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💑 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days (2017) - Season 8 Episode 17
The journey nears its climax. In Episode [X], [brief hook: see episode-specific hooks below]. As visa deadlines approach and emotions run high, couples must decide: is this love strong enough to cross oceans, or will distance tear them apart?
🔹 Episode Highlights:
• [E16 Hook: "A heartbreaking conversation forces [couple] to confront their future"]
• [E18 Hook: "With time running out, one couple makes a life-changing decision"]
• Relationship milestones: visa interviews, family meetings, commitment talks
• Cultural tensions: traditions clash, expectations collide, compromises tested
• Emotional confessions: tears, truths, and the courage to choose love—or walk away
🔹 Series Info:
• Format: Reality Dating / International Romance / Documentary-Style Series
• Original Network: TLC / Discovery+ / Max (International)
• Series Launch: 2017 | Season: 8 | Episodes: 16 & 18
• Focus: Couples Before K-1 Visa Journey – Long-Distance Love Stories
• Setting: Global – USA, Colombia, Philippines, Russia, Middle East & more
• Language: English (Original Audio + Subtitles for foreign segments)
• Runtime: ~90 minutes (full) | Clip/Highlight version: ~10-15 min
🎧 Prefer audio? Listen to 90 Day Fiancé recaps & reality TV podcasts on Spotify, Apple Podcasts.
👉 Enjoying the series? Hit LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and comment: "Which couple's story hit you hardest? 👇💑" Turn on notifications 🔔 so you never miss the next update!
#90DayFiance #BeforeThe90Days #B490D #RealityDating #TLC #S8E[X] #LongDistanceLove #InternationalRomance #BingeWatch #90DayFamily #VisaJourney #LoveWithoutBorders
⚠️ Copyright Disclaimer: This video is shared for promotional, review, and informational purposes only. All rights to "90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days" belong to TLC, Discovery Communications, and Sharp Entertainment. This upload complies with Fair Use guidelines (Section 107, U.S. Copyright Act). No copyright infringement intended.
The journey nears its climax. In Episode [X], [brief hook: see episode-specific hooks below]. As visa deadlines approach and emotions run high, couples must decide: is this love strong enough to cross oceans, or will distance tear them apart?
🔹 Episode Highlights:
• [E16 Hook: "A heartbreaking conversation forces [couple] to confront their future"]
• [E18 Hook: "With time running out, one couple makes a life-changing decision"]
• Relationship milestones: visa interviews, family meetings, commitment talks
• Cultural tensions: traditions clash, expectations collide, compromises tested
• Emotional confessions: tears, truths, and the courage to choose love—or walk away
🔹 Series Info:
• Format: Reality Dating / International Romance / Documentary-Style Series
• Original Network: TLC / Discovery+ / Max (International)
• Series Launch: 2017 | Season: 8 | Episodes: 16 & 18
• Focus: Couples Before K-1 Visa Journey – Long-Distance Love Stories
• Setting: Global – USA, Colombia, Philippines, Russia, Middle East & more
• Language: English (Original Audio + Subtitles for foreign segments)
• Runtime: ~90 minutes (full) | Clip/Highlight version: ~10-15 min
🎧 Prefer audio? Listen to 90 Day Fiancé recaps & reality TV podcasts on Spotify, Apple Podcasts.
👉 Enjoying the series? Hit LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and comment: "Which couple's story hit you hardest? 👇💑" Turn on notifications 🔔 so you never miss the next update!
#90DayFiance #BeforeThe90Days #B490D #RealityDating #TLC #S8E[X] #LongDistanceLove #InternationalRomance #BingeWatch #90DayFamily #VisaJourney #LoveWithoutBorders
⚠️ Copyright Disclaimer: This video is shared for promotional, review, and informational purposes only. All rights to "90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days" belong to TLC, Discovery Communications, and Sharp Entertainment. This upload complies with Fair Use guidelines (Section 107, U.S. Copyright Act). No copyright infringement intended.
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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03I'm just glad that we didn't break the bed.
00:00:06I'm not a virgin anymore.
00:00:08It's way better than what I thought, okay?
00:00:10Way better than what I do at night by myself.
00:00:13This has made me even more committed to do everything in my power to be with you.
00:00:18I'm starting to feel like maybe the right choice is to stay here in the Philippines,
00:00:23but I know that my mother, she's not going to have a good reaction to that.
00:00:34Go in peace.
00:00:35You are clear from today.
00:00:38I don't know what the f*** just happened.
00:00:40Point is, if it's enough for us to be accepted as husband and wife,
00:00:45then that's all I wanted.
00:00:46Can we have sex?
00:00:51On our second anniversary, you forgot.
00:00:55This is your thing, being a romantic.
00:00:58I mean, is that not romantic?
00:01:01Like, making sure your lights is on because you're at home and then I'm working.
00:01:07I'm getting tired of this.
00:01:08Sometimes I feel uncomfortable that he has more say about the money.
00:01:13I don't like being controlled.
00:01:17Every time you do something for me, you throw it to my face.
00:01:23Tell me you love her.
00:01:24If I was in love with her, I would have made a move.
00:01:28Dude, you made a move.
00:01:29You blow it.
00:01:30No, no, no, no, no, no.
00:01:32Laura made a move on me.
00:01:34This is betrayal.
00:01:36Am I an alternative?
00:01:38Because she couldn't get what she wanted.
00:01:41My trust is broken like that.
00:01:45I love Trisha very, very much.
00:01:49I need more time.
00:01:52I haven't made up my mind yet whether or not I want another child.
00:01:58I'm one.
00:01:58I'm one.
00:01:59Today, not yesterday, you have to decide it.
00:02:01But if no, we cannot be together anymore.
00:02:07I don't want to think of my man living with another girl.
00:02:11Hey, guys.
00:02:12Am I crazy or is my guy living with a girl and getting financially supported crazy?
00:02:19It's my car.
00:02:20Good luck.
00:02:22You're up?
00:02:23Yeah.
00:02:24Are you okay?
00:02:24So cute.
00:02:26You run to her after this, right?
00:02:28Asshole.
00:02:29I feel like I was falling in love, though.
00:02:32But that s***, I'm done.
00:02:55You going to the gym?
00:02:56No, I'm not feeling the best.
00:02:58Rough night.
00:02:59Another one?
00:03:00Her and Nat got right into it.
00:03:03She went off yelling at it, you know, in front of the whole bar.
00:03:06How many people were there?
00:03:08Oh, probably about 20.
00:03:09Oh, f*** off.
00:03:10She stands up and she's like,
00:03:11how do you feel if your boyfriend was getting supported by another girl financially?
00:03:17I feel sorry for you, bro.
00:03:19Still funny, but I do feel sorry for you.
00:03:22I just don't know what to do.
00:03:23I just don't know what to do.
00:03:24I'm confused.
00:03:30It's going to be hard to come back from that.
00:03:32It was pretty damn embarrassing.
00:03:33Yeah, this one might be a bit broken, my friend.
00:04:03This morning I'm really deflated.
00:04:05I'm f***ing.
00:04:07Hurting.
00:04:09I'm f***ing.
00:04:10Angry.
00:04:11Angry.
00:04:13Hey.
00:04:15Elise.
00:04:16How are you?
00:04:21I'm really embarrassed.
00:04:26I couldn't sleep and I just am embarrassed.
00:04:29I should not have acted that way.
00:04:37Is that a sorry?
00:04:41I'm sorry.
00:04:42I'm embarrassed for myself.
00:04:44Like, I'm sorry that I did that to you.
00:04:49Did you realize what you did last night in front of people?
00:04:53I don't like embarrassment or personal f***ing coming up.
00:04:56I acted f***ing cool and I shouldn't have told everyone in the bar.
00:05:00I think that I was just really triggered.
00:05:04The fact that, like, I didn't know you lived with her, that just brought up a ton of emotions for
00:05:08me.
00:05:08And sometimes I let my emotions get the best of me.
00:05:12And I'm just worried now where this makes us stand.
00:05:22That f***ing should never happen once.
00:05:26There's going to be a common occurrence.
00:05:28F***ing that.
00:05:31You know, I'm out.
00:05:38Well, I'm, I'm sorry.
00:05:46Are we still going to go to the zoo?
00:05:53Like, I'm, I'm leaving soon.
00:05:55I, I, I don't know where your head's at.
00:06:02I would understand if you don't want to take me.
00:06:04I, I...
00:06:05Whatever.
00:06:06We can go to the zoo.
00:06:10I think it's a hard situation for Josh.
00:06:12For me, a public embarrassment like that would be, would be, that, that'd be the end.
00:06:16But, um, I mean, the fact that it's not for him means he's either a stronger man than me or
00:06:20he really likes it.
