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00:13:26I know I need to focus on you more.
00:13:30Should we both make commitments?
00:13:34And maybe one commitment you can make is to not keep kissing other people.
00:13:44I think that she makes out with people partly from insecurity
00:13:51and partly I think she gets a bit of an impulsive rush from playing with fire.
00:13:58I think she also knows that it's hurtful and I think she knows that it's not right.
00:14:03And that's why I'm patient because I think her heart's in the right place.
00:14:07But I could very well say I don't like this and here's an ultimatum, stop it or I'm leaving.
00:14:15I don't know. I want to feel wanted.
00:14:19You know, we think in very different ways very often.
00:14:22And so if we can start out aligned, I think that's the best start we could kind of hope for.
00:14:32I think sex is an important part of what we're talking about.
00:14:36I think that it's intimacy and loving and...
00:14:39I don't feel loving if we're not having sex.
00:14:41I mean, I don't feel loving when you're playing with other guys.
00:14:47At least they want to have sex with me.
00:14:52Honestly, I'm like worried things won't change.
00:15:01Let's call poppy.
00:15:03I'm here.
00:15:05Handsome.
00:15:06I'm Debbie and my fiancé's name is Mido and he's an Egyptian movie star.
00:15:11I love you.
00:15:14He's already asking if I would be willing to, like, move.
00:15:19Move where?
00:15:21Hollywood, New York.
00:15:23I can't help but worry that Mido's just coming over here to become a star.
00:15:29I really want to see what this attorney going to say if the appeal is an option.
00:15:33There's Nigerian men here in the United States.
00:15:36There are.
00:15:37But that's not the one for me.
00:15:40It's not a realistic relationship, but she thinks so.
00:15:43I'm worried about your safety.
00:15:45I mean, what if the NBC, they know something that we don't know?
00:16:03Oh, if I was a dog, wouldn't wear no button-up shirt.
00:16:10Morning.
00:16:11Good morning, how are you?
00:16:12I'm good.
00:16:13How are you doing this morning?
00:16:21Good girl, a little bit.
00:16:23In your spot.
00:16:24Honey, that's the life for me.
00:16:28That's a good girl.
00:16:29Okay.
00:16:31Hi, how can I help you?
00:16:33I'm Debbie.
00:16:35I'm 55 years old and I'm from New Orleans, Louisiana.
00:16:38Come on.
00:16:40Good girl.
00:16:42I am an insurance agent.
00:16:44It's a pretty monotonous day in and day out career.
00:16:59I am in charge of writing new business.
00:17:03Good morning.
00:17:04Hi, this is Debbie.
00:17:06We have metrics that we have to hit every day.
00:17:09I was going over that quote that we did for your auto insurance.
00:17:13Walking someone through a claim.
00:17:15Anything that you can think of in the course of an insurance policy.
00:17:19We want to make sure that you are absolutely covered with all of your coverages.
00:17:23Reason your deductibles from $500 to $1,000.
00:17:26The state of Louisiana allows for a five-year interval for an accident.
00:17:29It would be very important for you to carry higher bodily injury coverages.
00:17:35But outside of work, my life is way more exciting.
00:17:40Six years ago, I decided that I was going to take a trip to Egypt with my daughter.
00:17:44And ended up meeting the love of my life.
00:17:51My fiance's name is Mito.
00:17:53He is 41 years old.
00:17:55And he's an Egyptian movie star.
00:18:00Mito is an actor and a model.
00:18:02I mean, look at him.
00:18:05He has a fantastic smile, an absolutely gorgeous face.
00:18:09And he has a charm and a wit about him that makes all his physical attributes electrifying.
00:18:17Mito is famous.
00:18:21On social media, he's got hundreds of thousands of followers.
00:18:26People know who he is in Egypt.
00:18:31So what kinds of movies and TV has Mito done in Egypt?
00:18:38Mito's...
00:18:39Honestly, he doesn't show me his work.
00:18:43I don't know why.
00:18:44I've asked him to send me, like, reels of stuff that he's done.
00:18:49But he says, I'm not going to understand what they're saying.
00:18:53So he keeps telling me, I'll show you when I arrive and I'll explain to you what's going on.
00:18:59But he's got hundreds of thousands of followers.
00:19:02So, obviously, he's built up some sort of following.
00:19:13Let's call it Poppy.
00:19:15Let's call it Poppy.
00:19:16Come on.
00:19:20Hey, Bibi.
00:19:22I'm here.
00:19:24Handsome.
00:19:25Look where I am.
00:19:26Okay.
00:19:27Let me see.
00:19:31Oh, my gosh.
00:19:33No, my pyramid's not finished yet.
00:19:35Maybe next year.
00:19:36Your pyramid is not finished yet.
00:19:38Okay.
00:19:39Yes, I'm the last to fail.
00:19:41You know that?
00:19:43The funnest thing about Mido is that we just have a really good banter.
00:19:49But at first, when I met Mido, he annoyed me.
00:19:54I was on a trip with my daughter, Devin, to Egypt, and he was our tour guide.
00:20:01He said probably one of the cheesiest things possible.
00:20:04He called me Cleopatra or some goddess.
00:20:09I don't remember which one.
00:20:10But it was enough that I was just like, oh, God.
00:20:16And then my daughter leans over, and she's like, he's flirting with you.
00:20:22And I went, no.
00:20:25She was like, Mom, he's flirting with you.
00:20:29And so we climbed into the Great Pyramid of Khufu.
00:20:34And when we were climbing down, he kissed me.
00:20:39And I was really kind of, like, shocked.
00:20:42Being single for so long, I kind of didn't know what to do with it.
00:20:47You know, he's younger than I am, very handsome.
00:20:51He's very charismatic.
00:20:53It was just something that I didn't know if it was real.
00:21:00Are you nervous for your trip?
00:21:04A little bit.
00:21:05A little bit?
00:21:06No, you know who'll leave everything here.
00:21:09My friend is my career.
00:21:10So I will start from the beginning.
00:21:15What are you going to be packing?
00:21:17Tuna fish, tuna fish.
00:21:20Baby, we have tuna fish.
00:21:22You don't need to pack.
00:21:23Really? Really?
00:21:24Yes.
00:21:25I think your tuna fish speak English.
00:21:27My tuna fish speak Arabic.
00:21:28That's different.
00:21:30I miss you.
00:21:32I miss you too, my baby.
00:21:34Can you print any headshots?
00:21:36Yeah, definitely.
00:21:37Send me some more of your modeling shots so I can print those.
00:21:43Okay, have you.
00:21:44I will do.
00:21:45Okay.
00:21:47When Mito gets to America, his expectation is he definitely wants to be an actor, and he
00:21:53wants to be a major actor.
00:21:54I love you.
00:21:57Bye-bye.
00:21:58And that's also a great fear, because what if he arrives here, and after two months realizes
00:22:06this is not going to be the place of opportunity?
00:22:08Is he going to be happy here?
00:22:26He's really photogenic.
00:22:29So he still wants to do the acting thing when he gets here?
00:22:31That's the plan.
00:22:33I don't know that the acting thing is really going to go anywhere, personally.
00:22:38I love this one.
00:22:41He's so photogenic.
00:22:42This looks like an amateur photo shoot thing for, like, Abercrombie and Fitch or something.
00:22:51What do you think of Mito's headshots?
00:22:55He knows how to find the light in pictures.
00:22:59To me, they don't really scream for, like, professional actor headshots.
00:23:03They look like Instagram model.
00:23:07I wish this one wouldn't have chopped his head off.
00:23:11I'm trying to be supportive, but he's already asking if I would be willing to, like, move.
00:23:19Move where?
00:23:22Hollywood, New York.
00:23:25He wants you to move to Hollywood with him?
00:23:29His first priority should be focus on the relationship with you.
00:23:35He's very talented.
