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Age of Attraction - Season 1 - Episode 02: Healthy? Probably Not. Fun? Yes.
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00:00:22You're going to die.
00:00:27Do you know how old I am?
00:00:28Oh, my God.
00:00:30It's terrible.
00:00:30Okay.
00:00:31I'm 54.
00:00:35And that's it.
00:00:37There you go.
00:00:40Got your seatbelt on?
00:00:42Yeah.
00:00:43Oh, shit.
00:00:45Oh, God.
00:00:50I am...
00:00:5427.
00:00:55Oh, my God.
00:00:57Oh, my God.
00:00:58Oh, wow.
00:01:00Seriously?
00:01:01Can I see your driver's license?
00:01:05Wow.
00:01:06Okay.
00:01:07Did not expect that.
00:01:10I figured that was going to happen.
00:01:14Oh, my God.
00:01:16That's insane.
00:01:17I literally thought you were, like, 10 years older.
00:01:20Um, okay.
00:01:22My youngest is 22.
00:01:25And my daughter is 25.
00:01:29And three years before that, I gave birth to my oldest.
00:01:34So he's 29.
00:01:35My son is older than you.
00:01:38Does that scare you?
00:01:48You know, honestly, the only, the biggest thing that scares me is the outside perception of everybody in the universe.
00:01:56I can't control it.
00:02:03No, you can't control it.
00:02:04Absolutely.
00:02:05Yeah, it scares me.
00:02:07But it's also just pretty amazing that, like, I connected with you.
00:02:12And I had no idea how old you were.
00:02:14I didn't want something I can't control to mess this up.
00:02:19Because I feel like we hit it off from day one.
00:02:22And it would have hurt a lot.
00:02:30I'm, I am really excited to continue our relationship and get to know each other better.
00:02:38Whatever's next.
00:02:48I know the fire can burn.
00:02:53Nothing gamble, nothing gain.
00:02:55It's worth the price I have to pay.
00:02:58Just see if this is real.
00:03:01Yeah, love is a risk.
00:03:04One thing I want to take.
00:03:06If you believe.
00:03:08You love should be so fair.
00:03:11If I had known his age going into it, like, I would have never probably started dating him.
00:03:17Like, I had a child before he was even born.
00:03:23They're her kids.
00:03:25They're not my kids, you know.
00:03:27Eventually, they're our kids.
00:03:29I don't know.
00:03:31Love is a risk.
00:03:33One thing I want to take.
00:03:36You know, his age is reflective of how much experience in life he has.
00:03:39So, now that we're moving on into the real world and we're going to live with each other, it will
00:03:44be interesting to see how well we can adapt to that life.
00:03:48I'm sexually attracted to her, I'm physically attracted to her, I'm emotionally attracted to her, so I'm looking forward to
00:03:55as much time with her as possible to just grow this connection and see where it can go.
00:04:00I'm excited.
00:04:01Love is a risk.
00:04:02One thing I want to take.
00:04:06You gotta jump.
00:04:07No looking at me.
00:04:08There's no escape.
00:04:10Love is a risk.
00:04:12One that I want to take.
00:04:15And you.
00:04:20Guys, I'm sure you know who I've been talking to, Justin and Jorge.
00:04:24Yes.
00:04:25But they are literally total opposites and they're both really good guys and I just don't know.
00:04:32Are you still torn?
00:04:32I don't know.
00:04:33Like, they're literally just too different.
00:04:35She's like, it's so hard that two men are riding over me.
00:04:38Oh my gosh, guys.
00:04:40Life is so hard.
00:04:41It's so difficult.
00:04:42No.
00:04:43No.
00:04:43Like, no, it's, it's like the thing with me is with like my connection with Justin, we've talked about like
00:04:49our lives and stuff and like outside of this and I can like clearly like see like our life like
00:04:55together.
00:04:55Yeah.
00:04:56But with Jorge, I get like excited and like giddy.
00:04:59I noticed that.
00:05:00Yeah.
00:05:00You get a little more giddy.
00:05:02Like yesterday, Jorge had his shirt off and I did not know he had tattoos.
00:05:06I literally was up there and I could not stop staring.
00:05:09Yeah.
00:05:09Like, and like the sun, his body was like glistening.
00:05:13I was like, that man is fine.
00:05:15I know.
00:05:16You little slut.
00:05:16Yeah, I love it.
00:05:18What is it?
00:05:18Oh my gosh.
00:05:18Me just drinking the tea.
00:05:20Just like, bleep.
00:05:23My intention coming in here was I want to find love.
00:05:27I've been in love once before and I got heartbroken.
00:05:32That's the only time I've been in love.
00:05:35That's hard, you know?
00:05:36You have to really put your heart out there and be vulnerable.
00:05:42But, yeah, I'm ready for that.
00:05:55We're supposed to buckle these?
00:05:57Nah, right?
00:06:08God, this is gorgeous.
00:06:10I came here to find a connection and to meet a lot of people, but to ultimately find that
00:06:16person that I do want to settle down with.
00:06:19Oh my God!
00:06:22I think I have a pretty clear sense of who I am and I think I value things that are
00:06:27more
00:06:27mature than most people my age do.
00:06:29Turn your gear.
00:06:30Yeah.
00:06:31I'm really excited to hopefully continue my connection with Derek.
00:06:36Honestly, he seems like a really sweet guy.
00:06:38Seems like he has his life together.
00:06:40I would like to talk to him more, but I'm happy.
00:06:44I'm happy that I've even started to find something.
00:06:47I can do the pedaling and I can move it, but the gear situation kind of had me.
00:06:52It threw you off.
00:06:53You helped me out, so.
00:06:55So you're not a mountain biker.
00:06:57I'm a stationary biker.
00:06:59Yeah.
00:06:59I have never considered myself outdoorsy.
00:07:02I actually was just hiking in Austria.
00:07:04It was awesome.
00:07:05It was a solo trip.
00:07:07You did myself?
00:07:07Yeah, yeah.
00:07:09Awesome.
00:07:09What brought that on?
00:07:10I feel like I'm always saving money to travel, you know?
00:07:12Yeah.
00:07:12Like everybody's like, oh, I'm going to travel at some point.
00:07:14Yeah.
00:07:15But it's like, thank you.
00:07:16Yeah.
00:07:17It's like, when am I going to?
00:07:18Yeah.
00:07:18Like now is the time.
00:07:20Right.
00:07:20Yeah.
00:07:20Are you a big traveler?
00:07:21Love it.
00:07:21Is that important to you?
00:07:22Absolutely.
00:07:23I travel a lot.
00:07:24I love the fact that you booked a trip.
00:07:26Yeah.
00:07:26Where else have you traveled?
00:07:27I've been to Spain.
00:07:29I've been to London.
00:07:30Where in Spain?
00:07:30Did you?
00:07:31Barcelona.
00:07:32Love it.
00:07:32Seville.
00:07:33Did you love it?
00:07:34Yeah, Barcelona's the best.
00:07:35How could you not love it?
