#video #90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days - Season 8 - Episode 09: Initial Descent
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00:00:00Maki Maki.
00:00:02Maki Maki.
00:00:03Yes.
00:00:04Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:06I feel honored you are going to introduce me to your family.
00:00:11If you don't have kids, they won't give the blessing.
00:00:15This trip is very important, but before we meet her family,
00:00:20I have to tell Trish about spending time with my ex in Colombia.
00:00:24I just don't know how she's going to take it.
00:00:29Tell me something interesting about Birkan.
00:00:34Birkan'ın bilinmeyen bir yanı var.
00:00:37Kanka, kumar oynamaya devam ettiğini biliyorum.
00:00:42I gamble every day.
00:00:44Every opportunity I have.
00:00:46Sen süreyi uzaktıkça olun sana olan tepkisi de büyüyecek bence.
00:00:50But what?
00:00:53You practice Levyar regime?
00:00:56I have been with a woman before, yes, sir.
00:00:59You don't practice it anymore?
00:01:00No, sir.
00:01:03Do you lie?
00:01:05I am not a liar, uncle.
00:01:08Okay.
00:01:09I will give you guys my blessing.
00:01:13I am thrilled I have the blessing.
00:01:16But I feel guilty as all hell, because I am lying.
00:01:24On our second anniversary, you forgot this is your thing, being unromantic.
00:01:31I mean, is that not romantic?
00:01:33Like, making sure your lights is on, because you're at home, and then I'm working.
00:01:39I'm getting tired of this.
00:01:41Every time you do something for me, you throw it to my face.
00:01:45From now on, I don't want you to give me anything anymore.
00:01:51You're lying about...
00:01:53Okay, the difference between Ziad and I.
00:01:55Why are you...
00:01:55Everything I've said...
00:01:56I know, but I'm speaking.
00:01:58Everything I've said...
00:01:59When I'm talking, you should listen to me.
00:02:00I do respect you, but...
00:02:01You're so disrespectful.
00:02:03You are, you are, you are, you are.
00:02:09Zero percent.
00:02:10So you're saying in this very moment, you see zero percent chance of me being your wife?
00:02:14I need more time to know you, and you need more time.
00:02:17But you're at zero?
00:02:18Zero.
00:02:45So there's zero percent chance you want to marry me?
00:02:47Are we not going to discuss it?
00:02:49I want to just sleep.
00:02:51Zero percent, Ziad.
00:02:52So that's what you're feeling right now about us, zero percent.
00:02:56And I don't know why you would say that in front of your friends, when it's like my first
00:02:59time meeting them.
00:03:01Do you not think that's disrespectful, to talk to me like that as one of your friends?
00:03:05Disrespectful is, when someone speaks, we have to listen to him.
00:03:09I listen, all I do is listen to him.
00:03:11No, no, you didn't.
00:03:11You are always difficult, you can't...
00:03:13I'm always difficult?
00:03:15Let me speak.
00:03:15How am I difficult, Ziad?
00:03:18You've said one thing to me online, and then I get you...
00:03:20I don't hear nothing what you say.
00:03:21No, you just keep...
00:03:22So you don't care about my feelings that I'm upset right now?
00:03:24No, no, no, no.
00:03:25Okay, Ziad.
00:03:26You can go to sleep.
00:03:27Okay.
00:03:29So good night.
00:03:31I say good night.
00:03:32Okay.
00:03:34Okay.
00:03:54I have some tea for you.
00:04:10This morning, I woke up, and I'm just almost at my breaking point.
00:04:14I came all the way to Morocco, and I've given this relationship my all, and to hear that Ziad
00:04:20is 0% sure of having a future with me, I'm just confused.
00:04:26Before I came to Morocco, he showed me an engagement ring, saying that it was here and waiting for me.
00:04:32I spent thousands of dollars to come here, just to be sitting here right now with Ziad,
00:04:37and then for Ziad to be saying he's 0% sure, I really feel like I deserve some answers.
00:04:44So how are you feeling after, like, what happened with your friends last night?
00:04:50They gave us their opinions.
00:04:52Yeah.
00:04:54And I feel good to see them, too.
00:04:56I mean, it was nice to meet your friends, and I know that we have a lot to work on,
00:05:02but before I got here, you made it seem like we were ready to be engaged,
00:05:07and then I meet your friends, and you're, like, 0% sure.
00:05:10It makes me feel like we're never going to get married, we're never going to get engaged.
00:05:14This whole trip was a waste of my time and money that I don't have,
00:05:19and I'm basically here for, like, no reason.
00:05:24I say it's 0% for the moment.
00:05:28It's like, why now?
00:05:30You don't understand me, so...
00:05:32But how am I not... I understand what that means, so what am I not understanding about that?
00:05:36In your mind.
00:05:37Do you realize everything you've said about me since I got here has been negative?
00:05:44It seems like you're always mad at me. I'm always doing something wrong.
00:05:48Like, when we were talking online, you were always so nice and cute and sweet.
00:05:52I would send me nice messages and, you know, say all these, like, cute romantic things,
00:05:57and then since I've gotten here, it's been like, you're, like, mad all the time.
00:06:02Am I the girl that you want to be with?
00:06:10Yeah.
00:06:15And all these things you said, it's right.
00:06:19I'm sorry for that, really.
00:06:24I want you to enjoy here with me.
00:06:28So, from going now, it would be so nice.
00:06:35Okay.
00:06:39At this moment, I don't know if I will marry here or not.
00:06:43But I'm a good wife and a good woman.
00:06:49Emma, I know her inside her.
00:06:51She's special.
00:06:52She's so sweet.
00:06:54And maybe I have been to her own here.
00:06:58I believe there is something between us.
00:07:01So, from now, there is no fights.
00:07:04No fights.
00:07:08Aww.
00:07:12You can come here.
00:07:16This feels nice, babe.
00:07:20This is the very first time that I felt any physical chemistry between us.
00:07:25And I feel like things are slowly progressing with the end.
00:07:30Very slowly.
00:07:32Extremely slowly.
00:07:34But, yes, they are progressing.
00:07:37And I'm hoping that this is just a really good sign that we're moving forward.
00:07:42I think we have a lot to work on.
00:07:45But I think we'll be okay.
00:07:47Just with time, everything will be good.
00:08:12My head hurts.
00:08:13It itches.
00:08:15The glue is like bubble gum right now.
00:08:19It's stuck to my head.
00:08:31This has been on for about a week.
00:08:33This is the absolute longest I've ever had it on.
00:08:36I've only ever slept with it overnight once.
00:08:39And it wasn't even on for 24 hours.
00:08:41My head hurts.
00:08:42It's time.
00:08:43I have to take it off.
00:08:44I mean, it's...
00:08:46It's...
00:08:46It's awful right now.
00:08:48You know, I've never been this nasty before in my life.
00:08:52I have been in Nigeria in the heat for days.
00:08:56And I have yet to change my wig.
00:09:00No matter how much you pull, it's not going anywhere.
00:09:04So I don't even know how it's going to feel coming off of my head, actually.
00:09:07Um, ow, it actually hurts.
00:09:16It, it hurts.
00:09:18It's stuck to my hair.
00:09:20My head itches.
00:09:21I have headaches.
00:09:23My scalp hurts.
00:09:24I have sores.
