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90 Day: The Single Life - Season 5 - Episode 09: The Act of Monkey Barring
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00:00Previously on The Single Life.
00:03You've never had my back.
00:04Yes, I have.
00:04You've never had my back.
00:05OK, happy now.
00:07I'm just done with Liz.
00:08And I'm just done with this whole trip.
00:10Liz.
00:11She just it all up.
00:12She's a horrible person.
00:15Sorry, everything's kind of going the way it's going right now.
00:18Via is becoming someone that I feel like I can trust.
00:23Do you want to have a baby with her?
00:28We just established today that you're not talking to other women.
00:32And now we're talking about babies.
00:34I don't think he realizes that ship has sailed.
00:37I don't know about completely sailed,
00:39because there's always options.
00:44Courtney broke up with me a few days ago.
00:47And there you go.
00:48My lovely mother has come all the way from Canada to save the day.
00:52So you're not going to get back together?
00:54Having a relationship with another woman in Brazil.
00:58Thank you for seeing us.
01:00I wonder if Colt told his mom that he was sending jerk-off videos to other women.
01:05He thinks maybe if you two were together alone for a few days,
01:10you could work this out.
01:12On a relationship standpoint, I'm done.
01:17Your sister and your mom was acting crazy to me.
01:19I didn't know I was there to be grilled.
01:22My family can be a lot, but...
01:24And I'm going to lose you because my birthday party was wrong.
01:28I just need a bit of, like, time.
01:32Is your attention for a long-term relationship with Vanya?
01:35You're worried that I'm a player.
01:36Yeah.
01:37Is that what you're getting at?
01:39Honestly, I feel betrayed by Vanya,
01:42because I feel like she's told her a lot about my past that now someone's using against me.
01:47I just don't appreciate her line of questioning.
01:50This trip is off to such a bad start, and something happened today that makes me feel like
01:56I don't even know Tony whatsoever.
02:07Is it on my head?
02:10Are we close to the end?
02:11Hola.
02:12Hola.
02:12ĀæCĆ³mo estĆ”?
02:13Bien, Āæy tĆŗ?
02:15Oh, sĆ.
02:28So Liz's not here yet, so I hope she will be calm,
02:31because we haven't spoken with her a couple of days, it'll be so awkward.
02:35Yeah.
02:35Did you already just let this go?
02:38Yeah.
02:38I know we had a miscommunication, and, like, it wasn't great, but people make mistakes.
02:44It's been four days since me and Liz had our big fight,
02:47and Julia texted Liz to come and join us for some drinks.
02:50You know, it's up to her if she wants to continue our friendship,
02:52but I would love if she wants to, because I do value her.
02:56I think that every girl has problems with them.
02:59Especially when they go on holiday.
03:00Oh, my God.
03:01Girls have issues.
03:02It's like a tension.
03:03Yes, it's a thing.
03:05Without the fight, it's going to be a not-girls trip.
03:08Let's go over there.
03:09It's more cuter.
03:10Oh, yeah, I agree.
03:11I was upset at Liz for talking to Pedro behind my back, but I did take it a little bit
03:16far.
03:17Especially after being on the receiving end of Pedro's family's craziness.
03:21So, if Liz does show up and she can see how we both went wrong,
03:25then hopefully we can just put this whole thing behind us.
03:30Hi.
03:31Hi, ladies.
03:39I haven't seen the girls in a few days, and I feel like shutting out a friend on a girl's
03:45trip
03:45is definitely mean girl energy.
03:47It doesn't feel good.
03:51I'm going to grab a drink.
03:53Can I grab you another?
03:55Can I get a pina colada?
03:56Yes.
03:58But when Julia reached out, I decided it was worth hearing what Sophie has to say.
04:05Can I get two pina coladas, please?
04:08We came on this trip together.
04:10We still have a couple days left, so I just, I need to clear the air.
04:15You're welcome.
04:16I'm glad you came.
04:19Because it's been a couple days silence, and now it's time to back to our girl's trip.
