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00:00I'm moving to Wisconsin. Does she know you're coming to Wisconsin?
00:05I really want us to be together, you know, and I really want to be up there.
00:08If I move my life and then Tegan says no, that's just a risk that I'm willing to take.
00:15A few days ago, me and Isaac ended up breaking up.
00:19I have a lot of guilt from what I did, so it's just a matter of if we can unscrew
00:25what I screwed up.
00:26I really don't know if I will get her back.
00:30That really scares me.
00:32Have you dated anyone yet?
00:35I have not dated anybody yet, right?
00:38I've been waiting for him to like, you know, say he's going to start dating.
00:42It's like, yeah, it's about time.
00:46I'm here in Wisconsin. I drove over here yesterday and she doesn't know I'm here.
00:51To me, if you don't tell her, the worst thing that can happen is she finds out and then she
00:55thinks you're really weird.
00:56I would seriously consider talking to Tegan.
01:12Tegan knows you all in this car.
01:14Oh, yeah.
01:16Are you purposely not?
01:19Not.
01:19That was her.
01:20No, was it?
01:21Yeah, it was.
01:23I don't think she saw me that she never took her eyes off the front of the road.
01:29I just can't believe how lucky I was that she didn't see me.
01:34I didn't tell Tegan that I was moving up here because I wanted to have action already behind
01:41it, which like a place that I've already found that I'm going to live, you know.
01:45Wait.
01:46Skin in the game pretty much.
01:48And then tell her after.
01:51I'm sure it looks impulsive, but I spent months thinking about it every day and I couldn't let it go.
02:04Hello.
02:06Wanted to order a dozen roses?
02:09I want to get her roses, but I don't know if I just leave the roses with a note or,
02:14you know, if I'm there.
02:16I guess I haven't figured that out.
02:19I'll do this one.
02:23I'm just, of course, a little nervous because I haven't seen her in a few months now.
02:28I haven't talked to her in forever.
02:30I don't know what's going on in her life.
02:33I mean, anything could happen.
02:37What did you do that she's no longer your girlfriend?
02:42The pretty much summarized in putting her last on the list for like a year.
02:48At least that's how she felt.
02:50Yeah, not good.
02:54The ladies at the flower shop, they're asking me, you know, like who I'm getting the roses for.
02:58And they're like, do you think these will get her back?
02:59I was like, no, I don't think getting a rose is going to get her back.
03:05I could see it in both their eyes.
03:07They're like, oh, God, another one.
03:10That's how I felt.
03:12I mean, if you run a flower shop, you probably see that every day.
03:16Dudes coming in, screwed up, you know, aren't going to apologize unless they have some flowers.
03:24She doesn't know I'm here.
03:25And I drove past her on the road this morning.
03:28Really?
03:28Yeah.
03:29And she had no idea.
03:30She didn't see me as far as I know.
03:32I love that.
03:34I think I'm just going to drop the flowers off with a note.
03:38It's a little exciting because it could be the start of a new chapter.
03:41But it could also be a hard no if I don't know.
03:46I'll be rooting for you.
03:47You have to come back and let us know.
03:48I will.
03:49But either way, I'm just excited to get to see what happens, even if it was a no.
03:55Thank you very much.
03:56I appreciate it.
03:57Thank you, guys.
03:58Have a great day.
03:59You too.
04:13All right, guys.
04:14You ready?
04:15Just be ready to sweat.
04:18Today we're at the gym, and it's a HIIT class session.
04:21So it's just a lot of high-intensity workout stuff until you basically puke.
04:27We got four rounds for time.
04:29So you know that means fast as you can go, hard as you can go.
04:32We're going to get you sore today.
04:34Jason is the instructor, and he's a motivator, right?
04:37And so he likes to push us.
04:39Let's go.
04:39Go.
04:40Come on.
04:41Nice.
04:42If your butt don't touch, it don't count.
04:45All right, tie flips.
04:46If you're ready, 25, go.
04:49Nice.
04:55Five years ago, I wasn't working out at all, right?
04:58And then the divorce happened.
04:59They needed an outlet.
05:01And then all of a sudden, it became what it is today.
05:03Ready?
05:04Go.
05:05We got a good group of people with the HIIT class.
05:08Barry, you touch that line.
05:10What?
05:12Come on, guys.
05:13What do you mean?
05:14You got to touch it?
05:15Yes, Barry, you touch it.
