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Second Chance Love - Season 1 - Episode 06: Climbing Together
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00:07I am totally in to keep moving forward I've been wanting to like open up to you
00:15more I get scared like our chemistry is still there as soon as I saw you it
00:21clicked I feel like I'm at home I do not want to rush into another relationship
00:25and I wouldn't want to lose a potential friend what's important to them like in
00:31a relationship where it's so vastly different they're talking marriage and kids and they don't
00:36exactly envy the position that they're in this is about as romantic as it could get I am a little
00:43concerned because we haven't had a lot of moments where she and I have connected I'm not really sure
00:49what direction she wants it to go in my daughter has her first dance recital coming up so tonight
00:55I'll be leaving to go back home are you gonna come back
01:14this is the wrong path we ended up at like somebody else's like
01:24girl talk the new one the newbie the new one you get to be new role on the block the
01:33new one then you
01:35okay so so we want the real skinny we want everything no I'm kidding yeah okay no you
01:42even though we came late mm-hmm me and Calvin have had some talks and we want to take it
01:47slow and he's
01:49made me feel just super comfortable and he's easy to talk to you are you avoiding anything now like
01:54are you prepared for the serious questions or the serious conversation oh yes I mean I'm gonna be honest
02:04with him no matter what he asked and he knows that and he knows that I want to take it
02:09slow and think
02:09things through I have a motherly instinct I know that Calvin is very much into Autumn she I can't tell
02:19I can't tell if she's into him I just don't want to jump into something and not really think it
02:24through
02:25I mean obviously we live super far apart so that would be something that we would have to be able
02:31to
02:31work out in real life when we're out of Italy because this is like a dream like getting this
02:37time and hanging out but it's different when we get home and reality kind of sits in and right now
02:43Paul and it's so funny because here I am you know telling you all the Paul and I haven't had
02:46that
02:47conversation I'm in Houston and he's in Seattle how are we going to work that out because you're
02:52so into somebody you forget to ask those and that could be a jailbreaker I feel like that's how me
02:57and
02:57Calvin were the first time around it was like a whirlwind and we just kind of jumped in like
03:02too fast and we really don't want to do that this time around Calvin and and Autumn I think that
03:08they
03:08are a beautiful couple so I want to see their relationship blossom how's it going with you and
03:14Paul now like I hardly know I hardly know but I don't because it's right now it's I mean I
03:19already
03:20have expressed my feelings and it's kind of the balls and Paul's court so it depends on what what
03:26he's thinking and what he wants okay he's a little more sort of grumpy now but he was he was
03:35actually
03:35more kind of loving and affectionate before but then that loving and affectionate guy you know broke my
03:42heart so now that now he I don't even get that I just get you know he's kind of gruff
03:46but I think
03:48it's just the way he's showing his his affection he just doesn't differently and I haven't been used to
03:53that Paul and I still need to have the hard conversation because even though I sense how
03:58he's feeling and he knows how I'm feeling he needs to say those words and for this man who is
04:04the most
04:04honest man that I've known he's holding back ever so slightly and he needs to say it to me I
04:09need to
04:10hear it I need to hear I want to be with you forever what's your update give us your name
04:17you know
04:18we've been friends for over 30 something years Alan is a great person and we get along but there's
04:27different aspects of like you know a romantic relationship that Alan and I don't know about
04:33of each other and that's what we're like you know discovering about one another but it's gonna take some
04:40time but we're just trying to see if we would be like right like if we're fitting for one another
04:46for
04:46like a romantic relationship that's one of the things is us trying to find out like you know if
04:51you know we can that's that's a lot to unpack it's kind of funny because Rasmie when she talks to
04:59me
04:59about her relationship with Alan she says the same thing back to back to back to back yeah we're just
05:07you
05:07know really trying to get to know each other I sense that she's afraid to actually come up with
05:13what she wants I'm gonna have to explore because I I need details and and I'm inquisitive some people
05:19call me nosy um let's go get going for the rest of the day because I think we have to
05:25you know get
05:26ready for the workout cool I'll walk you to the door like a gentle woman thank you because that's how
