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90 Day Fiancé Season 12 Episode 1
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00:00:01USA!
00:00:02USA!
00:00:04Original U.S.
00:00:05Yes!
00:00:06Are you a redneck?
00:00:07Do I look like a redneck?
00:00:08Yeah.
00:00:09Two, one, go!
00:00:13Nervous? We're almost there.
00:00:14I'm excited to show you New York.
00:00:16I'm a little bit nervous, and I don't know why.
00:00:18New York's incredibly big, you know.
00:00:20It's so huge.
00:00:21This is real.
00:00:23Hey, Bibi.
00:00:24How are you?
00:00:24How are you?
00:00:25Handsome.
00:00:26My fiancé's name is Vito.
00:00:28And he's an Egyptian movie star.
00:00:31You want me to act something?
00:00:32Yes.
00:00:33Okay.
00:00:34You talking to me?
00:00:35You talking to me?
00:00:38Hey, Shay!
00:00:39Hey, ladies!
00:00:40I don't tell my fiancé Annabelle
00:00:42every single thing that goes on at the parties.
00:00:46I was in bed with you when you were with Annabelle.
00:00:53I want to.
00:00:56What the ?
00:00:57I'm giving Katie a lot of slack,
00:00:59and just being straight in my face.
00:01:01This is bull .
00:01:05Only God can do it.
00:01:06He's gonna bring my husband to the USA.
00:01:08There's still that stereotype of Nigerians' cameras,
00:01:12but God literally created this man for me.
00:01:16Thank you, Lord.
00:01:18So we are getting married tomorrow.
00:01:21Are we?
00:01:22I have a choice.
00:01:23I just want to go back to Brazil.
00:01:29At what point do you decide something's just not meant to be?
00:01:35Something like...
00:01:35I'm worried I'll push them away by my actions.
00:01:40Since we got to the United States,
00:01:42everything in our relationship has changed.
00:01:44I don't know what that means.
00:01:44It means that I'm not ready to give you an answer,
00:01:47and I still need time.
00:01:49I just don't know who I am right now.
00:01:50I just want to just be honest with me.
00:01:54Jesus Christ.
00:02:06So Marissa's on her way right now.
00:02:07Okay, great.
00:02:07Her VIP appointment's good.
00:02:09Champagne, robe, charcuterie board.
00:02:11Everything is all set.
00:02:12You're the best.
00:02:15Yeah, so I'll be there in about 10 minutes.
00:02:19Ladies, how's it going?
00:02:21Just let her know we went ahead
00:02:22and booked some ball gowns and A-lines
00:02:23for the brides that she'll be working with later.
00:02:25Awesome.
00:02:25Noted.
00:02:26Thank you guys so much.
00:02:34Hey Shay, good morning.
00:02:35Good morning, Marissa.
00:02:38I'm Marissa.
00:02:39I'm 45 years old,
00:02:40and I currently work as the Chief Operating Officer
00:02:42and Executive Vice President at Kleinfeld.
00:02:45Hello.
00:02:45How are you doing this morning?
00:02:47Good, thank you. How are you?
00:02:48Good, good.
00:02:48I can play.
00:02:49Tell me what's going on.
00:02:49All right, so today, we have a kind of busy day.
00:02:52We have 41 appointments.
00:02:53We have four Lux appointments right now,
00:02:55and then starting at 2 o'clock,
00:02:56we have three Platinums.
00:02:58All right.
00:02:59Kleinfeld Bridal is an iconic wedding salon
00:03:02here in New York City.
00:03:03We service almost 20,000 brides per year,
00:03:06and everybody makes it on their bucket list
00:03:08if they're a bride to come shop us.
00:03:10But you probably know us best
00:03:11because it's where they shoot the famous show
00:03:13Say Yes to the Dress.
00:03:14Just a reminder, your meeting is starting right now,
00:03:16so if you want to go and hop in that,
00:03:17I can get you back.
00:03:18Perfect.
00:03:18Okay, I'll talk to you later.
00:03:19Thanks.
00:03:21I never get tired of hearing brides say yes.
00:03:24Is this possibly the one?
00:03:25This is the one.
00:03:28I'll be in, like, another room,
00:03:29and, like, the bride won't even see me,
00:03:31and I'll hear somebody, like, you know,
00:03:32have their yes moments,
00:03:33and I'll be like, you know, like,
00:03:35and they don't even see me or hear me,
00:03:36but it's just like a natural, like,
00:03:37yay! They're saying yes.
00:03:40Congratulations.
00:03:41Enjoy your moment.
00:03:41We're going to get you some champagne.
00:03:43All right.
00:03:45But even though I work in bridal,
00:03:46my love life isn't a fairy tale.
00:03:49I was married for six years before getting divorced,
00:03:52and divorce left me as a single mom of two boys
00:03:54in a very high-powered career with a lot of stress,
00:03:58so it was really hard to find love in my life.
00:04:01That was until I took a girl's trip to the Dominican Republic,
00:04:05and I met Edward.
00:04:09I was probably initially attracted to his looks.
00:04:16Edward has great lips.
00:04:19He has a great butt.
00:04:21He was working in entertainment at a hotel
00:04:23that I was staying at on a girl's trip,
00:04:26and I just thought he was so cute and so friendly.
00:04:31He made me feel like a beautiful woman again.
00:04:35And it's something that I hadn't felt in a really long time.
00:04:38So when somebody ignites that feeling inside of you again,
00:04:42you really don't forget about them.
00:04:43So we had an instant connection,
00:04:44but I didn't see it going anywhere.
00:04:46An executive from New York meets a hotel entertainment worker.
00:04:50It just didn't seem like a likely match for us.
00:04:56What, are we having a hallway meeting in here?
00:04:57Always.
00:04:58Hallway meeting?
00:04:58Yeah, I know.
00:04:59Can I be a part of it?
00:05:00Yeah.
00:05:01I have a question.
00:05:03Yes?
00:05:03Where is Mr. Edward?
00:05:05When is he coming?
00:05:06Oh, he's coming.
00:05:06Yeah?
00:05:07All this time.
00:05:08He's coming on Sunday.
00:05:10Sunday?
00:05:11Yeah.
00:05:11Oh.
00:05:11I know.
00:05:13It was about three years in between when we first met
00:05:15to when we reconnected.
00:05:19I was taking a trip to Punta Cana with my girlfriends.
00:05:23So I texted him.
00:05:25I was like, oh my God, I lost your number.
00:05:28I couldn't contact you.
00:05:29I didn't know your last name.
00:05:30I've tried every, like, social media outlet possible.
00:05:32And he was like, I can't believe that you actually texted me just now.
00:05:35Wow.
00:05:37Ever since that date, we were pretty much in a solid relationship.
00:05:40It happened really quick.
00:05:42Edward and I were long distance for two years,
00:05:44and I visited him in DR every six to eight weeks.
00:05:47But it made it really hard to balance being a single mom of two boys
00:05:51and managing a high-stress career.
00:05:53So, eventually, we made it official.
00:05:56Aw.
00:05:59Aw, that's so sweet.
00:06:00He said, you know, do you want me to get on one knee?
00:06:03And it's like, I don't really want to have to tell you to get on one knee.
00:06:06So I was like, don't worry about it.
00:06:14Working in bridal makes you a little numb to the whole bride experience.
00:06:18And then a lot of people at work said, are you crazy?
00:06:21Like, you are just as much a bride as every other person that comes in here.
00:06:25And you need to celebrate yourself.
00:06:27I feel like a doll.
00:06:28You look like a doll.
00:06:29Perfect.
00:06:30And once I got used to that idea that, like, yeah, I am getting married.
00:06:34This is a special time in my life.
00:06:35I kind of embrace being a bride.
00:06:38Marissa, are you saying yes to the bride?
00:06:41Yes!
00:06:42Woo!
00:06:46Oh, I was looking for you guys.
00:06:50Dorothy, Caitlin.
00:06:50Hi.
00:06:51How did it go?
00:06:52Good.
00:06:52We love them.
00:06:54When am I going to see you again?
00:06:56I don't know.
00:06:58Wait, so he's coming this weekend?
00:07:00Yeah.
00:07:00Is he freaking out?
00:07:01I don't know if he's freaking out or if I'm more freaking out.
00:07:04I mean, like, I have to teach him everything.
00:07:06This person on a plane.
00:07:07I know.
00:07:07Oh, my God.
00:07:08He got his body ready.
00:07:10Did I tell you about that?
00:07:11No.
00:07:12He's going to kill me for telling you.
00:07:13So he decided that before he came to the United States, he wanted to get an adult circumcision.
00:07:20Oh, my God.
00:07:23Edward, since the moment I met him, has always been interested in getting his penis circumcised.
00:07:29You had to have said something.
00:07:31I didn't.
00:07:32When you saw it, did you go, ugh?
00:07:34No, I didn't.
00:07:35No.
00:07:35I didn't.
00:07:36I didn't.
00:07:38Maybe subconsciously, he thought that he was, it was more culturally appropriate here
00:07:42in the United States.
00:07:43Like, what if he goes into a locker room with some men after the gym?
00:07:46And, you know, who knows why he does the things that he does.
00:07:49But let's just say that I'm happy that he did it.
00:07:53And then he gets the surgery.
00:07:56Everything was fine.
00:07:56He was in a little bit of pain.
00:07:57A couple days later, when he wakes up in the morning, he, they expand a little.
