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00:02do you feel a bit rusty yes very rusty definitely need a wd for our day i need some help
00:10it's hard
00:11out there i am very single at the moment i've run out of swipes i've completed tinder
00:18in the heart of britain's most romantic city
00:23fred and his team this is captain fur potato are matching hopeful singletons we're getting married
00:30merlin in a place where love is always on the menu i've got a bit in your finger you didn't
00:36go that
00:36far down the street these daters he probably thinks i'm having a poo or something are searching
00:46for the one would you chase me around the bedroom absolutely get your coat i'm in for some stepping
00:55into the unknown can lead to surprising sparks i work in the adult industry do you have an office for
01:03that i have a dungeon but finding a connection a love story is about to begin shut up isn't always
01:12easy
01:12please tell me you actually last longer than three minutes
01:20in the end it comes down to one big question would you guys have to see each other again
01:30this isn't a total quick is it this is the first dates restaurants
01:44my first ever date i asked the school if she would like to come up the park and have a
01:49picnic
01:52watch the mountains and heard of us wow
01:59where do you see your future i see myself in a good few years i would love to be
02:03in the countryside a hundred percent love getting out and about you know the fresh air
02:09really good for the soul it's really healthy bird watching is just a really peaceful way to get your
02:15mind calm i think like there's a lot of busyness in the world i think it's important to have that
02:22like sense of quiet because i'm crazy so being in like a field with nothing is amazing and i think
02:29when
02:29i have my beautiful organic children and they're just running around living their best life on a farm
02:36i'm happy definitely this is amber she's looking to inject a breath of fresh air into her love life
02:45when i was at school everyone was meant to be a doctor or a lawyer maybe a brain surgeon
02:51and i was like i really want to be a stay-at-home mom
02:56i'm here to find the love of my life hopefully
03:02hello how are you amber i'm good how are you this was like a royal walk just the way you
03:07enter
03:08yeah your hair your coat on your shoulders such elegance thank you tell me where do you live
03:13buckinghamshire so you like the countryside yes i do you i horse ride oh i pretend i'm organic
03:20you pretend you're organic yeah i love that being out and dating i find it interesting seeing how
03:28boys approach you and some like can't look you in the eye some get nervous but i need a man
03:35not a boy
03:37would you like a drink please can i have a nice red wine yes you can so what is your
03:42job
03:42i was a nanny you're a nanny and i left my nanny family right so sad um with three babies
03:49and now i am jobless no more changing nappies until my own my own babies come yeah and so what
03:57is your type tall dark handsome if this was a famous person who would it be robert pattinson
04:05i love robert pattinson people say they think you look like somebody famous i've had robert
04:11pattinson a few times i don't really agree with it i think robert pattinson's way better looking than
04:16me looking to sink his teeth into love is 26 year old james i remember like when i was a
04:26little kid
04:26thinking oh yeah girls are this you know mysterious kind of creature and you know and then you get a
04:33bit
04:33older and you kind of get some you know more experienced things then it brings you back to
04:37that feeling of being 16 15 and it's quite nice can't be too can you no it's great here we
04:45go
04:45time for a new change new horizons getting out there this is not on my bingo card but that's what
04:52life's for man nice to meet you too was that him oh my god are you feeling about today yeah
04:58i'm okay
04:58okay i'm okay yeah yeah a little bit nervous but you know why not oh what are you searching for
05:04someone who is up for being active someone down for a bit of a laugh and that can kind of
05:09hold
05:09their own and being able to kind of give it back is quite important please
05:17hello hello i'm amber james how are you i'm good how are you yeah i'm all right thanks i'm all
05:23right
05:23are you getting a drink absolutely i'll get a beer or something a beer hello mate can i get a
05:30beer
05:30please pint or bottle uh pint please pint would be great so where are you from i'm from buckinghamshire
05:36okay okay i like more country okay i can get yeah i can get into london like if i need