00:07:37I was with my whole family, too, which was really nice.
00:07:39Yeah.
00:07:40Like I have a pretty small family.
00:07:42So it was my grandparents and then like my great aunt, my aunt, and my mom.
00:07:46Okay.
00:07:48But it was like our last family trip with everybody together.
00:07:51Yeah.
00:07:51How was that?
00:07:52I mean, it was fantastic.
00:07:54It was great.
00:07:54Family is like, it's very important to me.
00:07:56Like I said, I'm from a small family and I like want to have a big family.
00:08:00Yeah.
00:08:01So just appreciating those moments together is like, that's like a big part of what I love.
00:08:08Yeah.
00:08:09I'm the same.
00:08:09Family is so big.
00:08:10Okay.
00:08:11So big to me.
00:08:11Okay.
00:08:12Yeah.
00:08:12No, I completely agree.
00:08:14I didn't get into details about my family, my two boys that I have now.
00:08:19I do want to tell her, but it'll be a shocker, I think, if I tell Pfeiffer that I have
00:08:24a 15-year-old
00:08:25son and a five-year-old, hopefully that doesn't change the connection we have and the feelings
00:08:31that she has from me though.
00:08:42Hey, Jolene, do you want to walk with me?
00:08:44Oh, yeah.
00:08:45Okay.
00:08:46You can bring the blanket.
00:08:47Oh, I can?
00:08:48Really?
00:08:48Yeah, of course.
00:08:48Yeah, why not?
00:08:49Yes.
00:08:49I have been on the apps before and I'll be so crazy that I'll swipe when I drive and
00:08:56I'm just like, kind of addicted to it.
00:08:58I'm looking for something authentic and organic.
00:09:01I feel like dating girls in the past, like I've gotten parts of the one.
00:09:05We're going to the promise room.
00:09:06See you guys later.
00:09:07Oh, my God.
00:09:08No, I'm just kidding.
00:09:08I'm kidding.
00:09:09I'm kidding.
00:09:10So coming into this, it pushes me to talk to girls who I normally would not and it's opened
00:09:15my eyes a bit already.
00:09:17I know you want to.
00:09:19Damn, girl, you ballsy with it.
00:09:22Well, I don't know what else I'm supposed to say.
00:09:24I might crush you.
00:09:25No, you're fine.
00:09:26Okay.
00:09:27Okay.
00:09:28I was terrified going into this because I live a very comfortable, routine life, but there's
00:09:34like this little, this piece right here that just wants someone to be like, come here,
00:09:38you compliment me thing, you know?
00:09:41My ex-husband and I, we took good care of our children together and we continue to do so.
00:09:46And I remember driving home one day from work and just being so thankful for my life because
00:09:53I had this wonderful man at home who like takes my son to baseball and just feeling true happiness.
00:10:00And it didn't work out.
00:10:02We just kind of grew apart.
00:10:05But I want to feel that again.
00:10:08I so badly want to ask you how old you are.
00:10:10Really?
00:10:11Yeah.
00:10:12But I don't know why.
00:10:13I think it's just like instinct, but I'm trying to let that go.
00:10:19I know, but I'll tell you what.
00:10:20I look young.
00:10:24Okay.
00:10:25So, I'm probably older than you think I am.
00:10:27I'll just give you that.
00:10:28That's it.
00:10:29Oh God, I hope so.
00:10:42I'm not used to like doing this, dating like multiple people at the same time.
00:10:46So, this is just really hard and I want to try to move as respectful as I can to both
00:10:51the guys.
00:10:52We're here today to do some forest bathing.
00:10:55I have here some blindfolds.
00:10:59One person leads, one person follows.
00:11:02And the person who leads has the responsibility of getting them to experience the forest with
00:11:09their other senses.
00:11:11Vanell is amazing.
00:11:12We work well together, to me, energy-wise.
00:11:14I want to show her a little bit the gentler side, the other side of Hora.
00:11:18And I've experienced in the past where, you know, I don't let everybody see that side
00:11:23of me because not everybody protects that side of me, right?
00:11:27But in her case, she's just, I don't know, there's something about her.
00:11:30There's gentle energy.
00:11:31I love it.
00:11:32If I trip and fall, it's over with.
00:11:34Lift your foot.
00:11:35There you go.
00:11:35Come on.
00:11:36You think I'd let you fall?
00:11:37No.
00:11:38Okay, then.
00:11:39Just trust me.
00:11:40You trust me?
00:11:41I do trust you.
00:11:42All right.
00:11:44Am I walking straight?
00:11:45Just walking straight.
00:11:47Now, keep walking real slow.
00:11:50I got you.
00:11:51You will not stumble.
00:11:52You will not fall.
00:11:53I will not let that happen, okay?
00:11:57Oh, you did so good.
00:11:59Oh, my gosh.
00:12:01You got me all the way here.
00:12:03That was good.
00:12:04Good job.
00:12:05You enjoyed it?
00:12:06Yeah.
00:12:07I feel excited.
00:12:10I feel, like, jittery.
00:12:12I feel, I don't know, I just had a really good time with Jorge.
00:12:16I've been wanting to just, like, see a different side to him because he has a really, like, big personality.
00:12:22And today I was able to just, like, see him more calm, more serious.
00:12:26He seems like he's a little bit older than me.
00:12:29I'm sure he probably is.
00:12:30But he has, like, a young spirit in a way.
00:12:34So, honestly, the age factor with Jorge doesn't bother me.
00:12:39You're my only connection.
00:12:40Like, I'm not.
00:12:41Really?
00:12:42Mm-hmm.
00:12:42Wow.
00:12:43Because I'm not.
00:12:44Like I told you, if I look at someone and I'm not feeling it and I know it won't be
00:12:50genuine, like, I'm not going to do it because it's not going to be real.
00:12:54But I'm not saying that to put pressure on you.
00:12:57You're not going to.
00:13:01Justin and Jorge are literally total opposites.
00:13:05And I don't want to spend too much time tuggling between two guys.
00:13:09I want to, like, make a decision soon.
00:13:11But ultimately, like, I thought I was leaving here with Justin.
00:13:15And deep down in my heart, I kind of feel if Justin was truly the person that I felt like,
00:13:22okay, that is the one, then maybe I wouldn't be so conflicted.
00:13:26I like when a man makes that known he wants me.
00:13:30Well, I think I've made it known, have I?
00:13:32Now.
00:13:34Oh.
00:13:52You've got to catch me up.
00:13:53I think, I mean, I feel like I'm in a really lucky spot.
00:13:58I'm really happy with where I am with Derek right now.
00:14:02Uh-huh.
00:14:03How far apart do you think you and Derek are in age?
00:14:07I would say, like, 13 to 16 years.
00:14:10Okay.
00:14:10Okay.
00:14:11That's my guess.
00:14:11Okay.
00:14:12Is there any, like, reservations you have about, like, a future with him?
00:14:16It feels really weird to be like, wow, this person and I are really aligned and everything seems to be
00:14:21going smoothly.
