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Age of Attraction - Season 1 - Episode 02: Healthy? Probably Not. Fun? Yes.
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00:00:22You're going to die.
00:00:27Do you know how old I am?
00:00:28Oh, my God.
00:00:30Okay.
00:00:31I'm 54.
00:00:35And that's it.
00:00:37There you go.
00:00:40Got your seatbelt on?
00:00:42Yeah.
00:00:43Oh, shit.
00:00:45Oh, God.
00:00:49I am...
00:00:5427.
00:00:55Oh, my God.
00:00:58Oh, wow.
00:01:00Seriously?
00:01:01Can I see your driver's license?
00:01:05Wow.
00:01:06Okay.
00:01:07Did not expect that.
00:01:10I figured that was going to happen.
00:01:14Oh, my God.
00:01:16That is insane.
00:01:17I literally thought you were, like, 10 years older.
00:01:21Um, okay.
00:01:22My youngest is 22.
00:01:25And my daughter is 25.
00:01:29And three years before that, I gave birth to my oldest.
00:01:34So, he's 29.
00:01:35My son is older than you.
00:01:38Does that scare you?
00:01:47You know, honestly, the only...
00:01:50The biggest thing that scares me is the outside perception of everybody in the universe.
00:01:57I can't control it.
00:02:03No, you can't control it.
00:02:04Absolutely.
00:02:05Yeah.
00:02:06It scares me.
00:02:07But it's also just pretty amazing that, like, I connected with you.
00:02:11And I had no idea how old you were.
00:02:14I didn't want something I can't control to mess this up because...
00:02:19Right.
00:02:19I feel like we hit it off from day one.
00:02:24And it would have hurt a lot.
00:02:30I am really excited to continue our relationship and get to know each other better.
00:02:38Whatever's next.
00:02:43I know I play with fire.
00:02:48Let's do it.
00:02:48I know where the fire can burn.
00:02:52Let's go.
00:02:53Nothing gamble, nothing gain.
00:02:55It's worth the price I have to pay.
00:02:58To see if this is real.
00:03:01Yeah, love is a risk.
00:03:03One thing I want to take.
00:03:06If you believe.
00:03:11If I had known his age going into it, like, I would have never probably started dating him.
00:03:17Like, I had a child before he was even born.
00:03:23They're her kids.
00:03:25They're not my kids, you know.
00:03:27Eventually, they're our kids.
00:03:28I don't know.
00:03:31Love is a risk.
00:03:33One thing I want to take.
00:03:35You know, his age is reflective of how much experience in life he has.
00:03:39So now that we're moving on into the real world, and we're going to live with each other, it will
00:03:44be interesting to see how well we can adapt to that life.
00:03:49I'm sexually attracted to her, I'm physically attracted to her, I'm emotionally attracted to her, so I'm looking forward to
00:03:55as much time with her as possible to just grow this connection and see where it can go.
00:03:59So, I'm excited.
00:04:01Love is a risk.
00:04:03The one thing I want to take.
00:04:05You gotta jump.
00:04:07No looking at.
00:04:08There's no escape.
00:04:10Love is a risk.
00:04:12The one that I want to take.
00:04:15Yeah, for you.
00:04:20Guys, I'm sure you know who I've been talking to, Justin and Jorge.
00:04:24Yes.
00:04:25But they are literally total opposites, and they're both really good guys, and I just don't know.
00:04:32Are you still torn?
00:04:32I don't know.
00:04:33Like, they're literally just two different.
00:04:35She's like, it's so hard that two men are riding over me.
00:04:38Oh my gosh, guys.
00:04:40Life is so hard.
00:04:41It's so difficult.
00:04:42No.
00:04:42No, no, like, no, it's, like, the thing with me is with, like, my connection with Justin, we've talked about,
00:04:49like, our lives and stuff and, like, outside of this, and I can, like, clearly, like, see, like, our life,
00:04:55like, together.
00:04:55Yeah.
00:04:56But with Jorge, I get, like, excited and, like, giddy.
00:04:59I noticed that.
00:05:00Yeah, I get, like, excited and, like, giddy.
00:05:02Like, yesterday, Jorge had his shirt off, and I did not know he had tattoos.
00:05:06I literally was up there, and I could not stop staring.
00:05:09Yeah.
00:05:09Like, and his, like, the sun, his body was, like, glistening.
00:05:13I was like, that being is fine.
00:05:15I know, you little slut.
00:05:16Yeah, I love it.
00:05:18What is it?
00:05:18Oh my gosh.
00:05:18Me, just drinking the tea.
00:05:20Just like, whoop.
00:05:23My intention coming in here was I want to find love.
00:05:27I've been in love once before, and I got heartbroken.
00:05:32That's the only time I've been in love.
00:05:34That's hard, you know?
00:05:36You have to really put your heart out there and be vulnerable.
00:05:41But, um, yeah, I'm ready for that.
00:05:55We're supposed to buckle these?
00:05:57Nah, right?
00:06:08God, this is gorgeous.
00:06:10I came here to find a connection and to meet a lot of people, but to ultimately find that
00:06:16person that I do want to settle down with.
00:06:19Oh my god!
00:06:22I think I have a pretty clear sense of who I am, and I think I value things that are
00:06:27more
00:06:27mature than most people my age do.
00:06:28Ah!
00:06:29Turn your gear.
00:06:30Yeah.
00:06:31I'm really excited to hopefully continue my connection with Derek.
00:06:36Honestly, he seems like a really sweet guy.
00:06:38Seems like he has his life together.
00:06:40I would like to talk to him more, but I'm happy.
00:06:44I'm happy that I've even started to find something.
00:06:47I can do the pedaling, and I can move it, but the gear situation kind of had me.
00:06:52It threw you off.
00:06:53You helped me out, so.
00:06:55So you're not a mountain biker?
00:06:57I'm a stationary biker.
00:06:59Yeah.
00:06:59I have never considered myself outdoorsy.
00:07:02I actually was just hiking in Austria.
00:07:04It was awesome.
00:07:05It was a solo trip.
00:07:07You did it by yourself?
00:07:08Yeah, yeah.
00:07:08Awesome.
00:07:09What brought that on?
00:07:10I feel like I'm always saving money to travel, you know?
00:07:12Yeah.
00:07:12Like, everybody's like, oh, I'm going to travel at some point.
00:07:14Yeah.
00:07:15But it's like, thank you.
00:07:15Yeah.
00:07:17It's like, when am I going to?
00:07:18Yeah.
00:07:18Like, now is the time.
00:07:19Right.
00:07:20Yeah.
00:07:20Are you a big traveler?
00:07:21Love it.
00:07:21Is that important to you?
00:07:22Absolutely.
00:07:23Okay.
00:07:23I travel a lot.
00:07:24I love the fact that you've booked a trip.
00:07:26Yeah.
00:07:26Where else have you traveled?
00:07:27I've been to Spain.
00:07:29I've been to London.
00:07:30Where in Spain?
00:07:30Did you?
