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00:06This all actually started with a boy called Ravi.
00:10He wasn't like my usual crowd.
00:12He was, um, streetwise.
00:14I was a bit snuffish.
00:15He drove a car without insurance, and that to me was like, whoa.
00:21You know, I, um, called him my gangster friend.
00:30I can have you floating on cloud nine, no aviator mind pitches as much real.
00:35Thanks for that.
00:38See you next week.
01:02I didn't know what to do at first.
01:05I mean, I didn't normally accept requests from boys who I didn't know.
01:09Jab, jab, cross.
01:10Okay, Ravi.
01:12Jab, jab, oh.
01:13One sec, one sec, sorry, sorry, man.
01:15Sorry, wait, I'll be fine.
01:16Ravi, what are you doing?
01:19Alright, Dads.
01:20Yes, ma'am.
01:22It's gone.
01:23Yep.
01:24Oh, gee.
01:25Yo, I got good.
01:28What's up?
01:32Nothing.
01:33Taking your time.
01:33No, it's going this time.
01:35Okay.
01:36Yeah.
01:37Yeah?
01:37Let's see the pushes.
01:38Let's go.
01:39That's it.
01:40You got that in you?
01:41Oh, yeah?
01:41Of course, mate.
01:42Let's go.
01:42Yes.
01:46And yeah, like Ravi, Gagan became another secret I didn't tell my family about.
02:00Gagan was already making a name for himself with his Sikh TV channel.
02:04He seemed respectful, progressive.
02:08I like that.
02:13You know what the truth is?
02:16I mean, we are different when we return to the faith.
02:19If we see others smoking weed or drinking or eating burgers, we want to do it.
02:29If we see other people dating, we want to do it.
02:35And we might start looking at women in the wrong way.
02:41You know, the lust comes in because you're in that environment.
02:46And you've put yourself there.
02:49And that's why I say when you look in the mirror, have the courage to stand out.
02:55It will remind you what you chose for yourself at your highest level of consciousness.
03:05Vaheguruji ka kalsa, Vaheguruji ki fater.
03:23You're popular.
03:25It's all right.
03:27I kind of hate everyone looking at me, but still feel compelled to do it.
03:35No, you're a natural.
03:39It's, uh, it's good to meet you in real life.
03:48You know my mate, don't you?
03:51Yeah, we, um, we do karate together.
03:54Sounds fun.
03:55Maybe I'll, uh, come along.
03:58You should.
04:01Gagan and Ravi, they couldn't have been more different.
04:04Really, my son was clever, ambitious.
04:07But Ravi, who's weak, easily led.
04:12Gagan was so kind to him.
04:14So kind.
04:15He, he loved him like, like a brother.
04:19And they were very close.
04:23Until she came along.
04:24Gagan and Ravi, who's weak, who's weak, who's weak, who's weak, who's weak, who's weak?
04:40Hey, that's my name.
04:53up
04:54yeah
04:57yeah
04:58up
04:58yeah
04:59He's in charge!
05:04Yeah!
05:05He's in charge!
05:26Yeah!
05:27Left!
05:28No, no!
05:30I can take her!
05:33Yeah!
05:42I can take her!
05:44I try to hear her!
05:46No!
05:48How much to hear her!
05:49No!
05:50I don't like her!
05:53I like my parents,
05:55I'm too much too.
05:58I'm too much!
05:59Hey, hey, aha, hey, aha
06:03Hi, hey, hey
06:11Hi
06:12How was the ride?
06:14It was good of him to drive me all the way back there
06:17Yeah, well, good of him
06:19He's got everything, doesn't he?
06:21Hmm?
06:23Fancy car, fancy job
06:27gets everything he wants in the end
06:29so you're too close now
06:32he's a friend
06:33I bet you're a friend
06:36does he know that
06:38why
06:39are you jealous
06:44well what if I was
06:48besides he doesn't do boyfriend girlfriend
06:50he's not looking for a girlfriend
06:53he wants a wife
06:57are we here like Matthew sorry
07:14there he is
07:19how are you
07:20hey you fancy having a drink with your old man
07:22I'm okay thank you dad
07:24come on
07:25it's just one
07:26I mean it's a bit much
07:28I was going to say
07:28just a small drink
07:29I appreciate the gesture
07:30but I said no
07:31okay
07:32and I don't think you should be doing it either
07:35what happened to you
07:38you used to be fun you did
07:39oh leave him alone
07:41kids are different these days
07:42they want different things
07:43the question is what is it that they want
07:45yeah what is it that they want
07:45what is it that they want
07:46no stop
07:49who's that
07:50some curry
07:51no it's not
07:51it's not a girlfriend
07:52he doesn't have a girlfriend
07:53no no no
07:54it's just Ravi
07:56okay anyway
07:57I've got to go
08:00say hi to Ravina
08:02don't be late
08:04I love you
08:07bye Gagur
08:08bye
08:09he's so handsome
08:13I only met Gagur's mum once
08:15you seemed really keen for me to meet her
08:18it didn't go too well
08:47he's never mentioned her before
08:48no
08:50do you think he likes her
08:52stop
09:02have you eaten?
