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Wedding bells are chiming, but planning is proving to be a hilarious rollercoaster! Join us as we dive into the chaotic journey of wedding preparations with just seven months left. From revisiting a memorable first date at an apple orchard to the complexities of planning a joint bachelor/bachelorette party, this episode is packed with laughter and relatable moments.
Discover the heartfelt struggles with wedding party dynamics, especially when a maid of honor's commitment is uncertain. We'll also touch on the unexpected DIY wedding projects and the anticipation of a special ceremony. This is a candid look at love, friendship, and the beautiful mess of planning your big day.
#WeddingPlanning #CoupleGoals #DIYWedding
Discover the heartfelt struggles with wedding party dynamics, especially when a maid of honor's commitment is uncertain. We'll also touch on the unexpected DIY wedding projects and the anticipation of a special ceremony. This is a candid look at love, friendship, and the beautiful mess of planning your big day.
#WeddingPlanning #CoupleGoals #DIYWedding
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00:00Since then, I've been on a journey to find ways to help my tics.
00:05We are seven months out from the wedding,
00:07and we have two different opinions sitting on this couch over here.
00:09Colin, Colin, is definitely stressed.
00:12Colin sucks a lot of d***.
00:13Colin sucked Austin's d***.
00:14Colin sucked George Washington's d***.
00:16Colin sucked Colin's d***.
00:17Colin gave Tootsie gonorrhea.
00:19Tootsies, horny.
00:21We've been engaged for over a year.
00:23Our wedding is literally right around the corner.
00:26That's seven months.
00:26The corner would be like creeping up on two.
00:28We have a long time.
00:29We don't have anything to show for it, besides choosing the venue.
00:33We don't have save the dates.
00:34We don't have a caterer.
00:36We don't have a dress.
00:37We don't have a suit.
00:38We don't have flowers.
00:39We don't have a cake.
00:40We don't have dessert.
00:42We've done zero.
00:56You know what?
00:56Next time we go to an apple orchard, make sure I wear my stilettos.
01:00Now you're wearing stripper...
01:01Step on the wiener.
01:01Squish the wiener.
01:02You're wearing stripper heels to an apple orchard.
01:05You're not stripper heels.
01:08I just wanted to dress cute for our three-year anniversary.
01:11That's all.
01:12Yeah, ain't nothing wrong with that.
01:13There you go.
01:13Grab the bucket.
01:15I decided to go to the apple orchard on our first date.
01:18And Colin drove like three, two, how many hours?
01:22Almost two.
01:24For me to be late for an hour.
01:27I told him I'm still at home doing my hair.
01:31He goes, okay.
01:32Then you waited.
01:34You're the sweet man.
01:35It's really cool, though, that this time we came here three years later, they have green
01:39apples.
01:40And why did you wait?
01:41Sometimes it would have failed.
01:42Why did you wait?
01:44Like you were doing your hair, and I mean, there's no point.
01:46You just really liked me.
01:47I did.
01:49Look at this one.
01:51Put it in the bucket.
01:54That's how you bruise it.
01:55I'm sorry.
01:57I'm really happy right now.
01:59This makes me really happy.
02:01We're talking about our first date.
02:02We're about to get married.
02:03It's been like so long.
02:04We were just babies when we first started dating.
02:07Like I was like super, super nervous at first.
02:09I remember holding in my tics the entire time.
02:12You were still ticking.
02:13I mean, I was still ticking, but I held in a lot of my tics because I was like really
02:17nervous.
02:18Like this man's really cute.
02:19Like I really, really like him.
02:21I just started talking to him yesterday.
02:24I was like, I have to know how this works out.
02:26I have to.
02:29God damn!
02:31Colin?
02:32Colin?
02:33Ow!
02:34Colin!
02:37I hit my noggin so hard off the tree.
02:43Oh man.
02:44And fast forward, we are three years in, three dogs in, and seven months away from our wedding.
02:53F***ing bitch.
02:55I am excited.
02:57Dick!
02:57Our bachelor, bachelorette trip.
03:01Why are the two of you having a joint bachelor, bachelorette party?
03:05Because we're best friends.
03:07Duh.
03:07I'm just kidding.
03:08I feel like we chose to do a joint bachelor, bachelorette trip because a lot of our friends
03:15and our bridal party are kind of the same friends.
03:17Trick or treat, mother f***er.
03:19Squish the reenie.
03:20Oh, look at this baby one.
03:21Little baby one.
03:22That's a tiny one.
03:23I like tiny apples.
03:24We settled on Asheville, North Carolina because we saw this cabin and like instantly fell in
03:30love with it.
03:31It's absolutely perfect and we wanted a destination bachelor, bachelorette trip.
03:37However, we also know the reality is there'll be people that can't show up.