04:25I've been super overwhelmed since I got here, not because of you, but because of
04:29me and Pedro, and it's been a lot, and I know, like, I probably came a bit too hard on
04:34you,
04:34and I apologize for that.
04:37I think I was projecting, like, my emotions.
04:41I really don't want, like, drama or pettiness.
04:45I really didn't have any intention of being malicious.
04:48I didn't have any intention of trying to harm you.
04:51Yeah.
04:51So I'm sorry.
04:53I hope you do know that.
04:55I appreciate you saying sorry, and I'm sorry too if I seemed like I was, like, emotional.
05:02No one's perfect.
05:03People bake it.
05:04So what you're saying is we got our first fight out of the way.
05:06Yes, yes, yes.
05:09I generally feel like Sophie had time to reflect on what had happened.
05:13Her apologies seemed very sincere. I really hope she believes my apology.
05:19I still feel like the outcast in some way, but I'm going to move forward and enjoy the rest of
05:25this trip,
05:25and oh my gosh, please just no more drama.
05:31I'm happy that this is all squashed.
05:34Like, even though, like, I wasn't with you this weekend, I want to know how you and Pedro are doing.
05:41Well, it was really bad. It was really bad. It was bad.
05:45Oh my god. Okay, so Pedro introduces me to his mom. He did great. He was like, look, this is
05:51Sophie.
05:52She's not my girlfriend. She's my friend. I'm getting to know her.
05:55The first thing she says to me, she goes, you're not dating him yet because you haven't had his banana
06:01and his eggs yet.
06:06He's f***ing his b****. His mom said that in front of everyone.
06:09This is like first, like, first encounter. And then the sister comes to me. She goes to me, I don't
06:16trust you.
06:18That's a lot, Sophie.
06:19It's a lot. After that, I do need to step back and be like, okay, well, let me focus. I
06:23am single.
06:24I don't need to have all these issues right now. And since I got here, there was a guy that
06:30I found on my social
06:31media that lives literally in this area. And we have been talking. This guy's fine. I'm going to show you
06:39him.
06:39Oh my god, I'm blushing. Like, okay.
06:44I was scrolling through some of the local guys on social media and there's this one guy in particular
06:48that looks really cute. And I just feel like he could be really fun to meet up with. Okay, this
06:53is him.
06:53Okay, let's start with that one. Oh yeah. Hell yeah. Sophie, you need
07:00all of this for you. He rides motorcycles. He's tall. He's good looking. And he's in shape.
07:09I'm single. I'm on holiday. And I've told Pedro I need some space. This is a little
07:14and this guy looks like the right amount of space. So when do you plan on hanging out with him?
07:22Uh, in a couple of days, you know, I said, I still get into no pressure, but everything will happen
07:27in DR. Stay in DR.
07:30Cheers to this. Welcome to our crazy friendship party. Yes. That's all with you.
07:52Good morning. Good morning. How are you? I'm good. Ooh, yeah. Morning latte.
07:58Hey. Everything okay?
08:16Well, in terms of how the night ended, Tony was really upset. Did you really go so harsh at him?
08:23What happened? I wasn't hard on him. I was just kind of asking a question. Hey, what's up? What's your
08:27plan?
08:27I know when he's looking for a long-term relationship, are you on the same page or not? That was
08:32nice-ish.
08:33Okay. I brought Tony to Maine to spend my birthday with my family, but instead,
08:41ever since we arrived, it's been a complete disaster. Last night, Tony stormed off to bed after
08:48Sanella started grilling him about his past. But before he even arrived to my cousin's home,
08:54I saw a side of Tony that I didn't know existed. And this could be a deal-breaker for us.
09:00I don't know if you picked up on what was happening when you were doing my eyebrows and my lips.
09:05Tony was blowing up my phone, and obviously, I couldn't pick up because we were working on my face.
09:10And I called him back after we were done. And he was so angry that he ended up hanging up
09:16the phone
09:17on me. And you know that in my book, that's one of the most rudest things you can do to
09:22me. Like,
09:22you do not do that. Then, you know, when he showed up to the house, he was trying to make
09:29it look like
09:29he was, he was ignoring what just transpired. The reason why he was upset just because you didn't pick
09:34up the phone. That's it. Yeah. It's too soon. If this is happening this early in a relationship,
09:41it's only going to get worse later. He completely freaked out about not being able to reach me.