05:32I am
05:37so today we have a workout with chili who's in such good shape so we won't go too hard today
05:44but we're
05:45gonna do the core workout this is exactly what we need there's been a lot of pasta here like a
05:50lot I
05:51like to eat pastries potatoes and pasta pasta pizza I can eat there's no doubt about that so this is
05:59gonna be so wonderful all right you ready wow I'm gonna be in the front of the class I'll be
06:08all right
06:08you know cuz I work out you know I'm an athlete today we're gonna concentrate on the core that's
06:12my favorite because if you want to preserve your back as we age you got to have a strong core
06:18we know
06:19that yeah yes Paul and I have been hitting the gym every single day when you consistently work out
06:25classes like this are very very easy so I'm ready let's get down here okay on your backs let's do
06:37this
06:37one two three six seven eight ten ten more I was wrong it was it was it was hard all
06:54together I'm here
06:55with someone who I want to rekindle with and she is very athletic so it makes me work a little
07:02bit
07:03harder I gotta keep up guys we're not done yet let's go one two this workout routine is no joke
07:11go
07:13two three I was fighting for my life oh my gosh I haven't had this much fun since polio now
07:29we're to come
07:29around and we're gonna look at everybody's ads what's crazy is that you know our time is kind
07:35of winding down here it's bittersweet isn't it you know we've had such a good time but I think we
07:42want
07:43to make sure that you guys have those conversations that need to be had and don't get to that point
07:48where all of a sudden you realize time is out and you haven't really discussed with your partner what
07:53you're feeling I think it's incredibly important just making sure that it's real clear you know that
07:58you guys are either gonna leave together or you're gonna leave separate and also remember there's no
08:03failing here leaving as friends and going your own separate ways could be the win right so don't put
08:11that pressure on yourself just be true to yourself just got to be a hundred percent transparent let's see
08:17what these next few days lead us to all right thank you I'm gonna be sore tomorrow yeah I'm gonna
08:25be
08:25sore that was a good workout big old bumblebee really ready for our double date today we are going on
08:42a
08:42little double date Camille and I and Autumn and Calvin come on it'll be great we're making memories you
08:49know Calvin and Autumn definitely like to be outside in nature like myself and I think that Camille will
08:55like this but we'll make the best of it and have fun trust me a lot of fun it'll be
09:01sweet we're making
09:05memories you know memorable memories it'll be great hello guys hello hello welcome we're gonna do some
09:15rock climbing and some zip lining I'm excited it's gonna be fun Camille yeah this will be fun this we
09:23got
09:23it this is the first time Blake and I have done anything like this together so I'm a little scared
09:30but
09:32I'm excited I'll be there for you we're just gonna have to see you look like like Laura Croft you
09:38know
09:38Tomb Raider double dates could be a little weird sometimes you know because it's different dynamics
09:43I'm not too worried about Autumn I got this daredevil next to me and she's just like pushing me to
09:49do
09:49things that I probably would never do by myself I've never gone rock climbing before I love doing
10:04outside stuff like that I like challenging myself and I think it is super romantic because I get to
10:10experience all of this for the first time with Calvin come on let's go I'm excited let's do this yeah
10:19let's do this this date it's one of these once-in-a-lifetime experiences I'm beyond excited I just want
10:29to
10:29carpe diem sees the day I see that with Camille too she's got that spirit I love the fact that
10:35you know
10:36she's like the same way that's what I want in a partner leg workout oh I got a nice little
10:43sweat
10:44going yeah I thought it was just gonna be a short little walk but then there's like rocks that we
10:49have to kind of like start stepping over climbing up you got it promise it'll be okay just wanted to
11:05support her let me try he'll pull you this is freaky I'm climbing over rocks climbing under rocks
11:16hanging on for dear life oh my gosh oh my gosh I can't I'm done yeah no no no you
11:24want me to get
11:25come on I do not do things like this ever I believe this is for you oh it's not necessarily
11:39my nature to be romantic thank you you're welcome I'm not gonna make the same mistake I made 45 years
11:45ago the balls and Paul's Court we should probably talk about compatibility I made this big effort to
11:53try to like connect with you but it doesn't feel like you're ever gonna want to take that chance maybe
12:08not there were some tricky rocks to climb over okay one by one okay but I'm willing to go through
12:18this
