00:00i'm not gonna lie i usually like scrub through charlie's part so i don't know i'm not kidding
00:04what do you make of the cast you know some of the cast still being charmed by charlie
00:08i know that that's really shocking to me honestly a mirror telling you to go in business with him
00:13insane i'm like not just like him i'm like my ex who was incredibly traumatizing in my like
00:19literally i don't know if it's like like thoroughly expressed like in the show like
00:25whatever but that really was like genuinely traumatizing and you know girls night is all
00:31condensed into a 40 minute episode but i really went into a whole feel on like why this whole
00:37situation was so disturbing to me and like her thing was like okay um so why are you going to
00:43business with them i'm like do you hear anything i said i met my ex through a stripper he who
00:48stripped
00:48for him at the strip club wait what yeah please tell us more i'm friends with a girl who i'm
00:53not
00:53going to say names of course but who was like worked at a strip club who where he went all
00:59the
00:59time this man was always there all right and so this man came out of nowhere let's just say this
01:05man wouldn't like really came out of nowhere so there's no overlap between him and my real life
01:10obviously it's like i'm rolling my eyes at myself now i'm like that's not a really great
01:15introduction i am lol and you're like the man who's always at a strip club that's my guy some
01:19would call that a red flag oh my god but what are the green flags like what are we missing
01:27no like
01:27when we so when we first met he was all green flags besides the how did we meet he was
01:35like
01:35supported me was so like words of affirmation like like a great boyfriend like the things you
01:42would look for in a partner so it wasn't like out of the blue horizon and then i think by
01:48the time i
01:48realized like there this is really really like sketchy and not adding up like his whole backstory
01:54and like all this other stuff sort of like a little like into deep vibes i should have walked away
01:59a lot
01:59earlier before it led to being like abandoned in singapore and made like literally unhoused in the
02:07middle of january but i mean that's part of the learning lessons of being in your 20s and kissing
02:12some frogs but yeah i think it was also like a moment of like me looking at like my attachment
02:17style
02:18and relationships and like why why was i more afraid to walk away than stay in that relationship
02:23you know what i mean and other and other things that went on so yeah i think at the end
02:28of the day it
02:28was like a very powerful learning lesson but it was a very like scary and like dark learning lesson
02:34right
02:34right
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