00:14:22Like, where is the big, like, when is the shoe going to drop?
00:14:26Yeah.
00:14:26But I'm just kind of a scaredy cat, too.
00:14:28With this sort of thing.
00:14:29That's okay.
00:14:30But I think for your age, I don't know what your age is, but I can guess.
00:14:33And I think that you have a good head on your shoulders.
00:14:36Yeah.
00:14:36That means a lot.
00:14:37And I think you're a lot more confident than I was at your age in, like, putting yourself out there.
00:14:43How about you?
00:14:43I want to hear all about where your mind is at, how you're feeling about things.
00:14:46Yeah, so this has really been pushing me out of my comfort zone.
00:14:51I think that's great.
00:14:52Yeah.
00:14:52Yeah.
00:14:52What's funny is, like, in talking to some of the men, they're like, if a girl came after me, I
00:14:57think it's hot as fuck.
00:14:57I know.
00:14:58They say that.
00:14:59But at the same time, like, I don't want to be a chaser.
00:15:02Like, I'm not chasing anyone.
00:15:04So it's like, yeah, do we push ourselves out of the comfort zone and try something different?
00:15:09Or do we just keep the status quo?
00:15:12Yeah.
00:15:13Yeah.
00:15:14Oh, my gosh.
00:15:15To be determined.
00:15:15It's a lot to think about.
00:15:16Yeah.
00:15:19The memories that you were dreaming of.
00:15:28Make sure you strap it on.
00:15:30I found one.
00:15:32I got you.
00:15:33There's a few women here that have caught my eye, but honestly, I'm feeling some vibes with Libby.
00:15:38It's very just playful.
00:15:41She is fun, younger, very extroverted.
00:15:45How did I know you were not?
00:15:46I'm not going to know how to do this.
00:15:48Libby is complete chaos.
00:15:50In the best ways possible, I think.
00:15:58I do not do huddles at all.
00:16:00You're fine.
00:16:02You're fine.
00:16:03You're good.
00:16:03Oh, I don't know about this.
00:16:04Can I back out?
00:16:06I am feeling a little bit of pressure and nerves because I need to go into this date and, you
00:16:12know, show up, be myself.
00:16:13But I think I have a tendency to get a little bit nervous when I'm interested in somebody and kind
00:16:18of feel a little bit more reserved and closed off.
00:16:22So I'm hoping today I can just let my guard down and be normal.
00:16:27At this point, Andrew is really the only one that I genuinely find myself attracted to.
00:16:35And although my mind is running in circles about the kid thing and the age thing and whatever, I definitely
00:16:42have a little crush on him.
00:16:47I'm going to definitely give you the ick today.
00:16:49I'm just not going to look over there.
00:16:50You're going to be like, I'm over this dude.
00:16:52I'm going to close my eyes.
00:16:52And if I hear screaming, I'm going to pretend I don't.
00:16:57One, two, one, go.
00:17:02Oh, God.
00:17:05Oh, God.
00:17:07Oh, my God.
00:17:12Oh, my God.
00:17:14Oh, my God.
00:17:18Like, I can't believe I almost cried.
00:17:23Libby is my type, like, spot on.
00:17:25Like, my group chat is going to be like, dude, I thought you were going to do something different.
00:17:31It's not that I haven't tried.
00:17:33I've talked to a bunch of people.
00:17:34And I'm not saying that I'm not going to keep experiencing this experience and talking to other people.
00:17:39But, I mean, you know, if you just something's you, something's you.
00:17:43And I think that, you know, for me, it's been fun to date younger.
00:17:48Um, healthy.
00:17:50I don't know.
00:17:51Probably not fun.
00:17:53Yes.
00:17:55We survived.
00:17:56We made it.
00:17:58Yeah, you weren't helpful, though.
00:17:59I think I was nothing but helpful, personally.
00:18:02But I'm glad you got through it.
00:18:04And I guess it was a fun thing for us to do.
00:18:06It wasn't date two.
00:18:07And you see me scared like that up there.
00:18:09Right.
00:18:09But as long as you didn't get the ick.
00:18:11I did.
00:18:12You got the ick?
00:18:13No, I'm kidding.
00:18:14You're all good.
00:18:14You're all good.
00:18:16I mean, go on.
00:18:17I think there could be, like, a strong connection there.
00:18:20It's, like, I'm seeing a lot of her, like, funny side.
00:18:24And maybe there's, like, a little intimidation there or whatever.
00:18:28Or nerves, you know?
00:18:29We all have a little bit of that.
00:18:31But I can tell there's, like, this other side to her that's, like, super sweet and soft.
00:18:36I think if she does have that side, like, to her, I definitely think that, you know, there would be
00:18:41something there.
00:18:42I think.
00:18:43All right.
00:18:44Can I ask you something?
00:18:45Yeah.
00:18:45And, like, don't get offended.
00:18:47You're funny as shit.
00:18:48Mm-hmm.
00:18:49But, like, is there, like, a softer side to you?
00:18:52Like, a more, like, serious, like, I really do want to have more kids.
00:18:58I really do want to find my person.
00:18:59I really am here to connect with someone.
00:19:02Mm-hmm.
00:19:02I feel like I love our banter.
00:19:04I love how we just laugh and give each other shit back and forth and don't compliment each other.
00:19:11Um, but is there, like, a serious side, like, a warm side to you?
00:19:16That's funny that you're, like, even asking that.
00:19:18Why is that?
00:19:19It's hard for me because I know, like, in the past, like, when I fully let people in and been
00:19:25100% that side of myself, it's kind of hard to recover after you get really hurt, you know?
00:19:31I just have to, like, warm up to that place because, I don't know, I get kind of, like, guarded
00:19:36in the beginning.
00:19:37I can see.
00:19:38What can I tell?
00:19:39Um, but, yeah, we'll get to that place.
00:19:42See, it strides for me to tell you that you're sort of kind of cute.
00:19:46Okay.
00:19:47Well, I'll take sort of kind of cute.
00:19:49Um, I feel like I know a lot about you, but I wanted to ask you more about your daughters
00:19:54because I feel like I don't know how much about them.
00:19:57Do you want to know how old they are?
00:19:58Mm-hmm.
00:19:59I know I wouldn't tell you the other day.
00:20:00Just tell me, you freak.
00:20:03Fourteen and twelve.
00:20:06Sorry, was that...?
00:20:06I can't, I can't hide anything on me.
00:20:12Fourteen and twelve.
00:20:14Um, I'm a little shocked.
00:20:17A little shocked.
00:20:18I don't think, um, I was expecting that.
00:20:21That's, that's new.
00:20:23Does this surprise you?
00:20:24Shock?
00:20:25What are you thinking?
00:20:26I thought they were way younger than that.
00:20:27I'm curious as to how old you probably think I am.
00:20:30Oh, shoot, I don't know, and I don't want to make guesses.
00:20:34And I'm a little scared.
00:20:37Don't strike me as an old person.
00:20:40What is old to you?
00:20:41I don't know, you just, you...
