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04:35Is it mental exhaustion? Is it physical exhaustion? Emotional exhaustion?
04:41I'm very, very careful when there's a connection to mental health.
04:45That's why I always say, seek professional health.
04:49That's why I'm very, very careful because maybe the words are wrong, maybe it's not right, right?
04:55But I'm just so glad that you're so busy and you're so happy, right?
05:00And you're not all of the above.
05:03Now, you're a midnight girl.
05:05Ah, diba?
05:08Ako po si midnight girl, Vicky.
05:10Sabi mo pa. At sige nga, ano nga? Anong isang midnight girl?
05:14Okay, ang midnight girls, Tito Boy, storya siya ng apat na babae na nakipagsapalaran sa Japan.
05:23So, makikita mo dito yung kanilang buhay, yung kanilang storya, yung sakripisyo na kailangan nilang gawin,
05:30yung pagbibihis nila ng iba't-ibang pagkatao para lamang lumaban at makalaban.
05:38Parang artista din.
05:39Oh, yes.
05:40You inhabit characters, you know, for you to be able to portray.
05:43There's always a persona, there's always a role that you have to portray.
05:48Okay, but with them, with these girls, nagagaling sila sa, kasi kailangan nilang mag-survive,
05:54hindi lang para sa mga sarili nila, pero para sa mga mahal nila sa buhay.
05:59At para sa mga pangarap nila.
06:00Tama, mga pangarap nila, kadalasan para sa anak, para sa pag-aaral ng kapatid, para sa buong pamilya.
06:06Pero what is interesting, kasi nung ginagawa niyo ang pelikula ng ito, you went to Nagoya, Japan, to immerse.
06:12That is correct.
06:12Sa isang umise.
06:14Okay, that's a nightclub or a bar.
06:16It's a bar, yes.
06:17Okay, at saka ang kwento, correct me if I'm wrong, hindi raw alam ng mga customers na you were on
06:23immersion.
06:24Kayong apat, Loisa, ikaw, Jane, and Sanya.
06:27Yeah, how is it working with Sanya Lopez?
06:30I super love her.
06:31And I have been, I said like, I really vocalize my appreciation sa babaeng to.
06:37Sabi ko nga, alam mo, hindi ka lang magaling, napaka mabuti mo pang tao.
06:42Totoo naman.
06:43Nakakatura.
06:44She's also a friend.
06:45Okay, so, nag-immerse kayo doon.
06:47Yes.
06:47Ibig sabihin, nag-table kayo.
06:51Did you entertain?
06:52Yes.
06:53Atin, nabigyan ka ba ng tip?
06:54Yes.
06:54Alam mo, yung chopsticks, di ba?
06:56Yes.
06:56Yung lapad?
06:57Yes.
06:57What is your story?
06:58Okay, so, it is important for us doon sa character namin na truly maintindihan yung lalim ng pinaguhugutan,
07:06yung pinagagalingan ng mga babae, yung mga storya na ilalahad namin, di ba?
07:12O yung mga pinoportray namin.
07:14So, part doon yung immersion, Tito Boy.
07:16So, kailangan namin pumunta sa isang umisip.
07:19Hindi alam ng mga client, ng mga Hapon.
07:22Ang iniisip lang nila, ang pakilala sa amin ay kami mga bagong salta.
07:26Okay.
07:26So, siyempre, nandun ako sa Japan bilang si Yuki.
07:30Yuki.
07:31Kinala nila ako bilang si Yuki.
07:33Okay.
07:34So, ayun, you just have to do whatever.
07:39Just do whatever to make them happy.
07:42Just entertain.
07:43Sing.
07:44You dance.
07:45You make kwento.
07:47Basta kailangan maayaw sila sa'yo.
07:48Language must have been a problem.
07:50Pero, ang ibig mong sabihin, pag sinabi halimbawa ng Hapon na kliyente, ay sayaw-sayaw ka.
07:56Kanta, kanta ka.
07:57Yes.
07:57I think, hindi pwedeng no.
07:59Parang sa kanila, customer is king.
08:01Kung anong gusto nila, yun ang masusunod.
08:03Ginawa mo yun?
08:04Yes.
08:05And, nagkaroon kami ng isang day na wherein we had to perform.
08:10Merong center stage doon.
08:12We had to sing and dance.
08:14And then, yan, binigyan nila kami ng mga tip.
08:18Yung unang client na nag-table sa akin doon, syempre, asang-asa ako na makakalapad ako, di ba?
08:26Binigyan ako ng kape.
08:28Hindi pa alam kung bakit kape.
08:31Sabi ko, aking lang ko bang kakabahan.
08:33Sabi ko lang, sabi ko lang, arigatogusaymas.
08:36Yun na lang yung sasabihin mo.
