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Southern Hospitality Season 4 Episode 10 is here, and the drama is heating up! Get ready for a whirlwind of emotions and unforgettable moments as the crew navigates new challenges and personal growth. This episode dives deep into the complexities of relationships, ambitious career goals, and the true meaning of friendship.

Prepare for surprising revelations and heartfelt conversations that will keep you on the edge of your seat. See how everyone handles the pressure, both personally and professionally, as they strive to make their mark. Don't miss the latest installment of this compelling series that explores the bonds that tie us together.

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00:01Michael's was excited to take us back to his roots.
00:04And you're going to be showing off the whole trip.
00:07Yeah, he is.
00:08And I was excited to get back to mine.
00:10So when I was, like, ill, I had to cancel this show, right?
00:15So they're giving me an opportunity to make it up.
00:18I'm really, really grateful to be playing here.
00:19But I honestly, like, get nervous.
00:21Meanwhile, Lake got caught in a sticky situation with the Milkman.
00:25Lake was like, people are finding out about O'Sheen
00:28and me and that girl having a threesome.
00:31Michael's like, you're my best friend.
00:33If I'm saying 2 plus 2 plus 5, it's 5.
00:35And as Emmy demanded blind loyalty,
00:38I would ride or die for you.
00:40And I feel like you didn't.
00:42Michael's was ready to jump ship.
00:44I'm really excited about this trip,
00:46and it's like, you're selfish.
00:48I don't want to cry.
00:58You can't help but make things about yourself 24-7.
01:01I know.
01:02The biggest issue is that you're selfish.
01:04So what are the vibes post-dinner?
01:07Wait, what's going on with Taylor's conversation?
01:09He's, like, mute and depressed, and...
01:10I don't...
01:11Is it, like, a one-sided, like, situation?
01:13No, not at all.
01:14Do you both feel like you got somewhere?
01:16I, yeah.
01:18I literally said to her.
01:19Let's just table the conversation,
01:20because I feel like we're not going to get anywhere.
01:22It just was a very, like, pushing forward conversation.
01:26I don't...
01:27Do you hear him out or what?
01:28Like, guys, I mean it.
01:29Like, I could not have been more respectful.
01:31The real issue at hand is that my points are not heard.
01:34Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:35Because it's one thing to hear something,
01:36it's also another thing to understand it.
01:38For sure.
01:39Emmy never listens because she's selfish.
01:42Progress is progress,
01:43and I'll take whatever progress I can get with Michael's.
01:46We didn't get anywhere.
01:47I don't want to, like, be upset.
01:49You look fine.
01:50You look fine.
01:51I'm fine.
01:51Okay.
02:05You okay?
02:13And on that note, I'm going to go to the bar.
02:15Who wants to come?
02:16I'm here for that.
02:18I love a bar.
02:21No!
02:22Yeah, yeah!
02:26Hey, hey, hey, hey!
02:28He got us!
02:30Happy, happy!
02:31Happy, happy!
02:32It's my first time in Dominican Republic in 16 years.
02:35I want to have a good time.
02:36I want to have some drinks. I want to throw some ass. I want to have some ass thrown on
02:40me
02:41And I'm not going to let emmy take this away from me at this point
02:46I'm gonna go back to the room and just chill
03:13Come here, we're going to go about this. Wake up, mother
03:41I'm in my bed
03:46Oh, . Let's eat breakfast. Come on, let's go. Andelie
03:53I keep losing my cake. I'm over. Yeah
03:59Everybody listen. We're gonna go to the buffet. We're gonna eat and afterwards we're gonna go to these waterfalls and
04:04these cenotes and their zip line and all types of fun things
04:08We're also gonna make a safe word for drama today. If anybody makes today about themselves, you're selfish. Not a
04:14problem. Okay?
04:15Is that a safe word?
04:16No. The safe word is gonna be plantain
04:19Plantain
04:19Plantain
04:20Plantain
04:20Plantain
04:21Okay
04:22I don't know what a plantain. What is a plantain actually?
04:25Wait, is it like a bamboo?
04:28What is it?
04:30I don't know. Is it like a mushroom?
04:33I don't know.
04:34A plantain's a banana. In the same family
04:39Yeah. Really? Yeah. Well, I'm cultured
04:43Okay, let's go to breakfast
04:44Okay, let me grab my phone
04:46To breakfast
04:47To breakfast
04:48To breakfast
04:50I like the vibe in here
04:52Hola, buenas
04:53Hola
04:55Oh my gosh
04:57Oh my gosh
04:58Um
04:59Yeah, I'm just doing like a little appetizer round first
05:04I had one plate for sweets and then I'm gonna get healthy stuff on my other plate
05:12This place is massive
05:14This has orange, melon, and watermelon in it
05:17That's a really good mimosa
05:19Should we cheers?