00:07:31Barcelona.
00:07:32Love it.
00:07:32Seville.
00:07:33Did you love it?
00:07:34Yeah, Barcelona's the best.
00:07:35How could you not love it?
00:07:36Yeah.
00:07:37I was with my whole family, too, which was really nice.
00:07:39Yeah.
00:07:40Like, I have a pretty small family.
00:07:42So, it was my grandparents and then, like, my great aunt, my aunt, and my mom.
00:07:46Okay.
00:07:47But it was, like, our last family trip with everybody together.
00:07:51Yeah.
00:07:51How was that?
00:07:52I mean, it was fantastic.
00:07:53It was great.
00:07:54Family is, like, very important to me.
00:07:56Like I said, I'm from a small family.
00:07:59Yeah.
00:07:59And I, like, want to have a big family.
00:08:00Yeah.
00:08:01So, just appreciating those moments together is, like, that's, like, a big part of what
00:08:07I love.
00:08:08Yeah.
00:08:09I'm the same.
00:08:09Family is so big.
00:08:10Okay.
00:08:10So big to me.
00:08:11Okay.
00:08:12Yeah.
00:08:12No, I completely agree.
00:08:14I didn't get into details about my family, my two boys that I have now.
00:08:19I do want to tell her, but it'll be a shocker, I think, if I tell Pfeiffer that I have
00:08:24a 15-year-old
00:08:25son and a 5-year-old.
00:08:27So, hopefully that doesn't change the connection we have and the feelings that she has from
00:08:31me, though.
00:08:42Hey, Jolene.
00:08:43Do you want to walk with me?
00:08:44Oh, yeah.
00:08:45Okay.
00:08:46You can bring the blanket.
00:08:47Oh, I can?
00:08:48Really?
00:08:48Yeah, why not?
00:08:49Yes.
00:08:49I have been on the apps before, and I'll be so crazy that I'll swipe when I drive, and
00:08:55I'm just, like, kind of addicted to it.
00:08:58I'm looking for something authentic and organic.
00:09:01I feel like dating girls in the past, like, I've gotten parts of the one.
00:09:05We're going to the Promise Room.
00:09:06See you guys later.
00:09:07Oh, my God.
00:09:07No, I'm just kidding.
00:09:08I'm kidding.
00:09:09I'm kidding.
00:09:10So, coming into this, it pushes me to talk to girls who I normally would not, and it's
00:09:14opened my eyes a bit already.
00:09:19Damn, girl.
00:09:20You ballsy with it.
00:09:22Well, I don't know what else I'm supposed to say.
00:09:24I might crush you.
00:09:25No, you're fine.
00:09:26Okay.
00:09:26Okay.
00:09:28I was terrified going into this because I live a very comfortable, routine life, but there's,
00:09:34like, this little piece right here that just wants someone to be like, come here, you
00:09:38compliments me thing, you know?
00:09:41My ex-husband and I, we took good care of our children together, and we continue to do
00:09:46so, and I remember driving home one day from work and just being so thankful for my life
00:09:53because I had this wonderful man at home who, like, takes my son to baseball and just feeling
00:09:59true happiness, and it didn't work out.
00:10:02We just kind of grew apart, but I want to feel that again.
00:10:08I so badly want to ask you how old you are.
00:10:10Really?
00:10:11Yeah.
00:10:12But I don't know why.
00:10:13I think it's just, like, instinct, but I'm trying to let that go.
00:10:18I know, but I'll tell you what.
00:10:20I look young.
00:10:24Okay.
00:10:25So, I'm probably older than you think I am.
00:10:26I'll just give you that.
00:10:28That's it.
00:10:29Oh, God, I hope so.
00:10:31I don't know how I can.
00:10:42I'm not used to, like, doing this, dating, like, multiple people at the same time, so
00:10:46this is just really hard, and I want to try to move as respectful as I can to both the
00:10:51guys.
00:10:52Guys, we're here today to do some forest bathing.
00:10:55I have here some blindfolds.
00:10:59One person leads, one person follows.
00:11:02And the person who leads has the responsibility of getting them to experience the forest with
00:11:09their other senses.
00:11:11Vanell is amazing.
00:11:12We work well together, to me, energy-wise.
00:11:14I want to show her a little bit the gentler side, the other side of Horey, and I've experienced
00:11:19in the past where, you know, I don't let everybody see that side of me, because not
00:11:24everybody protects that side of me, right?
00:11:27But in her case, she's just, I don't know, something about her.
00:11:30It's gentle energy.
00:11:31I love it.
00:11:32My trip and fall is over with.
00:11:34Lift your foot.
00:11:35There you go.
00:11:35Come on.
00:11:36You think I'd let you fall?
00:11:37No.
00:11:38Okay, man.
00:11:39Just trust me.
00:11:40You trust me?
00:11:41I do trust you.
00:11:42All right.
00:11:44Am I walking straight?
00:11:45You're just walking straight.
00:11:47Now, keep walking real slow.
00:11:50I got you.
00:11:51You will not stumble.
00:11:52You will not fall.
00:11:53I will not let that happen, okay?
00:11:54Mm-hmm.
00:11:57Oh, you did so good.
00:11:59Oh, my gosh.
00:12:01You got me all the way here.
00:12:03Yes.
00:12:03That was good.
00:12:04Good job.
00:12:05You enjoyed it?
00:12:06Yeah.
00:12:07I feel excited.
00:12:10I feel, like, jittery.
00:12:12I feel, I don't know.
00:12:14I just had a really good time with Jorge.
00:12:16I've been wanting to just, like, see a different side to him because he has a really, like, big personality.
00:12:21And today I was able to just, like, see him more calm, more serious.
00:12:26He seems like he's a little bit older than me.
00:12:29I'm sure he probably is.
00:12:30But he has, like, um, a young spirit in a way.
00:12:34So, honestly, the age factor with Jorge doesn't bother me.
00:12:39You're my only connection.
00:12:40Mm-hmm.
00:12:40Like, I'm not.
00:12:41Really?
00:12:42Mm-hmm.
00:12:42Wow.
00:12:43Because I'm not.
00:12:44Like I told you, if I look at someone and I'm not feeling it and I know it won't be
00:12:50genuine,
00:12:50like, I'm not going to do it because it's not going to be real.
00:12:54But I'm not saying that to put pressure on you.
00:12:56Mm, you're not good.
00:12:58Mm.
00:13:02Justin and Jorge are literally total opposites.
00:13:05And I don't want to spend too much time tuggling between two guys.
00:13:09I want to, like, make a decision soon.
00:13:11But ultimately, like, I thought I was leaving here with Justin.
00:13:15Um, and deep down in my heart, I kind of feel if Justin was truly the person that I felt
00:13:21like,
00:13:22okay, that is the one, then maybe I wouldn't be so conflicted.
00:13:26I like when a man makes it known he wants me.
00:13:30Well, I think I've made it known, have I?
00:13:32Now.
00:13:52You've got to catch me up.
00:13:53I think, I mean, I feel like I'm in a really lucky spot.