05:16If you don't touch the ground, don't count.
05:18Everybody's such a legalist around here this morning.
05:20Yeah, Allison, she's the unofficial drill instructor of the HIIT class.
05:25Everybody knows you always touch the line.
05:28We love Barry.
05:30I mean, we kid with him.
05:31We joke with him.
05:32Come on, Barry.
05:33Round two.
05:34Let's go.
05:35Come on, Barry.
05:35You're going a little slow today.
05:37You must have partied too hard last night.
05:39We've always known Barry because he kind of comes to the gym.
05:42And, you know, he didn't talk a whole lot.
05:45You know, he didn't conversate with people.
05:47And then, all of a sudden, he comes in and he had on like a tank top.
05:51And we were like, what happened to this guy?
05:55Like, he's like, jacked up and like, oh, my gosh.
06:11Barry has a nickname in our family and he's called Plath Daddy.
06:16He is Plath Daddy and he will always be Plath Daddy.
06:21So here's the name of Plath Daddy, Plath Daddy.
06:24He does not know that, y'all.
06:27He does not know that.
06:28He's about to find out.
06:30Barry, come over here.
06:33Do you want to know your nickname?
06:35You are officially nicknamed Plath Daddy.
06:40Yeah, see, that's good.
06:43So somebody ginned up the term Plath Daddy.
06:47Maybe it came from, you know, some youngster or two or three.
06:53Who knows?
06:53Plath Daddy.
06:55There we go.
06:57Maybe give them some eye candy.
06:59Sometimes they like the bulging biceps.
07:03Thanks, Jake.
07:03We got a great group, don't we?
07:04You guys are great.
07:06You killed it.
07:07Congratulations.
07:08So I was thinking of dipping my feet back in the dating pool again.
07:13That'll be good.
07:14So I think I'm about ready to try.
07:15You want to find somebody that's your best friend, right?
07:17Yeah, exactly.
07:19That we love doing like that.
07:21Mm-hmm.
07:22Would you say Barry's a catch?
07:23Yeah, he's a good-looking older guy, right?
07:26We're trying to push him about him getting out there, dating.
07:29Just do a speed date.
07:31I'm not going to do something.
07:33That way you don't have to spend but a minute with each one or so.
07:37Yeah, it's like a sampler platter, right?
07:39Yeah.
07:40I think Barry's going to be picky because he was married for so long.
07:43He knows what he wants and what he don't want now.
07:46We try to keep our eye out, but, you know, in a small town, it's hard to find somebody really
07:51compatible.
07:52I mean, really, it is, to me, a lot about common interests.
07:55Well, you just need to find somebody that likes to work out.
07:59That'd be fun.
07:59I'll keep you posted.
08:01Yeah, man, that feels good.
08:11Since we broke up, I've just been thinking about all this over and over and over and over again.
08:17In my heart, I didn't really know what I should do and what I shouldn't do because I didn't know
08:22how she felt.
08:23You know, I didn't know if she would think it was maybe inconsiderate to move up here.
08:30I mean, it's very possible that it's too late.
08:36But I don't know if I'll ever have an answer to us if I don't do this.
08:42You have a bunch of flowers sitting in the car.
08:47What's the next move?
08:49I don't know.
08:50Well, I guess next move is to call her and tell her.
08:55But she's going to start asking me, well, are you here?
08:58And then I don't know what I'm going to say.
09:02I just didn't want to call her up and be like, hey, I haven't talked to you in forever.
09:05I'm going to move there now.
09:07I fully realized that not telling her could backfire.
09:10And so I definitely am nervous to call her.
09:13And part of me is hoping that she doesn't pick up.
09:37She's calling you back.
09:42You got this.
09:48Hey.
09:49Hey, are you good?
09:51Yeah, I had something to ask you.
09:55Okay.
10:01If we get up far enough, I'll let you run.
10:04Oh my gosh, I moved to Montana and now my life is perfect.
10:08It's not at all perfect.
10:10This is some snow.
10:12Being so scared of the future
10:15sometimes ends up holding you back.
10:18And trust me, I spent a lot of years running.
10:20I would know.
10:23Today I'm out here to meet Kaelin.
10:25I never really knew how much she meant to me until she was gone.
10:29She's ready to meet up.
10:30So I'm really anxious and nervous.
10:47I had something to ask you.
10:50Okay.
10:53Um.
10:56Well, I have something for you.
