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00:003-2-1
00:01Welcome to a new episode of the program
00:07Again, again, sorry
00:10In a new episode of the program
00:15Oh, I don't know.
00:16In Ah
00:20I don't know, it's not working.
00:22What's this, my dear? Why is your phone broken?
00:25Oh, I don't know, I don't feel like I'll be able to make an episode.
00:27How come? Everyone's focused on you.
00:30In cameras, photography and production
00:33It won't work
00:34I mean, suppose I don't know how to speak, I understand, I'm nervous, I understand, reference
00:38Everything was messed up and filming stopped.
00:40And what is it, my love, that's stressing you out?
00:42Why did you come back? Why did you eat?
00:44Well, I'm a failure
00:44All of this is fraud and deception.
00:47I'm a tough, confident person.
00:49But in the end
00:51As you can see me
00:53I am a coward and a mountain
00:56I'm nervous and I'll be back
00:57My son, this is Messi.
00:58This isn't the first time she's done this
01:00We made hundreds of episodes
01:02And then how is he a failure?
01:04People are waiting for your episodes.
01:05So you can learn from her
01:06And you hear the dots and laugh at them too.
01:09You're a failure, my son.
01:11Are you okay?
01:12What they didn't know was that I was nervous
01:13And maybe I'll understand the moment again
01:15Why are you going back?
01:16We've done this hundreds of times.
01:18normal
01:19God was with us
01:20Right or what?
01:22correct
01:23Especially since I'm not worried
01:24Because I have a brilliant director like you.
01:27Oh, you're a drug dealer.
01:29He worked with me on many episodes
01:31We can definitely do it, right?
01:33I won't know what's in it?
01:34The moment I said that, I got nervous.
01:36Do you think I'll be able to finish this episode?
01:38My dear, you directed many episodes
01:40Not the first time
01:41Or I know
01:42But I feel like people feel like I don't always do well.
01:47This is spoiling me
01:49I'm bored
01:51I think I'm going back or what?
01:52Oh Abu Fih
01:53Oh Abu Fih
01:56Yes, Mr. Ghandour
01:59I want two lemons
02:01Why me and the director?
02:02Because of Bayanhar
02:05What's wrong with you too?
02:06Everyone keeps asking me for tea and coffee.
02:09I couldn't make lemonade.
02:11Your disappointment
02:12The foundation was broken, exit
02:14I feel like
02:17I feel
02:19I feel
02:19I feel
02:20Do you want to go back to normal?
02:22Come here
02:23Come here
02:23Come on, let's all go back there.
02:25Come, by God
02:27I don't want you to come back either.
02:30We
02:36Dear viewers, welcome to a new episode of Al-Daheeh program.
02:40On May 12, 2017, author Neil Gaiman wrote on his blog...
02:44About a party I've been invited to for years
02:46A party that included only a book
02:47Great people of all kinds
02:50Artists, scientists, and explorers
02:52He says, my dear, that he is at the party
02:54I feel like I don't deserve to be considered a fool
02:56These people are first and foremost
02:56What's wrong with me?
02:57And at the time, my dear, when the party is going on
02:59Neil is such a big and humble man
03:02He will talk to him about things they have in common.
03:03For example, the man's name is also Neil.
03:06This guy gestured to Neil about the people in the hall and gestured to him
03:08What am I doing amidst all these people?
03:10These people have done great things
03:11I don't belong here.
03:12Neil is here, my dear, he's wandering through the plains.
03:14It's not just that the man thought of the same thing
03:16But because this man was not an ordinary person.
03:19It wasn't just about Neil's outfit
03:20This is Neil Armstrong himself
03:22That's my dear, in case you didn't know.
03:24The first human to walk on the surface of the earth
03:26Here, my dear, we are in a meeting that brings together
03:28A successful old man and a brilliant scientist
03:29Even if he's not a genius, he's the first person to get his feet on the surface of the matter.