12:18because our time here in Sardinia is coming to an end Blake makes me happy and I deserve to be
12:27with a
12:28good guy and I honestly think this is all in God's plan and I am just trusting it for my
12:37first time
12:38rock climbing I definitely think it was a little challenging my arms were shaking but I love it I'm
12:45having a blast this is a lot of fun oh this is a workout I was impressed when I saw
12:50her moving the
12:51way she was it showed me a lot about her it shows me that she likes a challenge not saying
12:58that this
12:58is a competition but it just shows that we're gonna push each other to be better okay no matter what
13:04happens good job so razz me yeah are you prepared for the serious questions or the serious conversation so I
13:17was
13:17thinking maybe you want to explore see you know if you have those feelings with Alan and I know it's
13:26not in
13:26your comfort zone but you might want to sort of just open up about this you can do this it's
13:35okay
13:35razz me is a little garden in her feelings and sharing it with everyone but I sensed there's just
13:43something more just try it because what's the worst that's gonna happen I'm scared I'm scared that
13:54our friendship dynamic might change it will change that's the point in the negative oh the possibility
14:02of losing a friendship all together if that doesn't work out yeah and that's I think what's holding you
14:07back maybe yeah perhaps yeah because you don't want to risk losing that yeah I think that that's
14:14perfectly fine but I understand Alan wants more I think so do you think that that's a big obstacle
14:21in a relationship right now it might be really I think it's one of the things if you don't take
14:27a risk I can assure you that nothing will happen if you do take a risk something might happen yeah
14:35so
14:35just consider that I mean I know you've probably had conversations about it to be completely honest
14:44no oh whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa you have to have that conversation
14:50yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah we up here wow I'm so scared right now
15:16Camille actually got up there up onto the top of the mountain which is huge
15:21she pushed through it good job thanks Blake this is level of just like admiration and respect for her
15:29if all the instructions and I'll be okay I promise I finally make it to the top and I see
15:36the zip line
15:42I am feeling very emotional bye bye I'm shaking I'm gonna go first I'm crying I'll see you on the
15:55other
15:55side bye bye bye but I'm trying to get past my fear but I can't feel a little nervous go
16:05down your head
16:06go down go down go down okay okay okay three two one bye
16:17there you go
16:24look at that
16:28wow
16:29I did it guys
16:30there you go
16:32look at you
16:33I did it
16:38I am proud of myself for getting through these fears and just pushing pushing through it
16:45I am so happy that Blake has been by my side
16:49you helped me
16:51no I'm just like I'm really proud of you I mean I was just I know that was a big
16:55deal
16:56yeah you know it was a really big deal
16:58but you did it
16:59I feel like I couldn't have done it without him he's made me feel so safe I'm very appreciative
17:06for you just being patient with me you know and just giving me time anything for you honestly
17:12it's a breath of fresh air to be with somebody who cares about me and sees me for me
17:22thank you for um opening up I know that's a lot I get it we've both been there and
17:30not so great of relationships so I totally understand like you know it's the whole just trusting again and you
17:39know doing the doing the work and to open up and trust again it takes a long time
17:46time
17:47I know my worth and Blake knows my worth and I deserve to have a good relationship
17:54and I'm happy that just the good things come to those who wait I guess you know
18:02I'm ready to let my guard down and open my heart to you
18:06you're a good one and I would like to keep you
18:11can I kiss you?
18:12yes
18:27you give me butterflies
18:29and I haven't felt that in like a really really really long time and it's just it's nice to
18:36it's nice to feel that again just getting to know you again after so long
18:42I wouldn't you know trade this moment for like anything honestly
18:47Sam
18:54ready to get off this rock?
18:55I'm so ready to get off this rock
19:03we've been friends for so long and now we're working on the romantic aspect of it
19:08but I'm looking for something more things haven't been aligned
19:12I don't know how much more I can wait to figure that out
19:18we're really enjoying ourselves
19:19but there's nothing fluffy or romantic
19:22sometimes we can be a little clueless
19:24that would be the word that comes to mind
19:26It is french and cam
19:27It is Prophet
19:37uhhhh
19:38yeah
19:55Raggedylaws
19:56What is up?
19:58Fancy meeting you here.
20:00Good to see you guys.
20:02Good to see you too.
20:02See you too.
20:03I just felt like it would be good for us to talk, just us, from a woman's point of view.
