00:00i tried to call my husband he didn't answer i text him he said to me just sign the divorce
00:07papers
00:08i was shocked and i told him that i will never send this towards march 2025 brother chris called
00:20me again he cancelled me again prayed with me and told me that everything is going to be fine my
00:28sister and i didn't see that coming i cried to god like never before as brother chris advised me
00:43now i can see that my husband is back and my husband put my ring on the finger that day
00:50on
00:50the first of november and we are very happy we are a christian home now
01:03my name is kumo from botswana the man sitting beside me is my lovely husband chris
01:12we are here to share our testimony for the glory of god and to shame the devil
01:19we are married for almost 20 years with four children
01:26our marriage started smoothly we were happy until we reached the 10th anniversary when my husband was
01:38transferred to another village far far away from us and the communication was not good we didn't
01:46communicate well and for him to visit us it takes a long time about one to two months to visit
01:57us
01:58so there will be quarrels between that we tried to solve our problems by our own but we will be
02:12trying our best but without god we didn't manage to go through we'll be quarreling next day we'll be okay
02:22the next day we'll be quarreling and that thing gives me too much anger i'll be angry towards my husband
02:34and uh it came worse in 2023 after i've given the birth to my fourth child
02:45i realized that i realized that my husband is having an affair and i confronted him about it
02:54he denied it and then i quarreled to him i shouted at him telling him that
03:02is better to divorce and she and he will be just keeping quiet about that
03:10every time he visits i will be shouting at him saying that it's better to divorce me
03:17i'll be angry there will be no communication there will be no affection between us
03:25we'll be living like brother and sister in the bedroom and the house will be living like a stranger
03:33we will not be taking we will not be taking we will be not trading to each other in the
03:39house
03:42and in 2023
03:47my husband started to distance himself
03:51he will be not communicating
03:55he will be not responding to our calls
04:00he will be no one the messages
04:02and i'll be asking him when are we when are you going to
04:07visit us
04:09he'll be saying i'll be coming and it takes time when he comes i quarrel
04:15i shouted at him
04:18and then
04:20he decided to stay there
04:24where he waits
04:26not communicating nothing
04:29and in september 2024
04:33i received a call from his lawyers
04:37asking for the directions to our house
04:40i directed them
04:43when they reached here
04:45they summoned me with divorce papers
04:48i was shocked
04:50after they left
04:51i tried to call my husband
04:54he didn't answer i text him
04:57he said to me
04:58he said to me just sign the divorce papers
05:01i was shocked
05:04and i told him that i will never send this
05:07but saying that angry
05:14so my husband didn't call me
05:18didn't communicate with our children
05:23this affected my kids at school
05:25they didn't do their best
05:29they didn't do their best as we know
05:31they were very affected
05:33and i will i will be crying
05:36throughout the night
05:37asking god why did you gave me
05:41a marriage
05:42and ended with a divorce
05:46why god
05:48i will not find an answer
05:51and my little one will be see men passing
05:54he will be
05:56calling them daddy
05:58that will be paying for me
06:00and then i decided to go back to god
06:05i pray i pray
06:09to god to locate my marriage
06:11to intervene to locate my husband
06:14wherever he is
06:16and then i reached out to god's house tv
06:20i told them about my situation in my marriage
06:24and then they responded to me that brother chris will call me
06:30and then he did
06:31he called me
06:32he cancelled me
06:34he prayed with me
06:36and told me that
06:39this is the time
06:42to be closer to god than before
06:47and i tried it was not easy
06:50i tried
06:51i'll be praying
06:52i'll be praying for my husband
06:54i will ask god to give me the heart
06:57to forgive my husband
06:59even if it's painful
07:01i ask god to give me that heart
07:05towards
07:06march 20 25
07:08brother chris called me again
07:11he cancelled me again
07:13prayed with me
07:15and told me that everything is going to be fine my sister
07:20and i didn't see that
07:24coming
07:27i didn't trust that my husband will come there
07:31but i have to believe that god will intervene into my marriage
07:35god's will will will avail
07:40i continue holding on to god
07:43i continue praying for my marriage
07:47i was committed to god now
07:49i cried to god like never before
07:53as brother chris advised me
07:57one day
07:58after the interactive service in may
08:04my husband started to text me message
08:09he would be saying hi how are you my darling wife
08:12i was surprised
08:15what is this is this my husband
08:19and then i i responded to him hi how are you
08:24and then he would be saying i was just
08:27greeting you
08:28okay it ends like that
08:32the days will pass
08:34he will send the text again
08:41in june
08:43he texted me another message saying
08:46my wife i want to come home
08:50and i want you to forgive me and to reconcile
08:56i told him that
08:59i hear you but you have to come home
09:02so that we talk face to face
09:06and he did that
09:11before that
09:13i consulted the god's house tv again
09:15telling them that my husband has reached out
09:20saying
09:21he's willing to come home
09:25for asking for forgiveness and for repentance
09:30and for
09:34reconciliation
09:36and brother chris says okay
09:40let him come and listen to him
09:42then we will take it from there
09:45same weekend
09:46my husband came
09:49and the same night he came
09:51i received the message from cosas tv saying
09:54brother chris will contact me
09:57through a call tomorrow