03:33The two of them here feel that they
03:35As you say, they are occupiers
03:36They are all here because
03:38They laughed at people and understood them
03:40They are a taste of importance, occupiers
03:42And occupiers of what was not real
03:44The truth is, this wasn't an exceptional conversation.
03:46Let's take a greater writer and a greater scientist
03:48The writer Maya Angelou is one of the legends of modern literature.
03:51She says, my dear, that she wrote 11 books in her life.
03:53And with each book you begin writing
03:55Thinking
03:55You think, my dear, that it's occupied?
03:57And this new book is what will reveal people's lives.
04:00You guys are all shocked by it
04:01I'm not a talented person, I'm a lucky person.
04:03Dear, let's make a challenge with you
04:05Go ahead, Muhammad
04:05If I asked you who the most famous scientist in history is
04:08Yes, my dear
04:09And I don't know what's wrong with me
04:10I am Ahmed Halawa, and I played my part.
04:11Albert Einstein
04:12Oh, this is a bribe, this is Muhammad
04:13Albert Einstein
04:14He thought he was a con man
04:15Yes, my dear
04:16Einstein would describe himself and say
04:17I feel like I've been a compulsive fraud my whole life.
04:20Einstein wrote this line, and now it's up to you, my dear.
04:22He can follow in his early life
04:24Amidst the initial setbacks that we all experience
04:26I'm telling you, my dear, that Einstein wrote this line in 1955.
04:31My dear, this is the same year that Albert Einstein died.
04:34It means that after the whole world has rejected him, I swear by ten (units of currency).
04:38You are an important science
04:39Any Aqua MC Square is everywhere
04:41We built the atomic bomb based on your theories.
04:44And you won the Nobel Prize, you liar!
04:45Your theories have changed our view of the universe.
04:48When you're not a genius scientist
04:49Who remains a genius in science but a chatterbox?
04:51Despite, my dear, the achievements of people like Neil Armstrong and Einstein
04:54It's hard to repeat, but the feelings of those who described it are very widespread.
04:57But my dear, the world won't recognize her existence.
04:59And it was given a different name in the seventies.
05:02When Dr. Ross Clance, an assistant professor at Oberlin College, said
05:05She was surprised when her students told her that they felt they were going to fail.
05:08And they don't deserve to be in university.
05:10And surely, before them, there was a mistake at the beginning, and it will be revealed.
05:12Peru, my dear, even though their grades were always high
05:15This, my dear, surprised Dr. Clance
05:17He not only found it illogical, but also found it familiar.
05:20This reminded her of her own personal experience.
05:22I was born into a simple family; my father struggled in a wood factory to secure their livelihood.
05:26And she felt like she was failing every test she took; her mother would tell her, "I'm going to fail."
05:30But she was succeeding, and succeeding brilliantly.
05:32Until, my dear, she became the first member of her family to enter university.
05:35She obtained a doctorate in psychology.
05:37She will always be suspected of being a fraud and a con artist.
05:40And people will eventually discover that she's not talented, she's just lucky.
05:45She can't find a place that will improve the people around her.
05:48Those who pursue a PhD and study and teach, it's very difficult.
05:51In reality, they deserve the place that she feels she doesn't deserve.
05:55Dr. Clans and her colleague Dr. Susan will spend more than five years talking to 150 women like themselves.
06:01Women who have achieved success in various fields such as law, nursing, and teaching
06:06All the women felt the same way
06:08These feelings will be described by Clans and Ams in their research room, Peace, the phenomenon of the imposter.
06:13Ambuster Syndrome
06:14This paper, my dear, will spread like wildfire once it's published.
06:17Although, my dear, the study was on women
06:19But people of all genders, races, ages, and professions will say, "What is this? I see it like this."
06:25If we come, my dear, at this moment, at our current moment
06:27That is, almost half a century after this paper was published.
06:30While the examples we started with concern writers and scientists
06:33According to a 2024 report by Cornfree, which studied more than 10,000 employees worldwide, Fahleh
06:39Let me tell you, my friend, that 71% of CEOs are company presidents.
06:44They suffer from fraudulent behavior and lack confidence in their qualifications.