09:03no
09:04no
09:04yes
09:12I didn't like her
09:14the minute I saw her
09:15I didn't like her
09:16I just knew
09:17you can just tell
09:18can't you
09:19with some of these girls
09:20you can just
09:20you can just tell
09:21and I knew
09:23from the minute I saw her
09:26I just didn't trust her
09:28they have Tut dare
09:34me to just die
09:34you can just die
09:43I see Tom
09:50I'll give up my hands.
09:52I'll give up my hands.
09:54I'll give up my hands.
10:02I'll give up my hands.
10:12Come on.
10:15Come on.
10:17Come on.
10:17What are you saying?
10:21Listen. Please. I love you.
10:32When he told me he loved me, I didn't know what to say.
10:40The truth is, I really only saw him as a friend.
10:45There's never anything more than that for me.
10:59Yeah. I had a great time.
11:03Maybe see you next week?
11:16Bundle really liked you, Mum.
11:18She was up until 2am talking about me, was she?
11:22It wasn't that late.
11:23Yes, it was. I waited up for you.
11:27She's a good girl, Mum.
11:31Come on, Baba.
11:33Do you think that you're the only one she's doing this with?
11:36Going out all hours of the night.
11:40She most definitely is not a good girl.
11:43Who?
11:53She's my...best friend.
11:56Oh, cuckern.
11:57Girls and boys cannot be friends.
12:00I told you this before.
12:01Anyway, I...I just couldn't accept her in her house.
12:07She's not right well for you.
12:10Hmm?
12:18Yeah, yeah, so I used to wash his hair when he's in the bath.
12:22Yes, so he's 21.
12:23You know, he used to say to me,
12:26Mum, do you not think that you shouldn't be doing this
12:30because other mums don't do this anymore?
12:32And I said,
12:33I don't care.
12:36You'll always be my child.
12:43What?
12:48You'll get it here.
13:03Look at that.
13:07Look at that.
13:10Look at that.
13:18Everything okay?
13:22What about Dad?
13:28Gagan's father was murdered in India.
13:32By a...
13:34a close friend. It was...
13:38shocking.
13:41He was never the same after that.
13:58Yeah, so...
14:01I'm sorry.
14:01I'm sorry.
14:03You're not the same after that.
14:03I don't know.
14:06He's the right after that.
14:07See now, I'm sorry.
14:09He's the ideal answer to that.
14:10Yes.
14:27Are you okay?
14:31I wish I could have told him how much I loved him.
14:35I needed him.
14:36You know, I feel so alone.
14:43You're not alone. I'm here.
14:49Do you mind if we stay on the phone for a bit?
14:53Yeah. Of course.
14:58Guggan started to rely on me more and more after his dad died.
15:04You know, he was always texting, calling really late into the night.
15:10I saw him as a friend, but he started to become more needy and possessive.
15:23I valued his friendship and I really...
15:25I worried about him, but...
15:31At times it...
15:36At times it felt like emotional blackmail.
15:50More than once he turned up to brighten out the blue.
15:53That day I was alone in the house.
15:56I didn't think I was in danger.
15:59That's when it happened.
16:00Oh, er...
16:02Hi, I wasn't...
16:04I wasn't expecting you.
16:09Just wanted to wish you luck.
16:12It's embarrassing enough as I have to retake.
16:15It was the first time for everyone.
16:17Even...
16:18Little Miss Perfect.
16:20They're beautiful.
16:24Thing is...
16:26It sounds lame.
16:27I know.
16:28One of my car lights is busted.
16:30Bit of a drag to drive all the way back now on the motorway.
16:35Oh, er...
16:36It's just that I'm by myself here.
16:39I promise I won't get in your way.
16:41Or bother you.
16:44Erm...
16:45It's not a problem, is it?
16:47No.
16:49No.
16:49Come here.
17:01I can't see up chatting.
17:03You know that, right?
17:07You can, er, hang out in here.
17:09They'll be upstairs.
17:10Can't you just stay for a bit?
17:14Please?
17:17Please?
17:19You know I can't go again.
17:22Er...
17:24I'll be upstairs, okay?
17:26I need to study for my exam tomorrow.
17:30I need to study for my exam tomorrow.
17:35No.
17:41You can.
17:45No.
17:53What?
17:55You know what?