00:06:21But I think it was a massive overreaction.
00:06:24Couldn't have been worse, really.
00:06:26And, you know, it's, it's not a good sign, especially so early in, in, in the, in the relationship.
00:06:32I'm going to get ready.
00:06:34Can I have a hug?
00:06:36Yeah, you can come here and give me a hug.
00:06:43I think I actually really embarrassed Josh big time.
00:06:48I'm sorry.
00:06:50Yeah.
00:06:53But I do still stand by my point that there is something off between him and Nat.
00:06:58My delivery could have been better, but my point is still there.
00:07:02Well, good luck with that.
00:07:05My actions were atrocious last night.
00:07:08And I feel like if we have some alone time and, like, I can explain to him how sorry I
00:07:12really am, I'll have time to, like, when I'm back.
00:07:22Baby, look, dingoes.
00:07:25Oh, you're cute.
00:07:27Coming in to see our koalas?
00:07:29Uh, yes.
00:07:29I can't come to Australia without seeing one.
00:07:32100%, yep.
00:07:33Hi!
00:07:34Her name is Kamira.
00:07:36Wait, she's so cute.
00:07:38She is very cute.
00:07:39Can I touch her?
00:07:40We can't touch her here.
00:07:41We are completely hands off.
00:07:43She does like people a lot.
00:07:45Hi!
00:07:46Oh, really?
00:07:47Hi!
00:07:49She's like a little teddy bear.
00:07:51She is like a little teddy.
00:07:52Most people probably think we're animals in Australia.
00:07:55They think of venomous, big snakes, big spiders.
00:07:57We have a lot of cute animals as well.
00:08:00Like, you know, koalas.
00:08:02Fun fact.
00:08:03But I do know koalas do carry chlamydia.
00:08:07Really?
00:08:08Yes.
00:08:10Thank you so much.
00:08:12Thank you so much.
00:08:12It's an absolute pleasure.
00:08:13Anytime.
00:08:14Enjoy the rest of your day, guys.
00:08:15Bye.
00:08:17Well, I'm so happy we did that.
00:08:19We can check that off our bucket list.
00:08:22We can.
00:08:24I'm glad that Lisa's having a good time.
00:08:26But it's hard for me to enjoy the zoo with, you know, everything that went on last night.
00:08:39It's so weird that you're not, like, touching me.
00:08:44Is it going to be, like, just kind of quiet?
00:08:46Or are we okay?
00:08:48Or, like, I'm trying to just, I don't know how, like, to interact right now.
00:08:54I don't know what to do.
00:08:58I told you, I told you how much I care about you, you know, how much you mean to me.
00:09:03And then, what, you go and do the most embarrassing thing I think I've been involved in.
00:09:09That was completely wrong.
00:09:11And I will own that.
00:09:12And I will take full responsibility that, like, that Elise last night was, like, that's not, that's not cool.
00:09:19And I'm sorry.
00:09:20All I'm trying to do is get you two to like each other.
00:09:23You are so much different to her.
00:09:25She's a friend.
00:09:27You are my girl.
00:09:29You embarrass her.
00:09:30You embarrass me.
00:09:32And you're supposed to be the one.
00:09:34Like, I don't know if I can be with someone after that.
00:09:40The thing is, like, I'm falling in love with you.
00:09:44Like, I am.
00:09:46But things like last night, it makes me hesitate, you know, on introducing you to more of my life.
00:09:57I think the bottom line is I am just so triggered that I didn't know that you lived with her.
00:10:03And it's just bringing up a lot of emotions.
00:10:06And I think just the...
00:10:07You've got answers.
00:10:09You've got answers.
00:10:11You're just not willing to accept them.
00:10:20I can understand why you're hurt.
00:10:22I can understand why you're upset.
00:10:24It will not happen again.
00:10:31No, I appreciate that.
00:10:33Are you giving me another chance?
00:10:39I'm not very confident.
00:10:42See how convincing you are.
00:10:45I'm sorry.
00:10:47When I hear Josh say he's falling for me, it, like, makes my heart feel so amazing.
00:10:52And it scares me to death that I literally almost lost him last night.
00:10:57Baby, they're so cute.
00:10:59Can we feed them?
00:11:00We can, yeah.
00:11:01I feel like I might be projecting my past traumas of my exes onto Josh.
00:11:05And that's not fair to him.
00:11:08You are so cute.
00:11:11I feel super fortunate that Josh is willing to give me another chance and not throw this
00:11:16all away for one crazy Elise escapade.
00:11:21But if I don't change now, and if I act this way again, I could lose him.
00:11:26Since then, we should be notified he's always waiting for me, we're very happy.
00:11:37I mean, this day we go.
00:11:39We need to have a train on.
00:11:42Ooh, Ooh.
00:12:18Earlier today, I met with Laura's friend, best friend, Michael.
00:12:26I can't believe what he told me.
00:12:30She let me believe that Michael was the one who made the move, and she made the move.
00:12:39I always think that Michael has feelings for Laura, but now I see that she is the one who
00:12:47wanted to be more than friends.
00:12:51How do I know she doesn't still felt that way now?
00:12:55Maybe that's why she didn't tell me.
00:13:01Honestly, it's a big deal for me.
00:13:05Maybe this is not her first lie.
00:13:08Maybe there was a lot of lies, and maybe it's all a lie.
00:13:16Hey, baby.
00:13:18Hey.
00:13:19How was your day?
00:13:20Perfect.
00:13:21Was it okay?
00:13:23Yeah.
00:13:23I'm curious.
00:13:24I enjoyed it.
00:13:27Did you really?
00:13:29Yeah.
00:13:29He's a good guy.
00:13:32I've been saying that.
00:13:34That's a relief to hear.
00:13:36He's a good guy.
00:13:38But it turns out, we're not so good.
00:13:46Why?
00:13:47What did I do?
00:13:51He told me that you made a move on.
00:14:02There is one person, I was worried that she can come between us.
00:14:09That one person was your best friend.
00:14:12Yeah.
00:14:12That one person you kept secret about.
00:14:17I didn't say anything because it was like, literally nothing to tell.
00:14:23You make me think like Michael is the enemy, he's trying to break us up.
00:14:27I didn't make you think that.
00:14:28You thought that all on your own.
00:14:30But you did not avoid it.
00:14:33It was almost a year ago.
00:14:36I didn't think I needed to tell you every little thing that's ever happened.
00:14:39This is a little thing, are you sure?
00:14:41It is a little thing.
00:14:42It is not a little thing.
00:14:43It's 100% a little thing.
00:14:44It was one tiny little thing.
00:14:46We got drunk.
00:14:47We were on the couch.
00:14:48I tried to kiss him.
00:14:49Big deal.
00:14:53One night, almost a full year into our friendship and before I met BeerCon, Michael and I were
00:15:00watching TV and we both had pretty solid buzz happening.
00:15:04Pretty soon we were kind of laying on top of each other on my couch and I tried to kiss
00:15:10Michael.
00:15:12Michael.
00:15:12He stopped me and shut it down.
00:15:16Although it was really hurtful in the moment, Michael and I never talked about it after
00:15:20that.
00:15:20It's not something that ever came up again.
00:15:22And I never told BeerCon that I once tried to kiss Michael because I knew if I did, he would
00:15:29never be okay with Michael and me staying friends.
00:15:36I don't trust you.
00:15:40This is your obligation to tell me your past.
00:15:45You tried to kiss him.
00:15:47Okay?
00:15:48Yeah.
00:15:48I did.
00:15:49That means you had feelings for him.
00:15:52You wanted something.
00:15:54They couldn't have it.
00:15:56Maybe you get drunk and try to kiss him again.
00:16:00He's still in your life and you kept this from a secret.
00:16:03Nothing happened.
00:16:06And you are still saying nothing happened.
00:16:08It doesn't matter.
00:16:10You still didn't tell me this thing.
00:16:15What would you like me to say?
00:16:17Maybe he was like, sorry.
00:16:21I was drunk.
00:16:22I tried to kiss him.
00:16:23But he refused me.
00:16:25But we are still friends.
00:16:30That was hard?
00:16:31No.
00:16:32You didn't want it to say.
00:16:37I'm trying to change my country.
00:16:39I'm trying to make plans for us, for our future.
00:16:44Now, I'm thinking about, maybe I shouldn't.
00:16:50This is so ridiculous.
00:16:56I'm surprised at Birkan's massive reaction.
00:17:02I don't think that it's that big of a deal that I didn't tell Birkan.
00:17:06I mean, let's be real.
00:17:08He's kept a lot of secrets from me and I'm still here.
00:17:12That pisses me off.
00:17:16You're missing all the points.