00:23:37He loves the camera.
00:23:39The camera obviously loves him, too.
00:23:45He just needs a reality check, because I know that there has been a lot of weird sketchiness going on.
00:23:55Let's be real here.
00:23:57I know.
00:23:58Mito is semi-famous on social media, but he does not post me on social media at all.
00:24:07He says that social media is for work.
00:24:12And I don't get as upset that he doesn't post about me as when he posts with other women.
00:24:21That gets on my nerves.
00:24:24I need to hear him more and see him.
00:24:28Yeah.
00:24:29Act like, not acting acting, but see how he acts.
00:24:32Right, like how he behaves.
00:24:34The relationship is going to have to be more important than the dream.
00:24:38Like if he walked it.
00:24:40Exactly.
00:24:41So, to me, I don't really care what you do, so long as what you do makes you happy.
00:24:48I know that, but I still, I'm still mom.
00:24:53I still want you and your brother to be able to look at me and say, I'm proud of my
00:24:59mom.
00:25:01We are.
00:25:03And I know y'all are grown, and I know that y'all are on your own.
00:25:10But at the end of it all, if I don't make y'all proud.
00:25:18My mom is a very strong woman, but that strength only goes so far.
00:25:25So, I really do genuinely hope that Nito's intentions are pure.
00:25:29I mean, this is already crazy enough.
00:25:34It's going to go home, it's okay.
00:25:37But it's true.
00:25:40She really, truly does deserve happiness and a good, healthy relationship.
00:25:45I can't help but worry that Nito's just coming over here to become a star.
00:25:55I'm out.
00:25:56My divorce with my ex-husband, Michael, was challenging for the kids.
00:26:01I don't want him to replace his dad.
00:26:04Yeah.
00:26:04If the kids tell me this is not what they want, then I'm going to have to call it quits.
00:26:11I know I've crossed some boundaries in the past while, like, drunk.
00:26:14And I just want to be really transparent with you.
00:26:18It's the respect thing.
00:26:20And, like, when it's people like Wasp who have been together, that's not cool.
00:26:32What gets me taken?
00:26:36What gets me taken?
00:26:38I try to hide and live in my dreams, but I'm going to get.
00:27:12I'm coming in here.
00:27:12I'm your basic baseball and football mom and picking up the kids, cooking dinner, getting
00:27:17them to all of their events.
00:27:19And I don't have time for Edward.
00:27:20And that's when he typically feels not paid attention to.
00:27:23And he gets angry.
00:27:24That's one of the fights that we really have on a frequent basis.
00:27:28And when he sees me in action, I hope that he understands why I have, you know, neglected
00:27:34to call him sometimes, or I'm just too tired at the end of the night to get on a phone
00:27:37call.
00:27:40I'm very grateful for the opportunity to still get to spend some time in New York, but I personally
00:27:47don't like the hustle and bustle of every single day.
00:27:50Like, I'd rather, like, come back to Pennsylvania and relax.
00:27:58So this is my neighborhood.
00:27:59You could take a look around.
00:28:00I love the streets are tree-lined and the neighbors are really nice, but mostly that it's super
00:28:05quiet and it's quite a shift for me, but it's just like a, it's a happier place to be than
00:28:12New York City.
00:28:19Derek, Cole!
00:28:21I kind of separate my mom life versus my career life.
00:28:25Cole, it's my pig.
00:28:27I...
00:28:27Derek is the oldest and he is currently 11 years old.
00:28:31And Cole is the younger one and he's 10.
00:28:34All right, so...
00:28:36All right, I'll go first.
00:28:36Okay, go.
00:28:38They don't even look like brothers.
00:28:40They look completely opposite.
00:28:43Got it.
00:28:45Derek is my little athlete and Cole...
00:28:49No!
00:28:51...is more of my artistic child.
00:28:54Loves art, loves music, loves creating things.
00:28:58Wait, do I have a PI already?
00:29:00Yeah.
00:29:02Oh, I'm out.
00:29:03But for me, I love having the contrast in their personalities in my life.
00:29:09And Derek wins.
00:29:11I missed it on purpose, actually.
00:29:13Good game.
00:29:14Good game.
00:29:14Good game.
00:29:15Nice job.
00:29:17Prior to Edward, I've never let the kids meet a boyfriend in person.
00:29:24So, this is one of the biggest changes that we're ever going to experience, you know?
00:29:29It's...
00:29:30It's been like a rollercoaster of emotions every single day.
00:29:35All right, so we know Edward's going to be here in a couple days.
00:29:38So, like, I just want to, like, lay out what's happening exactly.
00:29:41Because our lives are changing.
00:29:43Yeah.
00:29:43You know?
00:29:44Mm-hmm.
00:29:44So, how's everybody feeling about that?
00:29:47Uh, when you first told me, um, that Edward was moving here, I was, like, super excited.
00:29:55Yeah?
00:29:55What excites you about having someone live here with us?
00:29:57Dog.
00:29:58Dog.
00:29:58Oh, because I promise you a dog when Edward gets here?
00:30:00Yes.
00:30:01Mm.
00:30:03Well, we'll see.
00:30:04We'll see.
00:30:05We've been talking about this for, like, six months.
00:30:07I keep promising.
00:30:08We're going to keep pushing the date back.
00:30:10I didn't even know they were dating for, like, until, like, last year.
00:30:15So, it's only been, like, a year since I've known him.
00:30:18And he's just coming to live with us.
00:30:20So, it's just, like, a weird reaction in my body.
00:30:25Well, I have a question.
00:30:26Yeah.
00:30:27Like, when Edward comes, like, here, will he have, like, money?
00:30:31That's a good question.
00:30:33He had a job when he was there, right?
00:30:36So, where did he work?
00:30:37He worked at a hotel.
00:30:39Fancy hotels, like resorts, or just, like...
00:30:41Yeah, like a resort.
00:30:42But here, we don't have, like, all-inclusive resorts like they do over there.
00:30:46And, you know, that skill set isn't really useful here.
00:30:50Is he going to get an allowance?
00:30:52It's a good question.
00:30:53Probably.
00:30:54I mean, I'm going to have to, like, help pay for things for him while he gets settled here.
00:30:59But, you know, the paychecks there, like, let me put this into perspective.
00:31:02The amount of money that we would, like, a normal person maybe here would get for, like, one week is,
00:31:11like, what Edward would get in his country for, like, a whole month.
00:31:15Do you know what I mean?
00:31:16Mm-hmm.
00:31:18I'm, like, a bit, like, nervous.
00:31:20Yeah?
00:31:21Because, like, it's just going to be, like, another guy coming to live with us.
00:31:24Mm-hmm.
00:31:25Like, I'm not really ready because, like, I met him, but I don't know him.
00:31:29Yeah.
00:31:29That's, like...
00:31:30It's a little scary.
00:31:31Mm.
00:31:31Yeah.
00:31:32I mean, like, I don't want him to replace his dad.
00:31:36Yeah.
00:31:39I mean, I think that you have to remember, like, your dad's always going to be your dad, right?
00:31:43And nobody's ever going to replace him in life.
00:31:46And Edward is kind of just going to be here as, like, another adult to love you guys and play
00:31:50with you.
00:31:51I'm definitely going to say, take it slow.
00:31:55Not, like, coming in and, like, being like, oh, hello, hello, my son.
00:32:01Mm-hmm.
00:32:02You know, I want to make sure that, like, you feel comfortable.
00:32:05So I'm going to have a conversation with Edward.
00:32:07Because if you're not happy in any way, then this isn't going to work out for all of us, you
00:32:11know?
00:32:11Oh.
00:32:12My divorce with Michael was challenging for the kids.
00:32:17Mostly for Derek.
00:32:17He was a little older than Cole.
00:32:20And it's because of that.
00:32:21The boys are the number one priority in my life.
