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90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days - Season 8 - Episode 05: Nearest Exit May Be Behind You
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00:00:00Oh my god, this is so romantic.
00:00:03Yep.
00:00:04Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:07With past boyfriends.
00:00:09I've been lied to a lot.
00:00:11So you don't need to talk about your past.
00:00:14Do you not care about my past?
00:00:16No.
00:00:17We can leave the past.
00:00:19I really want to be able to tell Zied about my last engagement.
00:00:24But this does make me wonder if Zied just doesn't want to talk about the past,
00:00:29because he has something that he doesn't want to tell me.
00:00:33Hey Boo, it's your wife.
00:00:35Annalyn and I have been married for three years.
00:00:37And now I'm leaving for the Philippines tomorrow to meet her for the first time in person.
00:00:44But lately it feels like we're fighting more than we're getting along.
00:00:48You told me that we're going to be married.
00:00:51We can't be giving anyone special from the past.
00:00:55I'm not saying you're cheating on me, but it's like a baby step.
00:01:03Welcome, gorgeous.
00:01:05Do you want to go to bed?
00:01:08Why don't you go some sleep and I will watch some TV?
00:01:14I don't know what's happening.
00:01:16It was like great when we first met.
00:01:18But now I feel like there's something really wrong.
00:01:21Good night.
00:01:22Maybe he's just not attracted to me in person.
00:01:24It's freaking me out.
00:01:29You lied about the fact you've been married to women several times.
00:01:33Well, I'm going to come clean on this trip.
00:01:36I'm not going to accept the marriage proposal until we have this conversation.
00:01:40You can meet her.
00:01:42I'll go with energy, homer.
00:01:44Now that the ancestors are approved, I am planning a big surprise when I meet Lisa at the airport.
00:01:50But I am worried about that she was physical with a woman.
00:01:54We don't accept it here.
00:01:56You were giving your parents money.
00:01:59Why did you not tell us?
00:02:01They say so many mean things that I don't want to accept it.
00:02:06It's hard to say no to a parent, especially when...
00:02:10That still doesn't answer the question.
00:02:14He's just got the blinders on and I will not stop trying to find out why she lied.
00:02:22It's okay, baby.
00:02:29I'm going to break the rules so that I can go.
00:02:34I can't take my foot fast as you can.
00:02:37You can't lose your head.
00:02:41Wow, look at all the clothes.
00:02:43Oh, yeah.
00:02:44Check what you want.
00:02:45Then we could haggle, okay?
00:02:57Hey, Shin, what do you think of these?
00:03:00Oh, you want to get that?
00:03:01Yeah, maybe.
00:03:03How do you think it looks on me?
00:03:10I've been in the Philippines for a couple of days now.
00:03:12And despite all the drama, being with Sheena every day is amazing.
00:03:20Thank you so much.
00:03:21Yeah, thanks.
00:03:22What is something you need?
00:03:24I kind of need some shorts.
00:03:26Well, I like that.
00:03:27Yeah, that's cool.
00:03:28Going out and eating food, sharing meals, holding hands, kissing her.
00:03:34It's just something I've been wanting my entire life.
00:03:38Make sure you're holding me.
00:03:40Yeah, I'm holding you.
00:03:41You're holding me.
00:03:42Okay, there we go.
00:03:44Does it fit?
00:03:45Oh, it's a little bit small.
00:03:50Okay, sorry.
00:03:51That's too sad.
00:03:53I'm sorry.
00:03:53I'm a giant man.
00:03:58I kind of packed really light since Sheena was going on and on about how easy and cheap
00:04:03it is to go and get clothes here in the Philippines.
00:04:06Turns out, you can find clothes.
00:04:08It's just, I'm a big man.
00:04:12Yeah, if she has some t-shirts, we'd like to check that out.
00:04:15I think she's wearing a t-shirt that you can use.
00:04:17I'm going to go 2x.
00:04:182x?
00:04:19Nah, that's too small.
00:04:21She won 5x.
00:04:23Man, why do I have to be so ginormous?
00:04:28Forrest, he's around like 6'2 or 6'3.
00:04:32It's not too common to have a height like that here in my country.
00:04:36My previous partner, that was around like 5 or 5'2.
00:04:41But for me, Forrest is the most tallest guy that I've ever seen in my life.
00:04:48Wow, you look like a macho.
00:04:50You look like a professional guy.
00:04:52You look like a tennis player.
00:04:53Yeah.
00:04:54It's too tight.
00:04:55It's too tight.
00:04:56Ow.
00:04:56See, we'll just look somewhere else.
00:04:59Yeah.
00:05:01Right now, I'm kind of regretting bringing just a backpack with a couple fresh shirts and
00:05:05a pair of undies on my multi-week trip here in the Philippines.
00:05:09But thank goodness I was able to find some banana hammock underwear.
00:05:12Hopefully, I get to try those on later.
00:05:14You never know.
00:05:17Hey, baby.
00:05:18It's so hot.
00:05:20You know, maybe I'll just take a seat real quick.
00:05:23Okay.
00:05:24Let's take a seat.
00:05:25Yeah.
00:05:27I'm really grateful to have this alone time with Sheena.
00:05:30Since my mom and my stepdad, Dev, joined me on this trip to the Philippines, it's been
00:05:34kind of hard to come by.
00:05:36And unfortunately, having them around has not been rose petals and unicorns.
00:05:42So, Sheena, how are you feeling after last night?
00:05:47It's a much better now, so you don't have any problems with that.
00:05:51Last night, my mom confronted Sheena about lying and giving the money to her parents and not
00:05:58actually saving anything.
00:06:00I feel bad about how ugly things got, but I'm very glad Sheena agreed to finally confront
00:06:05her parents about this issue and kind of get the ball rolling.
00:06:08The big issue next is to take you to meet up with your parents and confront them about,
00:06:15you know, the money issues and everything.
00:06:20I believe that after everything the last seven years, cutting off your family is the only thing
00:06:27we can do.
00:06:27So, it's time to be independent, it's time to be strong, and I'm going to be behind you
00:06:33and be your backbone every step of the way.
00:06:39I understand that, babe.
00:06:44This is the best thing that I could do.
00:06:46I would plan a meeting for you, so you could explain to them the situation that,
00:06:52sorry, we don't have that much money, but we're trying to stay because you have a lot
00:06:57of plans for us, and I will have to move with you to the U.S. Just show them that
00:07:02you are
00:07:03a very sincere person, what kind of person you are. Because in my culture, parents are
00:07:09the one who should approve if we are going to marry someone.
00:07:17So, if my parents would approve, then it would be much easier for just to have a better future for
00:07:23us.
00:07:31Sheena, why didn't you explain this to me beforehand? Why didn't you just come out and tell me?
00:07:37It's complicated.
00:07:40Sheena has never told me that I need her parents' approval to marry her.
00:07:45I feel like after everything I've heard about them and how they have been mistreating Sheena,
00:07:52I don't believe that I need their blessing at all.
00:07:55So, now I have to go and get their approval while I have to tell them that their days are
00:08:00basically numbered with getting money away from their daughter. This does not sound like an easy
00:08:04task.
00:08:06Also, what happened last night with talking with your mom, I have been thinking about what if
00:08:13we could meet, you could meet my parents first, personally, before we introduce your parents.
00:08:21Because if I would take your mom to the province and she would cause a lot of commotion,
00:08:26then things doesn't quite work.
00:08:33So, you think that we should have me come see your parents a day ahead of my parents?
00:08:41I think it's the best way to meet everyone.
00:08:45Well, Sheena, all right. But my mom is definitely going to blow her lid. She's not going to take
00:08:56this too well.
00:08:57I know, babe. I understand about that.
00:09:02My mom's pretty much going to freak out and really think now that Sheena is cutting my mom
00:09:08out of the situation. She already doesn't trust Sheena. And I believe that this is just going
00:09:14to make things worse. And I'm scared.
00:09:23My titties are hurt. Don't wear a strapless bra on a flat. It's going to take two days.
00:09:31I'm ready to whip them out, fling them around, get some air, do whatever needs to be going with my
00:09:37titties
00:09:37because they're hurting.
00:10:04Today is my big day.
00:10:05Today, my girlfriend is coming. So, that's why I'm excited and happy.
00:10:13Oh, my God. Lisa is coming today. I barely slept last night.