00:17:18I suspected something is going on between you and Michael.
00:17:23Nothing is going on.
00:17:23Will you just shut up and listen?
00:17:25Don't tell me to shut up.
00:17:31I...
00:17:32No.
00:17:33Just admit it, you're wrong.
00:17:37Or just don't talk.
00:17:38Maybe when you grow up a little bit, you'll learn to communicate a little better.
00:17:42You wanted a young husband.
00:17:44Deal with it.
00:17:46You know what?
00:17:48I wish we never met.
00:17:50I don't have to go through all of these...
00:17:52I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry.
00:17:54You wish that who never met?
00:17:57Us.
00:17:58You and me?
00:17:59Yeah.
00:18:00I can trust you.
00:18:03That's fine.
00:18:04I will get back on a plane and leave.
00:18:09Mm-hmm.
00:18:13If you care this much...
00:18:15No, it's fine. No, I don't.
00:18:16You cross the line.
00:18:18If you're going to tell me that you wish we never met,
00:18:22I have nothing left to say to you.
00:18:24Okay.
00:18:38There's one thing you didn't fulfill last night for me.
00:18:42What's that?
00:18:44Oral sex.
00:18:47Her fellow women have been giving her the oral sex.
00:18:50I am not a woman.
00:18:52I have my...
00:18:55There's only a few things I've asked of you.
00:19:01My mom, she's been blowing me up all morning,
00:19:05sending me tons and tons of text messages.
00:19:07Babe, mom would strangle you everything she can
00:19:10just to get rid of our relationship.
00:19:13We both needed some space away from my mother.
00:19:16But I'm terrified to tell her that I'm planning on
00:19:20staying in the Philippines.
00:19:22It's time for you to grow up and be a man.
00:19:25Not just following her orders around.
00:19:29When you know, you know.
00:19:32That's how the story goes.
00:19:34I wasn't sure that I believed it.
00:19:36Then you came and made it so easy.
00:19:39I got this envelope.
00:19:41It looks like we're gonna get wrapped up in bananas.
00:19:44Woo! Banana?
00:19:46You gonna put me in the plane?
00:19:47Yeah.
00:19:58Hello, everyone.
00:19:59Hello.
00:20:01Welcome.
00:20:03Good afternoon, pa. Welcome to the banana leaf wrap.
00:20:06This is a good experience for you, ma'am and sir.
00:20:08Because banana leaf wrap is good for skin.
00:20:11We need to proceed, ma'am.
00:20:13Alright, thank you. Yeah, thank you.
00:20:16Should I really need to remove my tops or something? No.
00:20:19If you want, ma'am.
00:20:20It's okay. It's okay.
00:20:22Last night, she and I, having the night away with each other,
00:20:26getting a chance to be with each other intimately,
00:20:28it was definitely something that we both needed.
00:20:32And I'm hoping the spa treatment is gonna help us de-stress.
00:20:35Lay down, ma'am. Lay down.
00:20:37Lay down, ma'am. Okay.
00:20:38Because I only have a few more days left here in the Philippines,
00:20:41and I have a lot of hard decisions to make about my future with Sheena.
00:20:47And then, we need to put a banana leaf wrap to your body, ma'am.
00:20:51I agree.
00:20:52Oh, wow. I sure hope the wrap fits me.
00:20:57I'm extra, extra long.
00:21:01This is my first time that I've done this banana leaf treatment,
00:21:04and it feels like you're being placed on, like, as a food.
00:21:08Which is, most people in my country, they would use banana leaves to wrap food around.
00:21:12It's going for me.
00:21:16How's things looking up there, ladies? Pretty good?
00:21:18It's okay, sir.
00:21:19Yeah.
00:21:20I feel like a giant wrap tamale here.
00:21:24Tamale, bro.
00:21:25They're gonna throw me in the oven next.
00:21:27I was waiting to be steamed alive.
00:21:29They're gonna steam you.
00:21:31This is so strange.
00:21:32Like, I don't understand why all my clothes are still on.
00:21:36Oh, my goodness.
00:21:37But it's very relaxing to be basically tied down with banana leaves and unable to move
00:21:45as the sun blasts me in the face and melts off my...
00:21:51woes.
00:21:52It was highly recommended by the hotel.
00:21:55Hello, honey. This is quite relaxing.
00:21:58Yeah. I'm having a lot of fun here.
00:22:01And it's starting to rain.
00:22:03Oh, yeah. I love the rain.
00:22:05Yeah.
00:22:06Gotta love the rain and the banana leaf.
00:22:08Oh, the banana leaf.
00:22:13Just being here with you, it's just amazing.
00:22:16Yeah.
00:22:19I've been thinking about everything, and I feel like last night just strengthened the urge to be with you more.
00:22:25And so maybe I could get a job and start working here for the next few years.
00:22:33Wow.
00:22:34I kept praying for you to stay here.
00:22:37I love you, baby bear.
00:22:39I would try to prepare things as well for you to stay here.
00:22:43I would try to help you find a job.
00:22:45If not, then I could work on my own, find a better job.
00:22:49I'll do what I can, my love.
00:22:52Sheena and I, from the very start, have always dreamed about making our lives in the United States together.
00:22:58But at this point, living in the Philippines, I feel the best option.
00:23:04It means I get to be with Sheena faster.
00:23:08I feel that Sheena is always encouraging me to be my best self and to try to do things that
00:23:14are way out of my bounds.
00:23:17It's a big gamble, but just thinking now about being away from her just rips up my heart and tears
00:23:23out my soul.
00:23:24I personally believe you're my wife, even though we haven't signed any papers or gone to any, you know, church.
00:23:31You're my wife, and I don't want to be away from my second half.
00:23:36And I hope that your mom would happy to respect that as our decision to make, not hers, but to
00:23:44us only.
00:23:47Well, she's been blowing me up all morning, sending me tons and tons of text messages.
00:23:53Even though my mom has been giving me the cold shoulder ever since I proposed to Sheena,
00:23:59I felt like I needed to text her to tell her that we met with an immigration lawyer.
00:24:06That's when she really started blowing me up.
00:24:13My mom has always been a very controlling person.
00:24:16And I'm terrified to tell her and Deb that I'm planning on staying in the Philippines.
00:24:23I'm worried knowing that I'm going to disappoint my mom.
00:24:26Babe, mom would strangle everything that she can just to get rid of our relationship.
00:24:33Even though I happen to try to do many things for her, it's time for you to grow up and
00:24:39be a man and try to tell mom that you want to do some things that you wanted to do.
00:24:43Not just following her orders, her orders around.
00:24:48You have to make your own decisions.
00:24:52My mother, she's always been my safety net.
00:24:54But her meddling constantly causes conflict between Sheena and I.
00:24:59I think it's a good thing living in the Philippines because it's going to definitely give me some space away
00:25:06from my mother.
00:25:08Hello, mom, sir. Excuse voice, time's up.
00:25:10Okay, thank you.
00:25:12But at the same time, I am 100% defying everything my mom has told me not to do.
00:25:19And I'm scared.
00:25:23I'm tired of waiting and I'm ready to start life together.
00:25:26It's your time to shine, honey.
00:25:28I'm there for you.
00:25:41You have to decide it, yes or no.
00:25:43But if no, we cannot be together anymore.
00:25:55You have to decide it, you want to have a baby with me or not.
00:26:04Can you tell them that we haven't even been talking for a year yet?
00:26:34You just want the answer to the question.
00:26:38You want to have a baby or not?
00:26:54My uncle said we are strict about having children because they represent our family line continuing.
00:27:03That's what we believe.
00:27:05And it's not going to change.
00:27:07So we only wait for you and you know that.
00:27:12In their culture, having a baby is the most important thing.
00:27:19I understand that and I would hate for Trish not to be respected by her community over this.
00:27:25If Trish didn't have a baby, I feel like she would be ashamed.
00:27:32I would feel awful if she looked at herself in that way.
00:27:40They're waiting for our answer.
00:27:44Okay.
00:27:44Okay.
00:27:46But at the same time, I'm feeling like I'm a piece of meat in a pressure cooker.
00:27:54I don't feel like I'm being forced to make a life-changing decision in such little time.
00:28:07I know how important it is to the family and I really know how important it is to Trish.
00:28:16Trish, if we're going to be together and get married, then I want to make you happy.
00:28:24I want you to feel like your life is complete.
00:28:31So, I have to say yes.
00:28:37So you saying yes now?
00:28:40Yes.
00:28:41Why you change your mind like that?
00:28:44I didn't fully understand, you know, before.
00:29:05I'm really shocked that Rick said yes suddenly because he was not sure about his answer.
00:29:13Maybe because of my uncle's pressure, but I'm really excited.
