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90 Day The Single Life - S05E11
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00:01Previously on The Single Life,
00:03we have so much in common.
00:05We do, yeah.
00:06We converse very well.
00:07Yeah, we do.
00:07And it's been like that from the beginning, too.
00:10Wayne is so cute.
00:11This legit might be my person.
00:14We got to do this more often.
00:15I know, definitely.
00:16But do I really want to invest my time and money
00:19to go over to another country to have my heart broken again?
00:26We are in Hollywood.
00:27Oh, my God, look who's here.
00:29Yeah.
00:30I can't wait to spend time with Natalie again.
00:32And I'm going to meet her daughter, Bella.
00:34I'm surprised I'm meeting you today.
00:36I didn't expect that.
00:37Well, I'm surprised you're even here, to be honest.
00:40Yeah.
00:41I know how close Natalie and Bella are.
00:43And if there's going to be any chance for our relationship
00:46to work, I'm going to have to win Bella over.
00:51So first of all, Cole wants to apologize.
00:54Maybe if you two were together alone for a few days,
00:58you could work this out.
01:00I'm not going to be one of his options and his love triangle.
01:04It's like you had me and you lost me.
01:07I feel a little bad for trashing Colt to his mom,
01:10but I need to be honest with her.
01:11There's no world where I'd get back with Colt.
01:14I'm done.
01:17Do you mind if I grab a dance with my girl?
01:22Are you serious?
01:23You said that you don't want to dance.
01:24If this is how he's acting in the middle of a freaking dance class,
01:28we might have even bigger problems than I originally thought.
01:32I'm just like really done with this .
01:47Good morning, beautiful.
01:49Good morning.
01:50How are you feeling this morning?
01:52I'm feeling good.
01:53I'm feeling good too.
01:55That was one wild, crazy night.
02:06That was pure madness.
02:08How'd you like your lap dance?
02:10Ah, the lap dance was amazing.
02:12Good, I'm glad.
02:14Last night, Natalie took me to a strip club in LA
02:17and we had an amazing, terrific time.
02:20Both of us were like hot and sweaty by the time it was done
02:24and we were horny and excited to like have some real fun.
02:28I unleashed the beast last night.
02:31You were a wild and crazy man.
02:33The sex was so much better than the first time.
02:36Seeing this freaky side of Natalie took all my anxiety away.
02:40I had no problem throwing my hat off and getting down.
02:46So, yeah.
02:49So, what are we gonna do today?
02:51Plan for the day is to meet my family.
02:53Do you know where we're going or anything?
02:55It's a surprise.
02:56But we need to get going because the reservation's coming up soon.
02:59Okay, let's hit the road.
03:01Today, Gino and I are meeting up with my daughter Bella
03:03and my brother Nick.
03:06Do we have a car picking this up?
03:08We're walking.
03:09Are we walking?
03:09We're walking.
03:10Oh, my goodness gracious.
03:12Bella is skeptical about Gino because what's happened in the past.
03:16But I'm hoping everybody can have fun.
03:19Just let their guard down.
03:21Because my feelings for Gino are only getting stronger.
03:24And I really need for everybody in my family,
03:27especially Bella, to be on board.
03:29Nick.
03:31Nick.
03:32Oh, hi.
03:33Hey.
03:33How are you doing?
03:34How are you?
03:36I'm doing good.
03:37Oh, nice to meet you.
03:38This is Gino.
03:39How are you doing?
03:39Nice meeting you, finally.
03:41Nice meeting you, too.
03:42This is my twin brother.
03:43Twin brother.
03:44Yeah.
03:44Yeah.
03:45Yeah.
03:45She's a pretty twin.
03:46Yeah.
03:48No, I think you're the pretty twin.
03:50I can see the resemblance.
03:52The first time Natalie dating Gino, everything went to crap.
03:56Everything was a nightmare.
03:57She was calling me crying all the time.
04:00And I mean, he broke her heart.
04:02So when Natalie told me she was dating Gino again,
04:05I thought she was crazy.
04:06This is going to be a whole huge drama mess.
04:09Like every other relationship she's been through.
04:12We're going to see some entertainment.
04:14Have you ever seen a drag show before?
