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The Go Off Sis Podcast makes its live debut in Atlanta, GA. Special guest Lala Milan holds nothing back as she joins our hilarious hosts on stage at The Glow Up. She preaches self acceptance at any stage while noting that she was never ugly, just broke.
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00:00all right all right all right we're doing this damn thing all right this is our first ever live
00:05episode all right we've been doing this for five seasons talking through zooms rooms and who know
00:12what so now we're here together we're gonna turn it out for y'all all right you're gonna turn it
00:17out for us all right we are at the glow up live for y'all who don't know our podcast
00:23is called
00:24go off sis my beautiful beautiful co-host here tonight we're gonna bring the energy we're gonna
00:29do what we do we want it to feel interactive when we say go off sis we means it all
00:36right so we want
00:37to hear y'all we want to see y'all ask questions advice you know do what we do we're
00:43gonna keep it
00:43fun we're gonna keep it real and we're just gonna go off together all right booze we feel good about
00:49that boom all right let's take a seat ladies boom okay girl i've been trying to sit down i said
00:56let
00:56let me let chelsea get her let me sit down baby i mean we had to sit but now y
01:02'all are gonna have
01:03to bring the energy back up because we are introducing our very special guest okay to bring even more
01:09magic to this show she is charleston south carolina born but charlotte north carolina raised an la california
01:17resident multi-hyphenate talent lala milan come on out here girl
01:32yeah
01:37exactly hey y'all boom
01:41that is exactly energy yeah i've come to our podcast before digitally and now we're here
01:52here in real life so let's get on into it okay so if y'all aren't familiar we
01:57are starting this season off we do a little fun quick fire round of unpopular
02:01opinions that maybe shouldn't be so unpopular so we're gonna ask y'all to
02:06join us in this round and we're gonna give you some popular opinions we're
02:09gonna tell you our thoughts on it and y'all are gonna tell us what you think
02:13of those too but again as the recording booth says you can't add us so we said
02:19what we said okay boom boom all right let's go Lala we're gonna kick it off
02:24with you because you're the guest all right all right come on give us your
02:28unpopular opinion my unpopular opinion is the fact that hoochie daddy shorts look
02:33good as hell whenever a nigga is in shape okay so we're giving these a thumbs up
02:41or a thumbs down and I'm haters gonna hate
02:43boo I'm sorry give me the great sweat pants
02:49it's male lingerie I want to see a swang you know you can see a swang in them shorts too
02:55if he likes that lay up to your neck let it fly I need to see the side me busting
03:01out the
03:01yeah okay I just want to see all that I don't know I'm hating right okay just me then I'll
03:12take
03:12male lingerie any day watch out for that line okay next what who we got who we
03:16got Maya what's up y'all I'm Maya Carmichael from the beautiful beautiful South Duval
03:22County stand up we out here ayo um I want black girls to have a soft life and that's on
03:29theory
03:31yeah I am okay come on Chelsea no no you want us to be oppressed so bad I promise I
03:37promise I'm just
03:38saying what if I want to go hoard I'm just asking that's still a soft life is that soft yeah
03:44soft is
03:45what you define it as is this a generational thing because I don't know if I identify she
03:48want to be a strong whatever whatever put me at peace is soft if you a ho and that put
03:53you at peace
03:53that soft but the pictures I'm seeing are all ah that's what they like to do my name that's
03:58good to mind they business this is our business you know what you want to do okay you know what
04:03come on hey there we go there we go yeah very rare very rare okay next up who we got
04:11huh I think
04:12I'm next uh I'm Kathleen I'm bringing it from the six as usual I'm Canadian if you guys have seen
04:19me
04:19today I've said that like a million times but that's okay anyway any Torontonians no okay um
04:27my unpopular opinion is that even though Michael B Jordan is my future second ex-husband
04:33she has a husband like right now yeah that's why I said second ex-husband um I am team Lori
04:40Harvey in this breakup the way people were talking about Lori when she has just dated a regular amount
04:47of dudes and if she breaks up with them that's okay that's allowed the vitriol that Lori got I
04:54gotta be team Lori even though MBJ is my man I mean I feel like it's all fake like do
