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90 Day Fiancé Season 12 Episode 3
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00:00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiancé.
00:00:04I'm out.
00:00:05Prior to Edward, I've never let the kids
00:00:07meet a boyfriend in person.
00:00:10I don't want him to replace your dad.
00:00:13Yeah.
00:00:14My divorce with my ex-husband, Michael,
00:00:17was challenging for the kids.
00:00:19The only thing that I'm a little bit concerned is Michael.
00:00:23I know that he's very protective of his kids.
00:00:30I love Annabelle.
00:00:31And I don't want y'all getting off on the wrong foot,
00:00:33because you've already got an attitude about it.
00:00:35Well, I hope it works out.
00:00:36If not, we're going to have some problems.
00:00:40Oh, my God, baby.
00:00:43Usually, Annabelle tells me what to do, what she wants.
00:00:47I want to love some goodness.
00:00:48It's time to get dirty.
00:00:56My love!
00:01:00I have come here to bring my fiancé back to America.
00:01:05So how do you feel leaving all the family behind?
00:01:10I am very sad about this.
00:01:12I have very conservative friends
00:01:14that are super into the deportations.
00:01:17I really don't think he understands what he signed up for.
00:01:23I know I've crossed some boundaries in the past while, like, drunk.
00:01:26And I just want to be really transparent with you.
00:01:30I don't want to be living in a relationship where I'm second-guessing things.
00:01:36I bang both Josh and Mark.
00:01:40Like, dude, do you want to be with me?
00:01:44I mean, I'm not deluding myself to think any of this is going to be an easy walk.
00:01:49You guys had a rough patch.
00:01:51That damn social media.
00:01:52With that girl.
00:01:53That social media.
00:01:56He was posting with this Egyptian actress.
00:01:59I'm not dumb.
00:02:00And if something doesn't feel right, something's not right.
00:02:04I need 10 days.
00:02:07More 10 days than more 15 days.
00:02:09I'm really worried that Mito's not going to get on that flight.
00:02:13It just made me too much.
00:02:15Okay, I'm too late.
00:02:16You're looking over there all the time.
00:02:22I'm too late as you sit on that flight.
00:02:27I love you.
00:02:27Oh my gosh.
00:02:30Oh my gosh.
00:02:31Oh my God.
00:02:31Oh my gosh.
00:02:31Oh my gosh.
00:02:32Oh my gosh.
00:02:32Oh that's too late as well.
00:02:35Oh my gosh.
00:02:35Oh my gosh.
00:02:38Oh my gosh.
00:02:47It does not feel real that we're leaving together this time.
00:02:51Yeah, I do not cry again.
00:02:54It's okay.
00:02:55You're crying.
00:02:57How do you feel about seeing your friends?
00:03:00I feel good, baby.
00:03:02They are like my best friend.
00:03:05My family and friends were happy because I find a wonderful woman, but also a little bit mad.
00:03:16Rashid, why you didn't find a Turkish woman?
00:03:24Hello.
00:03:26Hello.
00:03:27Good morning.
00:03:28Good morning.
00:03:28Good morning.
00:03:29Good morning.
00:03:29Good morning.
00:03:30Good morning.
00:03:30Good morning.
00:03:30Good morning.
00:03:31Good morning.
00:03:31Good morning.
00:03:33Good morning.
00:03:33How are you?
00:03:34Good morning.
00:03:39Good morning.
00:03:43I'm too cold.
00:03:45I'm too cold.
00:03:45This is…
00:03:46What is that?
00:03:47Saki.
00:03:48Kumus.
00:03:49Kumus.
00:03:49This is…
00:03:50Yogurt.
00:03:51Haydar.
00:03:52Haydar.
00:03:53Haydar.
00:03:55I was really excited to see all the good little Turkish food.
00:04:00I love to eat, obviously.
00:04:03But I dream of Turkish food in my sleep.
00:04:13The only thing I haven't liked so far is the milk drink.
00:04:20Everyone in Turkey drinks it.
00:04:22I know a couple of people who drink it safe.
00:04:24No, thank you. No, thank you.
00:04:26I think it was, like, fermented or something
00:04:29because that was gross.
00:04:32I'm not trying to be disrespectful to his culture at all.
00:04:35That's not what I'm trying to do.
00:04:36But, my God, that is nasty.
00:04:41Not nasty.
00:04:42Oh, no, it's nasty.
00:04:46Have you got all your paperwork together to go to America?
00:04:49Yes.
00:04:49All of them? Yes.
00:04:51Nothing missing? You've checked?
00:04:53I hope not.
00:04:54Listen, if it's missing, it's on the U.S. government, so...
00:04:57Are you worried?
00:04:58Are you worried?
00:04:59Are you worried about that?
00:05:00Are you worried about that?
00:05:01All the brothers, your job's hard.
00:05:03And now..
00:05:04..Türkis men who have the problems...
00:05:08...for the home is hard to go.
00:05:10...to come out with that.
00:05:11Direkt, no matter how much.
00:05:13Yes.
00:05:13And this...
00:05:15...we don't belong to our family.
00:05:17But my cousin grew up with my girlfriend.
00:05:25What does this mean?
00:05:27Is this your friend?
00:05:27Ayan.
00:05:28She's saying that my fiancée is still friends with her old boyfriend.
00:05:32Brandon.
00:05:33Not an old boyfriend. Not an old boyfriend.
00:05:36We didn't date.
00:05:37We didn't date.
00:05:39I have a really good friend named Brandon.
00:05:42I wouldn't say Brandon and I have dated before,
00:05:44but I think the term for our arrangement was
00:05:49Friends with benefits, strictly ,ly.
00:05:57But here it's like it's not acceptable
00:05:59for Turkish men, kinda.
00:06:01I think Rosh is used to culturally.
00:06:08Women don't hang out with men, typically,
00:06:12but I'm gonna stand my ground and just say,
00:06:15look, you guys have your culture and I respect it,
00:06:18but it's not gonna change.
00:06:23Brandon is a good friend.
00:06:25He's, there's nothing physical there.
00:06:28There hasn't been for years.
00:06:30And when I was in my accident and I was in the hospital,
00:06:34he stepped up and he didn't have to do that.
00:06:39A year ago, one of my best friends, myself, her mother,
00:06:43and at the time her seven-month-old son were in a very serious
00:06:47and traumatic car accident that altered our lives forever.
00:06:52I remember everything to this day.
00:06:54We were listening to the Jonas Brothers,
00:06:57and the next thing I know, my friend Michaela said,
00:07:01is this car coming into my lane?
00:07:04Is this car coming into my lane?
00:07:06And I just remember the impact.
00:07:11I remember blacking out and coming to.
00:07:16And, um, sorry.
00:07:20And like, I just remember like screaming.
00:07:29They wanted to do emergency surgery on me.
00:07:32I woke up the next morning and they took about three feet of my intestines out.
00:07:38In my darkest hours, Brandon was there for me.
00:07:42He took care of my dogs for me the entire time when I was in the hospital.
00:07:46And I didn't have to ask him to do that.
00:07:48He just said, don't worry about your dogs.
00:07:50I'm going to take care of them.
00:07:52So just because Rosh is having a problem with Brandon
00:07:55because of something that happened in the past,
00:07:59it's not a good reason to end a friendship over.
00:08:28He's saying that when we are married,
00:08:30there will be things I don't like that I'll be telling you.
00:08:35At this point in my life,
00:08:38I really don't want a man telling me what I can and can't do.
00:08:43I've been there before, and I just don't want that in my life again.