00:20:43Great.
00:20:44Skincare.
00:20:45Any recommendations?
00:20:46Yeah.
00:20:47Drink a lot of water.
00:20:48Okay.
00:20:49Thanks for that.
00:20:50Thank you so much for that.
00:20:50Stay out of the sun.
00:20:52Yeah.
00:20:52I'm just feeling a little bit shocked and overwhelmed,
00:20:56and I think I might need a little bit of time to reflect on it.
00:21:00I'm not that far from Fourteen.
00:21:03So I'm definitely gonna take a minute and reflect.
00:21:09Let it fall apart slowly, slowly.
00:21:19Yeah, we won't stop.
00:21:21I've been to spas, but nothing like this.
00:21:25I'm keeping myself open to meeting the other guys,
00:21:28but I don't have the same connection with others that I do with West.
00:21:43What I want when it comes to relationships is marriage.
00:21:47Now, I'm not saying the next girl that I date is going to be my wife,
00:21:50but if I could choose, it would be 100%.
00:21:53Going into this date, the three that I had my eye on are Vanessa, Lindy, and Kathryn.
00:21:58I'm looking for a woman that I can spend my life with, a woman I can take home,
00:22:01and my parents, my mom is happy, my dad is happy to see this woman next to me,
00:22:06no matter her age.
00:22:08Oh, my God.
00:22:09I think West right now is at the time in his life where he likes to have fun.
00:22:15He does immature things like backflips into the goal plunge,
00:22:19and I'm really continuing to try to, like, throw that out the window.
00:22:25It's, like, really tough for me.
00:22:27What do you think of it?
00:22:29I think it's beautiful here.
00:22:30Right?
00:22:31I love it. It's relaxing.
00:22:32I like getting to know you better.
00:22:34Yeah.
00:22:35What would you want to know?
00:22:40I mean, things I can't ask, but...
00:22:44Why not? You could ask me anything.
00:22:47What?
00:22:48I wonder how old you...
00:22:50I know we're not supposed to take this dating,
00:22:51and I just want to get to know you.
00:22:53I could take you to the promise room.
00:22:55We could line it up real quick.
00:22:58And I'm up for that.
00:23:01I know it's kind of crazy, like, all in right here, right now,
00:23:03but, you know, that's it.
00:23:07I'm not crazy.
00:23:09I think you are.
00:23:11You know, with younger guys,
00:23:12sometimes they get caught up in, like, the new stuff.
00:23:15You know, the new is exciting.
00:23:17I think part of me is, like, has these, like, walls up,
00:23:21like, why is he so complimentary so, like, soon?
00:23:24Like, what is his game here?
00:23:27My flirty aspect can be a red flag to people,
00:23:31but the things I say are genuine, they're honest,
00:23:34and I think, like, more feelings and actions show
00:23:36how I really feel rather than, like, things I say.
00:23:49Absolutely natural beauty that we have around.
00:23:51I know, it's so pretty.
00:23:53I love it.
00:23:54And this natural beauty in front of you.
00:23:55Oh, wow.
00:23:56That was very smooth.
00:23:58That was very smooth.
00:23:59I've got to give you props for that.
00:24:01Good job.
00:24:02High five on that.
00:24:05Hey, guys.
00:24:06Hi.
00:24:07How are you?
00:24:08I don't want to interrupt.
00:24:08No, you're fine.
00:24:10I was wondering if you want to go to the other pool.
00:24:12We didn't go there yet.
00:24:13Let's go.
00:24:14OK.
00:24:14I'll bring him back.
00:24:15Don't worry.
00:24:16You guys have fun.
00:24:17You take your time.
00:24:18OK.
00:24:19I have not been successful at dating.
00:24:22I lived in a small town my whole life.
00:24:24I've met everyone.
00:24:25I've dated everyone I wanted to date.
00:24:27This one might be deeper.
00:24:28Will you save me if I...
00:24:30Now I have the opportunity to meet people
00:24:33from all different places, all different ages,
00:24:35and I want to explore things,
00:24:37and I want to see who's out there.
00:24:39Are you...
00:24:40Are you upset right?
00:24:41Are you real?
00:24:42I'm really not.
00:24:43I'm actually happy about that.
00:24:44I take it.
00:24:45I was waiting for that.
00:24:46I'm like, you know,
00:24:46I don't like to compete for attention.
00:24:48Me neither.
00:24:49But I didn't...
00:24:49I didn't know.
00:24:50So I was...
00:24:51I would have given you another five minutes,
00:24:52and then I would have stolen you away.
00:24:54I didn't want to, like...
00:24:55I was just trying to get a little reaction.
00:24:57Oh!
00:24:57It's called triangulation.
00:24:59A little...
00:25:00A little triangular.
00:25:01You were trying to triangulate.
00:25:03Well, it worked.
00:25:03Look, here we are.
00:25:04It did work.
00:25:05Here we are.
00:25:06Where did you tell me you live again?
00:25:08I live in Miami.
00:25:09You are such a Miami boy.
00:25:11Can I come and visit you one day?
00:25:13Absolutely.
00:25:14100%.
00:25:14No, after this entire thing,
00:25:15we're going back to Miami together.
00:25:18Together?
00:25:18I won't make you come to Ohio to see me.
00:25:20I told you Ohio's my, like, backyard.
00:25:22Okay.
00:25:24Coming in.
00:25:25Yeah.
00:25:25Come, come, come.
00:25:25I love it.
00:25:26Okay.
00:25:27Yeah.
00:25:27I'm glad that we got to have our time together today, too.
00:25:29Yeah.
00:25:30And we'll have more time together, I hope.
00:25:31Yeah, for sure.
00:25:32Is that cool with you?
00:25:33Mm-hmm.
00:25:33It's cool with me.
00:25:34All right, good.
00:25:35Okay, good.
00:25:35I'm going to kiss your hand.
00:25:37I don't know.
00:25:38She didn't really answer it.
00:25:39I'm sorry I stole you away from other girls.
00:25:41I'll try not to do that.
00:25:43No, continue to do that.
00:25:44Okay.
00:25:44All right.
00:25:45Sounds good.
00:25:46Should we kiss?
00:25:47You want to?
00:25:48Just a quick one.
00:25:53Give me a nice look.
00:26:02You're so beautiful.
00:26:04Glad that you appreciated myself.
00:26:06This won't be the end of this.
00:26:07You think?
00:26:07Okay, good.
00:26:08See you tomorrow.
00:26:09I'll end the next day and the next day.
00:26:10Okay, good.
00:26:10Okay, good.
00:26:11All right.
00:26:13I'm happy about this.
00:26:14Yeah.
00:26:14I'm not bad.
00:26:15You too.
00:26:216'2", huh?
00:26:23Hey.
00:26:24That's 6'1".
00:26:25You don't have to lie with me.
00:26:27Anything over 5'8 is a win.
00:26:29You don't have to lie with me.
00:26:41Exactly.
00:26:41Just put a couple weeks in this all night.