03:40And that's how my friend did it.
03:42They picked where the trip was and then the best man and the maid of honor planted the itinerary.
03:48Have you heard anything at all from Sammy?
03:51Nope.
03:52Nothing.
03:52Not even a text.
03:54Austin.
03:55Austin never heard from her.
03:57So my best man is Austin and Baylin's maid of honor is Sammy.
04:01We asked Austin and Sammy to coordinate with each other to plan the trip.
04:07However, Sammy's immediate response to having the bachelor, bachelorette party in Asheville
04:13wasn't really the best response.
04:14She basically said that it's a huge inconvenience for everybody.
04:18And she shut down communication probably immediately when we sent her a group text about the trip
04:24because I think that her mind was probably already made up.
04:28Yeah.
04:30My dad's bald.
04:31He is.
04:33And I know that she struggles with traveling because of her anxiety.
04:37However, she hasn't even made it clear to us if she's coming or if she's not coming.
04:41So we've had to create the itinerary for our own bachelor, bachelorette trip.
04:47I'm just really heartbroken because she's not only my maid of honor, she's my sister and my best friend.
04:53And it would hurt if she's not there.
04:55It would.
04:56But my feet hurt.
04:58Okay.
04:58And we got all the apples we need.
05:00All right.
05:01I'm glad we're going to my parents after this because I know that Sammy hasn't been talking
05:05to me or us, but I know she's been talking to my mom.
05:09So I need to talk with my mom.
05:11I'm taking a shortcut.
05:13What?
05:13Okay.
05:15Okay.
05:15Sonia!
05:28What are you doing with all of these?
05:30I think I was going to randomly stand up 12 of them across the yard and just carve different
05:34figures.
05:34That's not what we're doing.
05:37The cross does look amazing.
05:38Is it completely finished?
05:40Oh, yeah.
05:40It's done, done.
05:41Like you put a coat of polyurethane and stuff on it?
05:43It has some, but I don't know how shiny they want.
05:46So we've been back from our life-changing adventure in London for about six to eight
05:51weeks now.
05:52And the moment Balen and Colin asked me to help them with some projects on their wedding,
05:56I was already in my mind building it on the plane back.
05:59We would like your help with the wedding.
06:03Yeah.
06:03Just name it.
06:04Like a cross for the ceremony.
06:07This is Al's element.
06:09So this is a win-win for Al.
06:11But honestly, since we've been back, we have heard like nothing crickets in terms of wedding
06:17planning.
06:18Like nothing.
06:19Oh my God, my feet hurt so bad.
06:22These shoes are getting thrown out.
06:23Hi, everyone.
06:25You know what?
06:26Go to an orchard in four-inch heels.
06:28Do it.
06:29I can't believe that's what you ordered, an orchard.
06:32I got you donuts.
06:34Two dozen.
06:36Got them for Dad.
06:37Oh, let me get one.
06:39What's up with the new hairdo?
06:41Do you miss the curls?
06:42Absolutely not.
06:43I do think this looks better on you.
06:45Yeah, it does.
06:46Yeah.
06:46And like it has more pop, so I can call myself like five three.
06:51Oh my God, the cross looks so good in its glory.
06:54Holy crap.
06:55If it's not big enough, your dad will make another one.
06:58I'm in complete awe.
07:00He's just so talented.
07:01I have the best dad ever.
07:04I just wish that our wedding planning could come together as easy as that cross did.
07:10Yeah, there's a lot of things I want, but we also haven't heard back from our wedding planner.
07:14We just need to get our vendors.
07:17Do you know who you want for vendors?
07:19Do you know who the...
07:20Oh, gosh.
07:21No, like this is where we are.
07:23We are nowhere.
07:25To be only seven months away, concerned is an understatement because they don't truly understand
07:31the gravity of waiting until the last minute.
07:34This is not a school project that you can procrastinate for.
07:36So I know that she's like working on like three, four, five different things, but we just don't
07:41have an update.
07:43Just sitting back and being a spectator is difficult, but they wanted us to stay back,
07:48so we're staying back and cut your path.
07:52So now that we're on wedding topics, me and Colin have something to show you that involves
07:56the dogs for the wedding.
07:58Okay.
07:59So let's get the dogs in the backyard and...
08:01Okay.
08:02It is a surprise for the dogs, too.
08:03Yeah.
08:04Let's go.
08:05Boys.
08:07We're worried about the dogs.
08:09Of all the things for the wedding, that is number one on the list.
08:13We're worried about the dogs.
08:15All right.
08:16I am so excited to reveal this to my family and to the dogs.
08:21What the...
08:22This idea may be corny to some people.
08:25Are you me?
08:27Me?
08:27I absolutely love it.
08:30Little do they know what's coming.
08:38We are looking for an outfit for the bachelor bachelor party.