05:42to
05:42and do you work in london no no but i actually start a new job tomorrow but i was a
05:47nanny i've
05:48been a nanny and a pa no way for like five six years with people families are you ready for
05:54yeah for a bit of something to eat yep let's do it this way thank you
06:03i think it's a bit too fruity for me though yeah i want to see i want to feel it
06:07hit the
06:08back of my throat you're going there like she she she i can feel it like love i can feel
06:15it
06:18how do you describe myself i'm like a firm apple like a granny smith a little bit of that kind
06:27of sourness it's like oh i've got some sass like there's some resistance when you sink your teeth
06:33into it that that kind of apple
06:40this is artist sanna from finland she's looking to be drawn to her perfect muse
06:47i'm a creative artist peacock wonder freak
06:53i see my face as a canvas when i do my makeup i do full-on like impressions of people
07:00here is one
07:01that's johnny death inspired i mean i have my kooky ideas but the right person would find me
07:10absolutely alluring like an adventure like sitting on a magic carpet ride
07:17how are you hi tell me what's dating been like for you recently um uneventful really yeah
07:26there's no men in finland so i wasn't dating for three years so when i moved to london 10 years
07:32ago
07:32i probably went up went on 50 dates that first year and then that didn't work out so i'm obviously
07:37here to to meet a man oh so come on tell me what are you looking for sanna i am
07:44looking for a curious
07:45spirit and i run on all six cylinders so it would be great for somebody to if they're not running
07:50on all six then they can handle me at my six joie de vivre yeah so my type i am
08:00really weak for brown
08:01eyes broad shoulders someone who smells good and piratey bohemian rock and roll creative look like
08:10johnny derp why is the rum always gone
08:19we need the eye makeup and the bandana hoping his pirate looks can work a bit of magic on his
08:28date
08:28tonight is clint when i was doing my first magic show on stage and there's a really bad magic show
08:36and then there was an agent who said you look a little bit like jack sparrow if you brought the
08:40costume i could get you some work so i got the costume and then i started doing magic as jack
08:47sparrow and it's like it's like a really fun time just to be a pirate how are you doing man
08:55i love your
08:56look man i love your head thank you i made it myself oh do you yeah nice your date has
09:00arrived
09:01if you look to the right of my shoulder she's at the bar looking for love i'm looking to meet
09:11somebody that's really creative really a little bit out there like i want this quirky just there
09:19not like that quirky there's a fine line between quirky and owning like a thousand cats
09:26i'm excited should we go and see you yeah yeah yeah i'll let you ah thank you thank you
09:33hi hiya how are you good thanks how are you yeah good you lovely to meet you and you you've
09:39got a
09:39nice accent oh you've i love your scent do you sorry uh i'm sanna clint clint yeah i like your
09:46style
09:46thanks i like yours thank you thank you you're very cool yeah yeah yeah you too you too are you
09:52a
09:52musician everyone says yeah yeah it's the look i'm a magician okay yes i do magical things and then
10:00you've got a bunny inside your hat have you could you imagine have you been to bath before no it's
10:07my
10:07first time but it felt like it felt like it's me a little bit like is that weird yeah yeah
10:12like verona
10:13i was watching romey and juliet last night and they're in verona sounds so bad you know like
10:18people like watching documentaries about like serial killers now i like hearing about bad days
10:23do you like serial killers as well because i'm a bit like a i'm a little bit of a serial
10:27killer
10:27encyclopedia so what's your can't say favorite serial killer can i jeffrey dharma
10:36what's it wait you were telling me what else you're into i'm a closet nerd and like a massive like
10:42anime fan star wars and stuff like that okay what are you interested in like what about music
10:48i like listening to songs do you go out raving no okay oh my god no i write songs as
10:55well sometimes
10:56oh wow that's cool i taught myself in lockdown do you do anything in i learned how to horse ride
11:02oh no
11:02way i share a horse with my friend oh sweet okay yeah um i'm actually not allowed to currently see
11:07him
11:07um um my horse because no because i am i broke up with my ex-boyfriend and the horse lives
11:15on the font
11:16we met during school times and we parted ways because being a nanny made me realize what i wanted
