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90 Day: The Last Resort - Between the Sheets - Season 2 - Episode 16
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00:02what are we doing what the is that why is this dog over my shoulder
00:24it's like he's not a peter pan the guy is getting old how old is he
00:3043 i thought he was 67 because like i thought it was like my dad's age i mean he has
00:34a good
00:35body for his age but the face isn't giving
00:43it's time this city knew true justice by the name of sex man
00:47i always wanted to do the sex therapies because that was one of our issues you know i was intrigued
00:54i was like maybe we can learn something today about julia and i was trying to find something
00:59to crack that nut hers and mine yeah i am sex man
01:08i want to go forward with it this open marriage idea
01:13is it a yes don't be so excited there is no consideration for oh okay what will it take
01:21for me to be intimate with my wife shows that there is some huge huge intimacy disconnect
01:28here that we're not getting to the bottom of
01:33josh where are you with things i do love you and i do care for you
01:37oh he said he loves me natalie needs somebody 100 all the time i'm scared to give that to her
01:46i'm like i hope now this is going to be okay how is she going to act what's going to
01:50happen
01:50is she going to yell at me you know i didn't know i was in my head thinking the whole
01:53time
01:53is this the right decision natalie natalie i mean i know jasmine has needs and i felt like i needed
02:01to
02:01take action now the only reason i agree to the whole open marriage idea because jasmine told me
02:09matt was gay why would a gay man want to have sex with jasmine why she just played you i
02:15mean
02:25what's up man you got to say gino boy gino boy gino boy thank you it's you oh it's you
02:34okay we're now gonna watch gino your shopping trip with jasmine come on i want to watch josh and natalie
02:40that's more fun i did put some more thought into it and you know i do you know i want
02:50to go forward
02:51with it this open marriage idea oh no she got him is it a yes don't be so excited so
03:03it's like she can
03:04just anyone and then he has to just be loyal to her but he doesn't want to be by jasmine
03:09that's
03:10up yes i mean you are just put big point to your marriage like like you can have broken up
03:17soon
03:18you know i i love you very much and i don't want to lose you and i feel like i'm
03:24on the verge of
03:25losing you because you're always getting angry about you know sex not having intimacy you're always mad at
03:31me about it i feel like i need to take action like now i think that gino is agreeing to
03:41go along
03:42with something that he is not ready for gino has convinced himself that he doesn't want to be with
03:49jasmine physically but he doesn't want to be alone either and so when faced with okay can she be with
03:57someone else or should i can i be with her he chooses for her to be with someone else there
04:04is
04:04no consideration for oh okay what will it take for me to be intimate with my wife right um and
04:13i think
04:13that his response saying oh well i have to do this open marriage or i have to end things with
04:18her
04:20shows that there is some huge huge intimacy disconnect here that we're not getting to the bottom of
04:26and i think it has a lot less to do with oh i need an emotional connection and more of
04:32like i need
04:33you to do what i'm telling you to do i need you to follow what i say and that is
04:44not okay
04:45so you said there's a guy named matt that you yes already said this is going to be the person
04:51you
04:51want to have this relationship with it has been a very unconditional friend you know we have a lot
05:01of things in common when i was in the room with jasmine and she facetimed matt i instantly saw the
05:07connection between them and it was kind of undeniable gino's gonna have a rude awakening
05:12because i feel like it's gonna turn into something more than what he expects is he single
05:19yes he's single he's single wife or i would say that he is single and not looking for anything
05:26serious just to have fun the only reason i agree to the whole open marriage idea because jasmine told
05:33me matt was gay during the resort okay so basically jasmine why would a gay man want to have sex
05:42with
05:42jasmine why like i don't know any gay men that enjoy having sex with women that's why they're gay
05:53well this gay person could have sex with jasmine oh man no hold on i mean like just to
06:00potentially satisfy her needs right as a friend you guys were just gonna borrow how it's gonna be it
06:05kind of yeah but you know you're trying to make sense of it right now to me and it doesn't
06:10make
06:10sense what are you talking about oh don't worry he's gay i'm just gonna jump on okay yeah because
06:18that's what he likes and he's doing it he's doing it to do a favor to you or something i
