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00:00Previously on This Is Pauly,
00:02me and y'all with Crystal, jealousy comes in between us.
00:05I have four queens that move as one queen.
00:08You sleep in her room most of the week.
00:10No, I don't.
00:11No, he doesn't.
00:12Y'all are like children.
00:14Getting back into Pauly right now,
00:16it almost makes me sick to my stomach.
00:18But to stop BQ from cheating and go to therapy,
00:22I need to give him a Pauly relationship.
00:26So why were you cheating?
00:27I had one girl that used to be her friend.
00:30When's the last time you slept with her?
00:32January, February.
00:33You lied to me because I'm an idiot that believes you.
00:35this.
00:37I'm so sorry, girl.
00:39I can't deal with this .
00:40I'm out.
00:42Family is everything.
00:44A lot of people see us as crazy, freak, orgy, swingers.
00:50Because of Pauly Amory, we lost a lot of family.
00:52You're talking about family, getting this together.
00:54But you are legally married.
00:58I haven't got the balls to file for a divorce yet.
01:03I decided to write an email to family and friends.
01:06We are coming out as Pauly for Nita.
01:09Then I've not heard from my family since.
01:12It's almost like they erased me.
01:14Oh, God.
01:31Oh, sounds like the kids are here.
01:34Hey, Kia.
01:35Hi, Dad.
01:36How are you?
01:37I'm Kia.
01:38I am the oldest daughter.
01:39I've gotten to be a part of this process of seeing Nita become a part of our family.
01:45Can you tell me how you really feel?
01:46When I first met Nita, I didn't know what to think.
01:50I assumed a lot about her.
01:52That all fell off once I actually got to know her.
01:55Well, how's your guys' week gone?
01:57It's been pretty good.
01:59Work?
01:59Yeah.
02:00Work's going good?
02:01Didn't both of you start in your job?
02:03All three of you.
02:04Yeah.
02:06Yeah.
02:06Yeah.
02:06Yeah.
02:08I am Tayo, and I am Trent and Cammie's oldest son, and this is my wife, Hannah.
02:12At the start, we were not as close with Nita, but we all have a great appreciation for each
02:20other now.
02:21It's been a lot of new over here.
02:22It's coming out as a throuple and all of that change.
02:25Yeah.
02:25Yeah.
02:26It's been...
02:26We really wanted to talk to you guys about that.
02:28Like...
02:29Yep.
02:32I had to take a deep breath there.
02:35Has the announcement affected you guys at all, like, personally?
02:39For me, there hasn't been any difference.
02:42I think for me, it's been more relieving, because obviously we've known you guys have
02:46been a throuple for a while, and so not having to safeguard, just calling Nita your friend
02:53instead of...
02:53Right.
02:54...that you guys are together.
02:58I feel like that has really helped.
03:00It gives us more freedom to just be us and not have to worry about who might see us or
03:04anything like that.
03:05Yeah.
03:06So, yeah.
03:07That is a big part of it.
03:08You know, we chose to come out as a throuple, and none of them chose that, but they're our
03:13children.
03:14They're wonderful.
03:14It's been amazing to have them be part of our supporters.
03:17We couldn't be more thrilled.
03:19Yeah.
03:19I mean, because that's been one thing that's been a little shocking is the silence, too,
03:23from a lot of close people to us.
03:25It's just absolutely nothing, like we dropped off the face of the planet.
03:29Being curious more than being judgmental is what we would have loved.
03:33I mean, just a few years ago, we probably wouldn't all be sitting here so comfortably.
03:38Right.
03:38Yeah.
03:39That is true.
03:39Me, definitely not.
03:43I would say probably out of all the kids, I was the most religious and the most connected
03:47to church.
03:48It's been a process.
03:49They sat down with us and they told the entire story from the very beginning up until the
03:54present, and so that was very helpful, just that they were so open with each of us.
03:58But you guys have no idea how special it's been for the support you guys provide.
04:03I don't think we could have made it.
04:04Yeah.
04:04You know, without your .
04:06No .
04:07I'll second that notion.
04:09Yeah.
04:09Well, it's the fruit of your love for us.
04:12Like, we just get a return, the love that you've always been giving to us and just the
04:17full acceptance and the encouragement to be who we are.
04:21I can't remember a time where I didn't have your guys' support in anything.
04:24You're killing me.
04:26You're dying over here.
04:28And you've done that for us too, Nita.
04:30You've been so kind through the whole process.
04:33I mean, yes.
04:34You're such a good mom.
04:35You're such a good mom.
04:37Well, one other thing I wanted to bring up and talk about, you know, the three of us have
04:41been communicating and talking about, we want to have a commitment ceremony.
04:45Like, you know, we'd love to have all friends and family that support us be there and, you
04:50know, all of that.
04:50We realized that we want this not for the short term, but for the long term.
04:55So we decided we wanted to have a commitment ceremony.
04:58With the ceremony, I think it needs to reflect all three of us and be really cohesive.
05:06Yeah.
05:06And with that, you can totally say no, Teo, but just think about it.
05:10If you'd be up for officiating it.
05:15I would definitely do that.
05:17Yeah?
05:17Yeah.
05:17That would be really nice.
05:18You guys officiated our wedding.
05:21I'm gonna, like, return the favor.
05:24That would be amazing.
05:25Oh my gosh.
05:26That's so, that's so special.
05:28Yeah, you can count me in for that.
05:29You guys are an amazing family.
05:31So thank you.
05:35Get emotional about that.
05:37They don't have to support us like that, like they are.
05:40And it's wonderful that he said yes.
05:42All this means a lot, guys.