05:20To what?
05:23What?
05:27Oh
05:28Plantain
05:29Every time Emmy walks into a room I feel like the oxygen is
05:32She's bringing down the vibes
05:34How can you have bad energy in Punta Cana?
05:40Anyway, is everyone excited for Maddie's gig tomorrow?
05:42Let's go
05:43Everybody clap
05:47Crazy segue into that one, but
05:50Can I speak for a second?
05:52Yeah, go Molly
05:52We obviously need to focus on individual relationships
05:55This trip is a great time to really figure that out
06:00You know what? The only person I feel awkwardly around is Lake
06:04And it's her issues
06:06I've done nothing to you
06:09What have I done to you?
06:10Like what have I done to you?
06:11There was just some weird energy at the very beginning of the summer
06:15You walked by here
06:17You didn't acknowledge me or my goals
06:18If you're crying over that, you need to go back to kindergarten
06:22Then, fast forward, you know the whole paint and pour thing
06:25Like I didn't want to work with you
06:26So why did you ask me to help you with your event?
06:29I didn't, I got forced
06:33I think I didn't want to in the first place because there was no trust there
06:36Because I didn't say hi to you?
06:38Like, get over it
06:41Okay, but these little shade things have put me in a displacement
06:45Because like, now there's like these new rumors that I hear that they're coming from you
06:51You had a phone call with Michaels asking if I had a threesome with O'Sheen on the night of email
06:55night
06:59And that's just not true
07:00You did hook up with O'Sheen
07:01I'm out of here
07:02No
07:03That's valid
07:04No
07:05I went home with one person and that was Nessa, the girl that I was with
07:11I heard Molly is spreading this rumor from Jordan
07:14And it's like, why not go to me about it?
07:17Like, I already hate you bitch, you want me to hate you times two?
07:21Now, now, I will say, Joe at Saltwater Cowboys was like, Maddie and her roommates think that that did happen
07:27Wait, what?
07:27You said that at Saltwater Cowboys
07:29You said that, you said that
07:31No, I, that's not what I said
07:33I'm not gossiping at all
07:35My roommates think O'Sheen had a threesome with Lake and that girl she was hooking up with
07:39I might have some loose lips, but compared to this group, I'm a f***ing bald
07:46Joe knows better to spread an unconfirmed rumor, especially to Bradley Carter
07:52I actually heard it from somebody else very close to Lake
07:55In the proximity of her sitting down
08:04It's just the fact that there was a rumor in the first place, I know it probably didn't come from
08:07you
08:07I did not start it
08:08But it's like whenever you do a phone call to somebody else asking them about it, that's how the rumor
08:12grows legs
08:13Here's the thing, I heard it, I immediately called Michael's
08:16And I said, did this, it wasn't me saying, oh my god
08:18She literally asked one question, no was the answer, we moved on
08:22I wish that you would have told me the second that my name was mentioned
08:26I didn't tell her, because like, girl, it's not that deep
08:29After prom, did you sleep with O'Sheen?
08:31No, I did not
08:32Yes you have
08:33That is not true, that is not true
08:35No, also
08:37You hooked up with him for two straight days, is what he said
08:38Thank you
08:41Joe, shut the f*** up Joe
08:44Why would you lie about hugging with O'Sheen though, he's a great guy
08:47Joe, I'm going to kill you
08:52Nazi, Nazi, Lake, Nazi, Nazi
08:54They all f***ed him
08:57I'm staying on your s***, Lake
08:59I'm going to ask you one more time
09:00Have y'all slept together
09:02Everybody quiet
09:02In 2025, no
09:09Hey mom
09:10How's it going?
09:11I had to talk about O'Sheen
09:13I just admitted to it
09:20Yeah
09:21I didn't have a threesome with him
09:23That whole other s*** is irrelevant
09:25So yes
09:26Okay, so consensus of the table
09:28I think we need to clean slate it and move forward
09:32And we need to focus on
09:34No, I'm willing to clean slate with both of you guys
09:36And I'm willing to move forward
09:37I'm sorry for being a bitch sometimes
09:38Perfect, let's all do like this
09:39Good, see, everybody clap
09:42Yes
09:44I'm ready to have fun in Punta Cana
09:45Let's do this
09:46Tequila shots on me
09:47In the all-inclusive
09:50You're welcome
09:54My birthday
09:54My birthday
09:57Coming up
09:58When you get drunk
09:59Like you say like
10:00I'm in love with you
10:02No way
10:03Well, how do you feel sober?
10:12Let's go
10:13I'm so excited for ziplining
10:15How far away is it?