06:23don't know
06:23no i mean like they don't like to do that either she understands by telling you he's gay you're not
06:31going to be like too much involved into the actual relationship she's she just played you and you're
06:37just like okay well he's gay they're just gonna use no it doesn't work that way you got taken for
06:43a
06:43ride i mean yeah okay ladies we're gonna watch a bonus scene this is never before seen footage
06:51did you're ready i'm ready me too i'm born ready sophie this is because you had a chat with natalie
06:58on the patio i forgot how this conversation went
07:06hi sophie hi good morning morning they want some coffee yeah sure oh how was your day
07:15what's good how's yours going how was it all yeah we're very like up and down like one day
07:26you know we'll laugh together and we're having a good time and the next day it's like i hate him
07:30because he's like mean to me and it's like we have the recommitment ceremony coming up and i have to
07:35really make a decision because he's moving to la like he's moving from a different state so it's like
07:39i'm going to decide whether i'm going with him or we're just going to lay school what's holding
07:45you back in austin i've been there for nearly two years now and it's like i have finally made some
07:50friends and i have like a support system and i know if i move to la i'm just going to
07:54be alone
07:54again and have to start my life again well i tell you one thing if you move to la you
07:59will not be alone
08:02if you would let me and give me a chance to show my different side of like as a friend
08:07i'm the best
08:09i want to believe that natalie was being genuine about offering a friendship to sophie um
08:18but maybe maybe she's just full
08:22and she's just saying it because she knows that she's gonna look very bad
08:27and now she's trying to redeem herself not because she actually cares about what she did to sophie
08:35but because of what other people are thinking of her so if you could build a friendship i think
08:41you would see a different side of me so i actually did go to la and it's weird because she
08:48actually
08:49tried to hang out with me what's she saying like i was meeting up with this girl in la who
08:53knows natalie
08:53and natalie was like oh is sophie going can i come like she went to come to dinner with me
08:57and i told the girl i'm like i mean no like we not friends i can't be fake like i
09:04don't like her i'm
09:05sorry like even if she comes to me i don't believe any of the apologies she's given i don't believe
09:08she
09:09she sees me as a competition why would i want to be friends with a woman that sees me as
09:12a competition
09:13and makes digs at me and talk about me like i'm not a pushover i'm not going to be like
09:17oh yeah
09:18it's okay come to dinner with me absolutely not and i think she kind of thinks i'm a little bit
09:23of a pushover
09:23i don't know what it is to think that i would be okay with having dinner with her after everything
09:28no i was already caught up into a situation where i was weak and i attacked you and for no
09:34reason
09:34yeah and i felt like an idiot it's because guys do that like they they send us crazy and well
09:40yeah
09:40and then it's what you did to me it's like our reactions and then they yeah and they like blame
09:44our reaction to the they're like disrespect to us it's our fault guys that's great it's always our fault
09:52like why is she acting that way they look like the calm ones and they haven't done anything wrong
09:56but that's not true very typical it's always our fault our disrespect our fault their disrespect our
10:02fault well her tell like before i want to make natalie jealous she did right but apparently that's
10:08you know that's josh's fault or then natalie telling like i'd be angry to you for no reason like
10:14but it's somebody it's a guy's fault though there's a guy here whose fault it is
10:18he knows i feel for him you know i wouldn't i wouldn't be here like come on she's really
10:23opening up to sophie she has to feel comfortable and connected to be able to do that it feels like
10:29he's in charge of telling me back closer back closer so i'm the one like waiting watching natalie and
10:36sophie it was borderline shocking right to see them have such a moment dare i even say a little connection
10:46there but more importantly you can see that natalie not only wanted to open up and connect with sophie
10:52but she wanted to be there in some way it took a lot for sophie as well because we know
10:56sophie has
10:57some feelings towards natalie we know sophie has been hurt more than once by natalie so i really i've
11:04seen the growth that sophie's made so this was another example to me of her having done some type of
11:10work to sit there in that space with her i think you deserve better than him to be honest he's
11:14just
11:14a player like i don't think you should say who's getting old i'm just getting better i'm like a fine