05:44Yeah.
05:45Yeah.
05:45We love you, Anita.
05:48Thanks for letting us into your world.
05:51They make me feel that I found my sense of family.
05:54You know, and I didn't even know what it looked like.
05:57I mean, it's hard to identify some you've never seen it before.
06:00You know?
06:02But like, that's what family's supposed to be like.
06:04Kia can be the photographer.
06:05Yeah.
06:07Nita has quite a bit of trauma from before she actually came to live with us.
06:12I feel like it's in, like, the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow-type thing.
06:15I mean, their support means the world to me.
06:17I came from dirt poor, like, rough neighborhood, rough upbringing.
06:23And it was always you stood alone.
06:25You know what I mean?
06:25You come to this world alone and you die alone.
06:28And now I don't feel alone anymore in this world.
06:44I've come bearing gifts.
06:46Oh, my goodness.
06:47Hey!
06:49Hi!
06:49Is it so cute?
06:51Hello.
06:54Today is the day of our gender reveal.
06:57I'm really excited to find out, you know, what we're having.
07:00All girls doing that.
07:01Do you guys want cupcakes?
07:02Oh, that's why.
07:03Yes!
07:04Come get one.
07:05You got it.
07:06Don't throw away your cup if you want more soda.
07:09I didn't have a cup like this.
07:11Oh, you threw it in the trash?
07:12Yeah.
07:13The queens planned this for me, and this is just a little taste of what they do.
07:17You know, I really want to thank y'all for putting this together.
07:19That's Yahweh Mari.
07:21That was all of us.
07:23Yahweh Crystal and Yahweh Mari had their tension, but we're always going to still come together for each other.
07:29So today, we're going to push all that BS to the side and focus on Yahweh Deboche and the new
07:33baby.
07:34So what do you think we're having, guys?
07:36A boy.
07:37A girl.
07:38Which number of Yahweh is this coming into the world?
07:40This will be the 18th Yahweh.
07:42I think it's the 19th.
07:44Well, no, I think we have 17 children.
07:47The 18th.
07:48Are you guys ready?
07:49Y'all ready?
07:49Yes.
07:50You ready?
07:51Let's see.
07:51Come on.
07:54Let's see.
07:55Let's see.
07:57Ah!
07:59Oh!
08:02Coming up.
08:03The more you lie, the more I can't stand you.
08:06This is.
08:08How is the family?
08:10Do y'all miss me?
08:11Like...
08:12This is not normal.
08:14I do want you to sleep with me more often.
08:16And hello, of course I want to go out on dates.
08:18We barely go out anywhere.
08:19I want the same thing.
08:20But realistically, look what relationship you're in.
08:22Is you built for this relationship?
08:24Maybe it's not built for you.
08:29Are you guys ready?
08:31Y'all ready?
08:32Yes.
08:33Let's see.
08:34Come on.
08:35Let's see.
08:48I knew it!
08:53We having a girl.
08:54I knew it.
08:57I knew it.
08:58I knew it.
09:01It's not just me and her baby.
09:02You know, it's the family's baby.
09:04You know, it belongs to all of us.
09:06It's our child.
09:08I'm going to need the help.
09:10You're going to have a baby sister.
09:11You hear me?
09:13You hear me?
09:15You got a little sister coming, man.
09:17You got a sister coming, buddy.
09:20We're having a new baby, and it is exciting.
09:23But it's also bittersweet for me.
09:25I am a mom.
09:27Y'all, Mikayla, is my biological child.
09:29I just haven't been able to have a baby, would y'all put it?
09:33Everyone keeps having babies, and it's never me.
09:36I just feel like there's something wrong with me,
09:39and it just makes me sad.
09:41You know?
09:42Everyone else works right.
09:44And so it's just like it's just me.
09:46I just want to check in.
09:48I know, like, I had my baby.
09:52Then Yahi Crystal had her baby.
09:53Now Yahi Dabash is having her baby.
09:55So I just want to make sure you're okay,
09:58because I know that's something you want,
10:01we all want for you.
10:03It's like I'm happy for us and our family,
10:06but I'm also grieving myself.
10:09I get it.
10:10I'm a woman, you know?
10:11I feel like I'm not working right,
10:16and I'm not able to.
10:17No, that's what women are meant to do.
10:19So, you know?
10:21It's like I'm just not able to do it.
10:22I don't want to cry.
10:23Oh, man.
10:28Can we do IVF?
10:30Well, my doctor said I would need to go to a specialist.
10:35But realistically, let's say I do have to go through the IVF route.
10:38That's not cheap.
10:39If you told me one-on-one, like, hey,
10:41I really want to try IVF, right?
10:44Then I would know to say, hey, let me kind of see how we can budget it.
10:49Yahweh Dabash and I handle the finances.
10:52We pool all of our incomes together.
10:55We have to figure out how to make the IVF happen.
10:58I'm down for trying IVF.
11:00Depends what's going on with our family as a whole.
11:03I don't feel that I'm selfish for wanting a baby.
11:06We have three new babies in the house.
11:08We have a new baby coming.
11:10Let's say I do have to go through the IVF route.
11:12That's not cheap.
11:13I think it's maybe time to open up that conversation
11:15if that's something that you really want.
11:16I know the last time I spoke to him, he said, you know,
11:19at the time is not the time.
11:22I really don't know what to do.
11:24It's kind of like I'm just waiting and seeing and praying.
11:38I want to build my own family.
11:43So we'll be out here in these streets.
11:46Trying to add to the roster of our Polly family.
11:50Tonight we meeting this girl, Dreece.
