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00:06I
00:08Just can't wait to start the rest of my life with her. I love her
00:11I didn't think like someone like her even existed. He's stuck with me when you can close your eyes and
00:16like envision who's gonna
00:17Experience life with you. I envisioned you. It makes you feel really nice
00:22I love you. I love you. Looks good on you. It just feels right. I love you. Oh baby, I
00:29love you too. You happy?
00:34Ash is a different type of person than I would have gone after but I do like darker futures
00:38I like certain things in my woman. We haven't been intimate. Are you not attracted to me?
00:42In the pods, it really came down to like you and Connor. I appreciate you for like just vigor and
00:48energy you have for life
00:49Like it's so attractive over the past two days. I was thinking about like what it would be like if
00:53I
00:55Was with the number two person I had do you think we have a good physical connection? I do do
00:59you not?
01:00I just don't know if it's like there for me
01:02Did she say she wants to be done? Yeah, she's like I can't be around you anymore
01:07Emma immediately looked at my ring and she goes what is that?
01:11Have you got to meet her yet? Emma? No, I'm a little nervous
01:14Like when she doesn't like me
01:16Never have I ever had to hit you. I can give you a first one. I don't want to hit
01:19you
01:19I don't like that you don't ever really tell me that I'm pretty because I don't know if you're attracted
01:23to me
01:23You're forcing me. Well now I don't feel like it's genuine if I say anything
01:27Do you think you were afraid of having kids because of your birthmarks? Oh, yeah hundred percent
01:33If we get married and then we have a kid and you resent that you resent your child you resent
01:38me for what happened
01:40I could never live with that
01:42So what makes you think you can settle down you're tired of moving?
01:46Absolutely different chicks
01:47Well, huh, I won't lie. Absolutely. Do you still have a relationship with any of your ex? Yes the travel
01:53nurse?
01:53Yes, saw her in Austin for a week. What was that dynamic when you visited her then?
01:58I mean we hooked up if you had that type of relationship with someone like that is kind of concerning
02:04The keg outside. Yeah, this is a frat house. This is literally a normal blue-collar dude
02:09Like I work for a dumpster rental company
02:11You need someone who's going to be more dominant in your life and to help you like guide you and
02:15like show you places
02:16You've never been before I saw you and I was like that is the girl. I would literally propose
02:36We saw you and her together it was like we thought 100% it was like you guys were totally
02:42in it because I feel like the emotional connection was like there
02:47Why didn't you say this stuff in Cabo?
02:50Because like at the end of it we were so sure of like our decisions like no hard feelings. I
02:53feel like we were like cool
02:55I'll be honest with you. Yeah
02:58The night where jess was like
03:01Oh, you're my number one chris. I told connor because you knew we were dating
03:08Yeah, and he's like all right. I'm gonna go with three then
03:12I'm gonna make her my number one then
03:16I'm just saying
03:19I think that's what fucked it up. I should have told him that
03:23Because like he would have went with emma yeah
03:26100% i'm being honest would you have like broken it off then?
03:30I would have broken it off 100%
03:31What worried me honestly was like you were just friends with like a lot of dudes, but like you were
03:36friends with like a lot of loser dudes
03:40Dudes who were like
03:42Happy with life going through the vibes and like somebody who's like hey
03:45I have a clear path to where I want to be in like five years 10 years 20 years
03:50Like we need to like have these like types of assets guys who are like literally
03:55Directional driven. I just gotta say it now
03:58I'm back in the real world and I'm like fuck she lives a half a mile from me. She's hot
04:01as fuck
04:02And we vibe so well. Can I ask you a crazy question? Can you be honest with your wedding ring
04:06on?