11:21lion it's like he's not a peter pan from you know i mean the guy is getting old yeah they
11:29called me an old
11:30player uh they called me an old player you know what i mean call me peter pan call me whatever
11:38you
11:39want call me hugh hefner you know you're not going to hurt my feelings okay how old is he 43
11:4443 is still
11:46kind of young yes i thought he was in his 50s for sure i thought it was like my dad's
11:52age like no i thought
11:53he was 57 because like i mean he has a good body for his age but like the face isn't
12:02giving like
12:03body's good fashion's good yeah the body's giving like 30. no that's generous that's rob's rob's older
12:11than that 35. 30. i'm trying to be nice i feel mean because i thought he was 57 so it's
12:16kind of bad
12:16trying to be nice trying to give him something
12:25gino's willing to do things in front of this group of essentially strangers that he's not willing to do
12:31in the bedroom and i can't present solutions to people who don't believe they have problems
12:40oh you know why this each why for money what left arm i already teach brandon he already know
12:48so left arm each for mine
12:54you're gonna get money yeah somebody will give me money what if you're right somebody gonna say hi to
13:00me new person does that come true every time all the time okay we are now going to watch some
13:08never-before-seen footage this is group sex therapy oh boy at least it's group sex therapy not group sex
13:27well hello come on in make yourselves comfortable find a pillow welcome to your next sexuality session
13:38what i like to do is open folks eyes and perception to the landscape of yes this exercise that i
13:49did i
13:49created what i like to call a bdsm playground it had a bunch of kind of wild crazy toys and
13:58accessories
13:58that you can use in the bedroom i think for a lot of these couples things have gotten a little
14:03stale
14:03i want to get them out of their heads and out of that space of like am i doing this
14:08right will
14:09they like it am i normal and kind of into a space of curiosity and play let's come up and
14:15look at the
14:16table let's just look at all of the things ask me any questions that you have and then there you
14:20go
14:21anything that you feel like oh i want to know what this is i want to try this pick it
14:25up and then let's
14:26have a conversation oh my gosh you have enough of those at home
14:34uh what is uh no don't be dog be dog
14:41yeah oh my god oh my god
14:47this city has been plagued by crime too long
14:53it's time this city knew true justice by the name of sex man
15:00i was like god reba reba brought more of her fun toys yeah reba's got a lot of fun toys
15:07i knew these weren't here for this show i knew we were playing with some of these things
15:11i was intrigued same i was intrigued i was like maybe i can learn something today about julia i
15:16always wanted to do the sex therapies because that was one of our issues you know and i was trying
15:20to
15:21find something to crack that nut hers and mine yeah yeah i think this is exactly the type of stuff
15:29brandon needs to be choosing he needs to be choosing the the sex dog mask and go and some go
15:34be a dog with
15:36your wife you know i don't have to look at you anymore this is awesome man girls like the like
15:40even if they know a shoe they like just like that feel of like oh i can imagine i don't
15:44know yeah
15:46she likes that
15:49nah that's it right there i was really shocked at brandon and his sex man and i think julia really
15:55needed to see that he wants to have a baby and so every time they get into this space it's
15:59like
15:59baby baby baby in her mind and so now she sees sex man and it's funny and really brings her
16:05back into like fun and connection and that's exactly what i was hoping for
16:10can i chip this to michigan so i can sit and tan outside in the patio do you want to
16:15try it out
16:16this yeah come on guys come on let's see it come on let's do it
16:22i want to look at the table too i don't know uh how is this oh yeah it's comfortable this
16:30is
16:30comfortable i like it i'm relaxed i'm ready baby let's go my friend let's go you got it easy access
16:38and now what oh my god
16:44that's what i tell them for both of them you know like even when i was there hey both of
16:48you you need
16:49more activity like something why don't you do dance class like in the south side dance like something
16:54you don't have to yes that's what he says like gino i don't want to go like a zero hundred
16:58he's right
16:59like you know that's what i saw that like you know just when you do that that is activity like
17:03in the therapy and then everything is changed you know it was fun to watch in person like i was
17:21like into it i was like yeah gino get it give it to her give it to her you know
17:25he was having a great
17:26time and jasmine was having a great time it was like one of the few good moments jasmine and i
17:31had
