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Ruth Bateup from East Peckham needs her house adapted to accommodate her disability, and the daily struggle has affected her mental health.

Please be warned this report has references to suicide.

If you've been affected by the topics raised in this report, you can contact the Samaritans at 116 123.

Henry Luck reports...
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00:00Despite the welcome signs placed by family, Ruth Baitup says her house feels nothing like home.
00:0713 years ago, she was involved in a head-on car crash and was diagnosed with incomplete
00:14cord equina syndrome. She went to the Royal National Orthopaedic Hospital in Statemore,
00:21London for an operation this April, but despite the surgery going to plan, it left her unable
00:28to walk due to her body's reaction. As well as being a struggle to get around her house whilst
00:35living on her own, the event has had a massive mental impact. People don't understand you coming
00:44in to hear anybody. I'm like an aunt in a giant's castle. That's how it makes me feel and I
00:50can see
00:50the pain on my daughter's face and I've brought her up to, she's a giver, she's selfless. She was going
00:58to give her whole life up to come back to look after me. And my advice to her was take
01:04the world
01:04by both hands and run and be happy. And this is the hardest thing in my whole life that I've
01:13ever done.
01:13So far, Ruth can only reach this high in her fridge, which is where the milk cartons are,
01:20because she can't reach the rest because of her wheelchair. And until the adaptations are in place,
01:28she says she's gotten used to the feeling of being hungry. Data from the Spinal Injuries Association
01:35reveals that a person with a spinal cord injury is three times more likely to consider suicide
01:43than a person without a spinal cord injury. A spokesperson for the Royal National Orthopaedic
01:50Hospital NHS Trust said the organisation is committed to supporting the physical and mental health of its
01:58patients and has a range of professionals to help them. A friend of Ruth has set up a GoFundMe page
02:06to cover the cost of adaptations to the house, such as a stair lift, wet room, and a readjusted kitchen,
02:15showing Ruth that she's not in this fight alone. Henry Luck for KMTV in East Peckham.
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