00:10:18How should I put this?
00:10:20I live in Hawaii.
00:10:22That's my hometown.
00:10:24But because of things that are going on there, a lot of shooting, a lot of, you know, kidnappings.
00:10:30Lisa Brooks Hotel for she and I to stay here in Lagos, I can't even wait to, you know, welcome
00:10:36her.
00:10:38And when I see her with my eyes, oh, my God.
00:10:42I will kiss her like I never did before.
00:10:49So, I'm really nervous.
00:10:53I planned a lot of things to welcome her from the airport.
00:10:58She doesn't have an idea of what I'm planning.
00:11:06So, we have begun to just say, I have to do a happy dance.
00:11:12I have to do a happy dance.
00:11:14I'm so excited.
00:11:16I'm finally going to meet Daniel for the first time.
00:11:19But I'm nervous because there's so much to tell him.
00:11:21Like the fact that I'm still married to a woman and that I've been with women for the past 21
00:11:28years.
00:11:29Oh, my gosh.
00:11:30I am so ready for this to come to fruition.
00:11:35I want to marry Daniel.
00:11:37But I promised my daughter, Faith, I wouldn't get married while I'm in Nigeria.
00:11:41And that I will tell him about my past before getting engaged.
00:11:45But I don't want to tell him everything right away.
00:11:49I want to get comfortable with him and eventually open up when the time is right.
00:11:57Oh, touchdown.
00:12:07Oh, my God.
00:12:08Oh, my God.
00:12:08Oh, my God.
00:12:09Oh, my God.
00:12:09Oh, my God.
00:12:10Oh, my God.
00:12:18Oh, my God.
00:12:18Oh, my God.
00:12:19Oh, my God.
00:12:20Oh, my God.
00:12:20I've been so desperate.
00:12:21So eager to see her.
00:12:24Edward is ready to wake up the love of my heart.
00:12:30The love of my love.
00:12:33I'm so nervous.
00:12:34I feel like a drowned rat from the heat and the humidity.
00:12:40I did not sleep at all on the plane,
00:12:43and my nerves are just going crazy.
00:12:46I'm feeling really self-conscious right now.
00:12:48Oh, my god.
00:12:54Freshly acoustic hand.
00:12:56I have boob sweat.
00:12:58When you're this large, you can't help but have boob sweat.
00:13:01I'm gonna wash my crotch area, so I don't
00:13:03want to stink down here either.
00:13:12I am freaking out to the point where I feel sick to my stomach.
00:13:17I think he's going to be as handsome as ever,
00:13:20and I think he's going to look at me and say, oh, my god,
00:13:22she's older than I thought she was, because everything
00:13:25with this heat, I can't camouflage anything.
00:13:29And my age of 52 is showing today.
00:13:34Oh, my god.
00:13:35It was such a long flat.
00:13:38The bags are under my eyes, and the wrinkles are in my forehead.
00:13:44Normally, when I talk to Daniel on video,
00:13:48I have the opportunity of getting my makeup perfect,
00:13:51getting my lighting just so, putting my camera angle just
00:13:55where it needs to be, and trying to be perfect.
00:13:58I don't feel perfect right now.
00:14:04Ay, ay, ay, ay, ay, ay, ay, ay, ay, ay, ay.
00:14:14In a few seconds, she should be coming out.
00:14:17We'll see her.
00:14:29I have a million thoughts going through my mind right now.
00:14:35How am I going to be able to keep all these promises I made to Faye?
00:14:38What if I come clean about my past and he just leaves me stranded in a foreign country?
00:14:43And then my worst nightmare.
00:14:44What if I'm not what he expected?
00:14:47I'm terrified.
00:14:49I'm afraid he's going to reject me.
00:14:51And if he rejects me, it's all for nothing.
00:14:59I am here. I am wishing.
00:15:02I'm done. I'm done. I'm done.
00:15:04All right, here we go.
00:15:17She's taking a deep breath for, man.
00:15:19Trying to get comfortable, man.
00:15:21Oh, hey, hey, don't you get comfortable.
00:15:23Because Anna, man, she's about to have your ass hell on wheels.
00:15:26I know, man.
00:15:28Cute.
00:15:29Sexy.
00:15:31Javon and I had a fight because he told me that he's been talking to this woman.
00:15:35But we have some problems that are way worse than this.
00:15:44This is where we're going.
00:15:46Okay.
00:15:46The thing I have planned today is probably the least romantic and the most awkward date we could have on
00:15:55my second date here in Turkey.
00:15:58Are you nervous?
00:15:59A little bit, yeah, actually.
00:16:07What are you taking a deep breath for, man?
00:16:10No, I'm just trying to get comfortable, man.
00:16:13Oh, hey, hey, don't you get comfortable.
00:16:16Because Anna, man, she's about to have your ass hell on wheels.
00:16:19I know, man.
00:16:20The only time you're going to be comfortable when your ass is asleep.
00:16:23Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha.
00:16:25You got me in a love, hey.
00:16:29Call it the love days, baby.
00:16:34All right.
00:16:36Love you.
00:16:37All right.
00:16:38Love you too, man.
00:16:39Have a safe trip, man.
00:16:42Just arrived at the airport, you know, ready to see my lovely wife, Anna.
00:16:50Yeah, man, I'm excited.
00:16:53This is it.
00:16:54Today's the day I fly to the Philippines to meet my wife for the first time in person.
00:16:59Ha, ha, ha.
00:17:03I just got past checkpoint, and, you know, I'm heading to my gate right now.
00:17:10I got a long flight ahead of me, but I'm one step closer to seeing Anna.
00:17:20This trip for me determines my future with Anna Lynn, because if it doesn't go well, I need
00:17:28to figure out what that means for this relationship.
00:17:32I really do love her, so I'm praying that this marriage wasn't a huge mistake.
00:17:39This is it.
00:17:41Can't wait to see her.
00:17:44Let's go.
00:18:15Oh
00:18:17OMG
00:18:19Cute
00:18:21Sexy
00:18:27Hey Javon, it's me your wifey
00:18:42I'm Annalyn and I'm 38 years old from Cavite, Philippines
00:18:48I've always been, I would say, bubbly, happy person, talkative
00:18:54But there's also a hardworking part of me as well
00:18:58I went to university and I studied mass communication
00:19:03Because I like talking
00:19:05Sometimes a lot
00:19:08But I decided to stop working full time
00:19:11Because Javon and I are on opposite time zones
00:19:14So I have to change my sleep schedule
00:19:18And that has made it really difficult
00:19:21To keep up any kind of job
00:19:24Thankfully, Javon sends me $400 to $500 once a month
00:19:29Ma, ma
00:19:31Tignan, buksan mo ako, yung gate
00:19:34Uh-uh
00:19:34Ha?
00:19:37My mom and I live next to each other
00:19:40And she has a small store
00:19:44Ma, may mga binili ako, tignan mo
00:19:46Ano yan, patingin
00:19:49I feel like we're more like best friends
00:19:51But she's a very timid, shy woman
00:19:55And I'm more like
00:19:56And I'm more like
00:20:03He's so some fun
00:20:05Kailangan ko ng pandagdag ng height
00:20:08Kasi si Javon mataas
00:20:10Yung height difference namin
00:20:12Excited na ako
00:20:15Nag-book ako kasi sa
00:20:16Sa Miss Ibis
00:20:18Miss Ibis Bay
00:20:19Hi!
00:20:20Wow!
00:20:22Tomorrow morning
00:20:23I'm traveling to Beagle
00:20:24To meet Javon
00:20:26And finally have our honeymoon
00:20:31This will be the first time
00:20:33That we get to spend time together
00:20:34Physically
00:20:35And intimacy-wise
00:20:38We'll be able to discover
00:20:39A lot more about each other
00:20:41So, yeah
00:20:42Good luck to us
00:20:47Krabi excited na ako, mama
00:20:50Medyo kinakabahan din ako
00:20:53Kasi ang tagal
00:20:54Ang tagal ko kasing hinantay to
00:20:56Kasi ngayon nandito
00:20:57Ano nga, anim na taon
00:20:58Ano?