17:32at the resort so i felt like oh my god i have it's it's giving me a little hope after
17:36the sex therapy
17:37session that hell i don't know maybe jasmine and i can turn things around and surprise everybody
17:47oh my lord gino's willing to do things in front of this group of essentially strangers
17:55that he's not willing to do in the bedroom and my biggest question is why
18:02how are you so comfortable in front of these strangers but very anti and distant when it's in
18:10the bedroom with your partner unfortunately um i can't present solutions to to people who don't
18:18believe they have problems
18:24all right rob ready what are we doing what the is that why is this dog over my shoulder
18:33you kept the mask yeah you haven't used it though come on bro
18:39all right i'm going to show you the last group therapy session and it includes a never-before-seen
18:43moment between julia and natalie oh cool okay today we're really hoping that all of you come to this
18:51session with complete honesty in the things that we're going to talk about so julia let me just hear
18:56from you what what's going through your mind with this i want to say now before is like i'm always
19:01say to
19:01people to face and i'm like so deep with the point of of natalie because people told me she laughing
19:06when i'm saying most of important things when i came here sharing and this is natalie so disrespectful
19:14after best therapy rob told me natalie throw away papers and like i make other planes and laughing and
19:21when we're speaking about that situation like i'm agreed to doing this second second opinion about my
19:27fertility test yeah me and robert both because we were like why is she talking while you were like
19:33having a really vulnerable moment and that's what makes me so angry because later stacy can work
19:37this and florian like i'm so angry too because what the hell i i'm first person who come here and
19:45give
19:45your hand and say natalie let's be in this together let's let's work out not let it be enemy and
19:50first
19:51what you tell julia you're a fit i'm very glad that julia called natalie out natalie knew what she was
19:59doing all she care in life is to be the center of attention attention okay and by attention it could
20:09be
20:09good or bad she doesn't care as far as you giving her attention she's happy you could be yelling insulting
20:16her you know and you will feel like how she felt bad and now everybody's looking at her she will
20:22be
20:22happy she won't care about the insults she will be like okay no i'm in the spotlight look at me
20:29yeah
20:30that's natalie you don't need to be my friend just be here for respect everybody you're laughing when
20:36they're talking about this but i came here for sharing like real stuff inside me for two years
20:41i said i don't want i talk with therapists i don't want sharing the group anymore
20:48i'm sorry i'm so sorry i have my own issues and it has nothing to do with you and if
20:55i'm laughing
20:56believe me it's not about you the pressure i'm coping with sometimes comes to how i react i become
21:03childish it has nothing to do with you thank you for telling me because you're very honest and strong
21:08and i'm sorry do you forgive me yeah okay that was great guys i was surprised to hear vulnerable
21:15side of julia when she's like no it i care when i speak you laugh you affect me and i
21:21feel like an
21:22idiot and dumb because i did offend her and i feel like i was wrong i just said stupid thing
21:29and i apologize
21:30for that because some things even if you're enemies some things are just like so mean it was my mistake
21:38and i think i would yeah i would do differently now jasmine and gino where are we at right now
21:46we made a decision uh to move forward with an open marriage i'm kind of excited gino looks about it
21:57look at you're up right because i'm excited you look about it i mean i know jasmine has needs right
22:03and
22:04i i felt like i needed to take action now i'm not an expert on open relationships but i don't
22:11think it
22:11starts from the two people not having sex and one person going off to go have that year i feel
22:17like
22:17you're i think most open relationships the couple is having sex right you're having sex with someone
22:21else i feel like there's got to be something that brings you home maybe he doesn't suck toes the right
22:26way he just doesn't get the pinky toe like i need it and gino you're the only one that could
22:30ever get
22:31that pinky toe like i need it right maybe he looks at the right way and she realizes he was
22:37what she
22:37wanted all along and they come back together do it's gonna happen no i got i gotta say i don't
22:44think either of you guys are being realistic bro you really think that you're gonna be okay with it
22:50because she's got a guy lined up so as soon as y'all go home boom she she's out that
22:54night i can't help
