- 2 months ago
Doriynn and her partner CaLLamar are in a polyamorous relationship that attracts criticism from both her friends and online trolls. The couple met after Doriynn's viral social media videos where she approaches strangers on the street pretending to be their girlfriend. The pair hit it off and quickly bonded over their shared openness to non-monogamy. Since sharing their videos online, people accuse CaLLamar of disrespecting or manipulating Doriynn. Doriynn's loyal followers have also accused CaLLamar of using her for her internet fame. He was known for being in a dance group that created the ‘Nae Nae’ dance back in 2013. Her friends believe that he's using this public poly relationship and her big following to revive his fame. In particular, Doriynn's best friend AJ does not approve. In this episode we see him confront CaLLamar and ask about his intentions with Doriynn. Despite the criticism, the couple remain committed to building a future together. They hope to someday get married, continue creating content as a team, and eventually find a committed third female partner to build a stable long-term polyamorous trio. Will they find love in this episode? Watch to see if CaLLamar clicks with Doriynn's friend Cookie...
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00:00We both get with other women, but people think Calvin's manipulating me to do it.
00:03I just want to have more than one.
00:06I love sleeping with other women as much as he does.
00:08So today my friend AJ is coming over and he does not like Calvin at all.
00:12You know what, I'm gonna give him some pretzels too because I don't think this drink is gonna be enough.
00:15Some pretzels?
00:16Yeah.
00:17You doing a lot for this, man.
00:18I've been best friends with her for four years and this new guy just came into town and I'm just
00:23like,
00:23hmm, not really feeling it.
00:26Today we're meeting up with my friend Cookie.
00:27How would you feel about being with a couple?
00:31Like as far as me and Calvin.
00:36My name is Dorian.
00:38How you doing? My name is Calvin.
00:39We really want to find a woman to permanently join our relationship.
00:43I do videos where I walk up on people and act like I know them already.
00:46Basically, I did all of that with him.
00:48I ended up scoring.
00:50We've just been locked in ever since.
00:51Like we balance each other out.
00:53When we first started dating, I was not monogamous.
00:56I like men and women, but unfortunately in this generation and society, people don't like that.
01:01They frown upon it.
01:01I've never done this before.
01:03Like seriously.
01:04It was always a dream.
01:05You know what I'm saying?
01:06Like as a kid, I just want to have more than one because another can do what she might not
01:12be able to do.
01:12It's a team thing.
01:13It's a team thing.
01:14Some guys don't like that.
01:16They don't like for their girl to deal with another woman.
01:18Me personally.
01:19I like it.
01:19As long as it's not another guy.
01:21The judgment that I see a lot of times, especially in comments, you need to respect yourself.
01:26This man doesn't care about you.
01:27He's using you for clout.
01:29People are just saying, I look stupid.
01:31They're like, where's the longevity in it?
01:33It's not going to last.
01:34Anytime you have three people, it's not going to last.
01:36Can y'all go find another man too?
01:39With another person, their relationship is disaster.
01:42It will not end well.
01:43It never does.
01:44Red flag, red flag.
01:45Find another baddie?
01:47Like y'all not good enough for one another?
01:49When God made Adam and Eve, he didn't add no Gloria to them.
01:53Allowing such disrespect means you don't respect yourself.
01:55This is bad.
01:56This is disgusting.
01:57Y'all stay safe.
01:58Objectifying another woman for your man's approval sucks.
02:01Hope that helps.
02:01Why are y'all so upset that I'm not offended by that?
02:04I've learned to just laugh at people and ignore a lot of things.
02:08This most definitely made us stronger as a couple.
02:10I used to be in this famous dance group.
02:12And now they're thinking I'm using my girl Dory to regain my fame.
02:16I was famous previously because I created this dance called the Nae Nae
02:20with this group called We Are Tunes.
02:22My friends think that Calvin is using me to regain his fame.
02:25It's crazy.
02:27Some of my friends, they just really didn't like it.
02:29They just don't understand it because they're monogamous.
02:31So today my friend AJ is coming over and he does not like Calvin at all.
02:36And he's going to tell us exactly why.
02:37You know what?
02:38I'm going to give him some pretzels too because I don't think this drink is going to be enough.
02:40Some pretzels?
02:42Yeah.
02:42You're doing a lot for this man.
02:43I'm hosting.
02:44Like really?
02:45Okay.
02:46He's just very territorial.
02:48There's nothing going on with us though.
02:49I have no problems with him.
