00:00You personally have to be prepared that the relationship could be ruined, which is why
00:05it's scary to tell somebody that because it changes this dynamic.
00:09My best friend and I have known each other for 12 years.
00:12One day I woke up and realized I'm not just in love with her as a friend, but in a
00:16deeper
00:16sense.
00:17Is it okay to tell them, or should I keep those feelings to myself?
00:20Well, I think if neither one of you are in a relationship, I think you could say, you
00:26know what?
00:26I think our friendship is changing.
00:28I mean, do it subtly.
00:29Don't all of a sudden say, you know, John, I love you, I can't live without you.
00:34You evidently can't live without each other if you're besties.
00:37Maybe in a cute way say, you know, I think my feelings are sort of changing.
00:42That's so hard.
00:43I know it's hard, but you know, I think it does happen because you spend so much time
00:48with your best friend.
00:49You have to see how they react because if all of a sudden they're pushed back, then you have
00:55to drop it.
00:56Here's my thought.
00:57If they're really your best friend, they're going to be super understanding whether they
01:02reciprocate the feelings or not, and hopefully it doesn't ruin the relationship.
01:06But you personally have to be prepared that the relationship could be ruined.
01:10Right.
01:11Which is why it's scary to tell somebody that because it changes this dynamic that's been
01:15so great for so long.
01:16Well, they might want it as well.
01:18Yeah.
01:19So go for it.
01:19Gamble.
01:20Gamble.
01:20Gamble.
01:20Modern problems.
01:22Classic solutions.
01:23Got a situation.
01:24We've got opinions.
01:25Send it in.
01:27Go.
01:27Go.
01:27Go.
01:28Go.