00:08:03And his stitches fell out.
00:08:06So he ripped open his penis.
00:08:07He ripped open his incision.
00:08:09Oh, my God.
00:08:10So he had to, like, go back to the doctor, get re-stitched.
00:08:13Is it hurt?
00:08:14He's going to find out this weekend.
00:08:16I'm going to get a text on Monday morning and tell him to say, how was it?
00:08:19How was it?
00:08:20I know.
00:08:20Which was it?
00:08:21Was it better this way or that way?
00:08:24Was there a concern that might look different or, like, you know, cut the wrong piece or
00:08:30something like that?
00:08:30Yeah, a little bit.
00:08:31But the doctor gave him the full green light to let his penis work as normal.
00:08:36So we're going to test that out when he gets here.
00:08:39At first, I was like, we're going to get married as soon as you get to the United States.
00:08:42But now, like, reality is setting in.
00:08:45And I'm like, I really think I need to take the full 90 days.
00:08:49So when Marissa first told me about Edward, I was kind of leery.
00:08:52I'm born and bred in Brooklyn, New York.
00:08:54And, you know, I know scammers all my life.
00:08:56Believe me.
00:08:57He really got the golden ticket.
00:08:58Marissa is a very successful business woman.
00:09:01She has two beautiful kids.
00:09:03She has a home in Pennsylvania, an apartment in New York City.
00:09:06I think they're living a fairy tale right now.
00:09:08And I think when reality hits, who knows?
00:09:11Sometimes I feel like I have real life problems.
00:09:13Like, real life.
00:09:14Yes, you do.
00:09:15I have job problems.
00:09:16I have kid problems.
00:09:17And, like, you know, he tells me about his problems.
00:09:19And I'm like, that's not a problem.
00:09:21Like, oh, a guest was complaining about something.
00:09:23And I don't want to feel like my life is so much more important than his.
00:09:27No, no, no.
00:09:27But in a way, like, I have a lot more at stake here.
00:09:32There's a saying that goes, I don't want you because I need you.
00:09:37I need you because I want you.
00:09:39Do I need to have a man in my life to carry on?
00:09:43No.
00:09:44Do I need a man in my life to give me financial support?
00:09:46No.
00:09:48And if I ultimately feel like the relationship is bringing me more stress or unhappiness,
00:09:55then I'm going to have to make a hard decision that I probably can't move forward with the marriage.
00:10:00You know Rome wasn't built in a day.
00:10:02Yeah, I know, I know.
00:10:03Well, can't it be built in, like, 90 days?
00:10:05Oh, my gosh!
00:10:18Hello.
00:10:19Hello.
00:10:26To the marina, please.
00:10:27Okay.
00:10:32Did I put it in here?
00:10:33Yeah, that'd be cool.
00:10:35My name's Mallory, I'm 29 years old, and I live in Athens, Alabama.
00:10:39And how would you describe yourself?
00:10:42Ugh, I don't know.
00:10:43I don't like talking about myself.
00:10:45Basic white bitch.
00:10:48And if you can't tell already, I'm a long way from home.
00:11:02How are you?
00:11:03Good.
00:11:04Um, I've been traveling for, I think, over 20 hours.
00:11:08I had some coffee on the plane.
00:11:10You know?
00:11:11Extra double shot, espresso type .
00:11:14So, yeah.
00:11:15I'm ready to rock and roll.
00:11:18Are you from America?
00:11:20Yes, I am, yes.
00:11:22Which country?
00:11:22I live in Alabama.
00:11:24Oh.
00:11:26My hometown of Athens, Alabama is definitely your typical southern town, which is a little bit redneck.
00:11:32Well, kind of a lot of redneck.
00:11:34My friends and I love to get into some crazy things for fun.
00:11:43Are you?
00:11:47Are you?
00:11:50Yeah.
00:11:51It involves a lot of drinking.
00:11:54Go get him, girl right there.
00:11:55Are you hungry?
00:11:58What?
00:12:03Why'd you come here?
00:12:04My fiance is Turkish.
00:12:05Uh, he lives here with some of his family.
00:12:07and Rosh gets to come back with me to America this time around.
00:12:14Very excited.
00:12:15Yeah, that's good.
00:12:16Rosh is my fiancé.
00:12:18I call him Rosh because I cannot say his name correctly.
00:12:23He's Rosh.
00:12:25And he is from Marmaris, Turkey.
00:12:30Rosh is definitely on a scale of 1 to 10.
00:12:32He's at 10.
00:12:33I would place him higher than that, honestly.
00:12:35Yeah, my fiancé's hot as ****.
00:12:37Let's be real.
00:12:39And I've come here to Turkey to bring my baby back to America
00:12:43because I'm not taking any chances
00:12:45with him having a hard time getting into America.
00:12:49Rosh.
00:13:03My name is Rashid.
00:13:05I am 29 years old.
00:13:07I am from Marmaris, Turkey.
00:13:09I am captain.
00:13:15Charter Boat'un kaptanı olarak sorumluluklar çok büyük.
00:13:20Tekneyi kullanmak, gelen turistleri aksiyon ve eğlenceliği de çok beğendim.
00:13:34Ne güzel yerde durdu.
00:13:35Tam cennet gibi.
00:13:37Evet efendim, burası cennet adası olarak geçiyor.
00:13:41Marmaris'in güzel yerlerinden birisi.
00:13:43Yani...
00:13:44Evet, çok güzel.
00:13:47Marmaris'in cennet gibi yeri terk edeceğim.
00:13:50Yani terk edip Amerika'ya gideceğim.
00:13:52Bu yüzden çok üzgünüm.
00:13:53But Malorie Altay'dır görmüyorum.
00:13:56Ve çok heyecanlıyım görmek için.
00:13:59She is, for me, very sexy.
00:14:01I love her heart, first.
00:14:04And second, I don't like skin.
00:14:07And, uh...
00:14:09You don't like skinny?
00:14:10I don't like skinny.
00:14:13She is, for me, very good.
00:14:15Very perfect.
00:14:17Yeah, I can say this.
00:14:20When did you see your fiancée last time?
00:14:23It's been six months.
00:14:25Six months.
00:14:26Six months since we've seen each other.
00:14:27Do you want to hug?
00:14:28Yes, yes.
00:14:29Very much.
00:14:32Almost two years ago, I went to Greece for a girl's summer trip.
00:14:37And we had a wild time, and that's how I ended up meeting Rosh.
00:14:42One day, I'm on the bath.
00:14:45I take my phone.
00:14:46And I saw Malorie like, who is this?
00:14:50I red side touch.
00:14:52What is this?
00:14:54Spike.
00:14:54I did spike.
00:14:56And after half hour, she spiked me and we match.
00:15:01Some dude that I just hung out with catch my drift.
00:15:05Afterwards, he french braided my hand.
00:15:07I was too blind to see.
00:15:10But I definitely planned on Rosh just being a one-night stand, and that I would go back
00:15:16to America, and I would never hear from him again.
00:15:18And what happened?
00:15:19I guess Rosh just fell in love with me the minute he laid his eyes on me.
00:15:24Baby, I'm gonna go Rosh.
00:15:28Will you say it?
00:15:30Oh, hey.
00:15:34What?
00:15:36Will you?
00:15:37Yeah.
00:15:38You're very good.
00:15:38Good.
00:15:41She said yes.
00:15:43I start to cry, and she hugged me.
00:15:46And don't cry because I love you so much.
00:15:51I love you so much, Malorie.
00:16:03There are a lot of what ifs running through my mind right now.
00:16:07You know, what if he hates America?
00:16:11What if he hates Alabama?
00:16:12What if he has a horrible time trying to find a job?
00:16:17So I'm scared, but I'm really happy.
00:16:21You know, because this is the beginning of us never being apart ever again.
00:16:26And we're closing that chapter of long distance in our relationship, which is something that
00:16:30I think is so beautiful.
00:16:55I want you to continue to pray for me because I know he's going to bring my husband to the
00:16:58U.S.A.
00:16:59Don't mess us up.
00:17:00At the age of 12, I finally realized that God was speaking to me directly.
00:17:06He told me I will have a marriage.
00:17:09I was asking God, where's my husband?
00:17:11God said, Maca, Nigeria.
00:17:14Every prophetic word you must spoke of my life is coming to pay.
00:17:18Thank you, Lord.
00:17:21James!
00:17:22That's a great party, Wes.
00:17:24Oh, yeah.
00:17:25If you live in Baruca, we probably met up, had a beer.
00:17:28You're always going to catch me having some fun.
00:17:31So you're saying you wouldn't give up all the partying for Annabelle?
00:17:34Do you think I would?
00:17:36No, I don't.
00:17:37I'm not.
00:17:38I'm not gonna.
00:17:40Jesus, take me to the higher ground.
00:17:44You lift me up and I am heaven.
00:17:50It's something she got in her spirit for God to do and the devil tell her it ain't gonna happen.
00:17:54But the Lord says he wants you to embrace her.
00:17:56Thank you, Lord.
00:17:57Because that anointing of the breaking.
00:17:59Thank you, Lord.
00:17:59That's what I need you for.
00:18:00That anointing of the breaking.
00:18:02So what broke up you?
00:18:22I'm Aisha Montgomery.
00:18:23I'm 38 years old and I'm from Alabaster, Alabama.
00:18:26Thank Jesus' name you pray.
