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00:03I'm nervous.
00:05I'm going to take it one step at a time.
00:07In a world saturated with sex,
00:10I'm absolutely petrified.
00:12More young adults than ever are living without it.
00:16I thought of having sex with someone.
00:18It scares me. It gives me the ick.
00:20I'm missing out.
00:21Terrified.
00:22Nerve-racking.
00:22Gut-wrenching.
00:23Embarrassing.
00:24All I think about is what I'm going to get wrong.
00:27Can you point to the outer lady?
00:30Nope.
00:33Now...
00:34Oh, my God!
00:35Twelve virgins are getting a crash course in intimacy.
00:39Social media, porn, dating apps.
00:42There are so many negative messages
00:43and we can help them blossom.
00:45Use it by stimulating the area.
00:47They'll be guided by experts.
00:50You see yourself as...
00:52Proposal.
00:52To explore all aspects of intimacy.
00:56And maybe even have sex with a trained therapist.
01:00Do you want to put a condom on?
01:03Or each other.
01:04Get a room, guys!
01:07I really do need to change the life.
01:10Who will be ready...
01:11Desperate times call for desperate measures.
01:14To go all the way.
01:23Whoa, that can kill someone.
01:27Over the past few days...
01:29I've done it a couple of times, but I can't quite reach orgasm.
01:32The group sharpen technique...
01:35Kissing travels to the nipples, to the pussy, to the toes.
01:39Putting their new skills...
01:41I like the stubble on that.
01:42Into practice.
01:45Alex climaxed without fear of losing his erection.
01:48Everything your body's doing right now is perfect.
01:51And Joy also made a breakthrough.
01:53You're all the way in now.
01:54Bringing her one step closer to pain-free sex.
01:59But it was Tegan who was the first to lose her virginity on the island.
02:04That didn't take long.
02:07Now, the stakes are rising as the group explores the art of seduction.
02:12The word seduction is very scary to people,
02:15because they don't understand how to build erotic energy.
02:20Feels like a good dog.
02:21Hmm.
02:22It's actually saying,
02:24I'm a sexual being and I'm going to show it to you.
02:27Just relax and let your body be.
02:41It's the penultimate phase of the course on Virgin Island.
02:45Another letter.
02:46And things are building to a seductive peak.
02:49This phase of the course is all about seduction.
02:52That's going to be fun and embarrassing.
02:56I'm sure Danielle and Celeste have got something cooked up for us.
03:01Hopefully I can use some of that stuff on Joy.
03:04Are we going to be seducing each other?
03:06Yeah, why not?
03:07Super virgin activity.
03:12Being emotionally in the depth.
03:14I'm not very good at that kind of stuff.
03:16I like bibs.
03:17Morning, princess.
03:19Seduction.
03:20Yay!
03:21Looking forward to it.
03:23You're a great seductor.
03:25I'm not very seductive.
03:27The eyes tell a different story, pal.
03:30See, that's a great seduction phase.
03:32Yeah.
03:33Either that or you're going to murder me.
03:35Yeah.
03:42Throughout the workshops, many have thrown themselves in.
03:45Good morning.
03:46Good morning.
03:47Good morning.
03:49And in less than two weeks, the transformation is striking.
03:53Many of them have been changing throughout the course.
03:56It's amazing to watch.
03:57To shed this old idea of themselves and to embrace this new self that is sexy and empowered and ready
04:04to go out and take the world by storm.
04:06There's something spicy happening on the island.
04:12Welcome, everyone.
04:13This phase is all about seduction.
04:16We want to demonstrate for you now a little exercise to bring together all of the different techniques that you've
04:23learned into something that's very seductive up against the wall.
04:31Up against the wall really helps you get masterful around seduction and to help people get into their confidence.
04:40It is very intense, but I really hope that they're ready to try it.
04:57Fun.
05:18Okay.
05:24Okay.
05:25Who wants to...? I'm going to try.
05:30Joy, you want to...? Yeah.
05:32Alex and Joy's blossoming relationship...
05:34Shall we do your questions? OK, cool.
05:37..means working together comes naturally.
05:40Check with him that he's ready for you
05:42and then you'll move one step forward.
05:50And it's easier to practise
05:53when the feelings are real.
05:59Good.
06:14Do you want me to pick that? Yeah.
06:20Amazing!
06:24Also practising the art of seduction...