00:26:44I can't know your wife's getting so tight.
00:26:58I came here for a true connection.
00:27:00Like, I really want to find someone, um, a husband.
00:27:04You know?
00:27:05Um, someone to love and that truly loves me.
00:27:08I actually like lavender.
00:27:09You do?
00:27:10Yeah.
00:27:12Coming here, I found two amazing guys that, you know, I really connected with.
00:27:16And, like, I just have a lot to figure out.
00:27:20I just, I don't know.
00:27:22I just really don't know what to do.
00:27:23Ladies first?
00:27:24Okay.
00:27:25Yeah?
00:27:25Yeah.
00:27:26Okay.
00:27:26My connection with Vanell so far has been really great.
00:27:29We have really good, strong kind of, uh, chemistry.
00:27:32It's not common to, like, really have somebody that you meet and you kind of connect with on
00:27:37all those levels and that quickly.
00:27:40Um, so I would ask Vanell to go to the Promise Room today.
00:27:44I would.
00:27:45Um, I don't know that she necessarily feels the same way about me.
00:27:49But the truth is that is how I feel about her.
00:28:00Tell me about yesterday.
00:28:02Oh, my date?
00:28:03Yeah.
00:28:04We went for his bathing and stuff.
00:28:07Yeah.
00:28:07Not really my vibe, but I got to have a conversation with Jorge.
00:28:12Yeah.
00:28:12But now I also like someone else, too, and I'm just not used to, like...
00:28:17Being in that position?
00:28:19Yeah, like, dating multiple people at once or opening up myself to dating multiple people.
00:28:24That's fair.
00:28:24But, like, this experience, you know, forces you to do that.
00:28:27Yeah.
00:28:28Yeah.
00:28:28Who do you feel like you have more chemistry with?
00:28:31You guys are just so different.
00:28:34We are so different.
00:28:35Um, I think I have chemistry with you.
00:28:39Yeah?
00:28:40Um...
00:28:41A different kind of chemistry with Jorge?
00:28:43Yeah.
00:28:44It's just different.
00:28:45I don't know.
00:28:46It's just...
00:28:47Yeah.
00:28:50I'm not gonna lie.
00:28:52A lot of the time, I was thinking about Jorge.
00:28:56And...
00:28:56I don't know.
00:28:57I just am.
00:29:02I think today, I kind of got the clarity that I was wanting.
00:29:06And it's more of just, like, a feeling.
00:29:09Like, when I was with Jorge yesterday on our date, I was more, like, getting, like, nervous.
00:29:14And today with Justin, it was more of, like, I didn't really feel that.
00:29:23Anything else?
00:29:25Think about?
00:29:26No?
00:29:27No?
00:29:30No?
00:29:31You sure?
00:29:34I don't know.
00:29:35I feel like those wheels are turning up there.
00:29:39I don't know.
00:29:40I just don't want to make anyone want...
00:29:44Just, I'm just such a good guy.
00:29:47And...
00:29:49And it just, like...
00:29:53He's just...
00:29:53He just has such a pure heart.
00:29:55And I just don't want to, like, upset him or, like, break his heart or...
00:30:01I just feel bad.
00:30:06What do you worry about?
00:30:09Um...
00:30:12I don't know.
00:30:13I guess I just, like, learned that, like...
00:30:17Maybe we're just not a good match.
00:30:24Okay.
00:30:27It's a little bit...
00:30:30Bittersweet, I guess, because it's like...
00:30:32You've been...
00:30:33I've been through this before, where you connect with somebody, like, on a visceral level.
00:30:37And then something comes in between you.
00:30:40And, um...
00:30:41Yeah.
00:30:42It's part of dating.
00:30:57Just because I was her first connection doesn't mean that I was her best connection.
00:31:03I really hope Jorge sees the same kind of beauty and perspective in her that I see in her.
00:31:11Because I know that she deserves that.
00:31:14I don't know that I know what the rest of my life will look like.
00:31:18But I am still open to finding, like, my person.
00:31:21And I hope that they're out there.
00:31:23Uh...
00:31:24That's the goal for me.
00:31:25That's what it takes.
00:31:27Yes.
00:31:33So, how'd you sleep?
00:31:34How did you feel?
00:31:35It was pretty good, yeah.
00:31:36The cold plunge, the hot tub, it felt really good.
00:31:39A little brave action?
00:31:40Yeah, for sure.
00:31:41Since the spa date, I've just been feeling really, like, icky.
00:31:46As soon as the kiss happened, I was like, what am I doing?
00:31:49Like, this is not me at all.
00:31:52Like, I felt like I moved way too fast.
00:31:55And then it just didn't feel right to me afterwards.
00:31:58It just made me take, like, a big step back and, like, rethink what I was doing.
00:32:03The last thing you said to me, it was, like, honesty.
00:32:06It's not honesty.
00:32:06Honesty.
00:32:07Like, do this journey, let's just keep that word in mind, you know?
00:32:10100%.
00:32:11You know, if there are other people you want to explore dates with, like, I wouldn't be upset.
00:32:15Likewise.
00:32:15Like, I want you to, like, have this experience, like, a whole experience for you.
00:32:19And I don't want you to feel like...
00:32:20Likewise.
00:32:21Yeah.
00:32:21Part of that is what we're here for.
00:32:23And no matter what comes out of this, I appreciated that.
00:32:25I appreciate this.
00:32:26It's like...
00:32:27Yeah.
00:32:27That's priceless, honestly.
00:32:29Right?
00:32:29Every guy that I date has been a love bomber.
00:32:32And immediately just throws everything into it, acts like everything's so great, and I'm
00:32:37so perfect, and everything's right.
00:32:38And so the fact that, like, everything with Chris happened so fast, so touchy-feely and everything,
00:32:44there was something in my brain that was, like, warning, warning.
00:32:47Like, this is not good.
00:32:48This is not healthy.
00:32:49So, at this point, I'm feeling like, you know, Chris really isn't the one.
00:32:54I didn't want to be disrespectful to you or your time.
00:32:57No.
00:32:58Absolutely.
00:32:58I'm glad that it was well-received.
00:33:01100%.
00:33:01I'm glad we had our time.
00:33:02Honestly, I had a great time getting to know Vanessa.
00:33:05But I would love to get to know other girls while I'm here because I feel like I would regret
00:33:10not doing that.
00:33:12And I'll be happy for her as well if she ends up with somebody else here and actually finds love.
00:33:26I think that we should spin back on our conversation.
00:33:28I know you were kind of asking about, like, the more serious...
00:33:32...side of you.
00:33:33...side of Libby.
00:33:34Yeah.
00:33:34I want to see that side.
00:33:36Yeah.
00:33:36And I know that, like, it might come off as just kind of all funny and, like, silly.
00:33:42You don't want to put yourself out there that much and, like, possibly get hurt.
00:33:45Yeah, that.
00:33:46Yeah.
00:33:46Yeah, there we go.
00:33:47I get it.
00:33:48Yeah, yeah.