00:18:28Thank you, Lord.
00:18:29I am Pentecostal.
00:18:31You know, you have other churches where you're gonna sing hymns or there's more to do, you know.
00:18:36But in my church, we get down.
00:18:39You got all that money and you still man.
00:18:43You got the mansion and you still ain't happy.
00:18:46But my church is in the Lord.
00:18:49Thank you, God.
00:18:51As a Pentecostal, we believe the entire Bible.
00:18:54So we still believe people do miracles and God gives everybody a gift.
00:18:58And God has given me multiple gifts.
00:19:02Like, I feel like I'm a little blessed.
00:19:05Glory!
00:19:07At the age of 12, I was just in a store.
00:19:11And I remember God stopping me and he said, listen.
00:19:16So I'm in the middle of the store and I'm just listening to the music.
00:19:19And then the Holy Spirit said, this will be the next song that comes on.
00:19:24So I'm waiting for the next song to come.
00:19:26And then it came on.
00:19:27And it was what God told me.
00:19:32Literally, I was in the middle of that store, shocked, listening to this Instinct song.
00:19:37I could not believe it.
00:19:37I knew this song before this song came on.
00:19:40And a voice told me.
00:19:42And it wasn't like an audible voice.
00:19:43It was like a knowing.
00:19:46And then my pastor, he confirmed.
00:19:49He's like, you know, you have a prophetic gift.
00:19:52I finally realized that God was speaking to me directly.
00:19:55It was like my aha moment.
00:19:57Like, it made sense.
00:20:01God's going to fill you up for your journey.
00:20:02But he told me the reader didn't take you out because her prayer brought you out.
00:20:06He came out.
00:20:13Now, when it comes to talking in time, it's a heavenly language.
00:20:16So it's a language that I'm speaking that God understands, but the devil doesn't.
00:20:22It's almost like if you're going to war, like, you might write stuff in a different code.
00:20:27Thank you, Lord.
00:20:29Y'all got to stop because we got to go on a testimony series.
00:20:33Praise the Lord, everybody.
00:20:35Praise the Lord.
00:20:35Praise the Lord, everybody.
00:20:38Let me tell you, Apostle.
00:20:39Uh-huh.
00:20:40I'm going to try not to cry.
00:20:41Oh, my God.
00:20:42Every prophetic word you spoke of my life is coming to pay.
00:20:46Thank you, Lord.
00:20:47Hallelujah.
00:20:48Because I know I used to worry.
00:20:50It's one petition I put before God.
00:20:54And it was very special to me.
00:20:55And I've been waiting ever since I was 16 for God to answer this prayer.
00:21:00Lord, like, when are you going to bring my husband?
00:21:02And it was just not coming.
00:21:04It just seemed like it just was not coming.
00:21:06And it just finally happened.
00:21:07He told me I will have a marriage.
00:21:12December 2023, a notification came across my screen.
00:21:14It's like, here comes the bride.
00:21:16And I was just like, okay, Lord, I got you.
00:21:20February, God said, get ready.
00:21:25March, I was asking God.
00:21:27I was like, okay, Lord, where's my husband?
00:21:30He said he's not close.
00:21:33So I knew I had to do something different.
00:21:36I had to widen my search abroad, maybe.
00:21:39And within two weeks, we matched with each other.
00:21:41Not that cute.
00:21:45Maxwell is my fiance.
00:21:46He's 28 years old.
00:21:48And he's from Akka, Nigeria.
00:21:50Hey, sweetie.
00:21:50How are you doing?
00:21:52You know you love my dimples.
00:21:53So I just want to show it to you.
00:21:57When I saw him on the app, he was cute.
00:22:01He has the cutest little nose.
00:22:02Like, I love his nose the most.
00:22:05And from the jump, Maxwell was speaking the language of Asha.
00:22:10He is the male version of me.
00:22:12Like, we both love business.
00:22:14We both love the Lord.
00:22:15We're both family-oriented.
00:22:18It's like God literally created this man for me.
00:22:22I couldn't have dreamed it even better.
00:22:24But I feel like if somebody came to me literally
00:22:28and said that they were dating somebody from Nigeria,
00:22:32me, Asha, would say, you're probably getting scammed.
00:22:36So I knew that I had to meet him one-on-one
00:22:39and see him face-to-face to prove that this is legitimate.
00:22:46My friend and I flew to Nigeria.
00:22:48She was actually going to meet Maxwell's friend, Silas.
00:22:51Like, Silas was always over Maxwell's house.
00:22:55So he's like, um, will you hook me up with one of your friends?
00:22:59And I was like, yeah, I'll hook you up.
00:23:00And since everything was going so well for me and Maxwell,
00:23:04we decided we wanted to introduce our two best friends to each other.
00:23:07And so, like, when I got there, to be honest,
00:23:09I feel like everything happened the way it's supposed to have happened
00:23:12and it could have been better.
00:23:14It was the time of our lives.
00:23:16And on the third night while we were in Lagos,
00:23:19all of a sudden, Maxwell's best friend, Silas, proposed to my friend.
00:23:22You know what?
00:23:23I thought they were crazy.
00:23:25I really did.
00:23:26And so I'm sure Maxwell was like,
00:23:28well, I'm going to propose to Asha tomorrow.
00:23:31And so we were at this restaurant.
00:23:34Look at your chicken ass.
00:23:35Hey, Kate.
00:23:36My plate was covered up.
00:23:37His plate was covered up.
00:23:38So I was like, maybe they're just giving the fool hot.
00:23:40And then as soon as, like, he lifted the plate,
00:23:42he was like, will you marry me?
00:23:44Oh, baby.
00:23:47I feel like there's still that stereotype of Nigerians being scammers.
00:23:57But when I tell you every prophecy and every word lined up,
00:24:01Maxwell is the man I have been waiting for.
00:24:06I just want y'all to pray for me
00:24:08because my fiance, he goes for his interview
00:24:10to get his visa to come to the USA.
00:24:14That's prophetic.
00:24:16So I want y'all to continue to pray for me
00:24:18because there's one song in my spirit
00:24:20because I know he's going to bring my husband to the USA.
00:24:23You got that beat.
00:24:24Don't mess us up.
00:24:25Don't mess us up.
00:24:27Don't mess us up.
00:24:30Have mercy on me, yeah,
00:24:32and I'll be good, yeah.
00:24:34Give me my love.
00:24:39Going to death everyone, yeah.
00:24:42You're going to set them free, yeah.
00:24:45Go to the kingdom of Jesus.
00:24:48So now, Maxwell and Silas, they have their interviews on the same day, so they're planning to come to the
00:24:54U.S. together.
00:24:55But, you know, me and my best friend dating two best friends and getting engaged at the same time,
00:25:01people in my circle definitely think Maxwell is a scammer.
00:25:04But I know for a fact that Maxwell was brought to me by God.
00:25:07I have no doubt in my mind.
00:25:09And if you've got God on your side, what could go wrong?
00:25:14Tell everybody!
00:25:31I walk in like, how do you do?
00:25:33I need a little liquor with me just to set the mood.
00:25:35And I don't mean to be rude or even act a fool.
00:25:38I just do a little better with an attitude.
00:25:40So...
00:25:40Shay!
00:25:41That's a great party, Les.
00:25:43Oh, yeah.
00:25:43Hey, Shay!
00:25:44Hey, ladies.
00:25:45Time for some beer and barbecue.
00:25:50I'm Shay.
00:25:52I'm 54 years young.
00:25:53I'm from Quilt City, USA, Paducah, Kentucky.
00:25:57Sup?
00:25:57I'm a realtor.
00:25:58I've also got my Prince Blocks Schneer license.
00:26:01700 now, 899999.
00:26:02I've got nine.
00:26:03I've got 1,000 back here.
00:26:05There's about 11, 11, 11, 12, 12, 12, 12, 13.
00:26:08Boom.
00:26:08So it's sold.
00:26:10You can bring your friends.
00:26:12Hey, what's up?
00:26:13How you doing, buddy?
00:26:15How you doing?
00:26:17We probably met up, had a beer.
00:26:19Hey, right?
00:26:20How are you?
00:26:21Good.
00:26:22How are you?
00:26:22It's always 5 o'clock somewhere, so you're always going to catch me having some fun.
00:26:30Yes!
00:26:32Yes!
00:26:32Boy!
00:26:33I think women are just drawn to him.
00:26:38She's a little flirty at times with some girls.
00:26:42Maybe a kiss on the cheek.
00:26:44Hugs, you know, those kinds of things.
00:26:48I mean, if he were single, I might consider dating him.
00:26:53It ain't a cookout unless we get it on us.
00:26:58How is it?
00:27:00Man, you're happy.
00:27:02I bet Annabelle in there ever had barbecue like this before.
00:27:06Annabelle's my fiancée.
00:27:10She's 54 years old, and she lives in L.O. City, Philippines.
00:27:14And she arrives in America in just a few days.
00:27:17And I cannot wait.
00:27:18Absolutely cannot wait.
00:27:19I'm counting the minutes.
00:27:20I'm gonna follow wherever you go.
00:27:22We met through it.
00:27:24My friend Greg, he's here six months, and he spends six months a year in the Philippines
00:27:29with his wife.
00:27:30His wife and Annabelle are like best friends, and they just decided that we would be a good
00:27:35match.
00:27:36And he introduced us on a video call.
00:27:39I turn around, and I've got a Filipino girl in my face.