00:13:58Um, I'm really happy with where I am with Derek right now.
00:14:02Uh-huh.
00:14:03Um.
00:14:03How far apart do you think you own Derek are in age?
00:14:06Mm, I would say, like, 13 to 16 years.
00:14:10Okay, okay.
00:14:10That's my guess.
00:14:11Okay.
00:14:12Is there any, like, reservations you have about, like, a future with him?
00:14:16It feels really weird to be like, wow, this person and I are really aligned and everything
00:14:20seems to be going smoothly.
00:14:22Like, where is the big, like, when is the shoe going to drop?
00:14:26Yeah.
00:14:26But I'm just kind of a scaredy cat, too, with this sort of thing.
00:14:29That's okay.
00:14:30But I think for your age, I don't know what your age is, but I can guess.
00:14:33And I think that you have a good head on your shoulders.
00:14:36Yeah.
00:14:36That means a lot.
00:14:37And I think you're a lot more confident than I was at your age in, like, putting yourself
00:14:42out there.
00:14:43How about you?
00:14:43I want to hear all about where your mind is at, how you're feeling about things.
00:14:46Oh, my gosh.
00:14:47So this has really been pushing me out of my comfort zone.
00:14:51I think that's great.
00:14:52Yeah.
00:14:52Yeah.
00:14:52What's funny is, like, in talking to some of the men, they're like, if a girl came after
00:14:56me, I think it's hot as fuck.
00:14:57I know.
00:14:58They say that.
00:14:59But at the same time, like, I don't want to be a chaser.
00:15:02Like, I'm not chasing anyone.
00:15:04So it's like, yeah, do we push ourselves out of the comfort zone and try something different?
00:15:09Or do we just keep the status quo?
00:15:12Yeah.
00:15:13Yeah.
00:15:14Oh, my gosh.
00:15:15To be determined.
00:15:15It's a lot to think about.
00:15:16Yeah.
00:15:28Make sure your strap is on.
00:15:30I found one.
00:15:32I got you.
00:15:33There's a few women here that have caught my eye, but honestly, I'm feeling some vibes
00:15:38with Libby.
00:15:38It's very just playful.
00:15:41She is fun, younger, very extroverted.
00:15:44How did I know you were not going to know how to do this?
00:15:48Libby is complete chaos.
00:15:50In the best ways possible, I think.
00:15:58I do not do huddles at all.
00:16:01You're fine.
00:16:01Oh, God.
00:16:02You're fine.
00:16:03You're good.
00:16:04Can I back out?
00:16:06I am feeling a little bit of pressure and nerves because I need to go into this date and,
00:16:11you know, show up, be myself, but I think I have a tendency to get a little bit nervous
00:16:16when I'm interested in somebody and kind of feel a little bit more reserved and closed
00:16:22off.
00:16:22So I'm hoping today I can just let my guard down and be normal.
00:16:27At this point, Andrew is really the only one that I genuinely find myself attracted to.
00:16:35And although my mind is running in circles about the kid thing and the age thing and whatever,
00:16:42I definitely have a little crush on him.
00:16:47I'm going to definitely give you the ick today.
00:16:49I'm just not going to look either.
00:16:51You're going to be like, I'm over this dude.
00:16:52And if I hear screaming, I'm going to pretend I don't.
00:16:57Two, one, go.
00:17:02Oh, God.
00:17:07Oh, my God.
00:17:16Oh, my God.
00:17:18Like, I can't believe I almost cried.
00:17:23Libby is my type, like, spot on.
00:17:25Like, my group chat is going to be like, dude, I thought you were going to do something different.
00:17:31It's not that I haven't tried.
00:17:33I've talked to a bunch of people.
00:17:34And I'm not saying that I'm not going to keep experiencing this experience and talking
00:17:38to other people.
00:17:39But, I mean, you know, if you just, if something's you, something's you.
00:17:43And I think that, you know, for me, it's been fun to date younger.
00:17:49Um, healthy.
00:17:50I don't know.
00:17:51Probably not fun.
00:17:53Yes.
00:17:55We survived.
00:17:56I have.
00:17:57We made it.
00:17:58Yeah, you weren't helpful, though.
00:17:59I think I was nothing but helpful, personally.
00:18:02But I'm glad you got through it.
00:18:04And I guess it was a fun thing for us to do.
00:18:06Well, it wasn't date two, and you see me scared like that up there.
00:18:09But as long as you didn't get the ick.
00:18:11I did.
00:18:12You got the ick?
00:18:13No, I'm kidding.
00:18:14You're all good.
00:18:14You're all good.
00:18:16All right, go on.
00:18:17I think there could be, like, a strong connection there.
00:18:20It's, like, I'm seeing a lot of her, like, funny side.
00:18:24And maybe there's, like, a little intimidation there or whatever.
00:18:28Or nerves, you know?
00:18:29We're all, we all have a little bit of that.
00:18:31But I can tell there's, like, this other side to her that's, like, super sweet and soft.
00:18:36I think if she does have that side, like, to her, I definitely think that, you know, there would be
00:18:41something there.
00:18:42Okay, thank you.
00:18:43All right, can I ask you something?
00:18:45Yeah.
00:18:45And, like, don't get offended.
00:18:47You're funny as shit.
00:18:48Mm-hmm.
00:18:49But, like, is there, like, a softer side to you?
00:18:52Like, a more, like, serious, like, I really do want to have more kids.
00:18:58I really do want to find my person.
00:19:00I really am here to connect with someone.
00:19:02I feel like I love our banter.
00:19:04I love how we just laugh and give each other shit back and forth and don't compliment each other.
00:19:10Um, but is there, like, a serious side, like, a warm side to you?
00:19:16That's funny that you're, like, you want to ask me that?
00:19:18Why is that?
00:19:19It's hard for me because I know, like, in the past, like, when I fully let people in and been
00:19:25100% that side of myself, it's kind of hard to recover after you get really hurt, you know?
00:19:31I just have to, like, warm up to that place because, I don't know, I get kind of, like, guarded
00:19:36in the beginning.
00:19:37I can see.
00:19:38Can I tell?
00:19:39Um, but, yeah, we'll get to that place.
00:19:42See, it strides for me to tell you that you're sort of kind of cute.
00:19:46Okay.
00:19:46Well, I'll take sort of kind of cute.
00:19:49Um, I feel like I know a lot about you, but I wanted to ask you more about your daughters
00:19:54because I feel like I don't know that much about them.
00:19:57Do you want to know how old they are?
00:19:58Mm-hmm.
00:19:58I know I wouldn't tell you that in the day.
00:20:00Just tell me, you freak.
00:20:0214 and 12.
00:20:05Sorry, was that?
00:20:06I can't hide anything.
00:20:1214 and 12.
00:20:14Um, I'm a little shocked.
00:20:17A little shocked.
00:20:18I don't think I was expecting that.
00:20:21That's new.
00:20:23Does this surprise you?
00:20:24Shock?
