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00:00This is my second uncle, a former child prodigy in the village.
00:03This is my maternal grandmother, an old lady who does bottle-jumping games every day.
00:08They lived in this old house; she wasn't beautiful when they met her.
00:11My second uncle was the top student in the whole school when he was in elementary school, and he was still the top student in the whole school when he went to junior high school.
00:16Three test papers were collected from rural areas for the city-wide unified examination, one of which...
00:20That's my second uncle's
00:21One day, my second uncle had a high fever and asked to go home.
00:24The doctor from the next village gave him four injections in his buttocks in one day, and my second uncle...
00:28Became disabled
00:29My second uncle, who was a teenager, lay in bed, never wanting to go back to school.
00:32The teachers visited three times to persuade him, but the second uncle lay on the bed with his eyes closed.
00:37He remained silent, like a crippled dragon.
00:40In the first year, my second uncle refused to get out of bed. He somehow found a book on barefoot medicine.
00:44Student Handbook
00:45I watched it frantically for a year, but my second uncle's leg wasn't just injured, it was crippled.
00:49Therefore, prolonged illness does not necessarily make one a doctor.
00:51So the following year, my second uncle threw away the handbook and got out of bed.
00:54Sitting blankly in the courtyard, gazing at the sky, like a giant frog.
00:58In the third year, my second uncle stopped looking at the sky and started watching a carpenter who came to our house to do his work.
01:02The carpenter worked for three days and then left. My second uncle told my grandfather that he had learned how to do it.
01:05I beg you, sir, to go to the blacksmith's shop and make me some woodworking tools.
01:09For the first time in three years, my second uncle stepped out of the courtyard to work as a board maker for the production team.
01:13stool
01:13Making two a day, earning ten cents each, is enough to support myself.
01:17Several years passed, and one day, as usual, my second uncle came to the production team with his crutch.
01:21The team leader told my second uncle that he didn't need to come anymore, the production team was gone.
01:24The second uncle asked why. The team leader said, "It's because of the reform and opening up."
01:27So my second uncle began his reform and opening-up efforts, traveling to various villages in the town.
01:31Carpentry
01:32One day, I ran into that doctor from back then on the street.
01:34He told his second uncle, "If this were today, I would have been sued and would have to take over your business."
01:39a lifetime
01:39His second uncle laughed and scolded him, then he went off to work again, limping.
01:43Later, for some unknown procedural reason, my second uncle's disability certificate could not be processed.
01:47Come
01:47He was very disappointed and, despite his efforts, managed to travel to Beijing by crutches.
01:50He wanted to go to the Memorial Hall in Tiananmen Square, saying he wanted to see his...
01:53My second uncle said that reform and opening up was good, and it was good for him too. Why? Because he said it was fair.
01:58Soon, my second uncle had very little money left in his pocket; one of his cousins was in the north.
02:02Jingdangbing
02:03My second uncle, as a military dependent, moved into the military base, and surprisingly, he got by...
02:06Feng Sheng Shui Qi
02:07Because my second uncle didn't like to socialize or chat, he only liked to work.
02:10He borrowed woodworking tools from somewhere.
02:12In those days when conditions in the military were still very harsh, they silently gave to the soldiers.
02:16They made a lot of cabinets and tables.
02:18What soldier wouldn't like a step-sister like that?
02:20One day, my second uncle's cousin went to the bathhouse and saw an old man sitting with my second uncle.
02:24Take a bath together
02:25My second uncle's cousin was so frightened he couldn't say a word, because the old man was...
02:29A leader I've only met a few times
02:30She was squatting in the pool right now, scrubbing her second uncle's back.
02:33Later, when my second uncle returned to the village, everyone asked him how Beijing was.
02:36My second uncle said that Beijingers rub backs very well.
02:39When his two younger sisters reached marriageable age, the second uncle felt very reluctant to let them go.
02:42My second uncle has his own way of expressing it.
02:44All the furniture my aunt and my mom had when they got married
02:47Every drawing, every piece of wood, every pane of glass, every decorative element
02:51strip
02:51Every screw, every coat of paint, was done by my second uncle all by himself.