00:20:59Grabe, anim na taon
00:21:00Bala ko nga
00:21:01Hindi na mangyayaring darating
00:21:03Yan
00:21:04Six years na yan
00:21:06Umikot na lang
00:21:07Ang buong buhay mo
00:21:09Ang mundo mo sa kanya
00:21:10Kakahintay ang mga tawag niya
00:21:13Hindi ka na
00:21:15Nakakapagtrabaho ng maayos
00:21:17Hindi ka na
00:21:18Nakikipagkita sa mga kaibigan mo
00:21:22Mahirap kayo pagmasdan mo ang anak mong ganyan
00:21:26Ang alam ko
00:21:27May tampuhan kayo ni Javon
00:21:29Okay na ba kayo?
00:21:32Technically
00:21:33Hindi pa talaga namin nasusog
00:21:36Fully
00:21:37Yung problem
00:21:41Naisip ko
00:21:42Magfocus muna sa mga positibong bagay
00:21:45Lalo na sa first time meeting namin
00:21:48Saka ako na lang siya
00:21:50I-discuss later on
00:21:53Javon and I had a fight recently
00:21:56Because he told me
00:21:57That he's been talking to this woman
00:21:59That he used to have feelings for
00:22:02Even though we talk about it
00:22:04I feel like he still doesn't understand
00:22:07Why it feels like a betrayal to me
00:22:10But at the same time
00:22:12Javon and I have some problems
00:22:15That are way, way worse than this
00:22:19Natutunan ko dito sa relasyon na ito
00:22:21Hindi siya madali
00:22:23Hindi siya para sa mga marupok
00:22:39Javon and I have a lot of struggles
00:22:41And at times we fight a lot
00:22:44Javon thinks I changed
00:22:46But how I see it is that
00:22:49He's the one that really changed
00:22:52What happened was
00:22:54After we got married
00:22:55He started watching podcasts
00:22:58About masculinity and stuff
00:23:01They teach the man
00:23:03To find women that's soft
00:23:05Feminine and submissive
00:23:09Suddenly you have this idea in your head
00:23:11That I should be like this as a woman
00:23:13Like what the hell
00:23:14We were not like this before
00:23:17I feel like he's trying to change me
00:23:20To a person that I'm not
00:23:22He thinks that even if I don't agree with him
00:23:25I should just be quiet
00:23:26And I'm a type of woman
00:23:28That I just don't agree
00:23:29I question things
00:23:45I love Javon and I know he loves me
00:23:49But my biggest fear is Javon will come here
00:23:53And we can't get along
00:23:56But it's not like I'm meeting a boyfriend
00:23:59I'm meeting a husband
00:24:00I can't just, you know, give off
00:24:03After everything I did for six years
00:24:07If we can't resolve our issues
00:24:09And we fight the whole time
00:24:10What am I gonna do?
00:24:12I want to be happy
00:24:16I want you to be happy
00:24:17I hope you'll be happy
00:24:19You'll be happy
00:24:19For a year
00:24:21For a year
00:24:22For a year
00:24:41How were you feeling when you went to bed last night?
00:24:44To be completely honest, I was really frustrated, disappointed, because I went to bed alone.
00:25:01When I got here, there were lots of moments where it felt really awkward, like we were
00:25:07not sure what to say, and I internalized those things.
00:25:13And so last night, I decided to go out into the living room and see if I could have a
00:25:21little
00:25:21bit of a conversation with beer con.
00:25:24I felt really disconnected that whole first day.
00:25:29I wanted to give you some space, so...
00:25:32But at the time, I'm thinking, oh, my worst fear that he's just not attracted to me in
00:25:38person has just come true.
00:25:44Yeah, we ended up, like, making out pretty good.
00:25:53We have time to explore this further as we get to know each other better.
00:25:59But, you know, I am still kind of feeling a little, like, unsure about the situation because
00:26:06he decided to put the brakes on us having sex.
00:26:10And also, I am worried because we have some things to do later today that I'm really anxious
00:26:28about.
00:26:29More rain.
00:26:31Yeah.
00:26:32God loves us.
00:26:33I feel like he's crying on us.
00:26:36We are bringing bliss wherever we go.
00:26:38Okay.
00:26:40I think this is where we're going.
00:26:45The thing I have planned today is probably the least romantic and the most awkward date
00:26:52we could have on my second date here in Turkey.
00:26:59Hello.
00:26:59Hi.
00:27:00Oh, hi, kitty.
00:27:02You must be Laura.
00:27:03Yes.
00:27:03Nice to meet you.
00:27:05Nice to meet you.
00:27:05Please take a seat.
00:27:06Okay.
00:27:07Before I came to Turkey, I had been researching skin removal surgery.
00:27:13And Turkey has such high-quality plastic surgeons.
00:27:17So, fortunately, I was able to secure an appointment with one.
00:27:22But, unfortunately, the only appointment they had was for today.
00:27:29So awkward.
00:27:32Are you nervous?
00:27:33A little bit, yeah, actually.
00:27:35Okay.
00:27:36So you want me to come inside with you or you want to do it alone?
00:27:42If you want to come, you can.
00:27:44Okay.
00:27:45Okay.
00:27:45A few weeks ago, I asked Bjorkan to come with me because I kind of want to see how our
00:27:51future
00:27:51could look together as someone who's supposed to support me.
00:27:55But now I kind of think it just feels weird.
00:27:59Even though we made out last night, I am still feeling insecure about how he actually perceives me physically.
00:28:07Is he attracted or not?
00:28:24Yeah.
00:28:36Yeah.
00:28:37Yeah.
00:28:38Yeah.
00:28:38Yeah.
00:28:39Nice to meet you.
00:28:39Did you come?
00:28:40Nice to meet you.
00:28:42Please, take your seats.
00:28:42Okay.
00:28:42Okay.
00:28:43So I'm Dr. Amar.
00:28:45I'm a board-certified plastic surgeon.
00:28:47How can I help you?
00:28:48Um, I have recently lost 140 pounds.
00:28:52And so I have some like loose skin in places that I am looking to have removed.
00:28:58Which areas bothers you the most?
00:29:00Like in my stomach area.
00:29:02The stomach part.
00:29:02It's my least competent spot.
00:29:05Uh-huh.
00:29:06So I will take you to the studio.
00:29:08Okay.
00:29:08For some pictures if it's okay for you.
00:29:10That's fine.
00:29:10And then you can ask your questions.
00:29:13Okay.
00:29:13I love that.
00:29:13And we can figure out a treatment plan for you.
00:29:16I love that.
00:29:16Alright.
00:29:16Thank you very much.
00:29:20Just knock the door when you're ready.
00:29:22Okay.
00:29:22I will come in.
00:29:23Alright.
00:29:25Can I?
00:29:26For sure you can.
00:29:30I touched someone else's boobs.
00:29:32I'm sorry.
00:29:36It's like a jellyfish.
00:29:38I just wanted to touch.
00:29:40You can't blame me guys.
00:29:48I guess at least you're having fun.
00:29:51Perfect.
00:29:52This is going to be enough for me.
00:29:54Can you come closer to the background?
00:29:56Come closer.
00:29:57Perfect.
00:29:57Okay.
00:29:58Now we're going to pull this part down.
00:30:01A little bit more.
00:30:02Perfect.
00:30:02Yeah, this is an area that I want to look at.
00:30:06Yeah, I got it.
00:30:06I got it.
00:30:07Perfect.
00:30:07Perfect.
00:30:08No.
00:30:09Nothing is seen.
00:30:11Okay.
00:30:12Alright.
00:30:14Okay.
00:30:15Just a few pictures.
00:30:17Okay.
00:30:17And it will be over.
00:30:18Your arms will be on your back.
00:30:20Exactly like that.
00:30:21Thank you very much.
00:30:23Mm-hmm.
00:30:27This part as fast as possible.
00:30:34I feel really awkward because my stomach area is my biggest insecurity.
00:30:42Perfect.
00:30:42Same thing to the other side.
00:30:45I have worked my ass off literally and figuratively.
00:30:49And the fact that I still have the loose skin has been really hard.
00:30:55Thank you very much.
00:30:56That's great.
00:30:58When I look in the mirror, I don't want to see myself at 315 pounds anymore.
00:31:03I want to see myself now and the work that I've put in.
00:31:11Oh, okay.
00:31:15So, the problem at the tummy part is actually really common.
00:31:22Okay.
00:31:22After losing so much weight.