11:00Uh, just whenever.
11:03I'm sure you're probably busy tonight.
11:06Yeah.
11:07Anyways, just let me know when you go pick it up.
11:14I was just wanting.
11:16When I can pick it up?
11:17Yeah.
11:17At the park that we used to go to.
11:23Pick it up from there?
11:24Mm-hmm.
11:29Okay.
11:30Uh, probably tomorrow night.
11:32Okay.
11:33I'll make sure it's there by then.
11:38Okay.
11:44All right, well.
11:47Uh, that sounds like a plan to me.
11:50Just let me know.
11:52Okay.
11:53I'll call you in the morning.
11:55Okay.
11:56That sounds good.
11:57Okay.
11:58All right.
12:00Love you, bye.
12:02She didn't ask if I was here.
12:04That's good.
12:05I love her dearly and I want nothing more than to spend the rest of my life with her,
12:09but I'm not expecting her to just pick it up right where we left it off.
12:14I'm perfectly fine and happy starting from square one.
12:19I think it was good because she didn't hang up or like make me tell her everything, you know?
12:25Do you think she knows you're here?
12:28She couldn't.
12:29It's not impossible.
12:31I think the call was very good.
12:33Surprisingly, she didn't push me too hard.
12:36I was like, I'll make sure that it's there.
12:39So dumb.
12:42Definitely leaves me feeling hopeful and excited.
12:47I don't know if I'm going to do it.
12:59If we get up far enough, I'll let you run.
13:01Or you're not going to run and terrorize anyone.
13:05I moved to Montana going on nine months ago.
13:09Montana has been so healing, so good for me.
13:14Starting over really did teach me to trust myself again and have more confidence in myself knowing like,
13:20I did it all alone.
13:22Black Jack loves it out here.
13:24Isn't this pretty, Jack Jack?
13:27Well, I didn't do it all alone.
13:29I had God and I had people who came into my life and just looked out for me for no
13:35reason.
13:36That was what I needed.
13:42Oh no, your jacket.
13:45I still have my moments.
13:47I'm not saying like, oh my gosh, I moved to Montana and now my life is perfect.
13:51It's not at all perfect.
13:53This is some snow.
13:56Well, you're being good.
13:58But I remember one day I was driving home.
14:00I was smiling and just like happy.
14:03I was like, nothing special had happened that made me happy, you know?
14:07I'm just like happy.
14:13It feels so good to have found a place that I realized like, this isn't temporary.
14:19Who knows?
14:20There might be a time in the future I got to start over again.
14:22But at least I know I can do it.
14:25There you go, honey.
14:27Ethan and Isaac have kept their promise.
14:30They're coming out to see me.
14:32I was absolutely heartbroken finding out that Galen and Isaac broke up and called Isaac and told him.
14:40I was like, I don't want to tell you this, but I think this is a bad decision.
14:46I think he feels right now like he's just not in the place that he wants to be.
14:54But you're never going to be ready.
14:57And don't let anyone pressure you.
14:59But if you wait your whole life to be ready for things, you're going to regret not taking certain leaps.
15:12That's just one of the ways that you end up building a great life is by taking
15:17chances and taking leaps that you don't feel ready for.
15:21And I'm not saying get married now.
15:23I'm not saying propose to her now, but being so scared of the future
15:32sometimes ends up holding you back.
15:34And trust me, I spent a lot of years running.
15:37I would know.
15:40Blackjack, there you are.
15:53Today I'm out here to meet Galen and just talk about, you know, everything that's happened lately.
16:03There were a few reasons why I broke up with her that, you know, were running around in my head.
16:09But I never really knew how much she meant to me until she was gone.
16:14All I've heard from her is that she wanted to take some time.
16:17I didn't know if it would be a week, a month.
16:19But it's only been a few days and she's ready to meet up. So I'm really anxious and nervous.
16:42So Isaac has been texting me and I just didn't necessarily know when
16:47would be the right time to talk just because him, you know, dropping me like out of nowhere.
16:55I do kind of feel like that was a little bit.
17:01Yeah.
17:03Just wondering what the heck is going on.
17:08Hey, Kayla.
17:12You want to sit in my truck and talk or?
17:14Yeah, we can.
17:16Okay.
17:31Well, over the past few days, I've talked to a bunch of my family members and they're like,
17:37well, after what you just told me, it sounds like you shouldn't have broken up with her.
17:41And then I realized, I mean, they were right.