22:55but notice how triggered rob is whenever we bring up polyamory uh especially how triggered he is at jasmine
23:03he seems to perceive jasmine as the manipulating cheater in this situation and he is outraged people who
23:15practice monogamy in unethical ways often look down on polyamorous people um because i think there is
23:25a bit of uh like resentment right the idea that people could talk about like being with other
23:34people and actually do it kind of raises their anxiety around oh well maybe i could be talking
23:41about my to my partner i think it triggers those folks who have faced infidelity a lot more josh where
23:49are you with things natalie needs somebody 100 all the time and um i'm scared to give that to her
23:59i felt anxious that whole day i what i remember because i knew that this was over and i'm just
24:07like waiting there and i'm like the last one to talk and so i'm like holding all this emotion
24:12and i'm like i hope now it's gonna be okay how is she gonna act like what's gonna happen is
24:16she
24:16gonna yell at me you know i didn't know i was in my head thinking the whole time is this
24:20the right
24:20decision and every time i thought about it it was like yeah man like you need to get out of
24:25here
24:26i do love you and i do care for you oh he said he loves me
24:33finally he said he loves me he would say privately he loves me but it never was captured on camera
24:38so it feels like he's he's not even saying that he loves me after three years but i do have
24:43to let
24:44you go
24:46it felt like relief you know because i realized that um there is no future for me and him you
24:56know you
24:57have a map of new york but you're working in l.a it never worked so there was no chance
25:02for me and
25:03josh reached the destination because i i was working in l.a with map on new york you understand
25:09like just wrong map it's just how he is he's emotionally unavailable guy natalie you're smiling
25:17what's going through your brain that is the most honest and clean moment with josh during our three
25:23years and three months and some days of we know each other all my things that triggered me was he
25:31was not
25:32honest what is he hiding i don't know you know some people are very private but he's acting so
25:39freaking suspicious that dude baby is fishy i say we rent a luxury car in honor of josh and we
25:47go drive
25:48to his house we do some surveillance first perhaps and then we knock on the door what do you think
25:52i
25:52agree just for curiosity and get to the bottom of all josh's lies
26:01so thank you i value honesty and i respect honesty and today maybe first time i could say i do
26:10respect
26:10you i was like that that doesn't seem like something a normal person would do when they
26:16get broken up with right so it surprised me at the same time i had to take a step back
26:20and say oh well
26:20it's natalie when did she do what you expect on brand for natalie would have been to stand up spit
26:25his face to say something and then and then storm off josh you waste three years of my life what
26:33i'm leaving honestly i'm not going to sit here anymore because you've wasted three years of my life
26:39oh the splash and then the model walk yes it's so chippy isn't it the strides are farther out yeah
26:47gonna have hit problems no it's it's like it's like what are like these big ass strides i don't
26:54know she has these long ass steps
27:01game time game time let's play some games you ready we are playing emoji translation in front of you there
27:10are magnet emoji so you will each depict a scene using those magnetic emojis something that happened
27:17at the last resort basically and you'll see if your partner can guess what it is oh that's so cool
27:22i see you first i like the eggplant emoji because it it means two things okay
27:33no no no let's okay i got it i got it got it got it got it let's
27:40yeah i think i'm good okay what is that i mean it's it's it's dynamic here like james obviously
27:51you see how dynamic here
27:55i can see someone is happy someone is smart this is happy he's smiling but he's evil well it's really
28:03not much to go off of here but i wouldn't i'm going to say that um florian is giving gino
28:11drinks and
28:12gino's real happy about it this is florian this is a stacy she was riding him like a stallion
28:27i don't understand the cherries she popped my cherry because we hadn't had sex in oh my god
28:33because it's like the surgery and everything and just like the trust issues it was super super spicy
28:40there was a little eggplant oh yeah little action yeah oh there you go yep get it up horsey
28:48yeehaw that was fun that was a fun night i love role playing i remember the competition like
28:53natalie and uh she's mad like she's going crazy like she's not happy for situation so i think maybe
29:01she's not natalie that's not what i'm thinking um brandon was shy and then he became sex man because
29:12he loves everyone and doesn't need to drink anymore jesus christ is that right it's right professional