00:29:19And also my family is very excited to hear that response.
00:29:29So when are we going to have the baby?
00:29:37I will file for the visa.
00:29:40Yeah, it's going to take at least eight months to a year.
00:29:44And then once she's approved, after we get married, then that's when we're going to start planning our family together.
00:29:52And then after we get married, then that's when we get married.
00:30:01If someone does leave, so I don't know.
00:30:02Then he's going to get married, but we can't do it anymore.
00:30:03I have to move on for the next day.
00:30:08That's when I'm the atheist, that's when I am the치를.
00:30:16That's when I leave.
00:30:18I cannot purchase.
00:30:22Say quick, quick, make this a quick.
00:30:28So what if after 20 years you start?
00:30:32By the end of August, in about three months,
00:30:36then I will propose to Trish.
00:30:40So in three months, we are going to be engaged,
00:30:45and you will start the process?
00:30:47If everything goes in the direction that's been going
00:30:51in the last few days, then yes.
00:30:54That's what's going to happen.
00:31:12They are going to give a blessing for everything.
00:31:18This is great news.
00:31:20I'm so happy that it's turning out this way.
00:31:26Honestly, I felt bullied in this decision
00:31:29because I really wanted to be with Trish,
00:31:33and the only way that I would be able to
00:31:36is to agree to have a baby with her.
00:31:39But seeing Trish's reaction on how excited she is,
00:31:46it's definitely making me feel more positive.
00:31:51I'm starting to get excited about the possibilities
00:31:54of having this family with Trish.
00:31:59She would be a great mother.
00:32:01And I'm actually starting to envision it,
00:32:06and things were looking really good.
00:32:09Her happiness is all I want.
00:32:21When you get back to America,
00:32:23you have to make an inquiry how I will get to America, right?
00:32:26I'm going to do that, but you do know
00:32:28I can't keep sending as much money as I have been.
00:32:34Every penny has to go towards an immigration lawyer.
00:32:37I can't even spend money anymore.
00:32:39I'm done.
00:32:50We have to snuggle before we get up.
00:32:52One last snuggle.
00:33:03Now I have more sex with you.
00:33:04Before you go, before you...
00:33:06I hope so.
00:33:11Baby.
00:33:12Baby.
00:33:12There's one thing you didn't fulfill last night for me.
00:33:16One promise.
00:33:18What is that?
00:33:18World sex.
00:33:19Oh.
00:33:22Why are you putting it off?
00:33:24I know you like it.
00:33:26Honey, you've been talking.
00:33:27You've been...
00:33:27How many on that you've been?
00:33:28There's only a few things I've asked of you,
00:33:31and that's a major one right there for me.
00:33:34It's major for me.
00:33:37I've never had oral sex with Lisa,
00:33:40because I've never tried it before.
00:33:42I don't know how to do it.
00:33:45Her fellow women have been giving her the oral sex she wants.
00:33:48And she wants me to be doing the same.
00:33:51I am not a woman.
00:33:53I have my...
00:33:56Yes, I give her what I have.
00:34:00When we get married, I'll make it up to you.
00:34:03Okay?
00:34:04Promise.
00:34:05I promise you.
00:34:06You better keep this promise, because I've done so much.
00:34:09I'm sorry. Okay?
00:34:11I'll make it up to you.
00:34:16I wish it's possible for us to stay, like, spend, like, one more week.
00:34:21It's not possible.
00:34:23You gotta start getting ready.
00:34:27Okay.
00:34:28I'm leaving to go home today after three weeks in Nigeria.
00:34:32And more than half of my trip was fighting with Daniel about my lies.
00:34:38And then, I had to make up for all those lies.
00:34:43And I'm finally at a happy point.
00:34:45Everything is done.
00:34:46I just want to stay here with Daniel and get married.
00:34:49I don't want to go home.
00:34:53Um, baby, you know, I really wanted to marry you before you left.
00:34:59I sent you to help us to find my papers.
00:35:03So, that means when you get back to America, you have to make an inquiry how I'll get to America,
00:35:08right?
00:35:09I'm gonna do that, babe.
00:35:11My first step is to get back to work.
00:35:13And then, I am going to get in touch with an immigration lawyer.
00:35:17Okay.
00:35:18We are gonna find out which is better, the K-1 visa or getting married in Nigeria.
00:35:24Which one's gonna get you to America faster?
00:35:27That would be nice.
00:35:28Okay? So, that's what we'll do.
00:35:29That's okay.
00:35:33But, babe, you do know I can't keep sending as much money as I have been.
00:35:40At this point, every penny has to go towards an immigration lawyer, getting you to America, doing what we need
00:35:48to do.
00:35:48I cannot send any more money.
00:35:50I can't even spend money anymore.
00:35:51I'm done.
00:35:56Um, that's fine, but you know how hard Nigeria is. Okay? So, maybe I have to call you and ask
00:36:04you for assistance.
00:36:07Next.
00:36:10You have to try not to, because I have to save for us to get you to America.
00:36:15Um, babe, there's no problem about that. I have you.
00:36:21So, we have a game plan now?
00:36:23Yes.
00:36:24Hmm.
00:36:28All right, I have to get dressed. You have to get dressed. We have to get going.
00:36:33She said she's not going to give me money anymore. Fine, because I'm not getting married to her because of
00:36:38the money she's giving me. No.
00:36:40I'm getting married to her because she's the one I want to settle down with.
00:36:45She has good plans for me. She's the one processing my visa to come to America.
00:36:50She's not expecting me to do it by myself.
00:36:53Babes.
00:36:54What?
00:36:55This is so funny.
00:36:56You gonna wear it today?
00:36:58What?
00:36:59Do you know what women will say to me?
00:37:00What?
00:37:01They will say, your wife is wicked.
00:37:03Will you wear it when I'm gone?
00:37:05Oh, my God.
00:37:07So, um, she deserves an applause. She's, she deserves a good, you know, good things.
00:37:12That's why I'll wait for you forever.
00:37:21All I want is love. And she has been giving it to me.
00:37:24I will miss her, um, her soft kiss. I will miss everything about her.
00:37:31Even the sky is crying. It's raining.
00:37:35You're my husband. I love you.
00:37:37I love you.
00:37:42I knew it was gonna be hard. I didn't know it was gonna be this hard.
00:37:46Last time we were here, I got engaged.
00:37:50To you.
00:37:52Oh, my God, baby.
00:37:59This trip was nothing what I expected.
00:38:02I didn't imagine getting engaged when I landed.
00:38:04I didn't imagine meeting his uncle and getting a blessing.
00:38:08I didn't imagine seeing a king of all people.
00:38:12I didn't imagine any of this.
00:38:14I didn't imagine I'd buy a goat.
00:38:16I mean, none of this.
00:38:18I never could have experienced without coming here.
00:38:26I don't wanna go.
00:38:30But I have to go.
00:38:34I don't want to do with you.
00:38:36It'll happen soon.
00:38:38When you get sad, look at my picture.
00:38:57It's okay.
00:39:00It's okay, baby.
00:39:02It's okay, baby.
00:39:05I love you so much.
00:39:07I love you so, so much.
00:39:10we'll be together soon
00:39:16my baby
00:39:21I feel that I will not see her again
00:39:25because anything can happen
00:39:27she might go back to her country
00:39:30and she might change her mind on most of the promises
00:39:32like bringing me to her country, you know, the visa
00:39:37I am hoping she will do it
00:39:39but we are not married legally yet
00:39:42so it's very hard for me to say goodbye
00:39:46I miss you so much
00:39:50I love you baby, I can't do it
00:39:51you have to walk away from me, I can't do it
00:40:07okay, I'll go, I'll go
00:40:12it's very hard
00:40:13I feel like I'm not going to see him again
00:40:15even though I know I'm going to
00:40:16I'm making these plans
00:40:18but I'm thinking what if they fall through
00:40:22what if it's more than six months
00:40:24what if it's more than a year
00:40:25what if, what if
00:40:27what if it's two years
00:40:30what happens
00:40:31between Daniel and I
00:40:32I don't know
00:40:49it's nice
00:40:50it's a big house
00:40:51you can have sex in a lot of rooms
00:40:55I was really upset with Elise
00:40:56and how she acted at the bar the other night
00:40:58but she's trying to make it up to me
00:41:00you know I've never used a kitchen in my house
00:41:02so the fact that I'm doing this
00:41:04must mean I really like you
00:41:06oh
00:41:11you said let's turn the heat up
00:41:13I said you'd play with my heart
00:41:15you said you're fine with the cheap stuff
00:41:18it tastes the same in the dark
00:41:20in the light of the cold grey
00:41:22cries for the old days
00:41:25it's a match in the dark
00:41:28okay we have everything you think
00:41:30yep
00:41:31okay to a trip just us
00:41:34Chris gets the place to himself now
00:41:36silence is coming soon
00:41:39it's finally peaceful
00:41:42on the moon
00:41:46grey mountains
00:41:47it's a lot of
00:41:50what's this?