00:09:25I feel them growing.
00:09:27I see the redness around where my wig cap is.
00:09:31I need to take it off.
00:09:32It's time.
00:09:38Oh, my God.
00:09:43Ah, it itches.
00:09:47I have some sores on the side of my head where the glue was.
00:09:53I hate to say this, but the wig actually has an odor to it right now from all the sweating.
00:09:59I've been keeping my wig on because I know Daniel loves me with my long hair.
00:10:04But I need to feel the, the air touching my scalp.
00:10:10Just feels so incredible.
00:10:13It feels so light and airy.
00:10:15And it's not itchy anymore.
00:10:18At this moment, I don't care what Daniel feels when he sees me.
00:10:23I'm not putting the wig back on anytime soon.
00:10:27God, I've gone through so much in these last few days.
00:10:30And it's not just my hair.
00:10:33We got the approval from Daniel's uncle to be married.
00:10:36But I feel like it was under false pretenses.
00:10:41I don't know what to feel about his uncle.
00:10:44I think if he had known how many women I had actually been with, I wouldn't have gotten the blessing.
00:10:50I mean, it's 21 years of being with women.
00:10:55On top of that, I've been so nervous to speak to my daughter, Faith.
00:10:59Faith, because I promised her I wouldn't get engaged to Daniel until after I revealed all of my secrets.
00:11:08But yesterday, I finally ripped off the Band-Aid.
00:11:12We started leaving the airport.
00:11:14And there was a festival in the street with African dancers and music playing.
00:11:20It was for me.
00:11:21Daniel planned a festive parade for me.
00:11:23You're sending him money all the time, yet somehow he's able to buy a whole parade?
00:11:33I don't know.
00:11:34I don't know.
00:11:36And there's more.
00:11:38What else?
00:11:40Um, he dropped to his knee.
00:11:44And he pulled out a ring.
00:11:46And I was kind of stuck, so I shook my head yes.
00:11:52You're awfully quiet.
00:11:54Um, I don't know what to say.
00:11:57Why would someone do that on the first day?
00:11:59Like, it doesn't make sense.
00:12:02At this point, it's beyond love bombing.
00:12:05It's like, a love nuke.
00:12:07God, Ma, this isn't good.
00:12:10You've been lying since day one of the relationship.
00:12:14The other thing I personally have an issue with is, you haven't asked Daniel about the
00:12:20women he's been with.
00:12:22You know he's been with tons of women.
00:12:25You know he's a playboy.
00:12:27How could you let all this slide and just blindly agree to marry him?
00:12:33As far as Faith is concerned, a lot of what she said is actually weighing on my brain.
00:12:41Um, I'm thinking a lot about it.
00:12:45I've been so focused on my past and what I've been keeping from Daniel.
00:12:49But Faith is right.
00:12:51Daniel hasn't been forthcoming about his past.
00:12:54Or even other women he's been with.
00:12:57There's been lots of things with Daniel I've let slide.
00:13:01And maybe I should be asking him more questions about it.
00:13:05Daniel said that we are going to meet up with his friends tonight.
00:13:09And I'm excited.
00:13:10I'm hoping that his friends can shed some light and share some stories about who Daniel actually is.
00:13:18Hmm.
00:13:20Daniel just texted me.
00:13:26Let me gather some laundry up.
00:13:29Oh God.
00:13:31I have no idea what he's going to think about me.
00:13:35Daniel makes me feel like the most beautiful special woman in the world.
00:13:39But he's used to seeing me wear my wig.
00:13:42At home I don't wear my wig 24-7, seven days a week.
00:13:52So if he's going to marry me, he has to get used to it.
00:14:07Hey.
00:14:09Oh wow.
00:14:11Daddy.
00:14:13Oh my God.
00:14:18I'm waiting my jungle queen.
00:14:22Oh.
00:14:26I think it's stupid.
00:14:27It's not even sexy.
00:14:29I don't know.
00:14:31I'd rather walking naked.
00:14:34Oh.
00:14:35Oh no.
00:14:37That sounds like a plan.
00:14:41I'm so frustrated.
00:14:44Sometimes I feel like I'm stepping on landmines.
00:14:46I don't know how to navigate around the landmines.
00:14:50I don't want to do this right now.
00:14:54Hmm.
00:14:56It's hard to be with him.
00:15:00How much more of this guy could take?
00:15:02I don't know.
00:15:13Anna, why are you so emotional?
00:15:17Something you will never understand, because you don't have that.
00:15:30Well, I mean, I don't know what to say.
00:15:34Because no matter what I say, you know, if I apologize, that's not going to be good enough.
00:15:39You know, so I don't know what to do in this situation.
00:15:58The argument started about me saying you're not romantic.
00:16:04It has nothing to do with money.
00:16:07But you have to remind me every time we argue about what you do for me.
00:16:16And you throw it to my face.
00:16:18And I feel like it's so unfair, because you want to be a provider.
00:16:22But at the same time, you're always using it as an ammunition.
00:16:28Where did all this go wrong?
00:16:33You're unbelievable.
00:16:35Okay.
00:16:53I didn't want to bring up my role in the marriage.
00:16:58But sometimes I feel like I'm not being appreciated.
00:17:06Sometimes I feel like if I bring it up, she might come around and say, hey, you know, he does
00:17:12a lot for me.
00:17:12Maybe I should just be a little bit nicer.
00:17:15But obviously, that doesn't work.
00:17:18You know, I would definitely want things to be a lot more peaceful between us.
00:17:22But sometimes I feel like I'm stepping on landmines unintentionally.
00:17:27I don't know how to navigate around the landmines.
00:17:33I'm so frustrated.
00:17:34I feel like I feel like I'm feeling good.
00:17:44All right.
00:17:45I'm not going to bother you.
00:17:50I'm just...
00:17:51I'm going to take a shower.
00:17:53I don't want to do this right now.
00:18:06I don't really know what's going on in this head, honestly.
00:18:08I am not one of this misogynistic and, you know, masculinity thing.
00:18:15And it's really confusing because it sounds like it's teaching traditional stuff.
00:18:22But at the same time, traditional goes like the man provides.
00:18:26And I'm not even asking for much.
00:18:28I'm not even a woman that you have to spend a lot.
00:18:33Just because I'm, you know, I'm not providing as much as he provides monetary doesn't mean I'm not doing my
00:18:43part.
00:18:48Just, it's hard to be with him.
00:18:55I've been patient so long.
00:19:00That was my contribution.
00:19:03I stayed all along.
00:19:08But sometimes he just doesn't get me.
00:19:12He knows what sets me off.
00:19:15He knows what hurts my feelings.
00:19:17He knows what offends me.
00:19:21So we argued a lot before.
00:19:24Online.
00:19:25This is just more different.
00:19:27I'm just not used to it.
00:19:29Like, arguing in person.
00:19:32We've never been together before.
00:19:34So.
00:19:37But then, how much more, like, of this guy could take?
00:19:42I don't know.
00:19:43It's annoying.
00:19:43But then, how much more, like, of this guy could take me off.
00:19:46But then, how much more, like, of this guy could take me off.
00:19:49I don't know.
00:19:50I don't know.
00:19:51I don't know.
00:19:54I don't know.
00:20:00I don't know.
00:20:01I hope there's no sharks in this water.
00:20:03There is.