05:01we think that
05:01they were really together so I'm not against anyone but like who cares it was fake it was not it
05:08was fake
05:08they look beautiful but it's fake beautiful gowns I say the more she continue to date the more she's
05:15going to stay relevant I'm looking forward to the next relationship okay okay okay okay okay next
05:25okay um me my hot take is I want y'all to start posting your partners on Instagram one because
05:32I'm nosy one but two because I want to see who's loving black women I want to see black people
05:37loving
05:37each other not everybody said no wait a minute you in my business why yes I'm being nosy but I
05:46want to
05:47know about you being in love you pay our bills I'm trying to pray for y'all y'all don't
05:53want to share
05:53nothing but negativity show me your man y'all sometimes a lot of us don't want to show our
05:59mans because the moment that we post them everybody like oh I know him he was just at your house
06:05last
06:05night I want to be in love and I want my heart to be safe and I just want to
06:10be dumb until I decide to
06:12get past you know what it is though I feel like men always mess up when you post them right
06:16oh that's
06:16why we not posted you said all right I never mind I'm not gonna show him either whatever oh no
06:23I
06:23mean it's full Easter egg energy like until we get married then what not even when I had a kid
06:29yeah when I get married yeah before that we're playing like what is this okay boom all right my
06:36last one I'm real unpopular here so good luck with this one um okay my unpopular opinion is that
06:44I didn't even say it I can read I'm out here reading shit let me say it and then defend
06:51it come on
06:53okay but I said objectively ugly as in it's still we're still wearing it I'm wearing it right now but
07:00objectively the xenon fashion which we love is not the mood she's right she should say it she should
07:12the fashions of the 2000s of Y2K they're back for a reason and also the things that you're wearing
07:20now that you're like that's so ugly crop tops are so cute in 20 years come at me when someone
07:27says
07:27that's ugly fashion comes back around being ugly a little bit is the point so we're supposed to be
07:33ugly for fashion yeah yeah some of it but you and Mike are fashion business no I don't even know
07:39what
07:39that is let the kids get a hold of this two piece in 20 years give me 90s give me
07:4480s even like bad
07:45like wearing a skirt over your jeans that was never that's Y2K fashion that's one top one part yes it
07:53is so ugly we survived so much we're better than that let's move on let it go it looks bad
08:00I don't
08:00like it Chelsea's right thank you okay all right so now y'all got a sense of what we do
08:06here who we
08:07are our opinions both popular and un and now we want to get into some real conversation all right
08:13like this is what we do on the podcast we talk we joke we vibe and in the spirit of
08:18this event we
08:19want to talk about glow-ups we want to talk about what that means for us what we're doing and
08:23so just
08:24to refresh y'all this is the actual definition of a glow-up oh that's a lot of words you
08:30can
08:30read it okay but boom that's good good for that slide but the point is is that we also want
08:40to
08:40show you some of our gloves because we're here again it's a safe space all right so in honor of
08:45unbothered turning five we're going to show you a couple pictures of us five years ago you see the
08:50material now still killing it objectively yeah you know and then we're going to tell you a little bit
08:56about what we think about glow-ups so we want y'all to think about what you guys think too
09:01we got that
09:02mic over there so we're going to be hitting it over to you and making sure we can have a
09:06full
09:06conversation so hit that powerpoint okay yeah here i am okay okay here's here's my it's another
09:15unpopular opinion i think but i don't even know if i believe in the concept of a glow-up and
09:21here's why
09:22i think that we are now living in a social media society and society in general where you are constantly
09:28expected to get better and also physically as we age we're supposed to look better i'm supposed to look
09:33better five years from now than i do now i was supposed to look better than i did five years
09:38ago
09:38and you know what look at that waist five years ago i'll look better than i did back then and
09:43that's
09:43okay though no i'm not trying to be self-deprecating i'm saying that it is okay if you glow up
09:49in a
09:49different way or if you're not like this completely better different person more fit whatever in five