04:16Drag show?
04:17I've heard of them, but I've never seen one.
04:20You're in Bertree.
04:21Oh, yeah.
04:21Is Bella there already?
04:22Have you talked to her?
04:23I haven't seen Isabella since yesterday.
04:25You haven't talked to her?
04:26Not since yesterday.
04:29I'm just going to text her real quick.
04:34Yesterday when Bella dropped her mom off at the hotel,
04:37she was really cold to me and had an attitude.
04:41I can't help but wonder if the reason is because of me.
04:46Okay.
04:47I texted.
04:48All right.
04:49So we're good to go?
04:50Yeah, let's go.
04:51We're going to miss the show.
04:53Okay.
04:53Stop worrying.
04:54I'm not.
04:54Yeah.
04:55Don't worry about anything.
04:56It's not good for that pretty face.
04:57Stop.
05:01I'm a girl you see on the street.
05:03Drove love boy down to my feet.
05:05I like when you're underneath.
05:07What?
05:10How's everybody doing today?
05:13Are you all ready to get started?
05:15Yeah.
05:16Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the stage, Penny Ridge Rapper.
05:25I have never been to a drag queen show before.
05:29Being here in person is freaking amazing.
05:39And they're putting their in my face.
05:48This is what I love about Natalie.
05:50She brings me out of my shell or even out of my comfort zone.
05:54And she can do that to me.
06:04Yeah.
06:05You all have a good time for this today?
06:07Yeah.
06:09Yeah.
06:14After the show really clears out, doesn't it?
06:17Yeah.
06:17Man, I wish Bella was here.
06:19She's not responding to me.
06:21Really?
06:22That's weird.
06:24She's not coming.
06:26She texted you?
06:27Yeah.
06:31Bella arranged the whole thing to come here.
06:34And at the last minute, something just went off.
06:36She just doesn't like Gino.
06:38She doesn't trust him.
06:39All she wants to make sure is her mom is happy.
06:42And she doesn't think Gino is that person.
06:46I'm sad myself because I wanted to get to know her a little bit.
06:49It seems like she doesn't want to meet you.
06:51You think so?
06:53She's told me she does not like him.
06:55And that's the reason why she did not come.
06:57I mean, you're still married.
06:59Your ex attacks Natalie.
07:00That's ridiculous.
07:02We came to where she lives so that she could see we've gone past it.
07:07But she hasn't gone past it.
07:08That's the problem.
07:10We don't have to deal with Jasmine anymore.
07:12So take Jasmine out of the equation.
07:14And everything has been progressing really good.
07:17Like we are having fun together.
07:18So have you filed for divorce?
07:28Bella has a lot of anger towards me.
07:31And Nick, he's kind of questioning if I'm the right person for her as well.
07:36So everything I did to rebuild my relationship with Natalie is falling apart.
07:43I mean, I don't blame Isabella.
07:45You're still married to another woman.
07:47And she doesn't want to see her mother hurt.
07:50I get it.
07:51She wants to look out for me.
07:52And I love her.
07:53And I appreciate that.
07:55But I still would like her to give him a chance.
07:59You're just going to have to show her it's not like the other relationships that you have in the past.
08:06She comes first.
08:09Bella has never seen me happy with a man in my entire life.
08:13They are toxic.
08:15They're liars.
08:16They're not honest.
08:17I had an ex that was a serial cheater.
08:20And I knew it.
08:22So when it comes to Gino, Bella has her guard up.
08:25I think she is very protective and very leery of his intentions.
08:32You're going to have to win her over.
08:34She's the hard one to win over.
08:35Yeah.
08:36And I don't piss her off.
08:37We're going to give you a break.
08:41Yeah.
08:42I'm trying to find out what it is that makes it always feel like this.
08:46I'm so tired.
08:48Six, seven, walk her through.
08:50We go one, two.
08:51We go forward tap.
08:53What the ****?
08:55I just don't freaking get it.
09:11I asked you if you want to dance, and you said no.
09:13So then I told you I'm going to dance with somebody else, and I did,
09:16and then you interrupted me in the middle of the dance.
09:18I wanted you to have fun, and I wanted you to come into my world.