10:16Come on
10:16Far
10:17Well, let me get
10:18Ziplining
10:19Split up the seating
10:21We're making new friends
10:22Split up the seats, we're doing friends
10:22Oh, Bella, I got a seat for you right here
10:25Blake, come sit right next to me
10:27We're splitting it up
10:29Bye
10:30We're really in the back
10:32That is crazy
10:34That's awesome
10:35That's awesome
10:43That's awesome
10:45For me and Emmy, from the very beginning there's been tension, it's been awkward
10:49I'll come into work and try to start a conversation and I feel like it's shot down
10:53I'm so sorry my birth control arm is going off right now, I'm so sorry
10:56You ignored every advance I had at trying to get to know you
11:01I don't think Emmy will be able to make it tonight
11:09Insecure bitch
11:11Molly is an insecure bitch
11:13May I go on?
11:15We don't talk to each other, so
11:17Sitting next to Emmy
11:20It's been like this the whole ride
11:24We're here
11:24To the jungle
11:28This way
11:29Oh my god, what is that? Is that for the zip line?
11:30Yeah
11:31Oh wow
11:32Minimum height, four foot
11:34TJ, you can't run
11:36Maximum weight, 280
11:37Wait, what was the minimum, Joe?
11:39Oh, 60 pounds, we're good
11:40I feel like I'm giving egghead right now
11:42Bobble, bobble
11:43I don't know why we are wearing helmets
11:45Because that's not going to help
11:47If I fall
11:49Are you ready, everyone?
11:51I'm ready, mom
11:52Anyone nervous?
11:53Yes, no
11:54Maddie, are you okay?
11:55Maddie, you're an adrenaline jump
11:56I'm old now
11:5730
11:59You guys are getting pretty high
12:02Oh my god, are we doing that one?
12:04Sitting with heart beating really fast
12:05I thought this was going to be fun
12:07And now I'm like
12:07Can I go back down?
12:08I'm just like
12:10Terrified of heights
12:11Oh my god
12:12And I'm trying to conquer my fear
12:15Go fast, go fly
12:16And I'm down for trying new things
12:17But I will not try Gucci
12:19Get it!
12:22What's he doing?
12:23What's he doing?
12:23What's he doing?
12:24What's he doing?
12:25Let's go!
12:28Let's go!
12:29Is that Joe Bradby or is that the Super Surfer?
12:35Are you okay, Justin?
12:37I'm going to rip my nuts
12:38Oh, I've seen this though
12:39I am!
12:42Yay!
12:44Got water in my asshole
12:45I feel like it was just like a giant beautiful bidet
12:48Booty, booty, booty, booty, booty
12:49My coochie cooter is out
12:51I'm going to have a pussy rash
12:52What's it called?
12:53A veggie, when you get the front, the vaginal veggie
12:57That was fun!
12:58Is there food, is food ready?
13:00I can eat
13:01I'm starving
13:02Ooh, salad
13:05Is it comfy or no?
13:06It's okay
13:07You missed it earlier when we went down the zip line
13:09I tried to do a backflip
13:10Faceplant
13:11Really?
13:12It hurt
13:12A lot
13:13See, in times like that you wish Julia was here
13:15No, she would make fun of me
13:17She would roast me alive
13:19I wish she was here
13:20She's at nursing school
13:21That's good though that she's driven
13:22I wish she's got to do something for herself, you know?
13:25I can't like
13:26Yeah
13:26Imagine being with a partner that doesn't want to do anything
13:30Yeah
13:31But I also feel like she has like that nurse mentality
13:34Like she'll be like a good mom and she's like, you know
13:36She's going to be a great mom
13:37Yeah, she's nurturing
13:39Do you see Maddie going that direction?
13:42I think eventually we'll have kids
13:43Maybe I'll be a stay-at-home dad and I'll be like a dad tiktoker
13:47No way
13:48Fluffy scrambled eggs, just how you like them
13:50Thank you
13:54I definitely want to marry her
13:55It's just like, what do I do first?
13:56Do I buy a ring?
13:57Do I get investors just so I can start my company?
14:00Like what do I do first?
14:01I just really want you to have your own thing
14:02And I know you do too
14:03Yeah, because I know you've seen me do my thing
14:05You've seen TJ do his thing
14:06Like it's time for you to do your thing
14:08Yeah, he'll come
14:11I thought by now Joe would at least be about to open a bar
14:14Something, some kind of business
14:16Like he has the charm, he has the riz
14:18Maybe not so much the smarts
14:20But being Maddie's sidekick or background dancer is easier and more fun
14:25Than doing something for himself
14:27I appreciate you guys caring
14:28Yeah
14:29I'm gonna try my hardest to make it happen
14:32Alright guys, let's make like a baby and head out
14:35Oh
14:36Oh
14:36I don't like that one
14:38I don't like that one
14:40Right way
14:42Let's go ladies
14:47I think we're here
14:49Muchas gracias Miguel
14:52Muchas gracias
14:55We're about to have a time tonight
15:03There's that
15:05We're gonna put it up at the end of the night
15:06Dude, if my boobs looked like this, it would be over for everyone
15:10Look, period
15:12Time for dinner, Santa Keith
15:14Are you guys excited for dinner?