00:32:25Making sure that they feel comfortable is critical to me.
00:32:31Nothing comes above them.
00:32:33And in the 90 days, if the kids tell me this is not what they want, then I'm going to
00:32:37have to call it quits.
00:32:38And that's just a lot of pressure on me to try to make a lot of things work in such
00:32:42a short amount of time.
00:32:44Well, let's stay positive.
00:32:47All right.
00:32:48All right?
00:32:48Mm-hmm.
00:32:54Is it your desire
00:32:57To fool me twice too many times?
00:33:03Did you want cream?
00:33:04Yeah.
00:33:05There's, like, heavy cream in the fridge.
00:33:07Can you just pour some in it?
00:33:09Thanks, babe.
00:33:11Rain on fire
00:33:13You got me flying and in circles
00:33:20How'd you sleep?
00:33:22I slept so well.
00:33:25You woke up early.
00:33:27Yeah.
00:33:27Because we totally just passed out.
00:33:29I woke up at, like, 6 a.m.?
00:33:31Was that about it?
00:33:31I did, too.
00:33:32I woke up when you woke up.
00:33:33Yeah.
00:33:34And then we were just kind of like...
00:33:39Well, that's...
00:33:41Sorry.
00:33:43Me and Josh had sex.
00:33:46We didn't have sex that night.
00:33:47We had sex in the morning because I was dead.
00:33:49And he was dead also.
00:33:51But, yeah, I just want to feel like this again.
00:33:55Last night you were just like, I'm ready.
00:33:57Which made me happy that you...
00:33:59Yeah, you like that.
00:34:00I really like that you were...
00:34:01That's just what I like.
00:34:02That you're able to, like, tell me that you want me.
00:34:05Yeah.
00:34:06I think it's that kind of, like, open conversation that we just need to keep doing.
00:34:11And, like, it's on me in a big way to, like, say that to you.
00:34:16Because I know that you hearing that helps.
00:34:22I know that, like, with Katie and I, when we don't have sex, she closes up a bit.
00:34:26And I don't have that same reaction, but I know that sex is so important to her.
00:34:32So I feel that she's, I think, a bit more relaxed today.
00:34:38And that's good.
00:34:39I want my other half to feel relaxed.
00:34:42I felt, like, just totally different to how I felt over the past, like, however long.
00:34:49Why do you think that is?
00:34:51It's just, like, a big thing is not having, like, immigration looming over.
00:34:57Because, like, pretty much every thought I've had over the past year has been, you know,
00:35:04whatever I'm thinking about and then immigration.
00:35:07Like, it's just with you all the time.
00:35:09And now that it's happened and I'm here, it's just a massive weight that has gone.
00:35:14And I think that when I'm stressed, sex is, like, another thing on the to-do list now.
00:35:21It feels like something I want to run into because the stress is going away.
00:35:25Does that make sense?
00:35:26Yeah.
00:35:27I think that's good.
00:35:29Yeah.
00:35:31Love you.
00:35:33Love you.
00:35:35I definitely feel more connected to Josh after having sex.
00:35:39It feels like we're in a good place.
00:35:41And so I'm hoping that in the next 90 days we'll be more sexually compatible and ready for marriage.
00:35:49I've been feeding lies and my hands are tired about the secret that controls me.
00:35:55So, where are we going?
00:35:57Uh, this way.
00:36:00I'm excited to show you around the neighbourhood.
00:36:03Thanks.
00:36:04I think Portland is just so beautiful from what I've seen.
00:36:07Ah!
00:36:12That's cute.
00:36:13There's a goat.
00:36:16Hello!
00:36:17Hi!
00:36:18This is very cute.
00:36:20Hi!
00:36:20I'm not feeding you.
00:36:22Aw!
00:36:24No donuts.
00:36:25No donuts!
00:36:28I love...
00:36:29We should watch a goat someday.
00:36:31Yeah.
00:36:31It has a collar, like a dog.
00:36:33I feel like that's very Portland.
00:36:35It's like urban goat farming.
00:36:36Yeah, it's so cute.
00:36:39Okay, anyways.
00:36:41So, what do you want to do tonight?
00:36:43Um, I have a surprise welcome party planned for you.
00:36:48Oh, wow!
00:36:48How are you doing?
00:36:49I wanted to tell you ahead of time.
00:36:50Yeah.
00:36:51Because surprise parties are weird, but...
00:36:52Yeah.
00:36:53Who's going to be there?
00:36:54Um, I think it's just, like, running club people.
00:36:57Christine, Claire, Danica, Eddie.
00:37:01Like, um, let me think.
00:37:03It's like Mark, you know, like how we're dated.
00:37:05Like, casually dated me for like two weeks.
00:37:07Well, I know the story of a talk.
00:37:10Okay, so you remember.
00:37:13I think I've made out with 90% of the single men at the run club.
00:37:21Have any of these makeouts happened after you already had a relationship with Josh?
00:37:25Yeah, some of the makeouts have happened after I met and was already in a relationship with Josh.
00:37:35I know I've done things that haven't been fair to you, like, in the past while, like, drunk and crossed
00:37:40some boundaries.
00:37:41So, I just, like, wanted to, like, start off Portland.
00:37:44Just, I don't know.
00:37:46I just want to be really transparent with you.
00:37:48Like, I'm not really a jealous person.
00:37:50It's, it's the respect thing.
00:37:52And, like, when it's people whilst we've been together, that's not cool.
00:37:58It's really hard for me to resist kissing other people.
00:38:01Like, the compulsion part of OCD is, like, you do a thing to, like, neutralize the obsession.
00:38:07But then when you do the compulsion, it actually makes it all worse.
00:38:10And then it turns into a time-consuming, stressful, useless cycle.
00:38:17I know that Josh forgives me when I make out with people.
00:38:21But I'm, sometimes I'm worried, oh, is this the last time?
00:38:24Like, I don't think I could do it every week or, I don't even want, I don't want to do
00:38:28it every week.
00:38:29But I don't think I could do it, like, for the next, like, few years and have him forgive me
00:38:33every time.
00:38:34I feel like I'm in a good headspace with us.
00:38:37Nice.
00:38:38Especially after last night.
00:38:39Because I know I've been particularly unhinged in London.
00:38:45Yeah.
00:38:45And I'll try to let you know before we start drinking what kind of headspace I am in, in the
00:38:50future.
00:38:52I feel like I've come to the U.S. willing to, like, have a new chapter with Katie and move
00:38:57forwards.
00:38:57And we've got these 90 days to prove to each other that we're here and we're here with, like, meaning
00:39:05and intent.
00:39:05Katie needs to settle down a bit and have some level of stability or this relationship, it won't work.
00:39:13And I think she just needs to curb the bull****.
00:39:36It is a part of the other side's plan.
00:39:43We won't run, we won't hide
00:39:48We won't live like a broken angel
00:39:57All right, Mom.
00:39:58I'm about to go see that attorney about Maxwell.
00:40:02So you think the attorney gonna be able to work things out?
00:40:05I don't know. I hope so.
00:40:07How is Maxwell handling this situation?
00:40:09I mean, he devastated.
00:40:10You know, he already started the moving process.
00:40:14You know, he got his stuff ready to go.
00:40:16You know, he done made his plans, he done told his family.
00:40:18So right now, I'm just gonna talk to his attorney
00:40:20and see what options they give us.
00:40:25It never crossed my mind for a second
00:40:27that that application would be denied
00:40:29because I have God on my side.
00:40:32I feel very upset, enraged, and angry.
00:40:36If this attorney don't work, who would you do next?
00:40:39I don't know. We're gonna have to get some advice from them.
00:40:42The appeal would be the best option,
00:40:44and we can get another person to interview them,
00:40:47and then hopefully we don't have to restart this process over again.