09:56years that's all right too okay why i always got to be glowing up i'm tired i don't want to
10:01glow up
10:02anymore should we change the name of the event not the not your man not the glow down
10:08exactly like we're already here the merch was already perfect exactly you had weeks to say
10:15something right like should we go home whatever i know it's just a no glow yeah okay there we go
10:21no glow new merch out tomorrow all right who got next come on maya
10:33just a small step just a small step unlike kathleen i don't know what she's talking about
10:40okay i don't know what that what that is about but but for me is internal and then it shows
10:46on
10:46the outside for me so i had to get my mind right and it showed on the outside so i
10:51don't let anybody
10:52put me on a timetable i'm gonna grow and glow when i decide to do so so that it sticks
10:56for me
10:57so i don't care about five years i don't care about 10 years all i can do is say okay
11:02i'm here
11:03now where was i five years ago that's better than i was five years ago so i did something a
11:08small step
11:09means more than just you know reaching those ultimate goals you a bad chick you're gonna reach
11:14it maybe not right now but you're gonna reach it come on pastor car michael we said the same thing
11:24baby boom okay
11:26i know i think that's fair and again true spirit of maya like taurus energy like that's it
11:31shut it down that's all she did okay and then let's come on yeah
11:36yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah but one thing about my good sister it was always giving fame
11:42always it was always giving fame that part you know what i captioned this picture i said what kind
11:47of sun you use that was the caption it was really giving something to me okay hi y'all
11:52i'm nate komonibo culture critic and uh yeah yeah yeah and i'm from houston texas any houston in the
11:59house not three people okay that's fine that's okay it doesn't matter okay but for me the glow up
12:05is also like my very internal but i think it's about claiming space and taking that space five
12:10years ago i was in that chaotic space in my life where i was like i'm just gonna wake up
12:14and do
12:15whatever right life is gonna take me wherever i'm gonna blow like the wind i guess i have this job
12:19i
12:19guess i'm dating this person i guess i live here i guess i gotta cut my hair i cut my
12:23hair because
12:24somebody messed up my hair at the barbershop right but after that i shaved my head and i kept
12:28shaving it obviously i have hair now but that's because of intention i set the intention if i'm
12:33going to be bald i'm going to be bald for as long as i want to be bald then i'm
12:36going to grow my hair
12:37out if i want to work this job i'm going to get the job job and do whatever if i
12:41want to date this
12:41man i'm gonna date this man and i'm gonna be the best version of myself possible so it's all about
12:47like speaking those things and not being afraid to claim them and hold them and even i think a step
12:52further telling people about those things that you want because sometimes you're like if i talk about
12:57this it's going to get messed up if i tell anyone about this i have to take responsibility if it
13:01doesn't work out um and so now i'm like yeah i'm dating this man god please don't let him play
13:06me
13:06don't let whatever please please i'm praying but i'm like yeah me and my boyfriend yeah me and my job
13:11right but i'm very excited about it and so i want to live in that pride and that happiness
13:16so i'm just taking that space i'm having a good time yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah and they used to
13:25say
13:25that she would never mention a man oh yes i'm in a relationship yeah yes and that's why y'all
13:32not
13:32gonna see my man i want to see y'all's man wow really let me just put that out i'm
13:37not showing
13:38you i'll put him on my close friends but the street's not gonna see him yeah you argued a
13:44whole ass point out here but okay yeah that's fair because again i literally run this shit and i do
13:50no social media took me 10 years to find a photo of myself from five years ago this one is
13:55my head
13:56shot y'all but my blow-up energy is mostly like i know who i am i know who i
14:02was i know who i am and
14:03who's i am like my grandma always said so i don't need a glow up i am the glow like
14:09that's the whole
14:13story like i and i think some days i feel like a hundred some days i feel like a thousand
14:18but i'm
14:18still at a hundred yeah like and the thousand days just mean catch up so that's my energy even though
