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Aired (May 5, 2026): Muling bumisita sa 'Fast Talk with Boy Abunda' ang pamilyang Avanzado. Abangan ang pakikipag-kuwentuhan ni Tito Boy kina Dingdong Avanzado, Jessa Zaragoza, at ang anak nilang si Jayda tungkol sa paghahanda at resulta ng kanilang naging surprise wedding, pati na rin ang strong bond ng kanilang pamilya.
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00:32Kwentuhang musika, pamilya, kaibigan ang magaganap po ngayong hapon.
00:38Naitay kapuso, malapit po sa aking puso ang aking mabisita.
00:43Please welcome Ding Dong, Jeza, and Jada Avanzado.
00:55Hi, hi, Dong.
00:58Please.
01:00Welcome to the program.
01:02Kumusta kayo?
01:04Salamat, Koy.
01:05It's always a pleasure to be here.
01:07It is my happiness to have you on the show.
01:10Pero parang may pakiramdam ko, Jeza,
01:13pag nakakaharap ko ang buong pamilya niyo, parang ang yaman niyo.
01:15Hi, wow.
01:18Di ba you get that vibe?
01:20Ha?
01:22No, it was so much fun.
01:26When I read about that surprise thing that happened, I mean, tell me the story.
01:33Nag-viral kasi yun eh.
01:35Nakita ko, sabi ko, what happened?
01:36Hindi nga namin akalain na magpaviral pa lang yun.
01:39Hindi ko in-expect yun, that was a bonus.
01:40Pero ano yun, 25th anniversary, wedding anniversary, and then parang isang taon yung plenano ni Jada.
01:48Anong kakao?
01:49Actually, I actually thought about this long before pa.
01:53I was telling myself that sana umabot kami ni Jeza ng 25 years.
01:57And if that happens, I want to renew my vows.
02:00I want to marry her again.
02:02I remember talking to Jada about it.
02:04But I put it together, I put it in motion about a year ago.
02:08Yung last year.
02:10Nasabi ko, kailangan siyempre planuhin namin ito.
02:12So, we had to have attention to detail because si Jessa mahirap surpresahin.
02:18Kasi sa kanya, alam niya lahat ng schedule na rin eh.
02:21Sa lahat sa akin, saka may paka-FBI ako dito.
02:23So, lahat talaga yan.
02:25So, paano nangyari?
02:27You and dad, dogs, spoke to each other and then, paano yung planning?
02:31I told Jada, it's time.
02:33Sabi ko, I want to marry your mom again.
02:36It's our 25th year and I want to surprise her.
02:39And I need your help.
02:40Because, alam mo naman ng mami mo, detective yan.
02:43Mababubukong tayo.
02:44So, kailangan ko ng buffer and we have to do this.
02:47Dadaan ko sa kanya.
02:49So, that's how it started.
02:50Because Jada had to reach out to, I needed an event planner and a coordinator.
02:56So, siya ang nag-set nun.
02:58Na hindi ko ka pwedeng gawin.
03:01Because she checks his phone sometimes.
03:05Tinitingnan niya po yung telepono naman.
03:07Kung binabasa niya yung email.
03:08Tinitingnan ko pa.
03:09Kasi misan, ako nagpo-post ng ano niya.
03:11Tuutusan niya ako, magpo-post ako sa social media niya.
03:15Opo.
03:15So, hindi ko naman binabasa.
03:17Lahat niya.
03:18Lahat niya.
03:18Tayo lahat.
03:18Hindi, hindi lahat.
03:19Asus!
03:20Pero ano po.
03:21Asus!
03:22So, ayun nga po.
03:23So, we really had to keep it under wraps nunguna pa lang.
03:26So, ako po yung nag-contact po sa nice friend, si Tita Cherise yung...
03:30No, I get it.
03:31Using your phone.
03:32Using my phone, of course.
03:34Yeah, right.
03:35That's okay.
03:35So, parang we basically...
03:37It really just started na.
03:38We staged a father-daughter day together.
03:42Sabi namin sa kanya,
03:43nalabas lang kami, ano, magmamal lang kami.
03:46Pero, actually, noon, nag-set po talaga kami ng meeting with the event planner to really start talking about this
03:53surprise.
03:54Ms. FBI, NBI, wala ka talagang kawang-wang.
03:59Wala kang suspet sa...
04:01Wala, Tito Boy, kasi medyo na-throw off din talaga ako kasi noong March 18, yung booking agent namin sa
04:09Cornerstone, sa manager namin, binigyan kami ng trabaho.
