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00:00:12You
00:00:16Best defender I've seen in a minute. Don't do tricks. I don't know. That's not a trick. That's normal
00:00:25Look at you
00:00:28Balls coming to my face now. I get so scared. I'm just going to let you score
00:00:34Oh, that's a goal for me
00:00:38Yay, our marriage license
00:00:42Easy peasy
00:00:47Five, six, seven, eight
00:00:49And here comes the spin
00:00:51Now you can take her
00:00:53Nice, upturn out
00:00:54That was beautiful
00:00:55Mm-hmm
00:00:56And then just together
00:00:57Ooh, yeah
00:00:58I like it
00:01:17Let's fall in love
00:01:47I did
00:02:18We have this and we have that
00:02:18We have that
00:02:22We have that
00:02:48We have that
00:03:17He can see me as a normal guy
00:03:18Like I am like I know what I want
00:03:20You have so much in the play
00:03:21You have so much in the play
00:03:21I know what you want
00:03:21So like you're like I want this man
00:03:23So like that makes you feel like hell yeah she wants me
00:03:26Yeah, it does
00:03:27That's interesting
00:03:28Because like you are not getting the best of me
00:03:31Like I'm not myself
00:03:32Like I'm not myself right now
00:03:33And it's crazy that you're falling in love with this part of me
00:03:35Because like this is not my best self
00:03:37There's gonna be some days where you need your resets that believe me
00:03:42I won't ever take offense to it
00:03:46You're grinding your ass off going to work
00:03:48And I can just see obviously and just feel some of the stresses that you've been under
00:03:53But you even if you come home like tired and exhausted
00:03:56You still at least like give me a hug give me a kiss
00:03:58At least a little smile
00:04:00I think even on some of my worst days
00:04:02You know how to talk to me
00:04:04The moments that I have
00:04:07I've needed you you've been there
00:04:09And that means like the world to me
00:04:12I feel like I even fall in love with you like more and more each day
00:04:15Stop
00:04:16Okay
00:04:19Like each night we get to go to sleep and just like this is awesome
00:04:23Each time I wake up even though you're like
00:04:25I need you to get me up earlier
00:04:27Those five minutes in the morning when you finally let me cuddle you
00:04:30Because you wanted to be away from me all night
00:04:33Not that
00:04:33Not all night
00:04:35But um
00:04:36It's just like those little moments I'm like
00:04:38Feels like a forever thing
00:04:41I know you're gonna be a good mom
00:04:42And especially since we're dreamers
00:04:43That's all I'm thinking about right now
00:04:44I'm just like yeah
00:04:46Our little left footed midfielder playing well
00:04:49And you on the sidelines cheering them on
00:04:54Well lists are endless
00:04:55If it's a six hour train ride
00:04:57I could feel the time of why you'd be a good wife
00:04:59Okay
00:04:59Stop it
00:05:03Well let me just like talk about why the reasons I love Connor
00:05:06Okay
00:05:07I have heard my friends talk about dating
00:05:09I've heard them talk about marriages and like all these things
00:05:13And everybody kept saying like when you know you know
00:05:15Talking to you like and I literally had butterflies heart palpitations
00:05:21Everything in between like it was just like I physically was like unwell
00:05:26Like I was like oh my god this is the feeling they're talking about
00:05:29Like I'm insane
00:05:30Like this is crazy
00:05:31Yeah I was like done
00:05:32She was getting married
00:05:33Put it all on Connor
00:05:35I fell in love with you
00:05:36If it wasn't you it was nobody
00:05:38And what's crazy is I know what it's like to feel loved now
00:05:45Like you fucking love me
00:05:49I know you do
00:05:51You love me
00:05:52Like you bring me flowers every day
00:05:55You run down to the garage to greet me on my way home from work
00:06:02You sometimes are my punching bag and you're like you're so cute when you do that
00:06:07Like I'm being a bitch
00:06:10Like you love me
00:06:13I'm a psycho
00:06:16I'm crazy
00:06:17You even call me you're like you're a lunatic
00:06:20I was like I know and you love me
00:06:21You're my lunatic
00:06:22I don't have to be anybody who I'm not
00:06:25Never
00:06:25I can be me
00:06:27You loving me has opened up my eyes to be like I am deserving of this
00:06:32I should have somebody that loves every bit of me every piece of me
00:06:37And to find somebody like that is insane
00:06:39You really taught me like what love is
00:06:45To our last date in this experiment
00:06:50It's crazy
00:06:51Finding my favorite person ever
00:06:53I want to feel some kind of old
00:06:57I want a real love
00:07:06Well Africa events
00:07:08You gotta go play with a monkey
00:07:09You gotta go play with a monkey
00:07:12I'm returning you to center
00:07:15Bringing me home
00:07:16Bringing you home
00:07:17Sunshine
00:07:19Good times
00:07:21Blue skies
00:07:23Hi
00:07:24How are you?
00:07:25Oh my gosh
00:07:26Good
00:07:26Hello
00:07:26Oh my gosh fun
00:07:28Anything you don't want slobber on remove mouth
00:07:31Okay
00:07:32So here at the Columbus Zoo we have 17 giraffe
00:07:35We have quite a few
00:07:36This is Bobby
00:07:37Hi handsome
00:07:38He is actually our breeding bull of the herd
00:07:42Oh
00:07:42Alright Bobby
00:07:43He's got four lovely ladies in the house
00:07:45Look at you
00:07:46And here she comes
00:07:48One of them right now is Zuri
00:07:50As you can see they don't think they get fed at all
00:07:53You are a lot of people
00:07:56You are a
00:07:57You know you are
00:07:58Emma you gotta control your mans
00:08:00You gotta control your mans
00:08:08There you go buddy
00:08:10You're my best friend
00:08:12Wow
00:08:12Another head of lettuce please
00:08:14He's like give me that
00:08:16He's like give me that
00:08:17Just give me that
00:08:22Oh God
00:08:25Hey this is so cool
00:08:29That was really cool
00:08:30I've never done anything like that so
00:08:32Oh shit
00:08:33Oh
00:08:33Is that my boy?