09:48And he hung up the phone on me. He just blew up. It was disrespectful. It was hurtful. And I
09:57just
09:57don't know how to process this or what to do about it. It sounds very controlling. Yeah.
10:03So this is something that I'm going to have to deal with. I'm going to have to address it with
10:08him.
10:10It has to be done. Better sooner than later. I know.
10:14Tony made plans to go paddle boarding today. And I want to use this time to really get an answer
10:20about what happened yesterday.
10:25How'd you sleep last night, Tony? Did not get a good night's sleep. Kind of thinking about the
10:29conversation last night and what transpired. And Sonella just unleashed on me. And I just feel like
10:35I'm getting teamed up on. I feel like I'm alone in this. And I just feel a little bit awkward
10:40right now.
10:55Off we go to the adventure.
10:57Off we go. All right. To the coast.
11:07I think it's good to get out of the house and you know there's just a little bit I mean
11:12not
11:13even a little bit there's quite a bit of tension yesterday Sunila came at me pretty hard what do
11:19you mean she she came at you pretty hard she kind of threw out a lot of history that was
11:23from a while
11:24ago I think Sunila just has something against me and it really gets fair that she just comes out
11:29and attacks me on the first night I just feel like I was kind of blindsided by it all and
11:33well
11:33she's worried for me she wants to make sure that you have the best interest for me in your heart
11:37if you saw what happened I was being attacked she's just looking out for me and I think that
11:44she she went about it the wrong way but I think she had good intentions
11:51I know Sunila is Vanya's best friend but instead of really trying to communicate with me it becomes
11:58my cousin first and let's see what her opinions are and out of respect for me I would just prefer
12:04that we work out our issues together they don't have to be spread to the whole world hi folks how
12:13you doing good good we have a reservation for Tony unfortunately we've got some thunderstorms rolling
12:19in so unfortunately we just can't have folks on the water when we're doing thunder and lightning all
12:24right okay then you want to just walk around you can walk by the water thank you
12:34I feel like you can cut the tension with a knife Tony's being really quiet but you need to man
12:42up and own
12:42your mistakes there's nothing that I have done ever to this point that would warrant somebody hanging
12:50up the phone on me it's disrespectful it's rude it's childish and I will not tolerate it
12:57so why are you so quiet
13:01something on your mind yeah
13:05you hung up the phone on me and you got upset at me not my cousin you got upset at
13:10me and I didn't
13:13do anything wrong you knew what I was doing the whole time she was doing permanent makeup on me I
13:18couldn't talk and you got upset because I couldn't talk I mean I'm in a new place a new setting
13:25you know
13:26you have your family here I have no one here so I thought I could just kind of rely on
13:30you more than
13:31you know I didn't know what's bothering you so much though so much like this is so important for me
13:38for
13:38you to meet my family and it's all starting off on the wrong foot this is a special weekend for
13:47me and these
13:48are the most special people in my life and did you hang up the phone on me and you're just
13:54ignoring me
13:57this is horrible
14:02we have a great connection but our connection hasn't really been physical
14:08don't get nervous so far we've fooled around kissed a bit but we haven't had sex
14:15okay tonight is the night baby look at that big booty oh my god that's how I like it
14:24so I guess I have not told you ladies wait what yeah I've been keeping a secret since arriving in
14:32the DR the worst thing you could do is lead him on and not tell him yeah that's the worst
14:36thing you
14:36could do feelings between via and I are evolving very quickly and he might be hurt by what I have
14:43to
14:43share with him and he might not want anything to do with me I think I need a few shots
15:00I need a nightcap
15:01for sure you know what happens when I get a few shots oh my god yes no I just can't
15:06I do I do
15:19uncle Marco's interesting he's an interesting character he had a lot of a lot of questions
15:24you know I mean yeah that was all those questions there's a lot to absorb but you know I just
15:31think
15:31that we need to walk before we run I invited Natalie to Michigan and things are going good between us
15:43getting my uncle Marco's blessing was a huge deal to me but I'm a little concerned that he kind of
15:51came
15:51in a little hot about Natalie and I having kids you haven't even met my children yet they don't even
15:58know you that's step one right step one yeah so if I ask you to marry me tonight is that
16:04too fast it's
16:06really important to me to have a child of my own so if I move forward with Natalie I'm hoping
16:12she can
16:13remain open-minded to make that a reality we are home oh look at those flowers I got some nice
16:21flowers
16:22aren't they beautiful thanks to you and uncle Marco I know okay go ahead oh this is nice you like