14:25it sounds wild and absurd because i never show it but that's what i'm living so i don't need to
14:31tell
14:31y'all you you see it you see it that's what it looked like yeah yeah okay lala come on
14:38tell us
14:39about about you
14:47listen listen you know she's known for the bob for the bob for the bob for the bob
14:5410s 10s 10s 10 listen come on come on honey no no no no let me tell you something you
15:05know she's known for the bob
15:06how say your name bob and they're calling you bob
15:12so let me tell you first of all i was never ugly i was just broke okay
15:20i need to repeat it repeat it repeat it one more time one more time one more time for the
15:24people
15:24all right so a glow up for me is inward and outward i specifically chose this picture because
15:32that was my job like i was on the job and literally saying everything intentionally
15:39about what i wanted to do everything i wanted to be this is everything that i claimed for myself at
15:45that
15:46time okay that person right there i was not comfortable with myself i had a low self-esteem i was
15:55always seeking validation you know today i am so opposite of that but i love looking at pictures
16:03like this because i dreamt of these days and these days and now i'm living a dream that i saw
16:10for myself
16:11yeah yeah don't make a whole crap on this stage that's why we're here we bring you know listen
16:19we might have to though because when was that point that you were like but this is it this is
16:24me i
16:25can do this i don't have to be someone else i don't have to try to do other things when
16:30you just shed
16:31that persona of what you thought you had to be and just you know what the funny thing is i
16:37still feel
16:37like this girl even when i'm not made up you know what i mean it's not makeup is more i
16:44mean glow up is
16:45more than makeup and all that every morning i look ragged let's be clear you know what i'm saying
16:50it's not about the outer appearance like literally that moment for me was when i left my job when i
16:57started living my dreams when i started being like you know what none of this matters i'm about to take
17:02every opportunity that comes my way without fear you know jumping out there and doing something that
17:08you're afraid to do because nobody else believes this possible is a glow up for me and then and then
17:17being successful at what other people didn't see for you is even more yeah i think glow up for me
17:23so
17:24it was the moment where i left my job it was rocky along the way but i said i'm still
17:29doing this
17:30you know and time still happen today but at the end of the day i'm still here and i'm flourishing
17:37i'm
17:37thriving i'm that girl come on come on i'm i'm still here here here yeah come on yeah come on
17:51yes
17:52i think what you're saying is so important when we talk about like no like i was it i am
17:57it i will
17:57be it right at any moment and i think for a lot of us it comes with saying no to
18:02something right like
18:03you said like you left your job right you had to release some things and i think when we were
18:08talking about this we had to talk about how you got to release some things to be your best you
18:12you
18:13do so i want to talk a little bit about that my you were talking a little bit about releasing
18:16some
18:16things whether it's relationships work whoever friendships sometimes you got to release that to be
18:23your best self that you already know you are exactly so for me um i don't intentionally release
18:28anybody i just glow up and they fall off so it is what it is so um i'm never intentionally
18:36being
18:36like i can't do you unless you're just that very toxic person that i just cannot stand um i'm just
18:41glowing up and as i do that people just are like oh you changed i'm in my 20s i'm supposed
18:46to babe yeah
18:47i'm not stagnant i'm sorry that you are i mean hope the next bus comes around for you but it's
18:52not this bus
18:53okay so that was very prominent with my relationship with my dad i know a lot of children have issues
18:57with their father but he's the type of man who he would do something and he would try to really
19:01brush it under the rug and like wait a month then be like hey baby girl i'm like you're not
19:06safe
19:07this is not this is not for you not even your daddy not everybody everybody so i had to make
19:14i had to
19:14put an ultimatum to him i said daddy i love you i will always love you but at the end
19:18of the day
19:18i feel like if you don't start checking yourself we're done i don't i will never speak to you again
19:23because i had to protect myself because people coming in and out of your life is not it's not