00:20:04Oh, hell no.
00:20:05But they are kind and nice, Ray.
00:20:08Oh, hell.
00:20:09There's no such thing as a nice shark.
00:20:11Malagasy shark is mine.
00:20:14Babe.
00:20:28Here we are.
00:20:31Woo!
00:20:34Where is this place?
00:20:36It's a little bit of a hike up, but it'll be worth it in the end.
00:20:41Believe me.
00:20:43We only have a few more days left of island hopping
00:20:46before we have to head out to meet Trisha's family.
00:20:50It's beautiful up here.
00:20:52There's a lot weighing heavy on my mind
00:20:55after our conversation about meeting her dad
00:20:58and all this pressure about having to have kids.
00:21:04Right now, I'm just trying my best to stay focused
00:21:07on being in such a beautiful place.
00:21:11Why do I have to be up?
00:21:13It'll be worth it once we get up there, honey.
00:21:16Oh!
00:21:18I got us the most incredible place to stay
00:21:21on a very secluded part of Nosy Kumba.
00:21:25It's totally off-grid,
00:21:27and I just love the privacy of it.
00:21:30I see it now, babe.
00:21:32I'm really excited for her to see it
00:21:35and to show her how romantic I can be.
00:21:38All right.
00:21:40We're here, baby.
00:21:43Our own private quarters, baby.
00:21:47Baby, yeah!
00:21:51Yeah, baby!
00:21:52Oh, my God!
00:21:54You like it?
00:21:55Yeah!
00:21:56Come here.
00:21:57Let's check it out.
00:21:58Oh, my God!
00:22:03We can't even see all of this.
00:22:06You see the whole island, baby.
00:22:08It's here.
00:22:09I'm really surprised.
00:22:11Have you ever seen a place like this before, baby?
00:22:13I've never.
00:22:15Okay, let's explore here.
00:22:19Be careful, baby.
00:22:20Watch your step here.
00:22:22We got our own little waterfalls and private pool.
00:22:25Oh, my God.
00:22:28I've never stayed to a place like this before.
00:22:33I'm really surprised.
00:22:35It's very beautiful.
00:22:37The view, the house.
00:22:41I'm living here,
00:22:42but I didn't know that a place like this
00:22:46could exist in Madagascar.
00:22:49I did this for you, honey.
00:22:51Beautiful bed.
00:22:52I love the bed.
00:22:54It's for you.
00:22:55I got another little surprise for you.
00:22:59What is it?
00:23:02Here we go.
00:23:04I got us a couple of jungle costumes.
00:23:07We're running around the jungle here.
00:23:09Amazing.
00:23:10There you go.
00:23:11This is yours right here.
00:23:13You serious?
00:23:14Yeah.
00:23:15I was hoping you'd want to try it and spice things up.
00:23:19I'll put mine on, and you put yours on.
00:23:21Okay.
00:23:24Role-playing is something that I recently got into,
00:23:27and I just think it's something fun to do.
00:23:34Playing as if I'm king of the jungle and chasing her around.
00:23:38I mean, it's hot.
00:23:41I'm waiting, my jungle queen.
00:23:47Oh.
00:23:49You look beautiful.
00:23:50I am, seriously.
00:23:53Come on, baby.
00:23:54You look sexy, baby.
00:23:56Let's just go run around and just act a fool.
00:24:01What?
00:24:02What is this?
00:24:03I think it's stupid.
00:24:05It's not even sexy.
00:24:07I don't know.
00:24:09I'm going to make this role play.
00:24:11Come on.
00:24:12I got you a score of the gun.
00:24:15I better get into it.
00:24:17It's like crazy fantasy, but I'm doing it because Rick did a lot to organize this trip,
00:24:27so I'm willing to give it a try to make him happy.
00:24:33In my fantasy, girl.
00:24:35But the way I'm chasing, I don't know.
00:24:38I'd rather walking naked.
00:24:41Oh!
00:24:44That sounds like a plan.
00:24:46Let's walk naked.
00:24:48Yeah!
00:24:49No!
00:24:50Come on, baby.
00:24:51Nobody's going to see.
00:24:53It should be Adam and Eve.
00:24:56Come on, baby.
00:25:21Do you have your own man?
00:25:23How could I not be?
00:25:24That's what I'm laying next to.
00:25:31We had a wonderful night.
00:25:33The way that she was holding me tight and bringing me in.
00:25:38I feel so connected to Trish, but in the back of my mind, I feel guilty because I know that
00:25:47I've held back for too long now.
00:25:54Time is getting close to when we go to meet her family.
00:25:58I don't want to take such a serious step without telling her about my ex.
00:26:05And so I think that she needs to know the truth.
00:26:14It's so cool here.
00:26:16That's nice.
00:26:18Yeah!
00:26:20What a view, Jesus.
00:26:23Yep.
00:26:24It's a beautiful view, baby.
00:26:27The last few days have been wonderful, I think.
00:26:30It's been like a dream.
00:26:32I don't know what you're doing, baby.
00:26:33Yeah.
00:26:35I'm happy.
00:26:39Baby.
00:26:42There's something that I've been keeping from you.
00:26:48You make me afraid.
00:26:50I don't know what you...
00:26:53Explain yourself.
00:26:59I don't know how I should do this.
00:27:01I don't know what words to say that's going to make it be a forgivable act.
00:27:12I'm worried that she'll want to end things and I'll never see or hear from her again.
00:27:23No, just know that what I'm about to tell you, I regret it.
00:27:31What do you mean?
00:27:37Can you tell me where your debt came from?
00:27:40Do you want the truth?
00:27:42Yeah.
00:27:44When the COVID hits, I'm bankrupt.
00:27:47I find another way to pay that debt.
00:28:13Good morning.
00:28:15Good morning.
00:28:17I really had fun meeting everybody yesterday.
00:28:20I did too.
00:28:21I'm still feeling tired.
00:28:24I've been in Turkey for almost a week now.
00:28:28And it's going okay.
00:28:32We've had some difficult conversations about his debt and my friendship with my best friend, Michael.
00:28:40And then last night, I got to meet Birkan's best friends and they kept having conversation in Turkish and I
00:28:49can't help but feeling like they were keeping another secret from me.
00:28:54Are you excited for the day?
00:28:57I don't know.
00:28:57I don't know what to be excited about.
00:29:00I don't even know what to pack.
00:29:02Yeah, you better pack.
00:29:04Last night, Birkan told me that we're going on this surprise romantic getaway.
00:29:09And I'm honestly having mixed feelings about it.
00:29:15I am incredibly nervous at the thought of a romantic getaway right now.
00:29:20I'm learning about his debts and the issues that he's having with jobs and money.
00:29:27And maybe I'm wrong, but it comes across to me as manipulative.
00:29:30You're trying to win me back over with something sweet.
00:29:34Like, I don't like that.
00:29:36Like, I just don't like the timing of it.
00:29:39But it also could be a good thing that we're getting away right now because maybe we'll have more time
00:29:44to, like, process and be in a more lovey state.
00:29:50So, we'll see.
00:29:59Good night.
00:30:01Good night.
00:30:04I'm not sure I packed my hairbrush for this.
00:30:08You don't need to brush your hair.
00:30:10I will need to brush my hair while I'm here, yeah.