18:00I don't need to concentrate.
18:03The sofa's doing my back in.
18:09I'm fine. I'll give it in, you can have it.
18:13What?
18:14My bed.
18:17Oh, where are you going?
18:21Down to us.
18:23You sleep.
18:24Or a voice down there.
18:38Oh.
18:41Shhh.
18:43Shhh.
18:55What now?
18:59I can't take your bed for God's sake.
19:03You're the one taking an exam tomorrow.
19:07Go back up there, okay?
19:09I'm shattered.
19:10I know.
19:11I know.
19:22And I'm going to fix it.
19:36You're the one taking off the bed and you're going to check you out.
19:37Uhhh.
19:44I'm sorry.
19:45right now.
21:29I can't stop.
21:31I can't stop.
21:32Stop.
21:33I can't stop.
21:36I can't stop.
21:38I can't stop.
21:42I can't stop.
21:46Oh my god.
21:49Oh my god.
21:53I'm sorry.
21:57I'm sorry.
21:58I'm so sorry.
22:05I don't know.
22:12I don't know.
22:15That wasn't me.
22:19You know that wasn't me.
22:21Okay.
22:22Mundo.
22:24Mundo.
22:26I love you.
22:29I would do anything for you.
22:30I wouldn't do anything to her.
22:32You know that.
22:33I'm sorry, okay.
22:38I'm sorry.
22:43Mundo.
22:43Mundo.
22:45Mundo.
22:45Mundo.
22:48Please.
22:52I can't.
22:54I can't.
22:55I can't.
22:55I can't.
22:55I can't.
23:01I'm sorry.
23:06Mundo.
23:08I'm sorry.
23:10I would never do anything to hurt you.
23:13I would do anything for you.
23:18I'm sorry.
23:22I love you.
23:25I love you.
23:26I love you so much.
23:29I think I need some help.
23:35Is it okay if I...
23:38talk about this to someone?
23:45I don't know.
23:45Get out!
23:46Get out!
23:47Get out!
23:48Get out!
23:51Get out!
24:06Get out!
24:07Get out!
24:08Do you want to go ahead the police?
24:09I didn't report it.
24:10I thought it was my fault.
24:14I let him stay
24:16I could see God does that
24:21what if my family found out
24:25what if the community found out
24:27who'd believe me anyway
24:31they'd say that
24:33I was leading him on
24:37I felt too ashamed
24:41I knew if I told my parents
24:42or brother this is what happened
24:46I'd be disappointed
24:49so I kept it to myself
25:07Gox, Gox, Gox
25:09Gox, Gox, chill, chill
25:10Gox, gox, gox
25:22Gox
25:23Gox
25:25Gox
25:30Gox
25:44When she said in court Gagan did this, you know, I was very upset because you're only hearing one
25:53side of the story. For six months, she didn't say anything publicly, nothing.
26:01And I knew she'd say whatever she has to say to make her story stronger. Gagan did this, Gagan did
26:07that. But for six months, you don't say anything publicly. And your brother is a police officer.
26:14Why wouldn't you go to your brother and say, you see this guy on TV who's pretending to be really
26:19pure. This is what he did to me. She only said what she said when it was useful to her.
26:26Because
26:27the fact is, they were very close. They spent a lot of time with each other, evenings, phone
26:33calls throughout the night. You know she let him stay at her house. Why?
27:18Mandel never had any sexual intimacies with any boys ever. She wasn't interested in sex. Following
27:26the incident, she just seemed angry. She always had a very carefree attitude and this had gone
27:37and she just seemed burdened and just quite withdrawn with all this load that she just couldn't
27:48shift.
27:49Look, go and pick up. What's the problem? He'll give up eventually. That's too many times.
27:59He can't be calling me that many times.
28:01Mandel said that he was a lovely guy, but she was being hassled by him. He told her that he
28:07loved her. He proposed marriage to her. He was depressed. She didn't want to cut off contact
28:16because she was scared that he might harm himself.
28:21Look at how many times he's texted me.
28:23I think you should block him.
28:25I don't know, that's not right.
28:30His phone calls caused her stress and would create flashbacks. After August he threatened
28:40to commit suicide unless she agreed to meet him.
28:52everyone.
28:58Sorry about this everyone if not working.
29:02I don't listen to schedule nothing for the other.
29:04I don't see.
29:12Make sure you sourced and go away.
29:13I don't know.