15:16Yes, very
15:17Megan
15:18Spicy water, let's get it on
15:20It's a good spicy water
15:21I'm really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really
15:24You're really horny
15:25Excited for you guys to see this place
15:26Yes
15:27Wait, I have a guess
15:29I have a guess
15:29Medieval times
15:30It's an experience
15:31Do we have to make alterations to our outfit when we eat?
15:34No
15:34Okay
15:34Are we gonna smell like the place when we leave?
15:36No
15:36Holy
15:37Why is that crane like that?
15:39Wait, I know what we're doing
15:40What?
15:41I hate you
15:41I see it, I can see it right now
15:44Oh my god
15:45Oh my god
15:46Oh my god
15:49Being the one who's afraid of heights
15:50Of course
15:51I plan the most ridiculous thing
15:54Eating dinner strapped into a chair
15:56150 feet in the air
15:59But if I die in Dominican Republic
16:01Oh well
16:01I'm in mi patria
16:02Just bury me here
16:04Oh my
16:06Oh
16:06I'm gonna have a panic attack
16:08Oh my
16:08I hope we all break a leg tonight
16:12Hello, my name is Chocolate
16:14And I will be the host
16:18Stand by
16:19We're gonna help you to sit down
16:20Yes ma'am
16:20Holly, we're gonna be over here
16:22We're gonna die together
16:22Oh god
16:23Oh my god
16:26Emmy is on the bottom of the list
16:28Of people I'd want to see right before I die
16:29And then right below that is probably her fiancé
16:32This is like a sick game
16:33No one can get up if anyone gets mad
16:35Thank god I put underwear on
16:40I've never been strapped down before
16:42I have
16:43I have
16:43Really?
16:45Are you ready for this?
16:49Yeah
16:49Yeah
16:49Raise the roof
16:51Literally
16:52Oh my god
16:54Oh my god
16:56Oh my god
16:56Oh my god
16:57Don't be mad at me please
16:58We are shaking
16:59Oh my god
17:01We're so high up
17:02Look down
17:03Don't look down
17:04Don't look down
17:05Look down
17:07Oh my god
17:08Oh my god
17:08Michael, this is outside of the blacktivities that I participate in
17:12Don't one lose their shoes
17:13Can we stop?
17:14Right here
17:15Ya paramos?
17:16Okay, yeah, we're not going up anymore
17:18We're 148 feet in the air now
17:20I can see Republic from here
17:24Muchas gracias
17:28I drop my silverware on my napkin like 10 times per dinner
17:31What happens when I drop it here?
17:33Justin
17:34I can't even lean forward to
17:35You really can't move under this
17:37I'm getting claustrophobic
17:38This is fabulous
17:39TJ, what if we did Sir Wieners in the sky?
17:43How about that?
17:44Mmm
17:44TJ
17:45You have to be honest
17:46Do you miss me behind the bars?
17:52Oh!
17:53That's a no
17:54I miss our friendship behind the bar
17:55Oh, damn
17:56Molly, you're a great bartender
17:58I miss you in those leather pants
18:03I honestly felt so insane
18:05Because we have such like a weird vibe
18:11Molly, I honestly have no idea why
18:14I'm being confused about causing someone else to feel uncomfortable
18:19Shocking
18:20I mean, I'm strapped to a chair and there's nowhere to go
18:33I mean, we have such like a weird vibe
18:40Molly, I honestly have no idea why
18:45I'm just being fake as fuck right now
18:46I mean, I'm just being fake as fuck right now
18:47I mean, I've never liked Molly
18:48Ever since back in the day when Will and Molly used to work together behind the bar
18:52Will used to flirt with her all the time
18:54I just don't know what I want to drink
18:55No Stella today?
18:57Or like a finger?
18:57Really?
19:00Yeah
19:01And I don't think Emmy ever liked that
19:03I tried to connect with you a little bit and I just like don't understand
19:06You know, I think it was an unfortunate
19:07It probably went over my head
19:10You getting nosy?
19:11There was multiple times where I reached out to Michael
19:13Like be like, let's all three of us hang out
19:15Never like
19:16Molly, I would have said yes
19:19We got however many meters up in the world and people are delusional all of a sudden
19:32I mean, I really think that you've got the wrong vibe of me
19:37I thought she didn't like me, I never didn't like her
19:40Girl, be for real
19:42I'd like to build some kind of friendship
19:45Friendship with Molly
19:46Some kind of respectable acquaintance
19:50Now I know Emmy's desperate for friends
19:52Because hell has frozen over and we've landed on your anus
19:56And she's on Molly's
19:57You know, I really like hope we can keep like moving forward
20:01Like towards like some kind of friendship
20:03Yeah
20:03If she is wanting to move forward, I'm never going to say no
20:07But I am going to lean on the side of caution
20:11See what happens when I'm unmedicated?
