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00:00:00Previously on Before 90 Days.
00:00:03I'm just glad that we didn't break the bed.
00:00:06I am not a virgin anymore.
00:00:08It's way better than what I thought, OK?
00:00:10Way better than what I do at night by myself.
00:00:13This has made me even more committed to do everything
00:00:16in my power to be with you.
00:00:18I'm starting to feel like maybe the right choice
00:00:21is to stay here in the Philippines.
00:00:23But I know that my mother, she's not
00:00:26going to have a good reaction to that.
00:00:37I don't know what the just happened.
00:00:40Point is, if it's enough for us to be accepted as husband
00:00:44and wife, then that's all I wanted.
00:00:47Can we have sex?
00:00:51On our second anniversary, you forgot.
00:00:55This is your thing, being a romantic.
00:00:59I mean, I'm not going to be a little girl.
00:00:59Is that not romantic, like making sure your lights is on
00:01:03because you're at home and then I'm working?
00:01:07I'm getting tired of this.
00:01:08Sometimes I feel uncomfortable that he has more say
00:01:12about the money.
00:01:13I don't like being controlled.
00:01:17Every time you do something for me,
00:01:18you throw it to my face.
00:01:23Tell me you love her.
00:01:24If I was in love with her, I would have made a move.
00:01:28Dude, you made a move.
00:01:29You blow it.
00:01:30No, no, no, no, no, no.
00:01:32Laura made a move on me.
00:01:34This is betrayal.
00:01:36Am I an alternative that she couldn't get what she wanted?
00:01:41My trust is broken right now.
00:01:46I love Trisha very, very much.
00:01:49I need more time.
00:01:53I haven't made up my mind yet whether or not
00:01:56I want another child.
00:01:58I'm one, I'm one, I'm one.
00:02:00Today, not yesterday, you have to decide it.
00:02:02But if no, we cannot be together anymore.
00:02:08I don't want to think of my man living with another girl.
00:02:12Hey, guys.
00:02:14Am I crazy or is my guy living with a girl
00:02:17and getting financially supported crazy?
00:02:20She feels a psycho.
00:02:21Good luck.
00:02:24You're all right?
00:02:25Yeah.
00:02:25Are you OK?
00:02:26So you.
00:02:27You run to her after this, right?
00:02:29Asshole.
00:02:31I feel like I was falling in love, though.
00:02:34But that s***, I'm done.
00:02:57Come to the gym?
00:02:58No, I'm not feeling the best.
00:03:00Rough night.
00:03:01Another one?
00:03:02I'm not feeling the best.
00:03:03Her and Nat got right into it.
00:03:05She went off yelling at her in front of the whole bar.
00:03:09How many people were there?
00:03:10Oh, probably about 20.
00:03:11Oh, f*** off.
00:03:12She stands up and she's like, how do you feel if your boyfriend
00:03:17was getting supported by another girl financially?
00:03:19I feel sorry for you, bro.
00:03:22It's still funny, but I do feel sorry for you.
00:03:25I just don't know what to do.
00:03:26Like, I'm confused.
00:03:33It's gonna be hard to come back from that.
00:03:35It's pretty damn embarrassing.
00:03:36Yeah, this one might be a bit broken, my friend.
00:03:41This morning I'm really deflated.
00:03:43There was a really big, you know, event last night between Nat and Elise.
00:03:48I didn't speak to her when we came back to the apartment.
00:03:51Because, you know, I needed to clear my head and just calm down.
00:03:55That was such a crazy, outrageous thing for her to do.
00:04:00I don't know how much damage she realises she's done.
00:04:03It's thrown a lot of doubt in my mind.
00:04:05So, it's a lot to think about.
00:04:10I'm f***ing, hurting, and for s***ing, angry, angry.
00:04:17Hey.
00:04:19Elise.
00:04:20How are you?
00:04:24I'm, um, really embarrassed.
00:04:30I couldn't sleep and I, I just am embarrassed.
00:04:34I should not have acted that way.
00:04:42Is that a, is that a sorry?
00:04:46I'm, I'm sorry.
00:04:47I'm embarrassed for myself.
00:04:49Like, I'm, I'm sorry that I did that to you.
00:04:54Did you realize what you did last night in front of people?
00:04:58I don't like embarrassment or personal s*** coming up.
00:05:01I acted f***ing cool and I, I shouldn't have told everyone in the bar.
00:05:06I think that I was just really triggered.
00:05:09The fact that, like, I didn't know you lived with her, that just brought up a ton of emotions for
00:05:13me.
00:05:14And sometimes I let my emotions get the best of me.
00:05:17And I'm just worried now where this makes us stand.
00:05:28That s*** should never happen once.
00:05:31There's gonna be a common occurrence.
00:05:34s*** that.
00:05:36You know, I'm out.
00:05:44Well, I'm, I'm sorry.
00:05:52Are we still gonna go to the zoo?
00:05:59Like, I'm leaving soon.
00:06:01I, I, I don't know where your head's at.
00:06:08I would understand if you don't want to take me.
00:06:11I, I...
00:06:12Whatever.
00:06:13But you can go to the zoo.
00:06:17I think it's a hard situation for Josh.
00:06:19For me, a public embarrassment like that would be, would be, that, that'd be the end.
00:06:23But, um, I mean, the fact that it's not for him means he's either a stronger man than me or
00:06:27he really likes it.
00:06:29But I think it was a massive overreaction.
00:06:32Couldn't have been worse, really.
00:06:33And, you know, it's, it's not a good sign, especially so early in, in, in the, in the relationship.
00:06:40Can I get ready?
00:06:41Can I have a hug?
00:06:44Yeah, you can come here and give me a hug.
00:06:51I think I actually really embarrassed Josh, big time.
00:06:56I'm sorry.
00:06:58Yeah.
00:07:01But I do still stand by my point that there is something off between him and Nat.
00:07:06My delivery could have been better, but my point is still there.
00:07:10Ahem, well, good luck with that.
00:07:14My actions were atrocious last night.
00:07:16And I feel like if we have some alone time and, like, I can explain to him how sorry I
00:07:20really am,
00:07:21I'll have time to, like, when I'm back.
00:07:31Baby, look, dingoes.
00:07:34Mmm, they're cute.
00:07:36Coming in to see our koalas?
00:07:38Ah, yes. I can't come to Australia without seeing one.
00:07:41100%, yeah.
00:07:41Hi!
00:07:43Her name is Kamira.
00:07:45Wait, she's so cute.
00:07:47She is very cute.
00:07:49Can I touch her?
00:07:50We can't touch her here.
00:07:51We are completely hands off.
00:07:52She does like people a lot.
00:07:54Hi!
00:07:55Hi!
00:07:58She's like a little teddy bear.
00:08:00She is like a little teddy.
00:08:02Most people probably think with animals in Australia, they think of venomous, big snakes, big spiders.
00:08:07We have a lot of cute animals as well.
00:08:09Like, you know, koalas.
00:08:11Fun fact.
00:08:13I do know koalas do carry chlamydia.
00:08:17Really?
00:08:18Yes.
00:08:20Thank you so much.
00:08:22Thank you so much.
00:08:22It's an absolute pleasure, anytime.
00:08:24Enjoy the rest of your day, guys.
00:08:25Bye.
