00:00I don't know when you're watching this, maybe it's two in the morning, maybe you just got
00:04your heart broken, maybe you failed something at school or work, maybe you're sitting in
00:10your car because you don't feel like going in yet or sitting in your room because you
00:14don't feel like waking up or going out, maybe today just feels a little bit heavier than
00:20usual and you don't even know why, but whatever brought you to this video, I'm glad you're
00:25watching it and I'm glad that you're still here because I truly think that life has a
00:31weird way of putting the right things in front of us at the moment that we need them, sometimes
00:37we don't realize what that is, maybe not until after, but sometimes we need to hear something
00:43that we've been avoiding that's actually going to help make us better and maybe this is the
00:49video for you, I don't know what you're carrying, we all struggle with different problems and
00:54maybe you're grieving something, maybe you're just lonely, maybe you're exhausted from
00:59pretending that you're okay, maybe you're a person who stays strong all the time and always
01:06helps other people, but you forget what it's like to be honest and open up and so I want
01:11you to know whatever it is, you don't have to carry it all by yourself, you don't have to
01:16carry it all in one piece like you've been doing, for a lot of us we feel like we should
01:21have our life figured out by now and we compare ourselves to different people our age and people
01:27online who seem so much happier, more successful and more confident maybe, but you're comparing
01:34your entire life to somebody's best five seconds and I can tell you as someone who does social
01:39media for a living, what you see online is not what there actually is and the way that
01:44people act online isn't how they actually are, there's a lot of people who are successful
01:48or rich or famous and they're not truly as happy because happiness a lot of times comes
01:52from within and even if you'll never see them talk about it, everybody is carrying something,
01:58some people are just good at hiding it, so if you've been feeling behind, then just know
02:04that it's okay and it's normal and your life isn't over, you know, you're going to have a
02:11lot of chances in life and you're going to have a lot of beautiful things that come in
02:14your future, you're not the only person who thought that everything was ruined and you're
02:21not the only person trying to figure out who they are, there's been so many people that
02:25have been lost in life or unsure of what to do and they come back around and make something
02:30great out of their life and sometimes your mind convinces you that you're the exception,
02:36that everyone else has everything figured out in their life but you don't and I'm telling
02:41you that they don't, most people are just guessing their way through their life too or struggling
02:45through their problems or sweating out of their mind acting like it's not that odd or
02:49miserable out, one of the biggest lies is that we keep believing that everyone else is living
02:56with, you know, certainty about what they have in their life or what they expect but a lot
03:02of people are making decisions without knowing how they'll turn out, a lot of them, almost all
03:06of the most famous and successful people ever have taken a risk with a lot of them thinking
03:10they might not make it but they did because they just kept going anyways and at the end
03:16of the day that's all you're supposed to do is trust in your vision and yourself and what
03:19you think is best for you and keep going for it, you just have to have the hard conversation,
03:25you just have to have the next walk, you just have to apply yourself and really just give
03:30yourself as many chances as you can because you're not going to wake up one day and just
03:36feel all of this perfect vision for your future but you build it, you build your future one
03:43step at a time, one day at a time because if you keep bettering yourself with every decision
03:50or at least put yourself in a situation where you can better yourself then you'll see these
03:55little moments that might not seem important while they're happening, they end up shifting
04:00your life into the person that you're supposed to be and one day you'll realize that your
04:06entire life changed so maybe right now you're watching this is one of those moments, maybe
04:12you'll never see me again, maybe you won't remember my face and maybe you'll forget this
04:16video completely but whatever you do in life, all it takes is just one thing to change it
04:21so maybe one sentence I say sticks with you, maybe one idea changes the way you look at
04:27yourself because maybe months from now when life gets hard you'll remember that somebody
04:33once told you you weren't behind because you're not and how can you be late or how can you
04:40be behind if you're the only one on the path that's meant for you because you're on the right
04:45path and a lot of times things will try to throw you off the path so you have to keep
04:49being
04:49persistent on your path and keep going and keep pushing yourself through and I'm sorry
04:54if it's hard but it will get easier someday and some days will be easier and some will
04:58be harder so you don't have to be perfect with everything you do, you just have to keep
05:02going because you just have to be the real version of you of you who it's okay if you have
05:09fears and doubts and bad days but it's important that you keep moving anyways through those
05:18so if you're still watching this video I'm proud of you because a lot of people can't
05:21start this and finish it but it shows that you're serious about what you're trying to do
05:25so just let it remind you that your story is not over yet and it's not even started much
05:30yet you don't know what's in the next page of your story and neither do I so let's not close
05:39the book before you get there because you're gonna have so many beautiful moments in the future so
05:45many amazing things where you're happy that you stayed and right now maybe you have a narrow vision
05:49thinking that this is all there is but I promise it's not as someone who has been up against the
05:54ropes tried to take my own life thinking it would never get better to turn around and realize just by
05:59seeing tomorrow that life showed me a lot of beauty I can confidently tell you that all it takes is
06:06for you to keep fighting to tomorrow keep fighting to the day where you finally wake up and say hey
06:11maybe life is okay
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