04:07Yeah, like what
04:11Are you like attracted to me? I would take you the four seasons like stay in there
04:18That's maybe luxurious to normal people yeah room service in the rows for mr. Fusco, baby
04:24Stop
04:29We'd have a good time. Yeah, it's just guaranteed. I felt like we would have been like
04:35Fuck buddies. I saw your instagram and I was like yes
04:41Yeah, I'm just saying I sent you that message, but you're like you never responded back. So I was like
04:47well i'm in a relationship. I know
04:51Conor would have dropped me. I would have been out honestly. I would not go through this with anybody but
04:55him
04:59Mr. Brightside you like that yeah
05:04Oh
05:06Apparently like i'm i'm andrew chate apparently you're a girl
05:10The crazy andrew chate guy. Oh, i don't know that person. Okay. All right, whatever
05:14I took a shot to the heart
05:27Kev this is emma hi i'm emma nice to meet you nice to meet you nice to meet you
05:32Hi
05:34How are you doing good it's good to see you it's good to see you i'm kia
05:39yeah in the flesh laughing in the flesh yes yes yes heaven in the flesh
05:44Yeah, you look amazing thank you you mind if i move to a sea yeah you lead the way i'm
05:50there
05:51What's your story what happened with you um
05:55so i had a um
05:59I had a connection with two women in his defense so they were badass women they were
06:05But kia you're one of the most amazing people
06:07She was like one of the first women in my life to ever have me like open up my heart
06:14Just like learning like okay
06:16This is what you need to do as a man what do you do you step up you step up
06:21for that woman
06:22You're right you're right have you guys been talking
06:25Nah, so we haven't been talking how do you feel about kia choosing herself
06:30As she should and i apologize
06:32I appreciate that i'll never forget you oh i mean duh
06:38Are you kidding me oh that was right they recognize this game oh it was so close
06:47Hey you talked to felice girl for a while i'm really good i think you're okay yeah
06:50Can we talk about you know where your trends at
06:53Oh my god you ended up with my wife this is my wife actually you were friends with my wife
06:58Wait so how do you guys know each other well chicago is where we first met yeah yeah and then
07:04i ran into
07:04You and austin yeah but i thought you said you like moved there
07:07Uh for a little bit yeah i was back and forth between cleveland and austin
07:10I thought you were looking for a place in austin i was looking for a place in austin
07:13I was back and forth between it it was like one of those because i was trying to figure out
07:16Where my lease was going to be and i did want a place down there realistically yeah yeah so yeah
07:19i was one of them yeah we've talked about this
07:23You weren't there to see your ex at that time yeah
07:26You were saying at your ex's place travel nurse yes yeah she was either on an assignment or yes
07:32Something and that we were staying at the place yeah
07:36Anyways you look off this the story was a little different when you told it
07:41Which part you made it seem like you went to the f1 race to see her you guys hooked up
07:46oh so she wasn't on an assignment
07:48She was on assignment in austin i stayed at her place oh she was there when you were correct there
07:53which i said which i said
07:55No you didn't say that i said that i was staying at her place we hooked up
07:59Well she was on assignment when you say she's on assignment i'm assuming she is like out of
08:04Austin she was not there travel nurse that was living there working there for a few months at a time
08:08i stayed at her place and then went to the f1 with her it made sense for me at that
08:12point because i
08:13Wasn't in a relationship or had met either but i've met you before but i had met you um
08:19So then you went back
08:21Yeah i feel like i'm being like no wait no no just double teamed right now what's going on
08:24No you told me you were in cleveland for a year and a half i was my license is cleveland
08:28i lived in cleveland for
08:29A year and a half realistically it's when you tell someone that you're you just moved to austin
08:36Did i say i just moved to austin you definitely told me that you had moved there and then i
08:40thought actually
08:41The girlfriend was like or the ex-girlfriend was on a random assignment that's why you were staying at her
08:46place
08:46But i didn't realize that you guys were simultaneously living in the same home at the one week that i
08:51met you
08:51Yes we were is this a problem i've just like asked you the timeline so many times and you make
08:56me feel
08:56Like an idiot when i asked about it and now the story is changing
09:00Do you know where you were three years ago on a tuesday on may in may
09:04No but the way you tell your stories it seems like you do
09:07I don't like i can pull up my airbnb if you would like and we can go through it together
09:12But like you're asking well you do care because you ask my timeline every time i speak
09:15And when you say that you've lived in cleveland for a year and a half
09:19Do you want my license i'm expecting like no i don't give a about your license okay
09:23When you say that you've lived in ohio for a year and a half i'm expecting you live in ohio
09:26for a year and a half
09:26That's my home base now she's saying that you lived in austin like now you've lived there now