19:28good for you especially when they're not healthy for you so he's straightened up you got his act right
19:32you know how to he got act right now so you know i love him i will always love him
19:37and we i fucks with
19:38him now i mean my every time you talk i'm like you are in theory younger than me you know
19:4625 25
19:47do not fact check that in theory maya is younger than me but you're so mature and you've got this
19:53incredible wisdom and it takes both of those qualities to be able to see your parents as adults
20:01as human beings yeah instead of as your parents right yeah somebody who you can take care of them
20:07and not them taking care of you so at what point did you realize like i'm fed up and i'm
20:13the adult now
20:13yeah yeah i was sick and tired i was sick and tired of being sick and tired of being sick
20:17and
20:18tired i had to have a conversation with myself and say is this the roller coaster that you want for
20:21yourself one and two do you want unhealthy relationships with men that are not your father
20:25no i don't want either one of those things so i had to make a decision for myself i chose
20:29me
20:29and he chose me too thankfully for him you know what i'm saying so i just honestly feel like that's
20:35that's the motive in any relationship you're gonna have to really choose yourself and i feel like you
20:41know is there a point for you lala in any relationship with mother father man with your
20:47man or whatever that you just were sick and tired and you had to get up and go all the
20:52time um honestly
20:55family members everything like that dating it's one of those things where we always tend to put other
21:02people first especially if you're a good person you know but what i've realized that when you don't put
21:08yourself first you can't truly help other people so oftentimes me cutting them off is actually helping
21:15them you know because i'm eventually you know when you get your stuff together because i cut you off
21:20i'm going to come back and see if you ready to get back on a train to you know success
21:26because that's
21:27where i'm going you know and so with that i always cut people off including friends or ex-boyfriends
21:35boyfriend like to protect my peace and keep me going to where i'm going because you ain't going
21:39to knock me off my block while you know that's okay so are we letting people get back on the
21:45train
21:45no are we unblocking because honey ex-boyfriends no i don't i don't agree with that no especially
21:54because you know we're serial breakuppers how many times we done get back with a dude multiple times if
22:00you done broke up with him more than twice it's done okay so no they can't get back on the
22:05train
22:06for parents i have a soft spot absolutely thank you for bringing me into this world but i will give
22:11you a six month suspension okay that's not probation listen yeah yeah i love it i love it no i
22:20think that's
22:20very fair though i mean with parents i think it's it's one of those things again like you said where
22:24it's
22:24either back and forth and you feel like you're the child or the parent hopefully you feel like the child
22:29but a lot of times you feel like the parent in relationships a lot of times you feel like the
22:33parent too yeah and you feel like you have to do a lot of like mothering and they got a
22:41lot of maturing
22:42to do when you're just trying to live your life so i want to talk a little bit about romantic
22:46blow-ups
22:47and why everyone has an opinion on what we do as black women with our bodies because it's no one
22:53else's
22:53choice but awkward yeah i want to make that very clear so let's talk a little bit about what we're
22:59doing with our body yaddy yaddy in life and where are we going with them come on my give us
23:05some tea
23:05hey it's me again no but for me um i feel like you think you know you this is what
23:12i want this is
23:13what i want and then you kind of get into it it's like this ain't what i want at all
23:17so this is not
23:20it he's not the one so like yeah i know i just you send a text i'm just playing you
23:27better than me
23:29you ghosting people chelsea huh you ghosting them huh oh that's right what yeah yeah no i keep it real
23:38from the jump like i'm to be honest i'm for the street so she's my roster i'm not kidding you
23:45i
23:45have like a full roster and so as long as we keep it 100 with me i'll keep 100 with
23:50you yeah that's it
23:51yeah but people try to dim the light on the whole face i just really consider it finding myself i'm
23:57dating a lot of people to see what i like if he ain't it i'm gonna throw him back to