00:41:18So I guess I'm gonna head on out.
00:41:21So, I kid you not.
00:41:23Hey, Rod, I'm outside.
00:41:25I'm over here to the left, and I hope you got me some coffee.
00:41:27Okay.
00:41:28All right, bye-bye.
00:41:30When I first told Rod about Maxwell,
00:41:35he was a little confused, I think,
00:41:38as far as, like, how did you meet this man?
00:41:40And then Rod is stuck on Nigerians or scammers
00:41:44rather than looking at the one person who is Maxwell.
00:41:49What up, Rod?
00:41:50Hey.
00:41:59I'm glad you were able to go with me today.
00:42:01I really want to see what this attorney gonna say
00:42:03if the appeal is an option.
00:42:05Mm-hmm.
00:42:08Tell me.
00:42:10American men,
00:42:12you just gave up.
00:42:16No, I'm not saying I gave up on American men.
00:42:19There's Nigerian men here in the United States.
00:42:22There are.
00:42:23But that's not the one for me.
00:42:27But to go back to all the guys I tried to hook you up with,
00:42:31all these type of guys that wasn't,
00:42:33you had a big, tall list.
00:42:35And this guy is none of that, so...
00:42:38Oh, don't do that.
00:42:39Now, he's most of that.
00:42:42As far back as I can remember,
00:42:45I've had this list of characteristics
00:42:47I want my husband to have.
00:42:49I had an AOL account when I first made that list,
00:42:51so you know how old that was.
00:42:54Every time that I would come in contact with a guy
00:42:57that, like, had a flaw or something I didn't like,
00:42:59I'll just keep adding and adding to this list.
00:43:02Honey, that list was everywhere.
00:43:07Like, the list was everywhere.
00:43:09Do you have that list?
00:43:11Mm-mm, it's on my phone.
00:43:12Oh, go get it.
00:43:13Get it, girl.
00:43:14Go get that list.
00:43:14Oh, okay.
00:43:15Well, hold on, girl.
00:43:16It's stuff every man just about should possess.
00:43:21So here we go.
00:43:23First, no smoking, no drinking, no kids.
00:43:27Great job.
00:43:28Has ambition.
00:43:29I don't want him, like, just so diehard God
00:43:31that you can't have fun, you know?
00:43:34Understanding.
00:43:35Organized, because I'm not organized.
00:43:37Athletic built.
00:43:39Great lover.
00:43:39I don't like men with big feet.
00:43:45Wealthy.
00:43:45Knows his purpose.
00:43:47Good hygiene.
00:43:48Good hair.
00:43:48Pretty teeth.
00:43:50I put love God again, so I guess I just really want that
00:43:52to be on the list.
00:43:54But that's just part of it.
00:43:55It was long.
00:43:58It was long.
00:43:59Like, one of my friend's mom was like,
00:44:01girl, you need to burn that list.
00:44:04Like, get rid of that list.
00:44:05You'll never get a husband.
00:44:05Like, this, you more worried about the list than me.
00:44:08Well, I'm worried about your safety.
00:44:11This is a scary situation for everybody.
00:44:14And then it may be-
00:44:15A scary situation for everybody,
00:44:16a scary situation for you.
00:44:20Let's just keep it real, you know?
00:44:22It should be a scary situation for everybody.
00:44:24because there's so much unknown.
00:44:27It is a lot of unknown.
00:44:28I mean, what if the embassy,
00:44:31they know something that we don't know?
00:44:35Aisha, biological clock is ticking,
00:44:38and she thinks she should be married by now,
00:44:40and I think she's rushing into this.
00:44:43I don't really know the guy,
00:44:45so I don't want to say that he's a bad guy,
00:44:48but it's not a realistic relationship.
00:44:50but she thinks so.
00:44:53I'm just trying to protect you,
00:44:55but I don't know.
00:44:56I don't know.
00:44:57I feel like this ain't the time for protection.
00:45:00I feel like this is the time
00:45:01where it needs to be support.
00:45:04Looking out for your well-being is support.
00:45:09I feel like Rod has lost his mind
00:45:12by questioning my choices.
00:45:13It's hurtful that he does not think
00:45:17that I'm wise enough to make good decisions,
00:45:21and we already have enough problems
00:45:23with this denial,
00:45:24so the last thing I need
00:45:26is Rod saying nay, nay, nay.
00:45:28Are you determined to get your man to the U.S.?
00:45:31Oh, 100%, 110%.
00:45:35Maybe the way that I thought it was going to be done
00:45:38is different than what God had planned,
00:45:42but at the end of the day,
00:45:43I'm getting Maxwell to the U.S.A.
00:45:46I don't know.
00:45:47Everything is just a question mark for me.
00:45:49I mean, what is the rush?
00:45:51What is the rush?
00:45:54Oh, the sugar slipped in my coffee cup
00:46:00You're the sweet, warm dough
00:46:02I can't get enough
00:46:05Hey, pretty precious.
00:46:06Hey, pretty girl.
00:46:08What's that little girl doing?
00:46:10Is she being snuggly?
00:46:11There you are.
00:46:13Papi doesn't want you sleeping in the bed.
00:46:15Mito wants you sleeping out in your own spot.
00:46:18What?
00:46:19Okay, we're going to find a spot just for you.
00:46:22I'm your chicory mama
00:46:25I don't take long to brew
00:46:30Cause your chicory mama
00:46:33Always had a good girl
00:46:34Where's that big girl?
00:46:36Where's my pretty girl?
00:46:37All right, sweetheart.
00:46:38I'll be home in a little bit.
00:46:40Little bit.
00:46:42Mito has set rules for a little bit
00:46:44That she cannot sleep in the bed with him.
00:46:47You can't use him loving.
00:46:49I mean, in the Muslim faith
00:46:51Dogs are not to be inside your home.
00:46:56It's haram, is what they say.
00:46:59They're looked at as dirty.
00:47:02Little bit has spent every night of her life
00:47:04With me in my bed.
00:47:07So I don't know how them two
00:47:09Are going to fight that out.
00:47:16But I mean, I have not shared a bed
00:47:19Or lived with a man
00:47:21In almost 20 years.
00:47:22So the dog is the least of our worries.
00:47:26Hey, how are you?
00:47:28How are you?
00:47:29Good to see you.
00:47:31Oh my gosh, she looks so good.
00:47:33Yeah.
00:47:35Girl, how's it going?
00:47:37It's so good to see you.
00:47:39I know, oh my gosh.
00:47:40How's it going?
00:47:41It's going pretty good.
00:47:43And how about you?
00:47:46What's going on, Debbie?
00:47:48When I tell you everything feels like
00:47:49It's coming 150 miles per hour.
00:47:52Well, because it is.
00:47:54What's going to be like
00:47:55The sleeping arrangements in the apartment?
00:47:57Like is...
00:47:57Devin's on the couch for now.
00:47:59Does he know y'all are going to be sharing a bedroom?
00:48:01Yeah, he...
00:48:02I think he does.
00:48:04I mean, unless he wants to sleep on the air mattress.
00:48:08So y'all have never slept in the same bed together?
00:48:10Him being Muslim,
00:48:12There's like some pretty tight parameters
00:48:14Of pre-marriage and post-marriage.
00:48:17So what do Muslims believe
00:48:18That you're allowed to do before marriage?
00:48:21Nothing.
00:48:21So you guys have straight up never had sex?
00:48:25Never.
00:48:26Is he a virgin?
00:48:31Whoa.
00:48:34Wow.
00:48:37Mito is a 41-year-old virgin.
00:48:40He's going to kill me for saying that.
00:48:44I mean, have you ever, like, kissed?
00:48:47Yes.
00:48:48Okay.
00:48:50At first, because he abstained,
00:48:53I didn't think that he was interested in me
00:48:55Until he explained to me
00:48:58He had never been with a woman before.