00:31:24Yeah.
00:31:24I will just show you some pictures.
00:31:32So, as you can see, a horizontal problem here.
00:31:37Mm-hmm.
00:31:37We should cut vertically.
00:31:41I was not expecting the doctor to take the things that you know are your most insecure flaws
00:31:49and project them for everyone to see like that.
00:31:54I am immediately regretting having Bearcon come with me.
00:31:58Here I am sitting next to my boyfriend who happens to be 20 years younger than I am.
00:32:05Like, what the hell was I thinking?
00:32:08This is not romantic.
00:32:10It's not sexy.
00:32:12It's awful.
00:32:19So, do you think I can meet your family?
00:32:22My brothers, my father, everyone have here life.
00:32:26So, I'm not going to meet anyone in your family while I'm here?
00:32:28That's what I think.
00:32:30It's really odd that he wouldn't want to introduce me.
00:32:32It just makes me feel like he's hiding something about his life.
00:32:47Hello.
00:32:49How are you?
00:32:51Salam.
00:32:52Do you know where I can buy, like, hair oil?
00:32:54Like, to make my hair shiny?
00:32:59Oh.
00:33:00Excuse me?
00:33:01Do you know where I can get hair oil?
00:33:04No, not, like, hair oil.
00:33:06Not spice.
00:33:07Down there?
00:33:08Okay.
00:33:10Okay.
00:33:11Maybe here.
00:33:12No.
00:33:14No.
00:33:16Bags.
00:33:17Not oil.
00:33:19Can you get stuff for your hair?
00:33:22Yeah.
00:33:22Oh, really?
00:33:23Yeah.
00:33:23Here?
00:33:24Perfect.
00:33:25I love tea.
00:33:35We're going to be cooking today.
00:33:40Shokran.
00:33:42This doesn't really match my outfit.
00:33:44It's fine.
00:33:45It's just, it's for, cover your outfit, so you don't need.
00:33:50This morning, I took a walk through the Medina to try and clear my head.
00:33:55This isn't really sexy.
00:33:57Right now, I'm feeling really concerned about everything that's happened since I landed.
00:34:02Ziad's been very distant with me emotionally and physically the whole time that I've been here.
00:34:08And it's making me a little suspicious.
00:34:11I'm actually really excited for this.
00:34:13But Ziad is taking me to a cooking class today.
00:34:17And I really think it's such a cute idea.
00:34:21I'm going to really try not to just be in my head and overthink things.
00:34:26And I'm hoping this could be a fun bonding moment between us.
00:34:30What are we making?
00:34:33Tajine with chicken and lemon.
00:34:38Yum.
00:34:39That sounds good.
00:34:45Can you tell me what she's saying?
00:34:49Okay.
00:34:51Wait, but I want to do it.
00:34:53Oh, you peel it.
00:34:54Exactly.
00:34:55Oh.
00:34:57So we're peeling the lemon.
00:34:58Exactly.
00:34:59All right.
00:35:00I could do that.
00:35:04I did it.
00:35:05Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:35:06She said you make it perfect.
00:35:14Ooh.
00:35:15No.
00:35:19Got it.
00:35:21Don't I look like a wife right now?
00:35:23I have an apron on.
00:35:25I'm cooking.
00:35:26Yeah.
00:35:26This is like real wife material.
00:35:29This is actually a lot of fun.
00:35:30Yeah.
00:35:31I like this.
00:35:32I want to teach Emma how to cook for me.
00:35:35I don't have a picture of you in my mind.
00:35:37You are cooking.
00:35:39Yeah, I don't.
00:35:40I don't cook.
00:35:41No.
00:35:42You need, for example, to make breakfast.
00:35:45I don't like breakfast.
00:35:46Lunch.
00:35:48How did you leave if you don't?
00:35:50Coffee is my breakfast.
00:35:52I could make you, like, toast.
00:35:56And what about the lunch?
00:35:57I'll order you something.
00:35:59For lunch, I can cook for myself.
00:36:02I make it easy for you.
00:36:04That's, yeah.
00:36:05That's better.
00:36:08What's your favorite food?
00:36:13What's my favorite?
00:36:14Do you remember?
00:36:16It's sushi.
00:36:18Yeah.
00:36:18I know it.
00:36:19Aw, you remember.
00:36:21Have you ever cooked for your other ex-girlfriends before?
00:36:24No, never.
00:36:25That's definitely not.
00:36:25We don't eat in-house or, no.
00:36:28We, if we wanna, if you wanna eat, we eat outside.
00:36:31So we don't have time to.
00:36:33Oh.
00:36:33So you don't eat in the house?
00:36:34Never.
00:36:35Just for myself.
00:36:38Or for my parents.
00:36:43Did you tell your family about me yet?
00:36:46Yeah, yeah.
00:36:46They know you are here and I'm with you.
00:36:51Before I came to Morocco, Zied mentioned that he didn't tell anyone in his family that I was coming.
00:36:58I was upset.
00:37:00So I'm glad that Zied finally told them.
00:37:03But I'm a little disappointed that he hasn't set up a meeting.
00:37:09I wanna know more about him and understand him a little bit more.
00:37:12And I feel like meeting his family is the best way to do that.
00:37:16So do you think I can meet your family?
00:37:19Uh, I don't know which time they will be free or they will be there, for example.
00:37:27My father always traveling.
00:37:30So I'm not gonna meet anyone in your family while I'm here?
00:37:33Mmm, maybe, yeah.
00:37:34That's what I think.
00:37:37Don't you think that's a little frustrating for me?
00:37:40It is, it is.
00:37:41Like I'm not seeing your apartment, I'm not meeting your family.
00:37:44It is.
00:37:44Every one of my brothers, my father, everyone have her life.
00:37:51You know, this is the man that I love and that I wanna be with.
00:37:55It's really odd that he wouldn't wanna introduce me to his family.
00:37:58And it just makes me feel like he's hiding me or hiding something about his life.
00:38:05And that's not okay.
00:38:08Have you ever introduced a girl to your parents?
00:38:11A girl?
00:38:11Yeah.
00:38:12No, no, no.
00:38:13The girls you date normally aren't just Moroccan girls.
00:38:16Yeah, yeah.
00:38:17Have you ever talked to an American girl, like online?
00:38:21Or just me?
00:38:24Uh-huh.
00:38:25Uh-huh.
00:38:26Uh, she's all...
00:38:26Have you talked to girls from like Europe or...
00:38:29Uh, no, no.
00:38:33Because the app that we met on is international.
00:38:36Yeah, yeah, I know.
00:38:37I was matched with a loss, of course, but I don't talk.
00:38:40We don't...
00:38:41We didn't talk.
00:38:42You didn't message any of them?
00:38:44No, no, no, no.
00:38:47I feel like he's lying to me.
00:38:50Before I came to Morocco, me and Sia had gotten into a huge fight because I found out that he's
00:38:56still talking to a woman online.
00:38:57He told me that he wasn't cheating on me, but I'm not so sure about that.
00:39:03So I downloaded this extension on my laptop and it shows you in order who people follow.
00:39:13Cut the garlic.
00:39:18This morning, I checked on my computer and I found out that he's still adding more women.
00:39:25They're all from different countries.
00:39:27I mean, it's like he's never stopped looking for other options.
00:39:31It feels like everything is hitting me all at once and I'm putting the pieces together.
00:39:37And it's just making me wonder if he did cheat on me or if he even really wants this relationship.
00:39:43I think it's time to find out what's the real story here.
00:39:52I still really want to talk to your family.
00:39:55It would be best if Forrest wanted to meet my family first.
00:40:00So they could have a better understanding.
00:40:03I can't even imagine what her parents would try and do if Forrest went over there by himself.
00:40:08I need to be there with Forrest.
00:40:12Forrest?
00:40:23This is Kahlo.
00:40:25So this is the area where there's a lot of, you know, um, street clubs.
00:40:31Mm-hmm.
00:40:33That's something we're going to have to do, you guys.
00:40:35I don't need to see that. All I need is my sheep.
00:40:39Forrest, it's not the point of replacement.
00:40:42It's the point of just observing other things.
00:40:47I have no interest in women, but the human body is beautiful.
00:40:52I don't even go to those in the States.
00:40:54On my construction job, that was our lunch because they cooked the best hamburgers.