24:00the streets and
24:00i'm gonna read another one in i mean that just is kind of what that is and i honestly feel
24:05like
24:05please don't shit on the whole face because none of us need that i think everybody should experience
24:09a whole phase yeah because to me if you don't like next thing you know you might find yourself
24:15getting bored and then you're wondering you know like well what if i would have dated other people
24:21you know so i think the more that you date you ain't got to have sex with everybody thank you
24:26you
24:26know what i'm saying but if you do decide to get it in you know what i'm saying but at
24:30the end of the
24:31day i feel like a whole phase is necessary before you all the way locked in boom yeah like as
24:36the
24:37great salsa santana said it's just meet and greeting you know that's what we're doing just meeting and
24:41greeting yes prophet santana yes he does speak the truth yeah i actually had a whole phase a couple
24:49years ago i survived it but it taught me i'm not for the streets let me tell you some of
24:54us were meant
24:55to love one person i'm so i can't entertain multiple men at once what's your favorite color
25:00how many siblings you got again i don't know i don't know i don't know right but it taught me
25:06a lot
25:06of things it taught me to take accountability for my actions i think that a lot of times we date
25:10as people everyone has a victim mentality right oh i broke up with this man because he's trash
25:15he did this and this and that he probably is trash 95 percent of the time they're trash right
25:19whatever but five percent of the time what did you do what was your role in the situation
25:23for me i felt like i'm one of those people like if you know me i don't have to tell
25:27you you know
25:27what it is you know what type of person i am i don't have to tell you when i'm in
25:30a bad mood you
25:31should be able to read me you know my vibe and a lot of these men can't read right so
25:36they'll just
25:36be looking at you like what's going on like are you okay yeah some of them some of them but
25:44they can't
25:44really read your emotions and so i learned that in the past i would just be like oh this person
25:48doesn't
25:48get me i'm done with it right but i wouldn't tell them how i felt and so through being on
25:52the
25:53streets i had to communicate a lot hey if you want to go on a date let's go on a
25:56date hey i don't do
25:58this but i do do that blah blah blah blah blah blah and so on so forth right and i
26:01think that as women
26:02as people who are dating regardless of who you're dating you need to be clear about your expectations
26:07and if it doesn't work out it doesn't work out but it's on you if you don't tell them what
26:12time
26:12it is i think communication is super important yeah you know a lot of times we lack communication we're
26:17desensitized to communication because we so used to dming people you know instead of having real
26:23conversations men will literally see you in person and then slide in your dm you look good today
26:30and it's like well dang you know even when it comes to having conversation i be on the phone and
26:36it's like
26:37uh so what was your day would you eat like honey what else you got to talk about let's talk
26:45about
26:45something productive you know so yeah it's look what you and then when i don't like it i'll tell
26:51a dude look honey i'm tired of carrying this conversation on my back i'm getting weak so i'm
26:56gonna have to go ahead and let this go you know i mean i think that's wow my cards agreed
27:01with you too
27:01i think that's fair and i think that's clear not everyone has that emotional maturity and is ready
27:07to step outside and maybe not get the answer they want because people don't have that kind of energy
27:14like the same energy that's up here all right same energy that's out here okay okay so all right
27:18we have reached my favorite part of this podcast called the don't at me all right now if y'all
27:24are
27:24not clear this is the part of the conversation where we really tie a bow on it we really want
27:31to make
27:31sure y'all understand the energy of the moment and in case the title wasn't clear you can't add us
27:37okay nothing nunca non nine no heart emoji do it all right and we're going to turn this over to
27:47y'all
27:47i want to hear one or two of y'all's don't at me's okay before we get out of here
27:52now does any brave
27:54soul i see you orange you was not in okay okay it's the queen of advice so we're gonna get
28:08her
28:08don't at me and she's gonna just give us a little energy you got questions that don't at me things
