:11the middle of

01:11:12a conversation

01:11:12with others.

01:11:14The best

01:11:15way to

01:11:15connect with

01:11:15women is

01:11:16to be

01:11:16normal with

01:11:17them,

01:11:17I found.

01:11:18Smiling,

01:11:19being confident

01:11:19enough to

01:11:19engage without

01:11:20expecting

01:11:20anything,

01:11:21that's just

01:11:21referring to

01:11:22initiating a

01:11:22connection.

01:11:23Absolutely.

01:11:29women are

01:11:30people,

01:11:30women are

01:11:31people,

01:11:31they're not

01:11:32that different

01:11:32and we're

01:11:33designed to

01:11:33fit together,

01:11:33not just

01:11:34physically,

01:11:34but emotionally.

01:11:41All right,

01:11:42let me guess,

01:11:42I'm not

01:11:43catching up to

01:11:43these comments,

01:11:44sorry about

01:11:44that,

01:11:44you guys are

01:11:45meh.

01:11:47Anna says,

01:11:48I'm happily

01:11:48married to a

01:11:48man who

01:11:49loves learning

01:11:49about philosophy,

01:11:50history,

01:11:50and ethics.

01:11:50We have two

01:11:51happy and

01:11:51healthy boys,

01:11:51we are doing

01:11:52peaceful parenting

01:11:52together.

01:11:53Fantastic.

01:11:55I'd be up for

01:11:56a call,

01:11:56Steph says,

01:11:56Jake,

01:11:57although I'd

01:11:57want to do

01:11:57it on a

01:11:57subject that

01:11:58isn't dead

01:11:58to me,

01:11:59such as

01:11:59women.

01:12:00All right.

01:12:03I don't

01:12:03know why

01:12:03women would

01:12:04be dead

01:12:04to you,

01:12:04but.

01:12:10All right.

01:12:13What's your

01:12:14favorite naughty

01:12:14food?

01:12:17Well,

01:12:19a friend of

01:12:20my daughter's.

01:12:23This is a

01:12:23family I

01:12:24met 15

01:12:27years ago

01:12:27through the

01:12:28show.

01:12:29And a

01:12:30friend of

01:12:30my daughter's

01:12:31is a

01:12:34fantastic

01:12:34baker.

01:12:36And she

01:12:37makes,

01:12:40oh,

01:12:41here comes

01:12:41a spittle.

01:12:42Drool,

01:12:43drool.

01:12:44She makes

01:12:45a carrot

01:12:46cake that

01:12:48if there was

01:12:49a God,

01:12:50that's what

01:12:51carrots would

01:12:51taste like.

01:12:53So,

01:12:53carrot cake

01:12:54with some

01:12:55walnuts

01:12:56and a

01:12:57little cream

01:12:58cheese icing

01:12:59with a

01:12:59smidge of

01:13:00lemon.

01:13:01That's

01:13:02something else.

01:13:03And she

01:13:04brought some

01:13:04over for my

01:13:05birthday.

01:13:06And it was

01:13:07fantastic.

01:13:08It was worth

01:13:08getting,

01:13:08it was worth

01:13:09being 60

01:13:09just to get

01:13:10a hold of

01:13:11that carrot

01:13:11cake.

01:13:12Glorious.

01:13:14Glorious.

01:13:15I now

01:13:16know

01:13:18how women

01:13:19feel

01:13:20right after

01:13:21they give

01:13:22birth

01:13:23to a

01:13:24baby and

01:13:24they test

01:13:25the baby,

01:13:25they swaddle

01:13:26the baby up

01:13:26in that

01:13:27lovely white

01:13:28cloth and

01:13:29they give

01:13:29you the

01:13:29baby and

01:13:30you hold

01:13:30the baby

01:13:31and you

01:13:31stare into

01:13:31the eyes

01:13:32of the

01:13:32baby and

01:13:32you just

01:13:33feel

01:13:33overwhelmed

01:13:34with

01:13:35deep

01:13:35cosmic

01:13:37rooted

01:13:37spinal

01:13:38love and

01:13:39attachment.

01:13:41Because the

01:13:41baby is

01:13:44in white

01:13:45swaddling,

01:13:45which is

01:13:46very similar

01:13:47to cream

01:13:48cheese

01:13:48icing

01:13:49with

01:13:50carrot

01:13:50cake.

01:13:51So when

01:13:52she hands

01:13:53me this

01:13:53plate of

01:13:53carrot

01:13:54cake,

01:13:54it's in

01:13:55its little

01:13:55swaddling

01:13:56of sugar

01:13:56and I

01:13:57look down

01:13:58with deep

01:13:59almost

01:13:59mystical

01:14:00reverence,

01:14:01love and

01:14:01attachment

01:14:02before eating

01:14:03it.

01:14:03Okay,

01:14:03it differs

01:14:04a little

01:14:05bit at

01:14:05the end,

01:14:05but the

01:14:06rest of

01:14:06it's

01:14:06the same.