00:41:01Monday was amateur day.
00:41:04Oh, man.
00:41:13Oh, look at that tree coming right out of the wall.
00:41:14Oh, my. That's me, isn't it?
00:41:16Mm.
00:41:18My conversation with Sheena yesterday forced me to reevaluate how I'm going to approach Sheena's parents.
00:41:24And we decided that it's best to meet Sheena's family first without my mom and dad.
00:41:29So what other things are in, uh, what do you call it?
00:41:32Intramural roles.
00:41:33So this is another historical site in Manila.
00:41:37So it's like a Spanish piece.
00:41:39Oh, man.
00:41:40I just have such a thing for history because you have to learn from history.
00:41:44Yes.
00:41:45Because history repeats itself.
00:41:47You can kind of predict what's going to happen if you don't learn from mistakes from the first time.
00:41:54You know, that's how I've always felt.
00:41:56I'm not looking forward to talking to my mom about this at all.
00:42:01She's pretty much going to freak out and really think now that her family is trying to get the hooks
00:42:06into me.
00:42:06Like I'm going to go the first day and they're just going to set me down.
00:42:09They're going to open up my brain and they're just going to pour the brainwashing juice directly into my soul.
00:42:16And she's going to fight me tooth and nail to allow herself to go.
00:42:21Here we are at the Intramuros.
00:42:25Woo!
00:42:28So this you can see it's like a garrison for Spanish governors.
00:42:33For all the important guys.
00:42:34Yes, yes, yes.
00:42:36For Spanish rulers at that era.
00:42:39Yes.
00:42:39Mostly like 1600s.
00:42:40That is neat.
00:42:42Well, look at the fountain.
00:42:44Yeah, that's the good stuff here.
00:42:45Oh, my God.
00:42:46You want to see?
00:42:47It's so beautiful.
00:42:48Yeah.
00:42:49You can definitely tell that you're not in America anymore.
00:42:51Yeah.
00:42:51You can see the constructions, the variations.
00:42:53Do you know what?
00:42:54One thing Deb and I talk about all the time is we'll look at a rock and we say,
00:43:00you know, imagine how much this rock has seen.
00:43:06It all blows my mind right there.
00:43:08Oh, man.
00:43:11To Sheena's credit, she really is making the effort to show us the best of her country.
00:43:17Oh, my God.
00:43:18Yeah.
00:43:19Hard.
00:43:19How old is this?
00:43:20Probably a thousand years.
00:43:21I don't know.
00:43:22Yeah, you could trade open.
00:43:23Maybe something will pop up.
00:43:24Oh, no, no.
00:43:24I don't want to open it.
00:43:26But honestly, I don't regret going so hard on Sheena the other night like that.
00:43:32Whoa.
00:43:33Oh, my God.
00:43:34I want to get one of these hats.
00:43:35Mom and her hats.
00:43:37Yeah, that's how it'll look like.
00:43:38Oh, you're like Vietnamese.
00:43:39Oh, hey, that's perfect.
00:43:41I want to believe she has good intentions.
00:43:43Yeah, they are so handsome.
00:43:46But we're just sitting here stirring in the pot.
00:43:50I'm still struggling to figure out why Sheena lied.
00:43:53And I know in my heart that there is more to this story.
00:43:58There.
00:43:59There.
00:44:00There.
00:44:01There.
00:44:01There.
00:44:02There.
00:44:02That's the monkey's walk.
00:44:04I'm going to sit down, guys.
00:44:06All right.
00:44:06I'm sweating like crazy.
00:44:07Oh, God.
00:44:10This is all wonderful.
00:44:12I didn't realize how truly beautiful the Philippines is.
00:44:16Yes.
00:44:17Thanks so much.
00:44:18I mean, seeing this, meeting you, is so important.
00:44:24Mm-hmm.
00:44:25But there's still one little piece of the puzzle, and that's with your family.
00:44:32So I still really want to talk to them and discuss things.
00:44:39Well, I'm glad that you brought up, you know, Sheena's family.
00:44:47Sheena and I had a discussion about, you know, going by ourselves to meet your parents,
00:44:52and how it's important that I meet them before Mom and Dad meet them.
00:44:57So, Mom, I know that you wanted to go as a group to meet with Sheena's family, but we would
00:45:03really like it if you come the next day.
00:45:07Forrest.
00:45:08Isn't that right, babe?
00:45:10It would be best if Forrest wanted to meet my family first, so they could have a better understanding.
00:45:18I can't even imagine what her parents would try and do if Forrest went over there by himself.
00:45:23If Sheena's family is able to manipulate Sheena the way that they do,
00:45:29with the whole tradition and the first oldest daughter thing, and that we're broke,
00:45:35then who's to say they can't manipulate Forrest?
00:45:39I need to be there with Forrest and Sheena.
00:45:46I feel it is important that you have me and Dev to stand by your side.
00:45:53Just we will come in and say our greetings, hello, how are you?
00:45:58No going and yelling and screaming, I promise.
00:46:02And so I was hoping that you would be in agreement to doing that, allowing us to come.
00:46:15Mom, we're not saying that we don't want you to be there, we want you to be there, we just
00:46:20want you to go the next day.
00:46:23Because we can talk about special pink fairy dust and all this other great things, but we live in reality,
00:46:31okay?
00:46:32And in reality, you are a very hardcore person.
00:46:36You know you are going to go and look for anything to be said.
00:46:43And I'm an adult.
00:46:44You need to treat me like an adult.
00:46:46I am not a child anymore.
00:46:49And you should be able to trust me and Sheena and our judgment.
00:46:53I cannot trust Sheena yet.
00:46:55She has not trusted it.
00:46:57This is the perfect opportunity.
00:46:57And I cannot trust you now.
00:46:59This is the perfect opportunity.
00:47:00I cannot trust you now.
00:47:03I know Forrest.
00:47:04He will sacrifice his own self and do anything for Sheena.
00:47:10This was the whole reason why I came here was to protect Forrest from Sheena's parents.
00:47:16This is total bull .
00:47:22Only moments away, this is so surreal.
00:47:26I'm meeting my husband, not just any man.
00:47:30I have a feeling that we're going to have some communication problem again.
00:47:34I don't know.
00:47:38Come on.
00:47:39Bubby, where are you?
00:47:44Oh, man.
00:47:54I love you.
00:47:59Okay, let me be.
00:48:00Oh, my baby.
00:48:05Oh.
00:48:07Oh, my baby.
00:48:08It's funny.
00:48:11Yeah.
00:48:11Oh, my baby.
00:48:13Oh, Ä‘emone.
00:48:13Oh, my baby.
00:48:13Oh, my baby.
00:48:13That's a wow.
00:48:14Oh, my baby.
00:48:16loving husband and I'm so excited it's just so surreal
00:48:25after being married for three years in a relationship for six years I finally get
00:48:33to meet my husband in person for the first time so crazy hi hello good morning I'm finally picking
00:48:44up my husband could you please bring us some champagne later on I suggested that we start
00:48:51this trip on our honeymoon so this morning I check into this beautiful resort in Bicol
00:48:57but it's been raining ever since I showed up some people would think that it's a bad sign
00:49:05but you know I'm Catholic and for us water is cleansing for me it's a blessing some breath
00:49:13spray for the first kiss ever my god Javon here I come that are the airport please wow I feel
00:49:26like
00:49:26puking there's just so many emotions going on in my system right now I feel happy I feel excited I
00:49:38feel intense it's just the fact that I'm meeting my husband not just any man at the same time I
00:49:47have
00:49:47a feeling though we're also gonna have some communication problem again I don't know but I
00:49:55don't want to be negative because this moment is very special to me I've been waiting for a long time
00:50:01so for today I'm gonna focus on the positive which is the love and the feelings we have for each
00:50:09other
00:50:19just touched down I'm very very excited about what's about to happen this is so surreal
00:50:27I can't believe that even though we almost been married for three years I'm about to meet my wife
00:50:33for the first time this moment is huge because it's been a build-up over years I'm excited but
00:50:41also I have a lot of anxiety because things are far from perfect right now I would love to get
00:50:48back to
00:50:49the place where me and Anna can have fun and laugh together and be happy in our relationship like how
00:50:56it
00:50:56was in the beginning this has been like an overdue dream for me I would always daydream of how it's
00:51:11gonna
00:51:11be how it would feel like I wonder how it feels to touch him to hold him oh my god
00:51:19the nervousness is
00:51:21just leveling up it's like ordering something online and when it finally arrives you're just excited to
00:51:30unpack the package just past customs I'm one step closer to seeing Anna and just so ready
00:51:53come on Bobby where are you didn't know my skin I'll soak it in
00:52:05better days you just arrived and I'm ready now I've been waiting for my time
00:52:24mommy
00:52:27mom
00:52:28god
00:52:30i'm
00:52:32mom
00:52:32i'm
00:52:34mom
00:52:35mom
00:52:35mom
00:52:35mess
00:52:36mom
00:52:39mom
00:52:43It's okay.