00:20:25What are you thinking?
00:20:26I thought they were way younger than that.
00:20:27I'm curious as to how old you probably think I am.
00:20:30Oh, shoot.
00:20:31I don't know.
00:20:32And I don't want to make guesses.
00:20:34And I'm a little scared.
00:20:37Don't strike me as an old person.
00:20:40What is old to you?
00:20:41I don't know.
00:20:42You just, great skincare.
00:20:44Any recommendations?
00:20:47Drink a lot of water.
00:20:48Okay.
00:20:49Thanks for that.
00:20:49Thank you so much for that.
00:20:50Stay out of the sun.
00:20:52I'm just feeling a little bit shocked and overwhelmed.
00:20:56And I think I might need a little bit of time to reflect on it.
00:20:59I'm not that far from 14.
00:21:03So, I'm definitely going to take a minute and reflect.
00:21:21I've been to spas, but nothing like this.
00:21:25I'm keeping myself open to meeting the other guys, but I don't have the same connection with
00:21:30others that I do with West.
00:21:36Oh, how is it?
00:21:37Wow, it's definitely not cool.
00:21:39How is it?
00:21:40Oh, my God.
00:21:43What I want when it comes to relationships is marriage.
00:21:47Now, I'm not saying the next girl that I date is going to be my wife, but if I could
00:21:51choose,
00:21:51it would be 100%.
00:21:53Going into this date, the three that I had my eye on are Vanessa, Lindy, and Catherine.
00:21:58I'm looking for a woman that I can spend my life with, a woman I can take home.
00:22:02And my parents, my mom is happy, my dad is happy to see this woman next to me, no matter
00:22:06her age.
00:22:08Oh, my God.
00:22:09I think West right now is at the time in his life where he likes to have fun.
00:22:15He does immature things like backflips into the goal plunge, and I'm really continuing
00:22:22to try to, like, throw that out the window.
00:22:25It's, like, really tough for me.
00:22:27What do you think of it?
00:22:29I think it's beautiful here.
00:22:30Right?
00:22:31I love it.
00:22:31It's relaxing.
00:22:32I like getting to know you guys here.
00:22:34Yeah.
00:22:35What would you want to know?
00:22:40I mean, things I can't ask, but...
00:22:44Why not?
00:22:45You could ask me anything.
00:22:48What?
00:22:48I wonder how old you...
00:22:49I know we're not supposed to date.
00:22:51He's dating, and I just want to get to know you.
00:22:53I could take you to the promise room.
00:22:55We could line it up real quick.
00:22:58And I'm up for that.
00:23:01I know it's kind of crazy, like, all in right here, right now, but...
00:23:05You know, that's it.
00:23:07I'm not crazy.
00:23:09I think you are.
00:23:11You know, with younger guys, sometimes they get caught up in, like,
00:23:14the new stuff.
00:23:16You know, the new is exciting.
00:23:17I think part of me is, like, has these, like, walls up, like,
00:23:21why is he so complimentary so, like, soon?
00:23:24Like, what is his game here?
00:23:27My flirty aspect can be a red flag to people, but the things I say are genuine.
00:23:33They're honest, and I think, like, more feelings and actions show how I really feel rather than, like, things I
00:23:39say.
00:23:49Absolutely natural beauty that we have around us.
00:23:51I know, it's so pretty.
00:23:53I love it.
00:23:54And this natural beauty in front of you.
00:23:55Oh, wow.
00:23:56That was very smooth.
00:23:58That was very smooth.
00:23:59I've got to give you props for that.
00:24:01Good job.
00:24:02High five on that.
00:24:05Hey, guys.
00:24:07I don't want to interrupt.
00:24:09No, you're fine.
00:24:09You can interrupt.
00:24:10I was wondering if you want to go to the other pool.
00:24:12We didn't go there yet.
00:24:13Let's go.
00:24:13Okay.
00:24:14Let's do it.
00:24:14All right, I'll bring him back.
00:24:15Don't worry.
00:24:16You guys have fun.
00:24:17Okay.
00:24:17You take your time.
00:24:18Okay.
00:24:19I have not been successful at dating.
00:24:22I lived in a small town my whole life.
00:24:24I've met everyone.
00:24:25I've dated everyone I wanted to date.
00:24:27This one might be deeper.
00:24:28Will you save me if I...
00:24:30Now I have the opportunity to meet people from all different places, all different ages,
00:24:35and I want to explore things, and I want to see who's out there.
00:24:39Are you upset right?
00:24:41Are you real?
00:24:42I'm really not.
00:24:43I'm actually happy about that.
00:24:44I'll take it.
00:24:45I'll be waiting for that.
00:24:46I'm like, you know, I don't like to compete for attention.
00:24:48Me neither, but I didn't know.
00:24:50So I would have given you another five minutes, and then I would have stolen you away.
00:24:54I didn't want to, like...
00:24:55I was just trying to get a little reaction.
00:24:57Oh.
00:24:58It's called triangulation.
00:24:59A little triangulation.
00:25:01You were trying to triangulate.
00:25:03Well, it worked.
00:25:03Look, here we are.
00:25:04It did work.
00:25:05Here we are.
00:25:06Where did you tell me you live again?
00:25:08I live in Miami.
00:25:09You are such a Miami boy.
00:25:11Can I come and visit you one day?
00:25:13Absolutely.
00:25:14100%.
00:25:14No, after this entire thing, we're going back to Miami together.
00:25:17Together?
00:25:18I won't make you come to Ohio to see me.
00:25:20I told you, Ohio's my, like, backyard.
00:25:22Okay.
00:25:24Yeah.
00:25:24Coming in.
00:25:25Yeah.
00:25:25Come, come, come.
00:25:25I love it.
00:25:26Okay.
00:25:27Yeah.
00:25:27I'm glad that we got to have our time together today, too.
00:25:30Yeah, and we'll have more time together, I hope.
00:25:31Yeah, for sure.
00:25:32Is that cool with you?
00:25:33Mm-hmm.
00:25:33It's cool with me.
00:25:34All right, good.
00:25:35Okay, good.
00:25:35I'm going to kiss your hand.
00:25:37Oh, she didn't really have it.
00:25:39And I'm sorry I stole you away from other girls.
00:25:41I'll try not to do that.
00:25:43No, continue to do that.
00:25:44Okay.
00:25:44All right.
00:25:45Sounds good.
00:25:46Should we kiss?
00:25:47You want to?
00:25:48Just a quick one.
00:25:50Yeah.
00:25:51Is it slow?
00:25:53You have a nice look.
00:25:54Is it slow?
00:25:55Oh, oh, oh, oh, because I've had a moment.
00:26:02I'm so beautiful.
00:26:04I'm glad that you appreciate it.
00:26:05This won't be the end of this.
00:26:07You think?
00:26:07Okay, good.
00:26:08See you tomorrow.
00:26:09I'll end the next day and the next day.
00:26:10Okay, good.
00:26:10Okay, good.
00:26:11All right?
00:26:12I'm happy about this.