20:13They're laughing, they're making progress
20:15I was going to take Maddie here for my honeymoon
20:17Shut the up
20:19Okay guys, I got bad news
20:22We're ready to go down
20:24I will never be doing this again
20:28Mama's got to pee
20:30Discloteca, discoteca
20:31Let's go!
20:33Bravo!
20:37Oh my God!
20:39Let's go!
20:42Oh I love this music
20:44The vibe of this club
20:47I'm feeling like Joe Bradley
20:49On a Friday night in Charleston
20:50I'm going to party
20:51Yeah!
20:52Yeah!
20:54Yeah!
20:55Go!
20:58Go!
21:00Go!
21:02Next time, it feels like you don't hate me
21:04I don't hate you
21:06You do!
21:10What?
21:13Nothing
21:14You're not speaking
21:21I'm speaking
21:23I don't think you're speaking
21:24I'm speaking
21:25Okay, let me put it perspective for you
21:27I'd be lying if I said
21:28I never thought about you
21:29When I was in a relationship
21:34What do you want me to say?
21:35I don't want you to say anything
21:36I just want to be honest
21:38This summer, you know
21:39Our friendship has been
21:40Friends with benefits
21:41With no strings attached
21:46Now I'm starting to feel like
21:47There is actual feelings there
21:49And I don't know
21:51I...
21:51I...
21:52I don't know
21:54Let's go!
21:56Let's lock it, we get out
21:57Whatever
22:17I think I'm still drunk
22:25I'm getting nauseous
22:29Leg?
22:36I don't want to keep sleeping
22:37But...
22:39We have a massage
22:41I stayed up too late, Joey
22:44Last night was so fun, Michael
22:46The sky dinner?
22:47No
22:48The sky dinner?
22:49No
22:49The sky dinner?
22:50No
22:51The sky dinner you were testing us
22:52You were testing our loyalty
22:54But...
22:54Y'all
22:56Good job, yeah!
22:58Lutheral
22:59No!
23:00Me and Julia just broke up
23:01What?
23:02You're such a liar
23:03No, I'm not kidding
23:05Dude, I know you're lying
23:06I'm not lying
23:07For what?
23:09You okay?
23:10No
23:11What the f*** happened?
23:21Me and Julia just broke up
23:23What?
23:24Shut up, you're such a liar
23:24No, I'm not f***ing kidding
23:25Dude, I know you're lying
23:27I'm not lying
23:28For what?
23:29You okay?
23:30No
23:31What the f*** happened?
23:35Brad!
23:44Brad's acting skills are too good
23:46Yeah, I'd watch them in una novela
23:48I only use my powers for good, now
23:52Come on
23:53You think I'm gonna go on a trip
23:54With all of these crazies
23:55And not bring my girl with me?
23:56You've lost your mind
23:57Oh my God
23:58Oh my God
24:00Oh my God
24:05This is so nice
24:06Let's enjoy these next two hours
24:08While it lasts
24:10Buenos dias
24:11Buen dias
24:12We're doing a couples massage today
24:14Yeah, it's mi gusto
24:15Gracias
24:16Gracias
24:16Gracias
24:27So, is this finished?
24:29Thank you
24:33What are you doing in the hot tub?