09:22I was. I enjoyed the dancing. I was having fun.
09:25So what's the problem, then?
09:26I mean, we just talked about coming to his class,
09:30learning how to dance, and social was out of nowhere.
09:34And all of a sudden, we talk about that, and then you storm off,
09:37find some Vin Diesel guy, or actually a guy who looks just like your ex,
09:40and you're just having a good time.
09:42Are you kidding me?
09:43So here's the thing. You're going to Ibiza in a couple weeks.
09:46There's going to be many socials in Ibiza, too.
09:48And there's going to be many socials in Croatia, as well.
09:51So you think I'm going to go cheat on you with a guy in Ibiza?
09:53What I'm trying to say is, if you're going to dance with random guys,
09:55what's going to happen?
09:57And they want to have a good time.
10:00They want to have a good time, so because they want to have a good time,
10:03I need to be punished, and I'm going to be...
10:05Punished?
10:05And I'm going to be...
10:06Yeah, so you're trying to accuse me of something that I haven't even done yet.
10:09So you have freedom of reigns to do whatever you want and dance with whatever you want.
10:11No, I just don't understand, Tony, because...
10:13Because it's like a vacation.
10:13Listen, I danced with a guy after a dance class,
10:16after you said that you don't want to dance,
10:17and now you're accusing me of dancing with random guys in Ibiza,
10:21and potentially cheating on you.
10:22You just said you would.
10:23Well, like, you're literally putting words in my mouth.
10:26I never said that.
10:31He knew I was a dancer when we started dating.
10:34He knew I was a dancer when we were friends.
10:37I feel like at this point in our relationship, he should trust me.
10:40He should know who I am.
10:42He should know what I stand for.
10:43He should know that I would not do anything to disrespect him
10:46or put our relationship in jeopardy.
10:49Tony is projecting his own insecurity on me,
10:53and I'm really hurt by that.
10:54I don't think I deserve it.
10:57You don't see a problem here at all.
10:59You're not even looking at it from my perspective at all?
11:01What is the freaking problem?
11:02I think the problem is actually us.
11:05Because you look at it as, hey, this is my everyday life.
11:07This is what I've been doing for years.
11:08This is my passion.
11:09I see it as, this is not appropriate for a new relationship.
11:12That's the problem.
11:13So you're stopping me from being who I am
11:15because I'm in a relationship with you.
11:17No, I think there's compromise.
11:18Like, this is...
11:18There's compromise.
11:19We're not having it.
11:20We're not having compromise.
11:21This is unbelievable, Tony.
11:22This is really, it's...
11:23It's not, it's compromised.
11:25You ruined everything.
11:26So I hope you're happy.
11:28I need to go find my freaking phone.
11:30I'm taking an Uber home, and this is it.
11:31I'm done with this.
11:36She's been single for a very long time.
11:38She still does things her own way.
11:40I'm concerned that sometimes Vanya may not look at the big picture of
11:44when you're in a relationship, it's about compromise.
11:46And to me, dance is very central.
11:48Dance has a lot of feelings attached.
11:51And, you know, it's very easy to fall in love with your dance partner.
11:54She's going to storm off again?
11:56No, I just...
11:56I'm done, Tony.
11:57I'm calling an Uber, and I'm going home.
11:59And I brought up concerns about her traveling and dancing with other guys in other clubs,
12:03and she completely said, hey, that's my prerogative, is to have fun.
12:07Hey, by the way, Tony, just trust me.
12:09When I can't even trust her when I'm watching her and with her.
12:12So that's it.
12:13That's it.
12:14She's going to storm out again.
12:15Yeah.
12:16Really?
12:17Yeah.
12:17There's no compromise.
12:18There's no resolution to anything now, is there?
12:20What compromise is there?
12:21Really?
12:22You're accusing me of being somebody who has nefarious intentions in mind, and I don't.
12:26She said you can do whatever you want.
12:27You said I can have fun, I can dance to whatever, and that's...
12:31What do you want me to do?
12:32Then just stay in my hotel room the whole time I'm there?
12:35Maybe you should enjoy.
12:36Enjoy an visa.
12:37You know.