20:09Chili and Matthew say they want to kind of check in.
20:12I love that.
20:12I mean, I love opportunities to get a new perspective on things.
20:15It's going to be helpful with regard to Rasmie and I's relationship.
20:20So I just want to know, I want to go, you know, to each of you and see if there's
20:23a moment,
20:24like a romantic moment, a moment that gave you butterflies on this whole trip that really
20:28you felt that little spark.
20:31You know that someone loves you by looks.
20:33Totally.
20:33Looks and smiles.
20:35Yeah.
20:35I'll catch a little look from Chili and it just melts me for sure.
20:40Okay, cool.
20:41Awesome.
20:41Good to hear.
20:42The reunion, when I first saw her, it was just like this, this feeling of euphoria just washed
20:48over me.
20:49When we were getting gelatos and he gave me the journal on the bridge, it was really nice.
20:53Yeah?
20:54And then the stuff that was inside the journal was really, really nice and it meant a lot.
20:58Cool.
20:59That's very cool.
21:00My favorite was us just like cuddling like on the couch.
21:05It was like all dark and we were just like having like those moments of just like talking
21:09about life.
21:10That's great.
21:11It was nice.
21:12What about you?
21:13When did you feel butterflies?
21:14Seeing her coming off the boat onto the beach, this was our reunion.
21:18Oh, okay.
21:19Yeah, yeah.
21:19Like lightning bolt down my spine.
21:22Good.
21:22Yeah, she's a, she's pretty.
21:25Autumn, how you get any butterflies at any point in time on this trip so far?
21:29I enjoy just quality time.
21:30Like I went out to tan the other day and I know that man does not want to lay out
21:35there
21:35and tan it to me, but he was like, oh, go.
21:37We were out there for like two hours and I was like, I knew he didn't want to, but he
21:40did it just to spend time with me and I love stuff like that.
21:43Totally.
21:43Like our reunion.
21:45You felt like he had the butterflies?
21:46When I first saw Autumn after so many years, it felt like home.
21:52Alan and I had that moment on our first date where we really opened up to one another and
21:59we spoke about, well, marriage and children.
22:02He opened up and talked about his children and then we both got emotional and the moment
22:07was just so real, so genuine.
22:09That for me really opened up my feelings, my feelings in a different way, not just the
22:15friendship way.
22:16Okay.
22:16Well, that's a great moment.
22:18Yeah, it was a great moment.
22:19When you can really bare your soul like that to somebody, it's pretty special.
22:21Our first date.
22:23Okay.
22:23I left that date.
22:25I had a hard time sleeping that night because my mind was racing.
22:28I love all of this.
22:31Paul?
22:31Yes?
22:34What about you and Leslie?
22:35What's going on?
22:36Like, seriously, give it to me.
22:37Sure.
22:38We're really enjoying ourselves.
22:40So we, yeah, it's been 45 years.
22:42Yeah.
22:42But we are so much the same as we were.
22:46I think it's going well because right now I'm actually learning a lot more about Paul.
22:51But there's nothing, you know, fluffy or romantic.
22:55Communication is, it's not easy for guys all the time.
22:58Sometimes we can be a little clueless when it comes to the emotional side.
23:01That would be the word that comes to mind.
23:02Yeah, it is.
23:03We can be.
23:04She's just as, you know, lively and adorable and bright as she ever was.
23:12And I'm still, you know, kind of dumb.
23:15Well, I've had trouble with that, even with Chili and I.
23:18It's great, though.
23:19She'll text me like, I need some mushy stuff today.
23:21Oh, I like that.
23:22Yeah.
23:22And I'm like, okay, totally.
23:24He said, I got you.
23:25I got you.
23:25For some reason, it takes a lot of vulnerability from a man to get mushy sometimes.
23:32Okay.
23:32It's like, if we open ourselves up that way, it maybe weakens us.
23:36You know, there's that.
23:37That is definitely something to consider.
23:39I wasn't really thinking in those terms.
23:40It's weird, but that's what it is.
23:42I know with Leslie and I, it would be easy to commit.
23:46I have not forgot about Leslie in all those years.
23:49You know, commitment, sure.
23:50I mean, I don't, I don't see a problem with that.
23:53No outside dates?