00:33:49So, how's relationship with said, um, mother of your children?
00:33:54Um, it's amazing, honestly.
00:33:57You guys kiss?
00:33:58We kiss.
00:34:00Like, really good?
00:34:02Like, it's really amazing.
00:34:04No.
00:34:04I mean, at one point, maybe we did.
00:34:06But, no.
00:34:07That's kind of how the kids are made.
00:34:09Yeah, that is how the kids are made.
00:34:11Yeah.
00:34:11Oh, my God.
00:34:15Oh, God.
00:34:16And we blushed, like, a little, maybe a little uncomfortable there.
00:34:20I'm just kidding.
00:34:21I'm sorry.
00:34:21I have to...
00:34:22No worries.
00:34:23Yeah.
00:34:23All right.
00:34:24Well, let me ask you this.
00:34:25You know, my daughters are, like, 14 and 12.
00:34:28Mm-hmm.
00:34:28So, like, my life is very established in Baltimore.
00:34:33Like, it just is.
00:34:34Like, my business is there.
00:34:35My kids are there.
00:34:37You know?
00:34:38Say we continue this, like, do you see yourself in a long-distance relationship?
00:34:42Do you see yourself possibly, like, relocating if, you know, things went that far?
00:34:48Yeah.
00:34:49Well, um, I think I'm somebody who, like, when I like somebody, I go all in.
00:34:54And, honestly, I am catching a little bit of real feelings for you.
00:34:58Mm-hmm.
00:34:59And...
00:34:59There's a...
00:35:00There's a fly.
00:35:00Okay.
00:35:01I got it.
00:35:01Fly, fly, fly, fly.
00:35:02Help, help, help.
00:35:03Thanks so much.
00:35:03I'm such an outdoorsy man.
00:35:05Yeah, I've heard that before.
00:35:07With your man.
00:35:07Yeah, this is, like, that's the second time I saved your life.
00:35:10I think we're on, like, four now.
00:35:11Yeah.
00:35:11According to you.
00:35:12At least four right now.
00:35:14Mm-hmm.
00:35:14Yes.
00:35:14Every time we spend a little bit more time together, I'm seeing there's much more to
00:35:20her than I thought.
00:35:21I mean, I'm looking for a ride or die.
00:35:24And I think, honestly, after tonight, I want to see where it goes.
00:35:29I haven't really felt like this in a while about anyone.
00:35:32And I guess I don't mind.
00:35:37And January love.
00:35:48Staring at the sun, they say youth is wasted on the young and it's true cause all I wanna
00:35:55do is sweep nothing with you.
00:35:58I came here looking for a different way of dating.
00:36:05Luckily for me, like, I'm sitting in a position where, like, I have made a connection and I'm
00:36:10looking to, like, build on that.
00:36:12Can we make it never seem a day?
00:36:15I want this to last forever.
00:36:18I'll go wherever you.
00:36:20I wanna take Libby to the Promise Room because I wanna continue to commit to this connection
00:36:25that I have with her.
00:36:26She keeps me a little off balance and somehow I just, I find myself wanting more of that.
00:36:33So let's take a closer.
00:36:36For me, having two daughters, you know, I'm not making that commitment with anyone if I
00:36:42can't see them possibly being in my daughter's lives.
00:36:45Hey, hey, hey.
00:36:48I would say Libby's definitely in her 20s.
00:36:52There's just this energy about her that's, like, hard to ignore.
00:37:02I feel nervous overall because there's a level of commitment to it that is really serious.
00:37:10But I could potentially genuinely see a future with Andrew because I think that he has a lot
00:37:16of qualities that resemble things that I'm looking for in a future partner.
00:37:20I think that he accepts those parts of myself that I sometimes feel insecure about.
00:37:27Initially, when I learned that Andrew had kids, I was extremely thrown off.
00:37:31My fear is that our lives are just too different and we're going in different paths.
00:37:36But I'm trying to be open-minded through this whole experience.
00:37:41I'm nervous for Andrew to find out my age because I think that it's possible he thinks
00:37:46I'm a little older than I am.
00:37:48I don't know if he thinks realistically, after hearing my age, that I'm somebody who could
00:37:53be a serious potential partner for him.
00:38:12I don't know if he thinks of all of this.
00:38:14Hi.
00:38:15Beautiful.
00:38:17Thanks, you look handsome.
00:38:22Whew.
00:38:24Okay.
00:38:26So...
00:38:27I came here because my life back home definitely felt like it was a little bit out of a standstill.
00:38:36So I wanted to take a different approach.
00:38:41I wanted to be a little bit more intentional with finding a connection with someone.
00:38:47And from the moment I sat down across from you, I knew I was in trouble.
00:38:54You bring out a side of me that's typically more introverted, and it just leaves me wanting more.
00:39:03So I know that, you know, I have two kids. One's 14 and one is 12, and it's just very
00:39:11important for me to be able to be with someone where I can merge my entire life.
00:39:17And I'm just hoping that that's something you will be open to growing into at some point.
00:39:26I've never been scared of the fact that you had kids, and honestly, that was one of the things that
00:39:30I liked about you.
00:39:31It made me take you more seriously, so it doesn't bother me.
00:39:35And you chose to be here, even though I was kind of hard to get through, too, at some times.
00:39:40A little bit.
00:39:41A little bit. And I'm excited for the rest that's to come.
00:39:48Whew. Hi.
00:39:50Oh my gosh, you're asking me to marry you?
00:39:52I am.
00:39:53This is crazy.
00:39:54Is it?
00:39:56Right?
00:39:59You're so nervous.
00:40:01I know.
00:40:02You're okay?
00:40:02I'm typically not nervous either.
00:40:04Big commitment.
00:40:05It is a big commitment.
00:40:07Will you commit to me?
00:40:10I will.
00:40:12Yay!
00:40:15Good job.
00:40:16Okay.
00:40:17Well, I feel like there's only one more thing for us to do.
00:40:27I am 38 years young.
00:40:34Don't know if I was expecting 38.
00:40:37Definitely a little shocked.
00:40:39No, I thought you were younger.
00:40:42Like, I thought you were a lot younger.
00:40:45But, um, it's going to be okay.
00:40:49Are you scared?
00:40:51I'm a little nervous.
00:40:52Okay.
00:40:53I am 22.
00:41:05Okay.
00:41:16I feel like you've shown me enough that, you know, despite the age gap, um, I've seen
00:41:24another side of you that is more serious.
00:41:27And if you're all in on this and you didn't run when you hurt my age, I'm not going to
00:41:34either.
00:41:35So, don't they say that age is just a number?
00:41:37It's just a number.
00:41:38Yeah.
00:41:39So, we're good.
00:41:50I'm feeling shocked.
00:41:55I've dated younger women before, but this is definitely the biggest age gap.
00:42:01And, yeah, I mean, it makes me nervous.
00:42:03I am a little shocked about Andrew's age, honestly.
00:42:07Don't know what I was thinking it was, but I don't think I thought it was 38.
00:42:12Woo!
