- 6 hours ago
90 Day The Single Life - S05E11
Category
📺
TVTranscript
00:01Previously on The Single Life,
00:03we have so much in common.
00:05We do, yeah.
00:06We converse very well.
00:07Yeah, we do.
00:08And it's been like that from the beginning, too.
00:10Wayne is so cute.
00:11This legit might be my person.
00:14We got to do this more often.
00:15I know, definitely.
00:16But do I really want to invest my time and money
00:19to go over to another country to have my heart broken again?
00:26We are in Hollywood.
00:28Oh, my God, look who's here.
00:29Yeah.
00:30I can't wait to spend time with Natalie again.
00:32And I'm going to meet her daughter, Bella.
00:34I'm surprised I'm meeting you today.
00:36I didn't expect that.
00:37Well, I'm surprised you're even here, to be honest.
00:40Yeah.
00:41I know how close Natalie and Bella are.
00:43And if there's going to be any chance for our relationship
00:46to work, I'm going to have to win Bella over.
00:51So first of all, Cole wants to apologize.
00:54Maybe if you two were together alone for a few days,
00:59you could work this out.
01:00I'm not going to be one of his options and his love triangle.
01:04It's like you had me and you lost me.
01:07I feel a little bad for trashing Colt to his mom,
01:10but I need to be honest with her.
01:11There's no world where I'd get back with Colt.
01:14I'm done.
01:17Like...
01:20Do you mind if I grab a dance with my girl?
01:22Are you serious?
01:23You said that you don't want to dance.
01:24If this is how he's acting in the middle of a freaking dance class,
01:28we might have even bigger problems than I originally thought.
01:32I'm just like really done with this .
01:47Good morning, beautiful.
01:49Good morning.
01:50How are you feeling this morning?
01:52I'm feeling good.
01:53I'm feeling good too.
01:55That was one wild, crazy night.
02:06That was pure madness.
02:08How'd you like your lap dance?
02:10Ah, the lap dance was amazing.
02:12Good, I'm glad.
02:14Last night Natalie took me to a strip club in LA and we had an amazing, terrific time.
02:20Both of us were like hot and sweaty by the time it was done and we were horny and excited
02:26to like have some real fun.
02:28I unleashed the beast last night.
02:31You were a wild and crazy man.
02:33The sex was so much better than the first time.
02:36Seeing this freaky side of Natalie took all my anxiety away.
02:41I had no problem throwing my hat off and getting down.
02:45So, yeah.
02:49So, what are we going to do today?
02:51Plan for the day is to meet my family.
02:53Do you know where we're going or anything?
02:55It's a surprise.
02:56But we need to get going because the reservation is coming up soon.
02:59Okay, let's hit the road.
03:01Today Gino and I are meeting up with my daughter Bella and my brother Nick.
03:06Do we have a car picking us up?
03:08We're walking.
03:09Are we walking?
03:10We're walking.
03:11Oh my goodness gracious.
03:12Bella is skeptical about Gino because what's happened in the past.
03:16But I'm hoping everybody can have fun.
03:19Just let their guard down.
03:21Because my feelings for Gino are only getting stronger.
03:25And I really need for everybody in my family, especially Bella, to be on board.
03:30Nick.
03:31Nick.
03:32Oh, hi.
03:33How are you doing?
03:34How are you?
03:36I'm doing good.
03:37Oh, nice to meet you.
03:38How's it going?
03:38This is Gino.
03:39How are you doing? Nice meeting you, finally.
03:41Nice meeting you too.
03:42This is my twin brother.
03:43Twin brother.
03:44Yeah.
03:45Yeah.
03:45She's a pretty twin.
03:46Yeah.
03:48No, I think you're the pretty twin.
03:50I can see the resemblance.
03:52The first time Natalie dating Gino, everything went to crap.
03:56Everything was a nightmare.
03:58She was calling me, crying all the time.
04:00And I mean, he broke her heart.
04:02So when Natalie told me she was dating Gino again, I thought she was crazy.
04:07This is going to be a whole huge drama mess.
04:09Like every other relationship she's been through.
04:13We're going to see some entertainments.
04:15Have you ever seen a drag show before?
04:16Drag show?
04:17I haven't, I've heard of them, but I've never seen one.
04:20You're in our tree.
04:21Oh, yeah.
04:21Is Bella there already?
04:23Have you talked to her?
04:23I haven't seen Isabella since yesterday.
04:25You haven't talked to her?
04:27Not since yesterday.
04:29I'm just going to text her real quick.
04:34Yesterday when Bella dropped her mom off at the hotel, she was really cold to me and had an attitude.
04:41I can't help but wonder if the reason is because of me.
04:46Okay.
04:47I texted.
04:48All right.
04:49So we're good to go?
04:50Yeah, let's go.
04:51We're going to miss the show.
04:53Okay.
04:53Stop worrying.
04:54I'm not.
04:55Yeah, don't worry about anything.
04:56It's not good for that pretty face.
04:57Stop.
05:01I'm a girl you see on the street.
05:03Drop love boy down to my feet.
05:05I like when you're underneath.
05:07What?
05:10How's everybody doing today?
05:12Woo!
05:13Are you all ready to get started?
05:15Yeah!