00:49:01I just found the whole situation so bizarre.
00:49:04Because how do you believe a 30-something-year-old
00:49:08That's telling you this?
00:49:10From the U.S.?
00:49:11Where are you going to find that?
00:49:14Or at least you're not going to find somebody
00:49:16That's going to admit it.
00:49:19How old is he?
00:49:2041.
00:49:22Wow.
00:49:24And I know, I've actually had people tell me
00:49:26I don't believe you.
00:49:29Why were you surprised?
00:49:30Because I'm a slut.
00:49:34Sorry.
00:49:37When I hear that somebody
00:49:39Is 40 years old
00:49:41In a virgin
00:49:43I'm kind of skeptical.
00:49:45I mean, 40 years?
00:49:47Really?
00:49:49It's so unlikely
00:49:50That they even made a movie
00:49:51With that title.
00:49:54I just want to make sure
00:49:55I have this straight.
00:49:56You're going to be marrying somebody
00:49:57In like
00:49:58Two and a half months.
00:49:59Two and a half months
00:50:01That you haven't physically seen
00:50:03Or touched in three years.
00:50:06And you're going to sleep
00:50:07In the same bed with him
00:50:09For 90 days
00:50:10And not have any sex.
00:50:12That's the goal.
00:50:14Wow.
00:50:15Is it attainable?
00:50:16I have no idea.
00:50:18I give it up on the third date, girl.
00:50:20I don't know how you're going to do it.
00:50:22How do you feel
00:50:23About how stable
00:50:25Your relationship has been
00:50:27Over the last six years?
00:50:29Like, have you felt like
00:50:31Yep.
00:50:32I mean, we're in it.
00:50:33So, I mean, at this rate
00:50:35Yeah.
00:50:36You guys had a rough patch.
00:50:38Categorical.
00:50:38There were some times
00:50:40When y'all were not
00:50:41All lollipops and rainbows.
00:50:43Yeah.
00:50:44No?
00:50:44That damn social media.
00:50:45With that girl.
00:50:46That social media.
00:50:47That girl.
00:50:48Yep.
00:50:48That girl.
00:50:51I can't believe I got to talk
00:50:52About this bitch.
00:50:55I'm like grinding teeth
00:50:57To even have to bring her up.
00:51:02And she's not
00:51:03Anywhere near him anymore?
00:51:05Not that I know of.
00:51:06And it's been over a year.
00:51:10So we actually broke up
00:51:11For a while.
00:51:12He was posting
00:51:14With this one Egyptian actress
00:51:16That's very famous.
00:51:19He thinks that I'm being ridiculous
00:51:21And that this is just work
00:51:23And that's his friend.
00:51:26I'm not dumb.
00:51:28I can definitely read
00:51:30A situation pretty well
00:51:32And if something
00:51:33Doesn't feel right
00:51:36Something's not right
00:51:38I mean
00:51:39I'm not deluding myself
00:51:41To think any of this
00:51:42Is going to be an easy walk
00:51:44Right
00:51:45The biggest thing
00:51:47That I'm worried about
00:51:47Is you getting hurt
00:51:48We know that you're in this
00:51:50For love
00:51:51But we don't know him
00:51:52Yeah
00:51:53At all
00:51:54So we have no idea
00:51:55What his like agenda is
00:51:59I think from the beginning
00:52:01It's been a lot of blind faith
00:52:03With the acting
00:52:05With the
00:52:06The abstaining
00:52:08With the social media battle
00:52:10So I really
00:52:11Really really
00:52:13I really am concerned
00:52:14But then people write books
00:52:16About stuff like this
00:52:18I may get lucky enough
00:52:20And have the dream
00:52:23May not
00:52:26But I also might
00:52:28And why not take that chance
00:52:31This is going to be
00:52:32A real trip
00:52:34It's going to be
00:52:35A real trip
00:52:36It's going to be
00:52:37A hard one
00:52:46A clean man
00:52:48Is a sexy man for me
00:52:50Let's clean your ass
00:52:52Even if I take a poop
00:52:54Annabelle is
00:52:55Trying to
00:52:56Get me in the shower
00:52:57You need this one
00:52:59I'm excited
00:53:00Tonight
00:53:00I just like
00:53:02His penis
00:53:03A bad smell
00:53:14I think I'm right up here
00:53:16I think that's one
00:53:17That's not it
00:53:18No
00:53:19Okay
00:53:20But it's over here somewhere
00:53:21In the Philippines
00:53:21It's very different
00:53:23They're all little trucks
00:53:24Aren't they baby
00:53:24Everybody here's got big trucks
00:53:26Philippines
00:53:26Little
00:53:27This one babe
00:53:28Your truck
00:53:28Yeah right here baby
00:53:32Thank you
00:53:33You're welcome
00:53:44It's my first time
00:53:45To ride in the big truck
00:53:47Very nice to ride in
00:53:49The big truck
00:53:50Smooth
00:53:51Very smooth
00:53:54In the Philippines
00:53:55We're
00:53:55Bang bang bang
00:54:00Oh so you see at the left
00:54:02That's the St. Louis Arch
00:54:05They call that the gateway to the west
00:54:07Because coming from our way
00:54:10All the settlers would cross Mississippi River
00:54:12And they'd go west
00:54:13It looks amazing
00:54:16It is
00:54:16It's like your gateway to your new life in America
00:54:22Alright I think this is it baby
00:54:25Looks kind of like a church or a castle
00:54:27Doesn't it
00:54:28Very nice
00:54:29I don't know if I got in the parking spot right or not
00:54:39Wow
00:54:39This looks amazing
00:54:43Wow
00:54:43Hi
00:54:44Welcome to Gothic Heights Inn
00:54:46How's it going?
00:54:46What's your name?
00:54:47I'm Shay
00:54:47Hi I'm Ken
00:54:48Welcome
00:54:48Nice to meet you
00:54:49This is Annabelle
00:54:50Hi
00:54:50Nice to meet you
00:54:51Hello
00:54:52Welcome
00:54:52This is a former Methodist church
00:54:54That's been converted to a four bedroom inn
00:54:57Wow
00:54:58I wanted Annabelle to feel special the first night
00:55:02So I, you know, I got this room
00:55:04And I just wanted to show her how excited I was
00:55:07For her to get here
00:55:08I like
00:55:09It looks like old charts
00:55:11I knew you'd like the stained glass
00:55:14It's my first time to see a hotel with charts
00:55:19So you guys are staying in our botanical suite
00:55:21Can I show you?
00:55:23Yeah, sure
00:55:23We'll just follow you, sir
00:55:24But I think the things we might do tonight
00:55:28Aren't really appropriate for a church
00:55:30So we might have to turn the Jesus pictures around
00:55:34So he's not looking at you
00:55:35You do it
00:55:42All right
00:55:43Wow
00:55:45Mmm
00:55:46Oh
00:55:47Dang
00:55:49Look at the bath
00:55:50Look how big the tub is
00:55:52Wow
00:55:53Big bath
00:55:53I need you to make it
00:55:56Get the water going
00:55:57A clean man is a sexy man for me
00:56:00I'm not going to touch him
00:56:02It's not
00:56:03If he's dirty
00:56:04I can't wait to scrub
00:56:06Are you ready?
00:56:07Oh
00:56:08Yeah
00:56:09I clean it good
00:56:11His ass
00:56:12His ball
00:56:13His egg
00:56:14What can I call it?
00:56:16Egg na ball
00:56:16Okay, let's go
00:56:18All right
00:56:19I clean his penis
00:56:20And I rub it good inside
00:56:23I don't like his penis
00:56:26A bad smell
00:56:27Oh no
00:56:30Tsunami here
00:56:31Tsunami?
00:56:32No, it's good
00:56:33It's hot?