00:08:35Probably
00:08:36So cool
00:08:37This is so cool
00:08:38This is a great finale date before our wedding
00:08:41It is
00:08:42Smell like giraffe
00:08:44Do you?
00:08:46A little bit
00:08:46What does that smell like?
00:08:47Come on over
00:08:50Feeding giraffes
00:08:51For our anniversary
00:08:52Every year we like pick something on our bucket list
00:08:54And like
00:08:56Do something super like cool and wacky
00:08:58And whether the cool shit is like
00:09:00Literally walking around the zoo together
00:09:02And like getting
00:09:03Getting culvers and a sweet treat
00:09:07I want to be able to like have shared experiences
00:09:10Before we start a family and then like when that family comes
00:09:14Like then it's like
00:09:16Then it's like
00:09:16You get to do
00:09:18Cool experiences with them
00:09:19As if Disney World
00:09:20And just like all of that stuff
00:09:21Yeah
00:09:21But it's like I want to do things
00:09:23With us that
00:09:24We can do while we're young
00:09:25Right
00:09:26Then do stuff
00:09:28Post
00:09:29Right
00:09:29I mean I
00:09:30That's
00:09:31I couldn't agree more
00:09:32Like
00:09:33Is that
00:09:34I don't know
00:09:35You said with family and stuff
00:09:37Yeah
00:09:37Like you've been thinking more on that
00:09:38I have been thinking about it and like
00:09:43I
00:09:46Like I a hundred percent think you are the right partner
00:09:49Like I
00:09:52Don't
00:09:53Like
00:09:54Like
00:09:54I don't think like
00:09:56I just
00:09:56I picture like
00:09:58You're laughing so I'm sorry
00:09:59No
00:10:00No I
00:10:01But like the way like I feel with you
00:10:03Like safe and stable and like
00:10:05Confident
00:10:06Like it's one in a million
00:10:07Like I
00:10:11Am continuing to be open minded
00:10:12Yeah
00:10:13That's all
00:10:14You just brought it up this way
00:10:15No no
00:10:16Like you're thinking about it
00:10:17But I am thinking about it
00:10:18I want to show you I'm thinking about it
00:10:19Cause like I
00:10:19I am like
00:10:21And I see
00:10:23I see it
00:10:24Like I do see a family with you
00:10:25And I see
00:10:27Um
00:10:28Sorry
00:10:29I was like what is that
00:10:30Um
00:10:30The drops are talking
00:10:36Go on
00:10:36I see
00:10:38It's like in Cabo
00:10:39And I can't stop laughing
00:10:40Um
00:10:42No I mean
00:10:42Like I see that with you
00:10:43But I
00:10:46I think that will like
00:10:48Also continue just to grow with time
00:10:49Sure
00:10:52Try
00:10:52Again
00:10:53Yeah
00:10:54Alright
00:10:57You're very cute
00:11:11Doesn't feel like it's only been
00:11:13A month and a half
00:11:14Like I feel like I've known you for way longer than that
00:11:17Yeah
00:11:18That feels like so long ago
00:11:19Really
00:11:20To see how far we've come
00:11:21It's just crazy
00:11:23Mm
00:11:23How much
00:11:24Like has happened
00:11:25In a matter of six weeks
00:11:28A lot can change in six weeks
00:11:30Mm-hmm
00:11:31You had 16 girlfriends
00:11:33And I had 16 boyfriends
00:11:34Uh
00:11:35That was nice
00:11:36Shut up
00:11:37It's the only time I'll be able to do that
00:11:39Ever
00:11:40Take me back honestly
00:11:43That was when life was good
00:11:46I can't stand you
00:11:48Oh man
00:11:50What a ride
00:11:51What a ride
00:11:53When we get married in a week
00:11:57It's crazy
00:11:58It's crazy when you say it like that
00:11:59Yeah
00:12:02Oh wow
00:12:03Mm-hmm
00:12:05Let's go sit by the fire
00:12:06I guess I haven't had this pressure before
00:12:09Of like the marriage
00:12:10It's more been in a relationship
00:12:11Where it's like
00:12:12You can just kind of drag things out
00:12:13What we have like foundation wise
00:12:16Can last a lifetime
00:12:17Um
00:12:18Yeah
00:12:19You're the first person I've met
00:12:21That I felt like
00:12:23It's worth giving up
00:12:24My independence
00:12:25Yeah
00:12:27Well that's good
00:12:28I would say I'm definitely like worried about it
00:12:30You were snoring last night legitimately
00:12:32Stop it
00:12:35Sound like a lumberjack
00:12:36I'm a cute sleeper
00:12:38To each their own
00:12:42So you're still gonna choose me
00:12:43Even though I snored like you
00:12:45I don't know
00:12:46You kind of sounded like Godzilla last night
00:12:48Don't say
00:12:50Did I really?
00:12:52Oh yeah
00:12:53Paul Bunyan
00:12:53That's your new nickname
00:12:55Stop talking
00:12:59My mind like at night has been racing
00:13:01I haven't been able to like sleep
00:13:02Of course we could say yes
00:13:04And but it's just like
00:13:05Yeah
00:13:05It's a lot
00:13:08And it's definitely been weighing on me
00:13:10Yeah
00:13:10I need to like get away
00:13:12Everything is like great and amazing
00:13:14But I'm just trying to like
00:13:15Really like process it
00:13:17I need like time to just like really sit
00:13:19Cause it's like it is a big decision
00:13:21I feel like it's starting to like
00:13:23Weigh on me like in a good way
00:13:24But it's like I gotta really sit with my thoughts
00:13:27And kind of like literally go ghost
00:13:29Mm-hmm
00:13:30I'll probably do like a day
00:13:31Where I'm just like
00:13:32I'm unreachable
00:13:33Okay
00:13:34So completely off the grid
00:13:36Just like
00:13:37Completely
00:13:38Like complete dark day
00:13:39Like phone probably won't even be on
00:13:41Do you feel like you're not certain if you're gonna say yes?