29:21this little conniving evil laughing emoji that's josh and then and then this little ray of sunshine that's
29:29natalie yeah because she was happy that day because they were they were cheating to win
29:33yeah and this is their kayak and then this down here see the little the sad this this face right
29:39here that's me uh the bunny rabbit is sophie she's just funny she's just a bunny and then um well
29:46there
29:46was only one kayak so we were riding the eggplant yeah okay okay i got it what do you think
29:53i think in
29:55somebody is obviously somebody not leaking and angry in school oh got it got it sophie a rob talking
30:05sophie's about rob rob rob getting angry and run away to the desert to coyotes yeah
30:14good job yeah all right guys i'm going to show you some never before seen footage right now
30:22uh-oh this is gino and jasmine's sex therapy with arima ooh ooh i can't believe i'm having this
30:30conversation it seems like you've both come to this impasse where being intimate is not an option
30:39and divorce is not an option so so open marriage is the way forward right and so the question then
30:47becomes how do we set boundaries for around this that make both of you feel safe and secure moving
30:56forward not at all did i think that gino and jasmine were ready to open up right now so to
31:03hear that
31:03they've in 24 hours decided yes they want to move forward with an open relationship
31:11i was hesitant i was apprehensive at best but at the end of the day what i wanted to do
31:19in that
31:19session is convey to them how gravely important it is for them to be on the same page about how
31:26this
31:27is all going to work and it takes a lot of trust and commitment and communication the biggest one is
31:34if
31:34like if she feels like she's getting too close to this person we have to cut off the relationship i
31:43think okay which i agree okay because like if i want to protect my marriage okay like when you think
31:54about the number of times for example right how how many days a week i was thinking about proposing like
32:03twice a week okay and we can agree on the days and the timing if he tells me like i
32:11don't want you
32:12to be out of the house longer than three two four hours i have to stick to that i would
32:18be prefer
32:19cheating honestly me too how does that feel gino that sounds reasonable reasonable yeah so she should
32:28have a planner for have a sex day sex day yeah but what's what's the point of that like okay
32:34she's
32:35gonna have sex with another man anyway why does it matter if she has sex on monday or tuesday she's
32:39still
32:39gonna have sex with another man you don't know when you want to have sex it's like okay i'm late
32:46for
32:46my sex appointment like what about if she's horny on a thursday she just can't she's just nope no no
32:52no no
32:53just like that's just like that's so weird move your horn is stupid yeah i also wanted to ask to
33:01this open marriage i want gino to have at least once a week a romantic date with me in which
33:11he
33:12shows me that he's we are progressing on being affectionate so i hear you saying that you want gino
33:20to commit to weekly connection yeah of some kind so that you can start to build that emotional
33:27connection yes yeah i mean it's their life it's what they chose they both are agreeing to it but
33:36i don't know how they're gonna handle it that feels good to you gino yeah to build our emotional
33:41connection back yes okay i just know that an open marriage is not for everybody oh god it's just
33:50like too many rules and just why don't they just get a like divorce yeah i don't get it why
33:57i have
33:58only one questions why they keep doing it i don't know it's like they're torturing it's just it's it's
34:05disaster waiting to happen this is all very new for both of you yeah i know that it can be
34:12really
34:12uncomfortable these conversations are not easy but what's important is that you remain transparent
34:18with each other if you don't this could completely fall off the rails
34:26no no you guys are not open marriage material you don't think so no i know it sounds crazy
34:33it's crazy the whole idea of open marriage especially for me and jasmine but i say yes to
34:40open marriage she's happy for once i'm gonna be happy because she's not yelling and screaming at me do
34:49you think that you'll really be happy though we could come together over time and get rid of
34:57this open marriage get rid of this third person and that we could be happy together at some point
35:03you sound like a hopeless romantic right now is what you sound like you think so
35:08mm-hmm sounds like a fairy tale
35:16so would you rather date natalie or sophie me yeah oh for me like more natalie's
35:22is more honest more straight and sophie's gonna like sneaky and british people is going to you
35:28over in that same as one over in united states yeah british people it's a problem