00:30:13I think we will find a fork and we will...
00:30:16A fork?
00:30:16Yeah.
00:30:17I'm not the little mermaid.
00:30:19You are.
00:30:22I think she needs some spice in life, you know?
00:30:27And I am the spice in her life.
00:30:29So, this is my Spicing It Up project number one, Cheshme.
00:30:42I didn't realize we were going to be right on the water.
00:30:45This is amazing.
00:30:46I like the view, you know?
00:30:47This is incredible.
00:30:49Cheshme, it is a romantic place, you know?
00:30:52It's peaceful.
00:30:53There is sea.
00:30:55Perfect place to reconnect.
00:30:57Wow.
00:30:58I didn't know there was a castle here.
00:31:00Do you want to visit there?
00:31:01I would love to visit there.
00:31:02We will go up and up and up and up again.
00:31:07I am so ready.
00:31:09I still have to tell her about my gambling.
00:31:14My friends are right.
00:31:16I can just keep the secret for the rest of my life.
00:31:19But I don't know how she's going to react.
00:31:23If you're ready, let's start our tour.
00:31:27I always wanted to visit a castle.
00:31:30I feel like I get to be the princess and now in the castle.
00:31:34Now I'll always be a princess.
00:31:36When do I get to be the princess?
00:31:37I have no idea.
00:31:52Oh my God, hold on.
00:31:54Is this a bathroom?
00:31:55What?
00:31:56What?
00:31:56Is that a bathroom?
00:31:57Nah.
00:31:58I feel like that's a bathroom.
00:32:00Cheshme is incredible.
00:32:03It's really old and it's just beautiful.
00:32:05This is like exactly what I was envisioning when I was talking about coming to Turkey.
00:32:11Would you take our picture?
00:32:12Yeah, of course.
00:32:20Are you enjoying your day?
00:32:22I am enjoying my day.
00:32:23I couldn't have asked for a better surprise.
00:32:25Seriously.
00:32:26You know, I always try my best.
00:32:29I know.
00:32:30Because I care about you and I love you.
00:32:33I know you do.
00:32:35You know, we are still thinking about marriage.
00:32:39You still think about it.
00:32:40I still think about it.
00:32:41We didn't decide what are we going to do.
00:32:44And you have a lot of questions.
00:32:46So, what are you wondering?
00:32:49I know you're wondering.
00:32:50Well, I guess I know it's hard to have conversations that can feel personal and embarrassing.
00:33:00But can you tell me where your debt came from?
00:33:07Back then, I had places.
00:33:10Back when?
00:33:102019 and 2020.
00:33:12Okay.
00:33:14I had my first shisha bar.
00:33:17I take a loan from a bank.
00:33:20Then I bought my second place.
00:33:23After that, I opened my third place.
00:33:26Okay.
00:33:26So, you had three places?
00:33:27And all of them is big.
00:33:30I was earning.
00:33:32But when the COVID hits, I bankrupt.
00:33:37I sell my car, sell my house, sell my places.
00:33:41I sell everything I have.
00:33:44You know, I worked, like, daily jobs and things.
00:33:48But sometimes I worked full one day, 24 hours.
00:33:52And I get paid $40.
00:33:55It's useless, so.
00:33:58I find another way to pay that debt.
00:34:04How is that even possible?
00:34:10Do you want the truth?
00:34:12Yeah.
00:34:16I gamble.
00:34:18A lot.
00:34:24How often are you gambling?
00:34:26If I have money, I gamble.
00:34:30So, actually, it could be every day.
00:34:40Why are you?
00:34:42I took it off so it could breathe.
00:34:44I was hoping Daniel would say I look beautiful and touch my hair and give me a kiss.
00:34:49I wasn't expecting him to pull back like he has.
00:34:52It's like you're embarrassed to be seen with me right now or something.
00:34:54You don't think I'm pretty without my wig?
00:35:00I don't think I'm mad.
00:35:17I don't.
00:35:20Are you all right?
00:35:22Mm-hmm.
00:35:32Good morning, sir.
00:35:37Good morning, sir.
00:35:39Hey, we're just packing.
00:35:41Since this is your last day at Missy B's Bay Resort,
00:35:44the resort prepared breakfast for you two, ma'am, sir.
00:35:48Oh, thank you.
00:35:49Yeah, sure.
00:35:50Let's go.
00:35:52It's the last morning of our honeymoon,
00:35:54and we're going to Cavite, you know, where she lives.
00:35:59But me and Annalyn are still not talking.
00:36:05My strategy after last night, uh, just to give her space.
00:36:12Every time we fight, he has this habit of, you know,
00:36:17silent treatment that he gives me
00:36:20instead of, you know, talking it out and fixing things.
00:36:28Before we met in person,
00:36:30if we don't talk for a few days,
00:36:32it was normal because we are in a long-distance relationship.
00:36:37Ooh.
00:36:37But I just can't believe we're doing this right now,
00:36:41and we're in the same room together physically.
00:37:03Do you want to talk about last night?
00:37:08You know, clearly we have problems, you know,
00:37:11because you're hard on me a lot of the times,
00:37:14but providing for you is not easy.
00:37:18And I believe that, you know, it's my duty to do that.
00:37:21But when I, when I say, when I'm telling you that,
00:37:25like, I'm not trying to, like, throw it in your face.
00:37:28I basically want you to just cut me a little slack.
00:37:31It's like, what you're saying is,
00:37:33because I'm provide, you've got to be soft.
00:37:35Because if I react a certain way,
00:37:38you're uncomfortable with my emotion.
00:37:41Anna, I don't bring it up to say,
00:37:43hey, look, look what I did, so shut up.
00:37:45You know what I'm saying?
00:37:46Like, that's, that's not what I'm trying.
00:37:47That's exactly what I feel.
00:37:49Maybe I'm just, like, not translating it right to you,
00:37:51but the way I view it is, it's like, look, you know,
00:37:53Anna, I work hard to do X, Y, and Z.
00:37:56So, you know, I want a light bulb to come on and be like,
00:37:59you know, my husband works really hard,
00:38:00so I'm going to make sure he's, his day is positive
00:38:03when I talk to him on his break for 15 minutes.
00:38:06But no, you're nagging me all the time.
00:38:09You don't think how that makes me feel, like, sometimes,
00:38:12like when somebody's constantly criticizing you,
00:38:15when they're supposed to be on your side?
00:38:20But it's not easy being your woman,
00:38:26putting up with your tantrums, stubbornness, whining.
00:38:31It takes a lot of patience to be with you.
00:38:36I know some women would have been, would have given up already.
00:38:44All I hear is, like, you're just constantly complaining
00:38:47about me all the time.
00:38:49I mean, you tell me I'm a downer,
00:38:52and you tell me I'm not romantic.
00:38:55I mean, Anna, you're this perfect picture,
00:38:57and I'm this project that you're working on.
00:39:03So, do you regret, like, marrying me?
00:39:21Oh, wow.
00:39:36Look.
00:39:44Oh, my God.
00:39:57Let's get money out of the ATM,
00:40:00and then I want to go for a walk.
00:40:03What are you guys?
00:40:04Oh, my gosh.
00:40:07What?
00:40:09What's wrong?
00:40:10Not, it is your hand.
00:40:12I took it off so it could breathe.
00:40:18Hot.