06:47The report, dear reader, described this statement as follows:
06:49crisis of confidence
06:50Crisis of self-confidence
06:52And at a time, my dear, when everyone derives their self-confidence from their appearance and looks
06:56Artists and models who are not considered style icons
06:59The reference to sweets
07:01Let me tell you, my dear, that many of these actors and image icons
07:04They stated that their lives are nothing but suffering with the feeling of being a fraud.
07:08And I'm not talking to you, my dear, about ordinary actors.
07:11I'm talking to you, my dear, about people of the stature of Emma Watson and Tom Hanks.
07:15Tom Haxt
07:15Tom Hanks
07:16Honestly, Abu Hamad, I've never felt like I was cheating with my coffee shop friends.
07:19I feel like I'm Magdi Yacoub, simplifying things for them.
07:21Honestly, my dear, this study is full of doubt.
07:22According to the Journal of General Internal Medicine
07:25In 2020, 80% of people were living in the incubator while we slept.
07:30The phenomenon of the fraudster
07:31Those who are here have found that we have experienced a sensory experience.
07:34An inner feeling in a person that they are not talented
07:36But quorum
07:37He was jealous of those around him and achieved successes and positions he didn't deserve.
07:41No, it's not a matter of luck, chance, or acting skill. I'm smart.
07:46Or the skill in acting, that I am talented
07:49It's not that I'm talented
07:50I am skilled at convincing people that I am talented.
07:52I
07:53In street language
07:54Fahlawi
07:55Not good
07:55Despite the dear inner feeling that is like a secret hidden inside its owner,
07:59This emotional experience is universal.
08:00Many people feel it
08:01To the point that the first term for it appeared
08:03People, get up and consult, and say, "This is us, this is us!"
08:05We already feel like we're scammers.
08:07According to the paper dated 12 years ago, 2023, entitled
08:10The inner feeling we described transforms into a cycle.
08:13This, my dear, begins with the feeling of being an occupier.
08:15Which makes its owner exert double the effort
08:17So that he can get rid of his feeling that he is a fraud.
08:20Effort according to the study description
08:21It's like a superhero effort working out of nowhere to escape two opposing sacks.
08:26A terrifying phobia of failure known as atheismophobia
08:29Because this person will know that his failure will expose him and make him known to everyone.
08:32As an injured person
08:34The irony, my dear, is that this person also feels the opposite.
08:36Achvemphobia
08:38Horror, my dear, and he hears this from success.
08:40God, why does Abu Ahmed seem like a fraud, terrified of success?
08:43Because simply put, my dear, when you succeed once
08:46You need to achieve this success multiple times.
08:48If you see yourself as a fraud, if you succeed really hard once you'll be scared
08:52Because I won't be able to succeed like this again.
08:53People will tell you, "Oh yeah, that's One Season Wonder."
08:56Oh, that was just luck.
08:57Yes, we exposed this conman.
08:59The more you succeed, the more afraid you become.
09:01People are seeing through you more, my dear.
09:03If you fail, you'll be saying to yourself, "I..."
09:05I proved to myself that I'm a fraud because I failed.
09:08On the other hand, if it succeeds like this
09:10He'll be tricked even more in Shawn next time.
09:12Because I won't be able to repeat it again
09:13You might think that after each new achievement, one
09:15Bestrah remained silent, feeling that I was talented and clever.
09:18On the contrary, my dear, you prefer the course.
09:20It will start to affect you over time.
09:22The feeling that you've become a clever con artist
09:24I became distinguished in Asalim
09:27Convincing people that you are a successful person
09:28Bank is a talented person
09:29While you know what's inside, you're full
09:32You know, or of course, my dear, that's what you think of yourself.
09:35There is a person who is harsh on himself
09:36This is a problem, but its solution is...
09:38There's no money, Sera Bey
09:38According to this study, this converts many people
09:41The hip is a martyr, people are martyrs
09:44In the pursuit of a never-ending cycle of work
09:46In an attempt to convince people
09:48We are not failures
09:49Because we feel that we are failures
09:51The name of the Almighty is like that, my dear, and I will get to the point, and the second one discovered relativity.