09:30You're like i lived in florida have i not said i've lived in florida in austin and phoenix in san
09:34Diego you never told me you lived in austin you said you went to visit your ex on that occasion
09:38i also lived in austin previously before all of that without my ex when i asked you questions you seem
09:44to get
09:44Annoyed with me but when something right now i feel attacked at the moment like i feel it's a two
09:48-on-one
09:48I'm not attacking you so where did you fly i didn't know anything was not being said you told me
09:52you
09:52Flew in from cleveland you asked where i lived i lived in cleveland yeah why did you fly in austin
09:56Because i'm flying back and forth trying to figure out if i want to live and work there
09:59This has never come up in our conversation though because i've already come up with the answer i don't
10:04Want to live in austin texas is that because your ex lived there no i don't i mean did you
10:10have anything before as well
10:12i told you have you never hooked up with anyone in between that no okay i mean i question that
10:18but
10:18this wasn't a exclusive relationship to where i don't view it as something that you need to know
10:22about but if you want every time i jerk off i'll let you know that was stupid that was a
10:28nice not
10:29but i'm just like your story changes so much i have been very open with the fact that i don't
10:34have a home base and i haven't had a home base for four years i'm pretty sure you told me
10:37you
10:37flew in from cleveland i could be wrong i did tell you that flew in from cleveland it was easier
10:41for
10:41me to explain it that way without having to go through this entire process of yes i flew back
10:46and forth between austin and cleveland i flew in from austin because you could have a billion
10:50questions that i wouldn't feel like answering because they're not relevant to this entire process
10:57the penis marriage now i feel like a two-on-one no no no no no that's okay it's a
11:02two-on-one you just said
11:06something and i'm trying to be your friend also and tell you my friend okay it's it's not a process
11:11like it's a marriage so everything should be on the table between us two right so why are you here
11:16okay you don't need to get snappy with me i don't take shit like that i think you guys continue
11:24this
11:24conversation hi thank you yeah i was in austin texas for a race for the weekend do you understand how
11:30demo look right now like no the story didn't line up like to the hour it's not to the hour
11:38to the day no to the year like you say a lot of words sometimes and like sometimes it just
11:45has nothing
11:45to it okay i mean do you want me to explain it again like no i get it you were
11:51with your ex
11:52on f1 and then you went back and forth but no you did not see her and that makes total
11:56sense to me
11:56and she's back in florida and now she has a boyfriend and you guys talk about how great it
12:00is that she has a boyfriend that's totally normal and i've given the timeline like 10 times
12:05just be honest with me like i'm very understanding this person if you were to come to me and be
12:09like
12:09i fucked up or like hey i told you this but i actually meant this i need to tell you
12:14this
12:14i'd be like much more calm right now just come to me where does that leave us i think that's
12:21in your hands
12:32what's up man how are you okay yeah i am good good how are you no bad good to see
12:37you
12:47i feel like we should um i'm so sorry it's just like
12:54i'm gonna be like kind of talking private okay let me just like couch maybe like over there where
13:02no one's out okay i think it'll be fun do you have a good drink what are you drinking
13:09coke wait you're not drinking alcohol
13:13that dude is hammered dude chris he couldn't even open his left eye
13:20oh god
13:25it's like crazy to see you you look good though thank you i appreciate it is it like okay like
13:33going
13:33back to work like you feel like okay and like normal again no it's bad last week i was in
13:40love and
13:40thought i was getting married okay since then i've worked every single day you work you never text me
13:45once though are you kidding me all of monday and all of tuesday that's the only text i got was
13:52are you
13:52alive that's okay who cares though i do okay what's the only text i got that's convenient listen i wasn't
14:01trying to be mean i'm sorry if it came off that way i'm appreciating apologizing like i think you're very
14:08attractive jess thank you you have dark features i don't you don't have to tell me why i'm attractive
14:18okay i know you hate me it's okay that's a lot of people didn't say that i in my life
14:23i'm really
14:23really really hurt and i was 110 percent in winter next day like to chill it doesn't matter it doesn't
14:32matter to me you had your time to make sure of things and that time is over you don't want
14:37me to
14:37worry about that that's fine i'll do my own thing and worry about my own life then for the rest
14:41of my
14:41life i thought you already were i honestly feel like you don't feel like you know me
14:51i thought i did no one's gonna save me no one's gonna save me but me
15:03i love you too buddy i'm ready to be home yeah snuggled with you
15:17have you met emilya or no not yet so i just met uh matt which is the dad this weekend
15:22that's supposed
