00:00Well I think that it's it's quite brutal right now don't you think because I feel
00:03like so much of the marriage market or the dating market they've also not just
00:08been here forever but like it's also very much migrated to our phones to
00:14social media to internet and now you're not just competing in the marriage
00:19market or dating market with people in your town or people to garden party now
00:25it's really been come about you're competing on a global market where
00:29everybody is showing their best selves the wealthiest the most powerful selves
00:35and you're comparing yourself to all of them and I would be surprised and I
00:39would find it quite heroic if you walked away from that especially as a young
00:43person trying to date without developing a deep self-hatred or deep self
00:48disappointment I think that in all of that it's very hard to imagine finding
00:53love and learning some learn to love someone when you do not like yourself
00:58very much so I think I'm very concerned about the way that the though with a
01:04way that I'm dating has kind of so migrated so far into our phones
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