06:27Make sure you're giving enough pressure here, like, around her waist.
06:32..the island's other lovebirds, Callum and Katie.
06:37Beautiful. Yes.
06:44Yes.
06:45As more of the group... Yes, there you go.
06:48..take on this advanced exercise...
06:50You good? Yeah.
06:52..the progress they've made on the island is clear.
06:58Yes, beautiful.
07:00Good job!
07:05Hey, who else wants to go?
07:09Go on, Jason. I'll go up.
07:12However, so far, 26-year-old Jason has kept a low profile at the retreat.
07:17You want to push? Yeah.
07:18Yeah.
07:19Jason is so guarded.
07:21He is the most closed in the group and the least willing to really experiment.
07:26But we have to follow his pace and then I think he'll continue to open up and try more things.
07:34I'll just calm my own nerves.
07:38I'm not antisocial.
07:41I just don't go out looking to talk to people.
07:44I didn't like secondary school.
07:46I got bullied a lot, some ginger.
07:48I was very firmly in the losers group.
07:52I bought an old Soviet Polish coat, like a big winter overcoat.
07:57And my go-to shoe wear was Crocs.
08:01I just keep my emotions to myself and very rarely even share them to myself.
08:09You can walk towards him, Tegan.
08:12With only a few days left at the retreat...
08:14Just like that.
08:16Yeah, yeah, yeah, sorry.
08:17Yeah, try again there.
08:18Yeah.
08:20The time to push beyond his boundaries...
08:23Good, good, good.
08:24..is running out.
08:25Spread her legs.
08:27Then you bring Tegan's hands up.
08:33No, you're doing great, don't cancel it.
08:37You feel it, right?
08:38Good.
08:38And then you can start doing, like, light touch.
08:41Yeah.
08:41Yeah.
08:42And the face, if she's okay with that.
08:44Okay, the face?
08:45Mm-hmm.
08:49Is that good?
08:50Yeah, I get a bit of a cut.
08:51Great. Easy.
08:52Done, Jess.
08:54Wonderful.
08:55You've done so good today.
08:57Yay!
09:02It was good to do it and push myself, but it was challenging.
09:07It felt a little peculiar being up there because it was central stage.
09:14How did you guys find that?
09:15It was fun.
09:17It was good.
09:17So what about the pinning part?
09:19Yes, please.
09:21Yes, please.
09:25I really don't stop getting a bow down.
09:27Oh, my God.
09:28I didn't notice.
09:30I didn't notice.
09:30When I come back, it's like, oh, fuck.
09:32Everyone gets...
09:36To help turn arousal into seduction...
09:39Hello.
09:41Hello.
09:41The experts have the perfect exercise.
09:46So, um, who enjoys a massage?
09:50Yes?
09:52Okay.
09:52Sensual massage is like starting our sexual engine,
09:56kind of getting that arousal going.
10:00I'm so ready.
10:01Yes!
10:07Is this the bird?
10:09Oh, brilliant.
10:10The important thing with sensual massage is just getting used to touching each other in less and less clothing.
10:16Play and discover the different erogenous zones that you might have.
10:20Oh, yeah.
10:21I'm actually feeling my fanny.
10:23My fanny feeling too.
10:26I love that.
10:28I want you to be able to just relax into it and not have to think about anything.
10:32I like thinking about you.
10:34You'll make me blush.
10:42It's not just ticklish, it's other reasons as well.
10:47As the couples grow closer...
10:49Can you touch me first, please?
10:51OK.
10:51...massage is also helping Marianne deepen her trust in Andre.
10:55Feels so nice.
10:57We have three types of touch with nurturing, sensual, and then you can move into the erotic.
11:06As Marianne begins to touch Andre, she's eager to learn.
11:14I think I'm always a bit nervous with, like, firm touch.
11:18Let's see what you got.
11:21Yeah.
11:21Can I do your...?
11:22Mm-hmm, you can.
11:23Is that OK?
11:24Or does it have to be a certain...?
11:26Mm-hmm.
11:26No, that's great.
11:27As things become more intimate...
11:29Just dig in.
11:31...confidence grows.
11:33A little butt squeeze.
11:34Yeah, I love a good butt squeeze.
11:38Thank you for making it super safe. It was very, very yummy.
11:42Did I hug you?
11:43Yeah.