23:55Yeah.
23:55No.
23:56No.
23:58I'm too old for that.
24:00You never, no, that's, there's no such thing.
24:02You want to bet?
24:03Give me my hand.
24:04Give me my hand.
24:06So, Alan and I are kind of like the opposite, because we've been friends for so long.
24:10Right.
24:10And now we're trying to think about coming out of that, coming out of a friend zone.
24:16Stuck in the friend zone.
24:16Yeah.
24:17Yeah.
24:17And now we're working on the romantic aspect of it.
24:23Yeah.
24:23Can we have that spark for one another?
24:25We seem to be in this kind of friendship space, but I'm looking for something more.
24:32Things haven't been aligned.
24:33We've been here for a while.
24:34We've had lots of time to spend together.
24:37Flirty, being physically affectionate.
24:39Yeah.
24:39I haven't really felt that, you know.
24:41From her?
24:41From her, yeah.
24:42Okay.
24:42I've kind of interpreted that as a lack of interest.
24:45Mm-hmm.
24:45I don't know how much more I can wait.
24:48We all have that gut feeling, right?
24:50Mm-hmm.
24:50Listen to your gut.
24:51Listen to your gut.
24:52Like, what is your gut telling you?
24:53It's always right.
24:54Yeah.
24:54My gut has said, be patient.
24:57But I feel like I'm giving a lot and being supportive and listening, but I'm not really getting, that's
25:04not reciprocated for me.
25:05Mm-hmm.
25:06You need to say that to her.
25:08Don't try to, like, dance around it or sugarcoat it.
25:11Just, y'all got to have that conversation ASAP.
25:13Yeah.
25:15What about you?
25:17Um, I'm doing well.
25:18Yeah?
25:18I'm doing well.
25:19Okay.
25:19Enjoying this time.
25:20Okay, good.
25:21Alone.
25:22Oh, right.
25:23I know, I know.
25:23Yeah.
25:23It's been a couple days now?
25:25Yes.
25:25How are you feeling about that?
25:27Um, I was definitely supportive to, for him to go to support his daughter.
25:31I was disappointed in the fact that I wasn't given a lot of notice.
25:36It was just like, hey, I'm leaving.
25:38Right, right, right.
25:39That does seem to be a very common male trait.
25:42I don't know why we do this, but we'll literally hold these certain details to the last moment
25:48because we're just afraid of how they're going to land.
25:50Yeah.
25:50Of course, it could be done better.
25:52Yeah.
25:53Time is winding down, running out.
25:55I'm feeling uncertain about the relationship that I was once super confident in.
26:00Latina and I will need to have some deeper conversations once he gets back.
26:05Sounds like a little margin of grace.
26:07Yeah.
26:07Isn't it?
26:08Distance makes the heart grow fonder.
26:11That's what they say.
26:15Ah, I didn't tell there.
26:17Oh, no.
26:18I don't know.
26:19If you don't have a lot of time, so really throw it all out there.
26:22Don't be afraid of what the reaction is because, um, you know, we don't, time is just, it's
26:27just running away from all of us.
26:29So, so really go for it.
26:30And I'm rooting for you guys.
26:32I'm so glad you've opened up to me and shared these things with me.
26:35And it's great to have a female perspective.
26:38I want you guys to, to be happy.
26:41I want this to work out, you know, either way.
26:44Thank you for being here and sharing your wisdom and the guy perspective.
26:49All right, guys.
26:50Wise words.
26:51All right.
26:52All right.
26:52You know, I try.
26:53I don't know.
26:53Take it with a grain of salt.
26:55Let's bring it in.
26:56Let's bring it in.
26:57Come on, come on, come on.
27:00On three, one, two, three.
27:03We got this!
27:05Woo!
27:13Hello.
27:14Buongiorno.
27:15Can I have a piece of paper, please, and a pen to write a note?
27:18Of course you can.
27:19Sure.
27:19There we go.
27:22Leslie and I reconnecting, we're just having a lot of fun and a good time.
27:27It's been just wonderful.
27:31It's not necessarily my nature to be romantic, but Leslie, she makes me want to be better as
27:39far as that goes.
27:40If anyone could, it would be Leslie.
27:42And would somebody be able to take that to a room for me, please?