08:41Uh, yeah, that's a no.
08:43Got my plate!
08:45People are going to break your heart over and over again in life.
08:48I know you didn't expect your sister to do it.
08:50Definitely not her.
08:52It is her big life event, and to not have your best friend by your side, what could be
08:59more hurtful, really?
09:01She's my only sister.
09:02My only sister.
09:03The only one I got.
09:11Me and Colin have something to show you that involves the dogs for the wedding.
09:22She has a car, a kid car for the dogs.
09:25Oh my lord.
09:27The dogs are not driving these.
09:29Are you me?
09:31You need help?
09:31Yeah.
09:33These cute little pink cars will match perfectly with the dog's outfit.
09:37I think the dogs look cute and fashionable.
09:42They're going down the aisle together in these?
09:44Yes.
09:44So if you had to guess, how do you think each of these dogs will do in the car?
09:48Terrible.
09:49I think Fluffy would do the best.
09:51I do not think Tootsie will stay, and I don't think Pumpkin will stay either.
09:55I would put my whole life on Fluffy.
09:57It's Fluff, then Toots, and a hard second, and then Gilbert, third.
10:02Pumpkin.
10:03I call him Gilbert.
10:04Why do you call him Gilbert?
10:04I don't know.
10:05He just looks like a Gilbert.
10:07Okay, moment of truth.
10:09Guys.
10:10Guys.
10:10Oh my god.
10:11Tutsie's like...
10:12Tutsie's gone.
10:13Fluff, keep driving.
10:14Fluff's in there.
10:15Look at Fluff.
10:16Fluff's the only flower girl.
10:18Look at Fluff.
10:19Fluff's doing good.
10:20Fluff, get him on the steering wheel.
10:20Fluff, bring me an apple.
10:24You want to race?
10:26Woo!
10:28Montlouin race.
10:29Oh, good man.
10:30I think with a little time and work put into this, I mean...
10:33Look at him.
10:34Oh, come on.
10:34Oh, damn.
10:37Okay, I take my words back.
10:40Overall, the experiment, it went.
10:43Like, if we could get a ramp for Fluff, I think she'd ride it.
10:46Ride it over the ramp.
10:48I think she would vote for it, but Pumpkin and Toots are not.
10:51Staying in there.
10:52No.
10:53That's not going to happen.
10:54What an optimistic person I have sitting next to me.
10:57They're going down that aisle.
11:02Okay.
11:02Pie time.
11:04All right.
11:06I'm going to take my shoes off.
11:07Oh, that's a good idea.
11:08Yeah.
11:09Let me throw your dog's stuff down.
11:10Okay, how many apples do we have to peel?
11:13Fluff, you're doing good.
11:15I'm going to get a CDL license, Fluff.
11:18So we got to...
11:19Okay, I got to...
11:20I have a recipe.
11:21Let's just get to work.
11:25You know, most stores have apple pies.
11:29I mean, yeah, but I've come so far.
11:31It's not where I want it to be, but it's where I've wanted it to be, I think, since four
11:34years ago.
11:36Like, this peeler and I are about to get hands.
11:39You guys aren't friends.
11:39I'm going to have to do this job, though.
11:40Because I feel like you'd be better with a plastic knife.
11:43Why don't I peel and you can cut?
11:47We'll make the process a little bit quicker.
11:50The kitchen has always been a place for me that has been filled with anxiety, but my tics have gotten
11:57better.
11:57And what I mean by that is just learning my body and learning how my tics work in different environments.
12:04So to now be in the kitchen, making things, using tools, using my hands, like, not being worried about my
12:09tics or scared about my tics, like, it's just, like, unimaginable.
12:14Are you stressed about being so close to the actual wedding date?
12:20I'm just stressed over the fact that, like, there's just a lot of things that haven't happened or we haven't
12:24done yet and we're so close to the wedding.
12:26Yeah.
12:26Like, I know there's a lot that our wedding planner, Shannon, has to do, but Shannon doesn't do everything.
12:32Like, Shannon is not in control of me getting my dress.
12:36Maybe we could just do, like, a dome.
12:38We could put this one on top.
12:39So are you confused as to...
12:43Everybody else's, like, division of labor with some of this wedding stuff?
12:47Like, is that why you're a little bit slow to the go with giving us responsibilities or you're...
12:50Sammy had a responsibility for the bachelor-bachelorette party.
12:54And it didn't end up working that way and we ended up creating our whole itinerary.
12:58And now I don't even know if she's coming.
13:03Me and Sammy are in a weird place.
13:06We've always had each other's back, so...
13:09It's just not even about the party.
13:10It's about the fact that you are the maid of honor.
13:13And that comes with duties and responsibilities.