11:52She been trying to see if it's going to go down in the DM.
11:55So we told her, hold on, little baby.
11:56We need a date first.
11:58I'm the baddest.
11:58Who the baddest?
11:59I'm the baddest.
12:01You ready for this date?
12:03Yeah, I am.
12:04Come on, let's see.
12:06I already know too much about golf,
12:08but we're going to learn the day.
12:09The beginning of her trial run.
12:11And it can end fast.
12:13It's up to her.
12:13Got an ass back there.
12:15That's a plus.
12:16Let me see how you bend over while you hit.
12:18We got to give her a little one.
12:19Put the wood on there.
12:21What?
12:21I'm like, okay.
12:23Let me see what you got.
12:25Missed that .
12:28Missed it.
12:28She look good, she smell good, she dress good, but she not hit a golf ball for .
12:36This actually not a bad thing.
12:38We want her not to be good with balls.
12:42So I have a couple of questions I want to ask you.
12:46It's time for the question and answer segment.
12:48What is your sexual orientation?
12:52Oh, I'm a lesbian.
12:53I'll try the man before.
12:55How long ago?
12:5622.
12:57Fresh.
13:01I like that.
13:02That's purified.
13:03Yeah.
13:04Tell me how solid you is.
13:06Like my thighs.
13:07My thighs.
13:08Yeah, you made me up.
13:12It's not about the way you look.
13:14You got to have the right answers.
13:16I wanted to have a backbone, but I don't want to have conflict.
13:20Do you dance?
13:21Well, like, shake my ass.
13:22Are you adventurous?
13:23They coming like the Fast and the Furious.
13:25Are you a bitch?
13:27Hell no.
13:28Let me write that down.
13:29You got to be going with the speed, the flash.
13:31We coming.
13:31Like, let's go.
13:32Have you ever been to jail?
13:33Once.
13:34We want to know if you're a druggie.
13:36We want to know if you've been to the psych ward.
13:40No 72 hour hoes.
13:41Hell no.
13:42People be hiding in your closet after they leave.
13:45I don't like that.
13:46Are you an animal lover?
13:47I have a dog.
13:48I don't like cats, though.
13:51Ain't that the reason you here?
13:54We a lot to handle.
13:56What's your sexual fetish?
13:57Like, what you like?
13:58I like my ass .
14:03That's mandatory.
14:04Yeah.
14:05I ain't never the ass that big.
14:08So I kind of shook a little bit, like, ugh.
14:12OK, Bri, you take one cheek.
14:13I take one cheek.
14:14We going to get done.
14:15No, for real.
14:17Overall, it definitely was a connection made tonight.
14:20Yes.
14:20Definitely feeling you.
14:21Yeah.
14:22Thank you, baby.
14:22It's very much so a vibe.
14:24I like the way we look at each other's eyes.
14:25For sure.
14:26When you look at my eyes, that means you serious.
14:28That's a big thing for me, and she hit that.
14:30I like her.
14:31People touch me.
14:32The next step is inviting her around the girls,
14:36having them all in the same room.
14:38Come on, let's get out of here and get a drink.
14:39OK, baby.
14:55Good morning.
14:57Hi.
15:00Yeah, I slept on the couch.
15:02I felt like I just needed to be away from him.
15:05What the was that about?
15:07What?
15:08I felt like I got ganged the up on, now that's fine.
15:10It was a date.
15:11She asked a question.
15:11That was not a date.
15:13She asked a kind of date is that?
15:14Nobody even made out.
15:16That was the furthest thing from a date.
15:17If anything, that was me getting kicked in the for an hour.
15:21Last night was not fun.
15:23Well, I found out the truth, finally,
15:26so I think it went wonderful.
15:28When's the last time you slept with her?
15:30January, February.
15:31Why did you lie to me that you weren't with her?
15:33Hell of a first date.
15:37Four years ago, BQ started an affair with a coworker of his.
15:41This woman and I actually ended up becoming really good friends.
15:45After I found out about their relationship,
15:47he told me that it was just an emotional thing,
15:50that they never had sex.
15:52I, for whatever reason, believed him.
15:54Well, listen, I think it was something that I was probably
15:57already known about.
15:58No, no, no, no, no.
16:01I'm trying to think to myself why I can't be faithful, you know?
16:03I've never been faithful to one girl in my entire life.
16:07So although it may seem like I don't care about her,
16:09I don't love her, it's not the case at all.
16:12I love her, I've been with her eight years.
16:14And I think what I need is work on this problem that I have.
16:18You literally, like, have fought with me for four years tooth and nail,
16:24convincing me that nothing happened.
16:26It was more of an emotional relationship.
16:28Wouldn't you rather more of a physical relationship than an emotional one?
16:32No, I'd rather you not lie to me and tell me the truth when I ask you.
16:35Definitely was not cool with going on a date with a girl,
16:37and you're going to cause a ruckus like that.
16:40You don't have f***ing bad.
16:41I'm sorry f***ing going to get involved with that.
16:43She needs to know the truth because she's going to get caught up.
16:45Yeah, but not on a first date.
16:46Why?
16:46Because it's not right.
16:48You're bringing somebody into our world that's not supposed to be.
16:52Why would I bring someone else into something f***ed up?
16:55BQ would because he doesn't give a f***,
16:56but I don't want someone else to feel what I feel for a second ever.
17:01I'm done with Polly right now.
17:02We have to go to therapy.
17:04And if you don't agree to therapy, then it's over.
17:06I don't know what to tell you.
17:07That's it.
17:07There's nothing else to do.
17:08Well, I think you're going about it the wrong way.