09:54And they weren't satisfied, so the ordinary person remained
09:56Abu Sheit Excel Final Final Final Final Final
09:57That will be enough
09:58The phenomenon of the fabricator, my dear, has no specific definition.
10:02In the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders
10:03This is a name because we know the cause of the disease.
10:05It's a specific treatment, but when we find it
10:08A group of symptoms that are sometimes contradictory to each other
10:10Like the fear of failure or the fear of success
10:12Sometimes, my dear, it can be difficult to diagnose.
10:14And scientists like Amy Rocketch say
10:15The amputee phenomenon
10:17This is a phenomenon that encompasses a wide range of symptoms.
10:20Some call it syndrome
10:21A syndrome means symptoms that occur together.
10:23And that's the name that will become more widespread.
10:24Ambuster Syndrome
10:26What does "show the blackness with praise" mean?
10:27Lana, will I remain a prisoner of feeling and the illusion that I need something?
10:29I will always remember that I don't deserve the place I am in.
10:32Whose reasons are unknown?
10:33What were you doing? Tris, the wish section.
10:35What are you bringing to Jbi, ya Am? Ah, Hasiza, I'm bringing you.
10:37But I'm generally talking about people who have worked themselves to the bone.
10:40The one who blames herself has lost her grade in expression.
10:42You, my dear, are not in my calculations at all.
10:44Hania, my dear, can I explain to you what are the causes of the Ambuster syndrome?
10:47The first attempt at a logical explanation will be in Dr. Clance's research paper.
10:51The first paper that actually revealed this phenomenon
10:53She says, "My dear, they will return, and the topic will be related to childhood."
10:55Specifically two patterns
10:56These two patterns are what break the needy syndrome
10:58The first pattern, my dear, is that the person has a brother or sister.
11:01It is determined from the beginning that they are the most beautiful or the most beautiful
11:04You know, my dear, when you go to school and your older brother, Aref, keeps reminding you
11:08No, you're fine, but how, Fadi?
11:10Fadi was well-mannered, ethical, studious, hardworking, and got good grades.
11:14Fadi was working hard and getting good grades. Are you working hard too?
11:17The second pattern, my dear, is when this person is defined from the beginning as being inherently promiscuous.
11:22He's actually clever, he's actually a dream
11:24The first group did not get the house
11:26Mama, Mama, they don't care. You are smart and good enough.
11:30It's perfectly natural when the world, academic institutions, workplaces, and colleges tell them, "Guys, you're doing great, that's enough."
11:36They feel that you are definitely talking about me
11:37And because I'm kind, you're trying to grow up dangerously.
11:39They, my mother, who inherited their genes, ate their food.
11:41They didn't say why
11:41So, you're going to be honest with me, you're going to tell me
11:43The second group now faces a disconnect between their parents' expectations of them.
11:47And between their human experience, which is perfectly normal and full of mistakes
11:50Their families have very high expectations of them.
11:52It's not appropriate for them to appear in front of their families as if they don't understand something or that they are weak in it.
11:55What these two types have in common is that they both suffer from dwarfism and separation.
11:58Among the messages that the family took
12:00And among the messages they receive from the world
12:01The difference in these messages creates a division within the self.
12:04Psychoanalyst Douar Asdir in her book
12:06I am amazed that the person who experiences the occupier syndrome has two selves.
12:11We present a fake self to the world; it's a joke and a rigid thing.
12:13And we protect it from any action that might reveal it to be fake.
12:16And beneath it lies the true self that has not yet emerged from the problems and doubts of childhood.
12:21That self you're ashamed of, I'm sure if it came to light it would become extreme
12:25But my dear, the truth is not that you are a weak person wearing a mask of flattery, nor that you have two selves or anything like that.
12:30You are simply someone who took a step in their life and developed.
12:32These feelings of deception usually arise after we have taken a major step in our lives.
12:36For example, when we leave one social class and move to a higher one.