13:16But there's also a lot of anger that I have with her not coming or not having an answer to
13:23coming.
13:25Suck.
13:29It sounds to me like it's a lot of miscommunication and undercommunication from what I'm hearing from both of you.
13:35Yeah, because you're in the middle.
13:36And it sucks because it's like neither one of us want to talk to each other and figure it out.
13:40I mean, I don't mind being in the middle, but it's...
13:43You guys both have a little bit of a stubborn side.
13:45No, not us.
13:48But you guys have no problem each individually letting me know what the issue is.
13:55I'll talk s**t.
13:56Talk s**t.
13:57That's not nice.
13:58I'm just kidding.
13:59No.
14:00I don't talk s**t.
14:01It's just...
14:02The only thing is that it's just really upsetting for me.
14:05But she's got to have some upsetting things on her side, too.
14:07And that's why I'm pinching you to...
14:10I mean, I guess, but...
14:12To just make...
14:14A call.
14:15And hear each other out.
14:17I hate to put it on Balin, but I really think it's Balin that needs to extend the olive branch
14:22in this situation.
14:24Because it is her big life event, and to not have your best friend by your side, what could be
14:32more hurtful, really?
14:34But if she continues to be stubborn about it, nothing is going to be accomplished.
14:38People are going to break your heart over and over again in life.
14:41They are.
14:43They are.
14:43I know you didn't expect your sister to do it.
14:45Definitely not her.
14:47I know.
14:48It s**t sucks.
14:49It s**t sucks.
14:50No, it does.
14:51I know it does.
14:51It's not just like it's like anything.
14:52Like, this isn't, like, my f*****g birthday.
14:54I know.
14:56But you could not make the right decision for you.
14:58You can't do it with somebody else.
14:59Yeah, all I know is that if she doesn't come, I'm still going to have fun with or without her.
15:04You should.
15:06I just want to know, f*****g.
15:08That's how mad I am.
15:09Like, I'm so mad, and I'm so upset.
15:13Like, I just am.
15:14She's my only sister.
15:15My only sister.
15:17The only one I got.
15:18Well, make sure you say that to her in your conversation.
15:21You see, I'm not mad at you.
15:22I'm just hurt.
15:24I'm deeply hurt.
15:46You're excited to go to your happy place?
15:48Well, it's your happy place that I'm going to.
15:50I know, this is like my Super Bowl.
15:53It's pink everywhere.
15:54Holy crap.
16:01Welcome in.
16:03This is a shot glass.
16:04We get all the girls shot glasses.
16:06God damn!
16:09Let me know if you guys are shopping for anything particular.
16:13Our bachelorette party.
16:14Oh, so exciting.
16:15Yes, I'm so excited.
16:16That's so fun.
16:17Yes, I'm so excited.
16:17When's the big event?
16:18This weekend.
16:19Oh, my goodness.
16:20We've got to prep you up.
16:21Yes.
16:22That's why I walked in, and I'm like, give me all this.
16:27After talking with my mom about Sammy, I realized that it really is very unfortunate
16:33and silly that me and Sammy have not reached out to each other, but also, I just don't
16:38like confrontation.
16:39I have this at home, so I would rather avoid the conversation about it, period.
16:45And I just really want to have a good time.
16:49Is that cute?
16:50Like it?
16:51We are looking for an outfit for the bachelor bachelor party.
16:55The theme is last rodeo, and we picked it because I love that theme.
16:59Look at it.
16:59It's got a little bow.
17:00That's a good one to try on.
17:01Okay.
17:02Here you go.
17:03All right.
17:03Thank you so much.
17:04I have been taking my GLP-1 for about two months because I gained 20 pounds from my medication,
17:10and it's really amazing for me, and I love it, and I've lost about six pounds.
17:16We're trying on this one, so I do want to have some fun today.
17:19Okay, this one.
17:20I'm ready to try on some dresses.
17:25See, look, it's got a blue bow.
17:27Yeah.
17:28Oh, I love this one.
17:30They don't have shopping carts?
17:32Who takes up the most space in a closet?
17:36I don't even get to use the closet.
17:38What is that?
17:39I don't know, but I need it.
17:41This is my ****.
17:45You cannot, you cannot look at me like that.
17:47You are marrying this.
17:48You knew this.
17:49You knew this from the date we met.
17:51Okay, I'm going to go change.
17:52All right.
17:53Sounds good.
17:55Bedazzle that deck.
17:57Deck.
17:58Even in moments like this, it's hard not to just, like, adore her.
18:03Oh, God.
18:04Life is never dull with her.
18:07We **** balls, man.
18:09We **** balls, man.
18:11We **** balls, man.
18:13God, I am.
18:14Come on, you ready?
18:16Yep, I'm ready.
18:19Ooh.
18:21I like that one.