02:55Can you imagine what it was like for a girl from a mountain village to get married in the 1980s?
02:58Wouldn't it be a dream come true to own a set of furniture like this?
03:02My maternal grandmother's family was so poor, yet my younger sister had this set of furniture when she got married.
03:05The in-laws will also look at you more favorably.
03:06Perhaps then he can take better care of his younger sister.
03:09You might say I'm bragging, because this is Shanghai brand furniture.
03:12But you forgot that this is my second uncle.
03:14My second uncle always has a way; he can put any brand on for you.
03:17What other brands do you want?
03:19He also has Tianjin, Beijing, and Hong Kong license plates.
03:22Super luxurious, OK?
03:24Later, the young second uncle adopted Ningning, who had just been born.
03:26My second uncle worked tirelessly in the surrounding area to earn money.
03:29Ningning was mostly fostered at her aunt's house.
03:32I rarely spend time with her
03:33Ningning was often talked about behind her back when she was little because she was considered impolite.
03:36A child who was abandoned twice
03:38What manners can we possibly have towards this world?
03:40Ningning married her boyfriend ten years ago.
03:43A house in a county town costing a little over 200,000 yuan
03:45My second uncle contributed over ten thousand yuan.
03:46I can't imagine how she saved up that much.
03:48My second uncle emptied his life savings to buy Ningning a house.
03:52But I'm so happy!
03:53This is the Chinese parenting style.
03:54Chinese parents are both admirable and pitiful.
03:57Humbly great
03:58My second uncle reached the peak of his beauty-obsessed phase in his early thirties.
04:02But my second uncle told me
04:03She always felt that she could only take care of herself in this life, not others.
04:07So I've never even considered it.
04:09My second uncle lied.
04:10There was a woman from the next village at that time
04:12She has a husband and two children.
04:14I don't know what kind of opportunity it was.
04:15The two suddenly became very close.
04:18And they quickly became too familiar with each other.
04:20She often visits her second uncle's house.
04:21Her second uncle also frequently visited her.
04:23Even when her husband was around
04:24The two children also really like their second uncle.
04:26Later
04:27She began serving as a formal member of her second uncle's family.
04:29Attend all family weddings and funerals
04:32And his thoughtfulness towards his second uncle earned him a place on the shortlist.
04:33She tidied up her messy little house and made it neat and tidy.
04:36Second Uncle came back from work
04:37To be able to eat a bowl of hot rice
04:39He casually handed her the money for today's holiday.
04:41Many years have passed.
04:42She did not get a divorce.
04:43My second uncle's four siblings
04:45From the very beginning, we have given our full support.
04:46Instead, they began to suspect the woman.
04:48It was just the little money my second uncle had.
04:49Strongly opposed
04:50Ningning, who is still in the neighborhood...
04:52Then he called that woman an old fox.
04:54She called her daughter, Little Fox, in her class.
04:56The old-fashioned second uncle's advances and retreats, his family scattered.
04:58at a loss
04:59Later, this woman and her husband died in a construction site shed in another city.
05:02carbon monoxide poisoning
05:03My second uncle also remained unmarried his entire life.
05:05I don't understand the details of this relationship.
05:07My aunt can't remember either.
05:09My second uncle, however, was unwilling to talk about it.
05:10What exactly is going on here?
05:12It is neither the honey trap practiced today.
05:14It wasn't a group of allies from that era.
05:16Did love ever come back then?
05:18Decades have passed
05:19Stories of Old Friends
05:20Died without illness
05:21Nothing is left now.
05:23All that's left is a mess of debts.
05:24It rotted in my second uncle's heart alone.
05:26Bleeding and then a new family grew.
05:28Do not tear
05:29Tear it apart
05:30It will pull off the skin and flesh.
05:32And so another thirty years passed.
05:34Nothing remarkable
05:35Yes
05:36This is what ordinary people's lives are like.
05:37It's so ordinary that you can't watch it without fast-forwarding it a thousand times.
05:40Grandma is 88 years old.