00:27:42And say hi, you know, and I say hi, and Annabelle's just kind of looking at me like,
00:27:47and I'm like, so you don't understand me?
00:27:50And she's like, hmm.
00:27:52And then I'm like, Greg, this girl doesn't even speak English.
00:27:55And she's like, just kidding.
00:27:57Just kidding.
00:28:01After that call, we started talking every day.
00:28:04They can't wait to hug you and kiss you.
00:28:08And I think it was, you know, a godsend thing.
00:28:13It wasn't anything I was looking for.
00:28:15But she's such a sweet, caring person that God knew I needed that.
00:28:20And it didn't matter if she was across the street or across the world.
00:28:23And it just so happened.
00:28:24She's across the world.
00:28:26Miss you, baby.
00:28:27Love you.
00:28:27Good night.
00:28:30When is Annabelle coming?
00:28:32Just a few days.
00:28:33She'll be here soon.
00:28:33A few days?
00:28:34I can't wait.
00:28:34Yeah, yeah.
00:28:36About 10 or 11 months after our daily talks, I finally decided I'm going to the Philippines.
00:28:46The first night where, you know, I'm bored.
00:28:48It's been a long trip.
00:28:49And she goes, do you feel like getting some to eat?
00:28:51Are you hungry?
00:28:52And I'm like, let me get a shower.
00:28:54And then, you know, I'll get dressed.
00:28:55Let's go get some dinner.
00:28:57So I get in the shower.
00:28:58And I turn around.
00:28:59And Annabelle's right there at the shower.
00:29:01I'm like, can I help you?
00:29:04Oh, I was just going to come in and scrub your body.
00:29:06I'm like, what?
00:29:09So she takes her clothes off and climbs right in the shower with me and, like, give me the soap.
00:29:15She's scrubbing every inch of me.
00:29:17She's going into crevices I didn't even know I had.
00:29:21So after that, she trimmed my toenails.
00:29:24And I've still got to show her that I keep my toenails clean now.
00:29:28I mean, it's just crazy.
00:29:30But, yeah, Annabelle, I'm keeping them trimmed until you get here.
00:29:40That's pretty well sealed the deal.
00:29:42I proposed to her, like, a couple days later.
00:29:45I guess it's easy to get comfortable with somebody after they scrubbed your butt cheeks.
00:29:52Where's the beer card at, Greg?
00:29:54I don't know.
00:29:55We're about to have to find it.
00:29:57I just think Annabelle's going to calm him down a bunch when she gets here.
00:30:01Calm me down?
00:30:02You know, she always tells me, like, drink moderately.
00:30:05And how many beers you had?
00:30:06And I'm like, I usually tell her about a third.
00:30:08You know, if it's been a dozen.
00:30:10Oh, it's like three or four, you know.
00:30:11She said it was over when she gets here, but I think she does it more just to kind of
00:30:16keep me honest to say, like, don't get too wild.
00:30:19But she told you no more?
00:30:21Over the years, like, about every time I'm at a party or the bar, hey, oh, Shay, we're not doing
00:30:28that.
00:30:29Okay, Annabelle, we'll see.
00:30:30Call you when I get home.
00:30:32When we're partying, I mean, sometimes it gets a little bit wild and things happen that, you know, may be
00:30:38a little out of line in some people's books.
00:30:40But, you know, kind of like Vegas, what happens at the lake stays at the lake.
00:30:44So why is everybody going to know everything?
00:30:46When she calls, it's like, who's that with you?
00:30:49How many people's with you?
00:30:51You know, I got to pan the camera.
00:30:53And I think she worries about me.
00:30:54That's why she gives me a little bit of the issue with, hey, I don't want you doing it as
00:30:59much.
00:30:59So you're saying you wouldn't give up all the partying in the lake and all of that for Annabelle?
00:31:06If it came down to it.
00:31:07Do you think I would?
00:31:09No, I don't.
00:31:13Obviously, I don't tell Annabelle every single thing that goes on at the parties.
00:31:17There's been things that I didn't mention to Annabelle since we've been together, since we've met.
00:31:22It's just things I don't feel like, you know, why should I bring that up and just start something?
00:31:28But people in Baduka, they like to gossip.
00:31:30I mean, you hear about it.
00:31:31I see it.
00:31:32You've got the Facebookers.
00:31:34A lot of them like to talk.
00:31:36And she finds out from someone else, you know, it would just be a big mess.
00:31:40She said, are you going to give it up?
00:31:42No, I'm not.
00:31:43I'm not going to.
00:31:44Either she's in or she's out?
00:31:46Yeah, she's in or out.
00:31:49It'll all work out, but no, I'm not going to give her it up.
00:32:00I've been traveling around the world for the past three years, living a carefree nomadic lifestyle.
00:32:06I was a little bit crazy the past two months.
00:32:09I, like, kissed people while drunk again.
00:32:12Did you tell Josh about this?
00:32:31It's just five minutes until we land, and I feel like taste of the sea.
00:32:37Showed me that you want me.
00:32:41Touched my mouth.
00:32:44I'm Katie.
00:32:45I'm 26, and I'm from Portland, Oregon.
00:32:49I'm back in America, and I'm trying to find my bag.
00:32:54Miss the carpet.
00:32:55It's classic.
00:32:57It feels like it's been so long.
00:32:59Well, it kind of has been so long.
00:33:01I've been traveling around the world for the past three years, living a carefree nomadic lifestyle.
00:33:08I definitely had a hope, hey, um, don't tell my grandma.
00:33:13No.
00:33:15Got it.
00:33:17But now I'm back in my hometown of Portland, and I'm going to be settling down.
00:33:22So in love with procrastination.
00:33:25Lacking guests don't know direction.
00:33:27Try so hard to find a distraction.
00:33:30Look around now.
00:33:31Look around now.
00:33:32Frozen by indecision.
00:33:35Lacking hits but no intention.
00:33:37Look around now.
00:33:38Look around now.
00:33:41Hello.
00:33:43Hey.
00:33:43Hey.
00:33:44It's been so long.
00:33:46Hey.
00:33:49What really drove me to travel the last few years is I'm a really impulsive person, and
00:33:54I get a bit bored with routine.
00:33:59For example, my friend told me about this program where you could pet sit around the world in
00:34:03exchange for free rent, and then I signed up the next day, and I was like, okay, this
00:34:07is what I'm doing.
00:34:07Win my lease ends in a few months.
00:34:09Sorry.
00:34:10My boob got really itchy one sec.
00:34:13So when's Josh coming?
00:34:14Oh, he's coming tomorrow.
00:34:16And then, like, what do you guys just, like, plans when he, like, comes in?
00:34:19Actually, it's kind of a secret.
00:34:21So you can't tell Josh.
00:34:23Josh is my fiancé, and he is British.
00:34:30Stereotypical British man.
00:34:31He's a bit reserved.
00:34:33But what I love about Josh is that, like, I feel like he doesn't judge at all, because
00:34:38I have OCD, and he really understands, like, my quirks and, like, my personality traits.
00:34:44Tell me the whole story of how you first met him.
00:34:46Really?
00:34:46Are you sure?
00:34:47You want to hear that?
00:34:48Yeah.
00:34:48Okay.
00:34:49Oh, okay.
00:34:51So I was pet setting in the UK, and occasionally I would swipe on Tinder, and the first person
00:34:58who responded was this guy named Dave, and he said, I'm hanging out with some friends.
00:35:04Want to join us?
00:35:04And that was perfect for me.
00:35:07Me and Dave, like, went on a little date.
00:35:08We were taking tequila shots.
00:35:10We were hitting it off.
00:35:11We were making out.
00:35:12I had, like, met some of his friends that night, including Josh.
00:35:16But then later on in the night, Dave got kicked out.
00:35:18I called Josh's other friend hot.
00:35:21I made out with his other friend.
00:35:23I tried to make out with his best friend, but he had a girlfriend.
00:35:26And then I asked Josh to make out, and he said, no, you just made out with at least two
00:35:31of my friends.
00:35:32Um, no.
00:35:33I have this video of me being really drunk in the bathroom.
00:35:36There's this other cute guy with long hair.
00:35:40I forgot his name.
00:35:43But I want him.
00:35:45Our clothes, there was this guy being creepy outside, and I was like, oh, can you walk me
00:35:49home?
00:35:50So Josh said, yeah, I'll walk you home.
00:35:51And then I remember we just, like, made out really, like, passionately on a bench.
00:35:57And then he said he had to go pee, and I was like, okay.
00:36:00So then I just sprinted home.
00:36:01And I was kind of embarrassed because I had just, like, left him peeing in a bush.
00:36:05And that's how I met my fiancé.
00:36:08Yay!
00:36:09Can you have a drink?
00:36:10Yes!
00:36:11Drink!
00:36:11Woo!
00:36:13I was, like, kind of lonely because I was solo traveling.
00:36:15And I said, hey, if you're free this one random weekend, you can join me for a pet sit
00:36:20in Milan.
00:36:20And then he said, okay.
00:36:23I was just like, wow, he'll go to Milan for me?
00:36:26Wow.
00:36:28We had a really great time in Milan.
00:36:30We had sex a bunch.
00:36:33I learned he was allergic to nuts, and I shouldn't kiss him if I have nuts in my mouth.
00:36:37Not nuts in my mouth.
00:36:43He's, like, very polite, very funny, more reserved.