17:10I don't think so.
17:10I think you went around it the wrong way,
17:12and now you have to deal with the consequences.
17:14I don't understand how we're going to bring up old s***
17:16and it's going to prevent me from doing new s***.
17:19Obviously, the polyamory relationship is something she knows that I'm going to need.
17:24If she doesn't want to supply that for me,
17:25then honestly, I don't f*** if I have a future here, to be honest with you.
17:28I think I need more.
17:29I'm pretty admitted to s***.
17:30I don't understand why the f*** this is such a big s*** deal.
17:33Because she was my friend.
17:34She was in my house.
17:35She stood right here and told me she loves me like a sister next to you.
17:38So, yes, poly is off the table.
17:42I've never made it clear to BQ, like, no poly.
17:47Like, I just always felt like if I took it off the table completely, like, he would leave.
17:51It's like, what am I scared of?
17:53I should be able to get what I want out of this relationship, too.
17:57It's not going to be one-sided anymore.
17:58It's been one-sided for eight years.
18:01You look at it like it was a real, like, relationship like that?
18:03It was a real relationship.
18:04It ruined us.
18:05Yeah, well, no.
18:05It ruined us.
18:06So, it was a real relationship.
18:08To me, it was just like a f***ing side piece.
18:09If it was a side piece, then it wouldn't have ruined us like the other hundred side pieces you asked.
18:14But this was a four-year relationship.
18:15It's different.
18:17I don't want to share anyone.
18:19And, like, I'm starting to realize that now.
18:21So, maybe you guys should just get back together.
18:22God, f***ing.
18:24There's so much that I wouldn't have done if it wasn't him.
18:27And he took advantage of that, knowing that he can get me to do these things because of my love
18:33for him.
18:33And these are not things that are good for me.
18:36You two liars can be liars together and make liar babies and go live a liar life.
18:42The more you lie, the more I f***ing can't stand you.
18:45I don't know.
18:46I don't know.
18:47Then it looks like...
18:48Then stop lying.
18:49That's the answer.
18:51Yeah, so we need therapy.
18:53Because I don't lie.
18:54That's why I said this poly life is going to fix everything.
18:56The poly life only happened because you were f***ing this b***h.
18:59No.
19:00That's why it happened.
19:01And you promised that you weren't going to f***ing cheat on me anymore.
19:04That you were done with that s***.
19:05No poly and therapy.
19:07Right now.
19:09f***ing poly, f***ing therapy.
19:11Kiss my f***ing ass.
19:12I got to get the f***ing part because someone's paid a f***ing bills.
19:15Go.
19:17Coming up...
19:18Y'all cut me completely the f*** off.
19:21Things got weird with Marley when she started becoming poly.
19:23I just want you to accept what I got going on, my wife.
19:27That is not your wife.
19:29I wanted more equal time and yeah, more sex.
19:32That is not realistic, so maybe this not built for you.
19:35I'm done.
19:36I'm cutting.
19:48So tonight I'm meeting my sister China.
19:50My goal is to get back into my family graces.
19:54I haven't spoken to my family on and off three years, four years.
19:58Ever since I've been poly, my family like, I'm counted out.
20:03I'm not brought up in conversation.
20:05I just want my family back together.
20:07I just want me to be able to be involved in holidays and things like that.
20:12So maybe this is the start of something.
20:14Where you at?
20:15I'm up here getting ready to meet China.
20:17For real?
20:18Yes.
20:18How you feel?
20:21How am I supposed to feel?
20:23You know, I haven't seen my sister.
20:24I'm just nervous how it's going to go.
20:27Do you think that she's still going to the extra party?
20:31Like the lights that we have?
20:32I mean, we only have to see.
20:36But I don't want to fight no more.
20:38If the option on the table that we don't have to fight, I'm with that.
20:41I miss my family.
20:42I don't want them to see me as a weirdo.
20:47China's not my blood sister.
20:48China is just like a good friend of the family.
20:52Marley?
20:53China.
20:54Look, she's been around since we were little.
20:56We grew up together.
20:57We like family.
20:58How you been?
20:59I've been great.
21:00How are you?
21:01How's your family?
21:03What do we call it?
21:06Things got weird with Marley when she started becoming poly.
21:09Our family is traditional.
21:10Husband and wife, you know, married family.
21:13So this is extremely hard.
21:15My poly family, we're good.
21:17How is the family?
21:19We're good.
21:20Do y'all miss me?
21:21Of course we miss you.
21:23Y'all cut me completely the off.
21:25You're not understanding the situation that you're putting us in.
21:28It's a lot to take in.
21:29But what are you taking in but your sister?
21:31Well, it's not just my sister anymore.
21:33What do you want us to tell people when they're asking us about all this?
21:37People.
21:38But at the same time, people still have questions.
21:40People still don't understand.
21:41This is not normal.
21:42You see what I'm saying?
21:44They don't take poly serious.
21:46She don't understand my lifestyle, but it's not for her to understand.
21:49It's for her to understand her sister and our sister bond.
21:52I just want you to accept what I got going on.
21:55My wife?
21:55That is not your wife.
21:58She will be.
21:59Okay.
22:01Okay.
22:02I see this bitch brought her attitude with her.
22:04You don't think so?
22:05Do you see what I'm dealing with here?
22:06The cold shoulder, the ugh.
22:09People are asking me, what's going on?
22:10What's your, what does Marley them people?
22:12You're my sister.
22:13But at the end of the day, I still have to deal with that.
22:15I don't know what to tell these people.
22:16Are you embarrassed?
22:17Yeah.