12:39We'll see how it works out when you get back then.
12:42Now you're threatening me.
12:44What?
12:48You obviously don't trust me, and I'm going home.
13:02Seriously.
13:04Seriously.
13:06This guy is acting like a complete control freak.
13:10Trying to tell me how to live my life.
13:12It is unacceptable.
13:13I'm a grown woman.
13:14I can make my own decisions.
13:16I'm not going to be told what I can and cannot do.
13:18Will you go watch me?
13:23I'm capable of having a dance with someone and not have sex with them.
13:26I mean, what else do you think is going to happen here?
13:29This is really making me worried about our relationship going forward, because if this is how Tony is acting when
13:36we're together, I cannot even imagine what he's going to be like once we're apart for two weeks.
13:41It's really scaring me.
13:43It's not going to lie.
13:59It's not.
14:02It's not about me.
14:16Now what do we need these for what do you want avocado we're on a diet
14:37I'm gonna get a cabbage gonna make some cabbage rolls
14:42So I talked to Cole. Oh my gosh. Where is he at? No, he's in Brazil. He went to Brazil.
14:49Yeah
14:49to see the other woman
14:50For the last month
14:53I haven't been in touch with Colt because I needed a break from that dumpster fire of a relationship
14:59But he called me out of the blue this morning from Brazil
15:03Did he go back to Canada when no?
15:06I guess I guess he went straight from Florida to Brazil. Oh my gosh
15:11Seriously, yeah, I thought Cole went to Canada to live with his mom
15:16I found out the whole time. He's been in Brazil with Diana the woman. He's been sending videos to
15:23Okay, they're saying the ligaments and his knee need to be replaced
15:27So he has to have another surgery, but he said he's found a doctor here that will accept the insurance
15:33That's a year. Yeah in Orlando. So I guess he's coming back. He's not staying. He's not staying at our
15:39place. No. No, no
15:41Okay, oh
15:43My gosh one thing we've learned from this experience is there's no stranger is gonna stay at our house again
15:49ever
15:50It's not gonna happen that gonna happen
15:52Is he still in the wheelchair or is he yeah?
15:55Well, I guess the doorways are small there so he's been using crutches because the wheelchair and walker are too
16:00big
16:00How's he gonna get around? Yeah
16:02He can't drive. No, I said I'd go pick him up and like help him get situated in the hotel
16:08Picking up Colt from the airport is gonna be torture. You know, we had a really strong connection
16:14There's still some type of bond
16:17Which is maybe really dumb, but I feel responsible for him. Does he want to try to get back with
16:23you?
16:24I don't know what he wants. No, don't let it happen
16:29He's not gonna be faithful
16:31Yeah, yeah, no, I think he's gonna lie and keep lying and lying. I don't trust him
16:36So it's like how can I be with somebody I don't trust?
16:39When he you keep lying about stuff
16:44You're not sincere. Yeah, I don't see any sincerity at all to this. No respect
16:49I mean leave our godder alone
16:55Well, if it was me I would be over with it, but
17:01It's you I think you're strong enough, but when he
17:04Cast that fishing line and reeled you back in and you know, he's gonna try
17:10You don't revolve your life around him. No, no
17:14Because he could care less about you. He's just using you once again
17:18Yeah, I feel he can't use me because I'm offering help. I'm offering to do this for him
17:22I want to do this for him. So it's like he's not using me. It's like he's not playing me.
17:26He's playing himself
17:27But then how far are you gonna take this? Yeah, I just want to you know get him from the
17:33airport to the hotel
17:33Yeah, okay set boundaries like all the crying and stuff
17:37I've been doing I think it's just like feeling sorry for him
17:40Like he might be permanently disabled. So I cry more about his leg than about him dating other women
17:47I know my parents are worried about Cole breaking my heart again
17:51They see that he still affects me and like the truth is I don't know what I'm gonna feel when
17:58I see him
17:59We had such a deep intense connection and you can't just turn that off
18:05I feel like Colt has some type of crazy power over me and I don't really trust myself with him
18:11Life is way too short to be putting up with that fill your life with happy things
18:16I will you want the donuts
18:18No, I think I need the wine
18:33Yay stockings here. You can hang your own stocking up son
18:37All right, boom
18:41Okay, there we go. Look at that. Look at that
18:45You already have stuff in your stocking. Is it candy? Oh, yeah, I gotta get one. Okay
18:51This isn't good. It's been in there since last year
19:07Here we go
19:09Grand Illuminate
19:12It actually looks pretty good. Do you remember this monkey grandma bought this for you? So I'll let you hang
19:16that
19:18Just hang it neck near her picture. Yeah, it's cute, huh?