00:52:46Look at you in pink.
00:52:48Like a peach on a windowsill.
00:52:51Yeah, I told you.
00:52:53Yeah.
00:52:55Happy, huh?
00:53:00Stop crying.
00:53:01It's okay.
00:53:02You're supposed to be happy.
00:53:04I'm happy.
00:53:06Here's some joy.
00:53:10I rehearsed the moment in my head a thousand times of how I was going to approach her and what
00:53:16she was going to look like.
00:53:17And she's just everything that I ever hoped for and more.
00:53:24Oh, my God.
00:53:26You're so fluffy.
00:53:28You're very handsome and tall.
00:53:31And, yeah, perfect.
00:53:34It just feels like a dream.
00:53:37It feels surreal.
00:53:37Like, I still can't believe it, but I just want more kisses.
00:53:44Yeah.
00:53:47It's still not enough.
00:53:51I got you some chocolate.
00:53:53Some more stuff for you in my suitcase.
00:53:55Very smart.
00:53:55Yeah.
00:53:56You stir for me?
00:53:57Like, I can't even wrap my brain around it that I am standing next to my wife.
00:54:04It just feels amazing.
00:54:05And I'm ready for the honeymoon.
00:54:18You look uncomfortable right now, so I'm curious if you're okay with this.
00:54:23You're fine by me.
00:54:24I am comfortable with everything.
00:54:26Seeing your photos is just...
00:54:29It is just...
00:54:30Laura says you're uncomfortable.
00:54:32Are you?
00:54:39I will just show you some pictures.
00:54:50So, as you can see, a horizontal problem here that we should cut vertically.
00:54:57We call it abdominoplasty, but in public it's called thumbtack.
00:55:01Okay.
00:55:02So, fix this area here and here in this part.
00:55:06We can remove it.
00:55:07Okay.
00:55:08When we do an FDL tummy tuck, we have to cut in the middle of your tummy, so it's almost
00:55:14impossible
00:55:14to hide it.
00:55:15Right.
00:55:15Okay.
00:55:17You look uncomfortable right now, so I'm curious if...
00:55:20I'm comfortable with everything.
00:55:23Laura says you're uncomfortable.
00:55:25Are you?
00:55:26Are you?
00:55:28Are you?
00:55:56That's what I was about to ask.
00:56:00Uh-huh.
00:56:00Usually, patients ask.
00:56:01So, six weeks.
00:56:03Okay.
00:56:03All right?
00:56:04So, like, anything I do at the gym pretty much would be done for six weeks.
00:56:08Almost, yes.
00:56:09Almost.
00:56:09But approximately two to three weeks later, you can start jogging and light exercises.
00:56:15Excellent.
00:56:16And I'll have a packet of all this information.
00:56:19Of course.
00:56:19It's already printed out.
00:56:21Okay.
00:56:21Thank you very much.
00:56:23But we'll be in touch.
00:56:24Yes, absolutely.
00:56:25And if you have additional medical questions, feel free to ask.
00:56:29I love that.
00:56:30I was just going to ask if there was an email.
00:56:33I appreciate your time.
00:56:36I'm glad I did it.
00:56:37But I feel really embarrassed about going to this appointment with Birkan.
00:56:44I'm not fully confident that he's, like, physically attracted to me.
00:56:50And having him in there with me has made me more insecure than ever.
00:56:59So, what are you thinking about surgery?
00:57:03It's something that I've thought about for a long time now.
00:57:05Yeah.
00:57:06I feel like sometimes I'll catch a glimpse of myself, and I feel like I don't look any different
00:57:11than I did 140 pounds ago.
00:57:13And I hate that.
00:57:14Yeah.
00:57:16Okay, I see.
00:57:18If you feel more confident when you do it, just do it.
00:57:23This is your life.
00:57:25You have to make your own decisions.
00:57:29That shows you how brave you are.
00:57:32You know?
00:57:33I don't feel like it's brave, though.
00:57:36This feels exactly the opposite of brave.
00:57:38I feel, like, scared and embarrassed, and, like, it's not brave.
00:57:47But you have nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed.
00:57:53You have the power to change your life.
00:57:57You wanted a better body.
00:57:59Now you have it.
00:58:01You lost all the weight you want.
00:58:04This is the best part.
00:58:05You just go into a surgery and enjoy your rest of your life, you know?
00:58:11And you are gorgeous.
00:58:18I will always be on your side.
00:58:21Okay?
00:58:26Okay.
00:58:27Okay.
00:58:28Okay.
00:58:30I appreciate that.
00:58:33I love how supportive Bercan is.
00:58:37His words are so touching.
00:58:42I feel like I'm finally starting to get some reassurance from him that, yeah, he really does love me.
00:58:50And I can trust what he's saying.
00:58:53You want to go?
00:58:53Mm-hmm.
00:58:54Now let's go.
00:58:56Okay.
00:59:01You're the best.
00:59:02I know.
00:59:04That's my mojo.
00:59:12Since we've been dating, have you talked romantically to any other girls?
00:59:17No, I don't.
00:59:18I just don't want us to have any secrets.
00:59:21So what about you?
00:59:22When we match, we're talking, and one day, we just go away.
00:59:27Can you just give me some details while you're this praying?
00:59:40Cute!
00:59:42That is so cute!
00:59:46That's, like, the cutest thing I've ever seen.
00:59:48Can we eat now?
01:00:01This is so pretty!
01:00:03Yes, so nice.
01:00:04Do you want to sit over here?
01:00:05You can sit right at this table.
01:00:07I'm feeling a little frustrated after the cooking class because I feel like the past couple
01:00:12days, he's just been changing his story.
01:00:14He's been telling different things to me online and in person.
01:00:18Oh, this is what we made.
01:00:19This is so solid.
01:00:20And then seeing what Sietta's doing on social media, I feel like he has something that he's
01:00:26hiding or that he doesn't want to tell me.
01:00:29This is all the more reason that I think every girl needs to do a little bit of stalking.
01:00:35I would never, like, show up at someone's house in the middle of the night.
01:00:38Like, that's, like, creepy stalker status.
01:00:41But, you know, like, some light digging is, like, totally normal.
01:00:47I investigate.
01:00:49I don't stalk.
01:00:54We did a really good job.
01:00:56Yeah.
01:00:56Should we try it?
01:01:00Mm.
01:01:03That's really good.
01:01:05Do you like it?
01:01:07It's so delicious.
01:01:08Good.
01:01:17You don't eat yours.
01:01:19There is...
01:01:20Yeah, I'm eating.
01:01:21No, you eat nothing.
01:01:22You just...
01:01:25I have a lot on my mind.
01:01:27I'm thinking...
01:01:28For example...
01:01:31I don't know.
01:01:32I'm just, like, thinking about...
01:01:34About what?
01:01:35Just, like, the whole...
01:01:40Argument we got into a couple weeks ago.
01:01:42What?
01:01:43When I found out that you were still talking to girls.
01:01:47And you haven't talked to any girls since.
01:01:49No.
01:01:50So you don't talk to girls on your social media?
01:01:52Social media?
01:01:53It's just people who know me.
01:01:56I've been looking at your page.
01:01:59Every day.
01:02:00Mm-hmm.
01:02:01You follow new girls.
01:02:02Just girls, girls, girls, girls, girls, girls.
01:02:04And?
01:02:05No, no.
01:02:05There is not...
01:02:05Yeah.
01:02:06And it's, like, thousands of people that you follow.
01:02:08There is...
01:02:08It's like respect.
01:02:09If someone follow me, I follow him back.
01:02:11So what if they message you?