15:23to be me me and emily which is like i bought her a little present i got a little i
15:27got a little gift
15:27bag coloring books and big car some of the good ones with colored pencils okay yeah it'll be good but
15:35it's like it's a real issue because i also have fulfilled i don't want to feel like i'm just like
15:39invading their space yeah so see how it goes but like scary hey babe yeah i just want you know
15:51like
15:51if you do want to bail at any point just let me know wait stop stop you're hearing the wrong
15:57thing
15:57right now amber you're hearing the wrong thing right now
16:21um i wasn't trying to attack you or anything tonight
16:27i've been lied to in the past but i've never felt that from you so i guess tonight it was
16:32kind of
16:32a shock i guess the only question i have is like what is your relationship like with this girl now
16:40i've had my phone back for what is it two weeks now we haven't talked like there's no tie
16:47okay so if i were to break things off tonight would you go in two days and text her though
16:51like
16:51that's no okay she has somebody that she's happy with i'm very happy for her she's happy for me
16:58are you happy yes
17:10okay you okay
17:13okay
17:15nuggets
17:16what's happening
17:18mcdonald's yeah i need something i need nuggets coke fries yeah 10 piece buffalo honey what do you got
17:29buffalo buffalo yeah
17:35a large coke you want fries yeah there we go there we go diet starts monday supposed to fit
17:45into a wedding dress at some point here so you'll be fine i'm sure i'm sure grease me up
18:12i don't want to be with me it's not ready for a lot of this i don't think i can
18:17talk to him about it
18:18last night
18:26can we talk
18:32amber
18:37tonight i'm just trying to talk to amber trying to be honest she got she got pissed
18:43i was like well if you're not certain then that's that and we're not doing this
18:48she got upset and left and she's still pretty pissed and it was the first time we've ever had a
18:53disagreement i haven't even met her daughter yet and i don't know i've never been in like a
19:00father figure role and i don't know i was just trying to talk about the way that i felt
19:04i'm scared if i'm scared i have to do what you like to talk and you're going to fuck off
19:19the good news is at least i found somebody else i can't talk to my feelings about
19:25one way street one way street brother
19:34tell me about your conversation with our little buddy we talked about how he dm'd me
19:40and it was really crazy because he was like i told you to call me like why didn't you ask
19:45for
19:45my number and i literally was like because i'm like with i'm in a relationship
19:53he literally said to me do you find me attractive and i said listen there is nobody else that i
19:59would
20:00choose over connor is connor nobody that shows me who he is too i'm like why are like you're saying
20:07like inappropriate things just weird stuff you know yeah and then try to dap me up after that dude's not
20:12anybody's friend anymore so can i ask you a question though that he brought up to me okay basically when
20:18he came in from night dating with just one night he was like hey man like i think i'm gonna
20:23put like
20:23just number one and you're like okay okay cool then i'll put brie number one no i mean you were
20:31my
20:31number one that night and i'm saying that 100 honestly he's trying to plant doubt and get us to
20:37go against each other we fell in love sight unseen it wasn't about money it wasn't about how we look
20:42like me and you fell genuinely in love i don't know if it's like a jealous thing or what the
20:47deal
20:47is but like he also fell in love and then now that they've seen each other now he wants to
20:52pivot i
20:53think it's disrespectful it's just hard because i did really respect him and like i thought he was
20:58really cool so do we and then it's like i just see this just totally gives me the egg i
21:03mean yeah
21:04i guess it's just almost like a shock this dude just flipped out of nowhere
21:12not fusco putting me on um what do we say disappear mode or vanish mode you want to do the
21:20honors
21:21let's see it together chris fusco let's see it are you staying in gv tonight
21:29do you want me to answer no that's fine the more i disengage with them the more it's going to
21:34keep
21:34going like if i'm like yes i am and then i'd be like well why like i don't need to
21:39poke the bear
21:40exactly it's one of those people that you just cut talking people out of your life exactly why give
21:44it any more energy yeah so you get a little bit jealous you know that but i'm trusting you 100
21:54percent oh your hands are cold stop oh man why are you like good at this this is like weirding
22:03me
22:03you're good at that okay why are you doing this you have like a strong thumb
22:12toast all right fine you win not the thumb work i crushed you i do have a strong
22:19really good at that
22:35like these yeah you need some color in there i know i'm gonna do one of these guys what's the
22:41occasion wedding wedding yes congratulations thank you what do you think should we do more
22:46of a round or more of like a spread out so you're coming down the aisle do you want the
22:51flowers to be
22:52all i think about more like nice and neat and neat because i think if i'm going to toss a
22:57bouquet