00:13:47Like I'm like obviously I would say like I'm 98% there
00:13:52I told you my biggest fear
00:13:53Mm-hmm
00:13:54Is getting to the aisle
00:13:55And it being like a no
00:13:57Yeah
00:13:57I can see myself saying yes
00:14:00Yeah
00:14:00I wouldn't have my family come here if I didn't
00:14:03If I wasn't gonna say yes
00:14:04Even though I already had a wedding dress
00:14:06Mm-hmm
00:14:07Like trying on wedding dresses again
00:14:09When I tried it on this time
00:14:11It was like exciting because I'm like
00:14:15I can see myself mirroring you
00:14:18I can be a wife
00:14:19And like have a husband
00:14:21It does kind of feel like we're just in this fairy tale
00:14:25Trust me I get it
00:14:28You're saying yes at the altar
00:14:31Well there is one thing that I want to talk about
00:14:34Someone told me that like the dress fitting day
00:14:39They heard that I don't like kiss you enough
00:14:42Or tell you you're pretty enough
00:14:43And to like remind me to do that
00:14:46I was pissed because I was like
00:14:48Oh I'm being talked about again in a negative way
00:14:50They asked what Devante is gonna say
00:14:53When he sees you in this dress
00:14:55And I said well he's a man a few words
00:14:57I don't know what he's going to say
00:14:59Yeah
00:14:59I think everybody knows like how I feel about you
00:15:04And it's very obvious
00:15:05Yeah
00:15:05But I know you're not somebody that's ever gonna be like gushing over me
00:15:10Yeah
00:15:10It's like not your personality
00:15:11And that's something that like I've had to come to terms with
00:15:14Yeah
00:15:14Of like accepting that like that's not
00:15:18Yeah
00:15:18Like how you show me that you think that I'm pretty
00:15:21Right
00:15:22That makes sense
00:15:22Obviously I would like for you to tell me that you think that I'm pretty
00:15:27Right
00:15:27But I also know that that's not how you are
00:15:32There's one more thing
00:15:34I know the sacrifices that I've made to get to where I'm at
00:15:38I don't ever want to lose that
00:15:39Lose half of that or a lot of that and like I don't know
00:15:43You know
00:15:45Prenups
00:15:46And I don't think that was like something we even talked about in the pods
00:15:49So I'm not saying that's directed towards you
00:15:53That is more for like where I feel good in my own space
00:16:00You're entitled to feel how you feel
00:16:01Yeah
00:16:01Like obviously you have worked very hard to get where you are
00:16:04Yeah
00:16:05To build the life that you have
00:16:07But
00:16:08I don't know
00:16:12I don't want to be married to somebody that feels like they have to protect themselves from me
00:16:16I don't think people intend to be spiteful until they have the opportunity to do it
00:16:21I'm not spiteful like that's not who I am
00:16:24That's never going to be who I am
00:16:25I don't know I guess it's just how I feel
00:16:29Sometimes you don't know why you feel the way you feel
00:16:33But
00:16:37Yeah
00:16:37So is this you saying you want one?
00:16:41I think it would make me
00:16:45Feel comfortable
00:16:47I wish you would have brought this up sooner
00:16:50Well
00:16:51The reason I didn't is because I was like
00:16:53I'm not going to jump right into this one
00:16:55It's like we don't even know what everything else looks like
00:17:00So if I didn't feel comfortable with the prenup is that?
00:17:04Hmm
00:17:08I don't know
00:17:10I guess it's just something I'll have to decide
00:17:13If I sign
00:17:15That paper will I be able to
00:17:18Not think about the fact that there's
00:17:20That in the background
00:17:21Yeah
00:17:22No
00:17:23It just feels like
00:17:27You have a plan
00:17:29To not always fight for it
00:17:33Well I can tell you one thing
00:17:34That I'm still here for a reason
00:17:37You know that I'm not a quitter
00:17:39I'm not asking you to make a decision right this second
00:17:42Sleep on it
00:17:43Sleep on it
00:17:43But we're going to be life partners
00:17:46We got to have everything out on the table
00:17:47I've stayed because
00:17:49You actually like want to be here
00:17:52Mhm
00:17:53You know you said actions speak louder than words
00:17:55And your actions
00:17:57Your actions have definitely shown me
00:18:00Okay
00:18:01That it's worth staying
00:18:03I didn't come this far to come this far
00:18:04Were you planning on having this conversation tonight?
00:18:07Yeah
00:18:07Oh
00:18:07Yeah, tonight
00:18:09Save the best for last
00:18:13Cause you knew that I wouldn't take it well
00:18:14That's why
00:18:16See I know you
00:18:20I think we should pray
00:18:21When in doubt
00:18:22What we need
00:18:24Okay
00:18:26Dear Heavenly Father
00:18:27Thank you for this day
00:18:28I thank you
00:18:30For Devante
00:18:31We trust you
00:18:32And
00:18:34You know if we do choose to get married
00:18:36God I pray blessings over our marriage
00:18:37Over our future
00:18:39Over our kids
00:18:40Over our finances
00:18:42I just thank you
00:18:43For Devante
00:18:44I thank you
00:18:46For everything that you've brought us through
00:18:48And that you'll continue to bring us through
00:18:50Thank you that we're going to be able to celebrate with our family
00:18:53Next week
00:18:54And I just
00:18:55Thank you for the journey
00:18:57Amen
00:18:57Amen
00:19:01Are you going for a high five there?