01:02:12Do you respond to messages, too?
01:02:15Just people who...
01:02:16They know me or I know them.
01:02:18If girls try to flirt with you, what do you say?
01:02:20I would say thanks.
01:02:21That's all.
01:02:22Oh.
01:02:23So since we've been dating, have you talked romantically to any other girls?
01:02:29I speak only with you, like, something romantic because you are my girl.
01:02:37So that's...
01:02:38So you don't think you've ever cheated on me?
01:02:42No, I don't.
01:02:43You would never cheat?
01:02:44No.
01:02:45Or lie?
01:02:46No.
01:02:47I just don't want us to have any secrets between each other.
01:02:50For me, everything on me, I say to you.
01:02:54I don't hide nothing.
01:02:59Anything she asks me, I give her answers.
01:03:02What's in the beginning of our relationship?
01:03:04She did something that confused me, and I never asked her about it.
01:03:11Sometimes I see her reaction, how she talked with me.
01:03:15It's like she has, like, secrets or something inside here.
01:03:20It's like I feel it.
01:03:23I want to feel like I can trust you, and that, like, you're not ever going to do something behind
01:03:28my back.
01:03:29Like, I don't ever want to have to worry about it.
01:03:30I don't hide nothing.
01:03:33So, what about you?
01:03:37Do you have some secret to me?
01:03:43No.
01:03:44Sure.
01:03:48Because I remember when we match, we're talking, and one day, where is she?
01:03:56I don't know.
01:03:57We just go away.
01:03:59So, when you come back, I was waiting for you to talk.
01:04:03You didn't talk.
01:04:06Can you just give me some details while you did this prayer?
01:04:14Um, I was just going through a bad breakup.
01:04:16So, no, in the sad moments when we talk, you still with someone or by yourself?
01:04:23I was going through a breakup.
01:04:26When we're speaking the first time, you give me a picture of you like you are single.
01:04:32You know?
01:04:33And you are not.
01:04:34You are still with him.
01:04:35Well, I was going through a breakup.
01:04:38Breakup.
01:04:39I mean, you're still talking with him.
01:04:40Like, going through a breakup means?
01:04:42Still talking with him.
01:04:44We were going through a breakup.
01:04:46I have to repeat again.
01:04:47I have to repeat.
01:04:48No.
01:04:49So, you don't want to tell a couple of us.
01:04:50Babe, I was going through a breakup.
01:04:52That's my answer.
01:04:53I was going through a breakup.
01:04:55I wasn't in the right headspace to start a relationship.
01:04:59Ah.
01:05:01Me and Zied have actually never talked about why I ended things with him when we first started dating.
01:05:07So, I'm really shocked to hear Zied bringing this up right now.
01:05:11I mean, honestly, I did kind of just drop him and disappear because I was trying to make things work
01:05:16with my ex.
01:05:20I really want to be open with Zied about Mohamed.
01:05:23But I feel like with the ways Zied is, like, badgering me for this information right now, he wouldn't take
01:05:30it well.
01:05:33So, I'm just not really ready to tell him in this moment.
01:05:38That was a long time ago.
01:05:40Right?
01:05:41No, I want to listen to the details.
01:05:44I'm here with you now, and I want to be with you now.
01:05:46I'm not talking with now.
01:05:47Yeah, what I know is...
01:05:49Because I want to be with you now and focus on right now as being together.
01:05:55She's being weird.
01:05:57She don't want to tell me everything.
01:06:00And when I speak with her in the subject, she changed the subject for another subject.
01:06:10Right now, I see, like, she's hiding a lot of things.
01:06:15And I can't to be engaged with someone who has this secret.
01:06:27Wow, would you do all this?
01:06:29Yeah.
01:06:29I am very nervous because it has been almost a decade since I had sex.
01:06:36Okay.
01:06:39Well, if the positions have changed, do I still know how it's going to go?
01:06:45Jovan, you ready for me?
01:06:50Now, how is it all of a sudden you can miraculously change and stand up to your parents?
01:06:56Well, my family isn't the bad people.
01:06:58Now the story changes again.
01:07:01I'm lying, not keeping her story straight.
01:07:04That's where I have an issue.
01:07:06I still don't know if this isn't something that you're involved in either.
01:07:11They're going to have you snooker before you even realize it, Forrest.
01:07:26I'm so happy.
01:07:27Really?
01:07:28Yeah.
01:07:29What?
01:07:30You can just look at me all night.
01:07:35Oh, my God.
01:07:37Oh, my God.
01:07:39Forrest, you need to kiss me.
01:07:42When you're seated, you can stay with me into the sunrise.
01:07:46As long as I've got you, give me a smile.
01:07:49Where are you going?
01:07:50I kiss this night.
01:07:53I just met my wife for the first time in person.
01:07:57Man, I dreamed about this day for a long time.
01:08:00This is freaking huge.
01:08:04Right now, we're on our way to the resort that Anna booked.
01:08:07And it's a very surreal feeling.
01:08:11Before I met you, I have a lot of thought about this, daydream about this, wild dream about this.
01:08:20Yeah.
01:08:21Wet dreams about this.
01:08:23But then, it's funny because even though we're married, I was a bit worried about it.
01:08:28I was thinking, like, oh, my God, like, am I going to be shy?
01:08:32But I feel like I can fart over here right now.
01:08:40Anna's personality is a big ball of energy, and she's a little wacky, and she can literally hold a conversation
01:08:47all on her own.
01:08:50Pretty much the opposite of me.
01:08:52But what can I say?
01:08:54That's my wife.
01:08:57So am I what you were expecting?
01:09:00You're exactly what I was expecting.
01:09:04My beautiful, chatty wife.
01:09:10Here we are.
01:09:15This is really nice.
01:09:17That's why I picked it.
01:09:19It's got good taste, you know.
01:09:21Yes.
01:09:23Ready?
01:09:27Okay.
01:09:28You got it?
01:09:28Yeah.
01:09:29Good.
01:09:30No.
01:09:31You heavy.
01:09:34No, don't throw me away.
01:09:36Don't throw you?
01:09:38No.
01:09:39You may look tiny, but you heavy, though.
01:09:42Wow, would you do all this?
01:09:44Yeah.
01:09:45Okay.
01:09:47I've been waiting on this night for six years.
01:09:50It's our honeymoon, and seeing the rose petals on the bed, you know.
01:09:56The environment's right for us to, you know.
01:10:01Get it in.
01:10:05Yeah.
01:10:07Boo, this is yours.
01:10:11You can take off your...
01:10:13These come with the room?
01:10:14Yeah.
01:10:15Okay.
01:10:15You can take this off.
01:10:16Oh, I'm kind of scared to take my socks off.
01:10:20Yeah.
01:10:23Oh, I can smell that.
01:10:29Oh, boy.
01:10:33I was wearing boots.
01:10:35I haven't taken a shower in, like...
01:10:36Why would you wear boots on a 33-hour flight?
01:10:43Get a big whiff, man.
01:10:44That's what you're going to have to deal with on a day-to-day basis.
01:10:46You want to take a shower?
01:10:49Please do.
01:10:50All right.
01:10:51Okay?
01:10:51I'll be right out.
01:10:54I knew that I would learn a lot of things about Jubon, but I did not expect that the feet
01:11:01would smell so badly.
01:11:07Smell terrible.
01:11:15I am very nervous because, oh, my God, I've never been with a man for a long time.
01:11:22It has been almost a decade since I had sex.
01:11:27Okay.
01:11:28Yeah.
01:11:29Look at you.
01:11:30Better.
01:11:30I am worried a little bit.
01:11:33I'm not going to be able to satisfy him.
01:11:35I don't know.
01:11:38Well, if the positions have changed, do I still know how it's going to go?
01:11:44Like, I don't know.
01:11:51Juvon, you ready for me?
01:11:55Hey.
01:11:56Yeah.
01:11:57Look at you.
01:11:59Mm-hmm.
01:11:59Good, boy.
01:12:02I know we have a lot to figure out about each other.
01:12:05The next few weeks.
01:12:07But so far, Juvon and I are off to a really romantic start.
01:12:12All right, you ready?
01:12:12You ready?
01:12:13Yeah.
01:12:13Yeah.
01:12:14But, oh, my God.
01:12:16I've never seen any married couple that took three years before doing it.
