00:00Oh!
00:01Surprise, surprise!
00:02Ooh, we gonna get that one out of here.
00:03We done with that one.
00:04What's up, y'all?
00:05It's your girl, Xp.
00:06And it's your girl, Dre Nicole.
00:07And we're from Poor Minds.
00:09And we're doing No Context Needed with Ebony.
00:12I'll go first.
00:13Here's how Gen Zers are embracing their kinks.
00:17I feel like they be doing a lot of crazy, crazy stuff.
00:20Maybe it's the furries.
00:21The furries, you know, the furries?
00:22They be dressing up in mascot uniforms
00:25and having sex and in the woods.
00:27No, you too deep in the internet,
00:29because what is that?
00:29You never heard of the furries?
00:31It came across my algorithm.
00:33I feel like that's a specific thing to type into your search for.
00:37You're right, you're right.
00:39Okay, soft commitment and the new rules of dating.
00:43We need to be committed.
00:44Yeah.
00:44And it don't need to be soft, it needs to be hard.
00:46Yeah.
00:47But I get why some people, you know,
00:49want to maybe keep the relationship a little light.
00:52They want to explore their options.
00:53No.
00:54Soft commitment is crazy.
00:55What is that?
00:56I've actually never heard of it,
00:58but that's a nice little term for it.
00:59That's how these men try to get away with cheating, girl.
01:02Don't let them soft commit to nothing.
01:04We are either together or we're not.
01:07I agree with it.
01:08Yeah, we're not doing that.
01:09What does mamaj look like for this new generation?
01:12Or marriage?
01:14Mamaj?
01:14I said, who is mamaj?
01:16Oh, the R is kind of connected.
01:18Mamaj.
01:20What does marriage look like for this new generation?
01:23I don't know.
01:24I'm not seeing a lot of weddings like we used to.
01:27I'm not necessarily saying it's a bad thing, though,
01:29because I think people are learning
01:30that life looks different for everybody, right?
01:32And I think women and men are figuring out
01:34there's more to life than being married and being a wife
01:37and being a husband and having kids.
01:38It ain't 1923 no more.
01:40Come on now.
01:411973, either.
01:42We don't need y'all to get no cars.
01:44We don't get our own.
01:45See, that's crazy.
01:46They couldn't even open a bank account.
01:47They couldn't.
01:48Time was hard on the Buddha boy.
01:50Imagine I being by a dining table.
01:52Damn.
01:53How one mango saved my marriage.
01:57Now, I thought it was a grapefruit.
01:59Yeah.
01:59You remember the grapefruit trick?
02:00I do remember the grapefruit lady.
02:02She was going crazy on the internet, too.
02:04What happened to her?
02:05She was going crazy on that grapefruit.
02:07She was.
02:07But I'm just like...
02:08Maybe she started eating mango
02:09and it freshened things up down there.
02:11Yeah, like pineapple.
02:12Yeah.
02:14And maybe for him, too.
02:16He got that juicy fruit now.
02:17Yeah, that's what we gonna say.
02:19Should black people date like other races?
02:22What that mean?
02:23What they be doing?
02:24No, because they be doing arranged marriages.
02:26And if y'all assign me to marry Daquan, I'm out.
02:28And we need to let go of that ride or die culture.
02:31Like, I'm all for holding it down for your husband.
02:33But holding it down and y'all just talking and being a ride or die?
02:36Where we going and why we gotta die?
02:38Exactly.
02:39No thanks.
02:40Points were made, queen.
02:41The rise of the phantom post could replace the hard launch trend.
02:45You talking about like blurring their face out or whatever?
02:48Somebody slide in their DMs and they can get took.
02:50That ain't your man for real.
02:51You know what I'm saying?
02:52Y'all need to stop being scared.
02:54Hard launches.
02:55Yeah.
02:55I'm off for a hard launch.
02:56You off for a hard launch?
02:57Not for me.
02:58Yeah.
02:58For y'all.
02:59For them.
02:59I'll say this.
03:00The arm isn't so bad.
03:01It's really when people be posting the full body and then they put their head off.
03:05Yeah.
03:05That'd be crazy.
03:06That's what I don't like.
03:07Somebody want that no way.
03:08Don't know.
03:09You saved us.
03:10That's what a lot of people don't realize.
03:12Your man is very, very safe.
03:14Uh oh.
03:15Why black dating is becoming a status game?
03:18I think black dating is becoming a status game because we're just catching up to what
03:21everybody else been doing.
03:23Our white girls been dating for status.
03:25They been knowing straight out of high school.
03:27You better get you one.
03:28They was telling us, you know, you got to build.
03:30You got to build with this man.
03:32For me at 35, no.
03:34You need to be built and then I'm built and then we can build together.
03:37Some more.
03:38Yeah, we can build some more.
03:39Cause you had 35 years just like I did.
03:42What the hell you been doing?
03:43Yeah.
03:43Getting good now.
03:44We done warmed up.
03:45And we on the last one.
03:46That mango took us for a loop, but we got it now.
03:48Now they took us to the last one to get it right.
03:51Okay.
03:52Why black singles feel lonelier than ever?
03:55Mmm.
03:56You know what?
03:57I really don't feel like black people are lonelier now.
04:00We've learned that it's okay to be 45 and being married for the first time.
04:04It's okay to have your first child maybe at 35, 36, 37.
04:08So I don't think black people are lonelier than any other race of people.
04:12I think we're just figuring out like life looks different.
04:15I agree with that.
04:16But then I also do feel like too, if you trying to find a quality man, y'all took all
04:21the baby
04:21daddies a long time ago.
04:23So who we got love?
04:24Especially if you want a man who ain't got no kids.
04:26Oh, there's...
04:27Where they at?
04:28Very, very tiny.
04:29So I feel like that's probably why.
04:30I mean, cause the older you get, it's less pissing.
04:33Less pissing.
04:35Less pissing.
04:35I said, who?
04:35Less pissing?
04:37The older you get...
04:38Now you on that freaky sh**.
04:39The older you get...
04:41The older you get is less pickings.
04:45It really is.
04:45Like I feel like when we were younger, it was so many options.
04:48There was so many pissings.
04:49There was so many pissings.
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