00:08:49No, no.
00:08:51You must listen.
00:08:52No, you're not going to sit there and control me.
00:08:55This isn't Turkey.
00:08:56You're coming to America, point blank, period.
00:09:01Because you are my wife.
00:09:02No.
00:09:02You will be my wife.
00:09:04Maybe I won't be if you're going to act like this.
00:09:08I want you to give him a chance because he's going to be around a lot.
00:09:13When I meet with him, we will see.
00:09:31I see the clouds, they're rolling in.
00:09:37They hide the sign, but not my sin.
00:09:57I took a break from the office.
00:09:59I just needed to get away.
00:10:00It's definitely been a stressful day, very stressful.
00:10:04I looked into changing Mido's flight because of the situation with his father,
00:10:11and it came out to be about $3,800 to change his ticket.
00:10:17I was shook because it's not doable at the moment.
00:10:22When I messaged him and let him know,
00:10:26he just put no comment.
00:10:29There's a very good chance that he may not be on that flight tomorrow.
00:10:50It's pretty late.
00:10:54I should be sleeping, but I haven't been doing a lot of that lately.
00:10:59We were trying to FaceTime and couldn't hear each other.
00:11:03So I sent him a message and asked him where he was.
00:11:07His response was he was home.
00:11:15I don't know if Mido got on that plane today.
00:11:23What am I supposed to do a little bit?
00:11:41I'm ready.
00:11:41There we go.
00:11:42I'm ready when you are.
00:11:44I am ready, too.
00:11:46All right, come on, let's roll.
00:11:49You got everything you need?
00:11:50Come on.
00:11:52Today is the day that Mido is supposed to arrive.
00:11:56He's a couple of hours out, and I am not even sure if he's on that plane.
00:12:05Okay.
00:12:09I tried to get in touch with Qatar Airlines to find out if he boarded the flight, got nowhere.
00:12:16I am at my wit's end and don't know what to do.
00:12:23This whole thing, baby girl, has been like craziness.
00:12:27Should we even be bothering with Mido?
00:12:29We're going to go and we're going to proceed as normal.
00:12:33Okay.
00:12:35I'm hoping for the best.
00:12:37That's what my hope is.
00:12:38My hope is for the best.
00:12:42My mom hasn't been eating.
00:12:43She hasn't been sleeping.
00:12:44She hasn't been doing very well these past few days, and it's because she hasn't been hearing from Mido.
00:12:51If Mido doesn't meet my mother at the airport, I'm not actually sure how my mom is going to react.
00:12:57I'm going to assume that she's going to wind up crying, being very angry, and rightfully so.
00:13:08Um, yeah, I, I, she, she's not going to take it well, I don't think.
00:13:26All righty, here we are.
00:13:37Text me when you want me to pick you up, okay?
00:13:38Okay.
00:13:44Okay.
00:13:53No, we had our ups and downs, now we're going round and round.
00:14:05these past couple of days it's been hell is he gonna come is he not gonna come what is my
00:14:11life
00:14:11gonna look like in 24 48 hours we have dealt with so many different things this far apart
00:14:19that now it's to the point where it's like either he is coming over and we are gonna build a
00:14:27life
00:14:27or there's no place left to go
00:15:00so
00:15:09so
00:15:16so
00:15:21so
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00:15:23so
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00:15:49this is my miniatures i like to collect
00:15:52tiny things they are a tool for manifestation it's a toilet oops there's a poop here i use
00:16:00the tiny to manifest big things connected with that i always wanted to get married with a gringo
00:16:07and uh universe introduced me thomas
00:16:14do you want to just talk about like what's about to happen to my life
00:16:19whenever it gets here we're absolutely having a man-to-man conversation
00:16:21the only thing that was an absolute problem is if it's going to add stress to my boys
00:16:25it's going to be both of your guys problems
00:16:42my name is paula i'm 41 and i'm from sao paulo brazil
00:16:50i own a very successful piercing business that i started from scratch
00:17:03i'm a boss lady and i have a very unique way that i manifested my greatness
00:17:18this is my miniatures
00:17:22i love them they are so cute
00:17:24i like to collect tiny things i have a full closet only for me and my tiny stuff
00:17:34this is my favorite one because it's a toilet and then when you open oops there's a poop here
00:17:42i know it sounds crazy but this is not for fun this is not a silly collection
00:17:47they are a tool for manifestation to symbolize the kind of life that i want to have
00:18:03one kitchen exactly like this i manifest and now we have one manifestation is a law called quantum physics
00:18:13everything in the universe it's a little particles of like atoms protons and everything and our thoughts also has atoms
00:18:22and particles
00:18:24so if you put some energy in these thoughts you build your actual reality
00:18:32like i bought a tiny couch to manifest a real size couch
00:18:38so i use the tiny to manifest bigger things connected with that i always wanted to get married with a
00:18:46gringo
00:18:48so i wrote a letter to the universe and i described it all the things that i wanted uh very
00:18:55romantic
00:18:56and a gringo very smart everything and the universe introduced me thomas
00:19:08paul gives the universe way too much credit especially when it's me paul loves to give my credit away to
00:19:15the universe
00:19:16doesn't make sense to me at all
00:19:21i'm thomas i'm 31 years old and i live in long beach california
00:19:26i had just moved to l.a from north carolina days before i had met paula she's on a one
00:19:34-week
00:19:34vacation we meet up at the same beach volleyball class in hermosa beach and luckily we're both
00:19:40beginners because that's where our story starts tom my friend my new friend hola como estas como estas
00:19:48abel espanol no i'm from brazil i speak portuguese portuguese but i will teach him
00:19:55the first time we met we just like hit it off
00:19:59i thought that paul and i could be more than friends i will found you a brazilian girlfriend
00:20:05do you want to know yes but like me or different uh similar okay similar i was always scared to
00:20:16ruin
00:20:16the friendship with her if i was picking up on signals that just weren't there and we kind of
00:20:22turned this like pen pal situation and that lasted for years check it i miss the old paula straight from
00:20:29the go paula chop up the souls paula set on her goals paula stop it with this old paula new
00:20:37paula paula
00:20:38i am the paula i always was at a certain point like i feel like something was developing that i
00:20:48couldn't ignore and that's when i had made my move i went down to brazil and i was like hey
00:20:57paula is
00:20:58there anything between us like i can can we have like a romance her face like went white am i
00:21:06really
00:21:06listen to this like he's really saying that he wants a romance and i said thomas i have a boyfriend
00:21:12it was like a train wreck like absolutely worst case scenario but eventually paula breaks up with
00:21:19her boyfriend and then i don't know what changed but she just flipped the switch and she thinks all
00:21:25right let's give it a shot we were best friends and then overnight we became lovers just like that
00:21:32i mean it was quick and two years later we got engaged
00:21:52all right welcome to my living room paula has purchased a substantial
00:22:01amount of stuff online in advance of her arriving this one just showed up yesterday i mean this is
00:22:06massive i don't know what's in here exactly but i have my suspicions she loves collecting tiny stuff
00:22:13that's what she calls it her tiny stuffs with an s it's adorable but that's not the point the point
00:22:19is
00:22:20it's ridiculous paul and i have a lot of differences especially around personal philosophies