00:19:03I don't know what I was going for
00:19:04I don't know what I was going for
00:19:07Oh
00:19:07Ugh
00:19:10It's going to be okay
00:19:12The sun will rise again tomorrow
00:19:14Mm-hmm
00:19:15Well not here
00:19:17Not in a while
00:19:19The clouds will rise again tomorrow
00:19:21Come on
00:19:36Go
00:19:38We're here
00:19:39Yay
00:19:40Alright
00:19:41I'm excited
00:19:42Me too
00:19:42The world
00:19:43Is Emma and I's favorite place to go?
00:19:46when i told emma i was coming here with jordan which she has not met him yet she's going to
00:19:51meet him saturday she was like i want to go i want to go and i was like we will
00:19:54definitely
00:19:55come back here with him emma was playing with my ring and she has this little stuff animal and she
00:20:00had put it like literally right i found it in her toy box and i was like yeah let's just
00:20:07not do that
00:20:07again maybe never do that again ready yeah what do you got oh yeah this one's for me oh man
00:20:26i'm gonna
00:20:27ram into a mirror in here i know it's so fun yeah this is so pretty yeah thanks for bringing
00:20:35me
00:20:55cheers cheers good games yes oh yes so we have a little goody bag but the grand prize
00:21:06this is for you oh my god we will ever see this
00:21:13yeah getting to meet emma finally yeah that'd be awesome saturday yeah i finally have a plan to meet
00:21:19emma which is going to be cool so i wouldn't say that i have any reservations um about the wedding
00:21:24because i know amber and i are on the same page we're just looking forward to planning a life
00:21:28together i can't wait to see what emma says has to say about that actually you know what
00:21:34maybe i'll have you bring it to her saturday hmm i have another little thing for her so maybe you
00:21:41can
00:21:41bring both okay that'd be really cute okay that's a good plan
00:21:48i'm excited me too
00:22:02ready this is where i get murdered no are you proposing again you know i get surprises trust me
00:22:10okay okay all right so that's kind of what we got going on tonight oh my gosh pretty cool yeah
00:22:16this
00:22:16is so cute i'm obsessed yeah oh my god yeah can i go sit absolutely this is so beautiful did
00:22:23you plan
00:22:23this all of it yes it's like the most romantic thing i love it want some champagne sure
00:22:33thank you
00:22:36mm we can cheers like an ice cheers dad dad's expert seven years i don't want that we don't need
00:22:44that
00:22:45what are you most excited for on the wedding day you're running no no spending time with you like
00:22:52obviously wedding day yeah what are the next you're gonna fall asleep no i'm not what are we doing for
00:22:58our first christmas do you see that globe right there yeah you know that like bottom tip it's
00:23:04called antarctica no we're gonna go there for our first christmas no if anything we first of all go
00:23:09to the north pole for christmas it makes no sense that's where santa lives you make good arguments
00:23:13obviously okay so for real what are we doing for christmas switzerland um saint moritz i don't know
00:23:21we gotta go somewhere warm a beach would be nice make that work that's one thing you want to do
00:23:26in
00:23:26our first year of marriage what's a goal we have to travel out of the country at least once
00:23:32i guess i would just love for us to like obviously know where like our home is
00:23:39at least where we want to be for a while whether it's florida arizona wherever starting to have those
00:23:45roots and i'd like i don't want to like scare you when i say these things like you know planting
00:23:49roots and like staying grounded like throw me like as much as i feel like you think it might
00:23:53but i do want it to be in a place where i'm not thinking about other places
00:24:02how do you want to celebrate your first birthday as a married man oh i don't know what about you
00:24:08i normally like to go like on a trip somewhere to be honest it's gonna be warm though
00:24:12um no promises you don't want me to be happy
00:24:19another question did you get for me
00:24:22um
00:24:29i just asked one what'd you ask
00:24:33uh i thought i just asked one no no no no we're talking about birthdays oh that's right that is
00:24:40right um
00:24:42i'm trying to think what about your new dress you have to be excited about it i got emotional
00:24:51putting on the dress did you i know shocking um no it was like a very real moment um yeah
00:25:00yeah thinking about what you were gonna think or say when you saw me about all the girls were there
00:25:05and my friends were there and just think how pretty i was stop it but go on it's my job
00:25:12stop it but go
00:25:13that's funny no but it was sweet they asked like what what's your dad gonna think when he sees you
00:25:19and i just started crying i was like he's not invited like he's no longer invited anymore no i'm sure
00:25:23he'll support you we'll see what's your mom gonna think i think she'll be excited like
00:25:34if she's probably pushing more for grandkids at this point oh my god really i think so
00:25:39god now she's excited though what do you say like when someone asks you like tell me about ashley
00:25:44what do you say oh i love her authenticity the confidence and the competitive spirit that she
00:25:48shows is huge i do love the fact that you're willing to put yourself out there um try new
00:25:54things what do you tell your friends my friends hate you i know ridiculous i'm just kidding i tell
00:26:03them that your golf swing needs a lot of work it's true no that's that's just what you tell your
00:26:08dad
00:26:08i did tell him that he needs more um no i tell them that you're very well traveled you're very
00:26:15passionate
00:26:16about soccer and day trading it seems like your friends and family have nothing but good things
00:26:22to say about you i think you'll be like a good husband a good father just based off of like
00:26:28your
00:26:29experiences i love that love that and i think when you like have something in your mind you put everything
00:26:36you have into it so that's why i think you've been successful in this experiment no not tooting my own
00:26:42horn or anything like you got really lucky i did so you know how to make a really good decision
00:26:47i do
00:26:51how are you feeling about having to make a decision how confident i guess are you yeah i feel good
00:26:57about it i feel kind of like we're where we should be um obviously like we're crushing it like we've
00:27:04done
00:27:04crushing it we've done very well we've been on the same page for a long time it seems like so
00:27:08there's excitement there for sure i know it's a big big day it's obviously a life you know changing