11:48I know you have a stunningly gorgeous face.
11:51Mm-hmm.
11:52I feel like you really should know that.
11:57Andre, it's great.
11:59It's fun to do it with someone who you trust.
12:03Yes, I'm feeling very happy with how far we've come so far.
12:07I would like to maybe do, like, more escalation.
12:09Sorry if this was a great entranceway into that.
12:17As Marianne prepares to go further with Andre...
12:20Hi!
12:22..Ellen has her own questions on erotic massage.
12:25Marianne, I'm intrigued to know what vibrator you preferred.
12:29The clitoral stimulus one, it was really, really good.
12:33..and she's got a confession from last night.
12:36I went to bed now.
12:37Stop it!
12:43I know! I know!
12:45Oh, my goodness. Oh, did you lose a toy?
12:47Yeah, I did.
12:48It was pink and it had, like, a head and then, like...
12:52Oh, OK.
12:53Like the marshmallow you were on.
12:54Yeah.
12:54But it was so nice.
12:57I'm so happy for you.
12:58I have done my homework and taken away the shame of masturbation.
13:05Um...
13:06Yeah.
13:07I've unlocked the pleasure zone!
13:10Cheers to orgasms, guys!
13:13But Ellen doesn't want to stop there.
13:15Like, I need to just receive that from someone else.
13:29You smell nice.
13:32I haven't sniffed you yet, so I'm not going to tell you if you smell good
13:34until I've had a sniff.
13:36You smell good as well.
13:39With the seduction phase underway...
13:42So relaxing you need a wee.
13:44So relaxing you need a wee.
13:46The virgins consider what they'd like from this stage of the course.
13:51If the option of me losing my virginity here comes around,
13:55I want to be mentally ready for it.
13:57It's a big thing.
13:58My dream is to have an orgy.
14:01Why did you look at me when you said that?
14:05My hope would be that in my next session,
14:10I get to have another orgasm?
14:14Meow!
14:22The afternoon one-on-one sessions start...
14:25On your back.
14:26..with Callum learning to receive intimate touch.
14:29I am going to touch you exploring what different kinds of touch feel good.
14:34..from surrogate partner Kat.
14:37Does that feel okay?
14:39Ticklish.
14:40Good tickle or bad tickle?
14:41No, good tickle.
14:43Meanwhile...
14:44Can you take off my bra, please?
14:46Millie's working with surrogate partner Isden...
14:49Can you move to my waist?
14:50Yeah.
14:51..to get comfortable being naked with another woman.
14:55You're doing a really good job.
14:57Thanks.
14:58I cannot believe how far everyone has come in this course.
15:02The group have blown my mind.
15:06They have taken it on and just tried everything
15:09and grown in leaps and bounds.
15:12All right, Kel.
15:13How was your one-to-one?
15:14Perfect.
15:15Yeah?
15:16And now some of them are ready to connect with someone sexually.
15:19Their broader confidence, it's growing over time.
15:23However, there is one exception.
15:27Go on, Jess.
15:28What is your dream before leaving the island?
15:31I have a fear.
15:32What's your fear?
15:33Yeah.
15:34That I'm not going to catch up?
15:36You're not behind here.
15:37No.
15:38You're where you're meant to be right now.
15:41It was amazing to see Jason coming up.
15:44And he really did the exercise. He wasn't holding back.
15:47This is amazing.
15:48Like, it is such a huge leap for him to do that.
15:53I want to be able to interact with people of the opposite sex more fluidly.
16:00I had a lot of, like, not pursuing things well enough when I was younger.
16:05Hey, Jason.
16:06Hi.
16:06This is an opportunity to relinquish my control of being comfortable.
16:13I'm curious if you feel open to going into sexual communication.
16:20Yeah.
16:20I feel like those, like, feelings are kind of a compartmentalized part of myself.
16:26Really, his issue is not knowing how to feel his emotions, how to express them.
16:34When we don't have words for it, we're kind of left with nowhere to start from.
16:38So, Ayesha wants Jason to put his sexual wants into words.
16:44When you're ready, start to speak your I wants.
16:49It's really hard to say.
16:51I don't know. I'm not sure I'm able to get into that mindset.
16:55So, I'm going to share one of my wants as an example.
16:59I want someone to undo my trousers zip
17:05and slowly bring them down off my legs.
17:09Okay.
17:16Uh, like, hair caressing.