00:08:27Well, I'm so happy we did that.
00:08:29We can check that off our bucket list.
00:08:32We can.
00:08:35I'm glad that Elisa's having a good time, but it's hard for me to enjoy the zoo with, you know,
00:08:40everything that went on last night.
00:08:50So weird that you're not, like, touching me.
00:08:55Is it going to be, like, just kind of quiet, or are we okay?
00:08:59Or, like, I'm trying to just, I don't know how, like, to interact right now.
00:09:05I don't know what to do.
00:09:09I told you, I told you how much I care about you, you know, and how much you mean to
00:09:14me.
00:09:14And then what, you go and do the most embarrassing thing I think I've been involved in.
00:09:20That was completely wrong, and I will own that, and I will take full responsibility that, like, that Elise last
00:09:27night was like, that's not, that's not cool.
00:09:30And I'm sorry.
00:09:32All I'm trying to do is get you two to like each other.
00:09:35You are so much different to her.
00:09:37She's a friend.
00:09:39You are my girl.
00:09:40You embarrass her.
00:09:42You embarrass me.
00:09:44And you're supposed to be the one.
00:09:46Like, I don't know if I can be with someone after that.
00:09:52The thing is, like, I'm falling in love with you.
00:09:57Like, I am.
00:09:58But things like last night makes me hesitate, you know, on introducing you to more of my life.
00:10:09I think the bottom line is, I am just so triggered that I didn't know that you lived with her,
00:10:16and it's just bringing up a lot of emotions.
00:10:19And I think just...
00:10:20You got answers.
00:10:21You got answers.
00:10:25You're not willing to accept them.
00:10:33I can understand why you're hurt.
00:10:35I can understand why you're upset.
00:10:37It will not happen again.
00:10:44No, I appreciate that.
00:10:47Are you giving me another chance?
00:10:53I'm not very confident.
00:10:56See how, uh, convincing you are.
00:10:59I'm sorry.
00:11:01When I hear Josh say he's falling for me, it, like, makes my heart feel so amazing.
00:11:06And it scares me to death that I literally almost lost him last night.
00:11:11Baby, they're so cute.
00:11:13Can we feed them?
00:11:14We can, yeah.
00:11:15I feel like I might be projecting my past traumas of my exes onto Josh.
00:11:20And that's not fair to him.
00:11:22You are so cute.
00:11:25I feel super fortunate that Josh is willing to give me another chance and, uh, not throw this all away
00:11:31for one crazy Elise escapade.
00:11:35But if I don't change now, and if I act this way again, I could lose him.
00:11:51Here we go.
00:11:54Here we go.
00:11:57Yeah.
00:11:57Right now.
00:12:02And here we go.
00:12:10He'sén.
00:12:34Earlier today, I met with Laura's friend, best friend, Michael.
00:12:42I can't believe what he told me.
00:12:46She let me believe that Michael was the one who made the move, and she made the move.
00:12:56I always think that Michael has feelings for Laura, but now I see that she is the one who
00:13:04wanted to be more than friends.
00:13:08How do I know she doesn't still felt that way now?
00:13:12Maybe that's why she didn't tell me.
00:13:17Honestly, it's a big deal for me.
00:13:22Maybe this is not her first lie.
00:13:25Maybe there was a lot of lies, and maybe it's all a lie.
00:13:34Hey, baby.
00:13:35Hey.
00:13:36How was your day?
00:13:38Perfect.
00:13:39Was it okay?
00:13:40Yeah.
00:13:40Yeah.
00:13:41I'm curious about it.
00:13:41I enjoyed it.
00:13:45Did you really?
00:13:46Yeah.
00:13:47He's a good guy.
00:13:50I've been saying that.
00:13:52That's a relief to hear.
00:13:54He's a good guy.
00:13:56He's a good guy.
00:13:56He's a good guy.
00:13:56But it turns out, you're not so good.
00:14:05Why?
00:14:05What?
00:14:05What did I do?
00:14:09He told me that you made a move on him.
00:14:21There is one person I was worried that she can come between us.
00:14:28That one person was your best friend.
00:14:31Yeah.
00:14:32That one person you kept secret about.
00:14:36I didn't say anything because it was like literally nothing to tell.
00:14:42You make me think like Michael is an enemy.
00:14:45He's trying to break us up.
00:14:46I didn't make you think that.
00:14:47You thought that all on your own.
00:14:49But you did not.
00:14:50We did.
00:14:52It was almost a year ago.
00:14:55I didn't think I needed to tell you every little thing that's ever happened.
00:14:59This is a little thing.
00:15:00Are you sure?
00:15:00It is a little thing.
00:15:01It is not a little thing.
00:15:02It's 100% a little thing.
00:15:04It was one tiny little thing.
00:15:06We got drunk.
00:15:07We were on the couch.
00:15:08I tried to kiss him.
00:15:09Big deal.
00:15:13One night, almost a full year into our friendship, and before I met BeerCon, Michael and I were watching
00:15:20TV, and we both had pretty solid buzz happening.
00:15:24Pretty soon, we were kind of laying on top of each other on my couch, and I tried to kiss
00:15:30Michael.
00:15:32He stopped me and shut it down.
00:15:36Although it was really hurtful in the moment, Michael and I never talked about it after that.
00:15:41It's not something that ever came up again, and I never told BeerCon that I once tried to kiss Michael,
00:15:48because I knew if I did, he would never be okay with Michael and me staying friends.
00:15:57I don't trust you.
00:16:01This is your obligation to tell me your past.
00:16:06You tried to kiss him, okay?
00:16:09Yeah, I did.
00:16:10That means you had feelings for him.
00:16:13You wanted something.
00:16:16They couldn't have it.
00:16:18Maybe you get drunk and try to kiss him again.
00:16:21He is still in your life, and you kept this from a secret.
00:16:25Nothing happened.
00:16:27And you are still saying nothing happened.
00:16:30It doesn't matter.
00:16:31You still didn't tell me this thing.
00:16:37What would you like me to say?
00:16:39Maybe you would like, sorry.
00:16:43I was drunk.
00:16:44I tried to kiss him, but he refused me, but we are still friends.
00:16:52That was hard?
00:16:53Nope.
00:16:54You didn't want it to say.
00:16:59I'm trying to change my country.
00:17:01I'm trying to make plans for us, for our future.
00:17:07Now, I'm thinking about, maybe I shouldn't.
00:17:12This is so ridiculous.
00:17:19I'm surprised at Birkan's massive reaction.
00:17:25I don't think that it's that big of a deal that I didn't tell Birkan.
00:17:29I mean, let's be real.
00:17:31He's kept a lot of secrets from me, and I'm still here.
00:17:36That pisses me off.
00:17:39You're missing all the points.
00:17:42I suspected something is going on between you and Michael.
00:17:46Nothing is going on.
00:17:46Will you just shut up and listen?
00:17:49Don't tell me to shut up.
00:17:55I...
00:17:55No.
00:17:57Just admit it, you're wrong.
00:18:00Or just don't talk.
00:18:02Maybe when you grow up a little bit, you'll learn to communicate a little better.
00:18:06You're one of the young husbands.
00:18:08Deal with it.
00:18:10You know what?
00:18:12I wish we never met.