19:22Christmas is in a few weeks and I'm really really excited because it's my favorite holiday
19:27Everything's all sparkly. Everybody's just nice and it brings back so many happy memories of my mom and my sister
19:33and previous holidays
19:34When I do stuff like this, it reminds me of grandma because this was like our thing and my grandma
19:39It was like our thing was to like decorate, you know
19:41So it's gonna be our thing now? I think so and I think we should include Larry in this as
19:45well
19:45Because he doesn't know any of our stuff. He doesn't know anything. You want to call him? Yeah
19:50Christmas is all about family
19:52And this Christmas is even more special because my family just got bigger
19:57My relationship with my son that I placed for adoption is just getting better and better
20:02We video chat all the time and it's really become a special part of my life
20:07Hey
20:09What's up, y'all?
20:10What's up? How are you?
20:12I'm doing good, man. It looks like y'all in the Christmas spirit
20:15Yeah
20:16I'm really excited to talk to him today and show him my Christmas decorations
20:20But I also have some news to share with both him and Jamal
20:23So we thought we would call you and get you in the Christmas spirit with us
20:27Yeah, for sure
20:28So Jamal's gonna carry you around
20:30Let's go for a tour
20:31All right, look, so this is my little tree. I like bling. You know, I'm all about the glitter
20:36I love the sequins and stuff. So this is instead of doing a star. I do a top hat. Isn't
20:40it cute?
20:41Isn't it cute?
20:44It's so cute and then I do stockings
20:48Am I gonna get a stocking?
20:50Yes, you're gonna get a stocking. Of course you are
20:54There was never a holiday
20:56A birthday or any other day in 35 years that I did not think about larry or my daughter
21:03I always wondered like what kind of life they had
21:07How they celebrated their birthdays how they celebrated their holidays
21:11That's my hair
21:13A little flat
21:16I'm so grateful to larry that he gave me the chance to make up for lost time
21:22I'm really glad that you can enjoy some of this with us
21:25Yeah, for sure
21:26So yeah, and I'm glad that we have communication especially now. I think the communication is a lot better
21:31Now that I've been I agree
21:33I'm free
21:33So speaking of that
21:35I told you guys about the guy that i've been talking to in england
21:40And i'm going he invited me to come so i'm gonna go and meet him
21:44I mean everybody deserves a chance at love so
21:48I don't see why you wouldn't take it. Just don't get your hopes up. No, you know what I'm saying
21:52A little bit
21:53Just a little bit of hope
21:54No, not let's just stay neutral
21:56I mean just go over there with an open mind
21:58Yeah, I like him, but i'm not i'm not doing what I did with Usman. It's a totally different thing.
22:04I've learned from my mistakes
22:07Don't look so skeptical
22:09No, I am
22:10I can't help but naturally be concerned when you take these trips for men that you haven't met
22:15You're gonna fly by yourself. You're gonna be there by yourself
22:18I remember even when you go to nigeria by yourself. You would call me and be like, I wish you
22:22were here
22:23Why don't you go with me? What are you doing? No, no. Why is that not too much?
22:28Why don't you go? You don't have to meet him like the first day, but you should maybe you should
22:31go with me
22:32Go jamal
22:32You should go
22:34Yeah, you should go. You should definitely go. I do wish I would have went to nigeria sooner
22:38Me too because maybe I could have helped in that one faster
22:42The men you've met they're so nice to you in the beginning and they they trap you because you get
22:47stuck and you fall fast
22:48So luckily when i'm there, maybe i'll be able to talk to her and be like just remember to not
22:53give too much in the beginning
22:55Because you do that all the time
22:56Yeah
22:58In the past once my mom really starts to like a guy she starts believing whatever they say
23:04So I really do hope wayne is this nice guy that he's been telling her that he is
23:09Because my mom's heart cannot take much more
23:12I feel like now everybody everybody's in place. I'm working on myself. It's time for me to go and find
23:17love
23:17Well, I think you've had a lot off your shoulders. Yeah
23:22Like telling you about your sister and everything telling me about him and telling yeah him about her. Yeah speaking
23:28of
23:29Sister I reached out to the adoption agency like we all agreed upon to try to find her and well.
