00:02am i the a-hole for asking my aunt why she didn't give me a graduation check
00:07i recently graduated and my family threw me a party a bunch of my relatives came including
00:13my aunt most of the family members either brought a card cash or check as a graduation gift after
00:21the party i noticed that my aunt didn't get me anything a few days later i um asked her if
00:28she
00:30forgot to bring a card or a graduation check because i wasn't sure if it got misplaced at the
00:37party she got offended and told me that i was rude and entitled to ask for gifts i wasn't trying
00:44to
00:44demand money from her i just honestly thought she might have forgotten because she had uh she had
00:51given graduation gifts to other family members in the past now some family members are saying i
00:57shouldn't have brought it up at all because gifts aren't required wait what because she
01:04some of the family members are saying i shouldn't have brought it up at all because gifts aren't
01:07required that's not true well others think it wasn't that big of a deal to ask so am i the
01:14a-hole for
01:14asking my aunt why she didn't get me a graduation check yeah i mean i wanted to jump in because
01:19i
01:20have these thoughts coming to my head but like first of all there's something going on with the
01:23aunt because for the aunt to use the words like you're entitled that's weird that's your niece
01:29you went to her graduation party you know you gave other people graduation gifts so there might be
01:34some static between your aunt and yourself that maybe you don't know about there also might be
01:39something going on with the aunt's life financially which you might know about and because other family
01:44members are saying you shouldn't have asked auntie ray why she didn't pay you know bring me money
01:49a big number two and i'll make this like number one you bring a gift to a graduation party i
01:55don't
01:56care who you are every person who attends a graduation party must bring a gift
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