17:51And I'm just really sorry I put you through that. You don't deserve that.
17:56You said that you were overthinking about a lot of stuff.
18:03But what happened with Ethan and Olivia and Micah and Veronica.
18:07And that kind of got to your head.
18:10Yeah, I know. I know that's different lives.
18:14That is nothing to do directly with me other than just seeing that for the past several years just
18:20kind of scared me.
18:23I try to be a very understanding person and try to see it from both sides.
18:27You should have just communicated with me about it.
18:30I know I should have and I don't want anybody else.
18:37The thought of trying to build something with somebody else makes me sick and I don't want that.
18:45The ball's in your court. I'm just letting you know where I stand.
18:50I don't take bullcrap. I know my self-worth.
18:54I know what I will and won't take.
19:13I would give anything to be able to have one more chance to make it right because
19:19I know that that's what I want.
19:22What else were you overthinking about?
19:26Because you had mentioned something about marriage.
19:29Did you think that I wanted it right away or something?
19:34Well, not right away, but with you being older and stuff.
19:40I mean, obviously marriage is on the table for me one day, but I never pressured you about marriage or
19:48really anything.
19:50I know. I just got caught up in my head about certain things and that's what it led to, but
19:56I really got a bunch of questions and a bunch of thoughts I was having all cleared up and answered
20:01in just the past few days. I just hate that I had to hurt you in the process.
20:07The day after it happened, obviously, you know, I was crying. I was upset and he called my parents.
20:14And I was like, why the heck did he call you?
20:17Mama was like, Kaelin, you could tell he was really confused and he was
20:21hurt and really bad and he was really upset too.
20:25She was like, I could tell that he kind of thought, shoot, what did I do?
20:30There are trust issues now and it's not something that you just give away. It's something that
20:38you have to earn over time with your actions.
20:41I know.
20:45Are you even willing to earn that trust back and everything?
20:50I'm willing to do whatever it takes.
20:57I can tell, you know, just from the way she's looking at me that, you know, she's not here to
21:03mess around. I know I've done a number on her. You know, it's up to her. I put myself in
21:09this
21:10situation. I can't, I got to be able to accept the, the results.
21:15And then, you know, one conversation is not going to.
21:18Obviously not. Yeah, I don't care if it takes a year.
21:22I mean, it doesn't matter what I have to do. All I need is one more chance.
21:33I don't give second chances out easily.
21:37I know in my heart that I do still love him and I, you know, I want to back together
21:42with him, but
21:44I think right now I am just trying to set some boundaries just because I just don't want to
21:49get hurt again.
21:52I'm willing to try every day to do better than I did the day before.
22:05Okay.
22:07Okay.
22:12Well, I won't let you down. I promise.
22:16Better not.
22:18I won't.
22:20Better not.
22:22He's my best friend.
22:26And we were just so close so fast. And obviously I do want to get back to that.
22:32I know for a fact he sweated it out some, even if it was for a short while.
22:37But I'm not going to sit here and drag it on because that's not fair to me. That's not fair
22:40to him.
22:41And I don't want to, I don't want to do that.
22:44I'm just hoping it's one of those things that will end up bringing us closer.
22:50I don't know. I'm at a loss of words. I don't know what to say. I really don't deserve a
22:54second
22:54chance, but that just gives me all the more, you know, motivation to be the man she needs.
23:03Would you want to get out and walk around a little bit or?
23:07Yeah, we can.
23:08It's really nice out.
23:10The only thing I want is to be able to build something real with her. I'm going to, you know,
23:16just be honest with her, communicate with her and, and stay true to her. But it's really good to just,
23:22you know, be able to hold her hand again after thinking I may never see her again.
23:27I mean, we're not in Hawaii.
23:29Right there. See, that looks good.
23:33You're squishing it now.
23:35No, it's fine.
23:50I texted Tegan and she texted me like 10 minutes later and said, what's tomorrow about?
23:55And she texted me and said, okay, do I get a hint about what it's about?
24:01Because I'm mildly stressed out with the sweating emoji.
24:06Now I don't know what to say.
24:16I kind of need somebody to talk to. Like if there's something seriously wrong,
24:20that's the flag I'm not seeing to tell me.
24:26Hey, I was just asking you a question. I got some roses for Tegan and I'm going to meet her
24:34tomorrow and give her the roses and tell her what my plans are. But I asked her if she could
24:39come to the park at some point because I had a surprise for her. But now she's all stressed out
24:44about what the surprise is and she wants a hint. I don't know what to tell her.