05:42Labor costs in rural areas are also rising.
05:44My second uncle is at the peak of his money-making career.
05:46She really wants to earn more money for her retirement.
05:49In the future, we won't have to drag Nian Nian down.
05:50However, my grandmother is now unable to take care of herself.
05:53I don't really want to live anymore.
05:54On one occasion, they even hung the rope on the door frame.
05:57Chinese people often talk about birth, aging, illness, and death.
05:59Why must old age and illness separate us from life and death?
06:02This is not due to the cruelty of Heaven.
06:03Instead, pity
06:04Otherwise, we would all be in our seventies or eighties.
06:06He died in good health and strength.
06:08How much they must miss this world!
06:11Wouldn't that be even more painful?
06:12In this sense
06:14Old age and illness are necessary rehearsals between life and death.
06:17So a few years ago, my second uncle started putting my maternal grandmother in the car when he went out.
06:21When I went to someone else's house to do carpentry work, I would put my grandmother's small board next to me.
06:25On the stool
06:25A 66-year-old man was carrying his 88-year-old mother with him.
06:28This 6688 combination is absolutely awesome!
06:31My second uncle stopped doing carpentry work in recent years.
06:34Full-time caregiver for maternal grandmother
06:35Washing Grandma's face in the morning
06:36Wash Grandma's feet at night
06:38I forced Grandma to exercise in the afternoon.
06:39Grandma had to sit down and rest for ten seconds every twenty steps.
06:42My second uncle would fall three meters behind my grandmother for every twenty steps he took.
06:45It takes exactly ten seconds to catch up with those three meters.
06:47Keep going
06:47Such perfect positioning and coordination
06:49The last time I saw it was on Jordan and Pitt.
06:52Jordan liked to send supercars to Pittsburgh.
06:54My second uncle likes to pull noodles for my grandmother.
06:56Pour some scrambled eggs with tomatoes on top.
06:58Mmm, delicious.
06:59Ningning's second uncle provided her with virtually no education from a young age.
07:02Today, Ningning has become the most filial child in the village.
07:05This shows that the best way to ensure your child will be filial in the future.
07:08It means quietly being filial to one's parents.
07:10Children are small, not shrimp.
07:12It's actually quite difficult to define my second uncle as a carpenter.
07:14During my three days at home
07:16He fixed a power strip for the villagers.
07:18A gas stove
07:19A bedside lamp
07:21A toy car
07:22A dead head
07:23A washing machine
07:24A faucet
07:25On the way back, I was stopped by another rope.
07:27He fixed his door lock
07:28Before even entering the house
07:30He was then called to another old man's house.
07:31The induction cooker is broken.
07:33Two, upon arriving at his house, discovered...
07:34He forgot to turn on the power strip.
07:36Poor old man
07:37Back home, I also fixed an old lady's mobile phone and radio.
07:41Grandma has a stomach ailment
07:42He then performed acupuncture on his grandmother.
07:43People complained that the bare wood on the gate tower was unsightly.
07:46My second uncle designed it himself.
07:47Draw it on someone
07:48Mountaintop Shura Temple
07:50All the dragons were carved by my second uncle.
07:51There is no shaman in the village
07:52My second uncle became a fortune teller.
07:54Of course
07:55The skewers were made by myself.
07:56The bamboo tubes were made by myself.
07:58The notebook was made by myself.
07:59The hanging was copied by myself.
08:01He even had a sudden whim one day
08:03Make an erhu
08:04wooden body
08:05Making shoes with copper core from telephone wire
08:07Bamboo as male pole
08:08Fishing line with male fluff
08:10We don't have pythons here.
08:11He went up the mountain and caught a few double-spotted brocade catfish.
08:13piece together a guitar skin
08:14Look
08:15My second uncle always has a way.
08:16I really want to show you
08:18That well-made erhu
08:19Unfortunately, more than ten years ago
08:20Grandma let my mentally challenged brother
08:22He played with the erhu like it was a hoe and broke it.