16:36it
16:36yeah enter my home yeah my bedroom is up there okay and if you want you can have a seat
16:46and wait
16:46for me while I get us a drink this could be a big night for Natalie and I so far
16:52we fooled around
16:53kissed a bit but we haven't had sex and that's not because I haven't wanted it cheers to the future
17:01the future cheers to the future there we go so let's hope tonight is the night baby
17:09what was your favorite part of the day what was my favorite part what I think was just hanging out
17:16with you today my favorite parts of the day was when you came to me and told me that you
17:21have decided
17:22not to talk to other women can you do that though can you do that are you gonna be able
17:30to do that
17:31I don't know see that's the thing no I'm just kidding listen there's beautiful women on this
17:37planet I mean gorgeous women I get it I get it the thing is is like
17:45it's hard to find a good quality woman that has like good qualities like you have
17:49having a good quality woman trumps everything right you're growing up yeah yeah because you
18:00know what it's true you're absolutely right so after everything that happened in DC I took a big
18:05chance coming here but wanting to be exclusive and introducing me to Uncle Marco is finally showing
18:12me that Gino may be serious about being in a committed relationship I'm hopeful
18:19for the next step and it's probably the most hopeful I've been in a long time with him
18:26we have a great connection but our connection has been very mental and it hasn't really been physical
18:32so I mean don't get nervous that totally makes sense baby okay
18:55you are a good kisser I will say that I will give you that I'm getting kind of tired
19:07really I kind of think we should go to bed so soon so soon yeah you know
19:16Gino I'm ready to go to bed yeah I don't know how many more hints I could give you
19:26I'm ready to go to bed okay so let's go then let's go let's take the drinks it's probably been
19:36a year and a half
19:38since I've been intimate with a woman when I was with Jasmine I was miserable and I can't be intimate
19:46with someone that's yelling and screaming at me fighting with me and disrespecting me after you
19:53okay but with Natalie I feel like I can be myself she's a very good person and I'm going to
20:01prove to
20:01her that I can be the man that she deserves look at that big booty oh that's how I like
20:08it maybe we'll
20:10do it two three four five times who knows how many times we might even have sex till the sun
20:16comes up
20:20mmm yeah baby oh yeah
20:34I got this feeling in my body
20:37I need to dance the stress away I like to get a little mind when I hear that music play
20:45la la la la la la la la la okay ladies if you haven't find your man yet may try
20:51to hug yourself
21:11thank you for participating in our Zumba we'll see you on the next hangover Zumba yes tomorrow
21:19girls let's take a shot I am very relieved Sophie and I put the drama behind us and I really
21:29just want to enjoy the rest of our girls trip
21:32okay what do you want to say show us over here okay I really need some like guidance
21:40I've been keeping a secret pretty much the whole time since arriving in the DR
21:49okay you have a couple days left before before home yeah you're gonna have fun because you have this
21:55all like I'm not fun I mean you have some spending so much time with via but I have not
22:02told you ladies
22:05so there is someone that I'm talking to back at home as well wait what yeah like talking talking or
22:14like like we're dating about three months ago right after I broke up with Jason I met someone new his
22:27name is Alec and we just clicked
22:32really yes oh my I'm overstimulated
22:39Alec wants a relationship with me but I've never been single so I told Alec I was coming on this
22:46trip and I wanted to date. I wanted to get it out of my system and then kind of come
22:52home and figure
22:53out if I wanted a serious relationship. I never expected to fall for someone. I made it very
23:00clear coming to here I wanted to express being single and then now I feel very conflicted because
23:06I see myself developing feelings for Via. So I'm scared to like tell Via hey I am talking to someone
23:13back at home. As long as you communicate and tell him hey like we're just hanging out that's all you
23:18can do you're being honest. If anyone understands how this feels it's me because I just got out of
23:24a toxic relationship and I don't want to rush into anything either. My only thing is it does feel a
23:28little shady that she's hiding it from Via. Like I'm in the same boat like I'm also trying to get
23:33to
23:33know Pedro but the thing is I'm being extremely honest with him because I don't want to lead
23:38someone on so I hope she tells him soon or this whole thing could blow up in her face. I
23:43think
23:43tell him he seems like a nice guy he's probably gonna take it fine and he probably still want to
23:47get to know you. The worst thing you could do is lead him on and not tell him but I
23:51feel like
23:52it's so complicated now and it scares me either way.