11:21in my future and what i wanted with children and so did he and it was two different things we
11:29were
11:3725 i was really lucky to have my mum at home with me but i used to then say okay
11:42when i want children
11:43then i would want to be the same as my mom what's the dream outcome for this day like a
11:50massive rock on
11:51this thing when's your birthday 20th of april oh that's nice everyone in my family's in april apart
11:59from me nice nice green flag wait until i tell you this next bit i have the same birthday as
12:05hitler
12:08hey so that's kind of like a red flag but i've got no i wouldn't shout that out
12:14got no connections to the man at all should i tell you now or later that i'm Jewish
12:21okay i think i'm gonna have to get a steak what do you fancy i was thinking like a chicken
12:38burger
12:39i eat like chicken all the time yeah i can see you as a chicken boy you're calling me a
12:44coward or
12:44no you just called me a chicken basically you're eating chicken
12:51so i'm like really weird i don't like cheese okay just don't have a taste of it yeah it's
12:56fine but don't worry zero judgment honestly that's like so refreshing to hear can i just say
13:02hello how are you doing good how are you i'm really well good anything particularly eye-catching
13:08i think we're both feeling steak yeah nice yeah is that because i called you a chicken boy yeah that's
13:14it
13:16okay i hope you don't mind my saying sorry don't you really look like yeah you get this all the
13:21time you know the geezer from twilight yeah yeah yeah i said that he was my celebrity crush did you
13:28really so the vibe that you're giving me to like kate middleton yeah i'll take that i love that
13:35yeah yeah yeah thank you yeah what a pairing i'll take that yeah oh sorry sorry so i'm gonna say
13:42something to you and i'm take it as a compliment yes you got a pirate vibe going on yeah start
13:50with a j
13:50enter the d yeah yeah i actually got down to being uh johnny duck's body job really
14:00so robert pattinson yeah that's so funny that she said that because i literally i was like yeah
14:04he would be my celeb crush yeah there we go now the green flag there we go um wait but
14:11keep on
14:11telling me about you obviously like well into traveling okay green flag yeah yeah go away all the time
14:17um as much well as much as i can you know had a a trip to to lisbon it didn't
14:23go very well why
14:24i split with my ex-girlfriend on the plane over there it was it was like a mutual thing and
14:31um it
14:31kind of all all this stuff kind of came out sorry it wasn't a great breakup i think it was
14:36over the
14:36english channel there's plans to like move in and live together and that kind of you know ended
14:43not super long ago both kind of realized the relationship just wasn't right for either of us
14:48and you know feelings come out and things get said but you've got to kind of get through the
14:55trip ended up getting a flight back a couple a day early yeah it was it was difficult
15:05but you know so that chapter is very much closed and very much like kind of ready to move on
15:12i guess
15:14so that's kind of partly why i moved to london so like started a new job and wanted to get
15:18settled into that and not be away a lot so yeah i can't be i'm starting a job tomorrow sorry
15:22it's
15:23just i've never done sales yeah ever you know you've got back yourself i've never done the whole on the
15:27phone how hard can it be how hard can sales be i work in finance so i just spend a
15:32lot of time like
15:33speaking to people on the phone and stuff okay so so call me do you want me to call you
15:37okay go
15:38let's pretend that this is hi is this amber speaking look reason for the call today yeah
15:44is i want to tell you about this fantastic product that we're selling it's for investing okay what do you
15:49look for in an investment product lots of money there you go the thing with it is it's not like
15:53that was
15:54really smooth though it's just gotta ask questions okay you just gotta ask yeah it bloated i wasn't
15:58like no yeah exactly put the phone down i believe in you what is that is that chocolate no this
16:06is a
16:06passion fruit how did i think that was chocolate maybe you're you know hankering for chocolate right
16:12now what's your why have you got go-to chocolate my most favorite chocolates you can't get in the uk
16:17okay unfortunately the finished ones okay sad oh you need a chocolate deal like that things are
16:23yeah yeah that's what you need when i come back i always have a a suitcase full of all my
16:29goodies