05:17Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the stage, Penny Ridge Ripple!
05:25I have never been to a drag queen show before.
05:29Being here in person is freaking amazing.
05:39And they're putting their in my face.
05:48This is what I love about Natalie.
05:50She brings me out of my shell or even out of my comfort zone.
05:55She can do that to me.
06:04Yeah!
06:05You all have a good time with us today?
06:07Yeah!
06:08Oh, yeah!
06:09Happy birthday, everybody.
06:10Enjoy!
06:10Yeah!
06:15After this show really clears out, doesn't it?
06:17Yeah.
06:17Man, I wish Bella was here.
06:19She's not responding to me.
06:21Really?
06:22That's weird.
06:24She's not responding to me.
06:26She texted you?
06:27Yeah.
06:31Bella arranged the whole thing to come here.
06:34And at the last minute, something just went off.
06:37She just doesn't like Gino.
06:38She doesn't trust him.
06:40All she wants to make sure is her mom is happy.
06:42And she doesn't think Gino is that person.
06:46I'm sad myself because I wanted to get to know her a little bit.
06:50It seems like she doesn't want to meet you.
06:51You think so?
06:53She's told me she does not like him.
06:55And that's the reason why she did not come.
06:57I mean, you're still married.
06:59Your ex attacks Natalie.
07:00That's ridiculous.
07:02But we came to where she lives so that she could see we've gone past it.
07:07But she hasn't gone past it.
07:09That's the problem.
07:10We don't have to deal with Jasmine anymore.
07:12So take Jasmine out of the equation and everything has been progressing really good.
07:17Like, we are having fun together.
07:18So have you filed for divorce?
07:22Um...
07:28Bella has a lot of anger towards me.
07:31And Nick, he's kind of questioning if I'm the right person for her as well.
07:36So everything I did to rebuild my relationship with Natalie is falling apart.
07:43I mean, I don't blame Isabella.
07:45You're still married to another woman.
07:47And she doesn't want to see her mother hurt.
07:50I get it.
07:51She wants to look out for me.
07:53And I love her.
07:53And I appreciate that.
07:55But I still would like her to give him a chance.
07:59You're just going to have to show her it's not like the other relationships that you had in the past.
08:06She comes first.
08:09Bella has never seen me happy with a man in my entire life.
08:13They are toxic.
08:15They're liars.
08:16They're not honest.
08:17I had an ex that was a serial cheater.
08:20And I knew it.
08:22So when it comes to Gino, Bella has her guard up.
08:25I think she is very protective and very leery of his intentions.
08:31You're going to have to win her over.
08:34She's the hard one to win over.
08:35Yeah.
08:36And don't piss her off.
08:48Six, seven, walk her through.
08:50We go one, two.
08:51We go forward, tap.
08:54What the ?
08:55I just don't freaking get it.
09:01We go one, two.
09:04We go one, two.
09:06We go one, two.
09:08We go one, two.
09:11We go one, two.
09:11I asked you if you want to dance.
09:13And you said no.
09:14So then I told you I'm going to dance with somebody else.
09:16And I did.
09:16And then you interrupted me in the middle of the dance.
09:18So I wanted you to have fun.
09:20And I wanted you to come into my world.
09:22I was having fun.
09:23I was.
09:23I enjoyed the dancing.
09:24I was having fun.
09:25So what's the problem then?
09:27I mean, we just talked about coming to his class,
09:30learning how to dance.
09:32And social was out of nowhere.
09:34And all of a sudden we talk about that.
09:36And then you storm off.
09:37Find some Vin Diesel guy.
09:38Or actually a guy who looks just like your ex.
09:40And you're just having a good time.
09:42Are you kidding me?
09:43So here's the thing.
09:44You're going to Ibiza in a couple of weeks.
09:46There's going to be many socials in Ibiza too.
09:48And there's going to be many socials in Croatia as well.
09:51So you think I'm going to go cheat on you with a guy in Ibiza?
09:53What I'm trying to say is like,
09:54if you're going to dance with random guys,
09:55what's going to happen?
09:57And they want to have a good time.
10:00They want to have a good time.
10:01So because they want to have a good time,
10:03I need to be punished.
10:04And I'm going to be.
10:05Punished?
10:05And I'm going to be.
10:06Yeah.
10:06So you're trying to accuse me of something
10:08that I haven't even done yet.
10:09So you have freedom of reigns to do whatever you want.
10:11I just don't understand, Tony.
10:13Because it's like a vacation.
10:14Listen.
10:14I danced with a guy after a dance class
10:16after you said that you don't want to dance.
10:18And now you're accusing me of dancing with random guys
10:20in Ibiza and like potentially cheating on you.
10:23You just said you would.
10:23What?
10:24Like you're literally putting words in my mouth.
10:27I never said that.
10:31He knew I was a dancer when we started dating.
10:34He knew I was a dancer when we were friends.
10:37I feel like at this point in our relationship,
10:39he should trust me.
10:40He should know who I am.
10:42He should know what I stand for.
10:43He should know that I would not do anything to disrespect him
10:47or put our relationship in jeopardy.
10:50Tony is projecting his own insecurity on me.
10:53And I'm really hurt by that.
10:55I don't think I deserve it.
10:57You don't see a problem here at all.