00:22:25i pretty much have a ton of steak on hand i eat meat she's a vegan i know that when
00:22:34she sees this
00:22:35stuff she doesn't see a food she sees the beautiful cow i'm completely minimalist what i find scary is
00:22:45clutter but for paula she wants every surface covered with like decorations or little knick-knacks or toys
00:22:51this is a gift from paula called a positivity poo i may be a tiny poo but i believe in
00:22:56you you go do
00:22:57your crap nice i believe in magic and thomas don't but he has to learn how to use
00:23:06tiny stuff and magic to start to manifest together with me because it's the only way as a couple we
00:23:14achieve our dreams together this is my couch this is the best couch solution on the market in my
00:23:22opinion i'm not a big fan of sofas in fact i find the best part of a sofa is the
00:23:28laying down portion i
00:23:29can lay down here i can enjoy coffee maybe on my phone i mean this is the life thomas have
00:23:38a horrible
00:23:39taste the apartment is empty there's nothing he's super minimalist it's horrible bad taste i also have
00:23:49a tiny table here which is my dining room table you took your knees in and all of a sudden
00:23:55you're at
00:23:55the perfect eating level i mean i'm just in a good spot to facilitate the full dining experience in a
00:24:02healthy way the worst is like how much he's excited look at this look like i have for you a
00:24:10tiny table
00:24:12who wants to like a camping table nobody
00:24:18thomas told me to bring you one bag but it's impossible take you only one so i'll take as much
00:24:25as i can we've been engaged two years and now we have to figure out how do we make these
00:24:33starkly
00:24:34different lifestyles work together i mean the last thing we want to do is get married and then realize
00:24:39you guys we were better off as friends
00:25:01derek cole you guys ready your dad's gonna be here soon
00:25:06i have all your stuff in here for camp like your water bottles and everything
00:25:11all right oh your dad's here what's up hey
00:25:21all right so listen their bags are packed football equipment where's your shoes oh yeah grab your shoes
00:25:27my god tonight do you want to give your mom a hug before you leave you better give her a
00:25:33hug
00:25:35my ex-husband michael is a great dad i'm not going to take that away from him but to me
00:25:40he wasn't a
00:25:41good fit for a husband love you love you love you love you dude be a good boy okay yeah
00:25:46however over the
00:25:49last several years we really worked on trying to co-parent in a healthy and kind way derek
00:25:57wait in the car i want to talk to daddy for a second um so do you want to just
00:26:02talk about like
00:26:03what's about to happen to my life are you ready to talk about what's about to happen to your life
00:26:08i mean i'm ready listen i've been this is like a long time i'm going to sit down here but
00:26:12like i'm
00:26:13worried about how the dynamic of our family is going to change you know and like he's going to play
00:26:19a role in the kids lives now and how does that make you feel it's not something that i'm looking
00:26:25forward
00:26:25to him but like what choice do i have all i'm saying is like you know let's just try to
00:26:32keep
00:26:32things at peace i'm going to keep it real well everything so far through the whole relationship
00:26:38was a was a bit of a shock first off she didn't tell me my kids told me and i
00:26:43thought that they
00:26:44were completely eavesdropping and misheard the wrong conversation so when i actually asked her about it
00:26:50my first initial thought was protective mode who is he what's he do does he have kids is he here
00:26:56for
00:26:56a green card what is going on here the honest question is is he ready for everything your family
00:27:03is very wealthy you got a million dollar home here and it can make you feel a certain way you
00:27:10know it
00:27:10just look i didn't feel like i fit in i saw what it did to you i felt like a
00:27:14loser so i get it
00:27:17you know my parents are you know affluent people they've exposed me to a lot as far as traveling
00:27:23really nice vacations beautiful hotels things like that so that's what i'm used to
00:27:28i know it'll be intimidating for edward to meet and spend time with my family because they're
00:27:35probably going to judge him and wonder what his intentions are just like they did with michael
00:27:42look i have my life with my kids i have my life with you you're bringing somebody else in
00:27:46i might have a little bit of an attitude he's going to be spending time with my children
00:27:51the only thing that was an absolute problem is if it's going to add stress to my boys
00:27:55it's going to be both of your guys problems
00:28:00whenever it gets here we're absolutely having a man-to-man conversation there's not a
00:28:04do we need to or should we it's it's absolutely happening i just hope that we can try to keep
00:28:10the
00:28:10peace in some way he needs to not come in hot and heavy and come at me a certain way
00:28:15because
00:28:16especially when it comes to my kids i'll bite someone's face off of my kids i've seen michael
00:28:22firsthand when he goes off and it is very scary and it is intimidating and another man will stand up
00:28:28to
00:28:28him and try to you know fight him and that's exactly what i don't want to happen ultimately
00:28:33the thing that we need to concentrate on is the well-being of the kids and by having their father
00:28:40and their soon-to-be stepfather at odds is never going to work for us listen it's my kids
00:28:49and i'm not going to around
00:28:55merhaba selam alaikum
00:28:57merhaba
00:28:58merhaba
00:28:58merhaba
00:28:59merhaba
00:29:11merhaba
00:29:12merhaba
00:29:14merhaba
00:29:25merhaba
00:29:28merhaba
00:29:31merhaba
00:29:32merhaba
00:29:44merhaba
00:29:50merhaba
00:29:51merhaba
00:29:54merhaba
00:29:55merhaba
00:30:03merhaba
00:30:04Come on.
00:30:08When she left me, I closed my belt,
00:30:13and I didn't open six months.
00:30:15I hope so.
00:30:18But last night, I want to make baby.
00:30:21No.
00:30:24Don't look at me like this, very hot.
00:30:28Get ready.
00:30:29Come on.
00:30:30No.
00:30:30Come on.
00:30:31Come on.
00:30:32Hadi, Hadi.
00:30:33Oh my gosh.
00:30:35I love you so much.
00:30:36I love you so much.
00:30:39Well, I'll run when I walk, and my tongue doesn't talk,
00:30:45and I can't even think, because love
00:30:49is a wonderful thing.
00:30:55So how do you feel?
00:30:58I feel bad, baby.
00:31:00I am sad right now.
00:31:01I know.
00:31:03It's going to be sad, emotional.
00:31:07Yeah.
00:31:09Today, we are going over to Rasha's sister's house to say
00:31:15goodbye, since we're leaving tomorrow.
00:31:19Ready?
00:31:20OK.
00:31:21One lady.
00:31:24Since my family, they can't come to our wedding party in America.
00:31:31They want to do Turkish wedding tradition.
00:31:37Traditions.
00:31:38Traditions.
00:31:39Like Turkish coffee, salt coffee.
00:31:42What's the salt coffee?
00:31:43Salt.
00:31:44Salt in the coffee.
00:31:45I put salt in your coffee?
00:31:47Yeah.
00:31:49Yeah.
00:31:49Merhaba.
00:31:50Selam aleyk.
00:31:50Oh.
00:31:51Well Al.
00:32:06The first time I met his mom, she was so loving.
00:32:08Like, she was so excited to meet me.
00:32:10My mom say, Rashid, if you make her sad,
00:32:17I don't give my milk.
00:32:19Huh?
00:32:20Oh.
00:32:22So weird.
00:32:24He ..
00:32:27When the EU Monday?
00:32:29Your travel, right?
00:32:30Yeah.
00:32:30It was a long.
00:32:31Yeah, about 20 hours.
00:32:32Yeah.
00:32:33But nice to see you.
00:32:34Yeah, it's nice to see you too.
00:32:36Yeah, it's worth it.
00:32:37Well worth it, I promise.
00:32:39Now, what amount of food will you go?
00:32:41I will not get two years.
00:32:44Two years?
00:32:45I will not get back.
00:32:47I will not get back.
00:32:48I will not die, I will not die.
00:32:49I will not die, I will not die.
