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Is it possible to get too dressed up? In this episode of 'How to Behave,' host Barbie Ferreira attempts to learn the ins and outs of style.

This video was originally published on Vice in 2018 and is being repurposed by Refinery29.

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Transcript
00:13It's Barbie Ferreira, and I'm going to teach you how to be...
00:20Ooh, I'm screaming.
00:23I'm screaming.
00:25It's Barbie Ferreira, and I'm going to learn slash teach you how to behave, I guess.
00:34I like to think I have my own look, but not everyone gets it.
00:38In my career, people are always wanting me to have a more sophisticated street style,
00:43whatever that means.
00:44But I like a tank moment in flip-flops.
00:47Is that so bad?
00:48So I decided to find the most proper lady in the most proper field
00:53to see if she could help class up my style.
01:00We're here in Connecticut, where I'm going to meet Louisa,
01:03a professional dressage instructor.
01:05What is dressage, you ask?
01:08It's a super fussy equestrian sport that puts an emphasis on looks.
01:14I mean, look, even the freaking horse dresses up.
01:20Oh, look at that horsey!
01:24Oh!
01:24Oh, no!
01:27He just walked away from me.
01:29Dean.
01:33Wow!
01:35Oh, no!
01:36What's wrong?
01:37LOL.
01:38All the animals can tell I'm out of place here.
01:40Hi, I'm Barbie.
01:41Hi, I'm Louisa.
01:42Nice to meet you.
01:43Nice to meet you.
01:43Thank you so much for letting me play with these horses.
01:47Have you ever ridden before?
01:48No.
01:49Okay.
01:50First thing we're going to do, we're going to get you dressed.
01:52Ready to go?
01:53Yes, I am.
01:53As ready as I'll ever be.
01:54Let's go, let's go get ready.
02:01So I'm going to show you some of the items that we would use.
02:04For dressage, we want to look elegant because that's the beauty of our sport.
02:09The horses are basically ballerinas, so we want to fit in with them as much as we can.
02:14So do you want to try something on?
02:16I would love to.
02:16Okay, let's go.
02:17We have here some white breeches that you would wear your shirt, and then around your shirt, we wear a
02:27sock, and then a jacket.
02:32You look great.
02:34I feel very, very, very fancy.
02:36I think everyone will agree from the previous outfit to this outfit, I think we're looking pretty good.
02:41We're looking, like, fancy.
02:43Shady.
02:52When you look the part, you feel better.
02:55When your clothes fit properly, it helps you keep your form tidier.
02:59It's a whole picture.
03:00You know, nobody wants to see a slob show up.
03:04Before, when you were able to wear your top hat, you had really developed as a rider, so it was
03:11a little bit of a symbol.
03:12This is me.
03:14This is me.
03:15Very small hat.
03:19Ladies, I'm ready to ride.
03:20You would actually look really nice in a top hat.
03:23We're just, it's just a little small.
03:26You're the one.
03:28You're going to put your left stirrup in here.
03:30Now you still hold the other side of the saddle.
03:32That's it.
03:33And then slowly lift yourself up.
03:36There you go.
03:37All right.
03:38How was that?
03:39It's great.
03:41I'm just going to go with it.
03:43I'm going with it, everyone.
03:50I definitely admire Louisa's attention to detail, but that level of structured style is a bit too much for me.
03:58So we're here in Bushwick, and we're about to meet my good friend, Nicky Otto.
04:02Nicky!
04:04Yeah!
04:05He's a quintessential New York City club kid.
04:07He has an absolutely amazing aesthetic and an amazing eye to fashion.
04:11It's crazy.
04:12I personally don't, so we're going to find out.
04:21Come on in.
04:23So glad you're here.
04:24This is my little piece of Paradiso.
04:28So what's the plan for tonight?
04:30Where are you taking me?
04:31Well, we're going to go out to this party that I'm hosting.
04:33You'll know a ton of people that are there.
04:35All people who are definitely going to be dressed to the nine, so we've got to do a good look.
04:38I want to see what you brought.
04:40I don't have anything colorful.
04:42I'm really bad at shopping, so you need to help me with that.
04:44So this is my new pants, and I have this top.
04:47It definitely shows the titties, which I like.
04:49I like showing bobs.
04:50All right, seriously, Barbie, I can't believe you just came here with some beige shit.
04:54So I really think you should try some stuff in my closet.
04:58We should put you in this.
05:00At least try it on.
05:01I love this jacket.
05:02You should try that, too.
05:03That's cute.
05:04Here.
05:05Thanks.
05:05Oh, I have this booby top.
05:06Weigh this.
05:06It's so cute.
05:07Booby top?
05:08I love that.
05:09You know, maybe we could try that on you as well.
05:14We should really accessorize.
05:16This is cute.
05:16I think it'll fit some of your stuff.
05:18And I should get you some jewelry here.
05:20With it here, just put those there.
05:22Oh, yeah, glass.
05:23I can never over-accessorize, so I want to try everything on.
05:26You're a princess.
05:30So try some of this stuff on, and we'll see what works.
05:32Uh-huh.
05:43So how important do you think that confidence is in pulling off a look?
05:47If you love it, I think other people will love it a lot more than not.
05:51So confidence is probably, like, the last thing you need to throw on before you go out
05:55and look.
05:59You spend all this time and energy into creating your looks and expressing your creativity.
06:03Why?
06:04It's out of respect for this as an art form.
06:08And the people who have existed before us who made this a tradition in New York in the
06:13first place.
06:14It's all about queer expression and being out there in whatever way works for you.
06:23Talking to Nikki and Louisa, I learned it's not about what you wear, but how you wear it.
06:28Hold your head high, rock your look with confidence, and people will appreciate you for it.
06:33A little effort goes a long way.
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