10:59You're not even looking at it from my perspective at all?
11:01What is the freaking problem?
11:02I think the problem is actually us.
11:05Because you look at it as, hey, this is my everyday life.
11:07This is what I've been doing for years.
11:08This is my passion.
11:09I see it as, this is not appropriate for a new relationship.
11:12That's the problem.
11:13So you're stopping me from being who I am
11:16because I'm in a relationship with you.
11:17No, I think there's compromise.
11:18There's compromise.
11:19We're not having it.
11:20We're not having compromise.
11:21This is unbelievable, Tony.
11:22No, it's not.
11:23It's not.
11:24It's compromise.
11:25You ruined everything.
11:26So I hope you're happy.
11:28I need to go find my freaking phone.
11:30I'm taking an Uber home and this is it.
11:31I'm done with this .
11:36She's been single for a very long time.
11:38She still does things her own way.
11:41I'm concerned that sometimes Vanya may not look at the big picture
11:44of when you're in a relationship, it's about compromise.
11:47And to me, dance is very sensual.
11:48Dance has a lot of feelings attached.
11:51And, you know, it's very easy to fall in love with your dance partner.
11:54You just gonna storm off again?
11:56No, I just, I'm done, Tony.
11:57I'm calling an Uber and I'm going home.
11:59And I brought up concerns about her traveling
12:01and dancing with other guys in other clubs.
12:03And she completely said, hey, that's my prerogative is to have fun.
12:07Hey, by the way, Tony, just trust me.
12:09When I can't even trust her when I'm watching her and with her.
12:13So that's it.
12:13That's it.
12:14She's gonna storm out again.
12:15Yeah.
12:16Really?
12:17Yeah.
12:17There's no compromise.
12:18There's no resolution to anything now, is there?
12:20What compromise is there?
12:21Really?
12:22You're accusing me of being somebody who's,
12:24who has nefarious intentions in mind.
12:26And I don't.
12:27She said you can do whatever you want.
12:27You said I can have fun, I can dance with whatever.
12:29I, I, I, what, what's, what do you want me to do?
12:32Then just stay in my hotel room the whole time I'm there?
12:34Maybe you should enjoy.
12:36Enjoying Visa.
12:37You know.
12:38We'll see how it works out when you get back then.
12:42Is, what, now you're threatening me.
12:44What?
12:49You obviously don't trust me and I'm going home.
12:55Don't you know, girls, they love you.
13:02Seriously.
13:06This guy is acting like a complete control freak.
13:10Trying to tell me how to live my life.
13:12It is unacceptable.
13:13I'm a grown woman.
13:14I can make my own decisions.
13:16I'm not going to be told what I can and cannot do.
13:18Will you go watch me?
13:23I'm capable of having a dance with someone and not have sex with them.
13:27I mean, what else do you think is going to happen here?
13:29This is really making me worried about our, our relationship going forward.
13:33Because if this is how Tony is acting when we're together,
13:37I cannot even imagine what he's going to be like once we're apart for two weeks.
13:41It's really scaring me.
13:43I'm going to be so happy and have the fire.
13:47I want the feeling of assuming.
13:57It's the fire.
13:57Mama didn't raise the fools.
13:59She let me walk in my own shoes.
14:01So double down and let me loose.
14:03There ain't no mountain I can't move.
14:16Now, what do we need these for?
14:18What do you want, avocado?
14:20We're on a diet.
14:21Okay, put them back.
14:22We're going to put them back.
14:24We're on a diet.
14:25Yeah.
14:37I'm going to get a cabbage.
14:39I'm going to make some cabbage rolls.
14:42So I talked to Colt.
14:43Oh, my gosh.
14:45Where is he at now?
14:46He's in Brazil.
14:47He went to Brazil?
14:49Yeah, to see the other woman, yeah.
14:52For the last month, I haven't been in touch with Colt because I needed a break from that dumpster fire
14:58of a relationship.
14:59But he called me out of the blue this morning from Brazil.
15:03Did he go back to Canada?
15:05No, I guess he went straight from Florida to Brazil.
15:09Oh, my gosh.
15:11Seriously?
15:12Yeah.
15:13I thought Colt went to Canada to live with his mom.
15:16I found out the whole time he's been in Brazil with Diana, the woman he's been sending videos to.
15:23Okay.
15:24They're saying the ligaments in his knee need to be replaced.
15:27So he has to have another surgery.
15:29But he said he's found a doctor here that will accept the insurance and stuff.
15:34Here?
15:34Yeah, in Orlando.
15:35So I guess he's coming back.
15:37He's not staying left.
15:38He's not staying at our place.
15:39No.
15:40No.
15:40Oh, okay.
15:42Oh, my gosh.
15:44One thing we've learned from this experience is there's no stranger who's going to stay at our house again, ever.
15:51It's not going to happen.
15:52It's not going to happen.
15:53Is he still in the wheelchair?
15:54Yeah.
15:55Well, I guess the doorways are small there, so he's been using crutches because the wheelchair and walker are too
16:00big.
16:00How's he going to get around?
16:02Yeah.
16:02He can't drive.
16:03No, I said I'd go pick him up and, like, help him get situated in the hotel.
16:09Picking up Colt from the airport is going to be torture.