23:34They sent me a letter
23:36Her adopted mom had wrote me a letter. So I have the letter
23:39It's like 10 pages long and I was waiting for an opportunity to just kind of bring it out. I
23:44want to see it all right
23:46When the adoption agency told me they had a letter about my daughter from when she was six years old.
23:52I was stunned
23:54This was dated november 26 98
23:59Okay, it says to the birth mother of our beloved daughter r
24:04She came home with us in january of 93
24:07She was then and has continued to this day to be a healthy and happy child
24:14I
24:14Can't read this yeah
24:15I want something this is crazy
24:35I
24:36Haven't seen tony since our dance class a few nights ago and
24:39Obviously things ended on a really bad note
24:43I'm really nervous. It's not an easy thing to like have that huge blow up and then off I go
24:49for half a month
24:50I wish I knew better
24:52Tony is coming over to take me to the airport and it's awful because i'm leaving for a two and
25:13a half week vacation to europe
25:15This is not how I wanted to leave things between us
25:21Hey
25:29I I made us a little snack. So have a seat. I'll go grab it
25:35Having seen tony and his reaction during the dance class
25:39It has me worried that this kind of jealousy and control is only going to get amplified while i'm gone
25:46Then it could be the end of us
25:52So how are you feeling
25:55I mean
25:57I know you're leaving soon, so I thought we at least talk about you know what's going on and
26:04I just don't want this tension anymore
26:08So what's what's what's on your mind?
26:11I do trust you but the words escalated the emotions escalated and all of a sudden you left and i'm
26:17like wow
26:18Are we really just throwing it away?
26:22Yeah, I I agree that that wasn't the best thing to do. I shouldn't have
26:28Done what I did like stormed out, but I you know, I was
26:32I was very upset
26:34But at the end of the day you you mean the world to me and I want to make sure
26:39that when i'm away
26:40That you feel comfortable that you're not, you know thinking what am I doing? What's going on?
26:45Am I putting our relationship in jeopardy because I would never do anything like that?
26:53Thank you. I mean that means a lot to me
26:56I'm not trying to say hey listen to either you dance or it's me
26:59I just really want to make sure that we're on the same page going forward and you know this upcoming
27:05trip
27:05I just don't want it to be about
27:07Us not talking a lack of communication or if there's tension. I just don't want it to just linger. I
27:13agree
27:14We're not going to go
27:16Sleep angry. We're not going to let the day end with us not having a resolution. Okay. I like that
27:23Okay, I'm just gonna put this in the kitchen and then
27:26We can skedaddle
27:29We both took responsibility for what we did wrong and a feeling a little bit more secure
27:34Wanya, I'm gonna help grab your luggage. Okay. Okay. Thank you. All right
27:38But at the same time our relationship is just starting to take the next step
27:43We even started saying I love you to each other
27:46And now I'm leaving immediately for two and a half weeks. I mean this gives us no time together to
27:52hug and kiss and just be good
27:55Oh
28:08Sucks
28:10Baby, I'm gonna miss you so much. Oh my god. I can't believe we're here already
28:17Ah
28:17Oh
28:19We're gonna try as much as possible. Let's keep in touch
28:22All right
28:24All right
28:24Love you baby
28:32Next up is gonna be a together trip
28:34Absolutely. Okay. Okay. I miss you already. I miss you too, baby. All right. Bye. Bye, babe
28:44I
28:45Feel like our relationship is so new that there there is worry
28:49The last few weeks we've had a great foundation and I really hope this trip is not going to test
28:54it to the point where
28:55She's going to realize that the single life is better for her
28:58I would be in shambles if I lost Vanya. It would break me apart
29:03There are so many variables that could go wrong on this trip
29:07And I hope we can get through it, but I would be lying if I said I wasn't concerned
29:13Because if he has another meltdown while i'm away
29:16I don't think our relationship can survive
29:19There's blood in the water
29:36To the birth mother of our beloved daughter r
29:42I can't read this this is crazy
29:55This letter was not delivered to me almost 30 years ago because I moved around a lot I was in
30:00the military
30:01So I just never received it
30:03It's very emotional for me
30:05Because it's like me getting to know her it means so much to get a glimpse into what her life
30:11was like growing up
30:12I got it
30:15Her developmental skills progressed normally except in one area where she proved exceptionally gifted
30:22She's very verbal. I guess she talks like her mama, right?