22:57you want it to be tight so let's go for tall okay and then i'll add in as just wherever
23:04yeah okay okay
23:08on the outside yeah looks good i can't wait to see you come down the aisle
23:20i just feel very very very lucky very grateful no fears no fears yeah would you tell me if you
23:28did
23:28if i have fears i'll let you know okay yeah at any point five years from now ten years from
23:33now
23:33uh-huh there are none none i know me neither yeah i think that's normal
23:40i don't know okay what colors do you not want in our wedding i don't know this is the thing
23:58like i've
23:58never i've never even thought about that time to noodle so i like greenery like i like a lot of
24:05florals are you opposed to green so tell me honestly you don't want green i think it's whatever you want
24:15no babe i want you to like it too obviously you're in white i was actually gonna go with a
24:21pink dress
24:23like a tutu yeah i do want an espresso martini tower i like that but i realized everyone's gonna
24:29be gold goblet so you can't really do a martini tower what the hell we can't first ever gold goblet
24:34martini tower um italian castle yeah but in columbus ohio those two things should never be in the same
24:51steps step into my office
24:59would you like the bedformer on no when most people think like oh you do lashes in your basement
25:07it's probably a little like janky but i wanted it to be somewhere when my clients come they don't
25:14feel like they're in a home they feel like they're in a little oasis you actually have really pretty
25:20lashes you could just do a lash lift although you might look a little crazy i mean like super curled
25:25lashes i don't know but my home it's gonna become ours i've never had that before like i've never been
25:32able to come home and be like hello i'm here like honey i'm home so i'm super excited for that
25:39um moment my dad helped me build this whole fireplace like this was all black and gold
25:46you guys took it out all of this stone in i like that it is a fireplace that works
25:51i have never used it because i'm scared to burn my house down where's your spot on the couch my
25:57couch spot is here okay that's good i always sit here because it's like right in front of the tv
26:03see i need i need the long spot is that that far away i'll touch your foot you talk during
26:11movies i
26:12already know only sometimes do you watch the movies with the captions on no like you got a little lash
26:19soldier from downstairs i'll get i'll get used to that yeah we'll have lashes all over your socks
26:27right now like what's your monthly output mortgage is like 12 15 okay like 1800 got it for bills i
26:36don't even think it's that much like all in yeah yeah that's not bad at all my previous house in
26:42charlotte just my house bills alone before you started getting utilities and stuff was like 5 200
26:47a month said that oh my god oh he's gonna throw up
26:54it's sales it's weird like one month i can make 12 000 one month i can make 40 000 like
27:02it just really whoa i don't think i've ever made that much money in a month i try to have
27:08at least like
27:08six to eight months like in reserves like quickly maybe you should be in charge of our finances
27:14i try to be financially smart i mean i am a shopper for sure and sometimes i do go overboard
27:21but if you
27:21run out of your own fun money don't come looking in my pot i'm like oh you're gonna have to
27:26what do you
27:27mean are we gonna have a joint account i'm excited to share bills this is great
27:34so this is gonna be our little home it's gonna be our little home
27:49okay so we are zooming up to grand rapids to meet my family my dad aka g man but you
27:58will be
27:59calling him mr mc i already know i just don't bring guys around a lot so i don't know how
28:05this
28:05is gonna go with my dad we did a little pit stop and stop me in our work and i'm
28:13taking connor
28:14around to all the spots that i know and love college the tradition is if you kiss under this
28:19arch you get married so i guess that's good better for getting married then huh we have the honor of
28:28cutting the cake so we figured this would be a really good practice all right connor wait i feel
28:34like we have to do it together yeah we do all right you ready oh my god unless we get
28:38it you ready
28:42okay okay this is actually pretty good and then you put it in your mouth and she puts it in
28:46yours
28:48okay dad
28:55you gotta show the rest of the family from the grand rapids crew
29:15this was definitely the first like argument that we've gotten in
29:19and i wouldn't say it was good i definitely get needing to take a beat and like go take a
29:24breather
29:25because that's how i mail a lot of times like i have to cool my head so that i understand
29:29but uh
29:30like the total silence is i mean you can't work with that
29:33you can't work with that
29:44hey hey how's it going what's going how you doing
29:55how was your day i just need a drink okay
30:10i like completely understand your disposition with wanting to meet emma
30:15what i don't understand is why the didn't you tell me before you told vic
30:21i'm just pissed that's really what like shot the pain for me was because like i thought we really
30:26have this like open level communication i trust you like with all my heart that you were like
30:31communicating everything to me now i'm just like having some skepticisms and like doubts