12:39When we change our career to another job
12:41Here we experience something called Vier Bourdieu's split habitus
12:44Our selves are divided, and we live in two worlds at the same time.
12:47Novelist Leslie Jameson asked people on Twitter to share their experiences with Occupier Syndrome.
12:52One of the messages describes the feeling of someone living with two selves.
12:55His life moved on, but Zeina remained stagnant and unmoved.
12:58This message was from someone who wrote to her saying, "I grew up in a shrine in Arifqia."
13:01Now I'm in a different place, but every time I attend a lavish party, I'm invited by people.
13:06I feel like they still see the straw in my hair as fake
13:08In this case, my dear, and the period of time is short.
13:11The world recognizes you, except for one person: you.
13:13Mohammed, let me ask you the question that poses itself.
13:15Why is the world so beautiful and wonderful, by God's will?
13:17He assures us that we are good and understand.
13:19Shouldn't time lessen our self-doubt again, my dear?
13:23Again, as we saw in the friendship episode
13:25Our relationship with our families; the words we hear from our families greatly influence us.
13:28Even after we grow up, even after people convince us that they are safe
13:32Even after people convince us that we are good
13:35We always have these doubts
13:36That relationship is very important, my dear.
13:38The truth is, it doesn't necessarily alleviate our doubts.
13:40With this ink cartridge, as I said, it might increase it.
13:42Sometimes the focus or reflection on our success
13:45This confirms that we are occupied to a much greater extent than we expect.
13:48So the world representative remains, taking a drink, and everyone else is just shutting up.
13:50But deep down, he's from Dai and feels that he's a disgrace to his fatherhood.
13:52Because he didn't stop with her on the huddle car
13:54Author Stephanie Lund, author of the book *Med O' the Handmaid*
13:57What she talks about is her diary from when she was a single mother
13:59She cleans houses to support her daughter.
14:01When I write it, it achieves massive sales.
14:02She found herself at a party with people standing around her.
14:05I thanked her for writing, but I felt she was a fraud.
14:07It's not just because she can't believe she wrote it, it's because she succeeded.
14:09But because people misunderstood the moral of her story
14:12Her story, unintentionally
14:13She didn't show how difficult her world was
14:15What she had to struggle with like this
14:17Instead, it presented a romanticized image of class differences.
14:19The story that the song "His Love Goes Away" tells about the paragraph
14:22Like the story of the orphan girl who wore six new shoes
14:24Or the poor young man who managed to survive
14:26And the American dream is achieved
14:27While Stephanie didn't want her story to be like that
14:29So why was her story misunderstood in this way?
14:31She's no longer a tweeter who sees herself as a writer
14:33She doesn't deserve fame, but
14:35But its writing is detailed in a way
14:37This makes her complicit in another fraud plot.
14:39I mean, I'm a writer and I also participate in other writing projects.
14:41It burns me! My dear, it was the Occupier Syndrome.
14:44It's exploding while we're trying to make amends
14:46Between three angles of our personality
14:47The first angle: how we see ourselves, how we present ourselves
14:49To the world, and how the world distorts our selves for us
14:52These explanations, my dear, despite their validity
14:54It wasn't enough because many people
14:55It means the occupier syndrome without it having
14:58A brother or sister with great achievements
14:59Not even their families are pressuring them.
15:01Sometimes just being smart is enough
15:03You have no pressure, it lets you see the world
15:05In a different way, and this, my dear, is what we call
15:07Cognitive bias, and this doesn't want its people.
15:08He doesn't want a world, nor does he want anything to enhance his image.
15:10It creates its own pressures automatically.
15:12Let us explain to you, talented people or Ask.fm
15:14They assume that anyone can do what they're doing.
15:17So what if we publish this paper in a magazine?
15:19It's normal, so what if we graduate first in college?
15:21For five years, I remained Mohid, it wasn't normal.
15:23These Askiya people see that many people
15:25You can do what we did, what's so special about us?
15:27Sometimes, my dear, the trigger for Occupier Syndrome is...