17:19I want...
17:20I want...
17:24It's not something I've said out loud before.
17:27What about if you wrote these things down and I said them?
17:32Yeah, I guess.
17:38I've written down four.
17:40Fabulous.
17:43Okay, if I sit like this?
17:44Yeah, I'm going to squirm though.
17:47I want someone who is blonde and has nice hair.
17:52Yeah, that's easy.
17:53I want someone who has bright eyes.
17:58I want someone to initiate with me.
18:02Oh.
18:03Dying of cringe.
18:05You're dying in the cutest way.
18:06It's insanely cringe to me.
18:09Yeah, I'm...
18:11No, take a breath.
18:12Come on.
18:17I want to explore someone's breath.
18:22That was great.
18:25Progress made.
18:26Ayesha wants Jason to try again himself.
18:29I want to see you on the other side of feeling embarrassed
18:33when you speak about sexual communication.
18:35Okay.
18:37I...
18:40I like it when someone caresses my hair and whispers into my ear.
18:45Mmm.
18:47Kind of breathy.
18:48Yeah, the breathiness.
18:49Yeah.
18:50Okay, what else?
18:51I like when someone, like, hugged me from behind with their breath out.
19:00Mmm.
19:01You mean like, like, topless?
19:03Yeah.
19:04Yeah.
19:05No, this is so good.
19:07I love learning this stuff about you.
19:12Bye.
19:15I found talking about my sexual desires quite hard.
19:19But once it got started, there was an enjoyment, yeah, of just being able to do it.
19:24And I think I made a lot of progress in the session.
19:31So, Egan, will you have sex with me?
19:33Of course.
19:34We can help you out.
19:37Though some are still honing their seduction technique...
19:40Ellen!
19:42Ellen, what are you...
19:44What's happening there?
19:46Ornion!
19:47Ellen is a changed woman.
19:49I'm going to have to wake up earlier for work so I can masturbate before I go.
19:53Ellen!
19:55Love it, Ellen!
19:57After a slow start...
19:59I'm thinking I'm fine as long as you're on that chair and I'm on this chair.
20:02Ellen has worked with Kat...
20:04May I kiss your neck?
20:07Yes.
20:09...to gradually increase intimacy.
20:12That's right.
20:13Ellen has grown so much.
20:15I feel like she trusts herself a lot more.
20:18She defines no longer being a virgin as having an orgasm from another person.
20:23And it's so nice as the practitioner when your clients understand their goals and you can be a part of
20:28it.
20:29Hi.
20:30Really happy I did have an orgasm.
20:33It's given me confidence to go into my one-to-one and hopefully orgasm from someone else.
20:43So, my plan was to be pretty organic, undress and move into me, touch you with you directing.
20:49Does that feel okay? Yeah.
20:52At 35...
20:56Ellen's path to intimacy has been a long one.
20:59I just want you to like really direct me towards what feels good.
21:02Okay.
21:05Just like...
21:07Um...
21:09It's very nice.
21:12Um...
21:13I've lost my words.
21:18I felt really wet already.
21:21Just relax and let your body be.
21:27Let me foster.
21:37I felt like I did orgasm.
21:55You did orgasm.
21:57Yeah.
22:00Oh, thank you.
22:04Thanks for having me.
22:05Thank you, my dear.
22:09Have a good night.
22:11You too.
22:12Just over the moon, I feel like I've got a big smile, like, just inside me.
22:17Like, I'm just really happy.
22:21Yeah.
22:28Hello, Ellen there.
22:29How was your one-to-one, girly?
22:30Lovely.
22:37I wasn't going to share, but I'll share with you both.
22:40I'm no longer a virgin.
22:43Oh, congrats.
22:47I'm so excited.
22:48You're done.
22:52Yay.
22:54The lesbians are all on the roof.
22:58Me next.
22:59Me next.
23:01So exciting.
23:11Good morning.
23:12Good morning.
23:13It's day 14 on Virgin Island.
23:16Fuck a tea, please.
23:17What do you reckon?
23:18Sausages and eggs today?
23:20Sweet corn.
23:22No one saw that coming.
23:24How are you?
23:25Good.
23:25Do you sleep well?
23:26Um, yes.
23:28The best I've ever slept.
23:29Wow, that's amazing.
23:30I'm glad to hear it.
23:32I wonder why.