00:40:19It was itchy and hot,
00:40:21and I've worn it for quite a while.
00:40:24No, you didn't tell me you're taking it off.
00:40:26No, I didn't tell you I was taking it off.
00:40:35I was astonished when I saw her.
00:40:38It's embarrassing.
00:40:41She looks older.
00:40:43I didn't believe Lisa used to know if we are going to be together.
00:40:49She has to wear her wig.
00:40:51She's not going to go with her short hair.
00:40:55Thank you so much.
00:40:57I want her to miss my friends tonight.
00:41:00But if she don't wear the long hair,
00:41:03my friends will be embarrassed.
00:41:04My friends will judge her.
00:41:14What?
00:41:17Like you wish I would have had it on to go out?
00:41:20Thanks.
00:41:22Because you know it's a wig,
00:41:23and I need to be natural sometimes.
00:41:25It's like you're embarrassed to be seen with me right now
00:41:28or something.
00:41:29I'm not embarrassed, but...
00:41:36My hair needed to be washed,
00:41:37and my head needs to air out, babe.
00:41:39Why didn't you stay inside when it dries?
00:41:43You wear it before coming out.
00:41:48So you don't think I'm pretty without my wig?
00:41:50I'm not saying you're not pretty,
00:41:52but I love the long hair.
00:41:53Well, I don't have long hair.
00:41:55I have short hair.
00:42:01I'm hurt,
00:42:02and now I feel ugly,
00:42:04and I feel unwanted and unloved.
00:42:07I want to go back upstairs and just cry.
00:42:10I don't even want to look at him.
00:42:12I want to be away from him.
00:42:15You have to be wearing your wig
00:42:17when we are meeting my friends or meeting people.
00:42:20Okay?
00:42:21I mean, I can't wear it all the time.
00:42:25I'm not saying all the time,
00:42:26but when we are going out to meet friends,
00:42:29families, where is?
00:42:32You're being rude.
00:42:34You don't understand.
00:42:34I was very scared for you
00:42:36to see me without my wig.
00:42:40Sorry.
00:42:40And I want you to feel
00:42:41that I'm beautiful without it
00:42:42just as much as I am with it.
00:42:45You're always beautiful.
00:42:47Okay?
00:42:47You are.
00:42:49I will hug you.
00:42:51You're mine.
00:42:51You're always.
00:42:57I don't feel he means it.
00:42:59I was hoping Daniel wouldn't say,
00:43:01I look beautiful and touch my hair
00:43:03and give me a kiss.
00:43:04I wasn't expecting him
00:43:05to pull back like he has.
00:43:08I don't know.
00:43:09I have so many questions,
00:43:10but I have to get answers,
00:43:12and I'm hoping tonight
00:43:13with his friends I'll get some,
00:43:15because right now I'm starting
00:43:16to see red flags and cracks
00:43:18where I never did before.
00:43:28What's going on?
00:43:31We were getting along really well,
00:43:34getting really flirty,
00:43:36and we made out.
00:43:40I mean, I was feeling so, like,
00:43:43lonely and abandoned.
00:43:45I thought that you didn't want me anymore.
00:43:48You have sex with her?
00:43:51Did you?
00:44:04Just know that what I'm about to tell you,
00:44:08I regret it.
00:44:09You make me afraid.
00:44:11I don't know what you...
00:44:14Explain yourself.
00:44:31You remember those five days
00:44:36that you weren't talking to me?
00:44:42Why you bring up five days?
00:44:44What's wrong with five days?
00:44:45I already explained everything,
00:44:47so what's the problem now?
00:44:51The problem isn't that.
00:44:53It's what I did.
00:44:56What?
00:44:59What's wrong?
00:45:01I'm trying to tell you now.
00:45:04You make me afraid.
00:45:06Say, Rico,
00:45:07I don't know why you hesitate.
00:45:08What's wrong?
00:45:11When you weren't talking to me,
00:45:15I started talking to my ex.
00:45:25She was, like, the only one that, you know,
00:45:28was there to listen to me.
00:45:32So I decided to book a trip going to Colombia to be with my ex.
00:45:44I mean, I was feeling so, like, lonely and abandoned.
00:45:50I thought that she didn't want me anymore.
00:45:51What?
00:45:55You have sex with her.
00:45:57Did you?
00:46:03Yes.
00:46:16I'm sorry baby, I messed up, I know I did, I regret what I did, but this is something
00:46:30we can work through baby.
00:46:31Shut up.
00:46:32It was a mistake.
00:46:32Shut up.
00:46:39Baby, how could you do that to me?
00:46:45We were together.
00:46:50Baby, you weren't there, and I told you after a couple of days, I said, if I don't hear from
00:46:56you, then I'm going to assume that it's over, that you don't want me anymore.
00:47:00And I still didn't hear from you until a couple of days after that.
00:47:05And by then I had already booked a flight there.
00:47:13I did replay to your messages, I did replay to your call, and I even told you I'll call
00:47:20you when I'm free.
00:47:22Why?
00:47:22You told me that you would call me when you get back from the police station.
00:47:27I wouldn't hear from you.
00:47:28I would call you, and then you said that I was stalking you.
00:47:32That sounds like to me that you didn't want to be with me.
00:47:35Why did you wait, like, for a long time to tell me?
00:47:39Why?
00:47:40Why?
00:47:42Because I wanted us to build something together.
00:47:45I wanted to share, you know, precious time with you.
00:47:52Maybe you just still love that girl.
00:47:55No, no.
00:47:57It's over.
00:47:59It's over now.
00:48:00I swear I'm not talking to her anymore.
00:48:02I haven't had any contact with her.
00:48:07I thought you were different.
00:48:12That I can trust you.
00:48:15You even promised me there, like, I won't hurt you, Trisha.
00:48:19I'm not like your ex.
00:48:21And what you did?
00:48:22Guess what?
00:48:23Same thing.
00:48:25So, baby, it's not the same because...
00:48:26It's the same.
00:48:27You cheated.
00:48:32Jesus.
00:48:33I thought you were a good guy.
00:48:35I am a good guy, baby.
00:48:37You were not...
00:48:38You can't...
00:48:38You can trust me, baby.
00:48:40It's different now.
00:48:41We've met in person.
00:48:43We've consummated our relationship.
00:48:44We have a stronger bond now.
00:48:47Don't you see that?
00:48:48No.
00:48:51Can't we just start from there?
00:48:54Can't we just start from...
00:49:00Baby.
00:49:03No.
00:49:04Shut up.
00:49:04Don't call me baby.
00:49:05Shut up, Rick.
00:49:06Shut up.
00:49:07Maybe we look at relationships differently.
00:49:08I...
00:49:09Shut up.
00:49:11Where are you going?
00:49:13I don't care.
00:49:14Oh, .
00:49:15Oh, wow.
00:49:16Oh, wow.
00:49:21Oh, wow.
00:49:21Oh, wow.
00:49:22Oh, wow.
00:49:22Oh, wow.
00:49:22Oh, wow.
00:49:24Oh, wow.
00:49:25Oh, wow.
00:49:25Oh, wow.
00:49:46Baby, what are you cooking?
