00:00At three years old, she's saying and expressing things for the first time.
00:04We really explain.
00:07I can't speak Tagalog because she can understand.
00:14Hi, Smart Parenting Fam!
00:16Welcome to this episode of Usap Tayo.
00:19Today is a special day because it is our first family cover shoot.
00:31Not nervous, scared.
00:33I was scared that I might not be a good mother because I didn't have the best relationship with my
00:41mother.
00:42There are also fears that you're scared of having your body change, which is a very valid fear for a
00:50lot of women.
00:52I expected my husband to be more hands-on.
00:57I thought our yayas were going to do more.
00:59Wow, how many times did you change your diaper?
01:03What I mean.
01:04I thought you would do it.
01:06Having a baby, it's a job for two people.
01:08I didn't really know that coming into it.
01:10I thought at least one person could manage.
01:12And I want to be a hands-on dad.
01:15I know.
01:15But running, having and running a business and being a hands-on dad, one of the hardest things in the
01:20world.
01:20Yeah, on weekends, you are as hands-on as you can be.
01:24I'll give you that.
01:27Selfless.
01:28Really?
01:28Because when you become a parent, obviously it's the child first.
01:33When I got married to Iza, I was still quite selfish, but only when having a child do you realize
01:38the importance of being selfless.
01:40I agree.
01:41I think when we take away, if we take away yayas, we will fully realize how selfless we have to
01:48be.
01:48I'm overfilled with love and joy every time I see Dea.
01:52And you didn't expect that.
01:53I knew something like that was coming, but you only really know when you experience it.
01:58Okay, good answer.
01:59You're also aware that there is a child that is around you.
02:04So, even if you want to cry and you want to cry, you're angry.
02:08Okay, good answer.
02:08But I'm going to tone down.
02:11I'm going to tone down.
02:13I'm going to tone down.
02:44I'm going to tone down.
02:56I don't know.
02:59I'm sorry.
03:00I'm sorry.
03:01I'm sorry.
03:01I'm sorry.
03:01And then she's smart because she wants to watch more TV with me and not go upstairs to the bar.
03:07She then says, let's watch rugby because she knows daddy likes watching rugby.
03:11She knows.
03:13There will always be new discoveries, right?
03:15At three years old, she's saying and expressing things for the first time.
03:20So it's very fun.
03:22That's the best part of this.
03:23But it's so saraf.
03:25Like when she tells me sometimes, she'll be like, mama, I love you.
03:29I love you forever and ever and ever and always.
03:32Oh, great.
03:36That's it.
03:37Motherhood has brought out the best in her.
03:39I've always seen that she's hardworking, but she's really channeled that into motherhood as well.
03:59I love you, motherhood.
04:01I love you.
04:04She's really nice, baby.
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