00:36:47Like, he wouldn't talk about anal on the subway.
00:36:49That would make him really uncomfortable.
00:36:51Would you talk about anal on the subway?
00:36:53I would definitely talk about anal on the subway.
00:36:57But, yeah, I just really love him.
00:37:00Cheers, everyone!
00:37:01Cheers!
00:37:02It's really nice to see you guys.
00:37:05He's back!
00:37:06He's back!
00:37:07How do we do this?
00:37:10Strong shots.
00:37:12Annabelle and Charles.
00:37:15How was the trip back?
00:37:16It was long.
00:37:17Um, so I went from London to Mexico for my friend's wedding.
00:37:20It was really lovely, but...
00:37:22Oh, nice.
00:37:22Partied a little too hard.
00:37:24Did you go into the wedding, like, make you feel excited or, like, nervous for your own wedding?
00:37:28Or was it...
00:37:28Yeah, no, it was definitely...
00:37:29I definitely, like, teared up.
00:37:31I started, like, thinking about, like, my vows when they were doing their vows.
00:37:34Oh.
00:37:35I wasn't really thinking about marriage, but Josh proposed to me, uh, at sunset on the coast in Turkey.
00:37:43How long is the time around?
00:37:45I'm sorry.
00:37:46He did the classic proposal thing where you pretend you're taking a picture, but you're actually taking a video.
00:37:52I wondered if you would marry me.
00:37:54I didn't know this was coming, and I would have been cuter.
00:37:59Yes.
00:38:00I love you.
00:38:01I love you.
00:38:04Josh is one of the few people in my life that truly gets me, and I'm super excited to marry
00:38:09him.
00:38:09But I'm also worried my OCD causes me to make some pretty bad decisions, and I'm afraid it could end
00:38:15our relationship.
00:38:17How's it going?
00:38:17It's going good.
00:38:20How stressed do you feel, like, on a scale of 1 to 10?
00:38:23Oh, maybe, like, a 9.
00:38:27That's really high.
00:38:28I feel like I was a little bit crazy the past two months.
00:38:32I, like, kissed people while drunk again.
00:38:36It was bad.
00:38:38Did you tell Josh about this?
00:38:40I apologized 20 million times.
00:38:43He was like, this is not good.
00:38:45Why did you do that?
00:38:47I have intrusive thoughts as part of my OCD.
00:38:50When I get drunk, I really want to make out with everyone I know, especially when I'm in a happy
00:38:55mood or in a really insecure bad mood.
00:38:58I just get really into the moment, and I'm like, I think making out with this person is a great
00:39:02idea.
00:39:02And that isn't always exciting for Josh, especially because it's been a bit more frequent lately.
00:39:11Like, I really don't want to hurt him.
00:39:13I think it's more just like, oh, I really want to feel wanted.
00:39:19I'm always honest with Josh.
00:39:20I tell him every time that I do something out of line.
00:39:25But he says he can't see himself married to me if I keep doing this in the future.
00:39:32Like, I was there in your last relationship when it ended because you were making out with another person.
00:39:38And I don't want to see that happen again.
00:39:41And Josh is such a good guy.
00:39:42I don't want to see him getting hurt either.
00:39:44I would like to stop wanting to make out with people.
00:39:47But I feel like every time I drink, my brain has another plan for me.
00:39:52So I'm worried that this is going to be a hard thing to give up.
00:40:00I love Annabelle.
00:40:01She isn't even here yet.
00:40:03I don't want y'all getting off on the wrong foot because you've already got an attitude about it.
00:40:06I'm his daughter.
00:40:07I'm first.
00:40:08And I don't expect her to come over here and just think that she's before me and everything.
00:40:13Well, I hope it works out.
00:40:14If not, we're going to have some problems.
00:40:27Thank you so much.
00:40:29I love you so much too, baby.
00:40:31Can you make a kiss?
00:40:32Are you ready to come to America?
00:40:34Of course, baby.
00:40:37Come to work.
00:40:38Come on.
00:40:40Watch my hat.
00:40:41Don't lose it.
00:40:41Yeah?
00:40:42Don't lose it.
00:40:43I cannot believe that it's been six months since we've touched each other.
00:40:49When I saw Mallory, I say to myself, oh my God, Koba is coming.
00:40:54Like boots, hats, Koba hats.
00:40:58I feel like cow.
00:41:00She will catch me, like...
00:41:04My heart's wrong with the moon, with the moon, with the moon, with the moon.
00:41:09Cool.
00:41:10Come.
00:41:11No.
00:41:12Come, come.
00:41:12No, I'm scared.
00:41:13Come.
00:41:14What if I'm wrong?
00:41:16I can say this.
00:41:18This is my dream.
00:41:19With my fiance, I will do Titanic.
00:41:23Everything about the sinking part?
00:41:24Yeah.
00:41:25Sinking and dying part, you know.
00:41:26This is a very good idea.
00:41:28Thanks.
00:41:31I'm going to fall.
00:41:32No.
00:41:34That's it.
00:41:38Oh, baby.
00:41:41No, don't.
00:41:43Come.
00:41:44Okay.
00:41:44Be careful.
00:41:45Okay.
00:41:50How do you feel?
00:41:52Tired.
00:41:53How do you feel?
00:41:54Good, baby.
00:41:56Are you excited?
00:41:58Of course.
00:41:58I just can't believe that this time, you'll be coming with me.
00:42:04America.
00:42:05America.
00:42:06It'll be good.
00:42:08I will miss on the boat, on the sea, in the sea.
00:42:12We'll figure it out.
00:42:13It's a lot different than Alabama.
00:42:14Of course.
00:42:15We're a little further.
00:42:17We're not as close to the beach.
00:42:20Raj, what has Valerie told you about Athens, Alabama?
00:42:27Just redneck.
00:42:28Mm-hmm.
00:42:29So, what does it mean, redneck?
00:42:32Redneck is a type of person in America.
00:42:35Yeah.
00:42:36They love NASCAR.
00:42:38They love hunting.
00:42:40America.
00:42:41They don't like other countries.
00:42:43Yeah.
00:42:44Yeah.
00:42:45I mean, just being...
00:42:46They don't like Muslim.
00:42:49There's good people and bad people.
00:42:51Yeah.
00:42:51In different countries.
00:42:52Yes.
00:42:53There's good rednecks and bad rednecks.
00:42:55They have friends?
00:42:56Redneck?
00:42:56Do I have friends that I rednecks?
00:42:58I mean...
00:42:59Yeah.
00:43:00Yeah.
00:43:01Yeah.
00:43:03Yeah.
00:43:03Who?
00:43:04You'll meet them, eventually.
00:43:05I will see.
00:43:07So, how do you feel, leaving all the family behind?
00:43:12This is very sad.
00:43:15I am very sad about this.
00:43:24But I don't want to think about this, because when I think this, I want to cry.
00:43:28I know.
00:43:29It's okay to cry.
00:43:30This is not okay, baby.
00:43:32It's okay.
00:43:33This is for you okay.
00:43:34It's okay.
00:43:37But I am happy for...
00:43:39I want to be...
00:43:41Live with you.
00:43:42It's going to be a big adjustment.
00:43:44These next few days, I definitely am dreading, just because he's going to have to say goodbye
00:43:50to his friends and family, who he's never been away from in his life, ever.
00:43:57I don't think I've really prepared, Raj, for how life is going to be in Alabama.
00:44:02I have very conservative friends, and there are some that are super into the deportations.
00:44:12I am excited.
00:44:14I am nervous.
00:44:16We'll figure it out.
00:44:19He says he's ready for it, but I really don't think he understands what he signed up for.
00:44:41Hey, Dad.
00:44:42Hi, guys.
00:44:43Dad, do you want us to come look at those clothes for Annabelle?
00:44:46Oh, yeah.
00:44:47Come on over.
00:44:47Okay.
00:44:48Yeah, I want you to see that stuff.
00:44:50Are you even ready for Annabelle to get here?
00:44:52Getting there, hopefully.
00:44:54Stressful.
00:44:54Slowly but surely.
00:44:56We're nervous.
00:44:57I know.
00:44:57It's going to be weird.
00:45:06Yeah, y'all check it out.
00:45:07I mean, it's just stuff I've been buying for.
00:45:09I want y'all to get your opinion.
00:45:11It's that stuff on the bottom.
00:45:13I've been married twice.
00:45:15Unfortunately, I've been divorced twice, but I've got some great kids.
00:45:18My son, Hunter, he's the oldest.
00:45:20And then we've got my middle daughters, Abigail and Allison.
00:45:23And then my youngest child, Madison.
00:45:27I'm honestly kind of surprised you did halfway decent.
00:45:30And that's her shoe rack over there.
00:45:32So she's got shoes.
00:45:34She likes all those.
00:45:35Yeah.
00:45:36After we got engaged, Annabelle and I, I started getting her clothes.
00:45:40So she's got stuff when she gets here.
00:45:42I'm going to have to steal these.
00:45:44Those are too big for you.
00:45:45Old.
00:45:46Allison's always trendy and knows what's going on.
00:45:49So, yeah, I mean, I want her to wear kind of the same clothes Allison type stuff and what
00:45:54the other women are wearing.
00:45:55So I got those at a clothes out sale in Florida.
00:45:57They were like $250.
00:45:58She might not wear them, but they're kind of cool looking.
00:46:02I mean, she's got very limited.