27:45Of course we will, sir.
27:46Thank you so much.
27:47You're really welcome.
27:48Bye-bye.
27:48I'm looking forward to see where it goes.
27:51I really am.
27:52I'm not going to make the same mistake I made 45 years ago.
28:00We've been really having a good time.
28:01We don't have to talk about marriage.
28:04Marriage would involve someone moving.
28:07It ain't going to be me.
28:18How are you?
28:20Very well.
28:20There is an envelope for you.
28:21Ah.
28:24You're really welcome.
28:24Goodbye.
28:27Huh.
28:29Okay.
28:31Leslie, please meet me for dinner tonight.
28:35Pa.
28:39It's just so Paul.
28:41There's nothing, you know, fluffy or romantic.
28:44It's just, meet me for dinner at the Yacht Club, 8 p.m.
28:48Pa.
28:49But I think that that's him being extremely romantic.
28:53So, you know what?
28:54I will take that.
28:55Let's see.
28:58Beautiful.
28:59Yes.
29:00I'm so excited for you.
29:02You look beautiful.
29:04Okay.
29:04Yay.
29:05Have fun.
29:06Okay.
29:07Yeah.
29:08Have fun.
29:08I thank you for helping me.
29:10Yeah.
29:10Yeah.
29:11I'm going to tell you everything.
29:13Leslie and Paul are so adorable.
29:17I see the love that they have for one another still.
29:22And I just think that they're a perfect couple.
29:25See you when you get back.
29:27Thanks.
29:27Bye.
29:41Oh, my God.
29:44Oh, my gosh.
29:46Wow.
29:47Look at you.
29:49You clean up quite nicely.
29:51It doesn't get any better than this.
29:52I am like, wow.
29:54I believe this is for you.
29:55Oh, that is, like, so sweet.
29:58Oh, thank you.
29:59You're welcome.
30:00I haven't had someone give me flowers in probably 40 years.
30:05This is going to sound silly, but I kind of felt like a princess.
30:08Shall we?
30:09Yes.
30:10Okay.
30:10Yes.
30:11Oh, my gosh.
30:13Paul keeps saying to me, I will not make this mistake again.
30:17I am not going to have any regrets again.
30:21What does that mean?
30:22Does that mean we're going to be a boyfriend-girlfriend?
30:26Have a seat.
30:29I'm in, so the balls in Paul's court.
30:32Don't you look pretty?
30:35This is a nice surprise.
30:36And I was not expecting.
30:38It's just lovely.
30:39I hope the print's big enough so I don't need my readers.
30:41I brought some.
30:43I love it.
30:45I'll probably get the beef.
30:46You get the beef.
30:47I'll get the tuna.
30:48Okay.
30:49We can share.
30:50Done.
30:50Do I see a future with Wesley?
30:53Absolutely.
30:54I want her to know, you know, I'm just really smitten.
30:59Now, that's gorgeous.
31:00Look at that.
31:01Oh, it has nice legs.
31:03Yes, you do.
31:08Well, cheers, sweetie.
31:09Aw, okay.
31:10The prettiest girl in the bill of the ball.
31:15Mm.
31:16Okay.
31:18It's really yummy.
31:20Yummy.
31:21It is good.
31:23So, when we go back to the States, you're coming to Seattle for your parents' 50th?
31:29Mm-hmm.
31:29Yeah, okay.
31:30Okay.
31:31Very nice.
31:33Oh, my goodness.
31:34Oh.
31:37Beautiful.
31:38Look at this.
31:39How far a flight is that?
31:41Like, three hours, maybe?
31:43That's almost four.
31:44I'll be in Seattle.
31:45So, we'll get together.
31:46Will you be in Seattle?
31:47Oh, for sure.
31:47What we'll find is when my sons meet your son.
31:51That will be fine.
31:53Absolutely.
31:53Because they, you know, they all snowboard and they snow ski and they, oh, my son's wakeboard.
31:58Mm-hmm.
31:59I was thinking, um, I'd like to come to Houston.
32:02Come on down.
32:03I'm coming.
32:03I'm there.
32:04I could do that.
32:05Okay, that's perfect.
32:07Yeah.
32:07It'll be great.
32:09It'll be good.
32:11I feel terrific about this date because this is the first time that I know that Paul is
32:17in it 100%.