00:32:51I will not die.
00:32:51Oh.
00:32:55For him.
00:32:56Buna.
00:32:59Malure, Rashid salt drink.
00:33:01Malure, you have to put salt in the coffee.
00:33:04This is our traditional.
00:33:06It means good luck in your future.
00:33:09All salt?
00:33:10Please.
00:33:10The whole thing?
00:33:11Please.
00:33:11What?
00:33:12No.
00:33:12No?
00:33:13Salt coffee means our life not going to sweet all the time.
00:33:18So you're saying it represents that our marriage, there's
00:33:23going to be good times and bad times.
00:33:27Right.
00:33:27Drinking that nasty coffee is showing that you'll be able to handle
00:33:31the bad times.
00:33:32Yes.
00:33:33Got it.
00:33:36Chug it, chug it, chug it, chug it, chug it, chug.
00:33:39You can try gents with babies.
00:33:41No, you chug it, chug it, chug it, chug it.
00:33:43Come on, come on, come on, come on, come on, come on.
00:33:48I hope he will not get harder talk.
00:33:52Not good.
00:33:54But my inside is working.
00:33:59Okay.
00:34:03Let's do it.
00:34:05With women.
00:34:07Oh.
00:34:14You forgot to leave Marmaris.
00:34:17I would like to do this.
00:34:20I would like to live here.
00:34:22What will be there?
00:34:25First of all, I will not work.
00:34:29That is a lot.
00:34:30When I went there, I would like to support my mom and dad.
00:34:35Now, I don't have my mother's house.
00:34:39I have no home anymore.
00:34:40I have no home anymore.
00:34:44February 2023.
00:34:47In Kahramanmaraş has very big Euclid.
00:34:52People are sad.
00:34:56The wall is on top of my dad.
00:34:59My dad has gone from the wall.
00:35:02But...
00:35:07I don't know.
00:35:08the wall is still sitting in the pool.
00:35:12In the pool.
00:35:12Now, I think the house is a floor.
00:35:17But I think the house is up to the floor.
00:35:20And these houses...
00:35:23There are none.
00:35:25We have no power.
00:35:27There are no power.
00:35:27The house is not enough.
00:35:34We have no power.
00:35:34We have no power.
00:35:35I have no power.
00:35:36I will not have the power.
00:35:37But I will talk about it with my mother and my father.
00:35:46If you get support...
00:35:48Everything is related to malaria.
00:35:50Because I will not work there.
00:35:52I will not have money.
00:35:54I will look at malaria for everything.
00:36:02Turkey is very important.
00:36:05Man making money for family.
00:36:10But...
00:36:11I need money from malaria.
00:36:13I haven't talked yet.
00:36:15I will not tell malaria.
00:36:16I will not know.
00:36:19It will not be wrong.
00:36:21It will not be wrong.
00:36:21It will not be wrong.
00:36:22It will not be wrong.
00:36:24And...
00:36:26I need to help my family.
00:36:48If you could shoot that in a bag, that would be helpful.
00:36:50Can I fold it?
00:36:52You don't have to fold it.
00:36:53Just shove it in.
00:36:55I enjoy folding things.
00:36:56Okay, fine.
00:36:57You pack so British.
00:37:01Do you want some water?
00:37:13Did I drink it all down?
00:37:14Okay, yeah.
00:37:16I won't go first.
00:37:17I won't go first.
00:37:18Ah!
00:37:20So the day is here and Katie and I are moving out of the hotel.
00:37:24And we are going to see the new apartment.
00:37:28I have no idea what to expect.
00:37:30But Katie is worse for wear.
00:37:33She is very high over.
00:37:34And this is my welcome party.
00:37:37And she is in a state.
00:37:39Yeah?
00:37:39Yeah.
00:37:40I'm sorry.
00:37:41I'm sorry.
00:37:43I punched the water.
00:37:46I'm not fully sure what to think about last night.
00:37:51I had a good time chatting with people.
00:37:53But Katie also was just like a bit brazenly complimentary about some of the guys she's hooked up with.
00:38:04I think there are just some things that to me are just so blindingly obvious about respect in a relationship.
00:38:12And I often assume Katie gets it.
00:38:15But I guess sometimes she doesn't.
00:38:19Was I too crazy last night?
00:38:21Like I remember most of it.
00:38:22I just remember seeing you just go up to the bar and just like one to get the two to
00:38:26get the three.
00:38:26Okay.
00:38:27But they were spread out.
00:38:28Like the first one was like at the beginning.
00:38:31And the second one was kind of at the beginning also.
00:38:35Yeah, I realized as a grown older I can't really do shots.
00:38:38And I think you quite enjoy doing shots.
00:38:40I like them.
00:38:41I think they kind of catch up with you the end of the night.
00:38:45I mean, we got in the cab and you were just like out straight away.
00:38:49I don't remember getting in the cab and anything in the cab.
00:38:54Or getting here.
00:38:57Was like, did I annoy anyone by being too drunk or like stumbling or?
00:39:01Are you worried that you did annoy someone or are you just asking just in general?
00:39:09Sometimes like you ask 20 times.
00:39:12Yeah.
00:39:13Whether you've annoyed someone or, you know, that sort of thing.
00:39:16And I think it's slightly maybe OCD type thing.
00:39:20Oh.
00:39:20What do you think?
00:39:21No, it's definitely OCD.
00:39:23I know that 100%.
00:39:25This is one of my least favorite feelings, waking up and not knowing what I've done while drunk.
00:39:31Like it really like scares me that I could have like offended or hurt one of my friends or Josh.
00:39:37Even if there's like no proof that that even happened.
00:39:40Like my brain will just make up stuff that could have happened.
00:39:43And then I need proof it didn't happen.
00:39:46So it's definitely like a really rough feeling.
00:39:50I realize you drink differently to me.
00:39:54Like it's something to think about, like going towards marriage, like being on the same page.
00:40:01Do you think?
00:40:03Yeah.
00:40:04I think that I wouldn't want to have a kid and then, you know, even just the first couple of
00:40:10days of being here, like if we carry on like this, I think, you know, we need to be stable
00:40:15before having a kid.
00:40:17Like that's kind of my kind of real bottom line for that kind of stuff.
00:40:22Is that fair?
00:40:24Yeah, I guess I don't have that much to stay on it right now because it feels like it's in
00:40:29the future.
00:40:31It takes a lot of energy to deal with the absurdity of your loving partner being such a ferocious party
00:40:42girl.
00:40:42And I think that as I'm starting to think about getting married, that I'm starting to think, actually, this, this
00:40:50does need to change.
00:40:53My head hurts.
00:40:56I want to be able to look at Katie and think of stability and feel secure and think that one
00:41:06day this could be someone that I want to have children with.
00:41:08And so I don't know what that means if we can't get on the same page in the next 90
00:41:14days, whether, whether we're actually as compatible as I thought we are.
00:41:23You know, chickens got a pecking order.
00:41:25One of them's a boss in.
00:41:28Alison's kind of bossy and a bully.
00:41:30I can handle it.
00:41:32My daughter, Alison, she's not going to let Annabelle get between her and her dad.
00:41:39Oh, hey, guys.
00:41:41You know, it's liable to get kind of rough.
00:41:44Oh, my God.
00:41:46Well, she really laughed.
00:41:56Yeah.
00:41:56Yeah.
00:42:00Yeah.
00:42:00Did you like sexy down last night, baby?
00:42:03I feel like 19 years old.
00:42:05Everything works.
00:42:07Chicken soup.