04:14So, ang pinalabas nila, may inquiry sa amin ni Ding Dong na magpa-perform kami para sa isang jewelry launch.
04:22Okay.
04:23Kunwaring trabaho lang.
04:24Kunwaring lang na trabaho yun.
04:25So, talagang dumaan siya sa proseso.
04:27As in, nag-usap kami ng booking agent sa presyo, ilang kanta, ano yung mga gagawin, yung tipong gano'n.
04:35At importante yun.
04:36Kasi anniversary, kung hindi rin lang kataasan ang presyo, alam natin lahat yun.
04:43That's exactly what I told them.
04:44I mean, I was planning this out.
04:45Sabi ko, it'll take something special para mapapayag niyo si Jessa, let alone mag-BIS.
04:52Because Jessa doesn't like yung mga celebrations na tumalabas na, yung mga lalaking celebrations.
04:57Ayaw niya yun.
04:58That's why I wanted to surprise her.
04:59Kasi if she had her way, sabi lang niya, simple lang, kumayan lang tayo sa labas, mga ganun.
05:04But I wanted her, and yeah, I wanted her to be at her best, looking her best.
05:08So, it had to be a show.
05:10So, ganun.
05:11Kaya ko, ginawa yun.
05:12I quite got the sense.
05:13Kasi parang kung anibersaryo, parang ano yan eh, New Year's Eve dati.
05:18Alam mo, Tito ba yung nakakatawa?
05:19Nung natanggap ko yung inquiry na yun, di nag-settle na kami sa presyo, pumayag na daw yung client.
05:26Sinabihan ko pa si Ding Dong, Han, hulog ng langit.
05:32Hulog ng langit, may trabaho tayo, kaya lang March 18, sa anniversary natin.
05:36Pero ang ganda ng talent fee, tapos tayong dalawa pa yung kinuha.
05:39Nandun ako nun, nung sinabi ko.
05:41So, that was part of the discussions po, Tito Boy, na we had to stage that fake inquiry.
05:46So, kakunchaba po namin yung Cornerstone.
05:49And I remember, I was there at that exact moment when she had the phone call with their booking manager,
05:54with their booking agent.
05:55And then, ang nasa isip ko pa nun, ah, the plan has been set.
05:59Yeah, exactly.
06:01Tapos, siyempre, todo acting skills talaga mo inandaan ko nun.
06:05Okay, so, Jessa, take me to that moment, nung na-realize mo na hindi pala siya gig, hindi pala siyang
06:14booking, pero ay selebrasyon pala ng iyong kasal.
06:19In-introduce pa ako eh.
06:22Oo, hindi nga, Tito Boy, alam mo ba, bago papunta sa venue, nag-vocalize pa ako.
06:29Kasi alam ko talaga, kakanta ako eh.
06:32So, pagdating dun sa likod, in-introduce talaga ako.
06:36So, the usual.
06:37Tapos, tinatanong ko yung handler ko, ano nga ulit yung lineup?
06:40Ano yung una kong kanta?
06:41Sabi, di ba't ikaw?
06:43Pero sabi ko, bakit parang iba yung music na tumutugtog?
06:47Pero, ano ko siya, na sa aking puso, duet namin ni Ding Dong.
06:52Pero hindi ko na kinwestion yun, kasi si Ding Dong talaga minsan nagbabago ng lineup.
06:58So, sabi ko, ah, okay, sa aking puso pala yung kakantahin namin.
07:02Pero, nagtaka din ako, bakit dapat first verse siya yung papasok dun sa kanta?
07:09So, kaya pagpasok ko, show mode talaga ako.
07:12Tumingin muna ako sa kaliwa.
07:14Pagtingin ko sa kaliwa, biglang nakita ko yung anak ko.
07:18Nandun si Jada, laki ng mata nandun.
07:21Okay.
07:22Hindi pa agad, hindi ko pa agad naliyalize ito.
07:25So, pagtingin ko naman sa kanan, nakita ko yung friends namin.
07:28Tapos, yung mga tao, lahat na naka, ano na yung phone nila, yung camera nila.
07:35Tapos, tumingin ulit ako sa kaliwa, nakita ko na yung musical director namin, si Elmer Blanca Floor.
07:40Nakauku siya sa piano.
07:42Doon ko na naisip na, oh my, mayroong surprise.
07:47Okay.
07:48So, ano na talaga ako, nagpanic na talaga ako.