08:24This village has all the farming tools
08:26furniture
08:26Electrical appliances
08:27vehicle
08:27My second uncle doesn't know how to fix it.
08:28Only three items
08:29smartphones
08:30car
08:30and computer
08:31Because of these things
08:32My second uncle didn't have it either.
08:33But now we have smartphones too.
08:35Ningning bought it
08:36Wait until it's disassembled a few times
08:37Then it will be repaired.
08:38It's late at night
08:39The lights are still on at my second uncle's house.
08:41Whose things are we fixing this time?
08:42Did you hear Luo Sheng and the firecrackers?
08:44It wasn't someone in the village who got married.
08:46But after all the young people left
08:47The wild boars are back.
08:48To scare the wild boar
08:49There are only a few hundred old men and women left in the village.
08:52If something is broken
08:53Send it to a repair shop for repair.
08:54Let's not even talk about spending money.
08:55It's a 30-mile mountain road to the town.
08:57If you take a bus to the county town
08:59Get off the bus
08:59They can't even find north.
09:01My second uncle always said
09:02He's lucky if he can even take care of himself.
09:04He actually took care of the entire village.
09:05The villagers jokingly called him "Crooked Man".
09:07But we all know very well
09:09We love this crooked guy.
09:11We can't live without this crooked guy.
09:13When the college entrance examination was reinstated in 1977
09:15My second uncle was eighteen or nineteen years old.
09:16If it weren't for those four truths after the fever back then
09:18My second uncle may have already been admitted to university.
09:20Became an engineer
09:22Housing allocated by work unit
09:23State-issued retirement pension
09:24Enjoying a leisurely and contented old age
09:26Is that how an old man in the next village is?
09:28My grades weren't as good as my second uncle's back then.
09:30If that's the case
09:31How wonderful that would be!
09:32My second uncle will definitely become a character in Wang Zengqi's writing.
09:34Like Father Wang Jusheng
09:35A playful old man full of leisure and rustic charm
09:37Looking at my second uncle in front of me
09:38It always reminds me of a line from the movie "The Adventures of Chang'an".
09:41He's such a prodigy!
09:42It's just that they were born without eating wind and food.
09:44He should be cultivated by the country.
09:46It should be famous throughout the world.
09:47He shouldn't have ended up so destitute and pitiful.
09:49What a pity!
09:51It's such a pity.
09:52Has our second uncle ever thought of this?
09:54He said never
09:55This kind of mentality
09:56This made my second uncle the second happiest person in the village.
09:58The happiest person
09:59It was Mr. Tree from our village just now.
10:01So you see
10:02The happiest person in the world
10:03A person who does not need to be responsible for others
10:05The second happiest person
10:06A person who never looks back
10:08Who doesn't have regrets?
10:09People often only realize this when they are about to die.
10:12The biggest regret in life
10:13It's just that I'm always regretting the regrets of the past.
10:15Regret in the movie
10:16It is the eve of the protagonist's rise.
10:18In life
10:19It's a poison that makes people sink.
10:21I was fortunate enough to experience life in Beijing for nine years.
10:23I have known several outstanding individuals.
10:25On the contrary, it was from my second uncle.
10:26It showed me the spirit of our nation.
10:28All the ordinary
10:29Beauty and strength
10:31Everyone says the most important thing in life
10:33Not a good hand
10:34Instead, play a bad hand well.
10:35My second uncle got a terrible hand.
10:37You played really well.
10:38In his struggle and distress
10:40The pretense of self-respect
10:42It inspired me to do my best
10:43I have all four limbs intact.
10:45Attended university
10:45And born in an era full of opportunities
10:48I deserve to live a life even more fulfilling than my second uncle's.
10:51My second uncle is still walking his own path in life today.
10:54Where will this long road eventually lead?
10:56There's a notebook from decades ago under my second uncle's bed.
10:59The first page of the notebook contained a sentence he had copied down.
11:02Make up your mind
11:03Fearless of sacrifice
11:04Eliminating the omnipotent
11:05Go and strive for victory
11:07Yes
11:08This path in life ultimately leads to
11:10Victory is certain
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