30:37and i need to know the honest to god truth at this point like right now like
30:42if it is emma we can work on it if it's not and it's like hey i wasn't really feeling
30:47this or like
30:48i was feeling another type of way you just need to be straight up with me you know i feel
30:52bad that
30:53you think that any like feelings that i have for you are not you know not genuine like what i've
30:59said
30:59because i i i think you're incredible like i don't think i've ever felt this way about anybody before
31:05the only reason i've gone as far as because of you but before you know making a lifelong commitment
31:12like i have to meet emma first never meeting her before and like trying to build a relationship
31:17is it's a scary thought that i totally understand but like when did these thoughts
31:21come into your head and like why didn't you tell me these
31:26i don't think it's just gotten more real in the last week i think the nerves of like she's the
31:31person
31:31i've been most nervous to meet she's the most important person in your life so
31:36have you thought about like if she doesn't like me because that's something that plays in my head a
31:41like a scary thought like i told her brush her teeth this morning it would be one thing if like
31:46you were like a bad person or like we had a toxic relationship or we're fighting all the time it's
31:51a different story i just don't understand like though knowing and coming into it like you kind of knew
31:58that was the thing okay i still i still love you yeah i was never trying to bail i just
32:02it's a step-by-step
32:03process like all the steps need to happen for it to be successful so i'd like to work on it
32:09i don't
32:10know where you stand on things i understand if you need some time it's so so hard for me to
32:16like
32:17trust a man
32:21they will tell you they're gonna marry you and like all this other
32:23bullshit i wouldn't have said all the things i said to you if i didn't feel that way men say
32:28fucking bullshit okay i'm not i'm not the dudes that you that you're with you you haven't proven
32:33that to me yet that makes me feel shitty it's like i feel like i've put myself out here and
32:38you're just
32:38comparing me to a bunch of dirt bags that you've dated in the past like that's not fair i've had
32:43to
32:43build this barrier to protect myself i can empathize with having to put walls up and like protect your
32:50daughter i get that and i know that you've had shitty people in your past but i don't know what
32:55to do for you to to trust me i still do trust you but usually i go into like fight
33:06or flight like
33:06usually i would just be like completely gone and just like and i'm not doing that i showed up today
33:16i've been so anxious i haven't eaten all day well hi because i'm feeling a ball of nerves
33:23i didn't know how this was gonna go if you were gonna leave or how i just yeah i've been
33:27so anxious
33:49i still really love you i'm really sorry for just the way that this played out
33:56me too
33:59you're currently pretty today
34:05can you just make sure you're like tell me everything straight up yes
34:10as soon as i think it as soon as i think it i mean you know i don't miss a
34:17beat
34:35i got kind of updated on like some of the things with chris
34:38what you heard about yeah bro and i was like what the f i'll never talk to that dude again
34:42yeah
34:43yeah you shouldn't we had a very close relationship i talked to him about a lot of
34:47yeah and then he started using that against me to try and talk to my fiancee did you send her
34:51a text or
34:52something after two and he dm'd her that night dm'd okay and uh and she goes can you not respond
34:57to him
34:58i sent a picture of your nut sack from her account what are we what are you doing dude
35:03they're going through this we we have a solid group and then to just
35:07fucking disrespect to you like that he thought that he was gonna like steal her from me yeah i
35:12like buddy you're five six so and brie won't date anybody under five nights i just wanted a man yeah
35:24somebody stop me what's up fellas oh you're a little over a week away from standing at the altar
35:32in front of the love of your life the tux the suit you pick out today represent your personality
35:38and represents your love i'm so happy for all of you talking through a wall finding someone
35:45and now picking out your wedding dress it's absolutely incredible i do already have my own
35:51wedding dress before you went on the show you bought the dress yep just by the man
35:59i bought her dress because i said this here is faith we truly believe that you're going
36:05to find your person so we did we bought the dress i love it i truly hope that you guys
36:14prove love is
36:15blind because i want for all of you a marriage that lasts the test of time this is a beautiful
36:21day
36:22have a blast try on some suits i wish you guys nothing but the best good luck guys all right
36:38so it's not a perfect fit but we're gonna we're gonna see what we're working all right i see you
36:42smooth criminal you think you're gonna have some tears coming down it's gonna be good i'm excited
36:46about it i'll tell you that much no i'm excited for you yeah any reservations you guys got your
37:00tissues ready yeah oh yeah so excited thank you gorgeous oh that's so beautiful i kind of hate it