16:12You know, we had a really strong connection.
16:14There's still some type of bond, which is maybe really dumb.
16:19But I feel responsible for him.
16:21Does he want to try to get back with you?
16:24I don't know what he wants.
16:25Don't let it happen.
16:29He's not going to be faithful.
16:31Yeah.
16:32Yeah.
16:32No, I think he's going to lie and keep lying and lying and lying.
16:35I don't trust him, so it's like, how can I be with somebody I don't trust?
16:40When you keep lying about stuff, you're not sincere.
16:45Yeah.
16:46I don't see any sincerity at all to this.
16:49No respect.
16:50I mean...
16:51Leave a godder alone.
16:52I mean, bottom line.
16:55Well, if it was me, I would be over with it.
17:00But it's you.
17:02I think you're strong enough.
17:04But when he casts that fishing line and reels you back in, and you know he's going to try.
17:11Don't revolve your life around him.
17:13No.
17:14No.
17:14Because he could care less about you.
17:16I know.
17:16He's just using you once again.
17:18I feel he can't use me because I'm offering help.
17:21I'm offering to do this for him.
17:23I want to do this for him.
17:24So it's like, he's not using me.
17:25It's like, he's not playing me.
17:27He's playing himself.
17:28But then how far are you going to take this?
17:30I just want to get him from the airport to the hotel.
17:34Right.
17:34Okay.
17:35Set boundaries.
17:36Like all the crying and stuff I've been doing, I think it's just like feeling sorry for him.
17:40Like he might be permanently disabled.
17:42So I cry more about his leg than about him dating other women.
17:47I know my parents are worried about Colt breaking my heart again.
17:51They see that he still affects me.
17:54And like the truth is, I don't know what I'm going to feel when I see him.
17:59We had such a deep, intense connection.
18:02And you can't just turn that off.
18:05I feel like Colt has some type of crazy power over me.
18:08And I don't really trust myself with him.
18:11Life is way too short to be putting up with that.
18:14Fill your life with happy things.
18:17I will.
18:17You want the donuts?
18:19No.
18:21No, I think I need the wine.
18:23The wine.
18:25No.
18:32Yay, stockings.
18:34Here, you can hang your own stocking up, son.
18:37All right, boom.
18:41Okay, there we go.
18:42Beautiful.
18:42Look at that.
18:43Look at that.
18:44I have stocking.
18:45You already have stocking your stocking.
18:47Is it candy?
18:48Oh, yeah.
18:49I got to get one.
18:50Okay.
18:53It's been in there since last year.
18:56I've been naughty, I've been nice.
18:59Santa's daddy brings me everything I like.
19:01Milk and cookies, wanna bite?
19:04Give me little, I want a shingle bell a night.
19:07Here we go.
19:09Grand Illuminate!
19:11Whoa!
19:12This actually looks pretty good.
19:14Do you remember this monkey?
19:14Grandma bought this for you, so I'll let you hang that.
19:18Just hang it.
19:19Look, near her picture.
19:20Heard it.
19:20Yeah, it's cute, huh?
19:22Christmas is in a few weeks, and I'm really, really excited,
19:25because it's my favorite holiday.
19:27Everything's all sparkly.
19:28Everybody's just nice, and it brings back so many happy memories
19:32of my mom and my sister and previous holidays.
19:34When I do stuff like this, it reminds me of grandma,
19:37because this was, like, our thing, and my grandma.
19:39It was, like, our thing was to, like, decorate, you know?
19:41So it's gonna be our thing now?
19:42I think so, and I think we should include Larry in this as well,
19:45because he doesn't know any of our stuff.
19:47He doesn't know anything.
19:47You want to call him?
19:48Yeah.
19:50Christmas is all about family,
19:52and this Christmas is even more special,
19:55because my family just got bigger.
19:57My relationship with my son that I placed for adoption
20:00is just getting better and better.
20:02We video chat all the time,
20:04and it's really become a special part of my life.
20:07Hey!
20:09What's up, y'all?
20:10What's up? How are you?
20:12I'm doing good, man.
20:13It looks like y'all in the Christmas spirit.
20:15Yeah.
20:16I'm really excited to talk to him today
20:18and show him my Christmas decorations,
20:19but I also have some news to share with both him and Jamal.
20:23So we thought we would call you
20:25and get you in the Christmas spirit with us.
20:27Yeah, for sure.
20:28So Jamal's gonna carry you around.
20:30Let's go for a tour.
20:31All right, look.
20:32So this is my little tree.
20:34I like bling.
20:35You know I'm all about the glitter.
20:36I love the sequins and stuff.
20:38So this is, instead of doing a star, I do a top hat.
20:40Isn't it cute?
20:42Isn't it cute?
20:42Yeah, I know about that.
20:44It's so cute.
20:45And then I do stockings.
20:48Am I gonna get a stocking?
20:50Yes, you're gonna get a stocking.
20:52Of course you are.
20:53There was never a holiday, a birthday,
20:58or any other day in 35 years
21:00that I did not think about Larry or my daughter.
21:03I always wondered, like, what kind of life they had,
21:06how they celebrated their birthdays,
21:09how they celebrated their holidays.
21:11How's my hair?
21:13It's a little flat.