24:34Oh, I think the warm water would help your back
24:37It's like relaxing
24:39We should do that before all of your DJ shows up
24:43Yeah
24:43Cause I've obviously been feeling nervous about like
24:46Going back on tour
24:48And like even playing like my set today
24:50And I'm making it up for when I had to cancel it
24:52My dream international tour starts in Punta Cana
24:56Which is right now
24:57And goes to Ibiza
25:00Mincanos
25:00All over Europe
25:01So, if I do this one right
25:04More will come
25:05So it's a lot of pressure right now
25:07And I already put so much pressure on myself anyway
25:11Anytime I DJ
25:12And I just want to be able to like
25:14Secure my future
25:18Like I want to secure my career and our future
25:21Not only for myself but for you know
25:25Our family
25:28I know like a family like one day
25:31Is like important
25:32But it's like we're still so young
25:34And like you're figuring out your career
25:36Yeah
25:37And I was obviously like sick this past year
25:39And just
25:41I don't know
25:44I think you're healthy
25:45I don't think you should be stressed out
25:49I just got alcoholism
25:50Celiac disease
25:52Irritable bowel syndrome
25:53GERV
25:54I have a lot of diseases
25:56A lot of those like the side effect is
25:59Infertility
26:02I got diagnosed with celiac when I was like in 5th grade
26:05And one of the main side effects is infertility
26:07And on top of that
26:08I have like fertility issues in my family
26:10I've been told that
26:11And that's like scared me
26:13When I was young
26:14My mom was going to donate her eggs to my aunt
26:17Because she wasn't able to have kids
26:19And when they went to look
26:21She
26:22Didn't have any eggs
26:23And that broke my mom
26:25So this has been on my mind for a while
26:28And the older I get
26:29The scarier
26:31It gets
26:33Another thing I wanted to talk to you about
26:35I went and got like blood moved on
26:37About like my fertility and stuff
26:38I haven't looked at that blood work
26:41Like I don't think I
26:43Want to know
26:45I want to know
26:47I think it's like
26:49Something I'll probably like
26:50Do with my mom
26:52But I just want to let you know that
26:53Like I am
26:54Probably going to freeze
26:56My eggs
26:58Because having a family
26:59Is something that I do want
27:01I know
27:02One day
27:03I don't know if I would be with you
27:06Like anything if you didn't want a family
27:08You know
27:08It's one of your dreams
27:09And it's one of my dreams too
27:12It's a huge step
27:13To even be having this conversation
27:14And I can kind of like
27:16See our future
27:16Me with like the baby Bjorn
27:18Two other kids in each arm
27:20She'd be kind of the crazy soccer mom
27:22And we'd be competitive
27:23But fun parents
27:25I don't think you should be stressed out
27:26After your fertility
27:27I'm going to be right there with you
27:28Whenever you need me
27:29Yes
27:30Yeah
27:30I love you so much
27:32I love you more
27:33I love healthy babies one day
27:38I'm not worried about that
27:40Yeah
27:42Apparently I've got hell of swimmers
27:43Apparently I've got like an army
27:51We're playing over there in the Jets
27:52Yeah
27:53What's going on?
27:55Nothing
27:55I don't feel that hungover
27:56I know me too
27:57I had a blast
27:59I enjoyed the club
28:00Yeah
28:00We can pass the club on
28:01But don't kiss me weird
28:05What do you mean?
28:06You were kissing me so weird in the club
28:11What?
28:13I feel like it
28:14There's a lot
28:14You have a lot of feelings
28:16And I don't want to like hurt you
28:19Hmm?
28:20I know like we've
28:21You know
28:22Been making out and having fun
28:23But I don't want it to like
28:26Affect our friendship
28:26Yeah but my thing is like
28:27It's not like that for me
28:29Like I
28:30You say that but then like
28:31When you're drunk
28:32Like you say that like
28:33I'm in love with you
28:36No way
28:36Yeah
28:37Yeah
28:37I did not say that
28:39You said it in New York
28:41I mean in New York
28:42We went to a few bars
28:44We had a cab make out
28:45Bar make out
28:46Then he was making out with somebody else
28:48I was making out with somebody else
28:50We didn't really talk about anything
28:51Coming back home from New York so
28:54When we were both pretty drunk
28:56He started expressing his feelings to me
28:58And how he likes me
29:00And potentially wants more than what's going on
29:02Okay I don't remember saying
29:05The I'm in love with you comment
29:06Yeah
29:07The next morning Michael's
29:09Repeatedly said over and over again
29:11That he didn't remember anything
29:12I felt that he felt embarrassed
29:15And
29:16I didn't really want to push the envelope
29:17And then at the club
29:19You were like
29:19When I was with Preston
29:21Like I thought about you all the time
29:23I've been lying to my son
29:25I never thought about you
29:26When I was in a relationship
29:29I just feel like everything's so blurry and gray
29:31Like I don't really remember everything
29:32But how do you feel sober?
29:36Like how do you feel right now?
29:39I think
29:41That there's some connection with you
29:43Right
29:44We're definitely both attracted to each other
29:46And we were each other's type
29:47But in my head I'm like
29:49Michael's just came out recently
29:50Like if we dated I feel like
29:52You would realize that you're like
29:53Still wanting to explore
29:55And I just
29:55I would feel like I was robbing you from something
29:58If we were to like push things further
30:00And to like
30:00More than just like making out
30:02Okay
30:03I know I complain a lot
30:04That there's not a lot of guys in Charleston
30:06But I don't want to date someone
30:0810 years younger than me
30:09I want to be with someone forever
30:10The next relationship I'm in
30:12And I don't think that's
30:13The same case for him
30:14Like I think that you're
30:16A pretty mature person for your age
30:17But I feel like
30:18You need to like experience stuff
30:20Yeah for sure
30:21Yeah
30:23I feel like
30:23When things get too hot for you
30:25My age
30:27Or my maturity is an issue
30:29But then
30:30When we're just alone
30:32That's not the case
30:33So it's just kind of confusing
30:37I just want to make sure that you're okay
30:38Because I feel like you're
30:39Yeah I'm fine
30:40Okay
30:42Well I'm glad we both are on the same page
30:44And we can move forward
30:45Yeah
30:56Let me in
30:57Let me in
30:57It's the police
30:58Let me in
30:58Of course it's you
31:00Suspect is short
31:01Long blonde hair
31:02Female
31:03She's in here
31:03We should get back from the spa
31:05My wife
31:05How are you?