07:51Parang, sabi ko, ano to?
07:54Tapos, isa-isa ko nang na-realize yung mga tao nandun.
07:58Mga friends namin.
07:59Boy, for me, you know, no amount of preparation.
08:05In my mind, no?
08:07It was very important that our attention to detail was very high.
08:11Kasi kahit anong gawin namin, pag bago siya pumasok doon sa pintu na yun at nakatunog siya, sira lahat yun.
08:18So, I was really hoping na talagang, wala talagang, hindi mabubuking walang madudulas.
08:24And true enough, hanggang yung pagpasok niya.
08:26In fact, kanina, before going, this morning when I woke up, I still, I watch it.
08:30Kasi I still see the face, her face, yung pagbukha niya, that to me was priceless.
08:36Kasi yun talaga yung, alam ko talagang, sobrang wala talaga siyang clue whatsoever.
08:42Ganda naman, no? Ganda.
08:44That's how you build memories.
08:46Yeah.
08:47But if you were to sing, di ba?
08:49Yung inyong, yung inyong vows, what song would you do as a duet?
08:56Ang dami nabi maa.
08:58As a duet, ah, sa aking puso.
09:03Ah, ya, sa aking puso.
09:04Of course.
09:05Oh, yeah.
09:06You were the maid of honor.
09:08Essentially, yes.
09:09Essentially, yes.
09:10And now, you know, when you listen to both mom and dad, I mean, like, right now, sing a duet
09:16together,
09:17ano yung iniisip mo?
09:19I feel very, I guess, proud is a good word to describe.
09:23I mean, I'm proud of the both of them.
09:25Lado na, I mean, bilang produkto ako ng pagmahal nila.
09:29I think I would really be the first-hand witness to their journey as a couple.
09:35So, ayun po.
09:36I feel very proud of them.
09:37And I'm very touched seeing it.
09:41At saka, that journey has not always been easy.
09:43Di ba?
09:44When you talk about having loved each other for 25 years and counting till eternity, di ba nakakatabarin ng puso
09:54kasi hindi madali?
09:57At saka, pinaghirapan namin ito, Tito Boy.
10:00At yung 25 years, sobrang daming nangyari sa buhay namin mag-asawa.
10:06Right.
10:06Kung magam, binuno talaga namin ito.
10:09And especially, nasa showbiz pa kami.
10:12Very public.
10:13Yeah.
10:14So, hindi biro.
10:16Pero, Chessa, was there...
10:18I know we spoke about this in one of my interviews.
10:20I just don't remember exactly when.
10:23Pero, was there a time when you wanted to walk away?
10:28For sure.
10:29Meron ba?
10:30May mga pagkakataon na talagang parang...
10:33Actually, boy, yeah.
10:35I mean, we're not a perfect couple.
10:37I mean, and in fact, it's also those imperfections that have allowed us to become the kind of couple that
10:45we are now.
10:46Because instead of, you know, focusing on those imperfections, we saw to it that we learned from those, whatever shortcomings
10:56we have to each other.
10:59Pero, ano mo yung expression na pinagtibay kayo ng panahon?
11:04I get that, Dong.
11:05Pero, we realize that in hindsight.
11:08You're able to connect the dots.
11:09Na, ito palang ginawa namin.
11:11Inilaban pala namin ang aming pagmamahalan.
11:13But, when you're in the middle of a problem, when you're in the middle of a marital challenge, halimbawa,
11:19paano nyo sinisiguro na hindi kayo...
11:25You don't walk out on each other.
11:29Ako, pagkatapos ng galit ko at sakit na naramdaman ko, pag nag-aaway kami ni Ding Dong, or kung mayroong
11:35mga malaking away,
11:37bandang huli, pagkatapos ko magdasal, pinagdidesisyonan ko na siya pa rin ang pipiliin ko.
11:45It's a choice, eh, no?
11:46Yeah.
11:46You make that choice.
11:48Yeah.
11:48Do you have the same process?
11:49Yes.
11:50Because, actually, boy, to add to what Jess is saying, it's important that we choose each other pa rin.
11:57We continue choosing each other.
11:58Of course, there's so many times, there's so many moments that it was so convenient to just say,
12:06oh, let's just call it quits, walk away.
12:08It's so many.
12:09Maraming mga ganong couples na nangyayari yun.
12:11But, I guess, sa amin talaga, it was also our faith, eh.
12:16But, strengthened by our faith, Christ-centered kami, na talagang, if wala siguro yun,
12:23baka it was, it would have been easier for us to just call it quits.