00:18:15I don't have to go through all of this.
00:18:16I'm sorry.
00:18:17I'm sorry.
00:18:17I'm sorry.
00:18:18You wish that who never met?
00:18:22Us.
00:18:22You and me?
00:18:23Yeah.
00:18:25I can trust you.
00:18:28That's fine.
00:18:29I will get back on a plane and leave.
00:18:38If you care this much...
00:18:40No, I don't.
00:18:41You cross the line.
00:18:43If you're going to tell me that you wish we never met, I have nothing left to say to you.
00:18:49Okay.
00:19:02I don't miss you.
00:19:04There's one thing you didn't fulfill last night for me.
00:19:08What is that?
00:19:10Oral sex.
00:19:12I have fellow women have been giving her the oral sex.
00:19:15I am not a woman.
00:19:17I have my .
00:19:21There's only a few things I've asked of you.
00:19:27My mom, she's been blowing me up all morning, sending me tons and tons of text messages.
00:19:33Babe, mom would strangle you everything she can just to get rid of our relationship.
00:19:40We both needed some space away from my mother.
00:19:43But I'm terrified to tell her that I'm planning on staying in the Philippines.
00:19:49It's time for you to grow up and be a man, not just following her orders around.
00:19:57When you know, you know, that's how the story goes.
00:20:02I wasn't sure that I believed it.
00:20:04Then you came and made it so easy.
00:20:07I got this in a note.
00:20:09It looks like we're going to get wrapped up in bananas.
00:20:12Woo!
00:20:13Banana?
00:20:14You going to put me into a plate?
00:20:15Yeah.
00:20:21Oh!
00:20:25Oh.
00:20:27Hello, everyone.
00:20:28Hello.
00:20:28Hello, Pa.
00:20:30Welcome.
00:20:30Hello.
00:20:32Good afternoon, Pa.
00:20:33Welcome to the banana leaf wrap.
00:20:35This is a good experience for you, mom and sir.
00:20:37Because banana leaf wrap is good for skin.
00:20:40Go on.
00:20:41We need to proceed, ma'am.
00:20:42All right.
00:20:42Yeah.
00:20:45Should I really need to remove my tops or something?
00:20:48No.
00:20:48If you want, ma'am.
00:20:49It's okay.
00:20:50It's okay.
00:20:51Last night, she and I, having the night away with each other, getting a chance to be with
00:20:57each other intimately, and it was definitely something that we both needed.
00:21:01And I'm hoping the spa treatment is going to help us de-stress.
00:21:05Light down, ma'am.
00:21:06Light down.
00:21:06Okay.
00:21:08Because I only have a few more days left here in the Philippines, and I have a lot of
00:21:12hard decisions to make about my future with Sheena.
00:21:16And then, we need to put a banana leaf wrap to your body, ma'am.
00:21:20Very great.
00:21:22Oh, wow.
00:21:22I sure hope the wrap fits me.
00:21:27I'm extra, extra long.
00:21:31This is my first time that I've done this banana leaf treatment, and it feels like you're
00:21:36being placed on, like, as a food.
00:21:38Which is, most people in my country, they would use banana leaves to wrap food around.
00:21:43It's going for me.
00:21:46How's he looking up there, ladies?
00:21:48Pretty good?
00:21:49It's okay, sir.
00:21:50Yeah.
00:21:51I feel like a giant wrapped tamale here.
00:21:55Tamale, bro.
00:21:56They're gonna throw me in the oven next.
00:21:58I was waiting to be steamed alive.
00:22:00They're gonna steam you.
00:22:02This is so strange.
00:22:03Like, I don't understand why all my clothes are still on.
00:22:07Oh, my goodness.
00:22:09But it's very relaxing to be basically tied down with banana leaves and unable to move
00:22:15as the sun blasts me in the face and melts off my woes.
00:22:23It was highly recommended by the hotel.
00:22:27Well, honey, this is quite relaxing.
00:22:30Yeah, I'm having a lot of fun here.
00:22:32And it's starting to rain.
00:22:35Oh, yeah.
00:22:35I love the rain.
00:22:37Yeah.
00:22:38Gotta love the rain and the banana leaf.
00:22:40Oh, the banana leaf.
00:22:44Just being here with you, it's just amazing.
00:22:48Yeah.
00:22:51I've been thinking about everything.
00:22:53And I feel like last night just strengthened the urge to be with you more.
00:22:58And so maybe I could get a job and start working here for the next few years.
00:23:05Wow.
00:23:06I kept praying for you to stay here.
00:23:09I love you, baby bear.
00:23:12I would try to prepare things as well for you to stay here.
00:23:16I would try to help you find a job.
00:23:18If not, then I could work on my own, find a better job.
00:23:22I'll do what I can, my love.
00:23:25Sheena and I, from the very start, have always dreamed about making our lives in the United States together.
00:23:32But at this point, living in the Philippines is, I feel, the best option.
00:23:37It means I get to be with Sheena faster.
00:23:41I feel that Sheena is always encouraging me to be my best self and to try to do things that
00:23:47are way out of my bounds.
00:23:50It's a big gamble, but just thinking now about being away from her just rips at my heart and tears
00:23:56out my soul.
00:23:58I personally believe you're my wife, even though we haven't signed any papers or gone to any, you know, church.
00:24:05You're my wife, and I don't want to be away from my second half.
00:24:10And I hope that your mom would happen to respect that as our decision to make, not hers, but to
00:24:18us only.
00:24:21Well, she's been blowing me up all morning, sending me tons and tons of text messages.
00:24:27Even though my mom has been giving me the cold shoulder ever since I proposed to Sheena,
00:24:33I felt like I needed to text her to tell her that we met with an immigration lawyer.
00:24:41That's when she really started blowing me up.
00:24:48My mom has always been a very controlling person,
00:24:51and I'm terrified to tell her and Dev that I'm planning on staying in the Philippines.
00:24:58I'm worried knowing that I'm going to disappoint my mom.
00:25:02Babe, mom would strangle you everything as she can just to get rid of our relationship,
00:25:08even though I happen to try to do many things for her.
00:25:12It's time for you to grow up and be a man and try to tell mom that you want to
00:25:17do some things that you wanted to do.
00:25:19Not just following her orders, her orders around.
00:25:24You have to make your own decisions.
00:25:28My mother, she's always been my safety net, but her meddling constantly causes conflict between Sheena and I.
00:25:36I think it's a good thing living in the Philippines because it's going to definitely give me some space away
00:25:42from my mother.
00:25:44Hello, ma'am, sir. Excuse voice. Time's up.
00:25:46Okay, thank you.
00:25:48But at the same time, I am 100% defying everything my mom has told me not to do, and
00:25:56I'm scared.
00:25:59I'm tired of waiting, and I'm ready to start our lives together.
00:26:03It's your time to shine, honey. I'm there for you.
00:26:18You have to decide yes or no, but if no, we cannot be together anymore.
00:26:32You have to decide you want to have a baby with me or not.
00:26:41Can you tell them that we haven't even been talking for a year yet?
00:26:47That's why we haven't been talking for a year yet.
00:26:57It's just a very important time to have a baby with you.
00:27:00I want to tell them that we haven't done anything.
00:27:05But when they want to have a baby, I want you to have a baby with me.