30:26Our vocabulary is tremendous her thoughts and desires at a level beyond her six years
30:32We hope to keep her in private school as long as we can afford it
30:36Our favorite food is pasta pasta pasta
30:39That's her italian side. She is also a great vegetable eater. We have a large vegetable garden. She loves to
30:45go out and pick vegetables for dinner
30:47She had a pretty nice life
30:49I think reading this letter and finding out these things about her like now we know her name starts with
30:56an r
30:57We know she had a vegetable garden. We know she went to private school
31:05Sorry
31:09And it's like a bittersweet feeling right like
31:12It makes her more real to me and it just makes me so happy to know that she was raised
31:17so well
31:20We are indeed thankful for having her in our lives and love her very much with best best wishes to
31:26you and yours
31:26Yes
31:28It's really intense
31:31Um, I'm really glad that she's had such a good life like that's that's why I did what I did,
31:36you know
31:36Because I know I couldn't provide that for you or her
31:39Like I can't say like I regret what I've done. I can't say that now
31:42I can say that the way I handled it was up, but I can't like
31:47I can't like feel bad for what I did, you know
31:51Yeah, and that's why I keep trying to tell you since you know day one
31:54So I'm glad you finally kind of you know seeing it for yourself, too. Yeah
32:01The decision to place my children up for adoption was the most heartbreaking decisions I've ever had to make in
32:07my whole life
32:10Now
32:1234 years later, I can honestly say I'm at peace. I feel like I
32:18Did what was best for my children?
32:21And really at the end of the day, that's all that matters to me
32:25All we can do now is just wait
32:29Yeah, we'll see
32:30What happens I do have a feeling we're going to find her. I hope like I'm very positive about that.
32:36I hope so
32:41I
32:41I'm gonna try calling her
32:44Huh? Hi Bella. I just wanted to know why you didn't show up today. I can't stand by and watch
32:50you embarrass yourself by associating
32:52You know with such a troll like Gino
32:55Whoa, I care about Gino, but this is a lot bigger than
32:59My daughter not wanting to meet a guy that I'm dating
33:08You don't want it like that slow
33:11Calluses on my hands breathe
33:14You might want to release the air
33:17Oh, you want to sit down? Yeah for a moment
33:20Enjoy this beautiful
33:22fire pit
33:24Yeah, oh they got blankets
33:26This is kind of like camping or something. I don't know
33:29We just don't have a tent
33:30Lift it
33:31That was rough
33:44Yeah
33:44I'm a little bit
33:46I don't know concerned now because
33:49Nick is saying that
33:51She she doesn't like me
33:53Well, she doesn't know you
33:57One of the big reasons that I came to LA
34:00Was to get to know Natalie's daughter Bella
34:03But when it was time to hang out
34:06She never showed
34:08Apparently Bella's mad at me because Jasmine attacked Natalie last year
34:14You definitely want to have approval of the family members or
34:17You know the chances of this relationship working is not very good
34:23But i'm going to try calling her
34:30Hello? Hi Bella? Hi
34:34It's mom. How are you? I'm fine
34:37Um, I just wanted to know why you didn't show up today
34:43I just want to say what I have to say honestly and then you can do whatever you want
34:49I love you, but I can't stand by and watch you embarrass yourself by associating
34:54You know with such a troll like gino
34:58I don't see why you feel the need to extend any grace to him at all after how badly he
35:02disrespected you in michigan
35:05You're a grown woman you can make your own decisions but at this point don't expect me to support it
35:09anymore
35:10Well, uh
35:13And I just think you're just too beautiful and smart and successful to be with such a spineless loser like
35:17him
35:19And I wish you saw that too
35:21I love you, but that's just really all I want you to hear from me
35:28Whoa
35:32She does not like me
35:39Are you okay?