12:26And, kung hindi dumating din si Jada.
12:28Jada was a very, very strong factor.
12:30Totally agree.
12:31How do you keep that fire burning?
12:34You should ask her, because I'm like that, right?
12:37Oo.
12:37Ano si Ding Dong kasi, walang moment yata na naging boring.
12:42Ako yata yung boring.
12:44Ah, talaga.
12:45Kasi, ako simple lang ako.
12:46Nagpapopogi sa'yo yung...
12:47Ay, nako.
12:49Maharol?
12:50Maharol.
12:51Oo, talaga.
12:53Glimpse lang.
12:54Pag kayo lang dalawa sa kwarto, ganun siya.
12:57Yung biglang naka-boxers, yung ganun.
13:00Oo, naguguluhan ako sa kanya.
13:01Ang dami niya mga pinagagawa, mga bagay-bagay.
13:05Nagugulat na lang ako.
13:06Pero, you know, tumatawa lang tayo.
13:08But that's important.
13:09Yeah.
13:09Kasi dapat buo yung relasyon, eh.
13:12There still has to be romance, eh.
13:14Dapat.
13:14Even 25 years after, I'm proud to say, I'm still romantic sa kanya.
13:19Very much.
13:20He's very affectionate.
13:22Dito ba, siya yung malambing?
13:23Oo.
13:24Hindi ako yung...
13:25Ah, talaga?
13:25Tinuro niya lang sa'kin yun na, okay lang pala maging malambing, okay lang maging show.
13:30It is okay.
13:3125 years, isa yun sa mga tinurun sa kanya.
13:33And also, boy, I'm unpredictable.
13:36Oh.
13:37I am so unpredictable.
13:39And that's one secret sa mga guys.
13:43Gusto niyong ano yung babae ma-excite lagi.
13:46Be unpredictable.
13:47Tama.
13:47Kasi pag predictable ka na.
13:49That adventure, dude.
13:50That adventure must not stop.
13:53Listening to your parents, what are you learning?
13:57From marriage in general?
13:58Yeah.
13:59I mean, relationships.
14:00Relationships.
14:01Well, gaya nga nang sinabi ng dad ko, I would say it's really how much of a commitment love truly
14:07is.
14:07It's more than just a feeling.
14:09It's about choosing each other every day, even when the going gets tough.
14:13I think that's what I've learned the most from them.
14:17I think it's like to be straightforward as well.
14:21It's also good to be able to learn from, I guess, maybe yung mga pagkakamali po nila, Tito Boy, or
14:27yung mga shortcomings din po nila, things like that.
14:30So that I may apply that, you know, if the time does come that I'm in that same situation.
14:36Did you see them fight?
14:37Oo naman po.
14:39Lalo na, unikaiha, siyempre.
14:40Correct.
14:41Ako yung referee, Tito Boy.
14:44At saka, you're very close kasi.
14:46Yes, very, very.
14:47Oo.
14:47Paano kung nagre-referee?
14:48Do you talk to both of them?
14:51Well, I mean, depends on kung anong po yung pinag-aawa yun to nila.
14:55Okay.
14:56Or kung anong man yung tampuhan na yun po.
14:59Pero generally, what tends to happen is each of them will kind of present their side to me.
15:05Usually, one of them will probably go into my room.
15:08And kind of be vulnerable and open up to me about kung anong man yung problema.
15:15And then, of course, I give my two cents worth on the subject.
15:19I think the advantage din of being the only child as well is I get kind of like a bird's
15:25eye view.
15:26Parang nakikita ko po yung pareho po nilang perspective at kung ano po yung pinanggagalingan po nila.
15:32And I'm able to kind of give a level of, you know, advice or just perspective.
15:39Kasi, syempre, I'm able to see things a little bit less emotionally.
15:43Lalo na po when they're in the heat of the moment po.
15:46Ang sarap magkaroon ng anak na ganito.
15:48Pero alam mo, boy, there's one, yung pinag-usapan natin yung na-wi-witness ni Jade.
15:53There's one moment in our 25 years na hindi ko makakalimutan si Jade.
16:00She was still young.
16:01Australia.
16:01Oh, in South Australia.
16:03He loves telling this story.
16:04I love telling this story because at that time, because hindi ko akalimutan at such a young age, may ganun
16:11ka nang pakiramdam.
16:13She showed a lot of empathy and very sensitive siya.
16:17Kasi her mom and I had a huge argument.