16:29it lasts me a week every time really i don't understand the people
16:35that eat a bit of chocolate and put it away in the fridge no no no i keep going
16:43yeah do you ever miss home all the time but i miss i miss my family more than than home
16:50itself
16:50so i miss them every day my mum and dad split up when i was three and a half four
16:58i always felt like my dad wasn't there i very much wanted his approval very much wanted his love
17:06so when i moved to london i was on a mission i wanted to prove that if i was chosen
17:11by enough men
17:13that it was okay that my dad didn't choose me so i was looking for my dad's approval in all
17:19of these
17:20you know pointless dates i tried so hard to be liked and to be chosen and now that i've chosen
17:29myself
17:30i'm ready to take someone else on fully
17:35so did you say you've been to bath before no did you come today yesterday did you come today no
17:41yesterday as well we could have been past each other it's possible do you think you would have gone
17:47do you think they would have been like it possibly possibly do you know what once i've cut my hair
17:53i do feel uncolored it i feel like you're any outfit looks just a million times better i agree with
18:00you
18:00do you know what i mean hello how would you describe yourself energetic a bit chaotic enthusiastic i
18:10get told that a lot and like bubbly those sorts of words we live on fascination so i am a
18:16civil servant
18:17but i have quite a lot of hobbies um so far i tried pottery and stuff like that but pole
18:22dancing is
18:23actually my main hobby 26 year old priya is no longer dancing around when it comes to love so i've
18:31been single forever people see me as just like a very single person i've posted instagram stories
18:39before as a joke saying if you fancy me tell me and no one's listening to the dms
18:47so i am here because i decided that this year i would manifest finding some love for me
18:55nice to meet you nice to meet you too you're so vibrant i do try yeah what are you doing
18:59your
19:00spare time i'm a pole dancer and yes i am i mean i can touch my toes i mean look
19:05there you go you're
19:07fine that's pretty good i've got like the eight inch stripper heels it feels like i'm like liberating
19:14something from within but i can see that some people would frown upon it if somebody would ever
19:20judge me for that then they're probably not somebody that i'd want in my life anyway so
19:26shall i get you a little drink while you're waiting for your date what would you like
19:29anything elderflower we all right yeah leave it with me i'm quite a busy girly and quite energetic
19:34person so i wouldn't mind someone someone to balance me out of it perhaps i definitely am
19:41attracted to people who have their own sense of style and sometimes if it's a bit quirky
19:45definitely very attractive thank you very much enjoy thanks all of the redheads that i've ended up
19:52fancying are always just very cool people i do edge towards creative people i would be down for just
20:00some cute wholesome activities i yeah i'm quite a keen bird watcher which is kind of an interesting
20:08one for me to disclose because it makes me sound a bit like a 80 year old man this is
20:14katie who's
20:15hoping their love life will finally take flight i can recognize birds by their sound like the robin
20:21is kind of a bit of a beatboxer so that's a good one i think people perceive me to be
20:27quite unique
20:28kind of bright and vivid i get commented on how i kind of look like a cbeebies presenter or something
20:34but yeah i feel quite confident in myself i think most people in their mid-20s are maybe looking for
20:41something more casual but i'm just looking for that settling down bit hopefully hey how are you i'm not
20:49bad how are you nice to meet you should i take your jacket yes thank you what are you looking
20:53for
20:54someone fun someone nice friendly well i definitely got that for you i i really just like someone who
21:00they know their own mind and they know what they like and what they care about i like it if
21:04someone has a set of interests and hobbies having an idea of the person through how they present
21:10themselves hi nice to meet you i love your earrings yeah why not my name's what's your name i'm katie
21:18nice thank you very much wow earrings i know yours are so cool oh my gosh rings check yeah love
21:30i know also i love your eye lines there's a red and orange yeah it's a cool vibe it's a
21:35cool vibe
21:36i've got a very warm face like very friendly you know
21:39uh-huh i'm feeling i'm getting the same energy here yeah