08:37Pero sabi ko, okay, tinago ko yung kape.
08:39Inuwi ko sa Philippines.
08:40And then, may isa naman doon, nabigyan ako ng isang bote ng mamahaling whiskey.
08:47Okay.
08:48Pero may mga nagbigyan din naman ng lapad.
08:50Yes.
08:51At yung lapad na natanggap ko, yun ang nag-sustain sa akin for one month.
08:58Yun yung pinangbibili ko sa Lawson ng mga kung ano-ano.
09:03Pang-everyday.
09:04Langkape din.
09:05Kape pa din.
09:06Pero walang karanasan na nalasing ang isang hapon at ikay na-chancingan.
09:12They are very careful with that.
09:15Because kapag na-offend ang babae, we can easily report them to the police.
09:22And I guess siguro medyo maingat sila sa ganun.
09:24And we're all so thankful sa aming mga mama na nando doon.
09:29Because they really took good care of us.
09:32Because hindi na kailangang umabot sa punto na may maharas na isa sa amin.
09:37But I can just imagine yung paano sila, yung buhay nila.
09:43I'm sure nangyari yan sa kanila.
09:44And hindi yun madaling sitwasyon.
09:47Tama.
09:47And bahagi ng immersion po, bahagi ng training ni Jodie,
09:50nagpaturo ka pa ng sayaw.
09:52Ki Joy Cancio.
09:53May mga usap-usapan po.
09:54Ang bagong member po ng sex bomb ay si Jodie.
10:00Turuan mo ato, seryoso.
10:02Ano ang itinuro sa'yo ni Jodie?
10:04Sige, tito boy, simple lang to.
10:06Ang gagawin mo lang is,
10:081, 2, 3, 4.
10:121, 2, 3, 4.
10:15Okay, and then 5, 6, 7, 8.
10:19Okay, let's do it.
10:20Sige, let's try.
10:38Meron ba dyan kape?
10:40Pahingi nga.
10:42Talaga.
10:44Nagpa-chain ka talaga ki Joy.
10:46Kami lahat.
10:47Kami lahat para magampanan.
10:48Before we left for Japan,
10:50si Tita Joy yung nagturo sa amin nung kanta.
10:55Yes.
10:56Nagbakit Papa.
10:57Kailan namin mapapanood itong Midnight Girls?
11:00Ang Midnight Girls ay mapapanood nyo na,
11:02Tito Boy, sa May 13.
11:05May 13, alalahanin po natin yan.
11:08Yes.
11:08Lahat itong kwentuhan namin ni Jodie
11:09ay makikita nyo na po sa pelikula.
11:12Congratulations.
11:13Thank you, Tito Boy.
11:13Congratulations.
11:15Let's talk about my friend.
11:16Salamat.
11:17Go ahead.
11:19Let's talk about my friend, 30.
11:23Alam niyo ba ang kwento ni 30?
11:25When I was doing the morning show, Homeboy, at marami pang mga shows,
11:30madalas kong magibisita.
11:32How old was he then?
11:33Oh my gosh.
11:34He was a baby.
11:36I know.
11:37Like around 4, 5.
11:39Ang liit-liit, di ba?
11:41Pareng 30.
11:42Si pareng 30 mo sa...
11:43Pareng tawag ko dyan.
11:44And now he is 20.
11:46He is.
11:47Ang bilis ng panahon.
11:48He's turning 21 this December and grabe.
11:52Kumusta?
11:52Kumusta ang inyong relasyon muna?
11:54Naalala ko, hawak-hawak mo yan pag dumatating.
11:58Ang tawag ko po kay 30 ay pare.
12:00Okay.
12:00How is he?
12:01Um, ngayon, yung relationship namin ni 30.
12:05Siyempre, when he was younger, naiintendehan ko na yung pagiging dependent na sa akin.
12:13Because, of course, I'm the mother, hindi ba?
12:15But now, nandun na siya sa point ng life niya.
12:18That he's, you know, trying to find his place in the sun.
12:22And then meron na siyang mga, of course, you know, parang meron na siyang mga peers niya.
12:27Pero na mabibilang mo lang naman sa kamay niya.
12:30So, most of his days are spent outside of the home.
12:34Because he goes to school.
12:35He's in the university na rin.
12:38But I think, kung meron mang isang bagay na hindi nagbabago,
12:42is yung, I think, yung relationship namin dalawa na hindi kami mag-best friend.
12:50Pero more of yung talagang nanay-anak.
12:55Okay.
12:55But what kind of conversations do you have?
12:58Oh, iba na ang ano namin conversations namin ngayon, Tito Boy.
13:02Hindi na tutungkol sa NBA.
13:05Hindi na tutungkol sa mga games sa PlayStation.