23:34Ellen has joined Teagan as one of the island's former virgins.
23:38Morning, sweetheart.
23:40And the seduction phase is inspiring more of the group.
23:43I think it's a great phase because I would 100% describe myself as a seductive person.
23:49I didn't realise how much I've been stopping it until I came here.
23:52And being allowed to explore in a safe space, that's what I'm looking forward to.
23:56Oh, this is a bloody big one, man.
23:58Look at this about them.
24:00Do not deep throat your banana.
24:04I think this phase is fun.
24:05You can really get into seduction.
24:07I definitely feel like I can really be in control.
24:10No.
24:11Sorry, I dropped my bus.
24:19I don't know.
24:20It's not a beanbag.
24:21Actually, you know, I want the couch.
24:22I've come so far.
24:23To build on the group's growing confidence...
24:25Yay!
24:26We have goodies for you.
24:27..the next exercise will really help them tap into their seductive side.
24:32Today, you will be stepping into your super-self, your most empowered, proud self.
24:42So we have all sorts of goodies here.
24:44You can cut things up, just make it your own to really represent this powerful, resilient part of yourself.
24:53For the super-self, they're going to choose a costume and a name.
24:57There we go.
24:58That's obvious.
24:58And we started.
24:59Bye.
25:01I hope they learn to explore all of the different sides of their personality.
25:05They can say, hey, I'm not this awkward, disconnected person.
25:09I am hot and confident.
25:12Do you feel confident?
25:13Do you feel empowered?
25:14I feel like I was more naked.
25:18Just being honest.
25:20After two weeks of intensive work at the retreat...
25:23You look hot in the hat, girl.
25:24Thanks.
25:25So imagine this, and then just black underwear.
25:28Joy has learnt to shed her shame.
25:32I've always kind of had a fantasy of being a stripper.
25:35Oh, really?
25:36Yeah.
25:36I'm literally going to live my dream this evening.
25:39And she's not the only one.
25:41I just always wanted to try being a hot bunny.
25:44Marianne's losing her inhibitions too.
25:46Joy.
25:47Oh, yes.
25:48Allowing her sexy side out.
25:50I really like it.
25:51I need, like, a sword.
25:53Yes, yeah, yeah, yeah.
25:54Even Jason is throwing himself in.
25:57Rawr.
25:57I've never seen any more upbeat, Jason.
26:01This jacket, you know, actually suits me.
26:05What do you think?
26:06Yeah, you look quite fit.
26:09Yeah, Bert!
26:11Fuck yeah.
26:12Bert is also gaining confidence.
26:14Bertie.
26:15Yeah?
26:15You're 100% going to have the best outfit tonight, without a doubt.
26:19We'll see.
26:20No, there's not we will see, because I've already seen.
26:23But the experts know he can still struggle with connection.
26:29I'll be seeing Bertie today,
26:30and I want to work with him on when there is something that's awkward.
26:34I want to normalise staying in connection through those moments.
26:39For Bertie, communication has always been a challenge.
26:42Since I was born, I was diagnosed with autism,
26:47and that has played a big role in how I've interacted with people.
26:54Sometimes I do give off mannerisms that are socially different.
26:58Good afternoon.
26:59Good afternoon.
27:01But when you see other people in a relationship having sex,
27:06you feel like you're missing out on something amazing.
27:09I've not been romantically touched by anyone.
27:14That's the part that I have struggled with a lot.
27:20So we're going to start standing.
27:22Okay.
27:23And the goal is to get us lying down,
27:27close off, staying connected.
27:30Yeah?
27:31All right.
27:31All right.
27:35How are you feeling?
27:36Good.
27:37Thank you for asking.
27:45Hmm.
27:46The key was the goal was to go down here, wasn't it?
27:49Undress and go down.
27:50You have to undress each other.
27:52Bertie's awkwardness.
27:53Okay.
27:54You've got this.
27:55All right.
27:56It's hard to shift.
27:58First of all, I'm just wondering,
27:59how do I take a top like this off?
28:01It's just over the head.
28:02Oh, okay.
28:03And I don't even have a bra on.
28:05That's what makes it much easier.
28:06That's funny, because I've got a bra on.
28:08Right.
28:09Okay.
28:12It's very tight.
28:15Yeah, this is...
28:15I think undressing each other isn't going to work from now on.
28:18It is.