21:48are you vegetarian yes well pescatarian okay oh wait i got you a little oh my gosh something
21:57it was vegan just in case thank you so much that's really sweet yeah what are your pronouns sorry
22:03yeah okay um i'm gonna love it great so this is good this is gonna sound really hypocritical you're
22:12not gonna say a cheesecake you're joking sounds really joking what's got cheese in it i do like a
22:19cheesecake i would eat a cheesecake i would eat a tiramisu he's very good looking i fancied him
22:27we're a little bit different i think maybe i don't know if i'm a bit much for him actually i
22:33just i just don't know at all how he feels about me i really really couldn't tell what's your meal
22:40deal i feel like that's a telling question about a person it was you know what m and s their
22:46beef
22:47and caramelized onion sandwich is my favorite thing in the whole world marks and spencer's yeah
22:51there we go there we go sorry
23:04what's the damage on this what's the damage
23:11so would you like to see each other again you can go best i had a great time i just
23:16i would do but
23:17i think it was like a friend capacity i i think it's like very personal but um i just didn't
23:21get
23:21that kind of you know want a girlfriend thing i just i thought we got them really well yeah
23:26similar kind of personalities in some ways i think it would just be better as mates i think
23:30that sort of thing that's fine
23:33good stuff there you go great you like mark's dispensers and i like tesco yeah there we go big
23:41big problem maybe it's down to the supermarket okay see you later bye so nice to meet you lovely to
23:48meet you safe journey home bye-bye
23:53see you later bye
24:01he couldn't give a valid reason of why you know he's beating around the bush like what is your reason
24:07what do you think britain's saying that he's more of a tesco guy and you're more
24:12cop-out like what do you mean i literally said one sandwich i liked from there i'm going to maldi
24:19like
24:20like but that's okay nice mail free so there we go the joke is on it
24:29i shouldn't have said that
24:34what are you doing merlin
24:35you're not called merlin for nothing yeah you're a real musician
24:41so i heard a rumor about you that you are actually magic
24:50we're about to be serenaded by magic if you take out a card it could be anyone you want
24:57i'll take that one yeah have a look at it
25:02five across i think so but we need to pick the stable ones
25:08and sign your name uh really big on the card
25:15this falls over is your fault yeah card here it's fine if you say stop whenever you like
25:28stop oh oh no and that was my misdirection
25:39nothing broken your oh it did so if you turn over yeah yeah
25:51oh my god you should do this for a living
25:59the hardest part of street performing is drawing in the crowd you literally have to stand on the box
26:05and talk to no one for a long period of time and sometimes no one stops but eventually you get
26:12two
26:13people stop and watch you and then you concentrate on them and then you build the edge of the crowd
26:18out
26:19and when you get a really good show on the street and you're in that flow state
26:23and you're performing and you've stopped people going from where they're going and
26:27they're watching you it's the biggest buzz and it's the biggest buzz in the world
26:33the complete opposite how i am on stage to how i am and it's like um one of my things
26:40is like
26:42learning to be okay with rejection so this was like a big thing for me
26:49i think i'm like marmite so i think when you see me it's either you you like or you don't
26:55like
26:57i'd love to find someone who get that amazing feeling like where someone feels like your home
27:05do you think i'm hard to read
27:07hmm i've had harder where did you learn to
27:15check your book purse really it keeps going it keeps going check it have a look
27:30it's not in there that would have been great though
27:45i'm excited now because it's spring yeah and everything is popping up that's right yeah
27:49that means i can start working on my loan
27:54i'm a bird watcher oh you were back oh my god that's so cool
27:57let me hang out with the 60 year old men
27:59i'm like a chaotic hobby girly what hobby i did pottery at the beginning of this year
28:04pottery is so cool so i'm a pole dancer mostly
28:10when i started it was more like pole fitness um and then i got more into the dance side because
28:14i
28:14realized that like a lot of the pole fitness studios especially i did it because i wanted to
28:18dance and pole fitness isn't dancing this isn't my vibe and then i realized that also a lot of the