00:56:34Yeah
00:56:35Oh
00:56:36I started from here
00:56:39At the back
00:56:40Oh
00:56:41Good?
00:56:43Yep
00:56:43And the armpit
00:56:46And it's in the chest
00:56:49Especially here
00:56:51This reminds me of the Philippines
00:56:53Yeah
00:56:54You're right when I met you first time
00:56:57That's why you fall in love with me
00:56:59Get this one
00:57:15I'll have to admit
00:57:16It was kind of a turn on
00:57:18First time I met her
00:57:19But since then
00:57:21She's got a little more comfortable with it
00:57:22And you know
00:57:23I have to tell her
00:57:24Just calm down
00:57:25And you get real fast
00:57:28She scratched me several times
00:57:30Like where it hurt
00:57:31And left a mark
00:57:35Okay
00:57:35Let's clean your ass
00:57:37And then you're gonna get me your ass
00:57:39Even if I take a poop
00:57:41Annabelle is trying to get me in the shower
00:57:44Or wet rag
00:57:46And I'm like
00:57:46That's not
00:57:47That's not what we do here
00:57:53Toilet paper works good too
00:57:55But we can't take a bath
00:57:56Every time we use a restroom, baby
00:58:00Can I check your toenail, babe?
00:58:02Oh, yeah
00:58:04Okay
00:58:04How do they look, babe?
00:58:06Long, but
00:58:08Still can manage my baby
00:58:10Toenails is very important
00:58:11To cut it
00:58:13If his toenails get too long
00:58:15He scratch on my legs
00:58:17They look good?
00:58:18Yeah
00:58:18I don't mind you
00:58:20Clipping my toenails
00:58:21Because it's definitely
00:58:22Something I don't enjoy doing
00:58:26I want to try some champagne, baby
00:58:29Oh!
00:58:30Oh, baby
00:58:35It's my first time in America
00:58:36But you want to get my face out
00:58:39Enough, baby
00:58:40Thank you
00:58:41Okay
00:58:41Bottle back in here
00:58:47Okay
00:58:47Mm-hmm
00:58:48Yeah, very good taste, baby
00:58:49Yeah
00:58:52Mmm
00:58:55Tastes good
00:58:56Let me taste the champagne, babe
00:58:58Mm-hmm
00:59:01When it comes to sex
00:59:02Usually Annabelle tells me
00:59:05What to do
00:59:06What she wants
00:59:07Yeah, yum-yum
00:59:09Yum-yum
00:59:10This one, yum-yum
00:59:14I am 54 years old
00:59:16But
00:59:17My sex drive
00:59:18Is like a 25 years old woman
00:59:22Of course
00:59:23It's been two years
00:59:25I did not make love to Shea
00:59:27It's time to get dirty
00:59:29Mm-hmm
00:59:30Sounds interesting, man
00:59:38I miss you too much, baby
00:59:43I miss you too much, baby
00:59:47Oh, baby
00:59:51Grab me
00:59:54Yum-yum
00:59:56Let every able body say
01:00:00Amen
01:00:02And amen
01:00:04Thank you, Lord
01:00:09Hello, hello
01:00:10How are you?
01:00:11Doing well, Asha
01:00:12Good, Jeremy
01:00:13I do not take no for an answer at all
01:00:16If there is a solution
01:00:18Oh, I'm gonna find it
01:00:19Another option would be
01:00:21You could get married
01:00:22She do not need to, like, go get married
01:00:25To try to rush this thing
01:00:26Or anything that she
01:00:27If you gonna be on the board
01:00:28And be support, be support
01:00:30I'm being support
01:00:30No, not really
01:00:34Love
01:00:36Oh, love
01:00:37Don't give up
01:00:38Oh, love
01:00:41Keep on looking up
01:00:45There's two hours before we go
01:00:47Oh, the devil we know
01:00:49Oh, the devil we know
01:00:53Oh, wow
01:00:54Love
01:00:54Immigration
01:00:55So you're looking at how love
01:00:56Sticking out right there
01:00:57Yeah, I'm already
01:00:59I'm not impressed
01:01:00I feel some type of way already
01:01:02You better get some love in your heart
01:01:03I feel like this is a marketing scheme
01:01:05Here with the word love
01:01:07I love it
01:01:08I think it's cute
01:01:10All right
01:01:13I pray for you
01:01:15You pray for me
01:01:22Ready?
01:01:23Hello, good morning
01:01:24How can I help you today?
01:01:26Yes, I had an appointment
01:01:27If you follow after me
01:01:29I can show you where that's at
01:01:30Okay, thank you
01:01:31Yeah
01:01:32I'm the type of person
01:01:33I do not take no for an answer at all
01:01:37Because if there is a solution
01:01:39Oh, I'm gonna find it
01:01:41Right this way
01:01:43Hello, hello
01:01:44How are you?
01:01:45Doing well, Asha
01:01:46Jeremy
01:01:47Ideally, I would love for this attorney to say
01:01:51It's a possibility that this case can go back to the embassy
01:01:55That I do not have to restart this process
01:01:57Because I just feel like this case went before the right person
01:02:00Then it could convince anybody that the relationship is real
01:02:03Because the relationship is real
01:02:05How are y'all doing today?
01:02:06We're doing good
01:02:07Good, good
01:02:08Well, I know a little bit about the situation
01:02:10From when the appointment was made
01:02:11But I'll let y'all start off
01:02:13How can I help you?
01:02:14I really do hope you can help us
01:02:15Because I feel like my story is more special than any story
01:02:19Because it was God or day
01:02:20Wow, okay
01:02:22So my fiance's name is Maxwell
01:02:24And I introduced my best friend to his best friend
01:02:27Right
01:02:28And so we did the entire K-1 visa process together
01:02:32Right
01:02:32So when they went in for their interview
01:02:36The guy was like
01:02:37There's no way two friends are engaged to two friends
01:02:41So he felt like we were helping them get to America
01:02:44So they denied it
01:02:46So I just want to know about the appeal process
01:02:48Have you ever done an appeal?
01:02:51There's not really an appeal process that we could go through
01:02:56Without a shadow of a doubt
01:02:57There's no possibility of an appeal
01:02:59Not in this situation
01:03:29Applying for this visa is taking almost two years of our lives away
01:03:33Another option would be
01:03:34You could get married
01:03:37And you could file the CR-1 spousal petition
01:03:39So you'd have to go there and get married
01:03:41And you could file a petition as a spouse
01:03:44She do not need to like go get married to try to rush this thing
01:03:48Or anything does she
01:03:49No, she definitely does not have to go get married
01:03:51In order to get this case approved to get him here
01:03:54So you would recommend to her that
01:03:56No, don't coach him
01:03:58No, you're good
01:03:59My job is to let you know what your options are
01:04:01And then y'all make the decision
01:04:04If you're going to be on the board and be support, be support
01:04:06I'm being supportive
01:04:07No, not really
01:04:08Yeah, I'm supportive
01:04:10But supportive is you first
01:04:15I'm sorry, attorney Lowe
01:04:16I'm sorry
01:04:17I'm just making sure
01:04:18I'm just making sure
01:04:22I don't want Aisha to go over and marry this guy in Nigeria at all
01:04:27It doesn't give me an opportunity to really see who this guy really is
01:04:33I'm her protector
01:04:34I don't want her to be scammed
01:04:37Or I don't want her to be hurt either
01:04:39What would you say, the K-1, like how long do you think versus the CR-1?
01:04:44So the K-1 right now, it really varies
01:04:47But you're looking at probably around a year and a half
01:04:50Okay
01:04:50Now if we do the other process, the CR-1
01:04:53You're looking at probably around two years or so
01:04:56I would, not what I would think
01:04:57If I go through this process and then you're saying a year to two
01:05:00Is there a possibility that it might be denied for any reason?