22:17You don't have to tell them.
22:18Oh, this sister and her girlfriends and her wife.
22:21Do I ask you who you get from?
22:23Do I ask you who you're ?
22:25You're choosing to bring all these different people in.
22:27We don't know who you're dealing with.
22:29I mean, you're choosing strippers, dancers, people of the night.
22:31Every time I turn around, it's another bitch walking in.
22:34Outside looking in, it's like a circus.
22:36Circus?
22:37It's who I have on a wig?
22:39Is my nose red?
22:40Is my shoes big?
22:41It's no circus.
22:42It's my real life and I'm standing on that.
22:45You're not normal and this is not normal, but you want us to act like it's normal.
22:48I'm different, but I'm still your sister at the end of the day.
22:51I want you guys to love me like I love y'all.
22:55Accept them like I accept y'all.
22:57I'll talk to them, but that's all I can do.
22:59I'm going to try my hardest to get our family on board, but the truth is, they don't want
23:04to hear it.
23:05I just want unity.
23:06I just want love and know that the family God gave me and the family that I'm building,
23:10I want that together.
23:11I came, I laid my piece on the table, balls in they court.
23:15You just have to understand you can't just act like this is just some regular .
23:20I just want to get everything back on track to where we can all be a family.
23:23They can come and show them that polyamory is a normal relationship.
23:27This is your normal.
23:28This is okay for you.
23:29But just understand, as normal as it is to you, this is not normal to society.
23:38I've been hitting walls you keep on building, wasting time cause I just keep on chasing,
23:46lost myself in your maze but that's ending.
23:51You like these nails?
23:53You want to call daddy?
23:59Yo.
23:59What do you mean yo?
24:00I mean yo.
24:02What up?
24:03Where have you been?
24:04I haven't heard from you.
24:06I'm working.
24:07Well, what the am I going to be doing?
24:09I just wanted to see what you were up to.
24:11I haven't heard from you.
24:11You just stormed out and haven't, I haven't heard from you.
24:15Um, well, you know, uh, just how things have been and the conversation, um, wasn't too
24:21much liking.
24:22So you just don't talk things out.
24:24You just run from the problem and you go.
24:27Like how are you supposed to fix something if you don't talk about it?
24:29You just walk away from everything.
24:30I could be good and you'll still lose your .
24:34How do you know that?
24:35Cause you've never been good.
24:35I mean, listen, I, I called you because I just got a text from the landlord.
24:41And we need to move out within 60 days.
24:44They're selling the house.
24:45Oh my God.
24:48We have bigger issues here.
24:50Like where are we going to live?
24:51I don't really give a right now.
24:53It is what it is.
24:54You should care because you have a family here.
24:56You have dogs.
24:57You have me.
24:57You need to care about what's going on.
24:59You don't just say you don't care.
25:01We need a place to live.
25:03And this is why we need to talk.
25:04You can't just sit there, run away from everything.
25:06I don't need to do anything right now.
25:08I just got out of work.
25:09I'm going to the gym.
25:11Oh, so you just got out of work.
25:11So what are you doing?
25:12What are you going to do?
25:13I'm going to the gym.
25:14Like always.
25:15What time will you be home anyway?
25:1711 o'clock.
25:1811 o'clock.
25:18I'll see you right after the gym.
25:20Cause I do need to talk to you and we have things to do.
25:21I'm looking forward to it.
25:23Bye.
25:25Always.
25:27Come here.
25:27Come here, Angel.
25:28Your dad's .
25:29He doesn't care about where we live.
25:35Yo, what's up my bro?
25:36What you up to?
25:37What you trying to do?
25:38I just got out of work.
25:39Yo, my girls piss me off, yo.
25:41Like usual and you know, cause I'm always on my .
25:43Oh my God.
25:44Yeah, yeah, yeah.
25:45So I need a drink.
25:46I need a drink.
25:48How about yo, you meet me up at the spot?
25:50I'm free.
25:50I'm free right now.
25:51Let's do it.
25:51Word, bet.
25:52Okay, we outside.
25:54Let's get it.
25:54Let's get it.
25:55Let's see if daddy is really going to the gym.
25:58I put a tracker in his car because I am not getting laid by this dude.
26:03He's a cheater.
26:05It looks like he's not going to the gym.
26:07Did we know that already?
26:10Of course he's not.
26:13Coming up, we are having a pool party celebrating coming out as a throuple.
26:18I don't think any of our family is going to be coming.
26:20I actually haven't gotten a response.
26:22Yeah, me neither.
26:30I can do better than that.
26:32I can do better than that.
26:33I can do better than that.
26:33We need the L.
26:34Yep.
26:35Go this way.
26:35L-O-V-E.
26:36There we go.
26:37We are having a pool party celebrating coming out as a throuple.
26:41Looks good.
26:42We just wanted to celebrate us.
26:44I have not heard from any of our family.
26:47It was just us here.
26:48As far as the number of people, it may be pretty slim.
26:52A lot of people have declined or haven't responded.
26:55I don't think any of our family is going to be coming and I actually haven't gotten a response.
26:59Yeah, me neither.
27:00This is actually really going to also tell us who's supporting us and who we can count on as friends
27:05right now.
27:14I actually love being the friend that has parents who are in a throuple.
27:21All of my friends love them.
27:22Polyamory.
27:23It's just like, I think it's great.
27:25You're celebrating it.
27:26True.
27:26Thanks.
27:27It's okay to be different.
27:28I am polyamorous as well.
27:31I do have multiple partners.
27:33You guys have different, more open minds than, you know, my era.
27:39With Zoe, we really trust her.