00:27:13I want to do some job.
00:27:14You have to keep up with me.
00:27:15And you want him to come to me.
00:27:15the answer you want to have a baby or not
00:27:32um my uncle said we are strict about having children because they represent our family line
00:27:40continuing that's what we believe and it's not gonna change so we only wait for you and you know that
00:27:52in their culture having the baby is the most important thing i understand that and i would
00:28:00hate for trish not to be respected by her community over this if trish didn't have a baby i feel
00:28:08like
00:28:08she would be ashamed i would feel awful if she looked at herself in that way
00:28:20they're waiting for our answer okay
00:28:26but at the same time i'm feeling like i'm a piece of meat in a pressure cooker
00:28:34i don't feel like i'm being forced to um make a life-changing decision in in in such little time
00:28:48i know how important it is to the family
00:28:52and i really know how important it is to trish
00:28:58if we're gonna be together and get married
00:29:01then i want to make you happy i want you to feel like your life is complete
00:29:09so
00:29:14i have to say yes
00:29:18so you're saying yes now yes why you change your mind like that
00:29:26i didn't fully understand
00:29:27you know before
00:29:47i'm really shocked that rick say yes suddenly because he was not sure about his answer
00:29:56maybe because of my uncle's pressure but i'm really excited and also my family is very excited to hear that
00:30:05response
00:30:12so when are we going to have the baby
00:30:20i will file for the visa
00:30:23yeah it's going to take at least eight months to a year and then once she's approved after we get
00:30:30married
00:30:30together and that's we're gonna we're gonna start planning our our family together
00:30:56we're going to start planning our our family together
00:31:12So what if it's after 20 years you'll start?
00:31:16By the end of August, in about three months, then I will propose to Trish.
00:31:24So in three months we are going to be engaged and you will start the process?
00:31:32If everything goes in the direction that's been going in the last few days, then yes.
00:31:38That's what's going to happen.
00:31:57They are going to give a blessing for everything.
00:32:03This is great news.
00:32:06I'm so happy that it's turning out this way.
00:32:11Honestly, I felt bullied in this decision because I really wanted to be with Trish.
00:32:18And the only way that I would be able to is to agree to have a baby with her.
00:32:24But seeing Trish's reaction on how excited she is, it's definitely making me feel more positive.
00:32:37I'm starting to get excited about the possibilities of having this family with Trish.
00:32:46She would be a great mother.
00:32:48And I'm actually starting to envision it.
00:32:52And things are looking really good.
00:32:55Her happiness is all I want.
00:33:08When you get back to America, you have to make an inquiry how I will get to America, right?
00:33:13I'm going to do that, but you do know I can't keep sending as much money as I have been.
00:33:21Every penny has to go towards an immigration lawyer.
00:33:24I can't even spend money anymore.
00:33:26I'm done.
00:33:39I want to snuggle before we get up.
00:33:41One last snuggle.
00:33:45Show me your love.
00:33:46Show me your love.
00:33:47Let me show you my love.
00:33:49Show me your love.
00:33:49Show you your love.
00:33:50Say how you carry my own.
00:33:51Yeah.
00:33:52I want to have more sex with you.
00:33:54Before you go.
00:33:54Before you.
00:33:56I hope so.
00:33:58I hope so.
00:33:59I hope so.
00:34:00Baby.
00:34:01Baby.
00:34:02There's one thing you didn't fulfill last night for me.
00:34:05One promise.
00:34:07What is that?
00:34:08Oral sex.
00:34:08Oh.
00:34:12Why are you putting it off?
00:34:14I know you like it.
00:34:15And you've been talking.
00:34:16You've been hammering on that.
00:34:18You've been.
00:34:18There's only a few things I've asked of you.
00:34:21And that's a major one right there for me.
00:34:24It's major for me.
00:34:27I've never had oral sex with Lisa.
00:34:30Because I've never tried it before.
00:34:32I don't know how to do it.
00:34:35Her fellow women have been giving her the oral sex she wants.
00:34:38And she wants me to be doing the same.
00:34:41I am not a woman.
00:34:43I have my .
00:34:46Yes, I give her what I have.
00:34:51When we get married, I'll make it up to you.
00:34:54Okay?
00:34:54Promise.
00:34:55I promise you.
00:34:56You better keep this promise, because I've done so much.
00:35:00I'm sorry.
00:35:01Okay?
00:35:02I'll make it up to you.
00:35:07I wish it's possible for us to stay like, spend like one more week.
00:35:12It's not possible.
00:35:14You've got to start getting ready.
00:35:18Okay.
00:35:19I'm leaving to go home today after three weeks in Nigeria.
00:35:24And more than half of my trip was fighting with Daniel about my lies.
00:35:29And then I had to make up for all those lies.
00:35:34And I'm finally at a happy point.
00:35:36Everything is done.
00:35:38I just want to stay here with Daniel and get married.
00:35:41I don't want to go home.
00:35:44Um, baby, you know, I really wanted to marry you before you left.
00:35:51I sent you to help us to find my papers.
00:35:56So that means when you get back to America, you have to make an inquiry how I will get to
00:36:00America, right?
00:36:02I'm going to do that, babe.
00:36:03My first step is to get back to work.
00:36:05And then I am going to get in touch with an immigration lawyer.
00:36:09Okay.
00:36:11We are going to find out which is better, the K-1 visa or getting married in Nigeria.
00:36:16Which one is going to get you to America faster?
00:36:20That would be nice.
00:36:20Okay?
00:36:21So that's what we'll do.
00:36:22That's okay.
00:36:25But, babe, you do know I can't keep sending as much money as I have been.
00:36:33At this point, every penny has to go towards an immigration lawyer getting you to America, doing what we need
00:36:41to do.
00:36:41I cannot send any more money.
00:36:43I can't even spend money anymore.
00:36:45I'm done.
00:36:50Um, that's fine, but you know how hard Nigeria is.
00:36:54Okay?
00:36:55So maybe I have to call you and ask you for assistance.
00:37:01Thanks.
00:37:03You have to try not to because I have to save for us to get you to America.
00:37:09Um, babe, there's no problem about that.
00:37:14I had you.
00:37:15So we have a game plan now?
00:37:17Yes.
00:37:18Hmm.
00:37:22All right, I have to get dressed.
00:37:24You have to get dressed.
00:37:24We have to get going.
00:37:25Yes.
00:37:27She said she's not going to give me money anymore.
00:37:29Fine, because I'm not getting married to her because of the money she's giving me.
00:37:34No.
00:37:35I'm getting married to her because she's the one I want to settle down with.
00:37:40She has good plans for me.
00:37:41She's the one possessing my visa to come to America.
00:37:45She's not expecting me to do it by myself.
00:37:48Babes.
00:37:49What?
00:37:50This is so funny.
00:37:51Are you going to wear it today?
00:37:53Do you know what women would say to me?
00:37:55What?
00:37:56They would say your wife is wicked.
00:37:58Will you wear it when I'm gone?
00:37:59Oh, my God.
00:38:02So, um, she deserves an applause.
00:38:04She deserves a good, you know, good things.
00:38:07That's why I wait for you forever.
00:38:16All I want is love.
00:38:18And she has been giving it to me.
00:38:20I will miss her, um, her soft kiss.