00:49:48I want to I want you to go to the roof and wait for me yeah all right so see
00:49:55you there okay babe
00:49:58Emma and I we feel ourselves like we forget problems and we start refreshing again from
00:50:04the beginning I never cook for my girlfriend before so I feel nervous to cook for Emma
00:50:16I want it to be perfect babe you can just put it there babe this is so cute thank you
00:50:30babe you look
00:50:31so nice thanks babe you look very handsome tonight what did you make yeah what do you think inside
00:50:38here touching so I hope you will like it let's see oh that actually looks very good so as Muslim
00:50:48people when we want to eat anything yeah we say bismillah mm-hmm like bon appetit yeah
00:51:01so good it's fine if you eat it or no no so good thank you for doing all this I
00:51:09love the sweet
00:51:10side of you because that makes me feel like you actually like love me yeah it's because I feel
00:51:16it it's you feel romance in the air we're passing this period of fighting that's something good I
00:51:24don't believe one that you will be here to eat dinner with me I feel so so happy to see
00:51:31you here
00:51:31especially it's like a dream and unreal what's what's the word we can't say it's real unreal
00:51:38mm-hmm that was very sweet babe look at you being so romantic today I'm happy to be here too
00:51:48yesterday it was zero percent right now it's seven percent so it's only at seven now
00:51:58it's slowly slowly step by step we can't be like zero percent and 50 percent no
00:52:08what percent do you need to actually get engaged a hundred exactly and you're only at seven right
00:52:13now it's just numbers wait time it will be more than two hundreds all right on a scale from zero
00:52:22to
00:52:22a hundred percent how much do you love me why are you always looking for the town he says because
00:52:28I need
00:52:28to know I would say 70 70 70 percent it's okay so you you love me more than if you're
00:52:38sure you want
00:52:39to get engaged yeah because engagement it's a big thing okay you see all right but you love me at
00:52:4570
00:52:45mm-hmm okay that's good you know what would have made this dinner a hundred times better some dessert
00:52:54mm-hmm so you want to go to desert huh you want to go to desert you say desert dessert
00:53:03deserve not the desert ah dessert dessert yeah like ice cream but yes I do want to go to the
00:53:14that's funny because when we talked the first time you told me you never see a camel you are here
00:53:19right
00:53:20now in maracas and I know it's your birthday tomorrow so I plan to take you to the desert
00:53:25it will be nice oh me I'm excited that's like my dream to go to the desert and ride a
00:53:33camel yeah yeah
00:53:35I think it's really sweet that Ziet is planning this desert trip for the both of us I know that
00:53:41he's only at seven percent but I only have two weeks left of my trip and I'm really hoping that
00:53:47a
00:53:47romantic getaway outside of the city will speed things up what do you wear to ride a camel pants
00:54:08I'm in a good mood we're packing up and we're going to like a romantic getaway in the desert
00:54:13and it's my birthday so happy birthday to me and then there's more what's going on we were getting
00:54:23along really well getting really flirty and he came into my room and we made out and then we had
00:54:36sex
00:54:38twice twice so I finally got all the physical touch I've been wanting and it felt really good
00:54:48and it was nice I would say it's like a normal it's like average size it's nothing crazy but it's
00:54:57not
00:54:58teeny tiny it like it fits in your hand that's like the best way to describe it I could deal
00:55:04with it
00:55:06but I think he's really worried about how people are going to view him especially because he is
00:55:12Muslim and like his religion and everything but I had to tell someone I feel like after having sex
00:55:19we were in like a perfect place he was being just so much nicer to me and he was like
00:55:26telling me how
00:55:26much he loved me and how much he cared about me and how like he does want a future with
00:55:30me
00:55:31okay so with the way the last night went I could really see a proposal and I think hopefully he
00:55:40changed his mind and he's feeling just as sure as I am I do feel better now that we finally
00:55:48did have
00:55:49sex I think this means that we're getting a lot closer but he still doesn't know about the whole
00:55:55Mohammed situation I know that he does have questions about everything and I feel like if
00:56:02I'm gonna be that serious about him and our relationship I don't want there to be any
00:56:05secrets I don't want to lie to him about anything my friends and family have kind of warned me that
00:56:10once he finds out about Mohammed he's probably gonna break up with me that's the last thing that
00:56:15I want to happen but I know that I'm gonna need to tell him sooner rather than later
00:56:26come on a wine for me you know I like how you slip and you slide for me she do
00:56:31the thing right for me
00:56:32now I'm giving her the time of her life with me come on a wine for me
00:56:37you look handsome I like this on you you really do you look really
00:56:44awesome wine you look beautiful and stunning wish
00:56:57I will teach you how to say thank you I will teach you is important I want to know how
00:57:03to say
00:57:03thank you thank you thank you going without my wig for the first time in front of Daniel
00:57:13was a very vulnerable experience for me and Daniel didn't respond the way I had hoped putting
00:57:22the wig back on today was horrible and now he's responding to me like I'm the most beautiful
00:57:28creature on earth yet again does he not love me for who I am I'm thinking about what face said
00:57:36and I'm starting to question what Daniel's intentions really are
00:57:41I'm a little nervous is there anything I should know
00:57:46you don't have to be of us because they're my friends I know them very well that's why I invited
00:57:51them they're my friends I know they're your friends but they're not my friends and I'm going and
00:57:56they're going to judge me but needless to say I'm going to judge you through them
00:58:03Daniel tonight is taking me to meet his friends and his cousin and I'm hoping they can shed some
00:58:08light on a few things about Daniel
00:58:13Daniel and I don't talk about our past relationships that's why mine has never been mentioned because I
00:58:18every time I tried to talk to Daniel he shuts up he doesn't talk about his past at all
00:58:24so meeting his friends is a great opportunity to know more about Daniel and understand who he is
00:58:32I'm sorry thank you
00:58:44my beautiful queen
00:58:46ah it's coming guilty you know from United States
00:58:50her name is Lisa welcome
00:58:52thank you thank you so much
00:58:55so this is emmanuel and this is um george george yeah and this is lovely i love guys
00:59:03we're happy to witness this event today honestly honestly we are so happy
00:59:11lisa is older than daniel she might not be his type i think he has fully
00:59:18silly sir and i think he's comfortable with that she will make a good home
00:59:28how long have you known daniel i know him when i was there when i was about 11 years
00:59:34oh my goodness no you know where i'm from a very poor family i'm wearing good clothes today
00:59:40is because of her wow you can tell i know him as someone that has only one pair of shoes
00:59:48really yeah you didn't tell me these things um i was afraid i used to wear um just a pair
00:59:55of shirts
00:59:55with some eye openings on the on the obitox is that true really so um without her i don't know
01:00:03where
01:00:03i don't know where i would be today do you know why the relationship is perfect why do you know
01:00:10why no
01:00:10because you have transformed his life we should continue doing that don't debate from it
01:00:21well it's not easy i have to say it's not easy helping daniel
01:00:27i work 15 hour days seven days a week that's how daniel is changing because i'm working the hard times
01:00:36and it concerns me because he doesn't share much of his past with me
01:00:43i want to know more about your old life baby okay so i do have a question was he very
01:00:49popular with ladies
01:00:54oh
01:00:55you do you do come on he's a handsome guy he's a black handsome guy