27:41We help her navigate her relationships.
27:44You guys ready for foam?
27:45Man, let's do it.
27:49This is awesome.
27:51Oh my gosh.
27:53I don't know if it's a poly thing.
27:55I don't know about that.
27:56But with us, whenever we do anything, there's foam.
28:07I'd love it if we didn't have to do the PG version.
28:09You were wearing nothing but bubbles and heels.
28:10But you know, I'll use my imagination.
28:13I'll try to use my imagination.
28:16We just wanted to take a moment and thank you guys for joining us.
28:19So, the last few weeks have been quite challenging, you know, quite emotional.
28:27So, it means the world for us to have you guys supporting us right now.
28:31Congratulations.
28:33All 12 of you.
28:34Obviously, we knew that there was going to be a lot of people that just wouldn't be supportive.
28:38But it has been very difficult, you know, having family, you know, pretty much reject us.
28:42But it is what it is.
28:43And, you know, we're really blessed that the people that did show up, showed up.
28:47We have one other announcement.
28:50We actually are talking about doing a commitment ceremony.
28:55It'll be in the future, but we wanted you guys to know.
28:58We would love for you all to be there.
29:00And we will send out invites and all of that.
29:02Thank you so much, Craig.
29:04We feel very loved and supported by everybody who came here tonight.
29:07We know there's going to be naysayers out there.
29:09But we're really excited about the future.
29:13Yay!
29:22Everybody look out for themselves.
29:30Hey.
29:31Good morning.
29:33How you feeling?
29:35Good.
29:35Good morning.
29:37Got us some coffee.
29:39Hey.
29:41What you up?
29:43After meeting with Chyna last night, you see these eyes?
29:46I had to get them together because I was up all night crying all night.
29:51I know you came in late, so what happened?
29:53That bitch called me a clown.
29:58Bitch.
29:59What?
30:00Come on, bro.
30:01I respect family, but that was like a little bit too far.
30:05You ain't headbutter.
30:07Then she don't like me calling you my wife.
30:09I said my wife.
30:10She's, that's not your wife.
30:12That's not your wife.
30:14I don't want no problems, but she right a little bit.
30:18The biggest obstacle with me and Marley right now is her and this divorce.
30:22She says, I love him.
30:24I understand love, but are you ready to fully be happy or are you going to still be stuck in
30:30that loophole?
30:31I don't have to alter my life to make my family comfortable.
30:34What if it's not just your sister?
30:36What if everybody feel that way?
30:39Oh, we can be clowns and we can be a circus act, but she's right about the divorce?
30:44Pick a side, Bri.
30:45Like, we leave room for people to talk.
30:49I'm fixing it.
30:50I'm definitely fixing it.
30:52You take full accountability.
30:53Like, it's cool.
30:54We finna get this together.
30:56Don't come to me with that .
31:00Coming up.
31:02She's always around.
31:03Every single night.
31:04That's your favorite.
31:05So maybe this not built for you.
31:10Oh, and I'm .
31:11If you go back in there, it's over, baby.
31:13Well, you know what?
31:14Go .
31:14It's over.
31:15It's over.
31:15It's over.
31:16Remember that.
31:17It's over.
31:17It's over.
31:18Stop.
31:19Stop.
31:19Stop.
31:19Just stop.
31:20I'm done here.
31:30What's up, my boy?
31:31This is my friend, Pauly.
31:32So we're going to put Pauly aside and we're going to ride with Pauly.
31:36We appreciate you coming out for real, bro.
31:37Let's go.
31:38The time has finally come.
31:40Trying to turn it up.
31:42Ay, ay, ay, ay, ay, ay.
31:46I am who they want, yeah.
31:47I am one of one.
31:49Ay, ay, ay, ay, yeah.
31:52I am who they want, yeah.
31:54I am one of one.
31:55Ay, ay, ay, ay.
31:58I am one of one, yeah.
31:59Trying to turn it up.
32:01Stop from the beginning.
32:02Don't leave out .
32:04Let's go.
32:05Like, don't around.
32:06Pauly's like my man saw me.
32:08You know, he's just, we just connect.
32:09We vibe.
32:10He makes me feel better.
32:11You know, he doesn't judge.
32:12Because I tend to get a little crazy.
32:14I'm not like your typical, hey, man, let's go out for a drink kind of guy.
32:17I'm like, let's go out for a drink and come home two days later half naked.
32:21You know, my chick is bugging.
32:22She's wilding out because, you know, I'm outside, you know, around or whatever.
32:26And, you know, only is going to make me stay straight or whatever.
32:29It's just adding a third girl into my relationship.
32:32Even in the Bible, they have more than one wife.
32:34Is this alcohol talking or is this real talking?
32:36It's a little bit of alcohol, most facts.
32:39What do you think of this polyamorous life?
32:40I want to do it too.
32:44The problem is I told her that I was intimate, or should I say, a.k.a. her friend.
32:52Her friend?
32:53Bro, you're lucky she didn't cut your off.
32:55Bro, I slept with one eye open.
32:57Why are they just together?
32:59We're going to it all up.
33:00I went from step one to five, skipping two, three, four.
33:04Do you think this is, you know, a self-inflicted wound?
33:06What do you think of when he tells you this story?
33:09Polyamorous is a thing.
33:12I think he's...
33:18So, yeah, so everyone relieves their pain differently.
33:21You shouldn't judge unless it's illegal.
33:23I do understand what does happen behind closed doors.
33:28You realize you didn't answer the question at all, right?
33:30Maybe not.
33:31I have been drinking.
33:35So, now we got big problems.