00:46:04She's got like three outfits.
00:46:05I mean, there's nothing wrong with what she's wearing.
00:46:07It's cute, but she's got to have more.
00:46:09And I just want her to fit in and, you know, not stick out.
00:46:14I mean, just feel comfortable when she's around people, you know.
00:46:17How long have you been getting all this stuff, Dad?
00:46:19I mean, two and a half, three years probably.
00:46:22All and my dad were super, super close.
00:46:24And I even am his neighbor.
00:46:26He bought me the house next door so that I could be with him all the time.
00:46:30Free rent, free child care.
00:46:32I get to keep up with what he's doing, who he's seeing.
00:46:34It's awesome.
00:46:36Do you ever think it's going to, like, bug Annabelle that, like, you spend so much time
00:46:40with Dad?
00:46:40I don't know.
00:46:41I feel like you're going to, like, kind of turn into, like, a third wheel.
00:46:44Like, you guys are going to have to, like, have your, like, scheduled, like, time together
00:46:47and stuff.
00:46:48Yeah, potentially.
00:46:49That's a worry for sure.
00:46:50I don't think so.
00:46:52I mean, us going to do something by ourselves is probably going to be, like, out of the ordinary.
00:46:56She might get offended that, like, we are going, you know?
00:46:58Well, I think she'll just go with us.
00:47:00I mean, anything we do.
00:47:02Right, but that's what I'm saying is, like, I don't want her to go all the time.
00:47:10Me and my dad do almost everything together.
00:47:12We go out on the lake together.
00:47:13We drink together.
00:47:14If I want to go out and watch the game on TV, I typically call my dad.
00:47:18So I'm nervous to meet Annabelle.
00:47:21I hope she knows that I'm his daughter.
00:47:23I'm first.
00:47:25And I don't expect her to come over here and just think that she's before me and everything.
00:47:30All right.
00:47:30I have to go.
00:47:31All right.
00:47:32Love you, babe.
00:47:32I guess I'll get you back.
00:47:33You'll be seeing Annabelle.
00:47:34I guess I will.
00:47:35I'm excited.
00:47:35All right.
00:47:36Annabelle, let's see if Abby was, like, humming her tree about that.
00:47:39I know.
00:47:40I mean, she's right, though.
00:47:41I mean, it is going to be different.
00:47:43You need to also, you know, cut her a little bit of slack.
00:47:46You know, I've never, like, talked about a woman like this.
00:47:50And, you know, I love Annabelle.
00:47:51She isn't even here yet.
00:47:53I don't want y'all getting off on the wrong foot because you've already got an attitude about it.
00:47:56Well, I hope it works out.
00:47:57If not, we're going to have some problems.
00:47:58We're not going to have any problems.
00:48:00Okay.
00:48:00We'll see.
00:48:01I think I hear the dogs barking.
00:48:02Is someone coming over?
00:48:03I think that might be Nicole.
00:48:05Why is she here?
00:48:06I have no idea.
00:48:07I'm sick of her pulling up like that.
00:48:08Annabelle's about to be here.
00:48:09That can't be happening.
00:48:10Well, I'll go see what she wants.
00:48:11That's cheese.
00:48:12That's been going on way too long.
00:48:14That's ridiculous.
00:48:15I know.
00:48:15Let's see what she wants.
00:48:18Nicole is ex-wife number two, and she's the mother of my youngest child, Madison.
00:48:23It's not unusual for her to come by time to time, but any time me and Nicole are together,
00:48:29you know, it's just not good.
00:48:30It's bad.
00:48:39Hey.
00:48:40Hey.
00:48:41What's going on?
00:48:45My dad remarried after my mom to Nicole, and it was an absolute show.
00:48:50As long as he's living a normal, happy life, I think that she's always going to be in the
00:48:55corner, like trying to ruin it somehow, someway, always.
00:48:58The rumors I heard, I guess, are true, that Annabelle's coming?
00:49:01Yeah.
00:49:02Getting close.
00:49:03It's supposed to be in a few days.
00:49:06What's up?
00:49:06What you need?
00:49:08I was wanting to see if I could talk to you in private for a minute.
00:49:10You know, she's just trouble, but I haven't been completely honest with Annabelle about everything
00:49:16with Nicole.
00:49:17So, unfortunately, Nicole's got dirt on me, and she just can't wait to spill it.
00:49:21Oh, my lord.
00:49:24Oh, my lord.
00:49:29I lost my mind for every second, a second to mine, that's what I reckon.
00:49:43He is not going to feel good about this twin-size mattress.
00:49:46I've had it since, like, the days of the dorms.
00:49:49It has a bunch of stains, but I feel like they're my stains, so I'm not that grossed out
00:49:53with them.
00:49:54Ah!
00:49:55No, we can just cuddle.
00:49:56We can cuddle on the twin mattress.
00:49:58He'll like it.
00:50:10It's been about three years since I've properly been able to access all my things.
00:50:15They're all in a storage unit.
00:50:17Some of the boxes are, like, really organized, and then some are just, like, random.
00:50:20Yeah.
00:50:21Oh, this box is sketch.
00:50:22There's, like, beams.
00:50:28Keyboard.
00:50:31Olive oil.
00:50:33We're just, like, random.
00:50:36Josh is not prepared for living with my chaos.
00:50:39Josh is flying to America tomorrow, and I promised I would handle the whole getting an apartment
00:50:45for us.
00:50:46I said, don't worry about it.
00:50:47I'll take care of it, babe.
00:50:49So I think he's expecting to come to America tomorrow and, like, see our new apartment.
00:50:55What is the apartment like?
00:50:57We don't have an apartment yet.
00:51:03It's really important for me to find a place before he gets here because I could literally,
00:51:07like, live out of my car for, like, a day or two, and I'd be fine.
00:51:10But he, like, is, like, oh.
00:51:12Like, even, like, one night of discomfort for him is, like, kind of an issue.
00:51:17Sometimes I say I'm going to do stuff, and then I don't do it exactly to his liking.
00:51:25And sometimes it's just me being lazy or procrastinating, but other times things just get really complicated
00:51:31because of how my mind works.
00:51:32I have, like, severe or extreme OCD.
00:51:36I tend to get consumed by little details, and then something big like finding an apartment falls through the cracks.
00:51:44And I definitely have always had it.
00:51:46Like, I remember having it in preschool, and I went to therapy, and I was officially diagnosed with OCD in
00:51:53middle school.
00:51:54So my OCD makes it hard to get the big tasks done in my life because I'm, like, focused on
00:52:02all the little details,
00:52:03or I'm, like, double-checking things a hundred times, checking the door handles on the car to make sure it's
00:52:09locked.
00:52:10I check the stove about a bajillion times before I leave the house.
00:52:15I like to check my teeth and make sure they're not chipped.
00:52:18I memorize how they look, so I just double-check to make sure they look the same.
00:52:23So all these things take time away from, like, focusing on a bigger task.
00:52:29I hope Josh isn't upset because that was, like, the one thing I feel like he needed from me.
00:52:35Because I was like, oh, yeah, I promise I'll figure out the apartment.
00:52:37You don't have to do anything because, like, I know the area.
00:52:40I'm going to play in the apartment, but we don't have an apartment yet.
00:52:44Because I'm bad at planning.
00:52:46But I did.
00:52:47I tried.
00:52:48I really tried.
00:52:49I hope he sees that.
00:52:51My OCD has definitely messed up my relationships in the past.
00:52:55It's definitely the main reason why my long-term relationships didn't work out.
00:53:00And I can't let that happen with my relationship with Josh.
00:53:03At first, he was really understanding.
00:53:05And he was just, like, go to therapy and stuff.
00:53:08And it's fine.
00:53:10And now it's getting to the point where he's very disappointed in me.
00:53:13So Josh is really understanding, but I'm worried that he'll be less understanding when he lives with me and all
00:53:21my chaos 24-7.
00:53:23And now as soon as he gets off the plane, I need to tell him that we're homeless.
00:53:29Josh is a really understanding guy, but even the most understanding person would lose their s*** over that.
00:53:50I've been divorced for six years now.
00:53:53A dad that has boys is always going to feel a little threatened when a new man comes into the
00:54:00life.
00:54:00If Michael comes in with anger or aggression, it might turn into a disaster.
00:54:26How's it going over here?
00:54:27Hello, Marissa.
00:54:28How are you?
00:54:29I'm good.
00:54:29How are you?
00:54:30If you need anything, please let us know.
00:54:31Congratulations.
00:54:32Thank you, Marissa.
00:54:40Thank you, Marissa.
00:55:03This is a pretty, like, summer day in New York, so it's like, this is what you get to experience
00:55:06soon.
00:55:07You see it?
00:55:08Yeah.
00:55:09It's a big building.
00:55:09Really nice.
00:55:10It's a big building.
00:55:11I don't think that you're used to this.
00:55:14My biggest concern about Edward moving to the United States is a little bit of culture shock.
00:55:18I'm a little concerned.
00:55:19First of all, you've never been on a plane before.
00:55:23There's a lot of things that I don't know.
00:55:25I was trying to Google, you know, like, what I'm supposed to do.
00:55:28Like, it's crazy.
00:55:31I think that it's kind of cute that Edward really doesn't have any experience in anything outside of his country.
00:55:37And, you know, the fact that he has to, like, Google how to get through an airport or Google, like,
00:55:41what you have to put in your bag or what you can put in your bag.