18:22Yeah.
18:23Yeah.
18:24Okay.
18:24Typically, the dresses that I love, Balen hates.
18:28Come on.
18:28You don't like it?
18:29It's not the best.
18:30Do a twirl.
18:30No.
18:31I only really want to see Balen in the tightest one.
18:34What's wrong with it?
18:36I'm going to go back here.
18:37Okay.
18:37I mean, I like cleavage.
18:40Okay.
18:41Mm-hmm.
18:41My parents are going to lose their mind.
18:44We're not 12.
18:47Here comes Santa.
18:48I'm sorry.
18:50I mean, what if we did a garter toss at the wedding?
18:53Your dad would have to sit there and watch me go underneath.
18:55No.
18:56Okay, I'm going to be honest.
18:57It looked like a backdrop.
19:01We're not doing that.
19:02Well, I'm just saying, what if we did?
19:03No, what if we didn't?
19:05It's fun.
19:05And it just doesn't flatter my body the way I want it to.
19:09So I'm going to go back in.
19:10I'm going to pretend like I never came out in this.
19:13Hold up.
19:15Hold up.
19:15Wait.
19:16I want to come out in this, but I can't get it up past my kneecaps.
19:21Yeah, that's a no.
19:22Oh, them kids.
19:30I really like that one.
19:33That's great.
19:34I'm glad you like it.
19:35Okay.
19:36Thank you for bringing me here.
19:38I really need this motivation.
19:39Do you think we go to the gym?
19:41Like every day, maybe three times a day, four times a day, some.
19:45Some.
19:45Because I can't have people call me from bailing to whaling.
19:48Okay?
19:48Can't do that.
19:50Why are you reading comments?
19:53When you put yourself out there on social media on social media, you kind of expect hate, but to have
19:58comments about your body, it doesn't necessarily feel the greatest.
20:04And I get a little bit down on myself.
20:08Babe, you look great.
20:11That's number one.
20:13I just wish that, you know, Baylin could see herself through my eyes and the way that I see her.
20:19I mean, she's the most beautiful woman that I've ever met.
20:31You like the disco one?
20:32I loved the disco one.
20:34This is adorable.
20:36And that's a must, right?
20:37Oh my God, I want to wear it home.
20:39I want to wear it until the wedding.
20:40Right?
20:41Yeah.
20:42Is everything all set for the trip?
20:46Yeah, other than Sammy.
20:48Okay.
20:48And I don't know who's going to buy decorations.
20:51I would say just reach out to my sister.
20:54In all the years that I've known Baylin, I really haven't seen a rift between Baylin and Sammy to, like,
21:00this degree where the communication is just non-existent.
21:04Nothing's been addressed.
21:05Like, they haven't talked.
21:08Step on the wiener.
21:09Squish the wiener.
21:11Little baby wieners.
21:13I try to be as protective of Baylin as I can.
21:17But if Sammy's not going to be able to make it to the party, it's going to be really difficult
21:22for Baylin to get past this.
21:25Oh my goodness, it's so cold.
21:30I wish then I could have, like, planned the trip with you.
21:33Sammy, what do you mean, help you plan?
21:35Colin reached out three times.
21:37I reached out.
21:39Did she ever contact you and say, hey, I want you to plan my bachelor's dash of rock party?
21:43No.
21:43Get in touch with Austin and figure it out.
21:45No.
21:45I would have crushed that.
21:48I would have killed it.
22:02How many hours is the drive to Asheville?
22:04It's like seven hours.
22:09I'm so excited for this weekend.
22:13I have so much arts and crafts planned.
22:14I don't think you understand.
22:16I need a screwdriver in my hand and an arts and craft in my other hand.
22:19It's funny.
22:20So you're building something and doing arts and crafts.
22:23What do you mean building?
22:24A screwdriver?
22:25No, a screwdriver, like vodka and orange juice.
22:27There you go.
22:28I'm not drinking as much as you, though, so I'll actually remember the vacation.
22:34Colin is like a partier by heart.
22:38I am definitely a lightweight.
22:41Just remember fluff and the pink card, and then you go and look at Balin, drunk.
22:47They're the same.
22:52Oh, my.
22:54What we're not going to be doing is all the things that go into this bachelorette party.
22:58We're not doing that.
22:58There'll be no little wieners, no little straws.
23:01We're not eating off a penis cake.
23:03You didn't want to bedazzle a penis.
23:05No.
23:17It just sucks that Sammy hasn't given us an answer if she's going to be there or not.
23:22That's pretty s***.
23:24Knowing that I haven't talked to Sammy, I think that it's safe to say that she's not coming
23:29on the bachelor bachelorette trip, which is obviously heartbreaking.
23:33Woo!
23:34Get your cold cuts.
23:35Get your cold cuts.