28:23pole fitness studios are like sanitizing the roots of pole dancing as a south asian woman my family
28:29definitely could have disowned me in terms of the cultural stigma but my family are very liberal
28:36mom has come to every single one of my performances she she's been in the front row of all of
28:42them
28:43it's a huge part of my life now because there's just a huge community i felt like my confidence just
28:48increased a lot so i felt like i could express my identity a bit more and a bit more comfortable
28:52like in my like queerness and who do you date do you date like only non-men or do you
28:58date everyone
28:59yeah only non-men okay so i've got a whole gamut oh like i feel like i'm ready to let
29:07somebody in to
29:08my life in that capacity for the first time like to properly commit because i feel like yeah just very
29:14confident in who i am this is the first day in two years so i haven't really wow okay wait
29:21to come
29:22back like hello i thought that i'm dating girls are good yeah you have really light blue eyes
29:37this has been real good way yeah how was it i really really liked him i mean we have a
29:46lot
29:46in common when he first walked in i thought okay similar vibe i think he might have been a little
29:54bit hard to read possibly a little bit reserved as well thank you thank god
30:05so would you like to see each other again should i go first ladies first oh yeah i'd like to
30:12see
30:12clint again same yeah of course why wouldn't i don't forget your hat your beautiful hat oh yeah oh my
30:22god i couldn't read you so because you said that you were hard to read so i thought was that
30:27maybe
30:28you projecting to me oh yeah i can't read you yeah i think i think maybe it's my thing it's
30:33a me
30:33thing okay oh my god look at this it's like a garden of eden yeah you're a cool dude yeah
30:41and i think
30:41you're layered yeah yeah yeah i'm like an onion yeah the more you peel the more it stinks but in
30:46a good
30:46way in a good way and you like my smell yeah that was a fair yeah yeah yeah yeah i
30:51don't stink
30:51no no no it's a good it's good stench i'm looking forward to what other kind of magic tricks you've
30:57got obviously we better find a bar then yeah shall we yeah i think so
31:05i think the older you get the more you are at peace the older people come in you can tell
31:11they're comfortable with themselves yeah and they're gregarious and they talk to people
31:15yeah and i'm just like okay because of what they got to lose what they got to lose
31:22this is chrissy i'm naughty yeah i have show when it comes to dating she's not
31:32pussy-footing around i do what i want to do when i want to do it i don't answer to
31:37anybody
31:39don't try and tie me down because it won't work once it's in the bedroom
31:48i just hit the dating apps and i thought well there you go this is what it's all about one
31:54guy i met and he said he had a present for me and uh you can imagine what it was
31:59where did you get off giving me a vibrator i mean really
32:06feels a filthy habit how are you i'm very well thank you how are you i'm very good good
32:12so have you been on the blind date before i have never been on a blind date in my life
32:18i am fiery and feisty and i'm spicy but i'm not like that on a first date i wouldn't
32:24go in like a rottweiler and terrify somebody and frighten them off hello hello there what would you
32:31like to drink chrissy a bucks fizz a bucks fizz yeah that's okay thank you do you go on many
32:36dates
32:36for the last two years i have been on lots of dates actually have you i have what am i
32:42looking for
32:43someone's got their own interests smartly dressed clean then a gentleman hold your coat up for you
32:50pays the bill i think those things are important so you like your independence yes i do yes do you
32:57want
32:58a boyfriend kind of thing yeah yeah basically yes but not not one that wants to see me all the
33:04time
33:04yeah almost like a friend with benefits i'll have a squeeze a squeeze yeah
33:10i want someone that can match me a bit um cheeky is sex important to you uh it's a bonus
33:21god my daughter's gonna watch this this is jan
33:27who's looking to add a little spice to his retirement plan
33:32it would be lovely to find a lady who can laugh at themselves
33:39with a wicked and naughty sense of humor sly
33:43a little look at the side to see yeah that's really dark etc
33:51yeah it's incredibly hard to define
33:55how are you i'm good sir how are you yes very good thank you very much i like your look
34:01you're
34:02really relaxed am i when was the last time you went on a first date or a blind date never
34:07never never