00:26:14I'm not bad.
00:26:206'2", huh?
00:26:23Hey, that's 6'1".
00:26:24You don't have to lie with me.
00:26:27Anything over 5'8", it's a win.
00:26:58I came here for a true connection.
00:27:00Like, I really want to find someone, a husband, you know?
00:27:05Someone to love and that truly loves me.
00:27:08I actually like lavender.
00:27:09You do?
00:27:10Yeah.
00:27:11Coming here, I found two amazing guys that, you know, I really connected with.
00:27:16And, like, I just have a lot to figure out.
00:27:20I just, I don't know.
00:27:21I just really don't know what to do.
00:27:23Ladies first.
00:27:24Okay.
00:27:25Yeah.
00:27:26My connection with Vanell so far has been really great.
00:27:29We have really good, strong kind of chemistry.
00:27:32It's not common to, like, really have somebody that you meet
00:27:36and you kind of connect with on all those levels and that quickly.
00:27:40Um, so I would ask Vanell to go to the Promise Room today.
00:27:44I would.
00:27:45Um, I don't know that she necessarily feels the same way about me.
00:27:51But, the truth is, that is how I feel about her.
00:28:00Tell me about yesterday.
00:28:02Oh, my date?
00:28:03Yeah.
00:28:03Yeah.
00:28:04We went for his bathing and stuff.
00:28:06Yeah.
00:28:07Not really my vibe, but I got to have a conversation with Jorge.
00:28:12Yeah.
00:28:13But now I also like someone else, too, and I'm just not used to, like...
00:28:17Being in that position.
00:28:18Yeah, like, dating multiple people at once or opening up myself to dating multiple people.
00:28:24That's fair.
00:28:24But, like, this experience, you know, forces you to do that.
00:28:27Yeah.
00:28:28Yeah.
00:28:28Who do you feel like you have more chemistry with?
00:28:31You guys are just so different.
00:28:33We are so different.
00:28:35Um, I think I have chemistry with you.
00:28:39Yeah?
00:28:40Um...
00:28:41The different kind of chemistry with Jorge?
00:28:43Yeah.
00:28:44It's just different.
00:28:45I don't know.
00:28:46It's just, yeah.
00:28:50I'm not gonna lie.
00:28:52A lot of the time, I was thinking about Jorge.
00:28:56And, I don't know.
00:28:57I just am.
00:29:02I think today, I kind of got the clarity that I was wanting.
00:29:06And, it's more of just, like, a feeling.
00:29:09Like, when I was with Jorge yesterday on our date, I was more, like, getting, like, nervous.
00:29:14And, today with Justin, it was more of, like, I didn't really feel that.
00:29:23Anything else you think about?
00:29:26No?
00:29:31You sure?
00:29:34I don't know.
00:29:34Those wheels are turning up there.
00:29:39I don't know.
00:29:40I'm so freaking hot.
00:29:44Just, she's such a good kind.
00:29:49And, it just, like...
00:29:52He just, he just has such a pure heart.
00:29:55And, I just don't want to, like, upset him or, like, break his heart or...
00:30:01I just feel bad.
00:30:06What do you worry about?
00:30:09Um...
00:30:12I don't know.
00:30:13I guess I just, like, worry that, like...
00:30:17Maybe we're just not a good match.
00:30:24Okay.
00:30:27It's a little bit bittersweet, I guess, because it's like, you've been, I've been through this before.
00:30:34Where you connect with somebody.
00:30:35Like, on a visceral level.
00:30:37And then, something comes in between you.
00:30:40And, um, yeah.
00:30:42It's part of dating.
00:30:57Just because I was her first connection doesn't mean that I was her best connection.
00:31:03I really hope Jorge sees the same kind of beauty and perspective in her that I see in her.
00:31:11Because I know that she deserves that.
00:31:14I don't know that I know what the rest of my life will look like.
00:31:17But, I am still open to finding, like, my person.
00:31:21And I hope that they're out there.
00:31:23Uh, that's the goal for me.
00:31:25That's what it takes.
00:31:32So, how'd you sleep? How'd you feel?
00:31:35It was pretty good, yeah.
00:31:36The cold plunge, the hot tub, it felt really good.
00:31:39A little brave action?
00:31:40Yeah, for sure.
00:31:41Since the spa date, I've just been feeling really, like, icky.
00:31:46As soon as the kiss happened, I was like, what am I doing?
00:31:49Like, this is not me at all.
00:31:52Like, I felt like I moved way too fast.
00:31:55And then, it just didn't feel right.
00:31:58It just made me take, like, a big step back and, like, rethink what I was doing.
00:32:03The last thing you said to me, it was like, honesty. It's about honesty.
00:32:07Honesty.
00:32:07So, like, do this journey, let's just keep that word in mind, you know?
00:32:10100%.
00:32:11You know, if there are other people you want to explore dates with, like, I wouldn't be upset.
00:32:15Like, I want you to, like, have this experience, like, a full experience for you.
00:32:19And I don't want you to feel like...
00:32:20Likewise.
00:32:21Yeah.
00:32:22Part of that is what we're here for.
00:32:23And no matter what comes out of this, I appreciated that.
00:32:25I appreciate this.
00:32:26Yeah.
00:32:26It's like, that's priceless, honestly, right?
00:32:29Yeah.
00:32:29Every guy that I date has been a love bomber.
00:32:32And immediately just throws everything into it, acts like everything's so great, and I'm so perfect, and everything's right.
00:32:38And so, the fact that, like, everything with Chris happened so fast, so touchy-feely and everything, there was something
00:32:44in my brain that was, like, warning, warning.
00:32:47Like, this is not good.
00:32:48This is not healthy.
00:32:49So, at this point, I'm feeling like, you know, Chris really isn't the one.
00:32:54I didn't want to be disrespectful to you or your time.
00:32:57No, absolutely.
00:32:57So, I'm glad that it was well-received.
00:33:01100%.
00:33:01I'm glad we had our time.
00:33:02Honestly, I had a great time getting to know Vanessa.
00:33:06But I would love to get to know other girls while I'm here, because I feel like I would regret
00:33:10not doing that.
00:33:12And I'll be happy for her as well if she ends up with somebody else here and actually finds love.
00:33:26I think that we should spin back on our conversation.
00:33:28And I know you were kind of asking about, like, the more serious, serious side of me.
00:33:33Side of you.
00:33:33Side of Libby.
00:33:34Yeah, I want to see that side.
00:33:35Yeah, and I know that, like, I might come off as just kind of all funny and, like, silly.
00:33:42You don't want to put yourself out there that much and, like, possibly get hurt.
00:33:45Yeah, that.
00:33:46Yeah.
00:33:46Yeah, there we go.
00:33:47I get it.
00:33:48Yeah, yeah.
00:33:49So, how's relationship with said, um, mother of your children?
00:33:54Um, it's amazing, honestly.
00:33:57You guys kiss?
00:33:58We kiss.
00:34:00Like, really good?
00:34:02Like, it's really amazing.