00:42:15I didn't think I would ever be with somebody 16 years older than me.
00:42:20Mm-hmm.
00:42:21In my mind, I know how this will end.
00:42:25When I was 22, yeah, my life was, was crazy.
00:42:30Um, I definitely wasn't ready to be fully committed to someone, I don't think.
00:42:36I feel like if I think about it too much, I'm going to get in my head, like, you know,
00:42:40can she meet me where I'm at in life?
00:42:42Can I meet her where she's at in life?
00:42:44But I'm already in it.
00:42:48There's no turning back.
00:42:49Do I need to spell it out for you?
00:42:53Why are you?
00:42:55Why are you?
00:42:58So, I told you what it was like for me growing up.
00:43:01Yeah.
00:43:01What was it like for you?
00:43:03Did you, did you play outside?
00:43:05Did they have outside?
00:43:06I did, but, like, I was an only child, so I was always begging my dad to, like,
00:43:10to play with him.
00:43:11Yeah, like, when he was working, you know?
00:43:13Did you have neighbor kids to play with?
00:43:14I did, but we moved when I was about seven or eight, so.
00:43:18That's a bar.
00:43:19After that, yeah, I was kind of by myself.
00:43:21Yeah.
00:43:21You know?
00:43:23I came here wanting to find somebody, find a connection.
00:43:26In the past, I'm notorious for running away from something when it gets serious,
00:43:30and I want a real relationship.
00:43:32That's not something, you know, I've had in a while.
00:43:35Oh, I like this.
00:43:36This is so pretty.
00:43:37It is.
00:43:37It's gorgeous.
00:43:38All right, we gotta walk and stop in the middle and look down.
00:43:40To mend my parts to fix my heart, it's been opened.
00:43:47I want to find love.
00:43:49Everybody in my family is married.
00:43:51Everybody has a partner.
00:43:53Two years ago, my mom was diagnosed with cancer.
00:44:01We recently just lost her, and just watching my dad, like, be there for her and just how
00:44:08much he loved her, it just made me realize, like, I'm alone, and it's time for me to find
00:44:12my person.
00:44:13I wish I had, like, a penny or something to make a wish in here.
00:44:23I wish that Vanessa likes me.
00:44:27There we go.
00:44:29Yeah, initially I connected with Chris, but it wasn't something that was, like, really
00:44:33meaningful and not going to settle, honestly.
00:44:36I feel like Logan is really a gentleman.
00:44:39Like, I could see some potential here.
00:44:41It's so cute.
00:44:42I love it.
00:44:43Vanessa and I had a really good conversation, and I'm excited to continue to get to know
00:44:47her more.
00:44:48I feel like we have a connection.
00:44:50There's no question about it.
00:45:06I've been meaning to ask where you're from because your eyes are just so exotic and incredible
00:45:10looking.
00:45:10Honestly, I'm from Bakersfield, California.
00:45:12I mean, there's just some, like, I said when they asked me, like, what's your type?
00:45:16And I said eyes so many times.
00:45:17Me too.
00:45:18Yeah.
00:45:18Me and Vanessa had a connection, but that ended very quickly.
00:45:22So Leah, with her beautiful smile, just walked up to me, and she's somebody that I've been
00:45:29wanting to get to know from the beginning, but we didn't have really any time to have a
00:45:32serious conversation.
00:45:34Where do you live?
00:45:34I live in Miami.
00:45:35You're in Miami, too.
00:45:37You're far.
00:45:37Yeah, yeah.
00:45:38Well, I mean, my background's Lebanese.
00:45:40My mom's from me.
00:45:41And my mom was born in Haiti, actually.
00:45:42I'm ready for something exciting and something I haven't had yet, which is love.
00:45:48I want the right person who wants me and chooses me, because it sucks not finding somebody.
00:45:55Like, when I first had the first, like, go around, first of all, it was disappointing
00:45:59we didn't get to talk.
00:46:00I know.
00:46:00Because I was like, and I was like, oh, well, there he goes.
00:46:03And I was like, well, one day.
00:46:04Well, here we are.
00:46:05So that's cool.
00:46:06Chris is the guy that I would want to approach me, and I'm, like, really surprised and happy
00:46:11that I'm finally connecting with someone.
00:46:14So I'm super hopeful that I'm, oof, let's pray.
00:46:17Let's pray that he's ready, because I am.
00:46:34How have you been?
00:46:36I've been good.
00:46:37I think I've just, obviously, like, our last conversation, I told you that I had another
00:46:43connection here.
00:46:43Mm-hmm.
00:46:44And I was just, like, needing clarity.
00:46:46And yesterday, I went on a date with him, and you not being there just made me realize
00:46:52how much I like you.
00:46:53I think for the remainder of this process, like, I just want to continue this with you.
00:46:59God, hey.
00:47:00Are we onto something?
00:47:02Are we onto something?
00:47:05I don't know, but...
00:47:07Are you my ride of that?
00:47:08I want to be.
00:47:10I'm really clear on Vanell.
00:47:12I think that she and I have an insane connection.
00:47:16It's difficult to actually find someone you really connect with.
00:47:20But I feel somewhat anxious to tell her my age, because I've experienced in the past
00:47:26where the age came up, and she was like, oh, no, I can't date.
00:47:30That's like dating someone that's close to my dad's age.
00:47:33So I hope she'll be accepting of it.
00:47:36I really do.
00:47:38So if you want to pursue it, then...
00:47:40I mean, I do.
00:47:41I do, too.
00:47:43All right, then.
00:47:46Jorge just makes me feel seen.
00:47:48Like, he accepts me for who I am, and I love him.
00:47:57I love the person he is for who he is.
00:48:05Honestly, like, dating him, like, I could tell he is older than me.
00:48:09Um, I would think that he's probably, like, in his 40s.
00:48:15But my dad told me that he doesn't want me to get married to anyone 10 years older than me.
00:48:20So the 40s, he's been pushing it.
00:48:22I'm ready to show you my cards
00:48:25To chase all the stars that we see
00:48:42This definitely is a big day for me.
00:48:47I want to take Jorge to the Promise Room because I see a future with him.
00:48:52I can't put into words, like, the chemistry we have.
00:48:57It's just a feeling.
00:48:59Old friend
00:49:01You seem to know my mind before I speak
00:49:06Jorge makes me excited.
00:49:08He makes me happy.
00:49:10He's just a man.
00:49:12Like, a man.
00:49:13I just like, like...
00:49:15I was going to say the L word.
00:49:17Sorry.
00:49:18I really like, I really like being around him.
00:49:20That's the second time I've done that.
00:49:22Oh, my gosh.
00:49:23Okay, stop.
00:49:27I'm nervous about learning his age.
00:49:29I don't know if I could move forward with him if he's over late 40s.
00:49:35That's just a huge age gap.
00:49:38Huge.
00:49:40And my family would freak out.
00:49:45I am a little bit nervous because, well, actually, I have some things on my heart I want to talk
00:49:52to Jorge about.