16:21And we were not, hindi kami nakikibawa.
16:22We had a show in Australia.
16:23Nasa tour kami.
16:25So pagdata, talagang, she was like, she was livid and hindi ko talaga makausap.
16:30And we were just talagang silent treatment and hiwalay kami.
16:34Pero si Jade, nung na-sense niya na, kasi we were in a suite eh, so they were in another
16:39room.
16:40Si Jade, nung I was in another room, pumunta sa room ko, tapos, numapit siya sa akin,
16:47Are you okay, Dad?
16:48Bata pa siya.
16:49I think she was, what, four years old?
16:51Eh, kaya, mamam okay.
16:53Tapos sabi niya, can I stay with you?
16:56Can I, yung parang siguro na feel yan na mabigat yung pakiramdam ko, talagang, ano siya,
17:02nagsabi ko, you have to ask your mom.
17:03Pumunta siya sa mami.
17:05Can I stay with Dad?
17:06Can I stay with Dad?
17:07She slept with me.
17:08Can I stay with Dad?
17:09Para na to comfort me.
17:10Is it okay, ma'am?
17:10Can I stay with Dad?
17:12Pero, Jess, ang tapang mo.
17:14Do you expect your daughter to be as tough as you are?
17:20Yes.
17:22O, Tito, subaybayan mo yan.
17:24Just go.
17:25Yung pinagdaanan ko.
17:27Ang reaksyon ko talaga.
17:28Also, you're a husband.
17:30You know, that's why I say you're really tough.
17:32I'm not saying she's a tough.
17:33As a matter of fact, you know, I really think, you know, ang dami niyang namana sa inyong dalawa.
17:39Pero, meron ka bang sense na, sana, tumibay itong anak ko kasing tibay ko ang anak ko?
17:47Meron dito, Boyd.
17:48Saka pinagdadasal ko yun.
17:50Pero sinasabi ko nga sa kanya.
17:51Kaya kami, hinahayaan lang namin siya.
17:54Sinasabi ko, hayaan mong pandayin ka ng panahon.
17:58Ganda.
18:00At katulad ngayon, you'll be on your own.
18:02Let's do fast talk.
18:03Okay, let's go.
18:06Here we go.
18:06Ito na.
18:08Jada.
18:08Yes.
18:09Soft girl, tough girl.
18:11Soft girl.
18:12Pretty, brainy.
18:13Brainy.
18:14Actress, singer.
18:15Singer.
18:16Low key, high key.
18:17Low key.
18:18Action, reaction.
18:20Reaction.
18:21Collab in love.
18:22Collab.
18:22I feel pretty, kapag?
18:26Kapag pagkagising ko.
18:28I feel loved, kapag?
18:32Kasama ko yung mahal ko sa buhay.
18:34Red flag mo sa lalaki.
18:35Red flag ko sa lalaki.
18:38Kapag hindi marunong rumispet sa magulang ko.
18:40Green flag.
18:41Green flag.
18:43Kapag nakikisama po sa magulang ko.
18:45Namanan mo kay daddy.
18:47Creativity.
18:48Namanan mo kay mami.
18:50Perspective sa buhay.
18:51Lagot ako kay daddy, kapag?
18:54Kapag hindi ko siya niyayakap mo nilalambi.
18:58Lagot ako kay mami, kapag?
19:00Kapag hindi ko nililigpit yung mga gamit ko.
19:03Your first showbiz crush?
19:05First?
19:06First.
19:08Daniel Padili.
19:09Daniel Padili.
19:10DJ, your ideal date?
19:12Ideal date?
19:13Siguro a nice intimate dinner and a walk along the beach.
19:17Wow.
19:18Okay, you're now 22?
19:20Turning 23, yes.
19:21Turning 23.
19:22Pwede nito.
19:23Lights on or lights off?
19:24Lights off.
19:25Dim.
19:26Dim.
19:27Happiness or chocolates?
19:29Hindi po ka mahinig sa chocolates dito po.
19:30Kaya happiness.
19:31Best time for happiness?
19:33Anytime.
19:34Anak ako ni Nadingdong at Jessa.
19:36Kaya?
19:38Kaya...
19:39Kaya I am who I am.
19:42Diba?
19:44Jada, at this point in your life, you're turning 23.
19:47Yes.
19:48Palagay mo ba kailangan mo ng approval pa ng mom at dad pagdating halimbawa sa boyfriend?
19:55Ang makasagutan po, sa pagbabalip ng Fast Talk with Boy Abul.