31:07The
31:08Hey
31:14I wanted to invite you guys
31:15To come to the church with me
31:17It's like a church
31:18That my grandma went to
31:18Like growing up
31:19And I really would like
31:20To share this with you
31:21And I'm gonna invite
31:22Blake and TJ too
31:23Well it would be an honor
31:24Oh
31:25At first I thought you were gonna like
31:26Ask us to go to confession
31:27After last night
31:28But
31:29This is way more wholesome
31:30Yeah
31:32Ugh
31:33I still have my wristband on from last night
31:34Take that off now
31:37That is so embarrassing
31:43Are they having a beach day the rest of them?
31:49Yeah
31:49Muchas gracias
31:52Oh there's blue
31:55This is where I need to be
31:56I'm busting this open right freaking now
31:59And they have water
32:01Woo-hoo!
32:02Ah
32:04We're here
32:06Feels good
32:07This place is sick
32:09You're excited
32:10I'm excited
32:10Let's do it
32:12Muchas gracias
32:15Where are they?
32:17Shut the f*** up!
32:24I love it.
32:31I'm tanning in the f***ing sun.
32:34I really do not care about her presence.
32:36Like, she had her little moment of bitching me out.
32:39You're a white, ruthless-ass bitch!
32:42The last thing Julia said to me was,
32:43don't look at me, don't talk to Brad.
32:45Okay.
32:46Did you just get here, like, today?
32:47Yeah, I flew in at, like, 10.
32:50Wait, y'all do too?
32:51No, they've done.
32:52We didn't know.
32:53Dad told them that we broke up,
32:54and I busted through the door,
32:56and I was like, thank you!
32:57Did he, like, play that s*** off so good?
32:59He did.
33:00That he was like, I was like,
33:02I was like, you want to know friends?
33:03Oh, my gosh.
33:05Yay!
33:06We're all grateful you invited us.
33:08Thank you guys for coming.
33:10I feel like when you get older
33:11is when you really get into
33:13your own spirituality
33:15and your perception of what a god
33:17or higher power is.
33:18Yeah.
33:19Coming back to the church
33:20is really going to take me back to my roots,
33:22and I don't want to be surrounded
33:26by an energy that's going to make
33:29it about themselves.
33:32It's so weird when everyone else not here.
33:34They're going to church.
33:36Is that where they're going?
33:37Yeah.
33:37I, like, kind of miss them.
33:38It's weird.
33:39Like, half of them are gone.
33:40I wonder how they're doing.
33:41I don't know, but they need church.
33:45Not being invited to the church,
33:46it just seems like it's purposely to hurt me.
33:49It's a lot of justice.
33:50Like, why the s*** are you taking TJ?
33:52Like, you see each other weenies once,
33:54and now you're going to bring them to the church
33:55that your grandmother, like, went to?
33:56Like, come on!
33:58It's going to be nice.
34:00And then you're DJing at what time?
34:02Nine.
34:03But no, Maddie, it sucks that Oshin
34:04doesn't get in until, like,
34:05right after your set tonight, though.
34:06Huh?
34:07Oh, s***.
34:08I'm just kidding.
34:09What?
34:09He's not coming.
34:09I'm kidding.
34:10No, he did say Simon, and he goes...
34:12People are just now finding out
34:14about that you and the leg hooked up,
34:15like, a year ago.
34:16Oh, bro, I definitely took a
34:18f***ing deep dive into the leg, bro.
34:24Oh.
34:26You're not beating the allegations.
34:29I'm going to beat it.
34:30Like, I'm never going to claim it.
34:31It didn't work well with me
34:32with the Luann thing, I'll tell you that.
34:33I told her that.
34:35No, Luann is iconic.
34:37Is Oshin iconic?
34:39No.
34:44That's fair.
34:45That's fair.
34:46At least she's, like, a milf baddie, like...
34:52Hi.
34:54I'm Buen Camino a la Basilica.
34:56Can I FaceTime you when I go?
34:57No.
34:58I love dipping in that lake.
35:01Because you're at work?
35:02I'll dive right in that lake.
35:08He was very complimentary of you, though.
35:11I don't know what you guys are talking about.
35:13I didn't have sex with Oshin.