00:42:08Yeah.
00:42:09Mm-hmm.
00:42:10Love you, my baby.
00:42:11Love you, too.
00:42:14Oh, baby, if you're ready to go.
00:42:18All you gotta do is let me know.
00:42:22Give me that signal.
00:42:24How have you been satisfied yourself for been two years?
00:42:31You mean, like, sexually since?
00:42:33Yeah.
00:42:35Well, I mean, babe, it's like, you know, me and you never, like, have phone sex or nothing,
00:42:40so you know what we do sometimes.
00:42:43I know.
00:42:44I think Annabelle's shy to have phone sex.
00:42:47Yeah, of course I'm shy.
00:42:49And, plus, you always have, you've got seven or eight people in your house, so it's not like you can't.
00:42:54And they're always awake, and they'd be coming to check if there's a weird noise coming out of the bedroom.
00:43:00Well, you want to get our day started, baby?
00:43:03Mm-hmm, I'm excited.
00:43:05We're up.
00:43:07Oh, Lord.
00:43:12Okay, let me get your dress.
00:43:14Okay.
00:43:21Always want to dress me, baby.
00:43:22I love you.
00:43:25Annabelle always wants to put my shoes on, my socks on, my underwear on.
00:43:30You know, in the Philippines, it's the way that you're gonna care how to take care of the love of
00:43:36your life.
00:43:37Oh.
00:43:37Yeah, shut the door, babe.
00:43:40Mm-hmm.
00:43:43What do you think?
00:43:44I'm your fiancé or your...
00:43:47Sometimes you feel like my mommy.
00:43:50You good?
00:43:51Yeah, thank you.
00:43:53Oh, very nice here, baby.
00:43:55Oh, it's cold.
00:43:56Baby, it's not that cold.
00:43:57It feels good.
00:43:58Right.
00:43:59We got shorts on.
00:44:00Mm-hmm.
00:44:01It's just different from what you're used to, but...
00:44:03Kentucky girl, huh?
00:44:05Kentucky American girl.
00:44:14Look at the deer right there, baby.
00:44:16There's three deer.
00:44:17Oh, wow.
00:44:18Yeah.
00:44:18What month of the deer season?
00:44:21Deer season's November.
00:44:23November.
00:44:24I've still got a lot in the freezer we cook.
00:44:27You know, I'm gonna get you a wok and you can put, like, some broccoli and cut those deer steaks
00:44:32up in little cubes.
00:44:34Put that over some rice, babe.
00:44:36Uh-huh.
00:44:40For Filipino, it's rice is life.
00:44:42Yeah, I know rice is life, baby.
00:44:45But we have other options.
00:44:47We have potatoes and bread and onion rings.
00:44:52You know, we have a lot of different options that take the place of eating rice.
00:44:56I mean, to me, that's kind of, that's kind of bland.
00:44:59If I thought I'm gonna eat the same thing every meal, I wouldn't even be able to look at rice.
00:45:06So Allison's at the house right now.
00:45:08And, you know, I told you Allison's kind of bossy and a bully, so...
00:45:16If she gets, uh, she's attitude sometimes, just ignore it and then leave her alone, babe.
00:45:21I can handle it.
00:45:23You know how they got a, chicken's got a pecking order and one of them's a boss hen.
00:45:27The boss, the meanest hen that tells everybody what to do, I think you're boss hen at the Philippines, ain't
00:45:32you?
00:45:33One of my daughters, Allison, she lives beside me with her children and she's a total daddy's girl.
00:45:40And she's also made it known that she's not gonna let Annabelle get between her and her dad.
00:45:48You know, it's gonna be tricky.
00:45:50I'm a little bit, you know, a little nervous about how to handle all of it.
00:45:53You know, it's liable to get kind of rough.
00:45:58This is the neighborhood by our house.
00:46:01I spoke Allison on the video call many times.
00:46:06I feel like that she, uh, competition to her dad with me.
00:46:14See the red reflectors?
00:46:15That's my driveway, babe.
00:46:18So, I'm nervous to meet her in person.
00:46:23Grab your purse, I'll just come back and get the bags in a little bit.
00:46:26Okay.
00:46:26And we can go on in and see the house, baby.
00:46:28Okay.
00:46:32Yeah, so that Allison's is over here, babe.
00:46:35And then we got the gate that keeps the dogs in.
00:46:38Mm-hmm.
00:46:39Storage out there, babe.
00:46:40Okay.
00:46:42That's how you open that gate.
00:46:43Wow.
00:46:45Mm-hmm.
00:46:46Big house.
00:46:49Got your front porch.
00:46:53Go in.
00:46:57Oh, hey guys.
00:46:58Oh, hey guys.
00:47:00Oh, come on.
00:47:00Come on, Pop.
00:47:01Call me, Belle's here.
00:47:02Oh.
00:47:05Cruz, look who's here.
00:47:06Cruz, hi.
00:47:09Stop.
00:47:10Calm down.
00:47:11So good to see you.
00:47:13Cruz.
00:47:13Call me, Cruz.
00:47:15Oh, you're so good.
00:47:18River, I mean, Cruz, just call me, Belle.
00:47:20Calm down.
00:47:21Can you give her hugs?
00:47:24Hello.
00:47:25Say hi.
00:47:26Say hi.
00:47:27Say hi.
00:47:28Cruz, you believe Mommy Belle's here?
00:47:30Huh?
00:47:31Yeah.
00:47:32Well, I don't know.
00:47:33Welcome to your new house.
00:47:34I don't know.
00:47:34The kids kind of made a mess, but...
00:47:36It wasn't like this when I left for St. Louis, I promise you.
00:47:41What?
00:47:43River.
00:47:44Your daughter's trying to open the house.
00:47:47River.
00:47:48Yeah, she does that.
00:47:49River.
00:47:50Stop.
00:47:51Hi.
00:47:53Cruz, chill.
00:47:57When I walk in, I can't believe that it's a mess inside.
00:48:02Everywhere, the hair dogs everywhere.
00:48:06And, oh, my God, I didn't expect this.
00:48:10It's all crazy here.
00:48:13I can't believe this.
00:48:15Mama!
00:48:17Well, she already laughed.
00:48:20Baby.
00:48:28We're going out.
00:48:30It's a beautiful day.
00:48:33Let's see.
00:48:33Palmer's flight is on time.
00:48:35She's halfway here.
00:48:36Only, like, three more hours.
00:48:40Sweet.
00:48:48The only thing this table is missing is my fiancee right here on the other side.
00:48:53That's the dream, baby.
00:48:55I wanna, I wanna, I wanna hold up to this electric field.
00:49:05This is a little gluten-free cake I like to make for myself.
00:49:08This has beef tallow in it, so Paula probably won't be able to eat it.
00:49:12She'll probably refuse to eat it.
00:49:14Paula arrives today, and I can't believe it.
00:49:17We first met seven years ago, and we've gone through such a journey to get to this day.
00:49:23I wanna show Paula how much I love her.
00:49:26I'm putting together rice, beans, tofu, and then I'll surprise her at the airport with a nice warm lunch,
00:49:32because I know she didn't get anything on the, on the flight over here.
00:49:35It's gonna be a big adjustment.
00:49:37I mean, we love each other, but we are total opposites in almost every way imaginable.
00:49:46So now, here's for the special ingredients.
00:49:52It's, uh, pega, which means to, to grab, and then esposa, which means wife.
00:49:57So it means literally, like, take, take hold of your wife, as in, like, the spice is meant to persuade
00:50:03your wife that you're good at cooking.