01:05:06It's possible
01:05:07Ooh, that ain't what I want to hear
01:05:11Because there were some immigration issues in the past
01:05:15Where there was actually findings of fraud or misrepresentation
01:05:19They could still find that again
01:05:22I mean, so what options are they leaving us?
01:05:24Literally for me to marry Maxwell
01:05:26Live thousands of miles away
01:05:28And continue life like that
01:05:30That doesn't even make sense
01:05:32I'm 38
01:05:33My biological clock is ticking
01:05:35I do not have time for this
01:05:36I literally came to this meeting looking for answers
01:05:39And at the end of the day, I'm left with more questions
01:05:43Well, I have a lot of things to think about
01:05:45Of course, we'll discuss
01:05:46And hopefully, we can get them here
01:05:49I truly believe, you know, and I stand on it
01:05:53And I have faith in God that this relationship is going to work
01:05:56But I just don't know how
01:05:57Yeah
01:06:08I don't know if they'll look at me just like
01:06:11Like I'm an idiot or
01:06:15We've known Katie for a while
01:06:16She does come with that level of craziness
01:06:18Where you're like, okay, hold on
01:06:20Like, let's slow down
01:06:21Like, what are you doing here?
01:06:22I'm not sure whether it's one of those situations
01:06:25Where everyone else in the room knows something
01:06:28And they don't want to tell me
01:06:47Is this the place?
01:06:48Yes, it is
01:06:49Are you excited?
01:06:51Yes
01:06:58It's so good to see everyone
01:06:59Oh, wow
01:07:02You've got me like, oh my God
01:07:05Hey
01:07:13Welcome back, buddy
01:07:16Hey
01:07:16Look out, look out
01:07:18I'm on your team, it's great
01:07:19Yes, I actually wore it through the immigration
01:07:23I'm joking
01:07:24Do you feel like an American now?
01:07:27I'm going there
01:07:28Like, I feel less British every day
01:07:33Tonight, Katie's throwing me a welcome party
01:07:35Which is such a lovely gesture
01:07:38But there are a couple of people
01:07:41That she has made out with before
01:07:44And that might be really awkward
01:07:46I don't know
01:07:47I don't know if they'll look at me
01:07:49Just like
01:07:51Like I'm an idiot
01:07:52Or
01:07:56Hey
01:07:59Oh, if you put me to the tequila shot
01:08:01I'll do it with you
01:08:03So Katie's obviously going to have a few drinks
01:08:07She thinks she can drink anyone under the table
01:08:10And she can't
01:08:13So I need Katie to just show me that she's getting her act together
01:08:18And that being here and going into marriage
01:08:20Is not going to be the same story that we've had
01:08:24I don't think Katie should think that my forgiveness is unlimited
01:08:32What's going on, girl?
01:08:33How are you doing?
01:08:35I'm doing great
01:08:35What about you?
01:08:37Josh is here
01:08:38Yeah, did you like his new look?
01:08:40I like the new look
01:08:44I knew Katie all of a week before we hooked up
01:08:47And she's a lioness on the prowl
01:08:52If you're just close enough
01:08:54She'll just like go in that extra step for the kiss
01:08:57Made out with me
01:08:58Katie is made out with my roommate
01:09:01At this party that I'm aware of myself
01:09:06She's kissed me
01:09:07She's kissed Bella
01:09:08Fred
01:09:09And our Josh
01:09:11British Josh
01:09:12Like I had to ban her from sticking her tongue in my mouth
01:09:14Because I
01:09:15That's too much
01:09:16That's, yeah
01:09:19Dude, it's your turn for darts
01:09:22Oh, boy
01:09:22Okay
01:09:23We will chat later
01:09:25Yeah, yeah
01:09:25Can I steal you for a sec?
01:09:27Can I steal you for a sec?
01:09:31Nice
01:09:33Well, that's good
01:09:35Like that
01:09:36Wait, really?
01:09:37Like, I'm not going to hurt anyone
01:09:39Like, no
01:09:40I mean, no, no, no
01:09:41Like, it's like
01:09:42He would, like, pull, like
01:09:45Oh, yeah
01:09:46This is actually fun
01:09:48How was picking him up?
01:09:49I surprised him with the America decorations
01:09:52Yes, I love that he's into that
01:09:53What's the biggest culture shock
01:09:55When you first visit Portland?
01:09:57Oh
01:09:58That's, I mean, just generally
01:09:59How people communicate
01:10:01Like, I've been trying very hard
01:10:03To be less, like
01:10:04Like, closed and reserved
01:10:06Because I think Americans are quite, um
01:10:08You know
01:10:09You say what you think
01:10:12Yeah
01:10:12When we went home
01:10:13We, like, got ready for bed
01:10:15And we
01:10:17Were gonna
01:10:17We did not have sex in the night
01:10:20But
01:10:21In the morning we had sex
01:10:22For you guys
01:10:25How does it feel to see Katie after?
01:10:27I don't know
01:10:27When you'd last for the scene
01:10:28Oh, it's different
01:10:29Oh, she's had, like, these quick in and outs
01:10:31You know, over the time
01:10:33Yeah, yeah
01:10:33And, like, we've known Katie for a while
01:10:35She's
01:10:36She's built
01:10:37Bit of a loose cannon, right?
01:10:39Like
01:10:39What does that mean?
01:10:42Well, she was just so
01:10:43Like, loose
01:10:45Before
01:10:46Just, like, very much
01:10:47Just, like, everything was a party
01:10:49Yes
01:10:51100%
01:10:52Like, she was just going off the rails
01:10:56So I'm not sure whether
01:10:58It's one of those situations
01:11:00Where everyone else in the room
01:11:01Knows something
01:11:03And they don't want to tell me
01:11:05On the other hand
01:11:06We excluded everyone
01:11:08That Katie's kissed
01:11:09From being friends
01:11:10Then we would have
01:11:12A friendship of two
01:11:13Which would be Katie and I
01:11:16We had some good conversations
01:11:17About, like, how
01:11:19What I need
01:11:20Versus what he needs
01:11:21Um, in that
01:11:22Like, he said
01:11:23He'll be, like, more sexually available
01:11:25And, like, more open to that
01:11:26And I promise, like
01:11:28I'm going to stop
01:11:29Like, get too drunk
01:11:30And seek out attention
01:11:32When she's going about
01:11:33All these wild, crazy stunts
01:11:35Like, how have you dealt with that?
01:11:37As in, like, why am I
01:11:39Like, what?
01:11:39Like
01:11:40You're moving halfway around the world
01:11:42Like, that's a huge change
01:11:44For me to make this commitment
01:11:45Of kind of leaving my home country
01:11:47I need to know
01:11:48It's going somewhere
01:11:51And I feel that with Katie
01:11:53But she does come with
01:11:55That level of craziness
01:11:56Where you're like
01:11:57Okay, hold on
01:11:58Like, let's slow down
01:11:59Like, what are you doing here
01:12:00Type thing
01:12:01And I don't know
01:12:02I think you just
01:12:02You roll through those punches
01:12:04Way better than I ever could
01:12:08What stuck out about Josh tonight
01:12:11Was his
01:12:13That he's
01:12:14He's all in
01:12:15Yeah, let's go get another drink
01:12:17Yes, I'd love that
01:12:18He's got his
01:12:19His heart and his mind
01:12:20You know, just
01:12:21In the correct place
01:12:22But I am worried
01:12:24That she will
01:12:25Make big mistakes
01:12:26Okay
01:12:27Hey, babe
01:12:28Katie can be wild
01:12:30You know, she'll
01:12:31Drive the crowd
01:12:32You know, just push everybody
01:12:33To like
01:12:34You know, let's all go karaoke
01:12:35You know, let's all make out
01:12:37Once she's been drinking
01:12:38A certain amount
01:12:39I mean, that definitely
01:12:41Gets cranked up
01:12:44We saw you and Mark and Josh talking
01:12:46I just like the label
01:12:47The ex-lovers chat
01:12:49Okay
01:12:49I guess you're not my ex-lover
01:12:51What were you guys talking about?