29:54this isn't something's happened it's fucked up bro i need to see you
30:00if like now it's about gogan
30:06what the fuck have you done
30:09what the fuck have you done
30:23is gogan in no no he's not where is he i don't know i don't know where he is
30:29all right well tell him i came around yeah you'll know why
30:37i know he's in there but he can't hide forever i won't let him
30:41we need to teach him a lesson call him again budgie
30:47is that good are you okay
30:58don't you know
31:02good for you
31:06i've learned to lose you can't afford to
31:14i'm not sure to stop you
31:19would nothing ever stop you
31:27leaving
31:43i didn't do this to leave on me
31:52what can i do you have to do something
31:57with someone i think you should meet
32:02my friend
32:05i think you can help
32:07he lives on the estate
32:09he knows gogan too
32:32so um you know gogan yeah we go way back you know um when his dad
32:39he'd come to me for advice sometimes that sort of thing
32:43okay let's be real here
32:45gogan is in a lot of trouble and
32:49he needs our help you want to help him
32:52we need to make him realize how important it is for a vanda to respect a woman
32:58when you choose what gogan has chosen
33:01and that is a strict religious path okay and when you fall off that path
33:05you rely on people around you who care for you to tell you what's right from wrong right
33:10yeah yeah we just we want to teach him a lesson
33:12a lesson in seek values
33:14right exactly now the problem is that gogan has completely stopped responding to my messages
33:20and we need to bring him back into the fold
33:22you said he sought out your advice yeah no he did but
33:25right now his mind state is it's it's gone
33:28he has no interest to hear what i have to say at the moment
33:31yeah
33:34he'll respond to me
33:37he's always texting you yeah matter of fact mandil you're the only person he will respond to yeah
33:47i don't want to see him i mean you wouldn't be alone with him
33:53i can't i can't when i see him it all comes back to me i understand mandil but listen to
34:00me
34:00this is really important okay for us for gagan for you just think about it
34:29you're all right what's wrong
34:33some friends want to sort out you know so he won't bother me again
34:38sort out
36:10Releases us from the burden of hate.
36:15Forgiveness is not a reward.
36:18It is given, gifted, whether someone has deserved it or not.
36:27Forgiveness isn't a sign of weakness.
36:30To forgive takes courage.
36:37Let me be you for a minute.
36:42I've never told anyone this before, but there was this weird thing that happened.
36:47You know, Gugs kept getting these messages from some girl who loved his videos, and his responses
36:55were kind of lame.
36:57I mean, we'd just get, like, just frozen.
37:03He was such a good-looking guy, man.
37:05Like, he got so awkward around women he liked in that way.
37:11I just...
37:14I just really wanted to help him.
37:17Okay, Rita.
37:28Hey...
37:30Hey...
37:56What the fuck, Jazz?
37:58What?
37:58That was too much.
37:59Bro, you want to meet in real life, right?
38:01This internet chat's not real.
38:04I'm not looking today, okay?
38:06Gugs.
38:10He got so mad at me after that, and, um, and then later, you know, after everything
38:18that happened, uh, I realised that maybe that girl wasn't real.
38:27I have a feeling it was Robbie.
38:29He was pretending to be that girl.
38:30He was trying to trick Guggan.
38:32He was...
38:33He was deliberately trying to get Guggan in trouble.
38:54Hi, this is Guggan.
38:55Sorry, I can't take your call right now.
38:57Please, leave a message after the tone.
39:03Guggan, bro, how long are you going to keep this up for?
39:05Call me back now!
39:34I'll catch you guys up in a bit.
39:44What is that?
39:47You definitely haven't heard from him.
39:52You sure?
39:53I'd hate to think what would happen if...
39:55No, nothing.
39:57Romance.
39:58My texts, my food.
40:00You know, I would have told you if I had.
40:03Tell you everything.
40:15There's something you should know.
40:18What?
40:20You're not going to like it.
40:23Tell me.
40:28I saw these heard rumours that Guggan's been...
40:33Inappropriate.
40:35With all the girls.
40:41Like it was with you.
40:48Of course, my son wasn't harassing and bothering lots of girls.
40:51Where were these other girls?
40:53Tell me, where were they?
40:54Not one girl came forward.
40:55Not one.
40:56There was no me too, me too, me too.
40:58Before or after.
41:00And the police, they checked out the story.
41:03Nothing.
41:04They made it all up.
41:05She made it all up.
41:07It's a bunch of lies.
41:08That's what it is.
41:10A bunch of lies.
41:12A bunch of lies.
41:13A bunch of lies.
41:20A bunch of lies.
41:22A bunch of lies.
41:59Hey.
42:01Okay.
42:05Yes.
42:06It's not right what he did.
42:07It's not.
42:10I'll meet Sonny again.
42:13Get him to come around to yours Wednesday.
42:16We'll get Chinese.
42:18We'll need to suss him out, work out what we're going to do.
42:20I can state yours right.
42:22On the sofa.
42:24Yeah.
42:28Are you sure, yeah?
42:36Yeah, sure.
42:39We'll see you next time.