23:35Get your cold cuts.
23:36Get your cold cuts.
23:37Where'd that tick come from?
23:39I don't know.
23:40It's a meme somewhere.
23:43I'm Googling it.
23:46Oh.
23:47Guess who texted me?
23:48Who?
23:49Sammy.
23:50She wants me to call her.
23:52I'm about to s*** my pants.
23:53I have so much anxiety.
23:59Hello.
23:59Hey.
24:01Hey.
24:03Hey.
24:03So, what do you want to talk about?
24:07I just can't, I can't go.
24:09Why?
24:10There's, there's no feasible way for me to go.
24:13Like, there's, there's none.
24:16If I'm like this super special, important part of, like, being your maid of honor, I wish then
24:22I could have, like, planned the trip with you and be a part of it.
24:25Like, what do you, Sammy, what do you mean help you plan?
24:28Colin reached out three times.
24:30I reached out.
24:31I was a part of no part of that process.
24:35Nothing.
24:35I got a group text just like everybody else did.
24:38Hey, this is where we're headed.
24:40This is what we're doing.
24:41Grabbing hibachi the first night.
24:44When Baylin started planning her bachelor bachelorette party with Colin, she knew when she wanted
24:49it to be, but they didn't even have a plan of where they were staying until two weeks
24:54before.
24:55And then all of a sudden it's a group text.
24:57Hey, we're going to Asheville, North Carolina.
24:59Here's a list of itinerary and things.
25:02You guys had already bought that trip, Baylin.
25:06You had already bought and paid for that bachelorette trip.
25:08I thought she missed the N for Nashville, North, like, Tennessee.
25:13No, Asheville.
25:14Okay.
25:16Um, let me look up an airport.
25:18Okay, there's no airport two hours away.
25:20How the are people getting there?
25:22And she was like, you just talk to everybody and figure out how they're getting there.
25:27I'm glad that you picked this place together, but there's no way.
25:29It's not a regional airport within three hours of that place, Baylin.
25:34Because of my anxiety and OCD, I have a specific regimen for traveling.
25:38I only take one certain airline.
25:40I sit in a specific seat.
25:42I only fly nonstop.
25:44And if it's not on that regimen, like, I spiral.
25:48None of my stuff lined up for it.
25:52I'm like, yeah, I'm not doing that.
25:54I remember talking to you.
25:56You already knew you were going to Asheville, North Carolina.
25:58Yes.
25:58And you reached out to us.
25:59Yes, because that's...
26:00That's what I'm saying.
26:01Because that's the bride and the groom's responsibility, is to pick the trip.
26:05No, it's not.
26:06I have never heard of the bride and the groom planning their own trip.
26:09I've never in my life.
26:10They pick the trip.
26:12They just don't plan the trip.
26:15You did both.
26:17Yeah, because, Sammy, when we came to you and said, these are the things we want to do, nothing was
26:21done.
26:22Like, did she ever contact me and say, hey, I want you to play my bachelorette, bachelorette party?
26:27No.
26:28Get in touch with Austin, the best man, and figure it out.
26:31No.
26:32If Baylin had reached out to me as a priority and wanted to establish what she wanted to do for,
26:38like, her bachelorette party, you know, give me a general area, what you want to do, I would have crushed
26:44that s**t.
26:45I would have killed it.
26:47There really was things that we reached out for help for.
26:49But you're not going to turn this as, like, I'm a bad communicator.
26:53No, it's both of us.
26:55The communication has been terrible.
26:56It was poor planning, too.
26:58Like, when you pick a trip that's so far away from somebody, you can't expect everybody to go.
27:03I'm not expecting everyone to go, but I was expecting my best friend to come.
27:10And it hurts so bad.
27:13It really does.
27:25I'm sorry.
27:26I love you.
27:27I love you.
27:27Bye.
27:36Sucks.
27:38I definitely have my play in this as well, but this is not going to be resolved before the party.
27:45I'm just confused on her reasoning on why.
27:50What was her reasoning?
27:51I mean, it's not all her.
27:52It's both of us.
27:54It is the both of you.
27:55But there was no attempt to plan it.
28:00So, like, from the jump, there was no attempt.
28:03It was like she already knew that she wasn't going to go.
28:27Holy crap.
28:29Look at all of the games.
28:31I'm so excited.
28:35The house is so cool.
28:39Oh, yeah.
28:39This is awesome.
28:41Sammy and I are definitely going to have to have a conversation after the weekend is done.
28:45I'm going to miss her, but I'm not going to let that stop me from having a good time with
28:48my other friends.
28:50Thank goodness all these decorations were shipped to the house already.
28:53Did y'all get any details about this weekend?
28:55I just found out two days ago.
28:58Are Baylin and Colin good communicators?