28:19It's okay to struggle, though.
28:20That's the point.
28:21You know?
28:22Yeah.
28:23You are so funny and so charming.
28:25And if you just relax in moments like these,
28:27you're perfect.
28:28Okay.
28:29Pants?
28:30Yeah.
28:31Yay!
28:33Naked!
28:37Take a moment and just land here.
28:44You're doing great.
28:48Where would you like to be touched?
28:50Yeah, that feels good.
28:53As things escalate...
28:55You're very juicy.
28:56That's what you want, yeah.
28:57Bertie's communication improves.
29:00Can I give you a spank?
29:02Yes.
29:03Thanks for asking.
29:05And the session leads to mutual pleasure.
29:14Did you just walk us?
29:16Yeah.
29:18I'm very aroused at the moment.
29:20It's good to be aroused.
29:34You're squirted in my hair.
29:40Can you get it for me?
29:41Can you get it for me?
29:42Is this the right time now to say I'm sorry?
29:43No, you don't have to apologize.
29:46How much did I get off?
29:48You got a lot.
29:51Okay, it's gone.
29:57That was incredible.
29:58Thank you so much.
30:03All right, have a good day.
30:05I'm feeling excellent.
30:07I've managed to do so many things I thought I could never do in my life.
30:11And I'm just so, so, so grateful for Kat.
30:24How was your one-on-one?
30:25So, we both took it in turns to touch each other down there.
30:30Aw, I'm happy for you.
30:31It's quite surreal at the moment because I never thought I'd get to this stage.
30:34I also didn't think I'd get this far in a sense.
30:37Because you come in with a set of like, there's no way I could possibly.
30:40And then you just end up feeling safer and safer.
30:42Look at us.
30:43I know, absolutely.
30:45Who'd have thought it?
30:46Who'd have thought it, exactly.
30:49Aw.
30:50I'm so proud of you.
30:56You're going to dance.
30:57There we go.
31:03Yeah, they're going to be like, guys, you're too affectionate, actually.
31:06Alex is getting a boner during the thing, so you've got to stop filming.
31:09It's going to be like, Alex, here's how to avoid getting a boner.
31:13Love is in the air, and Alex and Joy's relationship has delighted the expats.
31:19I'm just so proud to watch Joy really own who she is.
31:24And she's gotten this very sweet little romance blooming with Alex.
31:29It's amazing.
31:30I love it.
31:33Alex and Joy have asked to spend time together away from the group.
31:39Well, I know the two of you have asked for a little bit more privacy.
31:43Does that feel like something that you still want?
31:46I'd be keen.
31:47There's no pressure that just because you go into that space together, there's anything
31:50that you need to do.
31:51Yeah.
31:51No, Alex makes me feel really safe to do that, so you're great.
31:54Yeah.
31:55Any questions about that?
31:57Yes or when?
32:01Having arrived on the island with their own sexual issues, Alex and Joy have made huge
32:07strides.
32:08I feel so proud of myself for the progress I've made.
32:14I think Joy is really funny, really nice.
32:17She's obviously gorgeous.
32:18I think she's amazing.
32:19So, for the first time on the island, two virgins head off the private time of their
32:25own.
32:31Off to you.
32:33Okay, so there's a bird.
32:36Joy, she's still dealing with vaginismus, but they can explore and see what's possible
32:42between them.
32:47I saw you first.
32:49How gorgeous you are.
32:53Everything about you is crazy, so...
32:56That's it.
32:59Squeeze a little bit in the inner part.
33:08It's kind of me.
33:36Sex is more than just penetration and, like, feels almost that I've lost my virginity just
33:40because of how everything's changed.
33:43It's been really transformative.
33:47In three weeks, this retreat has undone, like, ten years' worth of Christian camp trauma.
33:53To be, like, alone with a guy in an intimate setting, to experience pleasure...
33:58...was, like, such a huge thing for me.
34:01Very, very surprised that you hadn't done it before.
34:03I appreciate that.
34:04It's like master magician hands.
34:07I had vaginismus, and now I can experience penetration, even if it's just a finger for now.
34:12And I just feel, like, oh, such a weight off my shoulders.
34:16I think, just, like, thank you to Celeste and Danielle and to Aleel for literally changing my life.
34:20Yeah.
34:30It's late afternoon on day two of the seduction phase.