00:50:05So anyways, hopefully it works, hopefully that magic works for, for Paula here.
00:50:11I'm worried how this is gonna pan out.
00:50:14I have no idea which direction this is gonna go for us, but right now, I'm just trying to focus
00:50:18on,
00:50:20her being here in America.
00:50:22And I wanna make sure that this is a really memorable experience for her when she first gets here.
00:50:28Alright.
00:50:29Chocolates.
00:50:31My welcome flag for my Brazilian.
00:50:53This is a, a trip I'm so familiar with.
00:50:56I've done this so many times.
00:50:58One time when I dropped Paula off, one of the flight attendants said something that hit me so hard.
00:51:02She said, what, why are you letting her leave by herself?
00:51:06And today, finally, I'm picking her up with, with no drop off date.
00:51:10We finally get to build our life and, and, and be together forever.
00:51:21Are we strong enough?
00:51:25Can we make the cut?
00:51:29Can we cross the finish line?
00:51:33Make it out in time.
00:51:37Can we pass the bar?
00:51:40Can we make the grade?
00:51:43She sent me like the little instructions they gave her and they said, this is a one way visa.
00:51:48You either get married or you leave immediately.
00:51:51So I am, I'm ready.
00:51:54I am.
00:51:55It's shocking to hear them speak like that.
00:51:57But yeah, this is it.
00:51:58It's, it's now or never.
00:52:08We can't do anything.
00:52:12We can't be anyone.
00:52:15Oh my God.
00:52:17Welcome to the city.
00:52:22Before.
00:52:25talking to the 10th century.
00:52:34Welcome to my city.
00:52:34Because of the east of 2017.
00:52:35It's so good.
00:52:38I know.
00:52:42I'm sorry if I put it.
00:52:52Don't cry.
00:52:53My God, who is so emotional?
00:52:56You are the chosen.
00:52:58Thanks, amor.
00:52:59The universe has chosen you.
00:53:02But I don't think this is just manifestation.
00:53:05I put in a lot of work for this day to happen.
00:53:07Like, thanks, Thomas, for all the things you did to me.
00:53:12You did my K1 visa.
00:53:14You did all the documents and all the process.
00:53:17And I'm here because of you.
00:53:19But God first.
00:53:20Oh, meu Deus, I love you so much.
00:53:23Are you hungry?
00:53:24Yes.
00:53:26OK.
00:53:27Guess what's in here.
00:53:29I don't know, water?
00:53:30No, feijão.
00:53:32It's beans.
00:53:33And look, I made tofu and rice.
00:53:35But where do you want to eat this?
00:53:38Here?
00:53:38We'll find a place.
00:53:40Who put a bean in a coffee bottle, Thomas?
00:53:44No, so it'll stay warm.
00:53:46Smell that.
00:53:47Mm, good.
00:53:49Mm.
00:53:49Can I drink the bean?
00:53:51You want to drink it?
00:53:52I'm hungry.
00:54:03Delicious.
00:54:06Nailed it.
00:54:10Oh, they are there.
00:54:12I have a bad news.
00:54:14The pink one is all broken.
00:54:17Jeez.
00:54:18Oh, my God.
00:54:19You weren't even kidding.
00:54:21So what did you pack that's breaking the bag so bad?
00:54:27Did you pack any tiny stuff in here?
00:54:29Yes.
00:54:30Jeez.
00:54:31I think you might have a problem, like, I don't, where does it stop?
00:54:34Like, how many tiny things do you need?
00:54:36They are all tools to help me, to help us, to be exactly where we are right now.
00:54:43This is an addiction that she's, that's gotten out of control and she's trying to find a business
00:54:47justification by saying, this is the core of success for my business and my aspirations in life.
00:54:54I'm gonna, I'm gonna be excited to see what the IRS says when you start reporting your receipts for tiny
00:54:59stuff and say it's a business expense.
00:55:01Well, uh, Mr. Uncle Sam, I've been manifesting quite a bit with all these, uh, purchases I have of tiny
00:55:07stuff, so they're tax-deductible.
00:55:10Please, please, please make that case.
00:55:12I would love to see how your audit goes.
00:55:16Yeah.
00:55:17Okay.
00:55:17Okay, let's go.
00:55:20Thanks, Amor.
00:55:21All right, here we go.
00:55:22You look handsome and you look stronger, so it's easy for you, right?
00:55:26You like to show your muscles.
00:55:40You like to show your muscles.
00:55:43Yes.
00:55:44Yes.
00:55:45Yes.
00:55:45Yes.
00:55:47Yes.
00:55:51Yes.
00:55:53Yes.
00:55:54Yes.
00:56:04Yes.
00:56:05Come on, let's go.
00:56:38But when we will come back again, I don't know.
00:56:49Yeah.
00:57:07Come on, let's go.
00:57:09See you.
00:57:11Bye bye.
00:57:36Oh, no, we can do it.
00:57:39Shh.
00:57:56You should have had a little bit of this.
00:58:00Yeah.
00:58:02Yeah, I love her.
00:58:10You got shoes?
00:58:12What's up?
00:58:13Let's go.
00:58:14Shh.
00:58:17Shh, shh.
00:58:22When I see Rasha's mom, Anae, crying and sobbing,
00:58:28it just tears me apart because the reason why he's leaving everything behind is for me.
00:58:38And I definitely am feeling a lot of pressure now when it comes to bringing him to America,
00:58:44and I'm just hoping that we're not making a huge mistake.
00:58:48It's a hard time.
00:58:52Your message is okay.
00:58:54Yeah.
00:58:56Don't let me go.
00:58:58Stop.
00:58:58It's someone?
00:58:59Happy, thanks too.
00:59:02Hi, honey.
00:59:03Lost in the night.
00:59:09Lost in the night.
00:59:12Lost in the night.
00:59:12Oh, my God.
00:59:46As I'm waiting at the airport for Mito, I know that his flight is landed because I can see on
00:59:53the board and the luggage coming through, but I'm not even sure if he even got on the plane.
00:59:59At this point, I'm just hoping that he got caught up in customs or immigration. I'm not ready to give
01:00:05up hope just yet.
01:00:25I'm not ready to give up hope just yet.
01:00:45I thought you weren't on the plane.
01:01:02Mito, why did you decide to surprise Debbie?
01:01:05I want to surprise Debbie because she didn't look, she didn't see me for a long time, and I want
01:01:12to play with her.
01:01:14And I wanted to strangle him.
01:01:18But it's okay, I'm here now.
01:01:20I'm here.
01:01:23You can't touch.
01:01:26Yeah.
01:01:27Yeah.
01:01:28Oh, welcome to U.S.
01:01:33Welcome.
01:01:38I am here.
01:01:41In U.S.
01:01:44And inshallah, I will be the famous actor here in U.S.
01:01:48You want me to act something?
01:01:49Yes.
01:01:50Okay.
01:01:52I'm going to make offer.
01:01:55He can't refuse.
01:01:59You talking to me?
01:02:01You talking to me?
01:02:04I will be back.
01:02:09If you read history, nothing is possible in this life.
01:02:13You can do anything.
01:02:14I'm here now, so I think that's time to catch my dream.
01:02:18And, of course, I'm also here to marry my fiancée, Debbie.
01:02:23I thought you weren't on the plane.
01:02:26Really?
01:02:29I was literally in the bathroom throwing up because I was so worried.
01:02:35She gave me good kiss with flavor vomit.
01:02:40No, I had mouthwash.
01:02:41No.
01:02:42No, I had mouthwash.
