00:00So my recommendation is going to be mutual protective orders.
00:04I want there to be a 100-foot stay away for each of their orders.
00:11Both counsel referred to it.
00:12This has been a very toxic relationship.
00:16It's beyond the pale in a lot of ways, the toxicity here.
00:21And I've had some thoughts about this.
00:24I'm finding that there's been violence that's occurred both ways.
00:28And the problem is that the two of them can't be together in the same place at the same time
00:34for very long before it starts to turn violent.
00:37You guys have to figure out a lot here.
00:41You have to figure out how to function as co-parents.
00:46This has been dysfunctional.
00:47This is a lifelong proposition between the two of you.
00:51You're going to be linked together for the remainder of your lives.
00:55You're going to be the grandparents of the same grandkids someday.
00:58It'll be their same graduations, their same weddings.
01:03You're modeling right now how you deal with conflict to a two-year-old.
01:09This is going to affect this child.
01:12When the child grows up and becomes an adult, you've got to put your child first and shield the child
01:20from this conflict.
01:21You're going to be the same.
01:21You're going to be the same.
01:21You're going to be the same.
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