24:49You could just say I'm in town visiting and I just wanted to see you.
24:54Does she know you're in town?
24:55No.
24:58She knows you're going to be in town tomorrow.
25:02No.
25:04She knows she's meeting you at the park tomorrow.
25:08No.
25:11You going to tell her that you're going to meet her at the park?
25:15No, I wasn't going to. I was just going to surprise her.
25:19Just tell her you're having flowers delivered to the park tomorrow.
25:23Okay.
25:24And then she knows that it's headed in a direction of something sweet.
25:29You know, but then when she sees you're the one delivering the flowers, that'll be her surprise.
25:35To me, it's important to not lie.
25:37You know, and that's something that you could say that is true.
25:42What do you think?
25:43I'll just read you what I wrote and I haven't sent it yet, but you tell me if it's good.
25:47Well, I don't want you to be stressed out or anxious, so I'll give you a hint.
25:50I'm having flowers delivered to the park on the bench we sat on in July,
25:54along with something else I think you'll like.
25:56Do you think that's good or no?
25:57Yeah.
25:59My mom, bless her heart, she's been very supportive.
26:03It means a lot to me that she's there, just for like a woman's perspective, you know?
26:09Let me know how it goes.
26:10I will.
26:11Okay.
26:11I've waited for many months, you know?
26:14It's not like waiting another day is going to kill anything, but I am like pretty nervous,
26:23so I'm going to have to sit with that nervousness for another day.
26:27But that's okay.
26:29Bye.
26:36The plan is I'll just stay, you know, in my car.
26:39Why not just get a hotel? You can afford it, no?
26:42Yeah, but that's the thing. Like, even if you have money, if you get a hotel, that's still
26:48money you could keep, which why not?
26:51What I really want to do with my money is be able to
26:55very comfortably take care of the person I love and have, you know, family and all that.
27:02I just stay dressed, wrap up in a blanket. It's very comfortable. I just can't stretch out.
27:07You're asleep anyway, so you don't know if you're in a hotel or if you're in a car.
27:13I feel a little anxious about tomorrow. It's not easy, but I'm definitely willing to
27:20meet her where she's at and just see where things go.
27:27Kaelin said she wants me to prove to her with my actions. I am kind of nervous, you know?
27:36I've had a few of my close friends tell me, you know, just move on and remember it for what
27:42it was.
27:46But I just can't.
28:05Kaelin is going to be here soon. I got a lot of flowers. I got some candles as well.
28:10Tonight, I'm here at my mom's apartment that she uses as a vacation rental to do something a little
28:16nice for Kaelin. I think she definitely deserves it. I am kind of nervous, you know?
28:21Kaelin said she wants me to prove to her with my actions. Part of me is doing this because I
28:26said
28:26I would, but making her happy makes me happy, probably even more so than her. So the least
28:32I can do something like this I can do is something like this for her.
28:41Hey, Helen.
28:42Hi.
28:43Here you go.
28:44Oh my God.
28:49I spent a little time putting stuff up.
28:54Isaac, he's always been a romantic, but I would say, you know, him building back that trust,
29:01it's a work in progress. You know, it's not something that you can have overnight. It's
29:04something that you have to work on. But honestly, I've never had somebody do something like this for
29:09me. So I think it's like very, very sweet.
29:22What do you think, baby?
29:24Oh, I love it.
29:27It is a portrait of us and you paint it with numbers and stuff like that. And that's actually
29:34what I had gotten him before we broke up. Well, where's that painting now that you got him?
29:42In the dumpster.
29:44I know the story of you getting the other one and why you threw it out and everything,
29:49but I hope you like this one and this picture because I picked a different picture, but I did
29:53like this picture of us. I do like that picture too. Oh, I just saw that. That's cute.
30:01What? Where it says, I love you. I thought you would have noticed.
30:05No, I didn't until now.
30:07Kaylen's really happy and that makes me feel like I've done a good job and I'm glad she appreciates it.
30:12She sees and appreciates what I do and that's why I continue to do it.
30:17Are you excited to go to Montana? I'm very excited. I've always wanted to go to Montana.
30:22Definitely looking forward to seeing Mariah and Ethan in the big skies.
30:27Isaac invited me on a trip to see Mariah in Montana a few months ago,
30:32and I am so excited because it feels like it's been forever since I've seen her.