01:02:46I was just, hmm.
01:02:50What's that?
01:02:51Okay.
01:02:52Well, yeah, it was not a fun surprise.
01:02:54It was not a fun surprise.
01:02:56It's a fun surprise.
01:02:57No.
01:02:58Did you inform Willis Mesa and Tom Cruise I'm here?
01:03:02I did, but they didn't respond.
01:03:11Let's go.
01:03:11Let's go.
01:03:19All I know at this point is that his plane has arrived.
01:03:22I'm nervous.
01:03:23Like, in the weirdest way, I'm so nervous.
01:03:27I don't know if I want to give this single, independent woman part of me up.
01:03:33But I want to take this leap of faith for us.
01:03:53I am taking the last few moments of my life in peace and quiet before the chaos starts.
01:04:00I woke up in the middle of the night.
01:04:03It's like 2 o'clock in the morning.
01:04:04And I just, like, said, oh, my God.
01:04:07This is, like, the last night I'm going to be sleeping in my big, beautiful bed alone.
01:04:12And I kind of had a mini panic attack in the middle of the night.
01:04:29I'm going to make a little present for Edward because I wanted to make sure that Edward feels welcomed when
01:04:37he comes to the United States.
01:04:38And, you know, I'm not the type that's going to show up to the airport with balloons, a big, like,
01:04:42welcome to the U.S. sign or, like, stuffed animals and stuff.
01:04:44So I thought a nice gesture would be to, like, get a house key and wrap it in a little
01:04:50box so he has, like, you know, something to open, something to be excited about.
01:04:54And then it's like, surprise, you have a key to a new home.
01:04:57Does the key work?
01:05:00Well, the key doesn't actually work because everything in my entry system is digital.
01:05:06But it's the meaning behind the key.
01:05:08It's not necessarily that it has to work.
01:05:10It's just like, now you're a part of this house.
01:05:14I never get nervous to see Edward.
01:05:17Like, this is a strange feeling for me.
01:05:19This day has been a long time coming.
01:05:21We started the process over a year ago, and I cannot believe that we are about to embark on our
01:05:2790 days together.
01:05:40We always had this, like, dream of, like, living together and having this beautiful future together.
01:05:47But I don't know if I want to give this, you know, single, independent woman part of me up.
01:05:54And so, like, it's been a struggle back and forth with my feelings.
01:05:58But I love Edward so much that I want to take this leap of faith for us.
01:06:07All I know at this point is that his plane has arrived.
01:06:11I'm really just, like, in a waiting game right now, like, waiting for him to, like, show up in those
01:06:15doors.
01:06:19I don't know.
01:06:20I don't even, like, believe that he's going to walk through the doors.
01:06:23I don't really think that this is happening.
01:06:25And I'm also, like, nervous.
01:06:28Like, in, like, the weirdest way.
01:06:29I'm so nervous.
01:06:46I don't know.
01:07:02Wait, is it really here?
01:07:04I know.
01:07:08You're really here.
01:07:09I know, I know, I know.
01:07:11I feel the same thing.
01:07:13My name is Edward, and I'm from Dominican Republic.
01:07:18So I've never been outside my country before.
01:07:20This is my first time in an airplane.
01:07:22So I was open the window all the time.
01:07:25And everybody was, like, like, what the is this guy?
01:07:29Like, close the window, you know?
01:07:30But nobody say nothing, you know?
01:07:32There was a lady, she say, like, can you please, like, close the window because they're lying.
01:07:37And I'm like, oh, okay, I'm sorry.
01:07:39I didn't know this.
01:07:40That's your first time flying?
01:07:41And I say, yes.
01:07:42And I say, see, I see.
01:07:44That's what she said.
01:07:55I'm excited to show them New York a lot because, like, that's such an iconic city.
01:08:00It's going to be amazing.
01:08:03And Edward, what are you excited to show Marissa?
01:08:07Oh, I have something new.
01:08:10Brown, you.
01:08:13And the lady next to me, she said, you pee a lot.
01:08:15And I'll say, yes.
01:08:17I was not.
01:08:18I just check everything, see everything is okay.
01:08:19Like, yeah, everything is fine.
01:08:23Oh, I have to give you something.
01:08:27Oh, no.
01:08:28Well, I had a ribbon on it, but it fell off.
01:08:30Oh, thank you.
01:08:32That's for me?
01:08:32This is your Welcome to America gift.
01:08:34Oh, for real?
01:08:35I need to open now?
01:08:36Yes.
01:08:36Oh, thanks.
01:08:43It's the key to your new home.
01:08:46Oh, thank you.
01:08:48Aw, that's so sweet.
01:08:51And this is for me to lose you or something like this?
01:08:54I suppose it would be like this?
01:08:55No, I just put it on.
01:08:59For the past two years, we've really been through a lot.
01:09:02Sometimes I think maybe going through the K-1 visa process is, like, intentional just to
01:09:07see if your relationship can endure the hardest moments.
01:09:10Like, so we appreciate now being together in this moment just because, like, it's been
01:09:16a long time waiting.
01:09:18And to have Edward here now just feels like probably one of the best days in our relationship
01:09:23so far.
01:09:30You're here.
01:09:31I know.
01:09:35Oh, yeah, the dogs are happy.
01:09:42Oh, yeah.
01:09:43Fargo?
01:09:43I know.
01:09:44I know.
01:09:44I know.
01:09:44Get down.
01:09:45Look.
01:09:46I know.
01:09:46Come over and see Annabelle.
01:09:47I know.
01:09:48Welcome to dog hair land.
01:09:56Birthday is underneath my skin.
01:10:01Come on, baby.
01:10:02Let's look at the house.
01:10:03Okay.
01:10:04Here's the kitchen.
01:10:05Okay.
01:10:06And it's got toys all over it, too.
01:10:08Mm-hmm.
01:10:09Yeah.
01:10:09Uh-huh.
01:10:10Look how big the fridge is here, man, compared to...
01:10:13Fridge in the Philippines.
01:10:14Compared to yours.
01:10:15Dining room, baby.
01:10:17Oh, it looks dirty.
01:10:19That's the oven, baby.
01:10:20You've never used an oven.
01:10:21Mm-hmm.
01:10:22But that's where you'll bake and...
01:10:24Wow.
01:10:24You've never used an oven before?
01:10:26Oh, I don't have a oven in the Philippines.
01:10:27What's it?
01:10:28They just use cooktops with gas, so she never used an electric top either.
01:10:33Mm-hmm.
01:10:33So I'll have to show you...
01:10:34Oh, nice.
01:10:37Oh, my God.
01:10:39American home is so different from Philippines.
01:10:43It's so big.
01:10:44And she has oven in the kitchen.
01:10:48I never had that in the Philippines.
01:10:50I like this kitchen a lot.
01:10:53You should see all the clothes Dad got you in the closet in his room.
01:10:56Oh, yeah, it's in the bedroom.
01:10:57We'll go look.
01:10:58Yeah.
01:11:00All right.
01:11:01Come here.
01:11:01And this is laundry.
01:11:02I'll show you in a minute.
01:11:03And here's our bedroom.
01:11:05Uh-huh.
01:11:06Hello.
01:11:07It's kind of big, like the one we stayed in last night, right, babe?
01:11:10Yeah.
01:11:10See the deer?
01:11:11Mm-hmm.
01:11:13All four corners.
01:11:15Oh, my God.
01:11:17Hi.
01:11:19Babe, this is a light, babe.
01:11:23There are so many dead animals in the room.