24:02When Courtney took my phone she told Diana that her and I were in a relationship together.
24:07I haven't talked with Diana since the night Courtney and I broke up.
24:10So how you been?
24:13You're hurting me.
24:22Should have known how good you had it. Thought I would love you out of habit. But you never
24:29earn it. So you don't deserve it.
24:33I miss her.
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24:59Courtney, are you okay?
25:04Let me know.
25:06It's been about five days now since Courtney broke up with me and
25:11apparently my mother couldn't convince Courtney to give me a second chance and
25:15I can't say I'm exactly surprised. I threw away a good relationship with a good woman and
25:24I hate myself for that. I hate for all the pain that I caused to everybody.
25:32Living with her parents, I couldn't do anything without Courtney. I couldn't leave the house.
25:36It was just like I was completely relying on her for everything. And I felt trapped.
25:42And talking with Diana allowed me to escape that reality.
25:47I'm blocking our memories with a hidden black heartbeat.
25:55Hello?
25:57Hello?
25:57I'm here.
25:58Hey.
26:00Hey.
26:00Hey.
26:00How are you?
26:01You look great today.
26:05I haven't talked with Diana since the night Courtney and I broke up when Courtney took my
26:09phone she saw the messages between Diana and I and she decided to message her directly she
26:15told Diana that her and I were in a relationship together and this is a problem because I never told
26:22Diana the truth that Courtney and I have been in a romantic relationship so how you been
26:33tell me I'm angry because she told me about your plans your pro your promise to her so I I'm
26:47feeling
26:48very stupid because you say I love you Diana I do love you I I have a lot of feelings
26:55for you
26:56that's why I wanted to see you but then I broke my leg
27:02king you know I didn't I wasn't expecting to see Courtney I wasn't expecting to have her in my life
27:12I love Courtney
27:18but I love you and if I haven't met you I was supposed to meet you
27:29you're hurting me I'm hurting everybody I feel terrible for causing Diana so much hurt and
27:39and seeing her upset but I want to be honest yes I I still love Courtney I love Courtney and
27:46I also love
27:47you and Diana needs to know that do you still want me to come to Brazil I could see that
28:12I don't know what what I'm doing with anything in life right now
28:21I'm sad I'm sorry that I've hurt you
28:39well that sucked I know I things up with both of them I was treating both women equally wrong
28:49I wanted the benefits of having Diana as an outlet but also one of the benefits of having Courtney as
28:56a
28:56girlfriend and now they don't want anything to do with me and I take full responsibility for this
29:04but I'm not ready to give up on love I'm gonna fight like hell to get her back
29:09which one good question
29:20I like to be in control I like whatever I plan to happen but you can't alienate the person that's
29:26supposed to be so important to you I have never seen this controlling side of Tony in the past this
29:33is
29:33just all coming out of the blue this has happened to me so many times in the past a guy
29:38starts out
29:39one way and then it turns out they were just hiding their real personality so is this who you are
29:57this is a special weekend for me and these are the most special people in my life and did you
30:02hang up
30:02the phone on me and you're just ignoring me this is horrible yeah I made the mistake like I said
30:17I
30:17didn't communicate with you about what happened but it was kind of awkward with me kind of to bring
30:21it up at their place to meet them for the first time but I don't want this to be kind
30:26of blown out
30:26proportion where it was yeah about an issue we had yesterday regarding time management spending time
30:30together don't make it like I'm like I'm blowing things out of proportion you haven't really talked
30:36to me nicely since yesterday I didn't intend for this to happen I didn't I overreacted and one of my
30:44issues one of my flaws is I like to be in control I like the the situation or whatever I
30:50plan to happen
30:51and you know and done right you can't go with life thinking that things are gonna go exactly how
30:56you plan you have to roll with the punches and in the process you can't alienate the person that's