00:34:04No.
00:34:04I mean, at one point, maybe we did, but no.
00:34:07That's kind of how the kids are made.
00:34:09That is how kids are made.
00:34:11Yeah.
00:34:11Oh, my God.
00:34:15Oh, God.
00:34:16And we blushed, like, a little bit.
00:34:17It made me a little uncomfortable there.
00:34:20I'm just kidding.
00:34:21I'm sorry.
00:34:21I have to eat your thoughts.
00:34:23Yeah.
00:34:23All right, well, let me ask you this.
00:34:25You know, my daughters are, like, 14 and 12.
00:34:28Mm-hmm.
00:34:28So, like, my life is very established in Baltimore.
00:34:33Like, it just is.
00:34:34Like, my business is there.
00:34:35My kids are there.
00:34:37You know?
00:34:38Say we continue this.
00:34:39Like, do you see yourself in a long-distance relationship?
00:34:42Do you see yourself possibly, like, relocating if, you know, things went that far?
00:34:48Yeah.
00:34:49Well, um, I think I'm somebody who, like, when I like somebody, I go all in.
00:34:53And honestly, I am catching a little bit of real feelings for you.
00:34:58Mm-hmm.
00:34:58And there's a fly.
00:35:00Okay.
00:35:01I got it.
00:35:01Fly, fly, fly, fly.
00:35:02Help, help, help.
00:35:03Thanks so much.
00:35:03I'm such an outdoorsy man.
00:35:05Yeah.
00:35:05I've heard that before with your man.
00:35:07Yeah.
00:35:07This is, like, that's the second time I saved your life.
00:35:09I think we're on, like, four now.
00:35:11Yeah.
00:35:11According to you.
00:35:12At least four right now.
00:35:14Mm-hmm.
00:35:14Yes.
00:35:14Every time we spend a little bit more time together, I'm seeing there's much more to her
00:35:20than I thought.
00:35:21I mean, I'm looking for a ride or die.
00:35:24And I think, honestly, after tonight, I want to see where it goes.
00:35:29I haven't really felt like this in a while about anyone.
00:35:32And I guess I don't mind.
00:35:37And January love.
00:35:48Staring at the sun, they say, youth is wasted on the young, and it's true, cause all I want
00:35:55to do is sweet nothing with you.
00:35:58I came here looking for a different way of dating.
00:36:04Luckily for me, like, I'm sitting in a position where, like, I have made a connection, and I'm
00:36:10looking to, like, build on that.
00:36:12Can we make it never seem a day?
00:36:15I want this to last forever.
00:36:18I'll go wherever you...
00:36:20I want to take Libby to the Promise Room because I want to continue to commit to this
00:36:24connection that I have with her.
00:36:26She keeps me a little off balance, and somehow I just, I find myself wanting more of that.
00:36:34So let's take a closer...
00:36:36For me, having two daughters, you know, I'm not making that commitment with anyone if I
00:36:42can't see them possibly being in my daughter's lives.
00:36:45Hey, hey, hey...
00:36:48I would say Libby's definitely in her 20s.
00:36:52There's just this energy about her that's, like, hard to ignore.
00:36:57Let's take a time and go for a soldier...
00:37:02I feel nervous overall because there's a level of commitment to it that is really serious.
00:37:10But I could potentially genuinely see a future with Andrew because I think that he has a lot
00:37:16of qualities that resemble things that I'm looking for in a future partner.
00:37:20I think that he accepts those parts of myself that I sometimes feel insecure about.
00:37:27Initially, when I learned that Andrew had kids, I was extremely thrown off.
00:37:31My fear is that our lives are just too different and we're going in different paths.
00:37:37But I'm trying to be open-minded through this whole experience.
00:37:41I'm nervous for Andrew to find out my age because I think that it's possible he thinks I'm a little
00:37:46older than I am.
00:37:48I don't know if he thinks realistically after hearing my age that I'm somebody who could be a serious potential
00:37:54partner for him.
00:37:55It's a new man from here in my home.
00:38:12Surprise.
00:38:13Hi!
00:38:15Beautiful.
00:38:17Thanks, you look handsome.
00:38:25Okay, so I came here because my life back home definitely felt like it was a little bit out of
00:38:36a standstill. So I wanted to take a different approach. I wanted to be a little bit more
00:38:42intentional with finding a connection with someone. And from the moment I sat down across
00:38:50from you, I knew I was in trouble. You bring out a side of me that's typically more introverted,
00:38:59and it just leaves me wanting more. So I know that, you know, I have two kids. One's 14 and
00:39:08one
00:39:08is 12. And it's just very important for me to be able to be with someone where I can merge
00:39:15my entire
00:39:16life. And I'm just hoping that that's something you will be open to growing into at some point.
00:39:26I've never been scared of the fact that you had kids. And honestly, that was one of the things
00:39:30that I liked about you. It made me take you more seriously. So it doesn't bother me. And you chose
00:39:36to be here, even though I was kind of hard to get through, too, sometimes. A little bit. A little
00:39:41bit. And I'm excited for the rest that's to go.
00:39:48Whew. Hi. Oh my gosh, you're asking me to marry you? I am. Oh, this is crazy.
00:39:56Right?
00:39:59You're so nervous. I know. You're okay. I'm typically not nervous either. Yeah. Big
00:40:04commitment. It is a big commitment. Will you commit to me? I will. Yay. Good job. Okay. Well,
00:40:18I feel like there's only one more thing for us to do. Um, I am 38 years young.
00:40:34Don't know if I was expecting 38. Definitely a little shocked. Did you think I was older?
00:40:41Like, I thought you were a lot younger. But, um, it's going to be okay. Are you scared?
00:40:51I'm a little nervous. Okay. I am 22.
00:41:15I feel like you've shown me enough that, you know, despite the age gap, um, I've seen another
00:41:24side of you that is more serious. And if you're all in on this and you didn't run when you
00:41:32hurt my
00:41:32age, I'm not going to either. So. Don't they say that age is just a number? It's just a number.
00:41:38Yeah. So we're good.
00:41:48Okay. I'm feeling shocked. I've dated younger women before, but this is definitely the biggest
00:41:59age gap. And yeah, I mean, it makes me nervous. I am a little shocked about Andrew's age,
00:42:06honestly. Don't know what I was thinking it was, but I don't think I thought it was 38.
00:42:15I didn't think I would ever be with somebody 16 years older than me.
00:42:25When I was 22, yeah, my life was, was crazy. Um, I definitely wasn't ready to be fully committed to
00:42:34someone. I don't think I feel like if I think about it too much, I'm going to get in my
00:42:38head. Like,
00:42:39you know, can she meet me where I'm at in life? Can I meet her where she's at in life?
00:42:44But
00:42:46I'm already in it. There's no turning back.