00:27:14decision but everything for me goes back to soccer like you can't plan out how the game's going to go
00:27:20you just play it like you're in that game and you're a part of it and obviously doing your best
00:27:26but
00:27:27you don't necessarily control the outcome and this is one of those things that i control part of it but
00:27:32it's an outcome that is going to happen how it was meant to happen is the way i look at
00:27:38it stoicism
00:27:38helps out as well in the sense of like keep the emotions in check i feel confident in
00:27:45the the end product as well yeah the fear of the unknown always gets me you know that
00:27:51i'm sure you got the vibe i was like attracted to you because you were so confident in like your
00:27:55decision to choose me like i've been second best so many times and when you work like i want it
00:28:02to
00:28:02be you yeah that is when i was like this guy's got it that was it for me i love
00:28:07that love that cheers
00:28:10me and finish this finish my god you didn't make eye contact i did in my head so you're having
00:28:18bad sex
00:28:18for seven years oh you're having it with me then i will be having good sex i looked in your
00:28:22eyes did
00:28:23you anyways we have a wedding people i'm excited for it for you i'd steal the sun so i could
00:28:31light your sun
00:28:35for you i'd stop the world from spinning just so we could have some time
00:28:52i can't wait for wedding day like i'm on countdown in my head but i'm just trying to remind myself
00:28:58to
00:28:58slow down and to take in every last moment that i get with vic toast to uh many more memories
00:29:05a future and love into one chapter and start all the books to write to come i like them
00:29:18every phase of this has felt like an eternity in the best way yeah you know it all and you
00:29:27accept
00:29:27me for who i am you love me for who i am i don't think i've ever felt as confident
00:29:32about anything in
00:29:33my life especially something so serious as this and i know it's not even just like my decision right
00:29:38i mean you're great now but i've been praying for you for a lot longer than i've known you
00:29:45same i can see and i can feel how much you love your family how much you love your friends
00:29:52how much you love your job how much you love what you get to do and the change you get
00:29:57to be a part of
00:29:59how much you love god how much you love me you just pour yourself out in like the best way
00:30:06and it's
00:30:07a way that like fills you and it's like that's the part that i love how like filling it is
00:30:12for you to
00:30:13love so much you're an amazing woman and you know that i don't even have to tell you everything about
00:30:20you your selflessness love you having you you're smart like i think you're brilliant i love hearing
00:30:27your stories and i mean i know you'll make an excellent partner sometimes i get speechless around
00:30:35you because of it's just like i get this this like this wow feeling that happens
00:30:44you're gonna make me cry already i love you i love you too
00:30:58you're somebody that i'd be and i am very very very proud
00:31:07to know and to love and to call you my husband
00:31:13and for you to be the father of my kids someday
00:31:18i love you very very much i love you deeply baby deeply deeply deeply deeply
00:31:26you're just everything that i could want in so many ways i mean even just down to your hobbies and
00:31:32snacking on your cashews and just like the little habits that you have and i think we're going to
00:31:36compliment each other and push each other push me to be better and vice versa yeah you're gonna push me
00:31:44too i know that yeah i've never felt like this in my life yeah me too
00:31:50and it just makes so much sense you know you look back at every single little stepping stone of your
00:31:55life even the hard times you know i'm just like i would do those things a million times over if
00:32:01it got
00:32:01me here yeah yeah i'm saying you're an answer prayer so are you so are you baby and i love
00:32:11it i love you
00:32:11everything i'm so excited so happy so grateful so so grateful
00:32:24i had a great day with you huh great last birthday last birthday
00:32:45this is the most bizarre exciting expansive coolest thing i've ever done and i couldn't
00:32:54have done it without you and i wouldn't have done it without you like there's no chance i mean we
00:32:59fell
00:32:59in love and not even looking at each other i know it's crazy it really is but you're not getting
00:33:05the best of me right now because i have just been grinding what's really sad is like i know i
00:33:14can give
00:33:14so much more when i see my friends and family tell you that you're not getting the best version of
00:33:21me
00:33:21and this isn't me right now it really hurts that's really tough to say out loud that's really it's
00:33:28powerful um it's a testament to you so even in maybe your worst version still obsessed with you
00:33:38you really do love me for the good bad the ugly
00:33:45even as we're seeing each other every single day when you text me at like 505 you're like can i
00:33:49call you
00:33:50i get so happy
00:33:54i'm gonna start getting emotional like i just can't wait to like we've had so many nights where after
00:34:01the longest day we still just sit in bed and talk for like two hours yeah those are my favorite
00:34:06moments
00:34:06with you if this is who you are right now and this is how much i'm obsessed with you
00:34:14stop i think once you get back into what you call your normal stay it's like
00:34:18i think you're gonna be able to give more love too so i'm excited for not only me how much
00:34:24more i even
00:34:25might love you which is i don't know if it's possible yeah but like you also to give off that
00:34:28love and accept it more too like i'm so excited to see that kind of transition i know me too
00:34:34do you think you are ready for marriage i am ready for it i think i'll be a good husband
00:34:40good father transparently when i came into your house and i see your car and i'm like this guy
00:34:45doesn't give a like he doesn't give a about anything what does this mean about like how he's
00:34:49going to show up for like a presentation of like our house and our family and like his job and
00:34:54is
00:34:54he proud of it like i know like it's such a silly thing about a house and a car but
00:34:59like what clothes
00:35:00you wear and like how you present yourself it doesn't have to be like high-end crazy things but just
00:35:06like have pride and like that's a reflection of you it just makes me feel like it's lazy like there's