20:06We're back on the show.
20:08Jessa, Dong, tayo naman ang mag-fast talk.
20:12Wow.
20:13Habang nakikinig si Jada.
20:15Jessa, cool mom, hot mama.
20:17Cool mom.
20:18Celosa, banidosa.
20:21Celosa.
20:22Complete this.
20:23Parang di ko yata kaya kapag?
20:27Kapag nawala yung dalawang ito sa buhay ko.
20:30Kinikilig ako kay Ding Dong kapag?
20:33Kapag nilalambig niya ako.
20:34Umiinit ang ulo ko kay Ding Dong kapag?
20:40Kapag...
20:42Sobra yung golf game.
20:44Sobra yung golf game.
20:46Kaya saan, kailan pinaka-hot si Ding Dong?
20:50Kapag 2.30 in the morning.
20:54Exacto yung time.
20:55Meron kami...
20:57Private joke.
20:59Dong, matinee o matinik?
21:02Matinik.
21:03Kilabot o kuripot?
21:05Kilabot.
21:06Complete this.
21:07Basta't kasama kita?
21:10Lahat magagawa.
21:12Lagot ako kay Jessa kapag?
21:16Pag sumobro na yung golf ko.
21:19Naiinis ako kay Jessa kapag?
21:23Pag lagi siyang nasa telepono niya.
21:26Kailan pinakamaganda si Jessa?
21:28Parate.
21:29Sa inyong dalawa, sino ang mas seloso?
21:32Si Jessa.
21:33Sa inyong dalawa, sino ang mas matagal maligo?
21:37Siya.
21:38Si Jessa.
21:38Sa inyong dalawa, sino ang mas madaling mapagod?
21:42Si Jessa pa rin.
21:44Sa inyong dalawa, sino ang nauunang mag-sorry?
21:47Si Jessa.
21:49Sa inyong dalawa, sino ang unang nangangalabit?
21:54One!
21:55Ako.
21:58Lights on or lights off?
22:00Both.
22:01Happiness or chocolate?
22:04Happiness.
22:05Best time for happiness?
22:08Morning.
22:10Siyempre morning.
22:12One word to sum up the last 25 years ninyong magkasama.
22:16Ano ito?
22:18Fulfilling.
22:20So lovely.
22:21Lovely.
22:23Ganda.
22:24Ganda naman.
22:27Ito ngayon lang, Jada.
22:30I know you're blessed to have parents like Dong and Jessa.
22:35I know you're starting lang in your career.
22:38These are two of the biggest hitmakers in the country.
22:41It just occurred to me now, hindi ka na-prepressure.
22:44Sa kanilang po ang dalawa, hindi naman po.
22:47Maybe because you guys talk, no?
22:50Pero kung hindi, ka-prepressure, ha?
22:53If anything po, Tito Boy, I think mas sarili ko po.
22:57I think in terms of my expectations for myself, siguro din po kasi, I think grateful din po ako na
23:03habang lumalaki ako, never po nila akong pre-nessure na pumasok sa showbiz or kailangan parang makamit ko yung parang
23:11yung success na sa kanila.
23:13The hits of your dad, the hits of your mom.
23:15But I also realize, this is as family na, that you also have to work so hard.
23:20No?
23:21Yes, po.
23:22Kasi kanina parang, you know, people would call you a nepo baby.
23:25Hindi ha.
23:26You have to work so hard.
23:28Of course, may tulong.
23:30Na anak ni Jessa sa kanidin ding dong.
23:31Actually, mayroong explanation si Jada.
23:33Sige nga?
23:36Ako kasi, again, we've discussed this time and time again, na hindi ko minamasama yung pagiging or parang pag tinatawag
23:44po akong nepo baby because I can't deny my history and I'm proud of my history.
23:48I'm proud of my heritage.
23:50But at the same time, like, I didn't choose which family to be born in and I'm very blessed that
23:55this is, this is my, these are my set of circumstances.
23:58But at the same time, hindi po ako exempted po sa journey po or sa mga challenges po na kailangan
24:07kumaranasan para makamit yung mga pangarap ko po, Tito Boy.
24:11In fact, I like to think that, yes po, there is a level of privilege, but at the same time,
24:18parang I do have my own set of struggles din po na, yun nga po, I guess one would be
24:23that there's a, may mga preconceived notions na po tungkol sa akin.
24:27Expectations.
24:28Yes, and certain expectations that, you know, let's face it, nandun na po talaga yun. It's a given lalo na
24:35po.