01:12:54They were like
01:12:55Essentially like checking
01:12:56Checking in with me
01:12:57Like
01:12:58Seeing how I'm doing
01:13:00Like
01:13:00Why?
01:13:02Or like
01:13:02How did it go?
01:13:04I
01:13:04It went great
01:13:06Like
01:13:07It doesn't bug you
01:13:10That we banged before
01:13:12I banged both Josh and Mark one time
01:13:15Not one time
01:13:17Like
01:13:17Three times
01:13:18No
01:13:21You're not insecure
01:13:22I mean
01:13:23Like
01:13:24Do you want to be with me?
01:13:25Yeah
01:13:25Okay
01:13:26Well there we go
01:13:27I feel like
01:13:28Sometimes I feel like
01:13:29Oh
01:13:31Maybe I'll think about
01:13:32Like
01:13:33The chemistry I used to have
01:13:35Or like
01:13:36A brief thought
01:13:36Will cross my mind
01:13:38Sorry?
01:13:39But
01:13:40It's more of like
01:13:40Oh
01:13:41I know
01:13:43That didn't work out
01:13:44Like
01:13:45Yeah
01:13:45Yeah
01:13:46Yeah
01:13:47Well
01:13:48I hope you guys can like
01:13:49Hang out
01:13:50Yeah
01:13:50We're planning to
01:13:52Uh
01:13:53Yeah
01:13:53That's good
01:13:56Sometimes
01:13:57Casey
01:13:57Can
01:13:59Say something
01:14:00In the hope
01:14:00That it will become true
01:14:02And
01:14:03I hope
01:14:04That this isn't
01:14:05One of those situations
01:14:06And I don't
01:14:07Want to
01:14:08Be living
01:14:09In a relationship
01:14:10Where I'm
01:14:10Second guessing things
01:14:12You know
01:14:13This would have been
01:14:13A massive waste
01:14:14Of my time
01:14:15And money
01:14:15And emotions
01:14:17To come here
01:14:18For me to be
01:14:20Made a fool of
01:14:21Katie needs to prove
01:14:22Her commitment
01:14:23To me
01:14:24And to us
01:14:25Or this relationship
01:14:26It won't work
01:14:28Um
01:14:29Shall we go that way?
01:14:30How do you feel?
01:14:31I feel like
01:14:31It's time to go that way
01:14:33Can you have a good night
01:14:34Tonight?
01:14:35Yeah
01:14:48There's a strong possibility
01:14:50That this is all
01:14:51Gonna fall apart
01:14:54Maybe you know
01:14:55You understand
01:14:56What's wrong
01:14:56I need
01:14:58Ten days
01:15:01I'm really worried
01:15:02It's just
01:15:02Maybe too much
01:15:28I've been trying to get in touch
01:15:30With Mido
01:15:31And haven't been able
01:15:33To get through
01:15:35Mido's flight
01:15:35Is tomorrow
01:15:37There's a strong possibility
01:15:39That he's not gonna be
01:15:41On that flight
01:15:43And this is all
01:15:44Gonna fall apart
01:15:52Set the night
01:15:53Cause you made me
01:15:55Lose my mind
01:15:59And now I stand
01:16:01To lose my mind
01:16:04You wait for me to
01:16:11It's been a couple days
01:16:12Since I heard from Mido
01:16:15It's been tough
01:16:19Um
01:16:20His father's
01:16:21Not well
01:16:22We don't know
01:16:24What the prognosis
01:16:26Diagnosis may be
01:16:27His father's
01:16:29Going through
01:16:29A series of tests
01:16:30But there's still
01:16:32A ways to go
01:16:33Before we have
01:16:34Any idea
01:16:34Of what this is
01:16:35Actually going to be
01:16:37I know he's stressed
01:16:39I know he's got
01:16:40A million and one
01:16:41Things going on
01:16:42At the same point
01:16:43I'm not getting
01:16:44Much communication
01:16:47I definitely go times
01:16:48Without hearing
01:16:49From Mido
01:16:50Because he is
01:16:51Just the type of person
01:16:52That he needs
01:16:54That break
01:16:55From people
01:16:57When Mido goes silent
01:16:59It can last
01:16:59A couple of days
01:17:00Two, three days
01:17:01That part of his personality
01:17:03Was hard to become
01:17:04Accustomed to
01:17:05And when he is
01:17:08In his mode
01:17:09Of no contact
01:17:10It becomes frustrating
01:17:15We're about
01:17:16Twenty-something hours
01:17:17Away from the flight
01:17:19So him changing
01:17:20That ticket
01:17:21At this point
01:17:21In the game
01:17:22I don't think
01:17:23It's
01:17:25Logical
01:17:28There's a lot of
01:17:29Unknowns going on
01:17:30At the moment
01:17:31It's
01:17:33It's
01:17:34I don't think
01:17:57It's
01:17:57It's
01:17:58It's
01:17:58It's
01:17:59It's
01:17:59It's
01:17:59It's
01:17:59It's
01:18:19İzlediğiniz için teşekkür ederim.
01:18:32İzlediğiniz için teşekkür ederim.
01:19:10Do you want me to check the airlines to find out how much the ticket would be for you to
01:19:15go later?
01:19:15You can do that?
01:19:17I don't know what I can do.
01:19:23Okay.
01:19:29Mita is extremely agitated at the moment and I definitely am concerned that he's getting cold feet about coming to
01:19:37America.
01:19:37It just feels to me like it's just always something and I'm tired.
01:19:45Bye bye.
01:19:46Bye bye.
01:19:53At what point do you decide on a journey or on a decision what's a test of a commitment and
01:20:03what's a sign of something that's just not meant to be?
01:20:09And I'm not sure where to put that anymore.
01:20:14I'm really worried that Mito's not going to get on that flight.
01:20:20I'm really worried when it's going to be time.
01:20:46I'm really worried it's just maybe too much.
01:20:56Next time on 90 Day Fiancé.
01:20:59This is my miniatures.
01:21:01I like to collect tiny things.
01:21:04They are a tool for manifestation.
01:21:06It's a toilet.
01:21:07Oops.
01:21:08There's a poop here.
01:21:09I always wanted to get married with a gringo.
01:21:14The universe introduced me to Thomas.
01:21:18Welcome to my city!
01:21:22I'm very happy.
01:21:25Polly gives the universe way too much credit.
01:21:28I'm so happy. I love you so much.
01:21:31Especially when it's me.
01:21:35When I be there, I can't work.
01:21:37For a little bit, yeah.
01:21:39We are now on our way to America.
01:21:50People think Americans are so rich.
01:21:53But my parents need to help.
01:21:56I don't make that much money.
01:22:00Oh, hi guys!
01:22:03When I walk in, I can't believe that it's a mess.
01:22:07We're probably gonna head on home.
01:22:09Can we get a couple of dollars?
01:22:12There you go.
01:22:13Thank you.
01:22:14Okay, bye guys!
01:22:16It should be the children taking of the parents.
01:22:20Not the parents who are taking care of the children.
01:22:24It's just a few dollars.
01:22:26You need to fix.
01:22:28But that's my daughter.
01:22:29I don't care.
01:22:32I don't care.
01:22:34I'm worried about how the dynamic of our family is gonna change.
01:22:38I'm gonna keep it real.
01:22:40He's 32 years old.
01:22:42And she's about to be 46 years old.
01:22:44I just wanna make sure that, you know, she's not being taken advantage of.
01:22:47And the boys don't get hurt.
01:22:49Especially when it comes to my kids.
01:22:50I'll bite someone's face off my kids.
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