01:12:23Wish me luck.
01:12:26Three.
01:12:37Sheena, if we go and meet your parents, I agree to not speak out of turn.
01:12:46I don't believe you're going to do that.
01:12:48And we cannot mess this up with Sheena's family.
01:13:06Sheena, your parents are going to do the same line that they've used on you all along,
01:13:12the cultural thing and the duty of the family.
01:13:16Now, how is it all of a sudden, under one day, you can miraculously change and stand up to
01:13:22your parents?
01:13:23Well, my family isn't the bad people.
01:13:26It's just that probably got misunderstood.
01:13:29Oh, now the story changes again.
01:13:31Again.
01:13:32You told me yourself.
01:13:34Yes, ma'am.
01:13:35That you are pressured and you're scared of your family, remember?
01:13:40Yes, ma'am.
01:13:40But I am a full-grown adult.
01:13:41You're scared of your family.
01:13:43And I could know.
01:13:44But now you feel totally safe and...
01:13:47Yes, I understand, ma'am.
01:13:49Ah, how that switches.
01:13:51Sheena telling me that her parents aren't bad people, it's like, what?
01:13:57What are you saying?
01:13:58That's a total different story from what you've been telling me all along.
01:14:03Oh, they're mistreating me.
01:14:04They're going to kick me out.
01:14:06They call me names.
01:14:08All of this.
01:14:08And now the story switches.
01:14:10It's hard to think bad of your parent.
01:14:13You can't go and slam her and judge her just because she thinks highly of her parents.
01:14:17Where my problem is, is her lying, not keeping her story straight.
01:14:22That's where I have an issue.
01:14:25I still don't know if this isn't something that you're involved in either.
01:14:30It would be the most perfect setup for your family and you guys.
01:14:34Your family, of course, doesn't want you to leave this country and go to the United States.
01:14:40So you get Forrest to come over there and then it's twice the amount of money to your parents.
01:14:47And he will be the grunt just like you are.
01:14:51Stop.
01:14:51Don't.
01:14:52I don't do that.
01:14:53I love my person.
01:14:54I love your son.
01:14:55I love more than anything.
01:14:56I have self-respect for your son.
01:14:57But I'm just saying, my fear is Forrest is going to say and do anything just to keep your love
01:15:04and then find out that it was all a con.
01:15:09Mom, you acting this way has proven my point.
01:15:14I ask you to please just wait one day so I can go and greet Sheena's family.
01:15:20That was it.
01:15:21And look at where we're sitting right now.
01:15:23You can't even hold your temper.
01:15:26My mom is saying things that are way out of line.
01:15:30Sheena is a person with such a kind heart that she would never do anything to put me in danger
01:15:36or hurt me.
01:15:37I brought my mom to Manila to kind of support me and give me advice.
01:15:44But instead, she's always just nuking it, which makes everything worse.
01:15:51Mom, I don't think one day is truly going to change everything.
01:15:56Forrest, it's not even the point.
01:15:58We can't even have a decision.
01:15:59We've gone beyond that.
01:16:00It's already gone beyond that.
01:16:01You know why it's gone beyond that?
01:16:03Because of the fact that you don't trust me.
01:16:11I have bust my ass trying to make sure to be there for you and to be there for her.
01:16:20You think that if I didn't trust you that I would bring you all the way here to the Philippines?
01:16:25That took a lot of trust to bring you here.
01:16:30Forrest saying that he doesn't trust me, that I won't blow up.
01:16:35The reason why I blow up has always been to protect him.
01:16:42But to see how he's taken that protection and made it a problem, it's painful.
01:16:52And I will not be anybody's problem.
01:16:57You guys want your life?
01:16:58You want your thing?
01:16:59Mom, we're not trying to hurt you.
01:17:02They're going to have you snookered before you even realize it, Forrest.
01:17:07So, good luck, guys.
01:17:08Good luck.
01:17:11So, how do you feel this conversation went?
01:17:14Did you get what you wanted?
01:17:16Yes, it's for the best that she's not coming.
01:17:28Oh, my God, is it really you?
01:17:36He devoured me.
01:17:39When we get to the room, then maybe I will chew you.
01:17:47Oh, my God, you better stop.
01:17:49Oh, my God, Daniel.
01:17:51Oh, my God.
01:18:02I don't mind being here for morning to night.
01:18:25I can't believe I'm finally about to meet Daniel.
01:18:28Excuse me.
01:18:31Hello.
01:18:32This is a beginning chapter.
01:18:35No matter what it is, whether it's good or bad,
01:18:38it's going to change everything in my life right now.
01:19:11I want to look at you.
01:19:13Let me look at you.
01:19:14It's so beautiful.
01:19:23Oh, my God.
01:19:24I don't even have words for how I felt when I first saw Daniel.
01:19:28He started running towards me.
01:19:30And I was like, oh, my God, that's him.
01:19:32And my heart just exploded.
01:19:34And he devoured me.
01:19:38Are you sure?
01:19:41Daniel.
01:19:42Oh, my God, Daniel.
01:19:46When we get to the room, then maybe I will chew you.
01:19:49No.
01:19:54Oh, my God, you better stop.
01:19:57Oh, my God.
01:19:59Oh, my God, is it really you?
01:20:01Is it really you?
01:20:02Oh, my God.
01:20:14Don't cry.
01:20:15Don't try not to cry.
01:20:17Don't you cry.
01:20:18You know what I'm happy.
01:20:22She's more gorgeous than I think.
01:20:24More beautiful than the flowers I gave her.
01:20:28Really?
01:20:29Yeah.
01:20:30No, I'm a mess.
01:20:31I've been on a plane for hours.
01:20:32No, baby, come on.
01:20:34You're such an irresistible beautiful angel.
01:20:37Oh, my God, baby.
01:20:39I love you.
01:20:43Oh, my God.
01:20:44I don't know what to do.
01:20:46I don't know what to do next.
01:20:47OK, we should go.
01:20:48Let me get my, are you going to get the luggage?
01:20:49I will get this.
01:20:50You get that one?
01:20:52Which way?
01:20:53OK.
01:21:00What the heck?
01:21:07Baby.
01:21:11Did you do this for me?
01:21:13Did you really do this?
01:21:23My God!
01:21:38I walked out and there's music and it's loud and there's dancers dancing around and I'm thinking
01:21:44what the hell is this how they welcome all foreigners into their country but no this is
01:21:51about me Daniel set this up for me I plan to welcome
01:22:20her like a queen that's why I invited traditional dancers I am happy that she joined the dancers
01:22:27and the way she's laughing I am very sure about Lisa at this moment
01:22:43oh my god that was so amazing
01:22:49thank you
01:23:01what are you doing
01:23:19next time on before the 90 days this one is for you
01:23:28today we're traveling to meet Sheena's family with our goal of getting their blessing to be married
01:23:33they have a lot of questions for you first it's your career the truth is I'm quite frustrated forest
01:23:41haven't saved anything for a future you're an adult you can find a job you have to be man out
01:23:47of it
01:23:49I brought condoms too baby go take your shower get everything ready
01:23:54it's been 21 years since I've been with a man
01:23:57let me take your shower
01:23:58I want it I want it to happen but what if I want it and he doesn't want me
01:24:08when we first started talking he was so sweet calling me his wife within like 10 minutes
01:24:15so you are looking to get married yes
01:24:23she lied about something
01:24:27sometimes you overstep just a little bit we had that argument and you call my sister
01:24:34I love you but you are a little bit unhinged
01:24:38oh my god I can't believe you're born right now
01:24:42you done?
01:24:43done with this conversation
01:24:47well this is something you didn't tell me about
01:24:50wait stop
01:24:50can you just calm down because I wanted to
01:24:53you've been holding a secret for what four months now?
01:24:55now I'm thinking her ghosting me for five days
01:24:58directly has to do with her ex
01:25:01the wizard I didn't told you is
01:25:04it's trying to get me back
01:25:10I went to Istanbul but I couldn't find a job
01:25:14so with my debt I am just broke
01:25:17did you say your debts?
01:25:20yeah
01:25:21how much is it?
01:25:25I don't want to give you a heart attack
01:25:28I don't want to give you a thought
01:25:30I am just broke
01:25:30I came in 10 years
01:25:32I made him take you
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