33:36And honestly, dude, like, yo, I don't even know if I even want to be there anymore.
33:40You know what I'm...
33:40She's still mad, bro.
33:41Nah, Mina loves you, bro.
33:42I know.
33:42Mina loves you, bro.
33:43She'll forgive me for that.
33:44You just got to do right after that, you know?
33:46I know. I'm trying.
33:47But my problem is this.
33:50I like women.
33:52I love them.
33:54Do you love her, love her?
33:55Like, love her, love her?
33:56I do love her.
33:57There's nobody for me like her.
33:59If you love Mina, you know, don't just bounce on her and go with some other bitch.
34:04all that.
34:05You know, if you're going to do the poly thing, be poly together.
34:09And fix it.
34:09Yeah, just be honest.
34:11The honesty thing is going to help everything.
34:13Talking to Pauly, too, I realized that, you know what, the solution to things is not maybe all the other
34:17women.
34:17I feel like maybe I got to work on myself a little bit, and I have to maybe be honest
34:21more with not only other people, but with myself.
34:24All the girls just got here.
34:25Oh, great. We're staying.
34:27Yeah.
34:28Dropped five racks on a bag, had to have it.
34:30Mama raised a lady, daddy turned me to a savage.
34:32Green like Sally, ass cheeks patty.
34:35Moved to the birds, but I still get ratchet, ratchet, ratchet, ratchet, ratchet, ratchet.
34:47Oh, my God.
34:49Oh, and I'm .
34:50Oh, one second.
34:58What's up?
34:59We are here.
35:02Oh, my God.
35:04Oh, and I'm .
35:05I'm having a good time, man.
35:08and I'm feeling this girl's butt cheeks in my face,
35:10and then boom, my girl walks in the bitch.
35:13I thought I was C .
35:15My girl looks like a stripper,
35:16so I'm like, what the is that?
35:18Oh, one second.
35:20You're at the gym, right?
35:21You're at the gym, you're at the gym?
35:22You're at the gym?
35:23Chill, chill, chill.
35:24She will raise mother up.
35:26She's Pakistani, they don't play.
35:28Yo, bro, what happened?
35:30Oh my God.
35:32I sipped the out for a minute, what the ?
35:34Why are you here?
35:35You said you were at the gym.
35:38You said you were at the gym.
35:39Is this?
35:39It's a tracker.
35:41Well, tracker?
35:42Yeah, because you obviously don't have the life, bro.
35:45You want to have a poly relationship?
35:47You should bring me here, not your dude.
35:50What, do you want to have a poly relationship with him?
35:52you, bro.
35:52Just get the out of here.
35:53You're here to go meet other chicks, right?
35:55No, I'm not, I'm just getting a drink.
35:58You weren't, you had an ass in your face.
35:59That's because this just happens to have girls
36:01when you're drinking.
36:02No, you lie about everything.
36:04You told me you're going to the gym.
36:05You're not at the gym.
36:07I'm absolutely sick of this.
36:08I can go anywhere.
36:09I go to the post office,
36:10and she'll pop out of the post office machine,
36:12and be like, what are you doing here by yourself?
36:13I'm not doing that .
36:14I'm living life that way.
36:15I'm at the strip joint, let me live.
36:17This is crazy.
36:18Because you have no idea what it is to be in a relationship,
36:22how to be a man, to take care of-
36:23So they gave me another girl, and I don't need to do this.
36:25You had an affair the whole time,
36:27I gave you a poly relationship.
36:29So you don't deserve it again,
36:30especially after this .
36:31You do everything-
36:32I gotta get my head straight.
36:33You haven't had-
36:34I haven't been happier.
36:35Oh, so butt cheeks gonna make your head straight?
36:36Um, I am a man.
36:38So unfortunately, yeah, it's gonna make me happy.
36:40I had a drink.
36:40I have butt cheeks.
36:41Why don't you try putting your head in my-
36:42But I'm not a girl.
36:43It doesn't matter.
36:45It's not just .
36:46It's you lying, it's you gaslighting me,
36:48it's you everything.
36:49Nothing is the truth with you.
36:51Pauly's there, so.
36:52If you go back in there, it's over.
36:54Well, you know what?
36:54Go yourself and it's over.
36:56It's over.
36:56It's over.
36:57Remember that, it's over.
36:58It's over.
37:00It's over.
37:02Stop, stop, stop, just stop.
37:04You guys leave me the phone, I'm done.
37:06I'm done here.
37:13So now that I took Yahweh and Crystal out on a date,
37:16and I know we're all good, now I'm taking Yahweh and Maddie out
37:19so I can try to make sure we good.
37:21Look at that.
37:22That's so beautiful.
37:23Thank you for bringing me.
37:25Maybe that could help balance some things out with them two.
37:29I'm glad we was able to spend some kind of time with y'all.
37:32Me too.
37:33Yeah.
37:33You know, I just miss that.
37:35Yeah.
37:36Heart.
37:36Ooh.
37:39It's going to make me lose focus.
37:41But you know, our schedules are so different.
37:43I just really wanted some time.
37:46I know we want to have a baby, and you just
37:48ain't been able to hang one.
37:51But you know, let's keep working on it like we've been doing.
37:53Let's see if we're looking to the IVF, and then we'll figure it out.
37:57OK.
37:58Y'all are poetic.
37:59Offering the IVF testing, it was nice.
38:02It's, you know, it's nice.
38:04As of right now, I try to conceive more naturally.
38:07Of course, if it does not work out, then I would go that route.
38:12That's just me.
38:13Look at the gator.
38:14Oh, my goodness.