15:29Motivation means your place in your community.
15:32For example, your gender or your physical features
15:33According to a 12-year study (2023)
15:35The Imposter syndrome
15:37More common among women than men
15:39And it's even more prevalent among minorities.
15:40This is based on a 12-year study conducted in 2017.
15:42Titled Black College Students
15:44The study says that minorities feel
15:47The syndrome is more often associated with symptoms like depression.
15:49This, my dear, happens because many societies
15:50Women and minorities feel that
15:52Categories mean they might be delayed if they succeed
15:55Despite the racist nature of this argument, my dear
15:57However, many victims believe them.
15:58They feel they have reached their rightful place, unlike
16:01Their community rules and they are frauds
16:03And this, my dear, will make the model famous.
16:05Bella Hadid's height is comparable to the length of the in-house.
16:07Her syndrome and her feeling that she doesn't deserve it
16:09Her status has kept her for 14 years
16:11She is having cosmetic surgery on her nose.
16:12She wished she hadn't done that.
16:14She preferred to preserve her Eastern features
16:17The middle ground, instead of trying to change it
16:18And it's also possible that Enboster syndrome is caused by it.
16:21The culture of the entire society, not just its discrimination.
16:23For example, according to a survey that was conducted
16:24In 2022, 47%
16:26Many Britons are suffering from symptoms
16:28Inboster syndrome, and this, my dear, is for specific reasons.
16:31In English culture itself, according to
16:32Coach Wana Poklan in her article
16:34In the Guardian
16:36Her British clients were afraid
16:38They are classified as promiscuous because of their society
16:40The person who says that is described as
16:42Arrogant, unlike its American clients.
16:45Those who were more open to their success
16:47Simply put, we can take the expression
16:48Psychologist Salazar Nunez says
16:51The problem isn't necessarily the person
16:53It can also be the setting or the culture
16:54Despite all these different reasons, however,
16:56Anyone suffering from imposter syndrome
16:59I suffer from what is called neglect.
17:01majority
17:02He's sensitive because he's the only one who feels he's a fraud.
17:04While all the people around him are relatively fine
17:06What I told you, my dear, is that most people who
17:08Sharing the same job or even the same environment is possible
17:10They feel like they're scammers, but that's the problem.
17:12The person with imposter syndrome, if we criticize him
17:14He spoke about his problem and asked for help.
17:16Jayez proves and confirms that he is a fraud
17:18That's why, my dear, we see before us a paradoxical, universal syndrome.
17:21All its heroes feel that it is certain
17:23Their problem is rare, but each one
17:24He doesn't know that he's right in front of him, just like him.
17:27Insecure
17:27We also don't know the effort that the people around us are making.
17:30It's natural that you're putting in that effort because we can't see it.
17:31We imagine that this effort is very, very big
17:33From the effort we are making
17:34Therefore, we feel that we are less efficient.
17:36From those around us
17:37At the time, my dear, that the world is dealing
17:40Carefully and calmly, with the syndrome
17:41Its symptoms are numerous, and its causes are not limited to your intelligence genes.
17:44Or your upbringing in your home or the superficiality of your community
17:46Or your skin color and gender
17:47We'll get a group of you, my dear.
17:49Human development efforts continue, and they are trying to help.
17:51Books like The Middle Finger Project, in which the author says
17:54The most important question you ask yourself is, how will you handle the best contracts in the world?
17:57Another book like The Imposter Syndrome Workbook
17:59It helps you imagine the voice of the con artist as a monster of your choosing.
18:02It makes you imagine yourself as a vessel
18:03I need love, positive guidance, and written achievements.
18:06You're the best one in the world, forget about the haters and the complainers.
18:09Of course, my dear, that's great advice and it can certainly help.
18:12But as I told you at the beginning of the episode
18:13The joy and achievement of someone with imposter syndrome
18:16It's very possible to insert it into a loop.
18:19It increases his feeling that he is a fraud
18:20He's such a fraud that he even consults a book.