21:16I'm so grateful to Larry
21:18that he gave me the chance to make up for lost time.
21:22I'm really glad that you can enjoy some of this with us.
21:25Yeah, for sure.
21:26So, yeah, and I'm glad that we have communication,
21:29especially now.
21:29I think the communication's a lot better now that I've been.
21:32Yeah, I agree.
21:33I'm free.
21:34So speaking of that,
21:35I told you guys about the guy
21:37that I've been talking to in England,
21:40and I'm going.
21:41He invited me to come,
21:42so I'm gonna go and meet him.
21:45I mean, everybody deserves a chance at love,
21:47so I don't see why you wouldn't take it.
21:50Just don't get your hopes up.
21:51No.
21:52You know what I'm saying?
21:53A little bit.
21:53Don't get your hopes too high.
21:54Just a little bit of hope.
21:55No, let's just stay neutral.
21:57I mean, just go over there with an open mind.
21:59Yeah.
21:59You know what I'm saying?
21:59I like him,
22:00but I'm not doing what I did with Usman.
22:02It's a totally different thing.
22:04I've learned from my mistakes.
22:07Don't look so skeptical.
22:09No, I am.
22:11I can't help but naturally be concerned
22:13when you take these trips for men that you haven't met.
22:15You're gonna fly by yourself.
22:16You're gonna be there by yourself.
22:18I remember even when you go to Nigeria by yourself,
22:21you would call me and be like,
22:22I wish you were here.
22:23Why don't you go with me?
22:25What are you doing?
22:26No.
22:26Why?
22:27Is that not too much?
22:28Why don't you go?
22:28You don't have to meet him like the first day,
22:30but you should,
22:31maybe you should go with me.
22:32Go, Jamal.
22:33You should go?
22:34Yeah, you should go.
22:35You should definitely go.
22:36I do wish I would have went to Nigeria sooner.
22:38Me too.
22:39Because maybe I could have helped in that one faster.
22:42The men you've met,
22:43they're so nice to you in the beginning
22:44and they,
22:45they trap you
22:46because you get stuck
22:47and you fall fast.
22:48Yeah.
22:49So luckily when I'm there,
22:50maybe I'll be able to talk to her
22:51and be like,
22:52just remember to not give too much
22:54in the beginning
22:55because you do that all the time.
22:56Yeah, for sure.
22:57Yeah.
22:58In the past,
22:59once my mom really starts to like a guy,
23:01she starts believing whatever they say.
23:04So I really do hope Wayne is this nice guy
23:07that he's been telling her that he is
23:09because my mom's heart
23:11cannot take much more.
23:12I feel like now everybody,
23:14everybody's in place
23:14and I'm working on myself.
23:16It's time for me to go and find love.
23:18Well, I think you've had a lot off your shoulders.
23:20Yeah.
23:21Yeah, you have, man.
23:22Like telling you about your sister and everything.
23:24Telling me about him
23:25and telling him about her.
23:27Yeah.
23:27Speaking of sister,
23:30I reached out to the adoption agency
23:31like we all agreed upon
23:32to try to find her.
23:34Well, they sent me a letter.
23:36Her adopted mom had wrote me a letter.
23:38So I have the letter.
23:40It's like 10 pages long
23:41and I was waiting for an opportunity
23:42to just kind of bring it out.
23:44I want to see it.
23:45All right.
23:46When the adoption agency told me
23:48they had a letter about my daughter
23:50from when she was six years old,
23:52I was stunned.
23:54This was dated November 26, 98.
23:59Okay.
23:59It says,
24:00to the birth mother of our beloved daughter, R.
24:04She came home with us in January of 93.
24:07She was then
24:08and has continued to this day
24:09to be a healthy and happy child.
24:14I can't read this.
24:15Yeah, I want to stop.
24:17This is crazy.
24:35I haven't seen Tony since our dance class
24:38a few nights ago
24:39and obviously things ended on a really bad note.
24:43I'm really nervous.
24:44It's not an easy thing
24:45to like have that huge blow up
24:48and then off I go for half a month.
24:50I wish I knew better
24:52because it always feels the same
24:56and it always feels the same
25:00and you're driving me insane
25:03and you're driving me insane
25:07Tony is coming over to take me to the airport
25:09and it's awful
25:11because I'm leaving
25:12for a two and a half week vacation to Europe.
25:15This is not how I wanted
25:17to leave things between us.
25:21Hi.
25:29I made us a little snack
25:32so have a seat.
25:32I'll go grab it.
25:35Having seen Tony
25:37and his reaction during the dance class
25:39it has me worried
25:41that this kind of jealousy and control
25:43is only going to get amplified
25:45while I'm gone
25:46and it could be the end of us.
25:52So how are you feeling?
25:55I mean
25:57I know you're leaving soon
25:59so I thought we at least talk about
26:01you know what's going on
26:03and I just don't want this tension anymore.
26:08So what's on your mind?
26:11I do trust you
26:13but the words escalated
26:14the emotions escalated
26:15and all of a sudden you left
26:17and I'm like wow
26:18are we really just throwing it away?