34:08i've been single for eight years i like independent women i don't need anybody and i like women who don't
34:17need anybody but they would like to have someone in their lives hello hello hello
34:24my name's jan hello john i'm chrissy chrissy lovely to meet you good afternoon good i have a gnt
34:32please gnt where have you come from um north london i was from south london south london oh
34:39south london you know what i mean yeah south london cheers cheers cheers nice to meet you love you blue
34:46thank you very much hello fred can i take you to your table oh sure thank you shall we go
34:54thank you yeah i'll take that thank you very much what a gentleman what a gentleman now come on
34:59stop selling me points scored come on we're going thank you jan so what do you do
35:07our technical title is a solidarity coordinator and it's for a disability arts organization yeah
35:13i mean i'm disabled like just had to have a really dramatic entrance into the world by being like
35:17strangled while i was being born and like so i became disabled because of lack of oxygen
35:22my mom she worked for um like disabled children so she knew what my diagnosis was before they even
35:29diagnosed me because she was like this child seems like to seem to have cerebral palsy like and she went
35:34to the doctors and they were like they just scattered my brain and they were like yeah
35:39my mom is a big part of the reason why i'm so confident like within myself and also as a
35:44disabled
35:45person because she never made me feel like it was burdensome or difficult and rather that it's
35:50the world that's burdensome and difficult to disabled people for not being set up in the right way
35:56there was a time i think where i was like you know insecure and i think i just got to
36:00a point where
36:00i was like actually like you either like yourself or you spend like what 80 years feeling a bit
36:05rubbish yes like like why not why not just be like i'm great i'm disabled and really happy about being
36:13disabled and i think a lot of people are quite surprised when i say i wouldn't want to change
36:17anything i really love the kind of body and the mind that i've ended up in oh my god this
36:22looks good
36:22your cocktail is it right hello it matches your vibe as well i'm not gonna lie guys you guys can
36:28you
36:28say both of your hair is sensational i know i feel like i'm cheating by complimenting yours it's very
36:33similar to mine i love a red head i'm not gonna lie it's a cool vibe it's a cool vibe
36:39and you really
36:40pull off the shaved head look as well how old are you as it's you and we're here i'm 79
36:5179 yeah
36:53you're fantastic for 79 thank you i hope it i can last another week and that sounds
37:02in a couple of weeks i will be 75 and well you look bloody amazing too well thank you um
37:10probably
37:10because i don't drink or smoke my my late husband he liked a glass of white wine really so i
37:16was always
37:17the chauffeur and have you dated since since your husband's i have i mean he died 12 years ago what
37:24did
37:24you die we were on holiday in crete celebrating our 40th wedding anniversary it's the last day of
37:30the holiday and he died of a heart attack it was all pretty shocking and traumatizing i would say
37:38he knew me better than i knew me actually you just imagine you'd be married forever you don't
37:44imagine to go on holiday with your husband to celebrate 40 years wedding anniversary and come home
37:50with just a suitcase of clothes which is awful you don't know what you can deal with until it's
37:56thrown at you it's funny how that it it slowly dawns on you that you are coping isn't it because
38:02there
38:02is no alternative exactly you don't know how strong you're going to be or how you're going to handle
38:08these things until it happens to you but you just deal with it you just get on with it and
38:12you deal with
38:12it so that kind of toughened you up do you find it harder because you know what you like now
38:19as
38:20opposed to when you're much younger i am fussier i know what i like i know what i don't like
38:24i know
38:25what i don't want i know what i you're kind of formed aren't you yeah i know i'd never want
38:30to live
38:30with a man again oh good you don't live with a man either you got there before me yes
38:43what are you reading about fred it's a chronicle of the french revolution a chronicle of the french
38:47revolution it's really detailed is that are you going to college again or something or i'm not
38:51quite sure really what the french revolution did there's a lot of things i'm unsure of so i want
38:56to make my own mind up well how i mean how about brexit i mean i don't but brexit divided