18:23To tell him how to be more skilled at fraud
18:25For example, you have the Mukhri Daniel Guan
18:27The one who will win the Oscar for the famous film
18:29Everything Everywhere All At One
18:31The movie "My Dear, I See the Shallows"
18:32Sweet, give it a nine out of ten
18:33This is because humans are his students, and he got ten out of ten.
18:35This guy, my dear, will say it while he's winning the Oscar.
18:38At the height of his achievement and the positive feedback he receives from the whole world
18:42They say the film is when and when
18:43He says
18:46This does nothing but prove that I'm a clever con artist.
18:50Hana, my dear, I feel like some people are playing dumb.
18:52It means her sense is cool and rip-chan, so I'm going to be an imposter.
18:54The positive aspects of these things will ultimately reduce the noise a bit.
18:57The one who tells you that you are a fraud
18:58Why did he stop it for such a short period?
18:59Then the sounds return more violently.
19:01This means that the director who won an Oscar, if he really does have a Cinderella Impostor, he's definitely intimidated right now while working on it.
19:06Where will the new movie go next?
19:08Surely when people see it, they'll realize that this film isn't like the first one that won an Oscar.
19:12If he wins an Oscar, he'll say he knew how to scam them.
19:15And thus preferred Rib Le Lob
19:17But my dear, it wasn't magically easy.
19:19This recipe is successful
19:20Everyone is a bookworm, like the one I told you about, and she's proven herself to be even cuter, prettier, and sweeter than she sees herself.
19:25And man reminds you that he is not a fraud and that he doesn't need to doubt his own abilities at all.
19:28Is it possible to imagine a world like that? A secure, reassuring world?
19:31Are all the people in it certain of their own righteousness and accomplishments?
19:34Let my dear friend stay with me; there are people who eat from the Salaf Dot.
19:37I'm complaining to myself, isn't this a disaster?
19:39In 1999, my dear, David Dunning and Justin Kruger published a research paper entitled
19:47Meaning, I'm not good and I don't know I'm not good. My dear, question the volunteers in this research.
19:52They asked them questions on general topics such as law, medicine, logic, chess, and hunting.
19:57Each test asks participants, "What do you think you did?"
19:59The results confirmed that people who performed poorly on the tests ranked their purchases much higher.
20:04Those who got 10% said they would get 70%
20:06The people who have the least idea about the subject they were tested on see themselves as experts and teachers in it.
20:11Not only that, but they also noticed that the more a person knows about the subject, the more
20:15The more he realizes how many unclear areas there are that he still doesn't know about
20:19This, my dear, will be known by the Dunning-Kruger effect.
20:22I made an episode about her called "Bushkash"
20:24It's been a while since the old YouTube channel
20:26This study, my dear, will win an award called the "Southern" prize.
20:29This, my dear, is an award they don't give for research and interesting things.
20:31This, my dear, is a statement explaining the Dunning-Kruger to Factor.
20:33The more you know, the lower your confidence curve becomes.
20:36And the more you learn, the more your ignorance and self-confidence increase.
20:39In the words of the writer Robert Hughes
20:41The greater the artist, scientist, thinker, or writer, the greater the writer.
20:45The more his doubts increased
20:46Complete trust is a gift for less talented people, to make them feel better.
20:50People who don't doubt themselves
20:52They might risk all their money for their project.
20:54They might hurt their friend without realizing it.
20:56That's right, my dear, self-doubt
20:58It can cause suffering, anxiety, and missed opportunities.
21:01It consumes his time, energy, mental and emotional well-being.
21:04And thinking before we go to sleep
21:06And Hermak knows what forms in the world they can give you
21:08And they will compensate you for this doubt
21:10But despite all this pain
21:12However, doubt is important and plays a crucial role.
21:14In forming a good personality
21:16Doubt opens up a window of opportunity for you to examine your actions.
21:18And it allows you to grow
21:20Happiness, my dear, does not come from success.
21:21Happiness comes from growth
21:23Our sense of confidence in our knowledge
21:24It creates a feeling of satisfaction
21:26It prevents us from learning
21:27And it prevents us from exploring different points of view.