34:34Actually, that does turn me on a bit.
34:37And many of the virgins are feeling inspired.
34:40Let me take you to bed.
34:42I'm really happy for you, bye.
34:44I'm straight.
34:44Oh, my fanny's just deflated.
34:51But for Jason, there's still work to do.
34:54I don't want to be alone for the rest of my life.
34:57I'm not very touchy.
34:59I'm probably quite prudish.
35:01But I've obviously missed out on something, so I want to amend it.
35:04I wouldn't be here otherwise.
35:08To help...
35:10Hey, Jason!
35:11...Ayesha is continuing their work on breaking down barriers.
35:16What did you find most helpful so far?
35:19Basically anything was helpful, because it was, like, pushing boundaries.
35:23To push his boundaries further...
35:25Is that something you'd like to explore?
35:27Yeah, yeah.
35:27The talk about sexual desire.
35:29Ayesha has an exercise that allows Jason to request intimate touch.
35:34When we can vocalise our desire, then we can begin to create them.
35:39It's really quite a pivotal exercise.
35:42You might ask for touch and caresses, cuddles.
35:48Okay.
35:50And I will either say yes, no, or maybe, okay?
35:53Okay.
35:54Jason has never experienced intimate touch,
35:57making this his biggest step yet.
35:59Will you move a hand up towards the top of my inner thigh, slowly?
36:12Okay, I got it.
36:19Will you press from my crown down towards my shoulders?
36:26Okay.
36:27Yes.
36:39As the session progresses, Jason gets bolder.
36:44Will you clutch my crotch and then hold for five seconds?
36:52Yes.
37:06Will you lie face down on top of me?
37:12Okay.
37:18Noticing how that feels.
37:21Yeah, I can feel like your heartbeat.
37:25Mm.
37:29Okay.
37:35You broke your boundaries.
37:37Yeah.
37:37That's so cool.
37:39Jason really surprised me.
37:41He's achieved a lot from where he was when he arrived
37:45to where we got to in session today.
37:48Bye.
37:48I think it was a good session.
37:50It makes me feel like I've actually progressed.
37:54Jason!
37:56Hello.
37:57There's a lot I've learned.
37:58My experience has been...
38:00I think it's been good.
38:03Okay, so how was it?
38:04Good, yes.
38:06Perfect.
38:12You got a want-to-one stay, Marianne.
38:14Mm-hmm.
38:15Andre will cause my nerves.
38:17Good, good.
38:17But I haven't been full naked with a guy ever.
38:19So, a bit nervous.
38:25Marianne, you're going to be having a session with her, Andre.
38:27Yeah, I'm just going to check in to see how she's feeling
38:30about how we've escalated up to this point
38:32and see if we want to escalate a little bit more.
38:38Everyone puts a virgin as either a trophy
38:41or just something that's laughable.
38:43And it feels as if the stakes get higher and higher.
38:48Trust is everything.
38:50I could never do anything with anyone I didn't trust,
38:52and I never would.
38:54Lock, lock, lock.
38:55But I want to be a bit more adventurous.
39:00I want to check in to see how you're feeling.
39:02I'm feeling confident in general.
39:04I feel like I'm ready to go fully nude.
39:06That's great.
39:07Yeah.
39:07I also want to see how you feel about
39:10some of the sensuality to undressing each other.
39:14I'm happy to try it.
39:16Okay.
39:16Yeah.
39:20Through sensual undressing,
39:22Andre is teaching Marianne the art of seduction.
39:27How does this feel?
39:29It's very nice.
39:31Got tingles.
39:32And she's learning fast.
39:34Can you take this out?
40:08I love you, bro.
40:10I love you, bro.
40:19How does that feel?
40:22Can I rest mine on your cock?
40:25Yes.
40:26Feels like a good cock.
40:29I've got tingles in my pussy.
40:31No, no, no, no.
40:36But the lesson doesn't end there.
40:39Such a great cock.
40:40Can I look?
40:40You can, you can, you can touch as well.
40:43It's my first one.
40:44Take your time.
40:45I don't know how to touch it.
40:47It's perfect.
40:49And you can hold it and you can examine.
40:53It's not how I thought I would feel.
40:55It feels good.
40:55It feels good.
40:56So that's the head and that's, for me, the most, like, sensitive part.
41:01I'm, like, super curious.