38:15You know I've been wanting to see gators up close ever since I moved here.
38:19That'll be my date.
38:20You just went on a date.
38:21Oh, here we go.
38:23Y'all with Maddie and y'all with Crystal.
38:24They are more, like, envious of what each other is getting.
38:29More bouquet.
38:29She says our anniversary.
38:31We don't celebrate anniversaries makes me feel a little jealous.
38:35Like, it's not fair.
38:36It's not equal.
38:36It's causing a little jealousy when you are in a poly relationship.
38:40It's impossible to please everybody 24-7, but I'm up for the challenge.
38:44Let me ask you, how everything going with you, and you know y'all Crystal?
38:49Um, I mean...
38:51You feel like you're not getting enough from me?
38:54Yeah, you know, I mean, I feel like sleeping-wise, I just feel like it does need to be more
38:58balanced.
38:59Like, I want more time, too.
39:01I'm a woman, and I want my man, too, you know?
39:07I don't prefer having sex with y'all Crystal than y'all and Maddie.
39:10I think we just need to be more considerate.
39:12I don't play favorites.
39:13It just all depends.
39:14Sometime I don't have sex with all of them in one day.
39:16It doesn't matter.
39:17That's the poly lifestyle, you know?
39:19If one of them having a bad day, they don't want no kiss, go get a kiss from somebody else.
39:24I notice, um, and this is being real.
39:27It'd be times I'd give you what you asked for, and then you want something different.
39:31Oh, boy.
39:32This about turns you off, isn't it?
39:33No, it's not.
39:34You telling me something about me.
39:36Now, I'm telling you something about you, and you don't want to hear it.
39:39No, it's because you're making an excuse.
39:40I wanted more time, more equal time, and yeah, more sex.
39:45Do you really want to go there?
39:46So I gave it to you.
39:46You keep changing the goal.
39:48No, I'm not.
39:48I spent the night with you last night before this date.
39:52You forgot?
39:53I do want more sex, because I'm a woman.
39:55I do want you to sleep with me more often.
39:57And hello, of course I want to go out on dates.
39:59We barely go out anywhere.
40:00Now, I want the same thing, but realistically, look what relationship you're in.
40:03Is you built for this relationship?
40:06I'm pissed off, because it's like, I'm just telling you how I feel.
40:09I'm from New York.
40:11You're not supposed to be fake.
40:12You're supposed to be real.
40:13It's seven nights a week.
40:15And you sleep in someone's room three times a week.
40:17That's a lie.
40:18You know that's not true.
40:20It makes me upset that I have to even bring that up and mention it, because it's like,
40:25okay, that's why he wants to sit here and say I'm jealous.
40:27But it's not about jealousy.
40:29You got careers.
40:31You got children.
40:31How many queens we have?
40:32That is not realistic.
40:34So maybe this is not built for you.
40:36Yep.
40:37Seven days a week.
40:38You can still do it.
40:39You can make it work.
40:40Equal time?
40:41When is that being real?
40:43I'm over here trying to take her out, have a nice date with her, and she disrespecting
40:46me.
40:47Let's be real.
40:48It's too much.
40:49She need to handle her own issues.
40:50All you doing is you trying to deflect the truth.
40:53Stop trying to deflect the truth.
40:53No, I'm not.
40:53I'm not trying to deflect the truth.
40:55Y'all and Crystal, you have a problem with this queen every time she's around.
40:58She's always around.
41:00Listen.
41:01Every single night.
41:02That's your favorite.
41:03So praise Y'allway.
41:04Favorite?
41:04Yeah, Y'allway, I'm done.
41:06All right.
41:06I don't have no favorite.
41:08I'm done.
41:08I'm cutting.
41:09Maybe it ain't for you.
41:12No, you're for her.
41:14No, I'm for my family.
41:16You don't care about me.
41:17I'm done.
41:17Yeah, you don't care about you.
41:19You don't care about us.
41:20No, you don't.
41:21You don't want to hear me when I'm asking you for more time.
41:23Maybe this is not for you.
41:24It's not built for everybody.
41:26So you're breaking up with me?
41:27Cool.
41:28Now you're going to sleep with her the rest of the week.
41:30It's like you can't tell him he's wrong.
41:32I'm just asking for equal time.
41:35I don't feel like I deserve to be treated like that.
41:38And then he's going to go have a beautiful night and make her seem like an angel.
41:41Because that's all he does.
41:45What happens in these, you know, in these type of dynamics, you can't compare them.
41:50It's not going to be equality.
41:52It's not going to be always that.
41:53Plus, you got a big family.
41:55That's not just, that's just not realistic.
41:57Can I talk to you without the cameras, please?
41:58And, um, can you just get the keys, bro?
42:02Y'all wait, can I talk to you without the cameras?
42:03That's just really what happens.
42:04It's just not for everybody.
42:06Y'all wait, don't do that to me.
42:07And I'm not trying to.
42:07That's not right, y'all wait.
42:08I'm not trying to do that.
42:09No, can I get a moment off the cameras?
42:11Why didn't you do that to me?
42:12I ain't do nothing to you.
42:13That's not fair.
42:14You don't do that to Yahweh Crystal, Yahweh.
42:16You wouldn't dare do that.
42:17Again, this comparison.
42:18What you're doing is you're nagging.
42:20You're being ungrateful.
42:21You overlooked the time I spent with you.
42:23You do all that.
42:24And you don't want to hear that.
42:26No, Yahweh.
42:27It's not about me not wanting to hear that, Yahweh.
42:29You are saying that what I'm asking for is too much.
42:32All right.
42:32All right.
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