13:10It's more of like we have conversations about life.
13:15He asks about how to set, you know, goals in life.
13:21Ganun na.
13:21Oo, ganun na.
13:22May girlfriend na.
13:23Why?
13:26Nagsasabi.
13:27Sinasabi.
13:28Oh, yes.
13:28At talaga, pag may nililigawan, pag may nagugustuhan.
13:30What I appreciate about Therdy or Simway, he's very open.
13:35And alam ko, pag meron siyang gustong imungkahi or idulog sa akin,
13:39lagi niya sasabihin, Mama, gawa tayo ng pizza.
13:43So, pag sinabi niya sa akin na Mama, gawa tayo ng pizza,
13:47alam kong meron siyang, sabihin natin, isang desisyon na kailangan niyang gawin.
13:54So, yan, pag-uusapan namin habang gumagawa kami ng pizza sa bahay.
13:58Pero ikaw, as a mother, do you want to approve?
14:01Do you expect, I mean, do you expect that Therdy would come to you and say,
14:06Mama, I need your blessing?
14:10Um, pasandali, isa-isa muna.
14:13Kanyari kung pagkakaroon muna ng girlfriend, okay.
14:16Pero kung sasabihin niya, Mama, I think I'm ready to take the next step.
14:21Oh my gosh, naguro, iiyak na talaga ako.
14:24But you know, wala eh, wala tayong magagawa because doon naman talaga papunta.
14:29That's something that's inevitable.
14:33And can you ever prepare for that one?
14:36No.
14:36I don't think so.
14:37But siguro, you'll just have to embrace.
14:41And just like, let go.
14:43Kailangan din, dumadating ka.
14:44Hindi ka pwedeng nakamasyado mahigpit ang habak mo sa mga bagay-bagay.
14:48Totoo yan.
14:49Ang nakakatawa, kasi magkakabatch ito, si Bimb,
14:51si Bimb celebrated his birthday kahapon.
14:54Happy birthday!
14:55He turned 19.
14:56Oh my gosh.
14:56Di ba?
14:58Bimb, I'm talking about Bimb Aquino,
15:00ang aking inaanak, halos, di ba?
15:0219, 20, this is going to be the batch.
15:04And I'm just so glad.
15:05Pero ito ang tanong, kanina sinabi mo, are you ever ready?
15:08As a psychologist, our mothers, lalo na kayo ng 30,
15:12kasi kayong mag-partners ng napakatagal na panahon.
15:15Kayong dalawa, and we've seen it.
15:17Are you ever ready to use your word again, words to let go?
15:23I mean, are you ready to be an empty nester?
15:27Are you ready to let go of the most important person in your life?
15:33That's number one.
15:35Last February, nag-announce si Iwa, saka si Tampi,
15:39that they were going to be engaged.
15:42Di ba?
15:43Yes.
15:44Ano ang pakiramdam?
15:46Ano ang dasal?
15:47Ano ang wish mo para sa kanila?
15:50Ang mga kasagutan po sa magbabalik ng Fast Talk with Boy Abuse.
16:02We're back on the show.
16:03Kasama po natin, Jody Santamaria.
16:06Let's go fast.
16:07Ayan!
16:11Jody, laban bawit.
16:13Laban!
16:14Midnight girls, fearless girls.
16:16Both!
16:17Comfort, risk.
16:19Risk.
16:19Past, future.
16:21Future.
16:22Healing, forgetting.
16:23Healing.
16:24Magaling magluto, magaling umiyak.
16:26Magaling magluto.
16:27Mata-mata lang o sigaw kung sigaw?
16:29Mata-mata lang.
16:31Mas nakakainis.
16:32Pagmamahal sa maling tao o pagmamahal ng gasolina?
16:34Pagmamahal ng gasolina.
16:36Not sure.
16:36Mas nakakakilig.
16:38Public post o private message?
16:40Private message.
16:40Mas totoo.
16:41Words o actions?
16:42Actions.
16:43Dapat gawin sa basher.
16:44Wag pansinin o unawain?
16:48Unawain at wag pansinin.
16:49Describe yourself as a mother.
16:54Um, warm.
16:56As a lover.
16:59Pass.
17:01Gusto ko yung kilig.
17:02As a friend.
17:03Understanding.
17:04As a woman.
17:06Um, as a woman.
17:09How am I as a woman?
17:10I think, I just love to explore.
17:13Yes or no?
17:14Strict na nanay.
17:16Oh, no.
17:17Yes or no?
17:17Pasaway na anak.
17:19Yes.
17:20Sorry, ma.
17:20Yes or no?
17:21Selosa.
17:22No.
17:23Lights on or lights off?
17:26It depends.
17:27Happiness to chocolates?
17:29Both.
17:30Best time for both?