32:18He's talking in terms of us doing things together.
32:22We have plans.
32:24And I like that.
32:25We've been really having a good time.
32:27I know.
32:28I feel a little guilty because you don't have to talk about marriage and kids, you know,
32:34and we're retired and...
32:36I mean, we don't have to talk about kids or retirement.
32:39But, I mean, I don't know what you mean by marriage.
32:42I mean, well, that's true.
32:47It doesn't freak me out that marriage would involve someone moving.
32:53It ain't going to be me.
32:57Well, no, that's a fair question.
32:59I'm just going to tell you about Houston and me.
33:01I moved to Houston just because I thought it was a fun place to live.
33:03No connection to Houston.
33:05None.
33:05I love it, and it's beautiful.
33:07If I moved, I wouldn't even think about it.
33:10It would just be something, just a little blip in my life.
33:13My mom, my dad, my brother, my sister, two of my children.
33:18And your grandkids.
33:19I'm a Northwest girl.
33:20I know.
33:21I know.
33:21So it wouldn't take a lot of conjoling, too.
33:23No.
33:24Okay.
33:24I'm just enjoying it now because this is something to do.
33:28Seems like Leslie is not married to Houston, so the distance thing would never be an issue.
33:36Ideally, she would move back to the Seattle area.
33:39That would be ideal.
33:41But we'll just have to wait and see.
33:43So what do you think about all these other couples?
33:46Blake and Cammie, that's an easy one to start with because they live in the same town.
33:50I mean, it's pretty hard to mess that up, you know, when you...
33:54They have the music, the connection, all that.
33:57Moving on.
33:59Alan, my roommate, and Razmay, they've known each other since the seventh grade.
34:04I'm not seeing a big spark there.
34:06But they're reserved.
34:08They can still be reserved, and you can detect a look in their eye or something.
34:14And I don't see it, you know?
34:17I mean, I'm not exactly, you know, Dr. Roos here, but I...
34:23So Shakira and Mateen, they are like the same person because they're both...
34:29They kind of are cute, their personalities, the way he looks at hers.
34:33He loves everything about her.
34:35He gets her.
34:37I'd agree.
34:38But how they're going to blend, you know, their families, how is that going to look?
34:43Could be a deal breaker.
34:44Calvin and Autumn.
34:45I believe they dated about six or seven months.
34:48I think they're both adorable.
34:49I think they're a super cute couple.
34:51Yeah.
34:51They don't really have an opinion.
34:52I could see that happening.
34:54Anyway, this was amazing.
34:56And these flowers, I'm going to save them for...
34:59I mean, I'm going to bronze them.
35:00You take a picture.
35:01You take a picture.
35:03This is like the sweetest thing anyone's ever done.
35:05Oh, please.
35:05Oh, no, okay, well, it's been an awfully long time before I've had any romance at all.
35:09I know, I know.
35:10Me too.
35:11And this is so beautiful.
35:12You know, I'm not crying.
35:14You know I cry.
35:15Please don't cry.
35:18I'm not going to cry, I promise.
35:20You know, when you cried in the store the other day, it really embarrassed me.
35:23When we broke up, or as you like to say, I dumped you, I am profoundly sorry.
35:28I'm not going to make the same mistake twice.
35:30Don't be so old.
35:34Okay, thank you.
35:35You're welcome, baby.
35:38As if it didn't embarrass me that in the middle of a retail store, you decide to say like the
35:44most deep, heavy thing.
35:45It was beautiful.
35:48Looking into his eyes, the entire world stops.
35:51It was like the world was gone.
35:53It seemed like we were just staring at each other for hours.
35:56I cannot explain it.
35:58I don't think a word, I don't even think there is an English word for what I was experiencing.
36:04We were in a good mood.
36:05If you don't speak in time, she'll take it well.
36:08I've loved Paul since I was 19 years old.
36:13He broke my heart, but, you know, that's just part of life.
36:18I regret what happened between us so many years ago.
36:22I didn't mean to hurt her, and I certainly won't do it again.
36:26Oh, okay.
36:27Wow.
36:28Let's go to bed.
36:29Excuse me?
36:30I mean, you know.
36:32I'm going to go to...
36:33In our separate bedrooms.