35:40No
35:44I want to throw up
35:47That was a lot of nasty words that bella was saying about me
35:51How bad of a person I am what trash I am loser whatever
35:57She didn't even give me a chance you didn't even show up and meet me. I mean come on you
36:02Don't judge me based on you know what you hear for one incident
36:08It's not fair
36:11After all of that you know, how do you feel about me? I guess
36:19My feelings for you haven't changed
36:24However, I would like her blessing
36:29Okay, so okay
36:32So basically our relationship is kind of like on hold till you get her blessing
36:39She's my number one to my number one priority
36:44So what happened if she doesn't change your mind and she
36:49Doesn't give her blessing what would happen you think between us?
36:53I need to talk to her and then when as soon as I get the answer i'll talk to you
36:59Are you gonna stay over my place tonight? I'm gonna try to go over to see bella
37:06Okay, it's important to me that we don't end a conversation on a negative note
37:13Okay, that's fair. Thank you. I get it
37:18I care about Gino, but this is a lot bigger than
37:22My daughter not wanting to meet a guy that i'm dating
37:26All right, that's uh, let's go let's go
37:31Bella doesn't trust my judgment
37:33She's never seen me in a healthy relationship. All right. Well, let me get packing
37:39And it makes me feel like a failure
37:41As a parent that I was not able to show my daughter that I
37:47Am capable of being in a good relationship
37:51And I just want to go and I want to comfort her and I want to let her know that
37:54I'm okay and safe
37:56She's my priority
37:58Okay, well, I better get going
38:01Well, I had a really good time me too
38:03So
38:07The last two days have been awesome
38:10Oh, yeah, I know they have yeah, they've been awesome
38:16The hardest thing is what if my daughter never accepts him where would this relationship go and I think he
38:23knows the answer
38:26That's something I really don't want to deal with at this moment
38:31I don't want to talk about this anymore
38:34We'll have to see each other again soon. Yeah
38:38Bye. Take care
38:42I
38:43I thought that this trip would bring natalie and I closer together
38:47I could use a drink
38:48I imagine hitting it off with bella and then in the future potentially becoming a father figure to her
38:57I've always wanted to be a dad so her daughter not wanting anything to do with me
39:03It's impacting the dreams that I had for my life
39:08And it makes me really sad
39:26Next time on the single life
39:29Let me touch it
39:31Oh
39:32Wow, okay
39:33Going into this day, I don't really have any expectations
39:37He's cute
39:37It's a good body. It seems fun. Like this is literally one of the reasons I came to DR to
39:41just have fun
39:48Whoa is that the queen of england hello peasants hello
39:53After talking to wayne for the past three months. I am in jolly old england to meet him in person
40:00Wow, I'm really hopeful that by the end of this trip. I do go home in a relationship
40:06Now I have to ask you. Okay. Are you dating now here?
40:12Hey, Natalie, what's up?
40:18I don't know where things stand. I was hoping that at some point you would talk to bella to see
40:24how she feels
40:25Because I know at the time you were saying if she didn't like me that you know, we wouldn't have
40:32a relationship
40:33Has that changed at all with her?
40:36I mean
40:41Hey, courtney
40:44I'm going through a lot of internal conflict right now. I still care about colt and I still have love
40:50for him
40:52But then my mind's like this lying cheating manipulative son of a bitch
40:57Did you sleep with diana?
40:59Can't say I didn't do that
41:02Well, I'm glad you worked for her
41:07Here we go Ibiza bitches
41:08I'm trying to go with sonala listen to some music and then you send me a message and another and
41:14another
41:14You're ruining my night, but on top of it i'm there with my cousin and i'm embarrassed in front of
41:19her all over again
41:20I need to understand what caused you to do what you did
41:24If tony wants to be with me, he's going to have to change
41:28fast
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