37:10and i was literally gonna say i'm not a fan hate it not at all me it's not we tried
37:16something
37:17different and we know that it's not it stop it oh my goodness oh wow what do you think
37:27i don't like it either she's like i got to get out of this thing
37:49this is amazing on you there's some elements that are working really like yes yeah yeah i do like
37:55the slits i feel like show off that leg though you look amazing in that oh it's pretty oh i
38:01like
38:01the back wow oh it's i still just don't know about the top i don't think i'm being picky
38:09wedding dress christine yeah yeah if it's not perfect it's not perfect yeah do you want to try a veil
38:15with it sure okay thank you oh you're so beautiful i feel bridal
38:24i'm already like getting emotional but it's not the dress that makes you emotional it's
38:28it's everything behind the dress yeah i really wanted this for a long time and uh
38:35i just have the perfect person to do it with
38:46this is a freshness this is a freshness yeah i think you could rock a midnight blue also my
38:51colors for the wedding are green uh emma like likes like the deep green like uh the green floor
38:58oh all right so it's black it's black and green proudy man brilliant
39:05this song's for you
39:09yay
39:11wait are you are wearing your shoes already look at this yeah oh my god look at that
39:16tree gorgeous beautiful it's like a little garden it's so pretty i feel like it's exactly what i
39:24would picture for you just the perfect amount of glitz but like still simple for you and this is gorgeous
39:30i like the sheer at the top oh it is very sheer
39:36mom wants some sauciness yeah i like do you feel comfortable i feel really comfortable like i can
39:42like give us some dance i can dance okay you're like i can do my irish jigs oh good
39:48are you i don't know this is gonna kill me oh my god this is crazy oh my god oh
40:04yes you have to wear a veil
40:12okay okay oh stunning like it just feels so right like surreal like i didn't hear you here
40:26the dress seals the deal just seals the deal it's perfect work it'll do it'll do
40:39you're in my heart feeling excited finally getting the suit fitted i'm gonna do a tie clip
40:45that matches her dress oh yeah see your dreams come to life we've been waiting for so as a little
40:55girl i definitely dreamed about my wedding dress getting all dolled up putting the veil on the flowers
41:01all of it so i'm super excited that my dream was coming into flourishing i feel like a bride
41:07super excited i do already have my own wedding dress there's so much hype around this dress now
41:13i feel like buying the dress before definitely jumped full force into this journey of believing
41:21that this is what i'm supposed to do now everything that i've always dreamed of is gonna happen my gosh
41:27i'm getting married i will be a full-on bride
41:33okay yeah that makes sense oh my god you look beautiful wow oh my god i love it i think
41:43this is
41:43stunning this is my dress
41:51i'm glad you bought one before i know yeah oh my gosh right it's so pretty this is like my
41:59wedding day
41:59what i want to look like i feel like a bride mm-hmm that's gorgeous where's the veil bring the
42:05veil
42:07stunning oh yeah very pretty gorgeous beautiful
42:17she's waited a long time and you're getting everything he checks every box you said
42:26and it's it's been worth the wait yeah he was more than worth the wait yes and like he's the
42:32person
42:33that i've literally been looking 32 years for i'm happy next week i'm gonna get to call on my husband
42:40he better lose it when he sees you he is literally a man of few words and i have just
42:46come to accept
42:47that they may not have words but he's gonna be choking oh my god we're getting married yes we are
42:59you gonna get married how do you feel how do you feel let's see it i might be a bow
43:05tie
43:05scale one to ten good god is that james bond yeah figure guns yeah so i don't look like a
43:10dweeb in it
43:11no that says i'm formal i'm ready to get married i feel confident in this i feel good yeah this
43:18is
43:18gonna be the only time i get married yeah this is an i do tux
43:29my mom and connor's mom are here today it's so fun to have mom's me and like it's beyond just
43:34picking out my wedding dress it's also just another step within the process of like joining
43:39our families together connor would not care what she has on absolutely not she could have on sweat
43:46pants and he'd be perfectly happy that might be option two honor i've both come from big families
43:52we're super communal so i'm not surprised that our moms are getting along because they're midwest moms
43:57that love their kids are you nervous to see her mm-hmm this whole weekend was a lot for us
44:04of like
44:04picking up the marriage license we went back to grand rapids we met my dad and the big bad
44:09she was like we were we was just a wild card i didn't know how he was gonna show up
44:13i mean he
44:14only has one daughter i'm his baby girl and you know there was some tough questions asked of connor
44:20by my aunts and my dad and everybody because i know they love me and want what's best but it
44:24was great
44:25seeing them interact they all love him gave me the confidence that i needed to go into today
44:30here's chicago sorry i was like also not my hair oh my god oh my god that is beautiful