26:23Yeah I agree
26:24that that wasn't the best thing to do
26:26I shouldn't have done what I did
26:29like stormed out
26:30but I you know
26:31I was
26:32I was very upset
26:34but at the end of the day
26:35you you mean the world to me
26:37and I want to make sure
26:39that when I'm away
26:40that you feel comfortable
26:41that you're not
26:42you know thinking
26:43what am I doing?
26:44What's going on?
26:45Am I putting
26:46our relationship in jeopardy?
26:48Because I would never do anything like that.
26:55I mean that means a lot to me.
26:56I'm not trying to say
26:57hey listen
26:58it's either you dance
26:59or it's me
26:59I just really want to make sure
27:01that we're on the same page
27:03going forward
27:03and you know
27:04this upcoming trip
27:05I just don't want it to be about
27:07us not talking
27:08a lack of communication
27:09or if there's tension
27:11I just don't want it to just linger.
27:13I agree.
27:14We're not going to go
27:15sleep angry
27:17we're not going to let
27:18the day end with us
27:19not having a resolution.
27:21Okay
27:21I like that.
27:23Okay I'm just going to put this
27:24in the kitchen
27:25and then
27:26we can skedaddle.
27:29We both took responsibility
27:31for what we did wrong
27:32and
27:32I'm feeling a little bit
27:33more secure.
27:35Vanya I'm going to help
27:35grab your luggage okay?
27:37Okay thank you.
27:38All right.
27:39But at the same time
27:40our relationship is
27:41just starting to take
27:42the next step.
27:43We even started saying
27:44I love you to each other.
27:45And now I'm leaving immediately
27:47for two and a half weeks.
27:49I mean this gives us
27:50no time
27:51together
27:51to hug and kiss
27:52and just be good.
27:55Oh
27:57sucks.
28:09Baby
28:10I'm going to miss you
28:11so much.
28:12Oh my god
28:13I can't believe we're here
28:14already.
28:17Ah
28:19I'm going to try
28:20as much as possible
28:21just keep in touch.
28:22Right?
28:24Welcome baby.
28:27Love you baby.
28:32Next trip
28:33is going to be
28:33a together trip.
28:34Absolutely.
28:35Okay.
28:36Okay.
28:36Miss you already.
28:37Miss you too baby.
28:39All right.
28:40Bye.
28:41Bye babe.
28:44I feel like our relationship
28:46is so new
28:46that there is worry.
28:49The last few weeks
28:50we've had a great foundation
28:52and I really hope
28:53this trip
28:53is not going to test it
28:54to the point where
28:55she's going to realize
28:56that the single life
28:56is better for her.
28:58I would be in shambles
28:59if I lost Vanya.
29:00It would break me apart.
29:03There are so many variables
29:05that could go wrong
29:06on this trip
29:07and I hope
29:08we can get through it
29:09but I would be lying
29:10if I said
29:11I wasn't concerned
29:13because if he has
29:14another meltdown
29:15while I'm away
29:16I don't think
29:17our relationship
29:17can survive.
29:20There's blood
29:21in the water
29:36to the birth mother
29:38of our beloved daughter
29:39R.
29:42I can't read this.
29:44This is crazy.
29:55This letter
29:56was not delivered
29:57to me almost 30 years ago
29:58because I moved around a lot.
30:00I was in the military
30:01so I just never received it.
30:03It's very emotional for me
30:05because it's like
30:06me getting to know her.
30:07It means so much
30:09to get a glimpse
30:10into what her life
30:11was like growing up.
30:13I got it.
30:15Her developmental skills
30:17progressed normally
30:18except in one area
30:19where she proved
30:20exceptionally gifted.
30:22She's very verbal.
30:23I guess she talks
30:24like her mama, right?
30:26R's vocabulary
30:27is tremendous.
30:28Her thoughts
30:29and desires
30:30at a level
30:30beyond her six years.
30:32We hope to keep her
30:33in private school
30:34as long as we can afford it.
30:36R's favorite food
30:37is pasta, pasta, pasta.
30:39That's her Italian side.
30:40She is also
30:41a great vegetable eater.
30:43We have a large
30:43vegetable garden.
30:44She loves to go out
30:45and pick vegetables
30:46for dinner.
30:47She had a pretty nice life.
30:49Wait a minute.
30:52I think reading this letter
30:53and finding out
30:54these things about her,
30:55like now we know
30:56her name starts
30:56with an R.
30:57We know she had
30:58a vegetable garden.
30:59We know she went
31:00to private school.
31:05Sorry.
31:09And it's like a bittersweet
31:11feeling, right?
31:11Like, it makes her
31:13more real to me.
31:14And it just makes me
31:16so happy to know
31:17that she was raised
31:17so well.
31:20We are indeed thankful
31:22for having her in our lives
31:23and love her very much
31:24with best wishes
31:26to you and yours.
31:28It's really intense.
31:31I'm really glad
31:32that she's had
31:33such a good life.
31:34Like, that's why
31:35I did what I did,
31:36you know,
31:36because I know
31:36I couldn't provide that
31:37for you or her.
31:39Like, I can't say,
31:40like, I regret what I've done.
31:42I can't say that now.
31:43I can say that
31:43the way I handled it
31:44was up,
31:45but I can't, like,
31:47I can't, like,
31:48feel bad for what I did,
31:49you know?
31:51Yeah, and that's what
31:52I keep trying to tell you
31:53since, you know,
31:54day one.