00:55:43But it does concern me a little bit that he just doesn't have the same type of life experiences that
00:55:49I do.
00:55:49Here's a good example.
00:55:51When I would go to visit Edward in Punta Cana and we stayed at a hotel, I hadn't even realized
00:55:56that he had never even experienced being a guest at a hotel.
00:55:59He's only just worked at them his entire life.
00:56:02It's, you know, vast differences.
00:56:07Before we even get to that, because I don't want to forget, because, you know, I forget everything in, like,
00:56:10a second.
00:56:11Um, how's your penis?
00:56:13How's your penis?
00:56:15Are the stitches healed?
00:56:17Like, did the doctor clear you for the flight?
00:56:19Do you know what's crazy?
00:56:20I would see my doctor today when I was walking in the street.
00:56:24The doctor yourself?
00:56:25I was like, good.
00:56:26Yeah.
00:56:27He's saying, he's asking me, how is your penis and everything?
00:56:30And I was like, uh.
00:56:31It's just typical, typical conversation.
00:56:33How's your penis?
00:56:34But he's my doctor, you know?
00:56:36And like, what's funny?
00:56:37Because it was in front of everybody and everybody was the host, you know?
00:56:40Like, uh.
00:56:42I feel like maybe we are gay or things like that.
00:56:45I don't know.
00:56:46My penis is supposed to be ready for next week because my life depends on this.
00:56:52My life depends on it.
00:56:54My life, too.
00:56:55It's two people's lives affected by this, not just yours.
00:56:57I'm not worried about that.
00:56:59The only thing that I'm a little bit concerned, to be honest with you, is my COVID.
00:57:05I've been divorced for six years now.
00:57:07It's taken a few years, but my ex-husband Michael and I have really developed a strong relationship and we're
00:57:13really good at co-parenting.
00:57:14But a dad that has boys is always going to feel a little threatened when a new man comes into
00:57:21the life.
00:57:22I know that he's very protected with his kids and I feel like Michael can feel that I'll try to
00:57:32steal the love of your kids.
00:57:36I think that we all can play a really important role in their lives and I don't want anybody to
00:57:40feel threatened by, like, you know, one another's interaction with them.
00:57:45There's still some forms of resentment, some forms of animosity, some disappointment, and that's why I have never brought another
00:57:55man into my parenting relationship before.
00:57:57And I've explained this to Edward, that if Michael comes in with anger or aggression, please don't respond to it,
00:58:03because it will not make the situation better.
00:58:05Now, I've said this to Edward many times.
00:58:08Will he listen to me?
00:58:09I don't know.
00:58:12You're going to meet Michael, you know, like, pretty soon, I think, because he's, like, around all the time.
00:58:17I think that we have to have, like, a serious conversation and you and him have to put your, like,
00:58:21boundaries in place, like, what would upset him or what would upset you.
00:58:25I know that I'm a person and I have a good bar and I love Cole and I love Derek
00:58:30and I just need to show that.
00:58:34I think when Edward and Michael finally have the talk, I am a little concerned.
00:58:41Emotions are going to flare.
00:58:42People are going to get territorial, protective.
00:58:45If that happens, Michael will, you know, get very upset and aggressive and it might turn into a disaster.
00:58:51And it's going to be very hard to repair after that.
00:58:57You look upset.
00:59:00Well, it's okay.
00:59:16So, I'm making cake pops and I think I'm going to make them red and blue on the inside for
00:59:21America.
00:59:22Normally, I wouldn't be this messy or maybe I actually probably would, but...
00:59:27Oh, it feels good to be free.
00:59:30It feels good to be free.
00:59:34Wait, why is this backwards?
00:59:37Do you understand?
00:59:38This...
00:59:39In no world, this is right.
00:59:41Maybe if I go in front of a mirror or something.
00:59:43Oh, yeah.
00:59:44Look.
00:59:45I'm Erica.
00:59:46Ha-ha.
00:59:47Josh arrives today and I got us a hotel room because I definitely didn't want our first night together to
00:59:51be sleeping on an air mattress in our friend's house.
00:59:54I don't think he'll be expecting a hotel.
00:59:57I think he'll either expect the apartment magically to appear and be done, which unfortunately isn't the case, or something,
01:00:04like, less comfy.
01:00:07Even though it's not ready to move into yet, the big news is I actually signed a lease on a
01:00:12new apartment.
01:00:13So, I looked at a couple of photos of the apartment online, but I haven't seen it in person yet,
01:00:19so it could be crazy.
01:00:21Like, I don't know what it's going to look like inside.
01:00:24I'm nervous because I feel like I haven't seen him in a bit, and I'm worried he'll be jet-lagged,
01:00:29and I really want to have, like, a good, you know, fun kind of night.
01:00:33I don't know how to say that correctly, but, yeah.
01:00:38My sex life with Josh has been a little bit dull, and we're not having sex enough.
01:00:48I told him to get condoms.
01:00:49I just said, oh, can you pick them up?
01:00:51I forgot.
01:00:52So, I did that because I was like, oh, I want him to, like, think about it, at least.
01:01:00I'm worried that moving in with Josh will not improve our sex life.
01:01:05He's super British and super reserved, so he tends to avoid conversations about sex.
01:01:10It just, like, doesn't come up as much.
01:01:13No, not sorry.
01:01:13That sounds sexual.
01:01:14Oh.
01:01:15It drives me crazy because I'm the exact opposite, and I'm very open about sex.
01:01:20So, I know we have to get on the same page before we get married.
01:01:27Oh, s**t.
01:01:29No.
01:01:32That's okay.
01:01:33Josh won't eat that one.
01:01:38I think the thing I'm looking forward to the most when I see Josh is giving him a kiss.
01:01:42I want to make out for, like, ten minutes.
01:01:45But he hates PDA.
01:01:47Maybe we'll save that for the hotel.
01:01:49I'm so excited.
01:01:50I want to make out for the hotel.
01:02:08Cool.
01:02:27okay it seems like he should be here like any minute or something
01:02:33uh yeah i'm excited but i'm stressed out because i just want him to appear as soon as possible
01:02:39he's gonna freak out when he sees this well at least he'll spot me probably
01:02:48we've waited for this a long time we literally waited over a year for the visa to be approved
01:02:54where is he
01:03:22i know i'll see you
01:03:25this is my fiancee josh and he's from can you say it first with us and i'll copy it
01:03:34uh cambridge england cambridge england
01:03:41can we make out
01:03:43for four minutes
01:03:48hey
01:03:58when i see josh i want to make out with him for a while
01:04:01but it felt like only four seconds
01:04:04um i've never been super hot on pda
01:04:09i just feel self-conscious like not always but
01:04:13i don't think i'm the only person who's like that
01:04:18do you want to make out for four minutes now
01:04:21i actually
01:04:27can i put the hat on you
01:04:29can i see
01:04:31it's uncle sam i don't know i forgot who uncle sam is actually
01:04:35but he's like an american icon from the past
01:04:38yeah or he's a fake person i don't know i'm not sure
01:04:42so i got us a hotel for the night and the apartment got approved
01:04:47nice
01:04:47we might have to wait a few days to move in
01:04:49sure
01:04:50but for tonight and maybe tomorrow night i have a hotel for us
01:04:55and then i have some sexy red lingerie for tonight
01:05:02okay
01:05:02lingerie in the airport
01:05:04do you want me to put it away now
01:05:05i mean it looks lovely
01:05:08are you excited
01:05:09yes i can't wait to like wake up next to you every day
01:05:12i feel like now we're moving in together
01:05:14i don't super know what to expect
01:05:17we are really different like we're like so contrasting
01:05:20you're quite chaotic and wild and lovely
01:05:22um
01:05:25we're choosing to be together
01:05:26because we love each other
01:05:28um it just feels like we fit
01:05:31oh
01:05:35do you need help carrying stuff
01:05:36i'm good
01:05:38no i'll just like try not to hit my face with the balloons anymore
01:05:41i love them
01:05:43do you want to make out for four minutes now
01:05:48i was in bed with you
01:05:50when you were with annabelle
01:05:52it's not gonna happen when she's here
01:05:53why is it okay that it's happened for this long that she's not here
01:05:58this is her last ditch effort to try to screw things up again with annabelle and i
01:06:04you do know when she gets here i'm gonna talk to her
01:06:06if he thinks that i'm not gonna tell annabelle all the dirt all the things that i know about him
01:06:10he's wrong
01:06:24what's up what you need
01:06:26i was just wanting to see if i could talk to you in private for a minute
01:06:29sure
01:06:38what up
01:06:41so
01:06:45annabelle's coming right
01:06:46a few days hopefully
01:06:49you do know when she gets here we are actually gonna have a conversation
01:06:51like i'm gonna talk to her
01:06:53there's no way around that
01:06:56my marriage to my ex-wife nicole it only lasted four weeks and our relationship was volatile
01:07:01because i mean she did a lot of things i didn't agree with and i guess i did a lot
01:07:05of things she
01:07:06didn't agree with so we weren't really like a match for a relationship she's a mother of one
01:07:11of my children so i don't know i mean she'll always be around in some capacity but she's very
01:07:16jealous and vindictive and doesn't really want me with anyone but i guess her
01:07:23okay so are you gonna like what are you gonna talk about
01:07:27she needs to know the things i think about angie she needs to know about the things that you've said
01:07:32to me
01:07:35what about angie to me it seems that you are like having some kind of relationship maybe it was just
01:07:40physical or whatever the case may be so are you i have not treated with anybody and definitely not
01:07:48angie angie is my good friend greg's daughter
01:07:53it ain't a cookout unless we get it on us
01:07:55picked up your shirt a little bit
01:07:58she got recently divorced me and her just kind of hit it off as friends and
01:08:03heck you know friday nights we might go
01:08:05catch a band and catch dinner but it's just a good friendship
01:08:09i think nicole's just trying to get under my skin she sees that i'm happy and probably thinks this