41:04I'm soft now, but when I'm aroused, if we get to that point, you will see a difference
41:10in size and also stiffness.
41:13I could do this all day.
41:19It felt safe, lovely, and very horny at the same time.
41:23I 100% think it's a real prospect that I could lose my virginity with Andre, which, when I came
41:29to see me, I was like, there's no way it will never happen.
41:33But with all the workshops and the support of everyone, my confidence is really, like, great.
41:48It's early evening.
41:51This is exciting.
41:54And before the seduction phase comes to an end.
41:57Hello.
41:58The group must present their sexy super selves.
42:03Seduction is not about being perfect.
42:05It's about being comfortable in your body and not afraid of being seen.
42:09We can't wait to see you take on your catwalk.
42:13We want you to wear it, strut it, and show yourself out.
42:18When you step into the super self, you exaggerate all of your best qualities and you fully embrace
42:23all of the amazing things about yourself.
42:25It's one thing to just put on makeup and a costume.
42:28It's a whole other thing to get on that catwalk and show who you really are now.
42:43I'm Moxie.
42:45Just a bad, bad bunny.
42:47And how does it make you feel?
42:49I feel, like, cute and sexy and I'm very cheeky.
42:52I'm just a whole lot of fun.
42:54Yes, you are.
43:02Some of the group are embracing their fun side.
43:08I am a wolf.
43:17I'm PT Katie.
43:21Work out in the day.
43:23Work out in the day.
43:27Others are finding their voices.
43:33The years I thought that being a lesbian was a bad thing, so I feel really pleased that
43:40I can just be myself and I'm so glad that I'm not straight.
43:55CHEERING AND APPLAUSE
43:56How does it make you feel when you wear it?
43:57Um, and I just feel confident.
44:00CHEERING AND APPLAUSE
44:03And a new sense of self begins to shine.
44:08CHEERING AND APPLAUSE
44:09CHEERING AND APPLAUSE
44:15I'm Sheriff Shalom and I put naughty people away.
44:19LAUGHTER
44:20My name's Fanny Flutter.
44:22LAUGHTER
44:24And you know what?
44:25Nothing's better than having lots of sex.
44:27CHEERING AND APPLAUSE
44:33CHEERING AND APPLAUSE
44:35CHEERING AND APPLAUSE
44:37I'm slutty Stephanie.
44:39Hot stripper vibes.
44:41While some super selves are fully formed...
44:43I feel confident slutty Stephanie does not give a fuck what anyone thinks about her.
44:48CHEERING AND APPLAUSE
44:49Others are still finding their way.
44:51LAUGHTER
44:52Where's the, er... There it is.
44:54CHEERING AND APPLAUSE
44:56But all of them have come on in leaps and bounds.
44:59Does your super self have a name?
45:01No, it does not.
45:01King Bee.
45:02King Bee. King Bee.
45:04King Bee. King Bee.
45:05King Bee. King Bee. King Bee.
45:06The people have spoken.
45:07The people have spoken.
45:08The people have spoken. King Bee.
45:12CHEERING AND APPLAUSE
45:13Wow, those are some of the most amazing super selves I've ever seen.
45:17Give yourself a go.
45:18CHEERING AND APPLAUSE
45:20This is definitely my super self.
45:22When I doubt myself for the future, I'll come back to Marksy.
45:28CHEERING AND APPLAUSE
45:29I'm feeling very confident.
45:31Probably wouldn't go around in a Viking hat and a cloak, though.
45:34I'm just so thankful that I've had the experience.
45:38I'm able to lose my virginity.
45:40Yeah, it's, er... emotional.
45:44People called me King Bee,
45:46but I've decided that I'm actually the Fresh Prince of Somerset.
45:51I am going to miss all this.
45:53Last phase tomorrow, let's see what it brings.
45:56Next time...
45:57You can flip her into doggy south.
45:59Yeah.
46:00..the group enter the climax of the retreat.
46:03Oh, my God. Wow.
46:06..and with time running out...
46:07I think I need more boy knowledge.
46:09..which of the remaining virgins...
46:11Will you take off my shirt?
46:13I thought you'd never ask.
46:14..will complete the course.
46:16Can you try my condom on?
46:18Yeah, we can do that.
46:20If you've identified with the issues raised in Virgin Ireland
46:23and would like to be part of a possible new series,
46:26visit channel4.com forward slash take part.
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