01:01:03woman loves me so much but that was the past yes i have not bring any woman i have not
01:01:10brought
01:01:10any woman in my family in the name of getting married to the woman you know that's when when
01:01:18daniel came at me on social media out of the blue i thought he was a scam artist i thought
01:01:24he was fake
01:01:25i did not think he was real so i didn't totally trust daniel for a little while it took me
01:01:32it took
01:01:32him a minute to get me to trust him the thing is i'm just surprised that he's only been with
01:01:39me since
01:01:40december and he's already proposed honestly thank god that he's the one
01:01:46let me just say you've helped him in different areas he's just like an angel who can choose life
01:01:54all i'm hearing right now is i am daniel savior he is a new man it's given me a bit
01:02:01of a pause
01:02:03you know there's something that happened before i came to nigeria that daniel
01:02:08hasn't been able to explain to me he hasn't been sincere to you he has been honest
01:02:17he is truthful you seem to be sweating a little bit over this
01:02:22i have to sweat because i don't know you just need to have trust yes but the thing is daniel
01:02:29was talking
01:02:29to another girl on social media at the same time he was talking to me
01:02:38be honest because i will walk out if you're not
01:02:45are we going to have more debt more financial problems because you can't stop gambling for
01:02:52valentine's day i sent you money did you gamble that yeah
01:03:08do you regret like marrying me
01:03:29no i mean it seemed like you had to think about it for a minute
01:03:33no i love you it's just that i want you to you know like i guess i want you to
01:03:40be more like
01:03:42positive i just want you to overlook the negativity you're making me feel uncomfortable like you're not
01:03:50enjoying your time with me i'm enjoying the time makes me feel really did you see me yesterday when
01:03:56i was doing this yeah but i couldn't fit you're doing all the things that you have to do but
01:04:02you
01:04:02always have to leave a remark
01:04:06look i can promise you this i'm gonna do my best to not you know throwing your face about what
01:04:17i do in the
01:04:21marriage
01:04:21like provide for you and i promise you not to be so negative but i mean could you make me
01:04:30a promise and
01:04:31just ease up on me a little bit cut me a little bit of slack
01:04:39i actually feel bad when you feel bad and i feel guilty i feel like sometimes i act i overreact
01:04:47to
01:04:48things i just really want to have a good time please well i do too but i feel like you
01:04:55always look
01:04:56constipated like uh because i'm always being get my ass chewed out like it's just like you're like
01:05:05this juvan oh my god boo it's so sunny today yeah i think it's gonna rain again
01:05:18thank god stop raining i thought we'll be stuck in the room the whole time i don't want you to
01:05:24get
01:05:24too comfortable because it still might rain oh my god you don't say that you jinx it you have to
01:05:31try
01:05:31it with cheese i mean but don't you think that's a weird combination if you're going to rate it one
01:05:38to five how was probably a two yeah really this is a 90 year old man in the last stages
01:05:50of his life
01:05:51basically that's how you're making me sound so we good all right
01:06:00yes we made up right now but because of the last few days i kind of worried about the future
01:06:11we struggled to get along during our honeymoon how are we going to get along for the rest of our
01:06:17lives
01:06:18come here come sit on my lap
01:06:22we've been together six years in a long distance relationship and now that we're finally get to be
01:06:31together physically you see everything about your partner and i hope that jovonne and i can take all the
01:06:41good with the bad but right now i don't know
01:07:05how often are you gambling if i have money i gamble
01:07:12so actually it could be every day
01:07:20is gambling part of all of this debt no i still trying to pay but that is why i have
01:07:30to gamble
01:07:31because i need money and i have nowhere to find
01:07:37i gamble i make more money i have a progress that's how my friends and i paid our rent for
01:07:45a long time
01:07:46that's how we live
01:07:51i'm angry i'm hurt i am shocked i think gambling is fine like when you have money to to lose
01:08:02but he
01:08:03doesn't have anything the fact that he thinks that he can gamble instead of actually going out and
01:08:09finding a job is ridiculously concerning to me uh that's not a job i don't even understand what he's
01:08:17thinking so instead of a gift for valentine's day i sent you money yeah did you gamble that
01:08:33like 150 dollars yeah yeah and that makes five thousand
01:08:38and we made it 20 i guess and we paid our rent it was like you sent us money but
01:08:46it wasn't solving
01:08:48anything it just okay we can eat but maybe three days later we have to empty the house you know
01:08:55but
01:08:55what if you would have lost that i will figure it out but i
01:09:03that was money that i sent you for you and if you would have lost it and been like hey
01:09:07i lost
01:09:08the money that you gave me i would be livid i'm actually kind of livid right now that seems
01:09:12irresponsible to me what can i say i'm trying to make a way out for us so if you gambling
01:09:21is something i
01:09:22have to do is gambling an addiction gambling is not an addiction for me if i was addicted i didn't
01:09:34i
01:09:34don't care if i lose or win but i care and i'm winning if you come to america and we're
01:09:44sharing our
01:09:45life we're sharing our money we're sharing our banks are you going to pick it up and gamble it because
01:09:49you just money well it would be our money no it is your money how i don't gamble with your
01:09:55money but
01:09:56i will get i already did how do you have something that's specifically yours if we're married wouldn't
01:10:05it always be ours no it is like if i it is like if i make five thousand per month
01:10:12i will give you four
01:10:14thousand but i'm i will tell you that one thousand dollar i need and i will bet with that
01:10:21and i will make that one thousand maybe nothing maybe 50 000 because this is me this is my life
01:10:29this is how i do things gambling is just a way to make money i started when i was having
01:10:40financial
01:10:41struggle because you know i had nothing but now mostly i just bet some football games because that's
01:10:49what i used to do for a living just i can't play but i can bet if we do go
01:10:57through with this and apply
01:10:58for that k-1 visa i am financially responsible for you for like 10 years and i guess that's my
01:11:06concern
01:11:06is that are we going to have more debt more financial problems because you can't stop gambling
01:11:14no because if i hit a grand jackpot i won you know i have money see i succeeded so until
01:11:24you feel
01:11:25like you're successful you're gonna keep gambling yeah
01:11:34it's super alarming to me to hear that he thinks that this is the best way to make money and
01:11:41knowing
01:11:42that i will be financially responsible for him concerns me greatly this is really serious
01:11:50and i feel like i should just pull the plug and go home now
01:12:00this girl ended up calling me and pretty much told me he's a scam artist because he's going after
01:12:06more women than just me that are in america i am here begging you for some truth of what daniel
01:12:15actually
01:12:15is and if i don't come home with everything on daniel i will not be coming back to this country
01:12:30daniel was talking to another girl on social media at the same time he was talking to me
01:12:56and um i was i was talking to you and she was disturbing me
01:13:05this girl ended up calling me
01:13:10and talking to me telling me all these things that daniel was saying to her and she also um pretty
01:13:17much
01:13:17told me he's a scam artist because he's going after more women than just me that are in america
01:13:23did you know about this woman that he was talking to um
01:13:30to be sincere i don't know about that
01:13:35a few months ago an american woman got in touch with me on social media and basically told me daniel
01:13:40was talking to her at the same time he was talking to me she sent me screenshots of her and
01:13:46daniel's