24:35I think for me, when I, when I did enter showbiz, there's already, yes, may advantage po na may familiarity,
24:42but at the same time, there's a tendency na, when people meet me, they've already judged me or they already
24:48feel like they know everything about me when they haven't,
24:51But even in the context of music, but you know, time is on your side, you're young.
24:56Yeah.
24:57Time is on your side.
24:58And I say this to, you know, uh, children of, children of, you know, of artists, of stars, of superstars,
25:07and it's tough, but I know you're equipped.
25:39That's, that's really nice.
25:39Ano, ang industriya natin, maraming, ano yan, twist and turns, ups and downs, and, you know, marami rin yung, you
25:48know, pagdating ng mga controversies,
25:51kailangan matibay ang loob mo, tsaka alam mo naman kung ano yung totoo at hindi.
25:56Importante yan eh, yung, misa kasi yung ano yung lumalabas, hindi naman yung totoo eh, tapos papaniwalaan, yung perception na
26:01yun.
26:02Pero alam mo kung ano yung totoo, and that's what's most important, is at the end of the day, you
26:06know what's real and what's true.
26:08And you fight for that, and you stand by that.
26:10Anong parating mong nire-remind?
26:13Nire-remind ko siya lagi.
26:14Pagdating sa mga bagay na ganito?
26:16Dito, anak, sa industriya nito, matira matibay.
26:20Oo.
26:20At saka hindi lahat ng mabait ay mabuting tao.
26:25Kaya kailangan nag-iingat ka.
26:27And kailangan madi-discern mo yung taong pagkakatiwalaan mo.
26:31Pagdating yun ah, hindi lahat ng mabait tingnan ay mabuting tao.
26:37That takes a lot of discernment.
26:41And you have to listen to your parents.
26:43Of course.
26:44Alam daw sa tito boy.
26:46I've also learned the hard way, and from personal experience,
26:50I've met all sorts of people in my time in show business.
26:55But because of, dahil sa mga words of wisdom na in-impart po nila sa akin,
27:02pag nakikita ko na po, at least aware po ako kung ano po yung kinahirap ko, if that makes sense.
27:10Pagdating sa boys, anong nire-remind niyo sa inyong anak?
27:14Sa boys?
27:14Pagdating sa boys, diba?
27:17Oh, I mean, boys will always be there.
27:21Pagdating sa boys, diba?
27:23You have to choose well.
27:25Gusto ko pagkakasabi mo.
27:27Pagkasabi mo.
27:28May pagkakakontrabida po ba direct yung ano?
27:30You have to choose well.
27:32You have to choose well.
27:35I keep telling Jada about, you know, what men want, what boys want.
27:41Right.
27:42She has to know that.
27:43And I made it clear to her, you know.
27:46It's always they put their best foot forward.
27:48But you have to really find time to get to know the person.
27:54Talagang, hindi mo may malalaman sa umpisa kagad.
27:58Kaya kailangan, you know, hayaan mong, kung meron kang gusto talaga,
28:02kilalanin mong mabutihan bago ka bumigay, bago ka mag-commit, diba?
28:09So, yun.
28:10Marami bang boys ang nai-intimidate sa'yo?
28:13Not even, okay, let's be very honest.
28:17Your parents are ding-dong and chesa, ikaw na lang, yung tindig mo.
28:21Marami.
28:22Opo, that's in fact a lot of feedback.
28:26That's the feedback I get.
28:27A lot of them are intimidated.
28:29Yes.
28:30I've heard a lot of stories din na, parang, diba nakakarating sa atin na parang may umaligid,
28:38tapos parang gusto sanang pumorma.
28:40Pero pag nakilala ako or nakilala kong sining magulang ko, hindi na sila mag-attempt.
28:45And that's probably why for the longest time, like, growing up, lalo na in my teenage years,
28:50I think people would be really surprised to know, Tito Boy, na wala po ako mga talagang manliligaw po.
28:57I didn't, like, when, that's why when, when I would get asked before in interviews as a teenager, like,
29:03pin manliligaw ba sa'yo kasi ganito ganito.
29:05And I would say no, and people would say, parang hindi naman, ano, kapanipaniwala.
29:10Pero that's really the truth.
29:12And I think I would attribute that to, to, to that intimidating image.
29:17Yes. And I also think it's maybe because, maybe it's my, my confidence or the way that I carry myself
29:23or
29:23because I'm very, parang, I'm very secure in who I am.