21:29And other directions
21:30While doubt teaches you humility
21:32It keeps you always hungry for knowledge.
21:33It makes you want to accomplish more
21:35While some achievements might shut down your mind
21:37And let your horizon be narrow
21:39And when that happens, you will feel complete.
21:40Stop listening
21:41I have accomplished a certain task
21:43If I decide on it, I will remain successful.
21:44Congratulations, you failed.
21:45Your completeness, my dear, comes from your awareness of your shortcomings.
21:47Bouhbab Mahlash, you've confused me
21:49The first one told me that this is a harmful slogan that hurts a lot of people.
21:52And it prevents them from seeing their marriage.
21:53We tried throughout the episode to find a way to get rid of him
21:56It's less like me that the world would be better off without this syndrome.
21:58Hippoz and ruin
21:59And if I didn't doubt myself
22:01Habouz and Yakhrab
22:02Dr. Jill Estudt in an article entitled
22:04How to Succeed Despite Imposter Syndrome
22:06How to succeed despite Impostor Syndrome
22:09She says that this is the Occupier Syndrome
22:10It started in the seventies
22:11Nor from the Industrial Revolution
22:13But according to evolutionary psychology
22:15Perhaps we are programmed with the occupier syndrome.
22:18From the days of early humans
22:19Those who lived by hunting in groups
22:21Each of them needed to check their position within the group.
22:24He always asks if he's actually adding anything to the group.
22:26To ensure that the group doesn't abandon us
22:28Because this simply meant for your solution
22:30Humans, my dear, are the ones who doubt themselves the most.
22:31They were the ones who contributed most to saving the group through their efforts.
22:35As you can see, in modern times, for example
22:37People like Einstein, Harmstrong, writers, and artists
22:39Their occupier syndrome makes them want to save our presence and existence.
22:43But the problem is that, just as it saves us collectively as humanity
22:45However, it burns its owners individually.
22:48According to Kevin Cookley
22:49Professor of Psychology at the University of Texas
22:51If we consider the occupier syndrome to be a broad spectrum
22:53Ultimately, there's always a price to pay: self-doubt is the only fuel.
22:56What burns you up is the achievement
22:58The price you pay is depression, anxiety, and stress.
23:01And finally, sometimes isolation from people.
23:03This is the result that I, Aziz, agreed upon with the sources.
23:06For anyone suffering from occupier syndrome without ever having experienced it
23:09Because they are simply human
23:10They haven't moved beyond the fishermen's mentality.
23:12The one who fights to escape a savage world
23:15In modern times, the accountant, the CEO, the artist, and the doctor
23:18Anyone whom society pressures because of their gender or sexuality
23:21He is then forced to double his efforts.
23:22He might be feeling the same sense of threat and danger that you do, Dad.
23:25If only he would stop for a moment and believe that he is not a fraud
23:28He is truly beneficial to the community and deserves the position he holds.
23:31The group here could be harmed, and danger could devour it.
23:34Work, my dear, you need doubt in order to develop yourself.
23:37But this doubt doesn't need to be destructive.
23:39It destroys your achievements and diminishes your joy in your victory.
23:43Throughout this time we were discussing the topic of the two extreme sides of the equation
23:46Either you see yourself as a powerful occupier and a powerful swindler
23:48Either you are overly satisfied with yourself and your knowledge
23:51All you need is to know how to maintain a healthy balance between doubt and certainty.
23:56We need both of these things, my dear; we need to be skeptical at times.
23:59And sometimes we need to have certainty
24:02That's it, my dear brother, not our brother, who has seen the previous situation and is seeing the next one.
24:05Don't forget to check the sources if we're on YouTube, subscribe to the channel.
24:16The one I have and the position I am in
24:18In psychiatry, they call this "Mahmoud" a psychotic because, quite simply, there's no one around you in the hall.
24:22I myself am a voice inside you, I am not alive, I am not here, Muhammad
24:25I mean, I'm Zahan, and they're posters, Saleh, and my head
24:28no