01:14:12I have

01:14:13somebody

01:14:13says,

01:14:13would it

01:14:13be

01:14:13ethical

01:14:14to lie

01:14:14to my

01:14:14mom and

01:14:14say that

01:14:15you're

01:14:15my

01:14:15therapist

01:14:15and that

01:14:16you would

01:14:16like to

01:14:16have a

01:14:16conversation

01:14:17with her?

01:14:18No,

01:14:18I don't

01:14:18think that

01:14:19would be

01:14:19ethical.

01:14:20I think

01:14:20you should

01:14:21tell the

01:14:21truth.

01:14:25All right.

01:14:31Oh,

01:14:32this woman

01:14:32says she

01:14:32worked out

01:14:33when she

01:14:33was pregnant

01:14:33and it

01:14:34helped her

01:14:34give birth.

01:14:34Yeah,

01:14:35that's

01:14:35true.

01:14:36That is

01:14:36true.

01:14:37All right.

01:14:41Three-month

01:14:42rule.

01:14:42Some

01:14:43thoughtful

01:14:43women do

01:14:43actually

01:14:44train for

01:14:44it.

01:14:44Yeah,

01:14:44yeah,

01:14:44as far as

01:14:45Kevin goes.

01:14:45Do you

01:14:46prepare for

01:14:46your show?

01:14:47Jesse Lee

01:14:47Peterson

01:14:47prepares his

01:14:48show by

01:14:48doing the

01:14:49silent

01:14:49prayer.

01:14:49Some

01:14:50female

01:14:50pastors

01:14:50prepare by

01:14:51putting on

01:14:51red lipstick

01:14:53with glass.

01:14:54They are

01:14:54literally coming

01:14:55in her face

01:14:56preaching.

01:14:56Yeah,

01:14:57I certainly

01:14:57think about

01:14:58what it is

01:14:58that I want

01:14:59to talk

01:14:59about,

01:14:59but for

01:15:00the most

01:15:01part,

01:15:01either people

01:15:02call in for

01:15:02these shows,

01:15:03right?

01:15:03And sometimes

01:15:04certainly if I'm

01:15:05answering questions

01:15:06for people,

01:15:06like I say,

01:15:07give me your

01:15:07questions,

01:15:08I'll do some

01:15:08more research

01:15:09and all of

01:15:09that,

01:15:10right?

01:15:12I once

01:15:13heard someone

01:15:13ask Ed

01:15:14Dutton to

01:15:14have you

01:15:15on.

01:15:15He said he

01:15:15asked and

01:15:16you said

01:15:16no.

01:15:17Ah,

01:15:17it depends

01:15:18when,

01:15:18because this

01:15:20is not,

01:15:20obviously it's

01:15:21my responsibility

01:15:21because it's

01:15:22my show,

01:15:22but I had a

01:15:23producer for

01:15:24many years who

01:15:25was making

01:15:25decisions on

01:15:26my behalf.

01:15:34All right.

01:15:37how did I

01:15:38get this

01:15:38far down?

01:15:42Of course,

01:15:43you can just

01:15:44do a private

01:15:45call if you

01:15:45want,

01:15:46right?

01:15:46Do you

01:15:47find some

01:15:47diets affect

01:15:48your mental

01:15:48capacity?

01:15:49Yes.

01:15:50Yes,

01:15:50I went out

01:15:51with my

01:15:51daughter

01:15:51yesterday.

01:15:52I never

01:15:52have deep

01:15:53fried food,

01:15:54or very

01:15:54rarely,

01:15:55every now

01:15:55and then,

01:15:55like every

01:15:55couple of

01:15:56months I'll

01:15:56try some

01:15:56fish and

01:15:57chips or

01:15:57whatever,

01:15:58but we

01:15:59had some,

01:15:59it was the

01:16:00only,

01:16:00there was

01:16:00just one

01:16:01food truck

01:16:01and we

01:16:01had some

01:16:02deep

01:16:02fried

01:16:02chicken

01:16:04and some

01:16:04fries

01:16:04and I

01:16:05was like,

01:16:06we both

01:16:06like,

01:16:07oh,

01:16:07what happened

01:16:07to our

01:16:08energy

01:16:08afterwards?

01:16:09So,

01:16:09it definitely

01:16:10can happen,

01:16:10right?

01:16:12Three month

01:16:13rule is how

01:16:13long you

01:16:13should wait

01:16:14before sleeping

01:16:14with someone

01:16:15you're dating.

01:16:15I think

01:16:15that's a good,

01:16:16I think

01:16:16that's a good

01:16:17rule.

01:16:17Yeah,

01:16:17I think

01:16:18that's a good

01:16:18rule.