28:59No, they're probably some of the worst communicators ever.
29:05And I live in Florida.
29:06So when I got here, I was kind of just thrown into things.
29:11Oh, oh.
29:14God damn.
29:17Wait, I love you guys.
29:19This is so cute.
29:19They're throwing horse for the wedding.
29:22This is the exact horse that he will be taking to the wedding.
29:25Holy crap.
29:26How was the drive?
29:27How are you buying the suitcase?
29:29Who the f*** is this?
29:30That's yours.
29:31This is our room?
29:33The cabin, it's a pretty amazing place.
29:36It has about ten beds.
29:38Two hot tubs.
29:39There's food vault.
29:41I mean, there's just all kinds of stuff to do here.
29:43Wait, you need your hat, Baylin.
29:45Oh, my God.
29:46Y'all did everything.
29:47That's the cutest thing ever.
29:48Put your hats on, men.
29:50Yes, ma'am.
29:51Wait, who's here?
29:53Hi!
29:55I love makeup.
29:57Oh, I love it.
29:59Oh, my God.
30:01As you should.
30:03What's going on?
30:04What's going on?
30:06So our bridal party is seven groomsmen and seven bridesmaids.
30:12I have Baylin's brother, Burke, two friends that I made in D.C., AJ and Aiden, my friend,
30:18Ethan, and then three guys that I met in the military, Walker, Mark, and Austin, who's
30:24my best man.
30:25Hey!
30:26What's up, man?
30:28How's it going?
30:28How are you, man?
30:29How's it going, handsome guy?
30:30And my seven bridesmaids consist of my sister, Sammy, Colin's sister, Colleen, my high school
30:37friend, Kylie, my college friend, Kayla, and the friends I've made from D.C., Eileen,
30:44Lila, and Kaylabee.
30:46Unfortunately, Mark, Lila, Aiden, and Kylie were unable to make it.
30:50Oh, that's how we have it.
30:52Hi!
30:53Oh, my God, hi!
30:54I've got more decorations.
30:56More?
30:57More!
30:58Hi!
30:58Hi!
30:59Thank you so much for ordering all of them.
31:01Yes!
31:01They look so good!
31:02I know, y'all did a great job.
31:04Over the last couple of months, there's been some questions about, like, what's going to
31:08happen here?
31:09What's the theme?
31:10And then Baylin reached out to me and asked me to help her kind of communicate with the
31:14girls on themes and planning and decoration and kind of what we're going to do for our side
31:19of things?
31:20Well, since everybody's here, I think it is a shot o'clock, so let's take some shots.
31:26Cheers!
31:29Congrats, Baylin and Colleen.
31:37It's so hot.
31:38Oh, my God.
31:51Oh, my gosh.
31:52Are you so excited?
31:54Hi!
31:55Hi!
31:56How are you?
31:56Thanks for coming.
31:58No problem.
31:59My pleasure.
32:00Yeah.
32:00Welcome.
32:00This is awesome.
32:02Hello.
32:02Welcome.
32:03We're ready to party.
32:04F*** you, bitch.
32:05Here they come.
32:06Three, two, one.
32:15I'm starving.
32:16I got my party dress on.
32:18It's a lot of room for hibachi.
32:20And some shots.
32:21You can put some shots in there, too.
32:23Welcome to hibachi!
32:28Okay, make a fire first for everybody.
32:30I'm going to do a castance at weekend.
32:31One, two, three.
32:33Woo!
32:36Fire!
32:37Woo!
32:38Yeah!
32:39I'm going to go for peace.
32:40Peace.
32:40Peace.
32:42Okay.
32:43Come on, boy.
32:43Good job, boy.
32:45Yeah.
32:46Wow.
32:47Whoa!
32:48Whoa!
32:48Whoa!
32:49No more sake for me.
32:50Too much.
32:52Take a dick, Bo!
32:53What'd he say?
32:55Can he say it again?
32:58The girl say, take a d***, Bo.
33:02I'm sorry.
33:03So I have Tourette's Syndrome.
33:05What do you mean?
33:07Do you know what Tourette's Syndrome...
33:08Goddamn!
33:09Do you know what Tourette's Syndrome is?
33:10I don't know.
33:11I have involuntary motor and vocal sounds that I make.
33:16So I wasn't saying anything towards you.
33:18I'm just...
33:20Okay.
33:20So do you want to do that one tea for cooking?
33:23You want me to come cook?
33:25Yeah.
33:26Do you want that?
33:26I can give you a hand.
33:27Yay!
33:28I can give you a hand.
33:29I can give you a hand here.
33:30Do you want it?
33:30All right.
33:32Yay!
33:35Oh, he wants us to cook.
33:36I can't get too close to the hot flames because of my tics,
33:39so I hope this goes okay.