31:55So I'm glad you finally
31:56kind of, you know,
31:58seeing it for yourself, too.
31:59Yeah.
32:01The decision to place
32:03my children up for adoption
32:04was the most
32:05heartbreaking decisions
32:06I've ever had to make
32:07in my whole life.
32:10Now,
32:1234 years later,
32:13I can honestly say
32:15I'm at peace.
32:16I feel like
32:17I did what was best
32:19for my children.
32:22And really,
32:22at the end of the day,
32:23that's all that matters to me.
32:26All we can do now
32:27is just wait.
32:28Yeah.
32:29We'll see
32:31what happens.
32:32I do have a feeling
32:32we're going to find her.
32:33I hope so.
32:34Like, I'm very positive
32:35about that.
32:36I hope so.
32:41I'm going to try calling her.
32:44Hi.
32:45Hi, Bella.
32:46I just wanted to know
32:47why you didn't show up today.
32:49I can't stand by
32:50and watch you embarrass yourself
32:51by associating, you know,
32:53with such a troll like Gino.
32:55Whoa.
32:56I care about Gino,
32:57but this is a lot bigger
32:58than my daughter
33:00not wanting to meet
33:01a guy that I'm dating.
33:17Oh, you want to sit down?
33:18Yeah.
33:19For a moment?
33:20Enjoy this beautiful
33:22fire pit.
33:24Oh, they got blankets.
33:26It's kind of like camping
33:28or something.
33:28I don't know.
33:29We just don't have a tent.
33:30I keep telling you
33:31take one step for today
33:34take two steps for tomorrow
33:37just let that
33:39let the flower fill in me.
33:42That was rough.
33:44Yeah.
33:45I'm a little bit,
33:46I don't know,
33:47concerned now
33:48because
33:48Nick is saying
33:50that
33:51she doesn't like me.
33:53Well, she doesn't know you.
33:57One of the big reasons
33:58that I came to L.A.
34:00was to get to know
34:01Natalie's daughter, Bella.
34:03But when it was time
34:04to hang out,
34:06she never showed.
34:08Apparently,
34:09Bella's mad at me
34:10because Jasmine
34:11attacked Natalie
34:12last year.
34:14You definitely
34:15want to have approval
34:16of the family members
34:17or, you know,
34:18the chances
34:19of this relationship
34:20working is
34:21not very good.
34:23I'm going to try
34:24calling her.
34:30Hello?
34:31Hi, Bella?
34:33Hi.
34:34It's Mom.
34:35How are you?
34:36I'm fine.
34:38I just wanted to know
34:41why you didn't
34:42show up today.
34:44I just want to say
34:45what I have to say,
34:46honestly,
34:46and then you can do
34:47whatever you want.
34:49I love you,
34:50but I can't stand by
34:51and watch you
34:52embarrass yourself
34:53by associating,
34:54you know,
34:55with such a troll
34:55like Gino.
34:58I don't see why
34:59you feel the need
34:59to extend any grace
35:00to him at all
35:01after how badly
35:02he disrespected you
35:03in Michigan.
35:05You're a grown woman,
35:06you can make
35:06your own decisions,
35:07but at this point,
35:08don't expect me
35:08to support it anymore.
35:11Well...
35:13And I just think
35:14you're just too
35:14beautiful and smart
35:15and successful
35:16to be with such
35:17a spineless loser
35:17like him,
35:19and I wish you
35:19saw that, too.
35:21I love you,
35:22but that's just really
35:23all I want you
35:24to hear from me.
35:28Whoa.
35:32She does not
35:34like me.
35:39Are you okay?
35:40No.
35:44I want to throw up.
35:47That was a lot
35:48of nasty words
35:49that Bella
35:50was saying about me.
35:51How bad of a person
35:52I am,
35:53what trash I am,
35:55loser,
35:55whatever.
35:57She didn't even
35:58give me a chance.
35:59She didn't even
35:59show up and meet me.
36:00I mean,
36:01come on,
36:03don't judge me
36:04based on,
36:05you know,
36:05what you hear
36:06for one incident.
36:08It's not fair.
36:11After all of that,
36:13you know,
36:14how do you feel
36:15about me,
36:16I guess?
36:19My feelings
36:20for you
36:21haven't changed.
36:23However,
36:24I would like
36:25her blessing.
36:29Okay,
36:30so,
36:30okay.
36:33So,
36:33basically,
36:33our relationship
36:34is kind of,
36:35like,
36:36on hold
36:36until you get
36:37her blessing.
36:39She's my number one.
36:41She's my number one
36:41priority.
36:45So,
36:45what happens
36:45if she doesn't
36:46change her mind
36:47and she
36:49doesn't give her
36:50blessing,
36:51what would happen,
36:51you think,
36:52between us?
36:53I need to talk
36:54to her.
36:55And then,
36:56as soon as I get
36:57the answer,
36:57I'll talk to you.
37:00Are you gonna
37:02stay over
37:03my place tonight?
37:03I'm gonna try
37:04to go over
37:04to see Bella.
37:06Okay.
37:06It's important
37:07to me that
37:07we don't
37:09end a conversation
37:10on a negative note.
37:12Okay.
37:13That's fair.