35:39now natalie we are going to show you the chalk you had with josh on the patio after the last
35:50i mean at the beginning of this like i felt open to try but therapy you know it was just
35:57really
35:58eye-opening and i just think it's unfair to keep it going if i know that heart's not in it
36:09and going through like this resort and really thinking about like you know having her come in
36:16and opening up my life more and natalie you know still wanting a baby like i do know one thing
36:24i don't
36:24want a baby and so i think that i have just been looking down the wrong path you will always
36:32be
36:33someone very special to me and i just hope that you you know can understand that and i hope that
36:40you
36:40don't hate me josh breaking up with natalie is the nicest thing he could do for her because he's not
36:46stringing her along however i am concerned that maybe she'll still go back to him anyways even
36:55though he's made it clear that he doesn't want a relationship with her you just read my mind i don't
37:00think they're done because listen for three years that's exactly what josh and adalie been doing what we
37:08saw that day was just the end of that toxic cycle that is gonna lead to a new toxic cycle
37:16they are
37:17start like let's have sex just because we both have needs you know and somehow it initiates the toxic
37:23process of being again like we're together but we're not together are we boyfriend and girlfriend are
37:28we just friends with benefits the same yeah it's gonna start all over again
37:34i live by feelings and i have some beautiful moments with you
37:42but my heart doesn't belong to you
37:46i feel like it was a very right decision uh for both of us because i don't want uh
37:53man in my life especially a father of my child who will look for ways to make me look crazy
37:58i was so
37:59in love i couldn't see now my eyes are open i open my eyes i see josh for who he
38:05is and i i do deserve
38:07to have a family and he is not the right guy for family that's why we're different people i'm a
38:13family
38:14woman he's not a family man what else can we say different breed
38:21well i'm gonna give you some time and space here they both needed to hear this they both needed this
38:28moment this was a huge breakthrough
38:34you could see how they both sat there not just being vulnerable but almost in this softer place
38:41considering the arguments considered the heated moments that the two of them have to be able to
38:46end on that note to me that was success at the end of the day it didn't matter whether they
38:52reconnected or not that's not what we're weighing success on this is about how we're going to continue
38:56moving forward in our next relationships and i did see growth for both of them individually
39:02to me that's all that matters actually even more successful that they didn't recommit because we
39:07ended an unhealthy pattern to me huge a success he definitely meant a lot but i don't regret anything
39:18i can't make him feel what he feels it's his choice and he's free after he breaks up with me
39:28i find out
39:29that he lives with a girl and people say we spotted them on a plane flying the same direction we
39:35spotted them
39:35the bar we spotted them there and they keep saying to me the dude is dating another girl this is
39:40nasty
39:41and disgusting and i don't want to be a part of it he's not ever going to be a father
39:45of my child
39:45he's not ever going to be my husband or anyone no this is not a man i want i was
39:51a beautiful flower
39:52he came he saw oh nice flower he just take it he smiled few seconds oh it's a good flower
39:58oh it's another
39:59flower another flower another flower another flower another and that is nothing but it was life it was
40:05someone's life there well i'm a free person i'm a free woman you're free mama amen to that amen
40:19next time on between the sheets jasmine i'll see you when you get back to michigan
40:23okay to work out no to not work out to have sex i was like wow this is a point
40:32of of no return
40:33like this is actually happening i will have to have sex with another man that is not my husband
40:39i don't know if i'm gonna be able to do this i didn't kick her out man you got the
40:44story wrong
40:45bitch guys guys guys shut your mouth that night just come to my room did you talk to him i
40:52think
40:52gino regret everything what's in that little glasses i think gino regrets that whole relationship
40:58we are approaching our 10-year mark at times a part of me feels it's time to let you go
41:07i was floored like this was nothing in my mind that would have happened
41:13even though who you marry is not your dream man oh my god that's so sad i can't watch this
41:21you was happy with him i'm like wow like i need to treat myself better i need to have more
41:28love for
41:29myself i deserve happiness it just seems like such a simple thing but it was so big to me
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