39:05so many people
39:06yeah i don't talk about brexit and politics religion i don't like talking about it fine
39:22how old are you by the way 26 how old are you 26 i had to google it i was
39:27like if i was born
39:27in 1998 how old am i i thought i was 27 for a second i don't know why
39:37i saw a woodpecker the other day woodpeckers aren't blue
39:42no it was from a distance caught most birds are
39:50children children yes i have two grown-up sons and i have seven grandchildren i have no i've got
40:00three children you haven't got any children they've seen my life so they can so you're divorced yes oh
40:10your divorce oh yes yeah mum went to the other side of the world without the children yes okay i
40:17was
40:17i'm not passing any judgment their mother remarried had another child and then one day said i'm going
40:27to the other side of the world it was like that bang and dumbstruck
40:38and my children were school age so i sat my kids down and i said do you want to go
40:46the youngest was
40:47really confused obviously the oldest said no i said we're going to stay together
40:56and we did it gave me an amazing experience of course it did you're probably closer to your
41:03children now than you ever would have been last summer there was a wedding in france and my daughter
41:10came over to me and she said would you dance oh how lovely that made your day that made your
41:18year
41:18made my life yeah made your life when a daughter comes to ask her dad to dance yes yes that's
41:25probably
41:25the greatest compliment you can as a girl how's the journey looking it's uh it's looking like
41:34something it's moon and jelly i can see it it's proper wibbly wobbly you know
41:45uh yes um he's very nice do you know he is very nice and we've had a laugh
41:53but you know what i mean hello gorgeous people so i have for you wow that is i know what
42:04you're
42:04thinking yeah this is actually a representative of the dome of the building oh am i see of course
42:10what else would it be lovely lovely the last time i ate jelly was when i had norovirus last year
42:18so i shouldn't say that sorry who are you snogging i think to be fair now that i think about
42:25it
42:26that might be one of the best birthdays that i've had i think it's just rare to have that many
42:32things
42:32in common i could definitely feel some flirty vibes both ways i think
42:42that's good
42:47should we go dutch yeah let's okay do you like to see each other again i'm gonna let you go
42:55first you're
42:56gonna make me go first are you yeah i definitely would good because i would also that's good i feel
43:03like it would be insane to not see you again we're like this similar but also very different which is
43:10perfect because you don't mix alone i don't know if i talk as fast as you do but i feel
43:14like we're
43:14relatively well paced so like we could probably get to like the fifth date in like two dates time
43:20exactly it was honestly really one of my best best days ever i know don't ask like what a moment
43:28that needs to go back
43:32sorry jan that was a mile away that toilet do you think i've done a runner yeah imagine i've had
43:39a
43:39very nice meal have you i've enjoyed i've enjoyed your company enormously oh have you that's really
43:45nice i've enjoyed your company that's good i did ask for a gentleman then when i think fred come
43:52to take us up to the table he picked my drink up for me i thought that was really nice
43:57obviously
43:58i'm getting this so we're not going to go through that are you sure well thank you very much i
44:02appreciate my pleasure hello watch up we meet again what's my fortune don't give up
44:11i would never give up nor would i would you like to see a gentleman there would you like me
44:19to go
44:19first yes you go first okay yes that's very kind thank you it's very nice of you i'm not sure
44:29is the truth i thought i thought we had a lovely date good i thought you were lovely i loved
44:34your mind
44:35but i'm not sure it would be any more than like a friendship i completely agree with the friendship
44:43there do you absolutely well that's all right then isn't it yeah that's when i thought we'd be good
44:48friends okay french is cool yeah i'm okay with that i'm all right with that good that was incredibly
44:55cheap anyway saying i'm a cheap date
44:59you mentioned friends with benefits i think we could be very nice folks i think we could enjoy
45:08each other's company yes occasionally yes i think we could and then i will probably find another woman
45:15and you'll be weeping we had a lovely time you think we're nice i'm a smashing time