09:59my husband arrived on friday
10:04i told them that yes i'll be available
10:09the day came
10:10brother chris called asking me did my husband
10:13came and i told him that yes he is with me in the call
10:18brother chris was happy to hear that
10:23he talked to us
10:25he cancelled us
10:27and then he prayed to us
10:31and then we thank god
10:33for that moment my kids were very happy for their father to be home
10:39and me also i was happy
10:41but it was not easy
10:44but by god's grace
10:47as i i have asked god to give me the heart to forgive my husband
10:53he gave me that heart
10:55i realized that i have forgiven my husband
11:01truly i removed that anger and the pain from my heart
11:07after the last service
11:11on the first of november
11:15i realized that i have peace now
11:19now i can see that my husband is back
11:22and my husband put my ring on the finger that day
11:25on the first of november
11:28he put the ring back on my finger
11:31and we were very happy
11:33we are a christian home now
11:36we are so happy
11:38and with them god
11:40you realize that god
11:41is the creator of the marriage
11:45no matter how it started
11:48but god is the creator of the marriage
11:51glory be to god
11:52glory be to god
11:54we thank god for that mighty testimony
11:57of what god can do
11:59because we believe that that god
12:02turn around your hearts
12:04your husband hearts and your own hearts
12:07to bring about this reconciliation
12:11now how is your relationship
12:13how you relate to each other
12:16as a husband and why
12:18how is the communication now
12:20now our marriage is new
12:22like we are in our youth age
12:26but we are reaching the 20th year
12:29in the first december
12:32and the affection is back
12:34we can't stay apart
12:37but he's calling me
12:40every day
12:41when he's at work
12:42when he sees a break
12:43you'll be calling me
12:45and if i'm not answering
12:46you'll be worried
12:47but why are you not answering your call
12:53we are so happy
12:55we are so happy
12:57our marriage is new
12:58my name is chris
13:02i'm connecting from Botswana
13:04the person sitting next to me is my lovely wife
13:08in our marriage we had some
13:11challenges
13:14so i ended up being tempted
13:18then i had an affair with a certain lady
13:22where i am currently working
13:25and then my communication was you know
13:29poor
13:30i was not taking some of the calls or in the messages
13:34for almost a year
13:36while i was away from my matrimonial home
13:43so i continued with that lady
13:46and then
13:47during our separation
13:50i started having some
13:53bad dreams
13:54nightmares
13:56then
13:57i was asking myself many questions
14:01because i was not living right
14:03i knew in my heart that
14:06what i was doing was not right
14:09then
14:10i believed it was a warning
14:13from God himself
14:17so
14:18i took a deliberate decision
14:21to
14:22to ask for forgiveness from God Almighty
14:26and then later
14:28i
14:29asked my wife to
14:31to forgive me
14:32so that i can come back to my matrimonial home
14:36and to
14:38meet
14:38my children also
14:40she said i should come
14:43so that we talk face to face
14:44and then i did
14:46and then there was a time that
14:50when i arrived here
14:51we managed to connect with brother Chris
14:55then he prayed with us
14:57he counseled us
14:58and then
15:00my wife
15:02forgive me
15:04and then we continued
15:06as husband and wife
15:08so the relationship right now
15:11is wonderful
15:12the affection is there
15:13the communication is good
15:16now we are friends
15:17even to our children
15:19they are happy
15:20i am happy
15:21i have peace of mind
15:24she has peace of her mind
15:26peace of heart
15:27we are all happy
15:28as a family now
15:30i terminated the relationship
15:33with that certain lady
15:36and then i reconciled with my wife
15:39like she has said
15:41so now we are happy
15:43and i feel it was not the right thing to do
15:47to be in a sinful life
15:49that i was living before
15:52and nowadays
15:53i read my bible
15:55i listen to
15:56god's heart
15:58sermons
15:59and i keep myself away from
16:02sinful acts
16:04normally i visit my family almost
16:06on weekly basis
16:09even though i'm staying far away from them
16:10so that i stay away from
16:12anything that might
16:15with my marriage
16:17what is your word of advice
16:19to those marriages
16:23those people that are passing through
16:25similar situations you pass through
16:28share your advice with us
16:31from my side as a wife
16:33i will encourage the other wives
16:36to pay for their marriage
16:38to pay for their husband
16:40every day
16:41to meditate on the word of god
16:44and they should not give up
16:46when the marriage boat is sinking
16:50they should pray and ask god for wisdom
16:54and for strength
16:56they will see god through their situations
17:00i will advise the people to forgive
17:04because forgiving is a healing
17:08it's a healing by itself
17:10if you forgive
17:12kindly
17:13you will feel peace
17:15you will feel
17:17life
17:18it's good to forgive because it's from god
17:21if you forgive
17:22we also know that god will forgive us
17:27well my way of advice
17:30especially to
17:31to men
17:32i would say
17:33they should try to
17:35to live a righteous lives
17:37and if they're passing any
17:40challenges or problems in their marriages
17:43they should seek the face of god
17:45and god will answer their
17:47challenges
17:49regarding repentance
17:51it is biblical that we should repent
17:55so that what i might see
17:57himself will also
18:00will give us all our sins
18:07i was called to 13 years old
18:10when i started gathering bottles
18:12and started to get on streets
18:14on shop
18:15in malls
18:15and then i started to smoke
18:17joints
18:17for four three five joints a day
18:20the other activities were just
18:22stealing
18:22housebreaking
18:24robbing people
18:25snatching their phones
18:26and breaks
18:27in banks
18:27too
18:32you
18:36and
18:37You
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