00:42:59So I told you what it was like for me growing up. Yeah. What was it like for you? Did
00:43:03you,
00:43:03did you play outside? Did they have outside? I did, but like, I was an only child,
00:43:08so I was always begging my dad to like, yeah, like when he was working, you know? Did you have
00:43:13neighbor kids to play with? I did, but we moved when I was about seven or eight. So after that,
00:43:19yeah, I was kind of by myself. Yeah. You know, I came here wanting to find somebody, find a connection.
00:43:26In the past, I'm notorious for running away from something when it gets serious. And I want a real
00:43:31relationship. That's not something, you know, I've had in a while. Oh, I like this. This is so pretty.
00:43:36It is. It's gorgeous. All right. We got to walk and stop in the middle and look down.
00:43:47I want to find love. Everybody in my family is married. Everybody has a partner.
00:43:53Two years ago, my mom was diagnosed with cancer.
00:44:01We recently just lost her and just watching my dad like be there for her and just how much he
00:44:08loved
00:44:08her. It just made me realize like I'm alone and it's time for me to find my person. I wish
00:44:13I had
00:44:14like a penny or something to make a wish in here.
00:44:23I'm with that Vanessa.
00:44:26Vanessa likes me. There we go.
00:44:28Yeah. Initially, I connected with Chris, but it wasn't something that was like really meaningful
00:44:33and not going to settle. Honestly, I feel like Logan is really a gentleman. Like I could see some
00:44:40potential here. He's so cute. I love it.
00:44:43Yeah, it's nice. Vanessa and I had a really good conversation and I'm excited to continue to get to know
00:44:47more or more. I feel like we have a connection. There's no question about it.
00:45:06I've been meaning to ask where you're from because your eyes are just so exotic,
00:45:09incredible looking. Honestly, I'm from Bakersfield, California.
00:45:13I mean, there's just something like I said when they asked me like, what's your type? And I said eyes
00:45:17so many times. Me too. Yeah. Me and Vanessa had a connection, but that ended very quickly.
00:45:22So Leah, with her beautiful smile, just walked up to me and she's somebody that I've been wanting
00:45:29to get to know from the beginning, but we didn't have really any time to have a serious conversation.
00:45:34Where do you live? I live in Miami. You're in Miami too.
00:45:37Yeah, yeah. Well, I mean, my background is Lebanese. My mom told me and my mom was born in Haiti,
00:45:41actually.
00:45:42I'm ready for something exciting and something I haven't had yet,
00:45:46which is love. I want the right person who wants me and chooses me because it sucks not finding somebody.
00:45:55Like when I first had the first, like, go around, first of all, it was disappointing we didn't get to
00:45:59talk.
00:45:59I know because I was like, and I was like, oh, well, there he goes. And I was like, well,
00:46:03one day.
00:46:04But here we are. So that's cool. Chris is the guy that I would want to approach me.
00:46:09And I'm like, really surprised and happy that I'm finally connecting with someone.
00:46:14So I'm super hopeful that I'm, oof, let's pray. Let's pray that he's ready because I am.
00:46:21I'm walking on wires daily. I'm keeping my balance, but I don't think we can fix this.
00:46:29I won't get too ambitious, no.
00:46:34How have you been?
00:46:36I've been good. I think I've just, obviously, like our last conversation,
00:46:41I told you that I had another connection here.
00:46:43Mm-hmm.
00:46:45And I was just, like, needing clarity. And yesterday, I went on a date with him.
00:46:49And you not being there just made me realize how much I like you.
00:46:53I think for the remainder of this process, like, I just want to continue this with you.
00:46:59Oh, God.
00:46:59Hey.
00:47:00Are we onto something?
00:47:02Are we onto something?
00:47:05I don't know, but...
00:47:07Are you my ride of that?
00:47:08I want to be.
00:47:10I'm really clear on Vanell.
00:47:11I think that she and I have an insane connection.
00:47:16It's difficult to actually find someone you really connect with.
00:47:20But I feel somewhat anxious to tell her my age,
00:47:24because I've experienced in the past where the age came up,
00:47:28and she was like, oh, no, I can't date.
00:47:30That's like dating someone that's close to my dad's age.
00:47:33So I hope she'll be accepting of it.
00:47:36I really do.
00:47:38So if you want to pursue it, then...
00:47:40I mean, I do.
00:47:41I do, too.
00:47:42I do.
00:47:43I do.
00:47:45Jorge just makes me feel seen.
00:47:48Like, he accepts me for who I am, and I love him.
00:47:57I love the person he is for who he is.
00:48:05Honestly, like, dating him, like, I could tell he is older than me.
00:48:10Um, I would think that he's probably, like, in his 40s.
00:48:15But my dad told me that he doesn't want me to get married to anyone 10 years older than me.
00:48:20So the 40s need to be pushing it.
00:48:22I'm ready to show you my cards and chase all the stars that we see.
00:48:29I don't know.
00:48:42This definitely is a big day for me.
00:48:46I want to take Jorge to the Promise Room
00:48:49because I see a future with him.
00:48:52I can't put into words, like, the chemistry we have.
00:48:57It's just a feeling.
00:48:59Oh, friend, you seem to know my mind before I speak.
00:49:06Jorge makes me excited.
00:49:08He makes me happy.
00:49:10He's just a man, like a man.
00:49:13I just like, like, I was going to say the L4, sorry.
00:49:18I really like, I really like being around him.
00:49:20That's the second time I've done that.
00:49:22Oh, my gosh.
00:49:23Okay, stop.
00:49:27I'm nervous about learning his age.
00:49:29I don't know if I could move forward with him
00:49:31if he's over late 40s.
00:49:35That's just a huge age gap, huge.
00:49:40And my family would freak out.
00:49:45I am a little bit nervous because, well, actually,
00:49:49I have some things on my heart I want to talk to Jorge about.
00:49:53I would potentially have to walk away from really wanting to be with Jorge
00:49:58if our conversation doesn't go well.
00:50:03I am preparing myself for the worst a little bit
00:50:06because I just don't know how he would react.
00:50:09It would be literally heartbreaking to walk away from Jorge.
00:50:15It's okay.
00:50:18I really like him.
00:50:20We made him weave a little more than kids.
00:50:24Vanilla's truly a genuine, interesting, intriguing woman
00:50:30who I'm enamored with.
00:50:32A quiet world and you'd have me believe.
00:50:38It's, like, been so many different things
00:50:40in a brief amount of time
00:50:42that I've been attracted to.
00:50:44I want to find out more.
00:50:45I want to continue down that road.
00:50:47I haven't felt connected to a woman in quite some time.
00:50:50And I'll be damned if I lose control.
00:50:54It would suck if Vanell was affected by my age
00:50:57because that would be the end of the connection, right?
00:50:59So it would suck that we can't pursue it further
00:51:02and find out more
00:51:03and see if this is really what we both believe it is.
00:51:08I'm a little bit nervous with that.
00:51:12But ultimately, if it bothers her,
00:51:14then it wasn't meant to be, right?
00:51:34How are you?
00:51:35I'm nervous.
00:51:35Don't be.
00:51:37I'm here.
00:51:47So coming into this experience,
00:51:51I wanted to find a genuine connection.