44:39i know i'm just like but does it feel too simple like is there i don't know oh honey
44:49how long i've been waiting for this no i don't think you need all the sparkles and everything no this
44:56is
44:56like you i feel like it fits you so perfectly stunning it's absolutely gorgeous
45:08i guess you're right i'm not trying to be someone i'm not and try on glitter and
45:14florals connor will be blown away he hit it out of the park did he not
45:34i think you guys know i make decisions intuitively so maybe this is this is telling
45:43of itself but like i look at it and like i'm not nervous like i'm not necessarily feeling nervous
45:47when it comes to it were you guys nervous in your guys weddings like coming into it or putting on
45:51tuxes or anything like that right yeah felt right yeah i think i bring a level of confidence and and
45:57you know i don't want to say emotionless but a rock type thing in the sense of i'm very comfortable
46:02in situations like this so i'm not necessarily nervous it's more excited at this point um so i'm
46:07ready for the big day it does feel you know relatively normal for me
46:15oh my gosh i feel like a cupcake oh my god the top is really pretty i feel like a
46:21cupcake really
46:22pretty you look like a cake topper i know it's a no for me this is not the dress
46:32it's nice to finally see her get her moment she's obviously stunning she looks literally like barbie
46:38i want her to be happy and whatever that looks like i'm so proud of the journey she's had
46:43like a year ago i can't even imagine seeing her in this position just wants the best for her
46:50oh my god oh okay oh my god this is stunning you're getting wedding barbie yeah no this is
47:01totally your vibe just got up here that is very very i was like totally fine in there i swear
47:07you guys you look perfect don't cry oh i'm like shaking you're you're a bride i'm a bride oh my
47:18goodness like we've been fiancées but now we're brides we're brides it's really incredible stunning
47:24this elegant it's exactly what i would picture you with it's cute it is simple no like frills or no
47:34lace or anything but i feel absolutely like gorgeous in this dress you are gorgeous you
47:39deserve the world you are the most special person i know for so much of your life you felt like
47:44you
47:44weren't but it's everything you deserve and more and you look so beautiful you've always put everyone
47:51else i'm so happy for you this is your time and i'm fine here comes a veil
48:01i'm literally gonna lose it oh no no it's just wild we're getting married in a week i remember
48:09having conversations and being like i'm not gonna get engaged no one's gonna like me and now i'm up
48:14here standing like ready to marry alex and okay bring alex in because i can't like this is the one
48:20i hope i'm the one this is the wedding yes
48:36all right oh here are those boys okay that looks good yeah this looks pretty sharp does it feel like
48:44something you want to wear to get married to the love of your life i mean i think this looks
48:47pretty
48:47i'm good what do you think amber's gonna think look she likes me regardless you like that yeah
48:52oh yeah ah you're pulling my hair i'd give you my 401k all right i'll be back all right i
49:00want the suit
49:01to fit right you know i'm a big boy but i want that thing to be maybe slimmed you down
49:05a little bit
49:07dude i like well like a champagne or brown type but she doesn't care about what i'm gonna wear
49:12this is pretty nice it's a more complete love than i've ever had i come out wearing gym shorts she
49:19probably wouldn't like that but i could and i'd still be cool with it but uh you know we've been
49:24working on this relationship and and just the the bond um and that's the that's the whole reason
49:30we're here that's the most important part he was like jamie this is like different it is yeah
49:47finally for you you know i mean like that's why i'm so happy for her oh my god that is
50:04so beautiful
50:05beautiful you're just like sparkling like a barbie oh beautiful beautiful
50:14oh my god so pretty i think it's oh wow oh wow
50:20it's so pretty what would emma say if she saw you she wanted all the sparkles and all the flowers
50:27so that's why i picked a sparkly dress because she wanted that oh my god it's amazing and emma does
50:33deserve to like see her mommy be a princess and she deserves everything and i love you i'm done
50:44i am more excited to show emma what true love looks like more than anyone can know
50:51oh oh my god she deserves that and she deserves to know like what it's like to have a good
50:57guy loving
50:57her so do you so do you i think you're the best role model emma could ever have no and
51:04you do it very
51:05well this dress just matches your personality like you sparkle and she sees that and so do we so the
51:15greatest mom in the world
51:19oh this is the one don't think this is the one it's a special moment you know to see yourself
51:27in a
51:27dress i've never been in a wedding dress or anything like that i feel very excited um
51:36oh my gosh it deserves the world but it never gives it to me i need jordan to meet emma
51:41but i think our
51:43love is strong enough to overcome most obstacles i am ready to be by jordan's side forever
51:59i don't know what you
52:03love is
52:39love is
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