00:00I didn't want to go out again with him and I told him that on the phone I said
00:03you know if you've lost my number for three weeks I actually thought he died.
00:08A man I was seeing ghosted me after four dates even though things seem to be going well.
00:13I heard that so many times. Not so well. Months later he reached back out apologized and asked
00:20to see me again. Is giving someone a second chance ever worth it after being ghosted? We
00:26believe in second chances. We just don't believe in third, fourth thing. Yeah right. This happened
00:30to me. You were ghosted? Not ghosted. They didn't know such a thing as ghosted but somebody didn't
00:35call me for a while and I found out the reason several weeks later. Wasn't it Poppy? Yes and I
00:41ended up being married for 62 years. He didn't think I was understood the play that we went to
00:47and he said oh my god intellectually she's never gonna match me and then when his mother and father
00:52didn't understand it either he figured I better give her a call. Yeah. I didn't want to go out
00:57again with him and I told him that on the phone. I said you know if you've lost my number
01:01for three
01:01weeks I actually thought he died. Yeah because you know that's way before ghosting was involved. Yeah
01:08and you always got a call back so this was like straight. Yeah I mean those days you know in
01:13the in
01:13the 50s and 60s if somebody didn't call you back like two days later you really figured that it wasn't
01:20going to happen. Right. 90% of the time they'll reach out pretty soon after within the week. That
01:26said I think there are outliers if they reach back out with no apology or like reference to why they
01:33disappeared for a few weeks and they're just like hi I want to go out again. I think I would.
01:37I agree.
01:38This is after four dates. Yeah after four dates. But it is months later. Well give them a second chance
01:43and if it ever happens again then write them on. Three strikes you're out. Modern problems. Classic solutions.
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