00:04listening to your parents what are you learning from marriage in general I mean
00:11relationships relationships well I would say it's really how much of a
00:18commitment love truly is it's more than just a feeling it's it's about choosing
00:22each other every day even when the going gets tough I think that's what I've
00:26learned the most from from them I think it'll like to be straightforward as
00:32well it's also good to be able to learn from I guess maybe yung mga pagkakamali
00:38po nila tito boy or yung mga shortcomings din po nila things like that so so that I
00:43may apply that you know if the time does come that I'm in that same situation did
00:48you see them fight?
00:49ooo naman po lalo na unikaiha syempre ako yung referee tito boy
00:55at saka you're very close kasi yes we're very yeah
00:59paano kung nagre-referee? do you talk to both of them?
01:03well I mean depends on kung ano po yung pinag-a-awayan to nila or kung ano man yung tampuhan
01:10na yun po
01:11pero generally what tends to happen is each of them will kind of present their side to me
01:17usually one of them will will probably go into my room and say and kind of be vulnerable and open
01:24up to me about kung ano man yung problema
01:27and then of course I give my two cents worth on the subject I think the advantage din of being
01:34the only child as well is I get kind of like a bird's eye view
01:38parang nakikita ko po yung pareho po nilang perspective at kung ano po yung pinanggagalingan po nila and I'm able
01:44to kind of give a level of you know advice
01:50or just perspective kasi syempre I'm able to see things a little bit less emotionally lalo na po when they're
01:56in the heat of the moment po
01:58ang sarap magkaroon ng anak na ganito
02:00pero alam mo boy there's one yung pinag-usapan natin yung nawi-witness ni Jade
02:05there's one moment in you know in our 25 years na hindi ko makakalimutan si Jade
02:12she was still young
02:13Australia
02:13oh in Australia that we had a
02:15he loves telling this story
02:16I love telling this story because at that time
02:19Pilipilya
02:19because hindi ko akalimutan at that at such a young age may ganon ka nang pakiramdam
02:24she showed a lot of empathy and ano very sensitive sya kasi we had her mom and I had a
02:32huge argument
02:33and we were not hindi kami nakikiboy we had a show in Australia
02:35nasa tour kami
02:36so pag that talagang she was like she was livid and hindi ko talaga makausap and we were just talagang
02:43silent treatment
02:44and hiwalay kami
02:45pero si Jade nung nasense niya na
02:48kasi we were in a suite eh
02:50so they were in another room
02:52si Jade nung I was in another room
02:54pumunta sa room ko
02:56tapos
02:57namapit siya sa akin
02:58are you okay dad?
03:00bata pa siya
03:01I think she was what
03:01four years old
03:03kaya mamam okay
03:05tapos sabi niya
03:06can I stay with you?
03:08can I
03:08yung parang siguro na feel yan na
03:10mabigat yung pakiramdam ko
03:12talagang ano siya
03:14nag sabi ko
03:14you have to ask your mom
03:15pumunta siya sa mami
03:16can I stay with that?
03:18can I stay with dad?
03:19she slept with me
03:20stay with dad
03:21is it okay ma'am?
03:25oh
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