00:51:56And coming to this,
00:51:58I wanted to find a potential husband.
00:52:01And
00:52:04since meeting you,
00:52:07I feel like I found that.
00:52:10I didn't think that I would find a connection
00:52:13this deep with you.
00:52:16With you, I feel safe.
00:52:19I feel cared for.
00:52:20I feel protected.
00:52:23I feel respected.
00:52:24respected.
00:52:25And I like that you are yourself
00:52:27with whoever you're interacting with.
00:52:36You're doing good.
00:52:39Yeah, I'm...
00:52:39Coming to this experience,
00:52:41I was hopeful,
00:52:41but still like,
00:52:43nah, Santa Claus,
00:52:44it's not going to happen, you know?
00:52:45But hopefully,
00:52:46that I could find, you know,
00:52:48the woman that I wanted to be in my life,
00:52:50you know?
00:52:50And that means a lot to me.
00:52:51And that's...
00:52:52It's not easy,
00:52:53as you know.
00:52:54It's not easy at all.
00:52:55It works well with us
00:52:57because your quiet confidence and energy
00:53:00cool me out
00:53:01because I'm on 10.
00:53:02You know that.
00:53:02You've seen how I am.
00:53:04And so I need that.
00:53:05I really need that
00:53:06and want that in my life.
00:53:08It is what it is.
00:53:09You know when you know.
00:53:09Yeah.
00:53:10You know?
00:53:10Thank you for that.
00:53:12But I do have something on my heart
00:53:14that I have been wanting to tell you.
00:53:16Okay.
00:53:20So, you know,
00:53:21faith is really important to me.
00:53:23And honoring God in every way I can
00:53:25is really important to me.
00:53:31One of the ways
00:53:32I have made a promise
00:53:34to God is to honor God
00:53:36with my celibacy.
00:53:38I've been celibate
00:53:39for almost two years now.
00:53:40And I didn't make a promise
00:53:42to wait till marriage.
00:53:43And I think in my past relationships,
00:53:46when it came to my faith,
00:53:47I've been very wavering with that.
00:53:49And I'm at a point in my life
00:53:51where I'm no longer doing that.
00:53:54So I need someone that
00:53:56understands how important that is to me
00:53:58and that wants to walk
00:54:00on that journey with me.
00:54:04So I just need to know,
00:54:07like, what you think about that.
00:54:13Well, first off,
00:54:15I'm not...
00:54:16I see you're getting nervous about it.
00:54:17Yeah.
00:54:18And there's no need
00:54:19to be nervous about it
00:54:20because if that's what you're feeling
00:54:22and if that's what is important to you,
00:54:24you don't have to be nervous.
00:54:25You can say it with your chest.
00:54:26You can say it like you mean it
00:54:27because that's what you mean, right?
00:54:30Is that something that I've done
00:54:32or is that something
00:54:33that I've actually actively practiced?
00:54:35No, I haven't.
00:54:36Is it something that I would respect with you?
00:54:38Of course I'll respect it with you.
00:54:40I'm not going to back off of you
00:54:42now after we've gotten to this place
00:54:45because you say that.
00:54:46That's not...
00:54:47That doesn't scare me.
00:54:48You know, it doesn't make me...
00:54:49I'm a grown-ass man.
00:54:51You know what I'm saying?
00:54:51Come on, I'm not afraid of that.
00:54:53No.
00:54:55You know, that makes me really happy.
00:54:59Mm-hmm.
00:55:01I think also something else
00:55:02I wanted to talk about is, like,
00:55:05I don't know if you have kids,
00:55:07if you want kids, like...
00:55:10You want to know if I want kids?
00:55:12Yes, but I'm not going to have kids
00:55:14outside of a marriage.
00:55:15Mm-hmm.
00:55:16That's not going to happen.
00:55:17That's not going to happen.
00:55:19So if I'm going to have a child with someone,
00:55:22we have to be in a marriage
00:55:23that it's not going to break up.
00:55:24I'm not willing to have no baby mamas.
00:55:26No, I'm not having that.
00:55:28So that's not going to happen.
00:55:29But to answer your question, yes,
00:55:31I wouldn't mind having kids.
00:55:32If you're my wife,
00:55:34well, then that's what we're talking about.
00:55:35Mm-hmm.
00:55:36So yes, the answer's yes.
00:55:38Any more questions?
00:55:40Mm-hmm.
00:55:41Get them out.
00:55:42No, that's...
00:55:43That's all I pretty much have.
00:55:45You sure?
00:55:45Mm-hmm.
00:55:46I'm excited, too.
00:55:48Now's the time.
00:55:50I don't know.
00:55:51I'm just really happy that
00:55:52I found you in this experience.
00:55:55Like, really, like,
00:55:56I feel like if I'm being really honest,
00:55:58like, maybe I was meant to come here
00:56:01to meet someone like you.
00:56:03Like, you have really made this experience
00:56:06just so amazing for me.
00:56:08Um, yeah.
00:56:09Yes.
00:56:11Are you not nervous anymore?
00:56:12No.
00:56:13You calm me down so fast.
00:56:16That's what it's supposed to be?
00:56:17Yeah.
00:56:18So now we're here in this promise room.
00:56:20We're here in this promise room,
00:56:22and you need to know my age.
00:56:23It's all this about you.
00:56:27But hold up.
00:56:28So are we making that commitment?
00:56:32I choose to, yes.
00:56:34You choose to?
00:56:36I choose to as well.
00:56:37So I'm going to put it on first,
00:56:39because I think that's the...
00:56:41He's the one that I have waited
00:56:42all my life for.
00:56:45Okay.
00:56:48Does anything about
00:56:49you finding out my age scare you?
00:56:52I guess you're going to tell me now.
00:56:54Yes.
00:56:55I am...
00:56:58I'm 27.
00:57:00What?
00:57:01You're 27?
00:57:02Mm-hmm.
00:57:03Mm-hmm.
00:57:07Man.
00:57:09Whew.
00:57:10Okay.
00:57:10Yeah.
00:57:11You know, this is the way
00:57:12God's testing my words.
00:57:14Like, okay, age is nothing but a number, okay?
00:57:16It doesn't bank me back off of you.
00:57:17Okay.
00:57:18So you ready for mine?
00:57:19Because I don't know
00:57:20if you're ready for this.
00:57:21I am.
00:57:23I really don't know
00:57:24if you're ready for this one.
00:57:25You ready?
00:57:25Mm-hmm.
00:57:29I'm 60.
00:57:36I'm too far gone
00:57:39There's no way back
00:57:43I'm caught in the ecstasy
00:57:46Every time that you're next to me
00:57:49Look what you do to me
00:57:51I don't know how
00:57:53I can face everybody now
00:57:55Every time I try
00:57:57I just mess up
00:57:59Something inside me
00:58:01Knows that
00:58:02I need something different
00:58:03I need something different
00:58:04I need something different
00:58:32I need something different
00:58:34You
00:59:31You
01:00:01You
01:00:23You
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