01:08:14is her last ditch effort to try to screw things up again with annabelle and i
01:08:20so in your opinion flirting and telling people things that would obviously upset annabelle is okay
01:08:27that's not cheating
01:08:29you know that's everybody's perception is different
01:08:34he led me on for years and then we got together and we got married and that ended very quickly
01:08:40and he
01:08:40and come to find out he was talking to annabelle while we were married and if he thinks that i'm
01:08:46not going to tell annabelle all the dirt all the things that i know about him he's wrong
01:08:49with angie and shay i saw it with my own eyes something's not right with that situation
01:08:54and i don't want annabelle to make the commitment and walk down the aisle without her knowing these
01:09:00things about him i don't believe that you have told her some most of the stuff that you do i
01:09:06mean
01:09:07like we've been out before and you're drinking and she calls and of course the camera goes this way
01:09:12where she can't see me and like you know i just feel like that's very very unfair for her
01:09:18anything that you know i've done is not like you know it's like if we go out and have
01:09:24a few too many beers i might like you know say something vulgar or pat on you or something
01:09:28but i mean it's not like i'm like i'm gonna rip your clothes off or anything
01:09:32there's no way i'm gonna stray even if i drink too much you know yeah i may flirt
01:09:40but that's the extent of it and that's my personality
01:09:47i'm not gonna be like oh let's sneak around the corner and give me a kiss or something
01:09:53it's not gonna happen when she's here okay so why is it okay that it's happened for this long
01:09:58that she's not here because she's 8,000 miles away shay i was in bed with you when you were
01:10:05with
01:10:05annabelle
01:10:08and she called and i answered the phone yeah we went to a concert about something yeah
01:10:12yeah we're in the same bed together yeah i remember and after that incident i mean annabelle
01:10:18and talked for a while you know she had to kind of cool off so there was a situation a
01:10:25few years ago
01:10:25between annabelle and nicole and it wasn't good after nicole and i divorced we were actually out of
01:10:31town several of us five or six people we had a few hotel rooms and um drank too much she
01:10:37took me to the
01:10:38hotel room i got in bed still in my clothes passed out and then i just remember i'm in the
01:10:46bed with my
01:10:46clothes still on and i've got a phone poking in my face with annabelle uh crying and i've just kind
01:10:56of
01:10:56woke up enough to see nicole holding the phone and she was just doing it to be vindictive and
01:11:03and break me up and it just made it really tough on our relationship early on
01:11:10so i mean you seriously are adamant about talking to her yeah that's definitely happening she needs
01:11:15to know what she's signing up for i don't want to make the same mistake i did especially coming
01:11:18from way over there ours is completely different i mean it is what it is but i don't want you
01:11:25coming
01:11:25back here and doing it so much my sister i mean i'm not i'm definitely going to figure it out
01:11:31well
01:11:31so you know there's no trespassing i don't want you back here she's going to understand who you are
01:11:37by by the time i get done so i mean and as long as she understands that there's plenty of
01:11:41people that
01:11:41can contradict you on that so i'm not i mean there's plenty of people who can also say they've
01:11:45seen me with you and the way you act with me you just need to go on home i can't
01:11:49deal with no
01:11:49problem just expect that when she's here we're going to have that conversation i just can't deal with it
01:11:53anymore okay well see you jay whatever i'm scared that if nicole gets to her before i explain some
01:12:02of this stuff she may want to head straight back to the philippines but i worked hard to get annabelle
01:12:09to trust me again and i'm not going to let nicole or anybody else ruin it just because she's jealous
01:12:36the blood of jesus
01:12:40thank you lord thank you lord thank you lord
01:13:03grace and mercy heavenly father thank you amen thank you guys bye bye bye love you
01:13:13so actually tell me what what's what's going on basically today maxwell went in with his best
01:13:21friend silas for their k-1 visa interview maxwell got called up first the interviewer
01:13:29approved for his visa he came outside he took a picture of it he showed it to me he called
01:13:37me
01:13:37just excited next thing i know he was like baby let me call you right back i got to go
01:13:44back into
01:13:44the embassy i was like okay then he sends me another picture and in this form is saying that
01:13:52he had been denied and so of course he's bawling i'm hardly able to get him to answer the phone
01:13:58so
01:13:59when he does answer the phone he starts explaining to me that when his best friend went in for the
01:14:06interview his term they looked at the photos and saw that me him and my best friend and his best
01:14:12friend were in the same pictures and with that they decided that it looks like fraud and so then not
01:14:20only that he yelled at them and told them not only am i going to file this under fraud but
01:14:29i'm also going to ban you from the u.s
01:14:34i am completely blindsided i never in a million years the thought never crossed my mind that he
01:14:44would get denied i felt like god was on my side and he would get approved but maxwell getting banned
01:14:52is beyond words because that prevents maxwell ever applying for any visa or ever coming to the u.s ever
01:15:02i don't know how the devil snuck in gave my fiance a visa in his hand let him walk out
01:15:11the door with
01:15:11the visa let him celebrate for 0.2 seconds and then tell him to come back in and give it
01:15:17back
01:15:18and i cannot understand it we've just been you know praying not only have we bombarded heaven but we've
01:15:24literally bombarded that embassy because i told maxwell i said listen do not leave that embassy
01:15:32i said you talk to whoever you got to talk to to get inside that building you know explain yourself
01:15:36what is going on and there was a security guard kind of was going back and forth to the point
01:15:42to where
01:15:42the people inside the embassy got tired and they're waiting to be with the agent again right now
01:15:48but i know one thing he got to leave with that dorm visa and that's for sure
01:15:56lord i ask that you protect my future husband lord jesus these are the prayers that i ask in our
01:16:01petitions i put before you heavenly father i ask that you do it right now in jesus name amen and
01:16:08thank you
01:16:09lord thank you thank you literally i am terrified it's terrifying that one person could say one thing
01:16:21and then that's my life that's my future i would lose the love of my life
01:16:31okay this next way
01:16:34okay sweetie what they say
01:16:37yeah so we just came out of jail now right
01:16:41can you hear me baby okay i'm listening
01:16:44the man called us you're no longer banned look the band has been lifted the band has been lifted we're
01:16:49no longer banned we should go continue our relationship and apply for the spouse officer
01:16:54uh just understand that for the k1 there's nothing that can be done so it won't he won't let us
01:16:59get
01:17:00the k1 no
01:17:03the only thing you could do was take out the band
01:17:07i'm not accepting it i'm not really accepting it that ain't seen right with me i don't want to let
01:17:12the k1 go because i don't want to start over the spousal visa take a longer time that's the problem
01:17:16like that's not fair what about the appeal he is like we can't appeal his decision
01:17:28i'm gonna talk to attorney because that's not right you know what i'm saying if he made a mistake
01:17:32we need to talk to an attorney and see what they can do
01:17:36they have definitely mess with the wrong woman because you know i feel like looking over my life
01:17:45god has not denied me anything and maxwell and i were destined to be together
01:17:50let me just call my family and get this to them okay all right sweetie
01:17:57ain't that a mess i am a hundred percent going to do everything in my power as long as it
01:18:05is in the
01:18:06will of god to get maxwell to the usa you can be the king you can be the president you
01:18:13can be whomever
01:18:14you think you are but you're not more supreme than god almighty
01:18:22this season on 90 day fiance you're ready let's see it come on i have my circumcision
01:18:29i'm ready to be an american male
01:18:34you want to feed them i'm afraid they bite me i'm a city girl from sao paulo animal crap is
01:18:43not my
01:18:48it has a rear wash pulsating action yes this is i need to be there paper don't help are you
01:18:56talking
01:18:56about dingleberries dingleberries
01:19:02you're not sure if you want to not give me one or not i just don't want to close off
01:19:06all my
01:19:06experiences kitty wants to talk about openness so close to the wedding day what the that about
01:19:13i really really want to make out with people then what do we do
01:19:17that's concerning
01:19:22it's the second time getting married if you are not certain do not get married
01:19:27i love edward but i have started to question whether this is the right situation for me
01:19:32i'm sorry for you what's born like this this is so sad do you really want to spend your life
01:19:37with
01:19:37me do you really want to get married in brazil it's so easy but i'm fighting so much here i'm
01:19:42tired
01:19:45oh my god are you are you happy when you see him you're the one i'm marrying what is this
01:19:52issue
01:19:53in turkey we don't be friends ex-boyfriend don't call my fiance never get the off my tailgate
01:20:07people are like who is this person you might be like camille or the bride
01:20:13people saying about me well i mean it has come up
01:20:20i don't want to listen to your crap
01:20:26i'm just frustrated i'm just to be straight for what you can that flood in egypt but you can't be
01:20:31compassionate with me get out she pushed me too far it's finished it's over i'm done with the whole thing
01:20:40okay he's going home
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