01:11:26Why there's so many dead animals?
01:11:29It looks weird, the deer, and the eyes and the horn.
01:11:34Oh, my gosh.
01:11:36It's Kentucky, babe.
01:11:37Have you ever heard of a redneck?
01:11:39Nope.
01:11:40Wow.
01:11:41I used to be a redneck.
01:11:43Still worried.
01:11:44Yeah.
01:11:46Fish, I caught in Florida.
01:11:48Uh-huh.
01:11:48I think they're going to watch us how you're having sex.
01:11:53We'll put a towel over their head.
01:11:55How about that?
01:11:59There's your speaker, babe.
01:12:01Uh-huh.
01:12:03Nike shorts.
01:12:05Here's your bull of a watch.
01:12:07Oh, yeah.
01:12:08And then here's your diamond earrings.
01:12:11Look at those, babe.
01:12:13Wow.
01:12:13It looks like diamond.
01:12:15They are diamond earrings, babe.
01:12:19Here's your chain you wanted.
01:12:20See how it fits.
01:12:22Mm-hmm.
01:12:28Oh, yeah.
01:12:29It looks really good, babe.
01:12:31I like that a lot.
01:12:32It looks pretty.
01:12:34I'm a little shocked that my dad got Annabelle so many gifts, honestly.
01:12:38All the jewelry and stuff.
01:12:40He does not give me stuff like that.
01:12:41So I was a little caught off guard by that.
01:12:45You don't ever buy me anything like that?
01:12:48Oh, you get plenty.
01:12:49I don't get no jewelry.
01:12:53I told my dad before she got here, if I feel like I'm in competition, then I'm sticking with those.
01:13:00They don't need to get married, and she needs to go back.
01:13:03Yeah.
01:13:08All right.
01:13:09Well, kids are getting cranky, so we're probably going to head on home.
01:13:12Can we get a couple of dollars?
01:13:15Here you go.
01:13:17Say thanks.
01:13:18Y'all can get you a biscuit in the morning before church.
01:13:21All right.
01:13:22We'll see you later.
01:13:23Okay.
01:13:24Bye, guys.
01:13:25Whew.
01:13:27God.
01:13:29So why you give money to Allison?
01:13:35Well, because she probably didn't have any cash,
01:13:39and the kids, Sunday morning, they're probably just going to go get biscuits and stuff.
01:13:45She lives over there, baby.
01:13:49She pays.
01:13:52Um, no, she doesn't pay any rent.
01:13:55Why?
01:13:56I mean, I just single mom.
01:13:59I mean, she's separated, and I just never have made her pay rent.
01:14:02It sounds like a free house.
01:14:07She'd grown a woman already.
01:14:10I understand that, but it's also my daughter.
01:14:14It should be the children taking of the parents, not the parents who are taking care of the children.
01:14:40It's just a few dollars just to get some biscuits for the kids.
01:14:44I mean, just don't let it bother you.
01:14:49It's so weird how close Shay and Allison, because she's grown already.
01:14:55She's asking money for her, and she's always asking a favor.
01:15:01I don't want to be an ever-stepmom, but this needs to change.
01:15:07She's a troublemaker, you know.
01:15:10I'm not happy about that.
01:15:15And, baby, you know, when I be there, I don't work.
01:15:19If my mom call me, like, Rashid, can you send me, like, 10,000 Turkish liras?
01:15:26People think Americans are so rich.
01:15:29But my parents need help.
01:15:32I don't make that much money.
01:15:34I'm happy.
01:15:35I'm happy.
01:15:37Hi.
01:15:38Hi.
01:15:38Hi.
01:15:38Hi.
01:15:38Hi.
01:15:39Hi.
01:15:39Hi.
01:15:57Hi.
01:16:06time he's driving like an asshole baby you know in america your government don't give me
01:16:15work six months or one more one years can i see your government
01:16:20uh president president Donald Donald Trump famous in turkey dance for dance yeah the dance the trump
01:16:36dance yeah just knock on the white house door and say hello give me my work visa yeah no you
01:16:43can't do
01:16:43that really yeah how are you feeling i just fell right there it's not easy what what you're doing at
01:17:03all
01:17:05i mean you have to leave this beautiful place yeah to live in alabama you know
01:17:18nothing but feels everything is for you you know this yeah i know babe
01:17:31so after saying goodbye to his family our family last night we are now on our way
01:17:38to head to the airport and start our one of many yeah airplane rides to america ready
01:17:50i don't know
01:17:54baby you know when i be there i don't work i i can't work for a little bit yeah when
01:18:03i be there
01:18:04i feel like pool no but i don't want to be this
01:18:17and my brothers ask me how you help mom dad
01:18:24we are in Turkey for example we are in Turkey to help families to help families to help families
01:18:32um
01:18:32are
01:18:32speaking please
01:18:34many
01:18:39long
01:18:40Um
01:18:48in
01:18:49see
01:18:50six months or three months like my mom called me like Rashid can you send me like 10 000 Turkish
01:19:00maybe you will say oh like your family like very poor maybe you will say this but you have to
01:19:07ask me we have to talk about it because you know i have my mortgage yeah i have you know
01:19:16my car payment right now i have you know the bills you can't just say yes
01:19:26why are you just now telling me that we're gonna have to send money back we talk with brothers about
01:19:37help about money like yeah exactly sometimes people think like oh americans are so rich but my
01:19:46parents need to help
01:19:52baby i am very afraid about this anna baba need to help baby
01:20:00you can work one day just for my parents like that's not how that works i don't make that much
01:20:08money
01:20:09you know my family live in tents yeah i know that i mean you can help baby but you don't
01:20:16want to
01:20:17help i i feel this of course i want to help your parents it's not about that i don't think
01:20:24you
01:20:24understand how much things cost in america you haven't lived with me you don't see what comes in
01:20:30and goes out i mean as soon as i get paid boom my money is gone you say this but
01:20:36i feel like
01:20:40oh i'm sorry you feel that way you made me this
01:20:53next time on 90 day fiance
01:20:57you said this was different but where's the difference i cleaned it up this is a single man
01:21:04house i'll clean out these bags but you just got to put your clothes in here this is so tiny
01:21:09thomas
01:21:10are you crazy you are treating me as a guest here are you really want to marry me if thomas
01:21:16doesn't
01:21:17start to accommodate me here i have no problem to go back i think it's going to take like a
01:21:23couple
01:21:23months for you to months no maximum seven days
01:21:30i think that's her pulling up
01:21:34oh my god that's a bad world
01:21:38very hot for me adjust your culture i am american yeah
01:21:45oh my god i am here
01:21:50who is um it's brandon he's coming right now yeah really what this is very
01:21:59this is my house and i am boss here what up about time
01:22:08yes in the mighty name of jesus with the power of god right now
01:22:14my friend patricia she's a prophetess
01:22:22she's been given prophetic words and not once heaven not came to pass i think you know visitation
01:22:29will be good you have to come together be as one it's necessary it's vital that i go to nigeria
01:22:35god is going to turn this thing around for the good
01:22:40do you just not want to like talk anymore
01:22:43i can't i will not continuously sit back and get walked all over i'm not happy neither am i i
01:22:53i will be down on stage
01:22:55pisses me off
01:22:58everybody knows shay and now that you're in the picture i thought that you might be like a mail order
01:23:04bride
01:23:05people saying about me well i mean not about you personally but it has come up
01:23:19i don't want to listen your crap
01:23:25please
01:23:26jeez
01:23:26jeez
01:23:26jeez
01:23:30jeez
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