00:35:12no pride there's no like hustle there's no grit there's no like pride to this and like it just made
00:35:17me feel like who is this guy is he just gonna be a liability like i don't know i'm just
00:35:25so used to
00:35:25someone that's out alpha me like he's been the leader it's not like you're coming in and being like
00:35:31i'm gonna make like five times more money than you i live in a nicer house than you i do
00:35:37this like it
00:35:38wasn't like this extravagant like in your face like out alpha me you don't have the big energy where
00:35:45you're talking over me or ordering at the restaurant or like the confidence to be like
00:35:48she'll take this like you're kind of looking at me like what should we order like what and it was
00:35:53just
00:35:53like this weird energy that i'm not used to and it's actually interesting because we talk about
00:35:58challenge and challenge shows up so differently like is it challenging me to get up at six o'clock
00:36:03and go to the gym and like be disciplined about that maybe that's something that i would love for
00:36:08somebody to encourage me to do but like also is the challenge of like being able to accept just
00:36:14being loved for who i am some people think i don't care about a lot of things because there's not
00:36:19like
00:36:19a lot of i guess material things that like yeah i would love a nice car yeah i'd love a
00:36:24nice house and
00:36:25i can't wait for those things someday but that's why i do work and support you and a family someday
00:36:31but
00:36:31a lot of people sometimes just see like the the keg on the outside or something or that i haven't
00:36:38cleaned up and uh i just don't love talking about myself i just like listening more is kind of who
00:36:43i've been you've actually seen more of me and i'm just very glad that you took the time because not
00:36:50everybody does my dad and i have had conversations he's like maybe that's you've been chasing the wrong
00:36:56thing and you need to shift into something like that where like you can still lead but you find
00:37:01somebody that's complimentary and leads you in other ways i just feel like i've been so critical
00:37:07and so analytical and like trying to figure out if this is my husband that i've like lost sight of
00:37:12like
00:37:13literally the whole concept of it is love blind because had i seen all those things
00:37:20i may be a past judgment on things that weren't true and i did yeah and like that's like the
00:37:27whole
00:37:27point of this experiment right i know you hustle and i know that you're proud of what you've built
00:37:32for yourself and i know you take pride in that and i hated that i watered that down because i
00:37:37do like
00:37:38it is incredible you own a house you have an established career i know you've worked your ass off
00:37:42to get where you're at and like you are thinking about the future and like what you could do with
00:37:47your
00:37:47career to support a family and do all those things like you have absolutely shown up for me in ways
00:37:53i
00:37:53have never been i've never experienced before i know that you love every piece of me the way that
00:37:59you make me feel loved is insane even on my darkest days or even when i'm like literally feeling the
00:38:05most disgusting like you think i'm the most beautiful person in the world however i show up to you
00:38:11is enough i'm trying to decide are you the total package or are you in my life to teach me
00:38:17how to be
00:38:18loved is this my person for the rest of my life is that true love
00:38:25i can't go up to the to the altar and be like yeah question mark
00:38:32am i ready to walk down the aisle no
00:38:42if i were to go down the aisle today it would be no for me but that makes me question
00:38:47like why
00:38:49why is it no because if it is the right person i'm like so deeply in love and it's like
00:38:55my person for
00:38:56life like would it matter i think i would have said yes to you you would have gone to the
00:39:04altar and
00:39:05said yes so had i been in a different space we would be at our wedding day yeah i would
00:39:10have on monday
00:39:11said yes and i've been open about that i've no issue saying that um and i'm not gonna be ashamed
00:39:19of
00:39:19that and i know you don't think anything less of me because i wanted to marry you so
00:39:27what the am i doing
00:39:33if we can get through this like i hope that it's not a no forever
00:39:37so do you see yourself marrying me someday i hope
00:39:41hold me up until the morning
00:39:47yeah
00:39:50what a ride
00:39:57what an absolute craziest month of my life
00:40:00month it's been like years that's true i saw the couch or something is that okay i can't say
00:40:07with certainty that he's not my person like that's the hard part i hate that i have to say
00:40:11no i'm not ready i hate to be saying things like are you a lesson to learn or are you
00:40:18the love of my
00:40:18life it's really hard to understand why i'm going backwards i don't know why it sucks that we aren't
00:40:23getting married monday so it's just the way i feel and uh did i want to come here and just
00:40:28teach you
00:40:30how to be loved more no but i think any time before this if somebody had said that they aren't
00:40:38ready to marry me and i'm ready to marry them as i would have freaked out why do you think
00:40:42that's
00:40:42different because of how much we do love each other i am optimistic and i know you're not going
00:40:51to run you've consistently proven that you're going to be there for me i would have said yes but
00:41:07as life you've told me you're wise this whole time you've directly communicated where you were at
00:41:12i've never had that my entire life and that's why like i'm more excited to continue to grow continue
00:41:20to prove that i'm going to be there for you i mean there's a reason that we fell in love
00:41:25sight unseen
00:41:27that's something i'll remember forever in my entire life and hopefully it's a connection that brings us
00:41:34even to the altar someday i love her with all my heart and i knew that before even seeing him
00:41:40so yeah
00:41:43i think love is blind
00:41:50this has been the ride of a lifetime so thank you
00:41:55no matter where you go
00:41:58you'll never run never alone
00:42:05you're never never alone
00:42:08you're never never alone
00:42:21oh yeah
00:42:22oh yeah this is going to be so fun
00:42:35it's monster jam
00:42:38this bachelor night monster trucks good vibes good friends damn near family at this point man feeling
00:42:47good very ohio kudos to whoever set that up
00:42:57yeah yeah yeah
00:43:03so today's the bachelet party and i'm feeling really excited