28:13that don't make sense we gonna make it make sense for you boo come on um i know i'm bald
28:17so don't
28:19look at this and we love it okay so don't at me but um can we stop asking what lace
28:39because i don't
28:39need gps it's right there oh okay it's it's literally the dots okay thank you okay wow wow
28:50she's saying that she could see the screen doors but you can follow the handle no i'm kidding she's
28:55right and she should say it hello right there what you said so basically don't ask what lace if you
29:01could see the screen door yeah yeah all right good thing i ain't got a lace on today
29:10not injecting our hair i was like what like okay yeah we know that's your real hair hi ladies oh
29:20this mic is hot i like that yeah okay um so i i see on the board behind you when
29:26did you feel like you
29:27shed your baggage to glow up yeah well sometimes the baggage will shed you for the better now can i
29:35testify real quick can i testify real quick can i get a collection plate so right so i'm from south
29:41florida i'm from miami florida 305 all the way live and um i'm one of those crazy individuals i love
29:48to
29:49do improv comedy that is one of my things that bring me joy and i was a part of a
29:54team that was really one
29:55of the like one percent all black improv teams and i played with uh um i was on a team
30:06with another
30:07woman who basically wasn't feeling my shine come to find out later and on some non non-improv related
30:16stuff got mad at some things that i did for me for my birthday and basically booted me out of
30:22the group
30:22oh okay so fast forward i had to take time to heal i took the quarantine to heal and everything
30:30like
30:30that fast forward i'm here now she's still down there i'm over here i'm getting back into my improv bag
30:39and my community has grown tenfold just by shining the way god meant for me too
30:49and baby there does not have to be one spotlight on the stage yes i exude that main character energy
30:59but honey the thing about improv is that you are always supporting your team it's never really about
31:05you it's about the team and when your team's not looking out for you honey let that shed be okay
31:13let that be okay let let let them wear your snake skin you don't need it anymore
31:21let them wear it so yeah sometimes the baggage will shed you and you will be blessed for it
31:26boom and don't at me yeah thank you thank you thank you amazing y'all all right all right you
31:36got you
31:36got a quick one quick one quick one it'll be short hi guys i'm yeah hey friend okay um since
31:44we're in
31:44atlanta atlanta hairstylist we're calling you to the front not hello 35 for a parting fee miss me
31:56really that's a whole another and i mean that um if i have to come wash and blow dry
32:05yep i feel like come on come on i know you want to say something as a community we should
32:09stick
32:10together and i feel like i respect your art but you're gonna respect my time yeah so if you're late
32:17you owe me 20 dollars yeah yeah and i mean that wholeheartedly yeah black women should be lifting
32:27each other up and i understand that the brightness on your videos is non-existent
32:34but i appreciate your artistry and you should appreciate us
32:41what are you there's some girls that i respect them and they can do that because they do good
32:47hair but if fair it's like gps if you can see the dots what are we paying you for and
32:54if it lifts
32:54two days later then why did i get an install i got a suggestion for everybody to solve that okay
33:00in the event that you're going to a cosmetologist because most of them aren't licensed just call the
33:06board of cosmetology hello hello okay thanks for your time that's right they will go ahead and come
33:14shut them down because it's technically illegal okay period and on that note give her two tries
33:22exactly two tries the next time you charge me i'm gonna charge your whole business to the game
33:30and at this point all there's left to say is don't act yeah oh all right that's a whole other
33:39podcast
33:39though that's a whole other podcast thank you so much for joining us y'all your don't admis were
33:44amazing if you didn't get them off here go to the recording booth make sure you get them off got
33:49a
33:49whole podcast studio set up for y'all to just do the damn thing every hour on the hour all
33:56day today
33:57and sunday thank you guys for joining us thank you to lala bringing the energy the advice the maturity
34:05too i don't want it to end to my lovely co-host i love y'all thank y'all siri
34:11keep going off the standards
34:12everybody hey thank you thank you
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