01:13:47conversation she sent me personal pictures daniel sent to her of himself and he called her baby that
01:13:54hurt me it still hurts me daniel said she's just a friend and after he blocked her i gave him
01:14:02the benefit
01:14:03of the doubt and i deleted the screenshots because i believed him but the more i'm hearing his friends
01:14:10say how i changed his life the more i'm wondering if this woman was right and daniel was just looking
01:14:17for any american woman who was willing to respond she said that you were going after her strong and she
01:14:23wasn't giving you the time of the day so what do you want to say about that daniel
01:14:29that that is on social media right it is on social media so social media i have a lot of
01:14:35friends there
01:14:35you do you do but we're not talking about them we're talking no no i'm not on this team i'm
01:14:41asking you
01:14:41about her because you did talk to her yeah that's why i told you that before i met you that
01:14:46there's some
01:14:46other ladies who wants they wanted me and some of them were you know coming after me like i told
01:14:53she wasn't you were going after her that's the difference yes you were i never did yes you did you
01:14:58wanted her as an american she told me so i never went to i never go to her to you
01:15:02know for friendship
01:15:03or any relationship there's something more going on daniel
01:15:13i don't know i don't know why she's trying to accuse me have you pursued americans before lisa
01:15:22um i do talk to other other women from america yes from america i do talk to other women from
01:15:27america
01:15:28i only chat them you know ask them how they're doing you know how ask them how the day went
01:15:32you know
01:15:33that's the only thing i do but i've not tried um to date an american lady before no lisa is
01:15:40the first
01:15:40lady that's you know that came into my life so i love daniel yes but nobody is perfect and i
01:15:48am here
01:15:48begging you for some truth of what daniel actually is i need to clear all this up before we get
01:16:00married
01:16:02maybe she lies um it's not funny
01:16:15all i want to say i want you to trust him
01:16:21why should i tell me why i know him very very well i know why i asked you to close
01:16:27him
01:16:29he cannot disappoint you i'm the one working 15 hour days i'm the one working seven days a week
01:16:36to make sure he looks like this so i am giving up stuff to be here my family is worried
01:16:42about me
01:16:42they have every concern and if i don't come home with everything on daniel i will not be coming back
01:16:48to this country and if you're not going to share it with me i will find it i'm not i
01:16:53didn't hide anything
01:16:54you picked me from the gutter you cluttered me you feed me so why should i be playing with you
01:17:03why should i be you know playing game playing games
01:17:06i feel like his friends are protecting him as every friend if they're a really good friend should have
01:17:17your back but i feel like a sugar mom they kept saying it over and over and over again i'm
01:17:24an angel
01:17:24i have saved daniel from the street i'm sitting here wondering is he a scam artist is he after me
01:17:31for my money i just don't think he's telling me the full truth i think he's given me little nibbles
01:17:38of what is reality and it's going to be up to me to put together this puzzle piece
01:17:43i appreciate you guys coming and meeting me i was just hoping for a little bit more than this
01:17:48from my own opinion i think you're scared for heartbroken you don't want to be hurt anymore
01:17:59i'd rather you stay here and not coming here
01:18:03i cannot be with someone who's to have feelings for their ex
01:18:09i cannot i'm sorry i know now that i was wrong please forgive me
01:18:32i can't be with someone who's to have feelings for their ex-husband
01:18:46i can't be with someone who's to have feelings for their ex-husband
01:18:46just leave me alone
01:19:06i can't be with someone who's to have feelings for their ex-husband
01:19:11i can't be with someone who's to have feelings for their ex-husband
01:19:17i don't want to even look at him
01:19:24i thought he's different from my ex
01:19:28like a good guy a good father a good boyfriend faithful
01:19:36but rick didn't tell me the truth he was not honest with me
01:19:43go ahead what are you waiting for go waiting for you what you care
01:19:52i told him that i was hurting from my past relationship but here we are same story again
01:20:06maybe just don't talk
01:20:09how long are you not going to talk to me why you care about that how long i'm going to
01:20:13talk or not
01:20:14because i want to resolve this resolve what you didn't remember what you did i do remember
01:20:20i'd rather you stay here and not coming here
01:20:27i refuse to believe that you regret because i've seen the love in your eyes
01:20:34you know just allow me the opportunity to show you how committed i am to you
01:20:45i told you i'm ashamed of what i did
01:20:49i'm ashamed because i explained to you after the five days but you still went to columbia
01:20:55so why didn't you cancel because even after those five days things still didn't add up and i felt like
01:21:04i was just getting strung along because i thought you were cheating on me and i felt like
01:21:10idad love in it's my fault it's my fault we didn't really start communicating like like before until
01:21:19i got back so in your mind is even if she already explained to me i i will still go
01:21:28because i want to
01:21:29revenge her in some ways that's true
01:21:39and I don't know that I was wrong
01:21:49please I want you to forgive me
01:21:57I have nothing to say Rick
01:22:02I cannot be with someone who still have feelings for their ex
01:22:10I'd rather he told me like for coming here
01:22:15now I don't know what to tell my dad
01:22:19my whole family
01:22:25I don't know what to tell them
01:22:31don't touch me
01:22:34it's not like I'm giving up on us
01:22:40we just have to work to
01:22:42I cannot, I'm sorry
01:22:53next time on Before the 90 Days
01:22:55oh my god
01:22:58Sied and I are going for a little romantic getaway outside of the city
01:23:02I have a nice birthday surprise for you later
01:23:04a surprise?
01:23:05yeah
01:23:06we're really connecting
01:23:07and Sied's always known that I've wanted a proposal on my birthday
01:23:11I have one more thing for you
01:23:13okay
01:23:18this is us
01:23:19I'm very excited to see where my wife lives
01:23:23and where my money is going
01:23:26wow
01:23:28this is a lot bigger than what I initially thought
01:23:32everywhere I look
01:23:33I just see dollar signs
01:23:35a lot of travel photos
01:23:36huge closets
01:23:37it makes me feel taken advantage of
01:23:42I know it is hard to understand
01:23:46my lifestyle
01:23:47my choices
01:23:49BeerCon has what I can only consider to be a gambling problem
01:23:54and it's really making me second guess
01:23:57any kind of future I could have with BeerCon
01:24:00you know that is why you are so special to me
01:24:03even if we have problems
01:24:05we will find a solution
01:24:10until yesterday
01:24:12you did not know anything about Sheena's finances
01:24:16you didn't know the truth about her relationship with her family
01:24:21is this a person you can trust?
01:24:25these were big lies for us
01:24:28she did lie about almost everything
01:24:33it really hurts me
01:24:34but I can't be with someone who is going to constantly lie to me
01:24:43hi
01:24:45tonight we're meeting up with my Aunt Spring
01:24:47heard a lot about you
01:24:49and there's some things that I do have questions about
01:24:52I do understand why Aviva has fallen for Stig
01:24:56but I don't think that he is the great person
01:24:59that she believes him to be
01:25:01so
01:25:01I have heard some things
01:25:04I mean this is you isn't it
01:25:11I came here to be with you
01:25:13but I want answers
01:25:15say it
01:25:15I don't want to find out by her
01:25:18I want to find out from you
01:25:19I cannot accept what I didn't do
01:25:21I can't
01:25:21he is lying to me
01:25:23and he's trying to make me look insane
01:25:25I don't want to believe there's others
01:25:28I need this lady to write back to me
01:25:30because I need to know
01:25:31is he a scammer
01:25:34did she write it?
01:25:35yes
01:25:36she wrote a lot
01:25:40oh god
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