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For some couples, doing “couply” things comes naturally, whether that's sharing a whole dictionary of inside jokes, always splitting entrees, or acknowledging anniversaries with an elaborate tradition. But, those lovebirds have nothing on the twosomes in South Korea who’ve created a micro industry around celebrating relationships.

There are couple cafes, couple movie theaters, couple holidays, couple phone apps, and — of course — couple clothes. In a community where most young adults live at home until they’re ready to get married, and public displays of affection are deeply discouraged, Korean couples have embraced this kind of matchy-matchy dressing as a non-verbal way to communicate that, yes, they’re on the same team.

For the second episode of Style Out There, Asha Leo lands in Seoul, South Korea to get an idea of what compels young pairs to carefully coordinate their outfits, and try out the trend for herself.

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00:03Some might cringe at the thought of showing up and accidentally wearing the same thing as your date.
00:08But in Korea, matching your clothes is the point.
00:11We just love each other.
00:14I feel like it's 100 or 200.
00:16I feel like it's just a little closer.
00:22Seoul, Korea.
00:24In a country where traditional courtship rules and public displays of affection are considered taboo,
00:30young and fashionable Koreans are showing off their relationships through carefully coordinated clothing.
00:37The matchy-matchy couple look was first made popular in the 90s by Korean TV stars and honeymooners.
00:43But it's back and stronger than ever.
00:45I'm meeting my friend Tim to help show me around the city and this evolving trend.
00:50Where are we going to head to see these matchy-matchy couples?
00:52We'll go to Hongdae and to the Han River Park. I'm sure we'll find a lot there.
00:59Being a couple is a big deal here.
01:03On top of Valentine's Day, there are 12 other couple-related holidays,
01:08including Rose Day, Photo Day and Wine Day.
01:13There's a bunch of universities around here.
01:15A lot of college couples, they like to match up.
01:18It spawned a small but growing industry.
01:21A couple swimsuits, a couple t-shirts and even a couple underwear.
01:27We're headed to the hip neighborhood of Hongdae to check out a vintage store run by a couple who like
01:33to match.
01:42Ji Eun and Ongjung own the store and have been together for five years.
01:45It's more like our own flavor expression.
01:50Not just clothes, but the vibe that we have.
01:53Special.
01:54I think I want to have it to be different from other people.
01:57I think I want to have it to be different from the head and the head.
02:00So what do your single friends make of this?
02:04We're like, you know, you're good to see them.
02:06And when we go to the beach, we're like, you know what?
02:09We're like, you know what?
02:10We're like, you know what?
02:10We're like, you know what?
02:15While couples fashion is fun to look at, it can be a challenge to execute.
02:19In Korea, it's rare for couples to live together and many live with their parents until marriage.
02:26Soo Min has her own apartment in Boondong, which is nearly 30 minutes away from her boyfriend Nick.
02:31I can't wait to see you get ready for your matchy matchy day with Nick.
02:35Sometimes it could be .
02:37I think there's a way of not making it corny.
02:39She's going to show me how exactly this works on a day-to-day basis.
02:44All right, what mood are we in today, Suman?
02:46I like this little summer dress theme.
02:49So you have to let him feel like he has some say in the outfit.
02:54Honey, you're on speakerphone.
02:55Hi Nick, it's Asha.
02:57Hi.
02:58So I'm thinking about wearing a blue checkered one-piece dress or a white see-through blouse.
03:07Um, blue checkered?
03:09Blue checkered?
03:10Do you have a blue checkered shirt that matches then?
03:13Yes, I think I do.
03:15Are you going to wear a hat, honey?
03:17I don't think so, no.
03:18Can I wear a heel?
03:20If you wear heels, I'm going to wear my dark marts.
03:23Okay, bye.
03:24Bye.
03:25I'm going to leave you to get changed now that you know your outfit,
03:28and I look forward to seeing you and Nick later.
03:30Okay.
03:32Tim tells me it's not just couples who coordinate their look.
03:35Friends and families match as well.
03:37So we decide to give the look a try.
03:41I don't know.
03:42I don't think I can do the flowers.
03:43Are we tie-dye people?
03:46Have you ever done matchy-matchy couples fashion?
03:50I have not.
03:55As we leave the store as a matchy pair, I have to admit.
03:59Are you ready to face the world?
04:01I feel a bit ridiculous.
04:03But it quickly disappears as we start to spot other matching couples.
04:07Oh my god, another matching couple?
04:08We're matching too.
04:10I feel like I've joined a club.
04:12Do you call each other in the morning?
04:13Not calling, but texting.
04:15It's amazing.
04:18Let's find more.
04:20New York.
04:23They both got bad boy hats on.
04:28Your hair is slightly similar.
04:31We have shoes here.
04:33You were okay with this?
04:38After seeing so many couple looks,
04:40I'm beginning to get used to the idea.
04:42But the uniqueness of this trend doesn't escape me, nor Nick.
04:46I've never done it until I met her.
04:48So I'm in the States,
04:49so it was kind of a big shock for me too
04:51when I first came here two years ago.
04:52In the early days,
04:53we probably didn't really have a lot of things that matched.
04:55So we shopped together and then built on top of that.
04:59I don't think it'll ever get old.
05:01I've never really thought about why that happened,
05:04but it's like a culture for us.
05:05There's a reason why sports teams have the same uniform
05:08to show that they belong together.
05:12I don't know if my parents are going to watch this.
05:12Okay, I have to ask,
05:13are you wearing matching underwear?
05:14Right now?
05:15I'm not sure.
05:17I don't know if my parents are going to watch this.
05:23Do you find,
05:24particularly being from America,
05:26that people are less willing to show
05:28public displays of affection in Korea?
05:31I think Korea is still a little bit more conservative.
05:33Unless you're drunk.
05:36There's always a loophole.
05:38There's always a loophole, yeah.
05:39Do you think there's any link then
05:41between people substituting kissing and affection
05:44and displaying it for their clothing?
05:47Definitely, yeah.
05:48Never thought of it like that,
05:49but that's a great point.
05:53When we dress the same,
05:54it does make us feel a little bit closer.
05:56Have little children who matches our outfit.
05:59It'll be super cute.
06:02Oh, I love that.
06:05As silly as it felt at first,
06:07I eventually got Matchy Matchy Fashion.
06:10The experience bonded us.
06:13Matchy Matchy is a statement to the world
06:15about your relationship to one another,
06:17but it's also something to share just between the two.
06:20You've been such an amazing guide.
06:22Thank you for joining me around South Korea.
06:24It was my pleasure.
06:26It's a visual connection
06:27that reminds you to appreciate the one you love.
06:31And who can blame them
06:32for wanting to show off a little team spirit?
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