00:41:52it's called deodorant
00:41:53I was really upset with Elise
00:41:58and how she acted at the bar
00:41:59the other night
00:42:00but Elise has realised
00:42:01she was in the wrong
00:42:02and she's trying to make it up to me
00:42:04and she's organised
00:42:05a two night stay
00:42:06at the Blue Mountains
00:42:07take me away
00:42:09the Blue Mountains are known
00:42:11for their hiking
00:42:11and waterfalls
00:42:12and it's a different part of nature
00:42:14besides the beaches
00:42:15that Sydney has
00:42:16so I'm excited
00:42:17you know
00:42:17I've never even been
00:42:19I wouldn't say all is forgiven
00:42:21but she's trying
00:42:22and this is a good start
00:42:34oh my god are we here?
00:42:36we are here
00:42:38it's nice
00:42:39it's a big house
00:42:40we can have sex
00:42:41in a lot of rooms
00:42:44yes we can
00:42:47I knew absolutely nothing
00:42:49about the Blue Mountains
00:42:50but Josh has always spoken about it
00:42:53and how much he wanted to go
00:42:54so I decided to book us a trip
00:42:56and there's hot tubs there
00:42:57so I was like
00:42:58love that
00:43:00look baby
00:43:01look what I got us
00:43:02whoa
00:43:03oh wow
00:43:04a lot of space
00:43:06for a lot of activity
00:43:07you're the best
00:43:09I know
00:43:10I thought it was a great idea
00:43:12to get out of Bondi
00:43:13away from Nat
00:43:14away from Chris
00:43:15away from Boats
00:43:17I just want for us
00:43:18to really unplug
00:43:19and just be with each other more
00:43:23get out of the kitchen
00:43:24I was cooking for you
00:43:27you know I've never used
00:43:29the kitchen in my house
00:43:30so the fact that I'm doing this
00:43:32for you must mean
00:43:32I really like you
00:43:33that does mean a lot
00:43:35this should be fun
00:43:45this is not the first
00:43:47stuff I thought
00:43:48was going to be in my mouth
00:43:49oh no
00:43:54I'm crying
00:43:55this is
00:43:56oh that was process
00:44:02half of it went in my mouth
00:44:03my face
00:44:04my boobs
00:44:05maybe
00:44:06should I take it off
00:44:09why isn't this
00:44:10coming to a boil
00:44:11I don't know how
00:44:12to turn on the stove
00:44:13oh
00:44:15which pasta do you want
00:44:17that's so embarrassing
00:44:19what packet was that in
00:44:21I'm making you
00:44:22two types of pasta
00:44:23perfect
00:44:28nope
00:44:29not ready
00:44:29oh my god
00:44:30this feels really good
00:44:36oh my god
00:44:37oh my god
00:44:38oh my god
00:44:39oh my god
00:44:40I read somewhere
00:44:41I heard that
00:44:42you'll know if pasta's ready
00:44:43if it sticks to the wall
00:44:45so like if you
00:44:46cook pasta
00:44:47and then it sticks to the wall
00:44:47then you know it's ready
00:44:48yeah but I don't think that's the same
00:44:50with penne pasta
00:44:54let's throw in the pasta
00:44:57oh my god
00:44:58there's water in you
00:45:00oh I think I just ruined the sauce
00:45:03baby
00:45:05the kitchen is definitely
00:45:07not her element
00:45:08I love seeing the side of Elise
00:45:10that's doing something
00:45:11that she's not used to doing
00:45:13alright that will do
00:45:14Elise
00:45:15she keeps me on my toes
00:45:17I don't like it when things get
00:45:19stagnant or boring or stale
00:45:21and I know it's not going to be dull
00:45:23let's see how we go
00:45:25is it good?
00:45:26it's actually not that bad
00:45:33it's horrible
00:45:35be honest
00:45:36I'm not picky
00:45:37it was the most fun I've had
00:45:39making dinner
00:45:41I laughed my head off
00:45:42and I needed that
00:45:43me too
00:45:45you know what's so cute about Josh
00:45:47is like when I f*** up
00:45:48or I do something stupid
00:45:49or I feel really awkward
00:45:51like he makes so light of it
00:45:52I don't know
00:45:53it's the little moments
00:45:55like then
00:45:56that I'm like
00:45:56you know what
00:45:58I feel like he could be my forever
00:46:00but there's just one thing
00:46:02he hasn't followed through on
00:46:03and it's been constantly
00:46:04playing in the back of my mind
00:46:06I don't know if I can go back
00:46:08to Florida
00:46:10not having met your son
00:46:13to see how you are
00:46:14as a father
00:46:15you would have met him already
00:46:16I would want you to
00:46:17but he's moved away
00:46:19so for now
00:46:20can we FaceTime?
00:46:22will that work?
00:46:23yeah
00:46:24I'm not trying to harp on him again
00:46:26after everything
00:46:27that we've went through
00:46:28but I'm leaving soon
00:46:30and I haven't met anyone
00:46:31in his family
00:46:31I haven't met his son
00:46:32and this is a huge part
00:46:34of his life
00:46:35that I'm completely
00:46:36missing out on
00:46:37so I really really hope
00:46:39that it can happen
00:46:40before the end of my trip
00:46:42pretty full
00:46:44me too
00:46:45I don't know
00:46:48we're looking for wedding bands
00:46:50I like classic stuff
00:46:53it is really important
00:46:55for me
00:46:56to have the wedding ring
00:46:59$268
00:46:59I think he's not sure
00:47:03you don't want
00:47:05some men mistaking me
00:47:06you know
00:47:07still available
00:47:08single woman
00:47:09they can have you
00:47:10okay
00:47:11okay
00:47:26sure
00:47:27why not
00:47:30we have a wiener
00:47:33you really wanted that
00:47:35don't you
00:47:35here we go
00:47:39weee
00:47:41ready boo
00:47:42whoo
00:47:44whoo
00:47:45whoo
00:47:46whoo
00:47:46whoo
00:47:47whoo
00:47:47whoo
00:47:49whoo
00:47:50whoo
00:47:51whoo
00:47:51whoo
00:48:01whoo
00:48:05that was fun
00:48:06yeah
00:48:06that was so fun
00:48:09oh
00:48:09look at those jobs
00:48:10that's where you can find
00:48:12very nice wedding gowns
00:48:14and dresses
00:48:15like
00:48:15really
00:48:16pretty
00:48:17nice
00:48:18can't wait for the
00:48:20anniversary party
00:48:21yeah
00:48:25things with
00:48:26Jovon and I
00:48:27are really good
00:48:28and now
00:48:29in a couple of days
00:48:30we're having our
00:48:30anniversary party
00:48:31where we're going
00:48:32to renew our vows
00:48:36since we never had
00:48:37a wedding in person
00:48:38basically it's just like
00:48:40a second wedding to me
00:48:42you know
00:48:45cause last time
00:48:46we didn't get to
00:48:47touch each other
00:48:48face to face
00:48:50I've been dreaming
00:48:51about this
00:48:52and now it's happening
00:48:53and I just can't wait
00:48:57okay
00:48:57boo
00:48:59yeee
00:49:00are you ready
00:49:02yeah
00:49:02I guess so
00:49:05now that we're going
00:49:07to renew our vows
00:49:09good afternoon
00:49:10we decided
00:49:12to look at rings
00:49:15we've been married
00:49:16we've been married almost
00:49:17three years
00:49:17and sometimes
00:49:19I still can't believe
00:49:20that Jovon
00:49:21hasn't put a ring
00:49:23on it yet
00:49:24I feel like I'm the
00:49:26only woman in the world
00:49:28that got married
00:49:28without a wedding band
00:49:31hi
00:49:32hello
00:49:33what are you looking for
00:49:34we're looking for
00:49:36wedding bands
00:49:37we have different styles
00:49:38okay
00:49:39what are you prepared for
00:49:40well I'm okay with a
00:49:42simple
00:49:42plain
00:49:43wedding band
00:49:44I want it
00:49:45more
00:49:46classic
00:49:47I like classic stuff
00:49:53this one
00:49:57it is really important
00:49:59for me
00:50:00to have the wedding ring
00:50:01my symbol of love
00:50:03you need a ring
00:50:04to symbolize that
00:50:05I assume you don't want
00:50:07some men mistaken
00:50:08me as you know
00:50:09still available
00:50:10single woman
00:50:11they can have you
00:50:12okay