00:43:29i'm gonna be alex anderson's wife in a couple days and that is a
00:43:36crazy thing to say i'm gonna be a wife
00:43:39you're betting on love i'm all in first bachelet party
00:43:50this is how i'm practicing walking down the aisle
00:43:52i'm just sitting there with alex i do
00:43:57jordan he's the best man i've ever met
00:44:00what i'm hopeful for is like tomorrow when he meets emma
00:44:02that he'll realize it's not that scary
00:44:04and i think that will fulfill his life so much in ways that like he can't even understand yet
00:44:11i feel very goofy trying to walk sexy
00:44:16amber's got the legs
00:44:21all right all right let's hit it baby
00:44:23yeah damn damn
00:44:28there's no way the girls have this much fun they just can't be
00:44:32amber texted me a little bit ago and asked if i wanted pizza i said we're not done
00:44:36wish she didn't get pizza though i'll eat the rest later why she's probably asleep i hope she takes my
00:44:42dog out
00:44:45oh 40. jesus christ man now you get me killed as a quarterback
00:44:52i am excited to get to the altar and to see her in her dress we do have question marks
00:44:57in terms of
00:44:58children does sound like she's coming around but i don't know what she's gonna say excited yeah excited
00:45:12oh my god i think ashley's a phenomenal person but when i close my eyes and picture my wife in
00:45:22five
00:45:22years i see myself living in florida with a phenomenal house potential trust in dubai and a safe house in
00:45:28queenstown new zealand i feel my i see myself very happy with a wife and kids or kids on the
00:45:32way at
00:45:32that point game point oh my days here's a toast to everybody fighting a husband
00:45:42toast to love happiness toast to marriage god damn it and marriage god damn it
00:45:58just to get it right and we made it to the good life
00:46:07today's my wedding day and i'm so excited big day i'm like really in my head right now really
00:46:21children and like all the thoughts and like it's a big decision yeah i just don't want to make the
00:46:26wrong yeah have you talked to mike at all today no i texted him it's her motherfucking wedding and he
00:46:33goes like he thumbs it he's like i'm very late i was like i am too we just had like
00:46:38fun last night
00:46:39too you know it's like we never talked about anything yeah did you guys end up staying together
00:46:43last night no no i like we went to our hotels i love him for you yeah mom loves him
00:46:50i've never
00:46:51felt this way about someone before yeah he's very comfortable he fits in really well he
00:46:59he makes me feel so happy and so comfortable i just really haven't felt this light and free
00:47:13was someone before
00:47:32today's the big day getting married it's it's wild we're in this forever you know until death do us
00:47:38part how you feel man feeling good feeling nervous feeling a little nervous yeah nervous about i mean
00:47:45i don't know if she's gonna say yes or no oh it's scary what's the rest of the family thinking
00:47:50they're supportive nobody understands fully just kind of what we've talked about and what we've
00:47:54gone through either that's the thing you're getting married that's a lot but it feels like forever
00:47:59exactly the hearts of thousands of women are going to break today
00:48:13hi i'm like wow you guys look so beautiful thank you thank you this is my sister hannah
00:48:21hi hannah hi hannah nice to meet you and this is my best friend kayla hi nice to meet you
00:48:27honey
00:48:27i'm patty hello beauty are you nervous i'm excited good
00:48:34i feel so happy and calm oh
00:48:38stop no don't she just did your makeup i know i was like i'm a blubbering mess but yeah
00:48:48i feel just excited good good everybody is how are you feeling i'm good thank you happy birthday thank
00:48:57you first day of 28. how's mom and dad good they're also kind of emotional too but they're really good
00:49:03they love him so much too they like think he fits perfect in your family hannah's like hannah what's your
00:49:12verdict 100 yes that man makes me feel so safe and so secure and it makes me feel comfortable like
00:49:20in my
00:49:20own skin but it's a big decision right i don't take lightly
00:49:29oh what do you think look at this guy hey i put the buttons and everything yeah have you been
00:49:34working
00:49:34out i hate you yeah lipstick on me uh-huh oh yeah
00:49:42i'm falling apart in your arms best friends forever new from the start
00:49:50bracelet the bracelet might be too much but bracelets too much i like the bracelet my sister
00:49:55has the same bracelet i like the bracelet a lot but bill no bill all right this guy exciting day
00:50:02you got good men by your side looking forward to the future cheers cheers cheers cheers thank you guys
00:50:08from the start we got matching scars oh oh oh where's my boy look how spiffy you look you look
00:50:19so
00:50:20beautiful ma thank you my son oh my god you look fantastic i love you you're beautiful
00:50:30good good good good you excited excited nervous yeah they let mommy and cali go by emma
00:50:42oh you were over there nice how was it she was emotional and she's crying already
00:50:48she said she's gonna cry let's sit down i'm just concerned about you okay i'm gonna make sure you're
00:50:54okay i know you're stressed out yeah i mean i i talked to you maybe what three times every single
00:51:01time you had an attitude yeah which is understandable yeah i'm sorry i shouldn't take it out on you it's
00:51:05just you always call it the worst time huh so it's actually unreal it really it really is she's uncanny
00:51:12for
00:51:12that i really is are you happy yeah i just want you to be happy so you're happy i'm happy
00:51:18yeah you're
00:51:19miserable i'm miserable okay which i was so there's only so much crying we can do in the house oh
00:51:26yeah
00:51:28i relax i relax on the crying oh i relax mainly i learned a lot more about this whole thing
00:51:35so
00:51:35you know like this is a it's like a whirlwind you don't know detail you know what i mean and
00:51:43i you
00:51:43know i mean as as parents and you'll you'll you'll notice hopefully one day we love you and
00:51:52we just want the best for you and you know understanding now i'm understanding now that you
00:51:59make the decisions so right you're your own man as long as you're happy you instilled that in me so
00:52:05at the end of the day we just want you to be happy and uh yeah i want different traditional
00:52:11you
00:52:11know that we named nami dated for five years before we got before i asked to marry me you know
00:52:18so that's you know that's why we were taken off guard a little bit in the beginning right