29:29And sometimes I know that can, kind of, scare people off.
29:32But I, I, I think I have a new perspective when it comes to that is,
29:38if dun pa lang, parang na-intimidate na po sila, then it means that they're not the right person for
29:43me.
29:44Tama.
29:44Kasi, kung siya yung tamang tao para sa akin, tatanggapin niya naman po talaga yun ng buo.
29:51At, ilalaban.
29:53Opo.
29:53Di ba? What is your message for mom and dad?
29:56Well, I think the, the one thing I would say is really thank you.
30:00I have so, I have so many things that I, I want to thank you guys for.
30:04And I think, number one, lalo na in the context of this interview, I think,
30:08thank you for teaching me what love is really all about.
30:11Thank you for being the best example to me, um, growing up.
30:17And I think I'll leave it at, um, I wouldn't be who I am today without the two of you.
30:22Dong, ikaw, anong sasabihin mo sa mag-ina?
30:24Sa mag-ina mo?
30:26Um, I, every day I thank God that I have you both.
30:33And you both know that you are my world.
30:37And I will do anything for both of you.
30:39And, um, I'm just so thankful and feeling so blessed that I have you in my life.
30:48If there's anything that I have done in my life na iniisip ko to deserve you guys,
30:56talagang, uh, I don't know what, what that is,
30:59but nagpapasalamat ako talaga sa Panginoon kasi, uh, I couldn't ask for anything else in this world.
31:08Chesla, ikaw naman?
31:09Alam mo, Tito, boy, malapit na ako magmenopause.
31:13Nagpapari-menopause na ako, 47.
31:15Kaya, lalo na ako madaling mailak, lalo na yung mga ganito.
31:18Oo.
31:18Pero, Tito, ba, hindi ako masyado talaga masalita?
31:21Matipid ako magsalita.
31:23Pero gusto ko lang sabihin sa kanila, paalala ulit sa kanila na,
31:27alam nyo naman na, kayo ang buhay ko.
31:31Boy, naiyak ngayon ako.
31:35Kayo ang buhay ko.
31:38Mahal na mahal ko kayo.
31:43It's my joy, taking care of them.
31:47Gusto ko laging lang ako na sa likod.
31:50Gusto ko maging matagumpay sila.
31:52Kasi pag naging matagumpay sila,
31:56sobrang masaya ang puso ko.
31:59Kaya,
32:01nagpapasalamat ako sa Diyos na
32:04binigyan niya ako ng pagkakataon maging
32:07asawa ni Ding Dong,
32:09maging ina.
32:12Wala na akong mahihiling pa.
32:16Good health na lang para sa family ko.
32:20At, ah,
32:22yun na lang po sana magkakasama po kami hanggang
32:25sa,
32:28sa dulo na
32:29kung kailan gusto ng Diyos na magkakasama pa po kami.
32:33Right.
32:33I'm just very
32:34thankful and
32:37grateful
32:37sa Panginoon.
32:41Pinapakinggan ko kayo,
32:43pinapanood ko kayo.
32:44You know,
32:44God blessed you
32:45with each other.
32:47I agree.
32:49Right?
32:50Maraming maraming salamat
32:51for this conversation.
32:53And thank you for the friendship.
32:56Thank you for the friendship.
32:56Maraming maraming salamat.
33:05Ikaw ang tatlong benti-sing kumumamayana.
33:09Maraming salamat, Dong.
33:10Maraming salamat, Jada.
33:11Chesa.
33:12Maraming salamat.
33:13You have my love.
33:14You have my love
33:15and you have my respect.
33:16And thank you for making me part of your journey.
33:19I was part of the journey.
33:20I still am.
33:22Of your parents.
33:22And I'm happy
33:23to be part of your journey.
33:25Maraming maraming salamat.
33:27Naytay, kapuso.
33:28Maraming salamat po
33:29sa inyong pagpapatuloy sa amin.
33:30Sa inyong mga tahanan
33:31araw-araw.
33:32So, be kind.
33:33Make your nanay
33:34and tatay proud
33:34and say thank you.
33:36Gumawa ng tama.
33:37Di huwan tama.
33:38Goodbye for now
33:38and God bless.
33:39Woo-hoo!
33:40Woo-hoo!
33:41Woo-hoo!
33:44Woo-hoo!
33:46Woo-hoo!
33:47Woo-hoo!
33:49Woo-hoo!
33:49Woo-hoo!
33:50Woo-hoo!
33:50Woo-hoo!
33:50Woo-hoo!
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