00:50:14okay
00:50:14she's on the market
00:50:16I'm playing
00:50:17relax
00:50:18when is your wedding
00:50:20well
00:50:22we're actually
00:50:23married already
00:50:24we don't have
00:50:25an official
00:50:26wedding rings yet
00:50:27we did our marriage
00:50:29online
00:50:29that's why
00:50:30you know
00:50:33to be fair
00:50:33you know
00:50:34I did get you
00:50:36a ring
00:50:37okay
00:50:37you send me
00:50:38your money
00:50:39and I bought
00:50:40a ring
00:50:41that's
00:50:41under $100
00:50:43that's turned
00:50:44my finger green
00:50:46but that's
00:50:47what you wanted
00:50:47I thought
00:50:48no I thought
00:50:49it's just a
00:50:50substitute ring
00:50:52how about
00:50:53poor sir
00:50:53what do you think
00:50:55when it come to
00:50:56bands
00:50:56like I prefer
00:50:58like
00:50:59like like this
00:51:00silver in the middle
00:51:02kind of sporty
00:51:03but they don't
00:51:04sell that
00:51:04I already bought
00:51:08myself a
00:51:09non-expensive
00:51:10ring
00:51:10before we got
00:51:11married
00:51:12and I like
00:51:13it a lot
00:51:15I'm not a
00:51:16jewelry person
00:51:16and I really
00:51:18don't want to
00:51:18spend money
00:51:18on something
00:51:19I don't need
00:51:20or want
00:51:23this one
00:51:24is good
00:51:24it's just
00:51:25that
00:51:26it's too
00:51:29skinny
00:51:29like do you
00:51:30have something
00:51:31that's a little
00:51:31bit wider
00:51:33I have
00:51:33different
00:51:34kind
00:51:34of
00:51:34this
00:51:35this
00:51:35one
00:51:39is good
00:51:40I like
00:51:41this one
00:51:41more simple
00:51:43but really
00:51:44looks like
00:51:45I'm married
00:51:46you know
00:51:47what I mean
00:51:48how much
00:51:48is this
00:51:50per gram
00:51:51no
00:51:51yes
00:51:5215510
00:51:53in peso
00:51:5415510
00:51:55how much is that
00:51:56US$
00:51:56that's 268
00:51:58in dollar
00:51:59268
00:52:00yeah
00:52:00do you have
00:52:01anything budget
00:52:02no we didn't
00:52:04really have a budget
00:52:05but
00:52:07he's not
00:52:08he's not sure
00:52:10are we gonna buy this
00:52:13what do you mean
00:52:14today
00:52:15yeah
00:52:17I can come back
00:52:25you can come back
00:52:27yeah
00:52:29cause I gotta
00:52:30sort out my bank stuff
00:52:31okay
00:52:35why would you bring me
00:52:36bring shopping
00:52:37if we're not gonna buy
00:52:39anything anyway
00:52:41what's the point
00:52:42of going out
00:52:43just to get an idea
00:52:45of
00:52:46what you
00:52:46want
00:52:53thank you so much
00:52:56bye bye
00:52:58I feel so humiliated
00:53:01that I can't even have
00:53:03the cheapest ring
00:53:04it's not just a jewelry
00:53:07it's a symbol of our
00:53:09marriage
00:53:10I waited six years
00:53:12to be together in person
00:53:14he never applied for
00:53:17a spousal visa
00:53:17and now
00:53:19I still don't have a ring
00:53:23once again
00:53:24he is making me feel
00:53:26like he's not
00:53:27invested
00:53:27in our relationship
00:53:31that was embarrassing
00:53:33a little bit
00:53:35you just don't care
00:53:37don't you
00:53:44I don't know why
00:53:46he insists
00:53:47that I'm in love with him
00:53:49I really don't
00:53:50I mean you did
00:53:50jump on a plane
00:53:52and come to my rescue
00:53:54I don't think
00:53:55he's the only person
00:53:56that thinks that
00:53:59there's a lot of layers
00:54:00there
00:54:01and I mean
00:54:16oh
00:54:20hey
00:54:20hey
00:54:22what concern
00:54:23from that phone call
00:54:24you gave me
00:54:24yeah
00:54:26me too
00:54:36I'm assuming
00:54:37I'm assuming you've
00:54:37talked in beer con
00:54:38yeah
00:54:39I did
00:54:39it was super great
00:54:41thanks for that
00:54:42I kind of partly
00:54:43blame you
00:54:45okay
00:54:48I don't know
00:54:49he's
00:54:49you don't know
00:54:50I don't know
00:54:51what was said
00:54:52between you and him
00:54:53I only know mine
00:54:54in the story
00:54:55okay
00:54:55so we have to
00:54:57come together
00:54:57okay
00:54:58super curious
00:55:00what was going
00:55:01through your head
00:55:02telling him
00:55:03that I
00:55:04hit on you
00:55:05like I don't
00:55:06understand what
00:55:07how that even
00:55:08came up
00:55:09we never did
00:55:10anything
00:55:10and he's pissed
00:55:11off about it
00:55:12because I didn't
00:55:13tell him
00:55:14told me that
00:55:15he wishes
00:55:16he never met me
00:55:17and I kind of
00:55:18feel like
00:55:18there was zero
00:55:19reason for you
00:55:20to bring that up
00:55:22okay
00:55:23and I'd like to
00:55:23know why you did
00:55:24okay
00:55:27I'm brought it up
00:55:28because Peter Kahn
00:55:29was under the
00:55:30impression that I
00:55:31was in love with you
00:55:32that man kept
00:55:34pushing and pushing
00:55:35and pushing
00:55:36and at some point
00:55:37I need him to
00:55:38understand
00:55:39that
00:55:40I said no
00:55:43to us having
00:55:44a relationship
00:55:45but you were the
00:55:45one that asked
00:55:46and from that
00:55:47he got very upset
00:55:48and I tried to
00:55:49reassure him
00:55:49it was a year ago
00:55:50it didn't
00:55:51I mean it was
00:55:52before you met him
00:55:53I feel like
00:55:54honestly
00:55:55it feels like
00:55:56a backhanded way
00:55:57of trying to
00:55:58sabotage it
00:56:00how long
00:56:00have you been
00:56:01here with him
00:56:03how long
00:56:04have you been
00:56:04here with him
00:56:05two and a half weeks
00:56:06and in two and a half weeks
00:56:07you cannot convince him
00:56:08that was not a threat
00:56:16but that's not on me
00:56:17I did everything
00:56:18I could to diffuse
00:56:18that situation
00:56:21I don't know
00:56:22why he insists
00:56:24that I'm in love
00:56:24with you
00:56:25I really don't
00:56:26I mean you did
00:56:27jump on a plane
00:56:28and come to my rescue
00:56:31I don't think
00:56:32he's the only person
00:56:33that thinks that
00:56:37there's a lot of layers there
00:56:39but
00:56:40no that's
00:56:41not something
00:56:42I want to happen
00:56:43anyhow
00:56:45we're friends
00:56:47I don't want to anymore
00:56:50at the end of the day
00:56:51I want you to be happy
00:56:53all I ever heard
00:56:54was little stories
00:56:54here and there
00:56:55about him
00:56:55from you
00:56:56you said
00:56:57all these bad things
00:56:59and just
00:56:59why does she keep
00:57:00talking to this guy
00:57:01so I came to meet him
00:57:03to see all the other
00:57:04good stuff
00:57:05and you don't have to
00:57:06worry about him
00:57:07and I anymore
00:57:08you just need to make sure
00:57:09that he's the right guy
00:57:10for you
00:57:11before you make a commitment
00:57:13I don't even know
00:57:14what to do right now
00:57:15like there's part of me
00:57:16that just wants to like
00:57:16go have another conversation
00:57:17with him
00:57:18but I don't even know
00:57:19what to say
00:57:19because he just told me
00:57:21he wishes he never met me
00:57:22okay
00:57:22but the opposite of love
00:57:24is not anger
00:57:24it's apathy
00:57:25so angry means
00:57:26he still loves you
00:57:29I don't believe Michael
00:57:31when he says
00:57:32he doesn't have any
00:57:33feelings for me at all
00:57:35romantically
00:57:36but I think ultimately
00:57:38he does have
00:57:38my best interest in mind
00:57:40and I think he does care
00:57:41about the future
00:57:42of my relationship
00:57:43with beer con
00:57:45beer con is the person
00:57:46I need in my life
00:57:48and I want to fix this
00:57:50I just don't really know
00:57:52how to go about it
00:57:54so what do I do?