31:01supposed to be so important to you Tony hanging up on me yesterday it took me by surprise I have
31:11never seen this kind of controlling side of Tony in the past this is just all coming out of the
31:17blue
31:19what did I tell you when we were first discussing trying to take this into a relationship I said
31:23are you going to change please don't change because this has happened to me so many times in the past
31:29a guy starts out one way and then it turns out that it was the opposite the whole time and
31:34they
31:34were just hiding their real personality so is this who you are no it's not like a new me it's
31:41not
31:41the old me is the real me and that's the that's the that's the person you've known for the longest
31:46time
31:47but the old you has never hurt me like this I don't think someone should be ever be judged on
31:52one reaction or one issue or one fault I don't know you think this is a real me I don't
32:05know
32:05that's why I'm trying to have this conversation that's not fair Vanya it's not fair at all
32:14this has been kind of like a running theme in some of my past relationships a guy starts off
32:20being this amazing prince charming and then once they feel like they got you in their claws then
32:26they do a 180 and they become a totally different person and who knows is Tony becoming this totally
32:32different person this early in a relationship and that's definitely a concern for me Tony I mean if
32:40you really think I'm a person it's going to truly just hurt you then you should walk away from me
32:44I
32:44agree I want to make sure that going forward you're not going to just have a have a freak out
32:50and then
32:51and then have a explosion like hanging up the phone and then ignoring me I can first of all apologize
32:58for what I did because hanging up the phone is not right I'm taking full accountability for it
33:07I like to be updated like to have things kind of go according to plan but then I feel like
33:12sometimes
33:12I'm not even on her radar so I felt like that yesterday I didn't respond the right way I hung
33:18up on the phone on her so you know it was not a good reaction on my end you know
33:23going forward I
33:23think communication transparency is key and you know I think Vanya in the end will see that this is
33:28still the real Tony and it's like it's a pretty good version too so I'm not trying to hurt you
33:34I
33:34really am not and I don't like to see you cry like it hurts me too
33:57after a year and a half of friendship I thought that I knew Tony but this whole experience now
34:04makes me feel like I'm walking on eggshells and it's putting seeds of doubt in my mind because
34:10is this what I want to sign myself up for maybe the relationship Tony and the friend Tony are two
34:18totally different people this one's good get things off your chest I just felt like it was
34:27important to talk about it's been really bothering me we've been having a great time we have a great
34:37connection I feel I think I thought I guess I'm just gonna be straightforward there is somebody back at
34:44home that I've been seeing didn't expect that oh this is hard there's actually a lot of emotions involved so
34:53I don't really feel good right now I feel bad
35:07I know that I'm preaching to the choir but you're playing with fire and you wanna go higher so I'm
35:16taking you up
35:19hey beautiful hi how are you good good you ready for our dance lessons I'm ready yeah yeah let's go
35:42Julia oh my goodness I think if you're going to dance and you look like you're going to the rating
35:48are you ready let's go
35:50ever since landing here in the DR all I've wanted to do is go to a dance class
35:54okay Julia you're ready for dancing Julia is joining us but Sophie decided to take some alone
36:03time for herself and I think that's a great idea girl deserves it it's been a roller coaster it's so
36:09pretty oh coming coming a little dance exciting today we will give some merengue and bachata like
36:20Dominican style so follow me and enjoy we are here for give love so he have a crazy energy
36:26yeah you can have be partner for example with him so we start with some both steps first
36:37like we've done this before
36:46oh we can do a spin oh open position again let's go let's go let's go let's go
36:53here we go I'm sorry I feel like I have to count my steps I'm like thinking I'm talking and
36:59like