01:16:19Yes,

01:16:19you can

01:16:19always just

01:16:20book a

01:16:20private call

01:16:20and just

01:16:21say,

01:16:22you know,

01:16:22it's just

01:16:23between us,

01:16:23this is

01:16:23someone I

01:16:24really respect

01:16:25and so on

01:16:26and,

01:16:27you know,

01:16:27if your

01:16:27mother loves

01:16:28you,

01:16:28then she

01:16:29should trust

01:16:29you to

01:16:29say,

01:16:30look,

01:16:30there's

01:16:30someone I

01:16:30want to

01:16:31talk to

01:16:31and he's

01:16:32going to

01:16:32be helpful

01:16:32and so on

01:16:33and it's

01:16:33private so

01:16:34she doesn't

01:16:34have to

01:16:34worry about,

01:16:37you know,

01:16:38things going

01:16:39out that she

01:16:40wants to keep

01:16:40private and so

01:16:41on.

01:16:41So,

01:16:41call.freedomand.com

01:16:42just book a

01:16:42private call.

01:16:45All right.

01:16:46Oh,

01:16:47somebody who

01:16:47left to go

01:16:48and watch

01:16:49another show

01:16:49is back.

01:16:50That's right.

01:16:52Boomerang.

01:16:53Gluten

01:16:53causes brain fog.

01:16:54Yeah,

01:16:54it could happen,

01:16:55right?

01:16:57All right.

01:16:58Last question

01:16:59from me.

01:17:00Steph,

01:17:01should I not

01:17:01settle for a

01:17:02single mom

01:17:03even if I

01:17:03can't find a

01:17:04single non-mom

01:17:05who is a

01:17:05quality woman?

01:17:06I'm 35 and

01:17:06the clock is

01:17:07ticking.

01:17:07Time is almost

01:17:08up for me

01:17:08and I want

01:17:09kids.

01:17:13I don't know,

01:17:13man.

01:17:15I don't know.

01:17:15I've never dated

01:17:16a single mom.

01:17:21I mean,

01:17:21I would assume

01:17:22that a single

01:17:23mom is

01:17:24better

01:17:27than no

01:17:28kids.

01:17:30The red

01:17:31pill has a

01:17:32lot of good

01:17:32and bad

01:17:32takes.

01:17:33This whole

01:17:33sleep with me

01:17:33right away

01:17:34is one of

01:17:34them.

01:17:35Yeah,

01:17:35yeah,

01:17:35this sleep

01:17:36with you

01:17:36right away

01:17:37is just

01:17:37pure demonic

01:17:38hedonism,

01:17:38mostly pushed

01:17:39by the

01:17:39mainstream

01:17:39media for

01:17:40sure.

01:17:41So,

01:17:42all right,

01:17:42I will stop

01:17:43here and

01:17:44I had a

01:17:45really long

01:17:45call-in show

01:17:46today,

01:17:46but a really

01:17:47good one.

01:17:47It was a

01:17:47public call-in

01:17:48show and

01:17:49it was really,

01:17:50really good.

01:17:50I mean,

01:17:51generally,

01:17:52they're all

01:17:52really good,

01:17:52but this one

01:17:53in particular,

01:17:53so let me

01:17:55just remind you

01:17:56a little bit of

01:17:56my mom,

01:17:56myself,

01:17:57what was the

01:17:57name that I

01:17:59gave to the

01:17:59show?

01:17:59So you can

01:18:00look for it

01:18:00when it

01:18:00comes out.

01:18:01Yes,

01:18:02Save My

01:18:02Husband's

01:18:03Drug Twin

01:18:03Daughter.

01:18:04Save My

01:18:05Husband's

01:18:05Drug Twin

01:18:06Daughter.

01:18:07That was a

01:18:08very,

01:18:09very good

01:18:10show.

01:18:11Very good

01:18:11show.

01:18:11So,

01:18:12have

01:18:12yourself a

01:18:12beautiful

01:18:13evening.

01:18:13We will

01:18:13talk to

01:18:14you on

01:18:15Friday

01:18:15night,

01:18:16and don't

01:18:16forget

01:18:16Saturday,

01:18:17sorry,

01:18:17Sunday,

01:18:1810 a.m.,

01:18:19freedomain.com

01:18:20slash donate to

01:18:20help out the

01:18:21show.

01:18:21Hugely

01:18:22appreciated.

01:18:22Still trying to

01:18:23rebuild the old

01:18:23finances from

01:18:24the deplatforming,

01:18:25lo, those many

01:18:25moons ago.

01:18:26If you could

01:18:26help out, I

01:18:27would really

01:18:27appreciate it.

01:18:29freedomain.com

01:18:30slash donate.

01:18:31Maybe I

01:18:31could get the

01:18:32light back from

01:18:33behind me.

01:18:34Maybe,

01:18:34just maybe.

01:18:35All right.

01:18:35Lots of love,

01:18:36everyone.

01:18:37Take care.

01:18:37Have a

01:18:37beautiful night.

01:18:38Thanks for

01:18:38dropping by.

01:18:39Bye.

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