00:38:23I will miss everything about her.
00:38:27Even the sky is crying.
00:38:29It's raining.
00:38:31You're my husband.
00:38:32I love you.
00:38:33I love you.
00:38:38I love you.
00:38:39I knew it was going to be hard.
00:38:40I didn't know it was going to be this hard.
00:38:42Last time we were here, I got engaged.
00:38:46To you.
00:38:48Oh, my God, baby.
00:38:56This trip was nothing what I expected.
00:38:58I didn't imagine getting engaged when I landed.
00:39:01I didn't imagine meeting his uncle and getting a blessing.
00:39:04I didn't imagine seeing a king of all people.
00:39:09I didn't imagine any of this.
00:39:11I didn't imagine I'd buy a goat.
00:39:13I mean, none of this.
00:39:15I never could have experienced without coming here.
00:39:24I don't want to go.
00:39:27Do I have to go?
00:39:31I don't want to do with you.
00:39:33It'll happen soon.
00:39:35When you get sad, look at my picture.
00:39:55It's okay.
00:39:58It's okay, baby.
00:40:00It's okay, baby.
00:40:02It's okay, baby.
00:40:03I love you so much.
00:40:05I love you so, so much.
00:40:08I love you.
00:40:09We'll be together soon.
00:40:15I hate you.
00:40:19I feel that I will not see her again.
00:40:23Because anything can happen.
00:40:26She might go back to her country, and she might change her mind on most of the promises, like bringing
00:40:32me to her country.
00:40:33you know um the visa I I am hoping she would do it but we are not married
00:40:39legally yet so it's very hard for me to say goodbye
00:40:45I miss you so much I love you baby I can't do it you have to walk away from
00:40:51me I can't do it
00:41:06okay I'll go I'll go
00:41:12it's very hard I feel like I'm not gonna see him again even though I know I'm going to
00:41:16I'm making these plans but I'm thinking what if they fall through
00:41:22what if it's more than six months what if it's more than a year what if what if what if
00:41:27it's two
00:41:28years what happens between daniel and I I don't know
00:41:50it's nice a big house you can have sex in a lot of rooms I was really upset with the
00:41:57lace and how
00:41:57she acted at the bar the other night but she's trying to make it up to me you know I've
00:42:02never
00:42:02used the kitchen in my house so the fact that I'm doing this must mean I really like you
00:42:13you said let's turn the heat up I said you play with my heart you said you're fine with the
00:42:20cheap
00:42:20stuff it tastes the same in the dark in the light of the cold grey cries for the old days
00:42:28it's a match in the dark okay we have everything you think okay to a trip just us Chris gets
00:42:38the
00:42:38place to himself now
00:42:50blue mountains what's this it's called deodorant I was really upset with Elise and how she acted at the
00:43:03bar the other night but Elise has realized she was in the wrong and she's trying to make it up
00:43:07to me
00:43:07and she's organized a two-night stay at the blue mountains take me away the blue mountains are known
00:43:15for their hiking and waterfalls and it's a different part of nature besides the beaches that Sydney has
00:43:20so I'm excited you know I've never even been I wouldn't say all is forgiven but she's trying and
00:43:27this is a good start oh my god are we here we are here nice it's a big house we
00:43:45can have sex in a lot of
00:43:46rooms yes we can I knew absolutely nothing about the blue mountains but Josh has always spoken about
00:43:57it and how much he wanted to go so I decided to book us a trip and there's hot tubs
00:44:02there so I was like
00:44:03love that look baby look what I got us whoa oh wow a lot of space for a lot of
00:44:12activities you're the best I
00:44:15know I thought it was a great idea to get out of Bondi away from Nat away from Chris away
00:44:21from boats
00:44:21I just want for us to really unplug and just be with each other more get out of the kitchen
00:44:30I was cooking for
00:44:33you you know I've never used the kitchen in my house so the fact that I'm doing this for you
00:44:38must mean I really like you that does mean a lot this should be fun
00:44:52this is not the worst stuff I thought was going to be in my mouth
00:45:08half of it went in my mouth my face my boobs maybe should I take it off why isn't this
00:45:17coming to a boil
00:45:18I don't know I don't know how to turn on the stove oh which pasta do you want that's so
00:45:25embarrassing
00:45:26what pack was that in I'm making you two types of pasta perfect
00:45:35nope not ready oh god this feels really good
00:45:47I read somewhere I heard that you'll know if pasta's ready if it sticks to the wall so like if
00:45:53you cook pasta and then it sticks to the wall then you know it's ready like yeah but I don't
00:45:57think
00:45:57that's the same with penne pasta let's throw in the pasta
00:46:05oh my god there's water in here oh I think I just ruined the sauce baby
00:46:13the kitchen is definitely not her element but I love seeing the side of Elise that's doing
00:46:19something that she's not used to doing all right that'll do at least she keeps me on my toes
00:46:26I don't like it when things get stagnant or boring or stale
00:46:29and I know it's not going to be dull with her let's see how we go
00:46:34is it good?
00:46:35it's not that bad
00:46:42it's horrible
00:46:44be honest
00:46:45I'm not picky
00:46:46it was the most fun I've had making dinner
00:46:50I laughed my head off
00:46:51and I needed that
00:46:53me too
00:46:55you know what's so cute about Josh is like when I f*** up or I do something stupid
00:46:59or I feel really awkward
00:47:00like he makes so light of it
00:47:02I don't know it's like it's the little moments like
00:47:05like then that I'm like you know what like
00:47:07I feel like he could be my forever
00:47:10but there's just one thing he hasn't followed through on
00:47:13and it's been constantly playing in the back of my mind
00:47:16I don't know if I can go back to Florida
00:47:20not having met your son
00:47:22to see how you are as a father
00:47:25you would have met him already
00:47:26I would want you to
00:47:27but he's moved away
00:47:29so for now
00:47:30like can we FaceTime?
00:47:33will that work?