36:35What?
36:35In our separate rooms.
36:38He's feeling it, and he's feeling it on his own.
36:41It's not because we're in the most romantic place in the world.
36:44I think the love that Leslie and I had 45 years ago
36:50definitely lends itself to a pretty good foundation going forward.
36:53Shall we?
36:55Yes.
36:55Okay.
36:56Oh, my gosh.
36:56This is just wonderful, Paul.
36:58I want him in my life.
37:00I love this.
37:01It doesn't get any more romantic than this.
37:03I don't think I want to entertain dating anyone else.
37:06It's Paul or bust.
37:09You are very lovable.
37:10Okay, sweetie.
37:11Oh, my God.
37:12That's it.
37:12You're trying to be lovable.
37:14I get it.
37:14Oh, God.
37:15There's a plan.
37:15I'm so trying.
37:25I'm so trying.
37:33Ha, ha, ha, ha.
37:33Hey.
37:35Hey.
37:36You saved me a spot?
37:38Oh.
37:43Oh, my goodness.
37:44Yes.
37:45How's it going?
37:46Ah, much better now.
37:48How you doing?
37:50Amazing.
37:52What an amazing day.
37:54So peaceful.
37:55Yeah.
37:56Yeah, we've been in this experience for a while.
37:59We've had, you know, a lot of time to kind of talk about things and, you know, do things together
38:06and go on dates and all that.
38:10But for me, I definitely, you know, am looking for a partner, someone to spend my life with.
38:18I think you're amazing.
38:19I think you're beautiful.
38:21I love the way that you show up in the world.
38:23But, you know, we should probably talk about compatibility.
38:28If you want me to be quite honest, I don't really feel like you really want to be with me.
38:36What makes you say that?
38:37I don't think that you would be satisfied with me.
38:41So you're saying that you don't think that you're what I want.
38:47If your reason for not wanting to be with me is because you don't feel like I want to be
38:50with you, that is confusing.
38:53No, it has to be.
38:55I have to laugh at that for a second.
38:57But it doesn't feel like you want to be with me.
39:00I don't feel like you really want to be with me.
39:03Like, I invited you here.
39:04I know you invited me here.
39:06I invited you here, this experience.
39:08We're in this, you know, beautiful resort and we've flown across the world.
39:13And I made this big effort to try to, like, you know, connect with you.
39:18If that doesn't signal to you that, you know, I want to kind of see if we can explore something,
39:23I don't know what will because this is all I got.
39:27Yeah.
39:27I mean, I also don't want to cross that line.
39:30And, you know, ruin our friendship.
39:33I don't want to risk us not ever being in each other's lives because we tried something.
39:40And once you cross that line, it's like you can't go back.
39:43Because I'm not friends with my ex-boyfriends.
39:46I'm not friends with my ex-husband.
39:48Alan, you're special to me in my life.
39:52I'm treading carefully.
39:55It's, like, not worth it for me to lose somebody special in my life just because.
40:04That's really sweet.
40:07I would never want to lose Alan from my life.
40:10This is very sensitive because, like, I've already lost so many people in my life already.
40:16I don't want to risk losing you, period.
40:20Period.
40:22I don't want to lose any more people out of my life.
40:25I've lost enough.
40:26I miss my parents every day.
40:30You know, maybe other people would know right away, but for me, it would take time.
40:35Especially, we're going to be together as friends, but I can have you forever, then that's what I want.
40:42It sounds like it's unlikely that you're ever going to want to take that chance.
40:47Maybe not.
40:52Hey!
40:54We got a talent show?
40:55Yes!
40:57All the couples, we created something together.
41:00I have one for you.
41:01You have one for me.
41:02Back in love of mine.
41:04You're crying.
41:05You just got to do it.
41:06Leave no stone unturned.
41:08That feeling that I get when I see you, I can't ignore that.
41:12I'm telling everyone exactly how I feel about her.
41:15Even if you don't feel the same, man, I shed a couple tears.
41:19Hi!
41:21How was your trip?
41:22It was good.
41:23That's good.
41:24What did I do?
41:25I feel like I'm in the Twilight Zone.
41:55I feel like I'm in the 핸드 Son, so I'm in the lane.
41:56You were from Zealand, and you were due to the
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