30:38I'm sure you heard Ethan's moving to Wisconsin.
30:40Yeah.
30:42They're going to try to work stuff out again or something because he's going back.
30:45Were you surprised when you heard that Ethan was going to be moving back up there?
30:49A little bit, but I also figured he would at some point since he didn't seem to be able to
30:54move on from her.
30:56I am, you know, a little worried because Olivia was the whole over several years.
31:00And then it kind of got rough with Tegan after Olivia and then they broke up.
31:05I want him to be able to stand up for himself.
31:07Yeah, I'm going to miss Ethan, him being around so much, but you never know. He may move back.
31:13I do think that Ethan's been a little bummed out.
31:15I know that he does love Tegan and he wants things to work out, but I do have sympathy for
31:20Tegan
31:21with everything that's gone on. But certain things that have been said and done, I don't agree with
31:27that she has done. I just want to make sure that, you know, like motives are what they should be
31:34and
31:35that everything works out the way she wants them to and how Ethan wants them to and that they're both
31:39going to be good.
31:42I guess he has to go shoot his shot and see.
31:45He's doing what he thinks is right and following his heart.
31:48I am very glad that you did this. It was really, really sweet.
31:52You're welcome.
31:53It turned out beautifully.
31:56Well, I tried. Can't say I didn't try. That does remind me, I do have...
32:06Something for me.
32:09Oh, that is a huge shot.
32:12There's two of them.
32:12Two?
32:13Uh-huh.
32:14Figured I'd get two, so that's one for you and one for you.
32:17I would say this date night is a 10 out of 10. He gets a lot of brownie points for
32:22this one.
32:23I just hope that this makes our relationship even stronger and I'm looking forward to a lot more
32:29dates just like this.
32:43I'm going to go to the park.
32:48And hopefully see Teagan in a minute.
32:54I haven't seen her in a long time, so I'm just really excited.
32:57I don't even know what I'm seeing.
33:00I'll see something.
33:02Yeah, I was just going to drop the roses on the bench when she says she's coming over and then
33:07I'll pull away so she doesn't see me there right away. And then I'll wait for her
33:14to get there and pick them up and then I'll pull up and get out and say hi.
33:21What do you think she's thinking?
33:23Well, I think she's thinking he's probably here and is up to something.
33:30I think Teagan may maybe just not say much or be really happy and excited or
33:40I don't know. I feel like I'm invading her personal space. I don't know.
33:45I really, really hope with everything that I am that there's a little something left
33:50I could maybe give it another shot and do it better, you know, be who Teagan needs in a relationship
33:56and
33:56be there for her mentally, emotionally, physically.
34:06I hope that she is open to hear what I have to say and
34:11just go from there. That's about all that I'm hoping for.
34:25It's an option that I could do all this and, you know, that door is closed. The chapter is over.
34:31I mean, that's a very real possibility, but I certainly hope and pray that that's not the case.
34:38If she called me, I was like, okay, I thought about it. This just isn't going to work. Don't come.
34:46I still would, you know, just to show her like, at least for once,
34:54I was serious and I did do what I said I was going to do.
35:20I've had a few of my close friends tell me, you know,
35:25just move on and remember it for what it was, but I just can't.
35:36And if nothing ever happens, then I guess that's my answer.
35:43I guess that's my answer, but I'll never know unless I try.
35:52I guess that's my answer, but I'll never know if that's my answer.
36:08His mic is not on.
36:32I feel the air go cold
36:38On this empty road, oh, no way I can turn around.
36:46This is crazy.
36:49In a good way, hopefully.
36:52Last night, I was a nervous wreck.
36:55We went to my car and we started talking.
36:58After not talking to each other, seeing each other for so long,
37:01it was good to have a deep conversation about where both of us are at
37:05and me moving there and everything.
37:10I was just shocked seeing him.
37:14I don't know.
37:15I think just too shocked to really feel anything else.
37:18You know, nice seeing an old friend.
37:21I don't know what to say.
37:24Yeah, just shocked.
37:26And, I mean, we aren't dating, so he's supposed to be down in Georgia.
37:30Not here, so.
37:37I told him when we broke up that I would never date him again
37:41if he wasn't living here or nearby, so that was and is a deal breaker for me.
37:46I also talked to him when we broke up, and I reminded him last night
37:50that I don't want to date him if he's still married.