02:52You know?
02:52I have no issues.
02:53Like just calm it down with that.
02:55You know?
02:56He's a shark.
02:56I'm a shark.
02:57So I've been best friends with her for four years and this new guy just came into town
03:01and I'm just like, hmm, not really feeling it.
03:05What I would actually like to ask Calvin today is, what is his intentions?
03:10Because you can have great intentions and say you do, but what are they though?
03:15AJ.
03:16Hey, how you doing?
03:17Good.
03:18What's up with you?
03:19How you been?
03:20Good.
03:20I missed you.
03:21I missed you too.
03:23What's up, bro?
03:25I did call you over here because I really wanted to get to the bottom of how you feel
03:30about me and Cal.
03:32Okay.
03:33First, because I don't want to offend you and I want you just to be happy.
03:37Just outside looking in, I feel like you're an opportunist in a way.
03:41You know, because like on some of the videos, it's just like, I don't feel like he's your
03:44team partner or your team player.
03:45It's more so he thinking about himself.
03:47I don't really feel like y'all actually have a great time.
03:50It's only just work and when he come around, it's only about videos.
03:53So I don't really hear personal things.
03:57I hear more so like beneficial things.
03:59I'm not just going to volunteer, like voluntarily say, oh, me and Cal, we be laid up right now.
04:04Like, I don't have to do that.
04:05Laid up is basic, but like, does he take you like on a picnic or something?
04:08We do a lot with each other.
04:10I mean, you know, I do, I do, you know what I mean?
04:12My due diligence.
04:13We don't just show everything on social media.
04:17You know what I'm saying?
04:17What's the long-term goal?
04:19I mean...
04:19Because I know, I know now.
04:20I can't find no one else that's like her that can kind of like match my energy, match
04:24my style, match what I want in life.
04:27I didn't really hear the long-term goals though.
04:29What's your long-term goal when you think of Dory or when you look at Dory?
04:32What's your long-term goal?
04:34Not what I think or anybody.
04:36Right, right, right, right.
04:37I want to become one with her, you know what I mean?
04:40Yeah.
04:41As far as like marriage, if that's available.
04:43I don't know necessarily how that's available with another person, but if we can work that
04:46out, that'd be great.
04:47But yeah, how does that look like with another partner?
04:49Because I know y'all want to go poly, so how does that make sense?
04:52How does this stand with Dory though?
04:54We haven't really experienced nothing like this, so there's nothing that I can say off
04:59the bat that I just know this is going to work.
05:01Like how do y'all pick the one out?
05:03She's the only one who just picked them out and it's cool?
05:05It's really, it's mostly me.
05:06Like sometimes...
05:06Oh, okay.
05:07That's cool.
05:07Yeah, it's really me.
05:08I kind of call a lot of the shots.
05:10The girls are very slick, you know.
05:11You ever feel like he would like venture off and do something with a woman by himself
05:17or no?
05:18At this position where we're at, I don't feel like he'll do that behind my back because
05:21I'm so open with him.
05:22Like he's open with me, so...
05:24But we can do it together.
05:25Exactly.
05:25Like if he did, it would be kind of like a shocker to me.
05:28Like what's so different that you couldn't tell me?
05:30How do y'all deal with jealousy?
05:31Calum, I'm not really the jealous type.
05:33He's just territorial and it's more with men.
05:35The comments were saying something about insecurity and all that stuff, but it's not that.
05:39It's just respecting, but with girls, I don't feel intimidated or jealous as long as he's
05:43not doing anything just blatantly disrespectful.
05:45Like if a girl walk up to him and just make out with him, like I don't know you.
05:48Like who is this girl?
05:49Are you happy?
05:50Yes, I'm extremely happy.
05:52Are you happy?
05:53I'm more than happy.
05:55I mean, like I say, if we can add on, you know, that would be great.
05:59If not, I'm perfectly fine with being on the door.
06:02Because there's nothing that like we're lacking with each other.
06:06I just want to say I apologize.
06:08Nah, for sure.
06:09We cool.
06:10And I actually don't feel like you're actually a bad guy.
06:13I feel like y'all genuine.
06:15It's real.
06:15I feel like the relationship is mutual.
06:17I just want to say, you know, you on my good side.
06:19So anytime you want to call, you want to hang out.
06:21It's love, bro.
06:22Yes.
06:22You know what I'm saying?
06:23You can walk your ass to the door, man.
06:25About time.
06:25So.
06:26I appreciate you for coming.