17:31Anytime.
17:33I am many, but first, I am.
17:37I am many, but first, I am a human.
17:44Ba't mong pinili yung risk?
17:47Is that as a person, as an actor?
17:49Because as an actor, ikaw yung you dive into that.
17:53Yes.
17:54I think kasi nobody really ever grows when you're always within your comfort zone.
18:00And I think, napaka-importante rin ang risk sa life ng tao because it makes you, like,
18:09it makes you get into things that are unconventional.
18:13Tama.
18:14And wala, ganun talaga yung life is about risks.
18:16Sometimes you win, sometimes you lose.
18:19You're happy or sad.
18:20Well, yeah, so risk.
18:22And a lot of wonderful discoveries happen pag sumusugal ka.
18:25Diba?
18:26Diba, sabi nga nila that ships are not built for the shore.
18:31It's made really to sail in the ocean.
18:34Correct.
18:34And deal with the waves.
18:36That is correct.
18:37Ganun talaga nyo.
18:38And deal with the waves.
18:40Kanina pinag-uusapan natin yung, are you ever ready?
18:44Diba?
18:44Are you ever ready to let your son go?
18:49I just have a kwento.
18:50So, two weeks ago, meron akong inatenda na wedding.
18:54And yung friends ko, meron silang daughter, and she's like 30 years old.
19:00So, 30 years old na siya nung kinasal siya.
19:02And yung friends ko, ibig sabihin, kasama nila, yung daughter nila, for the past 30 years.
19:07And they've been planning this wedding.
19:08And, in a way, pinaprepare nila yung sarili nila because magiging empty nester sa sila.
19:14But then, when the day of the wedding came, talaga makikita mo yung, they really can't hold back the tears.
19:22I mean, can you ever parang prepare yourself for that?
19:26Kahit sabi mo siguro na, ako, pag iniisip ko, na kahit siguro anong school of thought and psychology na aralin
19:33mo,
19:33para sabi mo, i-prepare yung sarili mo for that, hindi eh, meron pa rin masakit.
19:40Of course.
19:41Ano pa rin yun eh, parang may loss pa rin, di ba?
19:44But then, yun naman talaga kasi yung role ng mga magulang.
19:50I-prepare sila dun sa next step ng buhay nila.
19:53And let their, spread their wings and fly.
19:56Cycle of life.
19:57Ito yung pagkakataon, I read somewhere, na yung mga parents, mentally, intellectually, kaya napapaghandaan, napapag-usapan,
20:06na-explore nila yung mga pagkakataon na what if tayo na lang dalawa, et cetera.
20:11But the heart is never ready.
20:13Oh, yes.
20:14Oo, hindi talaga kaya.
20:15Kasi when you have a child, you have, literally parang you have your heart outside of your body.
20:20And then, it's like you're giving away your heart.
20:21Parang ganun.
20:22How are you gonna be ever ready for that?
20:24Iwa and Panty announced their engagement last February.
20:29Anong dasal mo para sa kanila?
20:32Before their announcement, they actually told me first about the engagement.
20:40And sa totoo lang masaya ako para sa kanila.
20:43Isang bagay ito na matagal nilang hinintay, 13, 14 years, is no joke.
20:50And now, it's really happening.
20:52And, siguro ang masasabi ko lang, or magiging dasal ko lang para sa kanila is,
20:59mahalin nilang isa't isa.
21:01Intindihin nilang isa't isa.
21:03Diba?
21:03Sila ang magkakampi, magkatuwang, magkaagapay sa buhay.
21:08And to get to where you are today, Pampi, Iwa, and your relationship with them was not easy.
21:17Pero ang takeaway ko doon, from being very difficult, napagdaanan niya, napagkwentuhan natin, but it's now a beautiful relationship.
21:26Yes.
21:27Everything is possible.
21:28It is.
21:29Even for a midnight girl like you.
21:33I love you.
21:35That's May 13.
21:37Maraming maraming salamat, Jodie.
21:40I love you.
21:41Suportan mo natin, Jodie Santa Maria and the Midnight Girls.
21:44At maraming salamat po sa inyong pagpapatuloy sa amin, sa inyong mga tahanan at puso.
21:48Araw-araw, be kind, make your nanay proud and say thank you.
21:51Gumawa ng tawa, be one tama.
21:53Goodbye for now.
21:54God bless.
21:54Woo!
21:55Woo!
21:57Woo!
21:57Woo!
21:57Woo!
21:58Woo!
21:58Woo!
21:59Woo!
22:01Woo!
22:02Woo!
22:02Woo!
22:02Woo!
22:04Woo!
22:04Woo!
22:05Woo!
22:05Woo!
22:06Woo! Woo!
22:06Woo! Woo! Woo!
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