00:47:34yeah
00:47:35I'm not trying to harp on him again after everything that we've went through
00:47:38but I'm leaving soon
00:47:40and I haven't met anyone in his family
00:47:42I haven't met his son
00:47:43and this is a huge part of his life
00:47:45that I'm completely missing out on
00:47:48so I really really hope that it can happen before the end of my trip
00:47:53pretty full
00:47:54me too
00:47:59I'm looking for wedding bands
00:48:01I like classic stuff
00:48:04it is really important for me
00:48:07to have the wedding ring
00:48:10$268
00:48:10I think he's not sure
00:48:14I don't want someone mistaking me
00:48:17you know still available
00:48:19single woman
00:48:20they can have you
00:48:21okay
00:48:22okay
00:48:47you really wanted that don't you
00:48:54we're ready boo
00:48:56ready boo
00:49:02oops
00:49:08that tickles my belly
00:49:19that was fun yeah that was so fun oh look at those jobs that's where you can find very nice
00:49:27wedding gowns and dresses like really pretty nice can't wait for the anniversary party yeah
00:49:39things with Jovon and I are really good and now in a couple of days we're having our anniversary
00:49:46party where we're going to renew our vows since we never had a wedding in person basically it's
00:49:54just like a second wedding to me you know because last time we didn't get to touch each other face
00:50:03to face I've been dreaming about this and now it's happening and I just can't wait okay are you ready
00:50:17yeah I guess so now that we're going to bring you our vows good afternoon we decided to look at
00:50:29rings
00:50:31we've been married almost three years and sometimes I still can't believe that Jovon hasn't put a ring
00:50:38on it yet I feel like I'm the only woman in the world that got married without a wedding band
00:50:48hi hello what are you looking for uh we're looking for wedding bands we have different style
00:50:54okay what are you prepared for well I'm okay with a simple plain wedding band I want it more classic
00:51:03I like classic I like classic stuff this one
00:51:14it is really important for me to have the wedding ring my symbol of love you need a ring to
00:51:21symbolize
00:51:22that I assume you don't want some men mistaking me as you know still available single woman
00:51:28they can have you I'm playing relax when is your wedding well we're actually married already we
00:51:42don't have an official wedding rings yet we did our marriage online that's why you know to be fair
00:51:51you know I did get you a ring okay you send me your money and I bought a ring that's
00:51:59under $100
00:52:01that's turned my finger green but that's what I thought no I thought it's just a substitute ring
00:52:10how about poor sir what do you think when it come to bands like I prefer like black like this
00:52:19silver in the middle kind of sporty but they don't sell that here
00:52:25I already bought myself a non-expensive ring before we got married and I like it a lot
00:52:33I'm not a jewelry person and I really don't want to spend money on something I don't need or want
00:52:42this one is good it's just that it's too skinny like do you have something that's a little bit
00:52:50wider I have different kind of design okay this one is good I like this one more simple but really
00:53:03looks
00:53:04like I'm married you know what I mean how much is this per gram no yes 15 510 in peso
00:53:1315 510 how much is
00:53:15that you are 268 in dollar 268 yeah you have anything budget no we didn't really have a budget but
00:53:31are we gonna buy this we need today yeah I can come back we can come back yeah because I
00:53:50got to sort out my bank stuff
00:53:51yeah okay why would you bring me bring shopping if we're not gonna buy anything anyway what's the point
00:54:03of going out just to get an idea of what you want
00:54:15thank you so much bye bye
00:54:19I feel so humiliated I can't even have the cheapest ring it's not just a jewelry it's a symbol of
00:54:30our
00:54:30marriage I waited six years to be together in person he never applied for spousal visa and now I still
00:54:41don't have a ring once again he is making me feel like he's not invested in our relationship that was
00:55:07I don't know why he insists I'm in love with you I really don't I mean you did jump on
00:55:14a plane and come to my
00:55:15rescue I don't think he's the only person that thinks that there's a lot of layers there and I mean
00:55:44oh hey hey what concern from that phone call you gave me yeah me too
00:56:01I'm assuming you've talked in beer con yeah I did it was super great thanks for that I kind of
00:56:08partly blame you
00:56:10okay
00:56:13I don't know he's you don't know I don't know what was said between you and him
00:56:18I only know mine in the story okay so we have to come together okay super curious what was going
00:56:26through your head telling him that I hit on you like I don't understand what how that even came up
00:56:34we never did anything and he's pissed off about it because I didn't tell him told me that he wishes
00:56:41he never met me and I kind of feel like there was zero reason for you to bring that up
00:56:48okay and I'd like to know why you did okay I'm brought it up because beer con was under the
00:56:56impression
00:56:56that I was in love with you that man kept pushing and pushing and pushing and at some point I
00:57:04need to
00:57:04him to understand that I said no to us having a relationship but you were the one that asked
00:57:13and from that he got very upset and I tried to reassure him was a year ago it didn't I
00:57:18mean it was before
00:57:19you met him I feel like honestly it feels like a backhanded way of trying to sabotage it how long
00:57:27have you been here with him how long have you been here with him two and a half weeks and
00:57:33in two and
00:57:33half weeks you cannot convince him that was not a threat but that's not on me I did everything I
00:57:45could to defuse that situation I don't know why he insists that I'm in love with you I really don't
00:57:54I mean you did jump on a plane and come to my rescue I don't think he's the only person
00:58:00that thinks that
00:58:05there's a lot of layers there but no that's not something I want to happen anyhow
00:58:13we're friends I don't want to anymore
00:58:18at the end of the day I want you to be happy all I ever heard was little stories here
00:58:23and there about
00:58:23him from you you said all these bad things and just why does she keep talking to this guy
00:58:30so I came to meet him to see all the other good stuff and you don't have to worry about
00:58:35him and I
00:58:36anymore you just need to make sure that he's the right guy for you before you make a commitment
00:58:42I don't even know what to do right now like there's part of me that just wants to like go
00:58:45have another
00:58:46conversation with him but I don't even know what to say because he just told me he wishes he never
00:58:50met me okay but the opposite of love is not anger it's apathy so angry means he still loves you
00:58:58I don't believe Michael when he says he doesn't have any feelings for me at all romantically but I
00:59:06think ultimately he does have my best interest in mind and I think he does care about the future
00:59:11of my relationship with beer con beer con is the person I need in my life and I want to
00:59:19fix this
00:59:20I just don't really know how to go about it so what do I do I feel like he never
00:59:27could understand
00:59:27that I didn't feel like that was that big of a deal do you acknowledge that he felt the way
00:59:33he did
00:59:33it didn't matter whether he was right or not no I never said that at the end of the day
00:59:40the relationship is more important than the argument which means somebody has to say I'm sorry
00:59:49it's amazing how the words I'm sorry when said truly can diffuse a situation
00:59:55okay I see your point
00:59:58I guess I'll go give him a call and see if I can fix that thank you
01:00:08I'll let you know how it goes
01:00:10thank you
01:00:10yeah
01:00:30how are you
01:00:35I'm okay
01:00:38I was just wondering if we could talk
01:00:48I'm sorry did you say not today
01:00:54am I not supposed to come back to the apartment
01:00:57I'm sorry just give me the space
01:01:04okay
01:01:04I guess I will get a room somewhere
01:01:09okay
01:01:10we both need time
01:01:13yeah
01:01:14and we both need to think about what's going on
01:01:16mm-hmm
01:01:20okay
01:01:22okay
01:01:23bye
01:01:25bye
01:01:32I don't want to force you but like am I ever going to meet your son
01:01:37when Elise asked to meet my son I can see that she really really cares
01:01:41but honestly after all the fighting with Elise I've had my doubts about trying to let her in to the
01:01:46most important part of my life
01:01:56oh my god oh that's hot oh that's not sure huh oh it's really hot stop that's burning me oh
01:02:05you found the champagne I got it it did sound good
01:02:08I think we should open it
01:02:15wow cheers to that
01:02:25what a perfect ending to
01:02:26a perfect little diet
01:02:28good drive
01:02:31good cooking
01:02:34it's so funny huh so funny okay I tried
01:02:39so am I making it up to you am I doing a good job so far
01:02:42yeah absolutely
01:02:45well have I made it up to you enough that like you can let me in your own world
01:02:55well I want to be with you and I'm scared that I've came literally around the world and all I've
01:03:02met is like a few friends
01:03:04and I don't want to force you but like am I ever going to meet your son
01:03:14when Elise asked to meet my son or you know talk to my son I find that endearing
01:03:19but honestly the last couple of days after all the fighting with Elise I've had my doubts about whether I'll
01:03:25introduce him or not
01:03:27obviously I'm very protective of my son
01:03:29so I want to be confident that this relationship is going to work
01:03:34I understand he's young and it's like a video call and it's probably like a lot to explain to him
01:03:42yeah I do want to prove how much you mean to me
01:03:45but um that's been playing on me heavily
01:03:51what's been playing on you heavily explain that
01:03:55it's just been a tough year
01:03:58I didn't I didn't move him away but you know
01:04:01he's an hour and a half plane ride and
01:04:04I don't see him as much as I want
01:04:08I still feel like he thinks I can get up there a lot more than I can so
01:04:12it's just
01:04:15a guilty feeling for me at the moment
01:04:19I miss him
01:04:20you know especially when you're here you know
01:04:23really?