33:42Yeah, I bet you got that.
33:43Okay.
33:44Oh, yeah.
33:45Easy.
33:46Easy.
33:46Yes, I think you have to do it.
33:48You want it?
33:48Oh, can I help you?
33:50Yeah.
33:51Come on, don't worry!
33:52Woo!
33:53There he goes!
33:54Yeah!
33:55Woo!
34:07I'm having the best time at Hibachi.
34:09Bo is so entertaining.
34:13Sake!
34:14Sake!
34:14Sake!
34:15Sake!
34:15Yay!
34:18Have you ever had sake before?
34:19Mm-mm.
34:20I've never had sake.
34:21Sake.
34:21Sake.
34:22Sake.
34:24Never had sake before.
34:26There you go.
34:34Dinner just finished.
34:35What's the plan for the rest of it?
34:36Shots!
34:36I'm doing crafts.
34:42I like it, like it, like that.
34:45I like it, like it, like that.
34:47I like it, like that.
34:48Oh, my God.
34:49Time to bedazzle.
34:51We're gonna end with that.
34:55Thank you guys so much for being here and for bedazzling.
34:59Of course.
34:59Thank you for being here.
35:00I wouldn't have it any other way.
35:02Even though I do love every single girl that's here and I'm having a blast with them,
35:07I do wish Sammy was here.
35:09I truthfully believe from the bottom of my heart she loves me deeply, but I just won't
35:15forget the fact that she was not there for me for my bachelor-bachelorette trip.
35:20Hey, can I talk to you real quick?
35:22Uh, sure.
35:23My sister and I have, like, always been, like, really close.
35:26I know that I can count on her in any situation that I'm in.
35:29How's everything going?
35:32Um, I really wanted to talk to you about, like, Sammy and everything.
35:37Yeah.
35:39But can Balen count on Sammy the way that I can count on my sister?
35:44I would say no.
35:46You know, like, she's the maid of honor.
35:47Yeah.
35:48She's not here.
35:50And I see how much that affects Balen.
35:53As much as I have been trying to stay as neutral as possible, recently I've been finding myself
36:00more inclined to want to step in.
36:03Sammy didn't just drop the ball.
36:05Sammy never even picked it up.
36:07So my concern is that Sammy's not going to be able to fully uphold her duties as a maid of
36:13honor.
36:14Sure.
36:15As much as I try to stay out of sister drama, I think it's really gotten to the point where
36:21Balen needs to, she needs to make a change.
36:31Merry Christmas!
36:32Hey, baby!
36:33Merry Christmas!
36:34Merry Christmas!
36:34Holy snobby dick-off.
36:36Ho, ho, ho your ass back to the sleigh, you fat-ass bitch!
36:39Santa!
36:40I didn't know you had that as a dick!
36:43I don't mind being-
36:45Are you okay?
36:46I have Tourette Syndrome, stupid.
36:48You're bald, bald bitch!
36:50Collin gave tootsie gonorrhea.
36:52Collin!
36:52What kind of drinks do you guys usually drink?
36:54I like-
36:55Dick.
36:56Nope.
36:58Collin's talking about having tits.
36:59The baby fever.
37:00The baby fever kick.
37:01I'm not even sure I can even get pregnant.
37:04They're just kind of here to get some answers.
37:06We should think about surgery sooner rather than later.
37:11Bitch.
37:11The lead-up to the wedding is just going to be crazy.
37:14Time is ticking.
37:16How is wedding penny going?
37:17Haven't picked out my dress.
37:18Oh!
37:19Do you see a groom?
37:20Can you look in the mirror?
37:21I would have never thought that I would be married at 25.
37:24You a blackjack dealer?
37:28Can you twerk in a dress?
37:30I don't know how to twerk, but I'm going to learn.
37:34Oh, no, you're not going to learn.
37:35Oh, my gosh!
37:35Do you have to do it naked?
37:36I gotta go.
37:37Ha!
37:38I was thinking something more silky like that.
37:41I still have to approve every bridesmaid's dress.
37:45Bridesilla.
37:47It's kind of crazy.
37:48She called you a bridesilla.
37:49I'm not going to lie.
37:50Bitch!
37:51A lot is happening.
37:53A potential move.
37:54Our wedding.
37:55Colin's new job.
37:56We're going to buy a house instead of renting a house.
37:58That's the dumbest idea I've ever heard.
38:00You have no idea what you're getting into, bae.
38:03All I want is for you to just tell me your heart and where you stand.
38:07There are some things that need to change.
38:11Dick!
38:11So what are you suggesting?
38:15We have some very important news.
38:18What bomb's about to drop?
38:22We're six months out, but I'm having really bad second guesses about it.
38:27What the f**k, Baelin?
38:30What the f**k, Baelin?
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