35:15Girl.
35:17Did you eat his ass?
35:21You licked his hairy hole?
35:22Hello?
35:23I was on the phone with his mom.
35:25Hello?
35:26I'm going to church.
35:27You guys, I was on the phone with my mom.
35:30When you're talking about eating ass.
35:33If my mom heard you guys talking about eating ass in the background, I'm going to want to die.
35:44Look at that outside store.
35:46It's cool that we're, like, in the city, though.
35:48The architecture is crazy.
35:49This is cool.
35:51Like, look at those streets.
35:52I like that building.
35:54Muy bonito.
35:56Wait, that's a church we're going to?
35:57Oh!
35:58Oh, my God, yeah.
36:00We know that's it.
36:02Gracias, Miguel.
36:03We made it.
36:05Nuestra Señora de la Harta Gracia.
36:06This is insane.
36:07This is awesome.
36:09It's so beautiful.
36:10Hi.
36:11Can I have this one?
36:12Yeah.
36:13You're fired.
36:13Thank you so much.
36:15Over our legs or our shoulders?
36:16Just your knees.
36:19So my grandma's come here, like, every time that she's come back to Dominican Republic.
36:24That's cool.
36:25Oh, wow.
36:26Yeah.
36:27Oh, my God.
36:30Wow.
36:31That's crazy.
36:33I grew up Roman Catholic, going to church every Sunday, going to church school every Wednesday.
36:38But since coming out, I have not been to a church.
36:41When you're younger, you're taught that being gay is a sin.
36:44And because of that, I felt I'm not necessarily welcome.
36:48Wait, the stained glass is crazy.
36:51Look at the colors coming through.
36:52It's like little pebbles.
36:54Church has never been, like, a big part of my life.
36:56I don't agree with, like, what the Bible says about being gay.
37:00But I'm here for Michaels.
37:02I'm here to support him and let him take this in as the new version of himself and not the
37:08old version when he used to come here.
37:10Michaels, you know the story behind this?
37:17These are flowers that, like, people, when they come to church, still leave for the Virgin.
37:24The Virgin of Altagracia, of the higher grace, is, like, the mother of God.
37:29And she's, like, our protector.
37:31So here we leave flowers for her.
37:33And we pray up here.
37:36I love God.
37:38In the 12 steps, the first three steps are about surrendering to a power greater than yourself.
37:45So I am very spiritual and have a higher power of my own understanding.
37:51Religion became important to me because of my journey.
38:05For a really long time, I found it very difficult to have a lot of faith.
38:12I just feel bad because I kind of just, like, abandoned my religion.
38:16I'm praying to God, and I keep saying I'm sorry, but I'm saying I'm sorry for not coming to church
38:21anymore because I felt like I was not allowed to.
38:25I think because I felt like my family gave up on me so easily because of my sexuality, I was
38:30so quick to be like, well, being gay is a sin, so I don't need to practice.
38:36You know?
38:42What are you doing?
38:43Just, like, crying.
38:44I'm thinking.
38:46I remember, like, being a kid, and, like, my mom would, like, tell us to pray before we go to
38:51bed.
38:52And I think the only thing I was trying to do was, like, bring the gay away.
38:57I spent so much time trying to be another person.
39:00Yeah.
39:01And, like, trying to be another person, and, like, it's weird being back in a church.
39:05It's, like, your first time as who you are.
39:08Yeah.
39:08Or acceptance of who you are.
39:13Yeah.
39:14Coming to this church, it definitely brings me a lot of peace, and I feel like a weight is lifted
39:20off my shoulders.
39:23Oh, wow.
39:28Being able to pray, and then there was that guy, and he was showing me around the church.
39:32It just, like, it just made me feel like I belong there.
39:36It just kind of opened my eyes and made me realize that there's nothing wrong with me for being gay.
39:41And it just, like, felt really freeing.
39:44Thank you, guys, for coming.
39:46Thank you guys for coming.
39:47Thank you for sharing this with us.
39:49We're so grateful.
39:50All right, let's go.
39:51I don't want to cry anymore today.
39:53Liar.
39:54I love you so much.
39:56I'm going to be all right.
39:57I'm going to be all right.
39:58Let's go.
40:02Next time on Southern Hospitality.
40:04Cheers, I love you!
40:06Cheers, I love you!
40:07Your whole issue with Michaels being a part of your firing, he was asked his opinion on if you should
40:12be fired, and it was a yes.
40:13Michaels has been lying to my face.
40:16I didn't know if you wanted to chat for a second.
40:18I care about you and love you a lot, but we're both pretty hurt.
40:21You stab the knife in my back, and you twist that shit, and then you go a little bit deeper.
40:25And you keep going deeper and deeper and deeper without even trying to pull it out in the first place.
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