36:59counting my stuff two three one two three you're making me really nervous why me why I always get
37:08nervous you're getting me all hot well yeah what doesn't can lead to that I've really done nothing
37:20but hang out with via on my whole singles girls trip and as much as I'm enjoying being in the
37:27moment
37:28with him it's making me feel guilty for the feelings that I have back at home with Alec
37:33I think I'm really fine for via and now I'm so beyond confused I've waited such a long time for
37:42just one good person to walk into my life that never did I imagine that there would be two okay
37:49guys I'm gonna see you I'm gonna see you tomorrow so rest now after this dancing can you walk me
38:00oh you seem so nervous I know I just wasn't supposed to come here and start falling for
38:05so it's true but you're gonna be honest that's all what you need to do okay yes thanks girl so
38:11see you everything will be fine just breathe take a shot
38:21hey hey you want to go get a drink from the bar yeah you want a drink finally let's go
38:27yeah let's go
38:27get a drink everything okay yeah I am worried about hurting via's feelings I don't know how he feels
38:36about me is this just a vacation fling did he expect to like have feelings we just we have to
38:43have this conversation cheers cheers to dancing to chemistry to chemistry that was a lot of fun
38:54mm-hmm I like dancing with you is always a lot of fun yeah I think every time I'm with
39:00you I have a lot
39:00of fun so I guess I don't know where you're like your feelings are at with me but I know
39:08that I am developing
39:10feelings and same with me we've been having a great time we have a great connection I feel I think
39:22I
39:22thought I have the best time with you but I came on the ship to work on me and now
39:33having feelings for
39:34you is making it super complicated I guess I'm just gonna be straightforward there is somebody back
39:40at home that I have been seeing okay didn't expect that how serious like is this with this person I
39:56don't
39:57know the whole point of this trip was to see if I wanted to embrace being single or if I
40:04where things
40:05can go potentially when I get back home oh this is hard does it make a lot of sense to
40:14me singles trip
40:17you're not single well I am single right now until you go back I can see how it looks to
40:28you yeah it's
40:31kind of feel like I'm like I'm wasting my time you know I got so scared of letting the truth
40:46be told
40:47there's half in your head to hold and I got freaked out by letting the truth be known safer to
40:58be on your
40:58phone there's actually a lot of emotions involved so I don't really feel good right now I feel bad
41:08like I feel really bad right now
41:13thought we were doing well you know we were on the right path I'm on the right track I guess
41:21I just
41:21didn't expect that so feel a little betrayed deceived I guess
41:42yeah I feel really sick to my stomach right now
41:49I can't take it back next time on the single life
42:01Wayne is 52 years old he lives in the UK and we've been talking for a couple months
42:07I've even put some aftershave on for this coffee date you're so handsome I have to tell you you
42:12are a handsome little guy oh thanks Wayne might legit be my person but putting all the effort into
42:20another international relationship it's just taking such a chance this is my daughter I'm surprised
42:28I'm meeting you today I didn't expect that I'm surprised you're even here I was expecting more
42:34of a nice initial greeting you know that was a little weird for me can you close that I could
42:39well you better so far I'm not impressed I want to know if you like to you know to try
42:50again so I'm
42:51being honest there is someone today that I'm gonna just like meet this day you're going out there with
42:59someone we have few day left and you rather spend that time with somebody that you know this
43:05spend that time with me this is bull are you free to dance all right let's do it I just
43:12don't see
43:12how dancing with other guys is respectful the guy that you're with it's my girl do you mind if I
43:17grab a dance with my girl I mean like are you serious the fact that he's projecting this and
43:22security on me is not fair it's not right I'm not gonna stand for it we might have even bigger
43:30problems than I originally thought you
43:32you
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