06:27Thank you, best friend.
06:28I appreciate you.
06:29Thank you for coming.
06:31All right, Dora.
06:31I appreciate you.
06:32I'm glad you invited me.
06:34All right, bro.
06:35I appreciate you.
06:36All right, y'all.
06:39See you later.
06:39Let me show you the girls I've been looking at lately.
06:41What you think?
06:42No?
06:42Yes?
06:43She look, yeah.
06:44She look a little crazy, though.
06:45See, this is why I be meeting you.
06:47Because you.
06:48But this is why I can't find anybody.
06:49But she do look good, though.
06:50She do look good, though.
06:50We maintain boundaries, have communication.
06:53Mm-hmm.
06:53Instead of just talking.
06:54We don't hide anything.
06:55Yeah, yeah.
06:56I don't think.
06:56Who you been looking at?
06:57Because I know you been looking at some people.
06:59Oh, wow.
07:00She bad, though.
07:01She look like she might hit me upside the head.
07:03So, I don't know.
07:04There are rules for me.
07:06Not like.
07:08Nothing crazy, but just don't lie to me.
07:10Don't meet up with another woman without me.
07:12I want to be involved fully.
07:13I actually would be interested in adding a woman permanently.
07:16Today, we're meeting up with my friend Cookie.
07:18And I feel like Calvin's really going to vibe with her.
07:20Because I like her.
07:21Maybe I can get her on board with the poly thing.
07:23Hey, girl.
07:25Sorry.
07:25How are you?
07:26Good.
07:27How are you doing, mama?
07:28This is Calvin.
07:29Nice to meet you.
07:29You look good.
07:31Love it here.
07:32Do me.
07:32How would you feel about being with a couple?
07:36Like, as far as me and Calvin.
07:39Yeah.
07:40You with Safali?
07:41Honestly, I wouldn't mind.
07:42Because, you know, I love you.
07:44I wouldn't mind giving it a, you know, try.
07:46Oh, my gosh.
07:46For real.
07:47Yes.
07:47Y'all don't make me blush.
07:48Because I was over here like, I don't know if I should take it.
07:50I'm nervous, too.
07:51Have you ever done it before?
07:53Yes.
07:53Yes, I have.
07:54Okay.
07:54It's been, like, maybe two years for me, but it was these things.
07:58This is our first time, so I'm kind of new to it a little bit.
08:01Okay.
08:01You know what I'm saying?
08:01So I'm very open to see how this thing goes.
08:04As far as, like, poly, you know, this is my first.
08:07I'm definitely up to it.
08:08Y'all like y'all having some fun.
08:10This just made me so happy because I was, like, I really did not know how she was going to
08:13react.
08:13Because I was, like, I hope that he's into her like I'm into her.
08:17I love your vibe.
08:18Like I said, we can get to know each other a little bit more.
08:20I'm a little nervous, so excited at the same time.
08:23We're going to go with the flow.
08:24We're going to just, you know, take baby steps.
08:26Okay, that's fine.
08:27Are you quick to get, like, jealous or, like, do you feel a certain type of way?
08:32Because she's here, obviously, first.
08:34We're trying to bring someone apart.
08:36No.
08:36I just don't.
08:37Okay.
08:37Eventually, Tom will tell, you know, everything about me.
08:40Why do you guys feel like I'm the one that, you know, perhaps might fit into this dynamic?
08:45Can you answer first?
08:46Me?
08:47I feel like you could teach me a lot of things.
08:49Both of us, really, if you've already been in this situation, you know what I'm saying?
08:52I feel like we can grow in that aspect.
08:54You're gorgeous.
08:55Without the makeup, without anything.
08:57And I really do like authenticity whenever I date a woman.
08:59So pretty.
09:05What I love the most about Dory is her chest.
09:15I'm just lying.
09:16We laugh all day, every day, you know what I'm saying?
09:18And she helps me open up, you know, so I can talk to her about anything.
09:21He gives me a sense of peace.
09:24I can be myself.
09:25I don't have any judgments with him.
09:27I'm tired of being judged.
09:28I'm tired of having insecure people.
09:30I feel like he's really like a best friend, but like a lover and best friend in one.
09:34And I can tell you everything.
09:36The future for the both of us, it holds, I would say, marriage.
09:41Someone that can be a part of this relationship.
09:44To people that judge our relationship, go get you some happiness.
09:48Not everybody lives their life the same way that y'all do.
09:57You pourra me a part of this relationship.
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