37:53And so, those are just the two main, I guess, deal breakers, per se, with him, exactly.
38:02Um, and is he still married?
38:05Uh, Ethan is still married as far as I know.
38:09There's a good rock to stand on.
38:10It's stable.
38:11I know, but I've got to get there.
38:16Now that I'm here and I've told Tegan everything, she's waiting to see me actually move here.
38:27Is that right or no?
38:28Uh, yeah, I just mean, like, I'll believe it when I see it,
38:32and that our current relationship isn't going to change for the time being.
38:37And so, if he moves here, he moves here.
38:39If he doesn't, he doesn't move here, move to Minnesota, stay down there, move to Africa.
38:45Like, whatever you need to do.
38:47Move to Africa?
38:48Yeah.
38:49I am moving here.
38:51Okay.
38:56I don't think it's a matter of believing or not.
38:58I don't think you should distrust people.
39:01I think you should just trust people based on what they've showed you.
39:04So, like, just, I trust already how he is.
39:07So, we'll see if the patterns change, I guess.
39:11I don't really know.
39:15That's perfectly fair.
39:21I think it's just a personal choice I need to make.
39:24This all happened yesterday, and so I sort of need some time.
39:30Have you changed your mind in any way, Ethan, or are you sticking to the plan?
39:35No, my plans have not changed at all.
39:37I'm just very excited.
39:39I can't wait.
39:40Regardless of whatever our future looks like, I know this is what I need to do.
39:44This is what I'm going to do, and I want to very much.
39:50Okay, well, I should probably get going, so maybe see you in Montana.
39:55I really hope you do come.
39:57We'll see.
39:58Maybe.
39:59Ethan and I talked about going to visit Mariah in Montana before we broke up.
40:03I've never been to Montana.
40:05I enjoy his family, so I sort of want to go.
40:10But on the other hand, that's a lot of time with Ethan.
40:13And I know I can be friends, but I'm more worried about can he be not weird and just be
40:19friends.
40:22Well.
40:24Can I hug you for a bit?
40:26Nope.
40:27Goodbye.
40:28Goodbye.
40:29I hope you have a safe trip back down.
40:32I will.
40:34Goodbye.
40:36Goodbye.
40:36Goodbye.
40:48Yeah, I think there's definitely a possibility he doesn't move.
40:51It's just Ethan Plath, so I never really know what to think.
40:55You know, sometimes when you get told things, you know, time and time again, it's sort of hard to believe.
40:59So I'm just, I'll believe it when I see it.
41:32Cheers to being back at the farm.
41:35Here, here.
41:38If we were a horse and a cowboy, who would ride who?
41:44What's a more family-friendly answer?
41:46All this vibrating is causing my butt to itch.
41:50Dad has recently started talking to ladies.
41:53All I knew was you were blonde and very good-looking.
41:57Keep these compliments coming.
41:59I like what I see.
42:01Montana is going to be fun.
42:03Well, you know, I asked Tegan to come.
42:07Are you friends?
42:08I don't like you behind me.
42:10You're so close.
42:11Wake up.
42:12What do you think?
42:14Why come to a whole different state with your ex-boyfriend and his family if you're not going to make
42:20that effort?
42:22Oh, my God.
42:23What am I doing here?
42:26Kim is definitely dealing with some guilt and some shame.
42:29You've got to release it.
42:31Because it's time.
42:33Is this a bad conversation?
42:36I've heard things just around, you know, a lot of money you've spent with her.
42:40Apparently, you and Zach have sat down people and explained to them that they weren't godly enough or whatever.
42:48They're only going to end up alienating themselves from the family, and I don't want that.
42:52Do you know what Zach told me about you?
42:57Okay.
42:58That definitely pisses me off.
43:01I'm experiencing something wrong, and I feel the need to speak up about it.
43:06We are all family, so we're going to talk about each other.
43:10Lydia and Zach are doing what they asked us not to.
43:13It's just not always pleasant when you are given a list of things that, like, someone doesn't approve of.
43:19You're exporting your opinion into lands that don't want to import.
43:23Man, so I'm a problem for the whole family.
43:25God, cool.
43:26Zach, you're a part of the family now.
43:28Try to build a relationship with you, and you're making it hard to do that.
43:32Am I supposed to just wrestle them and just have a...
43:36I don't know.
43:37I don't know what to do.
43:41This is going to be uncomfortable.
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