37:16I get it.
37:18I care about Geno,
37:20but this is
37:21a lot bigger
37:21than my daughter
37:23not wanting
37:24to meet a guy
37:24that I'm dating.
37:26All right.
37:27Let's, uh...
37:28Let's go.
37:29Let's go.
37:31Bella doesn't
37:31trust my judgment.
37:33She's never seen
37:34me in a healthy
37:35relationship.
37:36All right.
37:36Well, let me
37:37get packing.
37:39And it makes
37:40me feel like
37:40a failure.
37:42as a parent
37:42that I was
37:43not able
37:44to show my
37:44daughter that
37:45I am capable
37:48of being
37:48in a good
37:49relationship.
37:51And I just
37:51want to go
37:52and I want
37:52to comfort her
37:53and I want
37:54to let her
37:54know that
37:54I'm okay
37:55and safe.
37:56She's my
37:56priority.
37:58Okay.
37:59Well, I better
37:59get going.
38:00Well,
38:01I had a really
38:02good time.
38:03Me too.
38:05So...
38:07The last two days
38:08have been awesome.
38:10Aw.
38:11Yeah.
38:11I know.
38:12They have.
38:13Yeah.
38:13They've been awesome.
38:16The hardest thing
38:17is what if
38:18my daughter
38:19never accepts him?
38:20Where would
38:21this relationship
38:22go?
38:22And I think
38:23he knows the answer.
38:26That's something
38:26I really don't
38:27want to deal
38:27with at this moment.
38:31I don't want
38:32to talk
38:32about this
38:32anymore.
38:34We'll have
38:34to see each
38:36other again
38:36soon.
38:37Yeah.
38:38Bye.
38:39Take care.
38:42I thought
38:43that this trip
38:44would bring
38:45Natalie and I
38:46closer together.
38:47I could use
38:48a drink.
38:48I imagine
38:49hitting it off
38:50with Bella
38:51and then
38:52in the future
38:53potentially
38:54becoming
38:55a father figure
38:56to her.
38:57I've always
38:58wanted to be
38:58a dad.
38:59So her daughter
39:00not wanting
39:01anything to do
39:02with me,
39:03it's impacting
39:04the dreams
39:05that I had
39:06for my life.
39:08And it makes
39:09me really sad.
39:10But these eyes
39:12won't cry
39:13no fear
39:15all fight
39:21I'm glad.
39:27Next time
39:27on the single
39:28life.
39:29Let me touch it.
39:31Oh wow,
39:32okay.
39:34Going into this
39:34day,
39:35I don't really
39:35have any
39:36expectations.
39:37He's cute,
39:38his body seems
39:39fun,
39:39like this is
39:40literally one
39:40of the reasons
39:41I came to DR,
39:41to just have fun.
39:43I don't know.
39:44I don't know.
39:45I don't know.
39:46I don't know.
39:47I don't know.
39:47I don't know.
39:47I don't know.
39:48I don't know.
39:48I don't know.
39:49Whoa,
39:49is that the
39:50Queen of England?
39:51Hello,
39:51peasants.
39:52Hello.
39:54After talking to
39:54Wayne for the
39:55past three months,
39:56I am in
39:56jolly old
39:57England
39:58to meet him
39:58in person.
40:00Oh wow.
40:01I'm really hopeful
40:02that by the end
40:03of this trip
40:03I do go home
40:04in a relationship.
40:06Now I have
40:06to ask you,
40:07are you dating
40:08now?
40:09Here?
40:12Hey Natalie,
40:13what's up?
40:15After Natalie's
40:16daughter
40:17disapproved
40:18of our relationship,
40:18I don't know
40:20where things stand.
40:21I was hoping
40:22that at some point
40:23you would talk
40:23to Bella
40:24to see how
40:24she feels.
40:25Because I know
40:26at the time
40:27you were saying
40:28if she didn't
40:29like me
40:30that, you know,
40:31we wouldn't
40:32have a relationship.
40:33Has that changed
40:34at all with her?
40:36I mean...
40:41Hey Courtney!
40:44I'm going through
40:45a lot of
40:45internal conflict
40:46right now.
40:47I still care
40:48about Colt
40:49and I still
40:50have love for him.
40:51Really,
40:52it is not
40:52to be here.
40:53But then my mind's
40:53like, this lying,
40:55cheating, manipulative
40:56son of a bitch.
40:57Did you sleep
40:58with Diana?
40:59Can't say
41:00I didn't do that.
41:02Well, I'm glad
41:03your d***
41:04worked for her.
41:07Here we go,
41:08Ibiza bitches!
41:09I'm trying
41:09to go
41:10with Sanela,
41:11listen to some music
41:12and then
41:12you send me a message
41:13and another
41:14and another.
41:15You're ruining
41:15my night
41:16but on top of it
41:17I'm there
41:17with my cousin
41:18and I'm embarrassed
41:19in front of her
41:20all over again.
41:21I need to understand
41:22what caused you
41:23to do what you did.
41:24If Tony wants
41:25to be with me
41:26he's going
41:27to have to change
41:28fast.
41:29to be with you.
41:29I'll see you next time.
41:29I'll see you next time.
41:30I'll see you next time.
41:31I'll see you next time.
Comments