00:49:53I would potentially have to walk away from really wanting to be with Jorge if our conversation doesn't go well.
00:50:03I am preparing myself for the worst a little bit because I just don't know how he would react.
00:50:09It would be literally heartbreaking to walk away from Jorge.
00:50:15It's okay.
00:50:18I really like him.
00:50:25Vanilla's truly a genuine, interesting, intriguing woman who I'm enamored with.
00:50:32A quiet word and you'd have me believe.
00:50:38It's like been so many different things in a brief amount of time that I've been attracted to.
00:50:44I want to find out more.
00:50:45I want to continue down that road.
00:50:47I haven't felt connected to a woman in quite some time.
00:50:54It would suck if Vanilla was affected by my age because that would be the end of the connection, right?
00:50:59So it would suck that we can't pursue it further and find out more and see if this is really
00:51:05what we both believe it is.
00:51:08I'm a little bit nervous with that.
00:51:12But ultimately, if it bothers her, then it wasn't meant to be, right?
00:51:16It's the way it goes.
00:51:22What will be, will be
00:51:26That's never made much sense to me
00:51:30And I'll be damned if I lose control
00:51:34How do you?
00:51:35I'm nervous.
00:51:36Don't be.
00:51:37You'll be in.
00:51:47So coming into this experience
00:51:51I wanted to find a genuine connection
00:51:56And coming to this, I wanted to find a potential husband
00:52:03And since meeting you, I feel like I found that
00:52:10I didn't think that I would find a connection this deep with you
00:52:16With you, I feel safe, I feel cared for, I feel protected, I feel respected, and I like that you
00:52:26are yourself
00:52:27With whoever you're interacting with
00:52:36You're doing good, yeah, I'm coming to this experience, I was hopeful, but still like, nah, Santa Claus is not
00:52:44going to happen, you know
00:52:45But hopefully that I could find, you know, the woman that I wanted to be in my life, you know
00:52:50And that means a lot to me
00:52:51And that's, it's not easy, as you know
00:52:54It's not easy at all
00:52:55It works well with us, because your quiet confidence and energy cool me out
00:53:01Because I'm on 10, you know that
00:53:02You've seen how I am
00:53:03And so I need that
00:53:05I really need that and want that in my life
00:53:08It is what it is, you know when you know
00:53:09Yeah
00:53:10You know
00:53:10Thank you for that
00:53:11But I do have something on my heart that I have been wanting to tell you
00:53:16Okay
00:53:20Um, so you know the hate that's really important to me
00:53:23And honoring God in every way I can is really important to me
00:53:31One of the ways I have made a promise to God is to honor God with my celibacy
00:53:38I've been celibate for almost two years now
00:53:40And I did make a promise to wait till marriage
00:53:43And I think in my past relationships, when it came to my faith
00:53:47I've been very wavering with that
00:53:49And I'm at a point in my life where I'm no longer doing that
00:53:54So I need someone that understands how important that is to me
00:53:58And that wants to walk on that journey with me
00:54:04So I just need to know, like, what you think about that
00:54:13Well, first off, I'm not
00:54:15I see you're getting nervous about it
00:54:17Yeah
00:54:18And there's no need to be nervous about it
00:54:20Because if that's what you're feeling
00:54:22And if that's what is important to you
00:54:24You don't have to be nervous
00:54:24You can say it with your chest
00:54:26I guess you can say it with like you mean it
00:54:27Because that's what you mean, right?
00:54:30Is that something that I've done?
00:54:32Or is that something that I've actively practiced?
00:54:35No, I haven't
00:54:36Is it something that I will respect with you?
00:54:38Of course I'll respect it with you
00:54:40I'm not going to back off of you now
00:54:43After we've gotten to this place because you say that
00:54:46That's not, that doesn't scare me
00:54:48You know, it doesn't make me
00:54:49I'm a grown-ass man, you know what I'm saying?
00:54:52Come on, I'm not afraid of that
00:54:53No, it's okay
00:54:54No, that makes me really happy
00:55:00I think also something else I wanted to talk about is like
00:55:05I don't know if you have kids, if you want kids, like
00:55:10You want to know if I want kids?
00:55:12Yes, but I'm not going to have kids outside of a marriage
00:55:16That's not going to happen
00:55:17That's not going to happen
00:55:18So if I'm going to have a child with someone
00:55:21We have to be in a marriage that's not going to break up
00:55:24I'm not willing to have no baby mamas
00:55:26No, I'm not having that
00:55:27So that's not going to happen
00:55:29But to answer your question, yes
00:55:31I wouldn't mind having kids
00:55:32If you're my wife, well then that's what we're talking about
00:55:36So yes, the answer is yes
00:55:38Any more questions?
00:55:40Get them out
00:55:41No, that's all I pretty much have
00:55:44You sure?
00:55:45Mm-hmm
00:55:46I'm excited too
00:55:48Now's the time
00:55:50I don't know
00:55:51I'm just really happy that I found you in this experience
00:55:54Like really, like I feel like if I'm being really honest
00:55:58Like maybe I was meant to come here to meet someone like you
00:56:02Like you have really made this experience just so amazing for me
00:56:08Um, yeah
00:56:09Likewise
00:56:11Are you not nervous anymore?
00:56:12No, you calm me down so fast
00:56:16That's what it's supposed to be
00:56:17Yeah
00:56:18So now we're here in this promise room
00:56:20We're here in this promise room
00:56:22And you need to know my age
00:56:27But hold up
00:56:28So are we making that commitment?
00:56:33I choose to, yes
00:56:34You choose to?
00:56:36I choose to as well
00:56:37So I'm going to put it on first
00:56:39Because I think, I think that's the
00:56:45Okay
00:56:48Does anything about you finding out my age scare you?
00:56:52I guess you're going to tell me now
00:56:54Yes
00:56:55I am
00:56:58I'm 27
00:56:59What?
00:57:01You're 27?
00:57:02Mm-hmm
00:57:07Man
00:57:09Okay
00:57:10Yeah
00:57:11I'm, you know, it's a, this is the way God's testing my words
00:57:13Like, okay, age is not nothing but a number, okay
00:57:15It doesn't bank me back off of you
00:57:17Okay
00:57:18So you ready for mine?
00:57:19Because I don't know if you're ready for this
00:57:21I am
00:57:23I really don't know if you're ready for this one
00:57:25You ready?
00:57:25Mm-hmm
00:57:28I'm 60
00:57:36I'm too far gone
00:57:40There's no way back
00:57:43I'm caught in the ecstasy
00:57:46Every time that you're next to me
00:57:49Look what you do to me
00:57:51I don't know how I can face everybody now
00:57:55Every time I try, I just mess up
00:57:59Something inside me knows that I need something different
00:58:04I don't know how I can face everybody
00:58:05I don't know how I can face everybody
00:58:08I don't know how I can face everybody
00:58:10I don't know how I can face everybody
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00:58:22I don't know how I can face everybody
00:58:23I don't know how I can face everybody
00:58:23I don't know how I can face everybody
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