00:52:25yeah yeah but if she's the one for you making sure you feel that way deep in your heart
00:52:31then you know we're behind you like you know i love her i think she's great i appreciate it she's
00:52:38a
00:52:38good kid yeah i mean she definitely fits in yeah
00:52:46there's a lot to take in i'm gonna be honest with you like just to think about starting off on
00:52:49the pod
00:52:50didn't turns into the rest of my life the rest of our lives we raised you right i know that
00:52:56i'm happy for you if you're happy i'm happy for you it looks so good okay
00:53:00all right bye all right i love you okay all right all right good yeah see you guys there yeah
00:53:11she has the question marks in terms of children and that's our biggest thing so i i would love
00:53:18for her to go first to see what that answer is if she can overcome that and say yes that
00:53:22means she's
00:53:23really thought about it she's like i can see a future with mike with children so i would love to
00:53:28hear
00:53:29her say yes like okay that's the biggest thing in my mind is children you just check that off like
00:53:34let's do it let's dive in i hope i'm the one who gets to stand beside you i'd never let
00:53:46you go
00:53:53i love you sweet girl oh you look amazing oh my god so beautiful now i'm gonna cry beautiful
00:54:06just wait for the veil mom stop don't cry
00:54:11oh so my pearl earrings
00:54:16my dad gave them to me for my wedding
00:54:28where is she i know
00:54:31there's my something old
00:54:36here's my something old
00:54:40oh my god
00:54:43it's it's magical and it's beautiful
00:54:47she's meant to wear a veil yeah look at her you look so pretty
00:54:58if you can picture yourself in any situation with him and having him still makes you happy
00:55:02that's the one we are here no matter what you decide just make yourself happy true
00:55:08okay okay final cheers final cheers we love you we love you cheers good decisions
00:55:38i'm behind you 100 thank you okay i love you more than you know
00:55:46okay okay yeah nervous
00:55:49a lot to take in you know we're all behind you
00:55:54you know
00:56:11seasons come and seasons go
00:56:36oh god
00:56:37oh god here she comes
00:56:43you look beautiful
00:56:45i'm trying not to wrinkle you
00:56:49are you ready
00:56:52okay
00:56:54love you sweetie
00:57:00the dress is beautiful
00:57:01oh my god i'm gonna have
00:57:04freaking faint
00:57:05i guess it's okay it's okay
00:57:21oh my god how cute
00:57:26please rise
00:57:33when you're ready
00:57:35holy
00:57:36holy
00:57:37holy
00:57:54god
00:58:06I'm so gorgeous.
00:58:10How do you look gorgeous?
00:58:12I know.
00:58:17Is it straight?
00:58:19Please be seated.
00:58:27Good evening and welcome.
00:58:30I'd like to thank everyone in this room for being here today as we celebrate Emma and
00:58:34Mike and the journey they've been on together so far.
00:58:37Today, the two of you are taking the first step of your new chapter and in many ways,
00:58:42a whole new life.
00:58:44Loving someone in marriage is a reason to stretch beyond our limits, to become more for the
00:58:49sake of the other.
00:58:51It is to look into the soul of your beloved and accept what you see.
00:58:56Yet, hold space for all that they're going to become.
00:58:59As you join today, you're announcing to the world that you're welcoming that challenge
00:59:03and all the joys that come with it.
00:59:09Emma, our journey has been amazing.
00:59:13And it wasn't easy.
00:59:15We have so many questions with the kids.
00:59:17And throughout our whole experience, you have been open and understanding to hearing my
00:59:25journey and my story.
00:59:26But I really just, I want to know that you want to start a family with me.
00:59:33I know you've been thinking about it and it's not fair for you to have to choose now.
00:59:38But one of the biggest things that I love about you and I love about us is that we're able
00:59:42to communicate and we'll always be genuine with one another and get to the bottom of anything.
00:59:50So, thank you for that and thank you for making it easy on me to love such an amazing person
00:59:56inside and out.
00:59:57I can't wait to see what the future holds for us.
01:00:05Mike?
01:00:07Yeah?
01:00:08I knew that I was doing this for a reason.
01:00:12And being here, my reason is you.
01:00:17You've made me feel safe and sane and comfortable.
01:00:22We have gone through a lot.
01:00:25I know.
01:00:25You have made me feel so special and empowered me to march to the beat of my own drum and
01:00:37not sacrifice who I am in the process.
01:00:40And I can't ask for a better partner, like, throughout my life.
01:00:45I love that.
01:00:50Emma and Mike, you chose to get engaged and spend the rest of your lives together based
01:00:54on a deep emotional connection.
01:00:57Looks, age, finances, and all the superficial things of the world are a factor for you, too.
01:01:03Now is the time to decide if love is blind.
01:01:13Will you get married and commit to facing life together as husband and wife?
01:01:17Or will you walk away forever?
01:01:29Emma, do you take Mike to be your lawfully wedded husband, to have and to hold from this day forward
01:01:37for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and cherish, forsaking
01:01:47all others for all the days?
01:01:49Will you take the days of your life?
01:01:50If so, say, I do.
01:02:01I've been thinking a lot about this decision.
01:02:13There's a lot of things that we still need to go through.
01:02:22Whether that's today, or whether that's two years from now.
01:02:33I've been thinking about how you make me feel, and I can't.
01:02:46I can't see a future without you.
01:02:51Yeah.
01:02:53No.
01:02:55No.
01:02:58And I love you.
01:02:59I really, really do.
01:03:01And if that was a yes.
01:03:17Mike, do you take Emma to be your lawfully wedded wife, to have and to hold from this day forward,
01:03:25for better, for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and change.
01:03:33Do you cherish, forsaking all others, for all the days of your life?
01:03:42If so, say, I do.
01:04:08I will find you.
01:04:12For wedding day.
01:04:14Everything is, like, great.
01:04:15I can see my life being with you.
01:04:18I know Christine.
01:04:19I know all the parts of her, and she knows all the parts of me.
01:04:22It's a lot of pressure.
01:04:25How do you think your sister's going to take care of everything?
01:04:27This is a strange, like, meeting on the day of.
01:04:29Really?
01:04:30What are you all doing?
01:04:31This is like the calm before the storm.
01:04:33I'm ready.
01:04:33But, now is the time to decide if love...
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