01:04:24well yeah well because when you're here I think you know if
01:04:26if he was here as well it'd be like
01:04:28I'd love you two to get along and then it'd be like
01:04:31perfect little world
01:04:35I guess it's just painful to
01:04:38to think about it
01:04:40it's okay to have feelings and it's okay to be upset
01:04:45if you weren't emotional about your son
01:04:47and you didn't feel this way I would be worried
01:04:49I'd be very very worried
01:04:52that means you're a good dad and it means you care
01:04:59it's like having a son's responsibility and like excitement and you do things with him
01:05:03and then when something like that gets taken away from you you're like
01:05:07I feel like I lost myself
01:05:10yeah I feel like I've sort of lost a bit of myself
01:05:15my relationship with my son
01:05:16we're really tight
01:05:18I've been there since he was born
01:05:20he's my little partner in crime
01:05:22we go camping we go fishing surfing you know we kick footballs we go and play golf
01:05:28it's such a good part of my life
01:05:30so it really did hurt this year when I didn't have that
01:05:37I want to help make you feel like you're back together
01:05:43I want to be that rock for you
01:05:47I want to be there for you
01:05:51support you in any way I can
01:05:52but you have to let me into your life
01:05:55I can't do that without getting brought into your life
01:06:01this is very emotional because being away from my son
01:06:04affected me you know more than I thought
01:06:07but I don't want that to hold me back from bringing Elise fully into my life
01:06:10I can see that she really really cares
01:06:13she's shown that she's worthy of you know getting to know my son
01:06:18but at the same time
01:06:19it is scary to let her in
01:06:21the most important part of my life
01:06:23what if things don't work out
01:06:24you know that's going to be pretty devastating for all of us
01:06:28well I'm here for you now
01:06:50I mean after getting her family's approval
01:06:58I just
01:07:00it up
01:07:02I don't want anything
01:07:35my family's happy that you're going to give me a baby
01:07:59I'm nervous that I've agreed and told them yes
01:08:04that I'm willing to have a child
01:08:05but it felt great to get Trisha's father's blessing
01:08:10overall I've been enjoying my time with Trisha's family
01:08:14but I'm sure glad that we're headed back to Antananarivo
01:08:18now Trisha and I we can sleep together
01:08:20and you know take a nice warm shower together
01:08:23and not have to worry about the eyeballs on us
01:08:29they were really happy
01:08:36I thought there was going to be like fireworks set off
01:08:40after I said that after I agreed to have that baby
01:08:44they're so sweet
01:08:45gonna miss them
01:08:50I'm ready to have a baby
01:08:52but what if you change your mind
01:08:59maybe as long as we're going and moving in the right direction
01:09:03I'm all on board with having a baby
01:09:06because I know that it'll make you happy
01:09:09I know that's what you really want
01:09:14I still have these doubts lingering in the back of my mind
01:09:18about whether or not I'm financially ready to have another child
01:09:23but I know that if I don't follow through with my promises
01:09:28this could put Trish in a very bad situation with her family
01:09:33I know how much her family means to her
01:09:36so I feel like I have to keep my word
01:09:41I'm hoping in time that I'd be in a better situation
01:09:44to financially support another child
01:09:50yeah I'm kind of banking on that
01:09:55looks like we're starting to get everything mapped out
01:09:57in our future
01:10:05do you have to use in restroom or anything?
01:10:23no I don't I don't eat anything like this dog
01:10:26already chicken
01:10:32yeah
01:10:33well damn
01:10:34my flight's been delayed
01:10:36that's it
01:10:37we wait for one hour
01:10:40hope this bad boy's going straight to Tana
01:10:45couple of days in Tana before my baby
01:10:50I'm gonna go back
01:10:55that's really sad
01:10:57sad story
01:11:00it's just all beginning
01:11:04oh god
01:11:28we were waiting on our flight and it just kept getting delayed
01:11:33the whole while Trish is asking me if I loved her
01:11:37I kept telling her yes I love you
01:11:41eventually she says you know why I'm asking
01:11:45and then Trish
01:11:49and then Trish demanded that I give her my phone
01:11:52it kind of hit me that I noticed she kept looking over at my phone
01:12:00and she probably saw that my ex had texted me
01:12:05is this the same ex
01:12:07is this the same ex you went to see in Colombia?
01:12:10yes
01:12:14the most beautiful times of my life has been with you
01:12:18right
01:12:19with you was not the beautiful time
01:12:21why would you tell that to her?
01:12:23a few days ago
01:12:26a few days ago
01:12:26I got a text message
01:12:27from my ex
01:12:31and she was telling me that she misses the times that we had together
01:12:38and I responded and I responded inappropriately
01:13:02I just told her
01:13:05you didn't
01:13:06told me
01:13:06if I didn't ask
01:13:10why
01:13:11you
01:13:12didn't
01:13:13tell me
01:13:18He told me that he's not talking to his ex,
01:13:22that it's just completely over between Rick and that girl.
01:13:27But they start talking while we are at my father's house.
01:13:35Baby.
01:13:42It makes me sad.
01:13:51Like, I love him.
01:13:54We talk about the babies, the future, and my dad just give him blessing.
01:14:18I mean, after getting her family's approval, everything is felt, it felt different than it did the whole couple weeks
01:14:27prior.
01:14:29How did I come so close to getting what I wanted and then I just up?
01:14:40I'm not sure if I'll get another chance to make things right with Trish.
01:14:44And it feels like this is really the end and the final chapter.
01:14:58Are there plans being made and arrangements made to get you over to the United States?
01:15:04We are leaving tomorrow.
01:15:06I know my mom is not going to accept it, but I'm ready to do what I need to do
01:15:11to ensure she and I are together.
01:15:13I have decided I'm going to stay here in the Philippines.
01:15:18This is our choice.
01:15:20What's that you just came out of your mouth?
01:15:43Man, I'm super glad that we were able to sleep in today.
01:15:45I know he feels relaxed when mom is sitting around in her bed and sorry mood.
01:15:51D-O-K-I-D-O-K-I-D-O-K-I-D-O-K-I-D-O-K-I
01:15:56-D-O-K-I-D-O-K-I-D-O-K-I-D-O-K-I-D-O-K-I
01:16:04-D.
01:16:07I met with a lawyer and the lawyer says he has to have like a certain amount of income, something
01:16:13like that.
01:16:14He didn't do anything right at all.
01:16:18I'm upset right now.
01:16:20Forrest is coming back and for the last few days, Dev and I haven't heard anything from Forrest or Sheena.