00:57:55I feel like he never
00:57:57could understand
00:57:58that I didn't feel like
00:57:58that was that big of a deal
00:58:00you acknowledge that
00:58:02he felt the way he did
00:58:03it didn't matter
00:58:04whether he was right or not
00:58:06no I never said that
00:58:08at the end of the day
00:58:10the relationship
00:58:11is more important
00:58:12than the argument
00:58:15which means somebody
00:58:16has to say
00:58:16I'm sorry
00:58:18it's amazing
00:58:19how the words
00:58:20I'm sorry
00:58:21when said truly
00:58:22can diffuse
00:58:23the situation
00:58:25I see your point
00:58:28I guess I'll go
00:58:29give him a call
00:58:29and see if I can
00:58:31fix that
00:58:32thank you
00:58:37I'll let you know
00:58:38how it goes
00:58:39thank you
00:58:40yeah
00:58:59how are you
00:59:01I'm good
00:59:03how are you
00:59:04I'm okay
00:59:07I was just
00:59:08wondering if
00:59:09we could talk
00:59:16I'm sorry
00:59:17did you say
00:59:17not today
00:59:19yeah
00:59:23am I not supposed
00:59:24to come back
00:59:25to the apartment
00:59:26I'm sorry
00:59:27just give me the space
00:59:32okay
00:59:32I guess I will
00:59:35get a room somewhere
00:59:37okay
00:59:38we both need
00:59:39time
00:59:40yeah
00:59:41and we both need
00:59:42to think about
00:59:43what's going on
00:59:44mm-hmm
00:59:47okay
00:59:49okay
00:59:50bye
00:59:53bye
00:59:59I don't want
01:00:00to force you
01:00:01but like
01:00:01am I ever
01:00:02going to meet
01:00:03your son
01:00:04when Elise
01:00:05asked to meet
01:00:05my son
01:00:06I can see
01:00:06that she really
01:00:07really cares
01:00:07but honestly
01:00:09after all the
01:00:09fighting with Elise
01:00:10I've had my doubts
01:00:11about trying to
01:00:12let her in
01:00:13to the most
01:00:13important part
01:00:14of my life
01:00:21oh my god
01:00:23oh that's hot
01:00:24oh that's hot
01:00:25oh it's really hot
01:00:28that's burning
01:00:29oh you found
01:00:31the champagne
01:00:31I got
01:00:32it did
01:00:33so good
01:00:34I think
01:00:35you should
01:00:35open it
01:00:39wow
01:00:41cheers
01:00:42to that
01:00:49what a perfect ending
01:00:51to a perfect
01:00:52little guy
01:00:53good drive
01:00:56good cooking
01:00:58it's so funny
01:00:59huh
01:01:00it's so funny
01:01:01okay
01:01:01I tried
01:01:03so am I making
01:01:04it up to you
01:01:05am I doing
01:01:05a good job
01:01:06so far
01:01:06yeah
01:01:07absolutely
01:01:09well
01:01:10have I made
01:01:11it up to you
01:01:12enough
01:01:12that like
01:01:13you can let me
01:01:14in your own world
01:01:16yeah
01:01:18well
01:01:19I want
01:01:20to be with you
01:01:21and I'm scared
01:01:23that I've came
01:01:24literally around
01:01:25the world
01:01:25and all I've met
01:01:26is like a few
01:01:27friends
01:01:28and I don't
01:01:29want to force you
01:01:30but like
01:01:31am I ever
01:01:32going to meet
01:01:32your son
01:01:37when Elise
01:01:38asked to meet
01:01:39my son
01:01:39or you know
01:01:40talk to my son
01:01:41I find that endearing
01:01:42but honestly
01:01:43the last couple
01:01:44of days
01:01:45after all the
01:01:45fighting with Elise
01:01:46I've had my doubts
01:01:47about whether
01:01:48I'll introduce him
01:01:49or not
01:01:50obviously I'm very
01:01:51protective of my son
01:01:52so I want to be
01:01:53confident that
01:01:54this relationship
01:01:55is going to work
01:01:57I understand
01:01:58he's young
01:01:59and it's like
01:02:00a video call
01:02:01and it's probably
01:02:02like a lot
01:02:03to explain to him
01:02:05yeah I do want to
01:02:06prove how much
01:02:07you mean to me
01:02:08but um
01:02:10it's been
01:02:10playing on me
01:02:12heavily
01:02:14what's been
01:02:14playing on you
01:02:15heavily
01:02:16explain that
01:02:17it's just been
01:02:18a tough year
01:02:21I didn't
01:02:21I didn't move him
01:02:22away but you know
01:02:23it was an hour and a half
01:02:25plane ride
01:02:26and I don't see him
01:02:28as much as I want
01:02:30I still feel like
01:02:31he thinks I can
01:02:32get up there
01:02:32a lot more
01:02:33than I can
01:02:33so it's just
01:02:37a guilty feeling
01:02:38for me at the moment
01:02:41I miss him
01:02:42you know
01:02:43especially when you're here
01:02:44you know
01:02:45really?
01:02:45well yeah
01:02:46well because when you're here
01:02:47I think you know
01:02:47if he was here as well
01:02:49it would be like
01:02:50I'd love you two to get along
01:02:51and then it would be like
01:02:52perfect little world
01:02:57I guess it's just painful
01:02:58to
01:02:59to think about it
01:03:02it's okay to have feelings
01:03:04it's okay to be upset
01:03:06if you weren't emotional
01:03:07about your son
01:03:08and you didn't feel this way
01:03:10I would be worried
01:03:10I'd be very very worried
01:03:13it means you're a good dad
01:03:14and it means you care
01:03:20you know
01:03:21it's like having a son
01:03:22is a responsibility
01:03:22and like excitement
01:03:23and you do things with him
01:03:24and then when something like that
01:03:26gets taken away from you
01:03:27you're like
01:03:28I feel like I lost myself
01:03:31yeah I feel like I've sort of
01:03:32lost a bit of myself
01:03:36my relationship with my son
01:03:37we're really tight
01:03:38I've been there since he was born
01:03:41he's my little partner in crime
01:03:43we go camping
01:03:44we go fishing
01:03:45surfing
01:03:45you know
01:03:46we kick footballs
01:03:47we go and play golf
01:03:48it's such a good part of my life
01:03:51so it really did hurt
01:03:53this year
01:03:54when I didn't have that
01:03:57I want to help
01:03:58make you feel like
01:04:00you're back together
01:04:03I want to be that rock for you
01:04:07I can do that
01:04:10be there for you
01:04:11support you in any way I can
01:04:12but you have to let me into your life
01:04:15I can't do that without getting brought into your life
01:04:20this is very emotional
01:04:21because being away from my son
01:04:23affected me
01:04:24you know
01:04:25more than I thought
01:04:26but I don't want that to hold me back
01:04:28from bringing Elise fully into my life
01:04:30I can see that she really really cares
01:04:33she's shown that she's worthy of
01:04:34you know
01:04:35getting to know my son
01:04:37but at the same time
01:04:38it is scary
01:04:39to let her in
01:04:40the most important part of my life
01:04:42what if things don't work out
01:04:43you know
01:04:44that's going to be pretty devastating
01:04:45for all of us
01:04:47well I'm here for you now
01:04:48thank you
01:05:10I mean
01:05:12after getting her family's approval
01:05:17I just
01:05:19it up
01:05:21thank you
01:05:21thank you
01:05:21I don't want anything
01:05:23to approach
01:05:51my family's happy
01:05:53that you're going to be here
01:05:53you're going to give me a baby
01:06:05thank you for your blessings
01:06:07thank you for your blessings
01:06:08thank you for their crying
01:06:12thank you for your blessings
01:06:16thank you for their crying
01:06:42thank you for your comfort
01:06:51thank you for your lanterns
01:06:52thank you for my work
01:06:52thank you for my life
01:06:53thank you for my support
01:06:53office after I said that, after I agreed to have that baby.
01:06:58They're so sweet.
01:07:00Gonna miss them.
01:07:04I'm ready to have a baby.
01:07:06But what if you change your mind?
01:07:13Maybe, as long as we're going and moving in the right direction, I'm all on board with
01:07:19having a baby.
01:07:21Because I know that it'll make you happy.
01:07:23I know that's what you really want.
01:07:27I still have these doubts lingering in the back of my mind about whether or not I'm financially
01:07:34ready to have another child.
01:07:37But I know that if I don't follow through with my promises, this could be Trish in a very
01:07:44bad situation with her family.
01:07:46I know how much her family means to her.
01:07:49So, I feel like that I have to keep my word.
01:07:53I'm hoping in time that I'd be in a better situation to financially support another child.
01:08:01But, um, yeah, I'm kind of banking on that.
01:08:07Looks like we're starting to get everything mapped out, huh?
01:08:10I know.
01:08:11I know.
01:08:11Our future.
01:08:15You're...
01:08:18Do, Mom.
01:08:19I love you more than anything.
01:08:32I think I love you.
01:08:33You have to eat in the restroom or anything?
01:08:35No.
01:08:35I don't.
01:08:36I don't eat anything like this dog or any chicken.
01:08:44Well, damn.
01:08:46I'm flying to Linda Lane.
01:08:48That's it.
01:08:50We wait for one hour.
01:08:52I hope this bad boy is going straight to Tana.
01:08:55A couple of days in a time, and I'll go for my baby and I'll get her back.
01:09:07That's really sad.
01:09:09Sad story.
01:09:12It's just all beginning.
01:09:15I know.
01:09:39We were waiting on our flight, and it just kept getting delayed.
01:09:44The whole while Trish is asking me if I loved her.
01:09:48I kept telling her, yes, I love you.
01:09:51Eventually, she says, do you know why I'm asking?
01:09:56And then Trish demanded that I give her my phone.
01:10:02It kind of hit me that I noticed she kept looking over at my phone,
01:10:10and she probably saw that my ex had texted me.
01:10:15Is this the same ex you went to see in Columbia?
01:10:19Yes.
01:10:32A few days ago, I got a text message from my ex, and she was telling me that she misses
01:10:44the times that we had together.
01:10:47And I responded, and I responded inappropriately.
01:11:17Why?
01:11:20Why?
01:11:32Why?
01:11:44Why?
01:11:47Why?
01:11:47Why?
01:11:49Why?
01:11:51be sad like i love him we talk about the babies the future and i we took my dad just
01:12:10give him
01:12:16blessing i mean after getting her family's approval everything is felt it felt different
01:12:31than it did the whole couple weeks prior how did i come so close to getting my what i wanted
01:12:40and then i just up and i'm not sure if i'll get another chance to make things right with trish
01:12:51and it feels like this is really the end and the final chapter
01:13:03are there plans being made and arrangements made
01:13:06to get you over to the united states we are leaving tomorrow i know my mom is not going to
01:13:14accept it but i'm ready to do what i need to do to ensure shana and i are together i
01:13:19have decided
01:13:21i'm going to stay here in the philippines this is our choice what's that you just came out of your
01:13:34mouth
01:13:46man i'm super glad that we were able to sleep in today i know he feels relaxed with
01:13:50mom is sitting around and we're bad and sorry
01:14:05so when i talked to forrest he's like oh surprise mom uh i went and talked met with a lawyer
01:14:11and the
01:14:11lawyer says he has to have like a certain amount of income something like like that he didn't do
01:14:17anything right at all i'm upset right now forrest is coming back and for the last few days dev and
01:14:26i
01:14:26haven't heard anything from forrest or sheena and we've just felt like we're kind of been left in the
01:14:31dark you know i don't know what to expect when they get back from their little rendezvous romantic
01:14:40vacation i don't know what the conversation is gonna be we're supposed to be flying out tomorrow
01:14:50and we're not sure what they're thinking or planning at all
01:15:03hey mom how's things going it's going pretty good how are you guys
01:15:13well i think we need to have a talk
01:15:16yeah i think we need to figure things out a little bit yeah that's kind of why we're here
01:15:25today it's supposed to be my last day in the philippines but she and i have made the decision
01:15:31for me to stay here and basically start a life here with her you ready yeah we're gonna go let's
01:15:38go bye guys i know that my mom is not going to accept it but she has to understand that
01:15:45i'm not
01:15:46the child that you know she's seen all these years i have changed a lot this in trip and i'm
01:15:53ready to
01:15:53do what i need to do to ensure shana and i are together
01:16:15came from originally from a punishment during the spanish era that people would have to put their
01:16:21feet and they have to avoid the bamboo while hitting its feet it's just such it tells a whole
01:16:26story it's just a damn i agree oh my goodness oh look at that yay oh thank you oh that's
01:16:34beautiful
01:16:35good job guys well you realize you have to be not only in a rhythm with the bamboo but you
01:16:43have to
01:16:43be in a rhythm with your partner too at the same time kind of like life well i think she
01:16:50and i were
01:16:51worth moving in perfect rhythm yeah definitely
01:17:02so she and do we get menus or how does how does it work there's a set menu that's going
01:17:08to be prepared
01:17:09so you can try guys oh
01:17:14good thank you so much so with the the um where where you guys went just fill me in
01:17:25what happened and give me all the details um yeah i feel like me and sheena we really bonded
01:17:32but in more ways than one you had sex didn't you
01:17:49you know what yeah we did
01:17:53now time i enjoyed it it was fun yeah
01:18:01you guys uh think that you have a good physical connection with each other yeah i feel like our
01:18:10souls have been connected really connected when now we can really understand each other
01:18:18and i'm happy that you know my son finally lost his virginity finally you know looky looky okay bang bang
01:18:26and also too that's an important aspect to know if they had compatibility on all aspects including
01:18:35sexuality well that's good i'm glad you guys are both de virginized finally that's yeah mom
01:18:45um
01:18:45you know it's a sad thing that we have to leave you and that forest has to leave you tomorrow
01:18:55but it must be very painful but are there plans being made and arrangements made somehow to
01:19:05try and get you over to the united states
01:19:10did you guys talk make any plans because this is we are leaving tomorrow
01:19:20yeah we talked a lot yesterday um with the k-1 visa i found out that being on disability
01:19:29i don't make enough money so she and i have decided that i'm going to stay here
01:19:37and live here in the philippines forrest i'm tired of being alone oh my god i did not expect
01:19:47to be staying here long term oh you didn't expect to fall i want my love with me my second
01:19:55half
01:19:55this is our choice what's that you just came out of your mouth mom where's your list of pros and
01:20:03concerts you wrote out was that in between the excuse me you could say one thing something
01:20:10you want to say but for me i have him he had me i don't care if you're here for
01:20:14my son i'm
01:20:14doing my best for the part for yourself because i love your son and i've worked everything for
01:20:18hard for him for our future i want you to trust your son for once in a while
01:20:26i trust my son i don't trust you
01:20:34sorry i just want to need space
01:20:47next time on before the 90 days when do you plan on applying for the fiance visa
01:20:53i thought you were gonna apply for me in the u.s
01:21:01no stig never mentioned wanting to move to the u.s it's two hours before i'm leaving it's just
01:21:07really weird timing you won't be able to make any money i saw you're gonna be my sugar mama
01:21:13i wish we could have talked it out last night you've been texting with him this morning what
01:21:18is he been saying i asked him if we could talk and he said sure so i want to show
01:21:24him that my
01:21:25feelings for him are so much stronger than how i ever felt about michael why did you mislead me
01:21:32like michael made the move i was worried you would try to put a stop to my friendship with him
01:21:44are you excited about today i think i should ask you that question though i just don't know what
01:21:51i'm gonna say for my vows it's just gonna be like the basics i just wanted today to be full
01:21:59of love
01:22:01but it just feels like any other day for him i don't know i can't pretend that everything is fine
01:22:12i love your son and i'll do anything my best for him love doesn't pay the bills gina you know
01:22:18i'm
01:22:18like in panic mode that he's gonna move to the philippines it's not gonna work it won't work
01:22:24how much do you think that you're gonna make working here where are you gonna live for us
01:22:29have you even factored how much it's gonna cost i don't know what to do
01:22:37all the messages in the text why did you betray me why don't you block her if you want this
01:22:45relationship tell her that you don't want her anymore that i'm with you i love trish but love
01:22:55isn't so black and white i need to be honest about my feelings i don't know what to do
01:23:05oh my god stunning i don't think at least realized you know what she'd signed up for
01:23:14come on baby yeah at first i'm just thinking she's being a drama queen
01:23:23i start to think oh is she okay
01:23:26i start to think oh is she oh is she oh is she oh is she oh is she oh
01:23:29is she oh is she oh is she oh is she oh is she oh is she oh is she
01:23:29oh is she oh is she oh is she oh is she oh is she oh is she oh is
01:23:29she oh is she oh is she oh is she oh is she oh is she oh is she oh
01:23:29is she oh is she oh is she oh is she oh is she oh is she oh is she
01:23:29oh is she oh is she oh is she oh is she oh is she oh is she oh is
01:23:30she oh is she oh is she oh is she oh is she oh is she oh is she oh
01:23:30is she oh is she oh is she oh is she oh is she oh is she oh is she
01:23:30oh is she oh is she oh is she oh is she oh is she oh is she oh is
01:23:31she oh is she oh is she oh is she oh is she oh is she oh is she oh
01:23:31is she oh is she oh is she oh is she oh is she oh is she oh is she
01:23:31oh
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