01:16:26And we've just felt like we've kind of been left in the dark.
01:16:29You know, I don't know what to expect when they get back from their little rendezvous romantic vacation.
01:16:39I don't know what the conversation is going to be.
01:16:45We're supposed to be flying out tomorrow.
01:16:48And we're not sure what they're thinking or planning at all.
01:17:02Hey, Mom.
01:17:04How's things going?
01:17:06It's going pretty good. How are you guys?
01:17:12Well, I think we need to have a talk.
01:17:15Yeah.
01:17:16I think we need to figure things out a little bit.
01:17:18Yeah.
01:17:20That's kind of why we're here.
01:17:24Today was supposed to be my last day in the Philippines.
01:17:27But Sheena and I have made the decision for me to stay here.
01:17:32And basically start a life here with her.
01:17:36You ready?
01:17:36Yeah, we're going to go. Let's go.
01:17:38All right, guys.
01:17:39I know that my mom is not going to accept it.
01:17:43But she has to understand that I'm not the child that, you know, she's seen all these years.
01:17:49I have changed a lot in trip.
01:17:52And I'm ready to do what I need to do to ensure Sheena and I are together.
01:18:03Wow.
01:18:04Wow.
01:18:04Look at that.
01:18:06They moved to every witness.
01:18:10Look at that.
01:18:15It came originally from a punishment during the Spanish era that people would have to put their feet and they
01:18:22have to avoid the bamboo while hitting its feet.
01:18:25It tells a whole story from just a doubt.
01:18:28I agree.
01:18:29Oh, my goodness.
01:18:30Oh, look at that.
01:18:32Yay!
01:18:33Oh, thank you.
01:18:35Oh, that's beautiful.
01:18:36That's great.
01:18:37Good job, guys.
01:18:38That's awesome.
01:18:38Yeah.
01:18:39Well, you realize you have to be not only in a rhythm with the bamboo, but you have to be
01:18:45in a rhythm with your partner, too, at the same time.
01:18:48Kind of like life.
01:18:50Well, I think Sheena and I were worth moving in perfect rhythm.
01:18:57Yeah, definitely.
01:19:03So, Sheena, do we get menus, or how does it work?
01:19:07Actually, there's a set menu that's going to be prepared, so you can try, guys.
01:19:12Excellent.
01:19:13Oh.
01:19:14Oh, my God.
01:19:18Thank you so much.
01:19:21So, with the...
01:19:22Um, where you guys went, just fill me in what happened and give me all the details.
01:19:31Um, yeah.
01:19:32I feel like me and Sheena, we really bonded.
01:19:37In more ways than one.
01:19:46You had sex, didn't you?
01:19:52You know what?
01:19:53Yeah, we did.
01:19:56About time.
01:19:58I enjoyed it.
01:19:59It was fun.
01:20:01Yeah.
01:20:04You guys think that you have a good physical connection with each other?
01:20:11Yeah.
01:20:12I feel like our souls have really connected, and now we can really understand each other.
01:20:22I'm happy that, you know, my son finally lost his virginity, finally, you know.
01:20:28Nookie, nookie, nookie.
01:20:29Bang, bang, bang, bang.
01:20:33Then, also, too, that's an important aspect, to know if they had compatibility on all aspects, including sexuality.
01:20:42Well, that's good.
01:20:44I'm glad you guys are both de-virginized, finally.
01:20:47That's...
01:20:47Yeah, Mom.
01:20:52Well, I know it's a sad thing that we have to leave you and that Forrest has to leave you
01:20:58tomorrow, but it must be very painful.
01:21:03But are there plans being made and arrangements made somehow to try and get you over to the United States?
01:21:14Did you guys talk, make any plans?
01:21:19Because this is, we are leaving tomorrow.
01:21:25Yeah, we talked a lot yesterday.
01:21:27Um, with the K-1 visa, I found out that being on disability, I don't make enough money.
01:21:37So, she and I have decided that I'm going to stay here and live here in the Philippines.
01:21:47Forrest?
01:21:47What?
01:21:48I'm tired of being alone.
01:21:50Oh, my God.
01:21:52I did not expect to be staying here long term.
01:21:56Oh, you didn't expect it?
01:21:58Full.
01:21:59I want my love with me in my second half.
01:22:01This is our choice.
01:22:04What's that that you just came out of your mouth?
01:22:07Mom.
01:22:08Where's your list of pros and cons that you wrote out?
01:22:11Was that in between the ?
01:22:13Excuse me.
01:22:15You could say one thing something you want to say, but for me, I have him. He had me.
01:22:19I don't care if you're here for my son.
01:22:21I'm doing my best for my part for your son.
01:22:22Because I love your son, and I've worked everything hard for him, for our future.
01:22:27I want you to trust your son for once in a while.
01:22:33I trust my son. I don't trust you.
01:22:41Sorry. I just want to need space.
01:22:45Sorry.
01:22:47Excuse me.
01:22:54Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:22:57When do you plan on applying for the fiance visa so I can live in Belize?
01:23:02I thought you were going to apply for me in the U.S.
01:23:07No.
01:23:09Stig never mentioned wanting to move to the U.S.
01:23:12It's two hours before I'm leaving.
01:23:14It's just really weird timing.
01:23:16You won't be able to make any money.
01:23:18I saw you going to be my sugar mama.
01:23:21I wish we could have talked it out last night.
01:23:24You've been texting with him this morning? What has he been saying?
01:23:27I asked him if we could talk, and he said sure.
01:23:31I want to show him that my feelings for him are so much stronger than how I ever felt about
01:23:38Michael.
01:23:39Why did you mislead me when Michael made the move?
01:23:42I was worried you would try to put a stop to my friendship with him.
01:23:49Can you do that?
01:23:53Are you excited about today?
01:23:55I think I should ask you that question though.
01:23:59I just don't know what I'm going to say for my vows.
01:24:02It's just going to be like the basics.
01:24:05I just wanted today to be full of love.
01:24:10But it just feels like any other day for him.
01:24:14I don't know.
01:24:15I can't pretend that everything is fine.
01:24:21I love your son, and I'll do anything my best for him.
01:24:24Love doesn't pay the bills, Gina.
01:24:27You know, I'm like in panic mode that he's going to move to the Philippines.
01:24:31It's not going to work. It won't work.
01:24:33How much do you think that you're going to make working here?
01:24:37Where are you going to live, Forrest?
01:24:39Have you even factored how much it's going to cost?
01:24:43I don't know what to do.
01:24:47All the messages in the text.
01:24:49Why did you betray me?
01:24:52Why don't you block her?
01:24:54If you want this relationship, tell her that you don't want her anymore.
01:24:59That I'm with you.
01:25:01I love Trish.
01:25:03But I mean, love isn't so black and white.
01:25:07I need to be honest about my feelings.
01:25:11I don't know what to do.
01:25:14Oh, my God. Stunning.
01:25:18I don't think Elise realized, you know, what she'd signed up for.
01:25:22Come on, baby.
01:25:24Come on, baby.
01:25:27What do I do?
01:25:29At first, I'm just thinking she's being a drama queen.
01:25:33And I start to think, oh, is she okay?
01:25:36I get the朝.
01:25:38Don't do it!
01:25:39Please hold it, no!
01:25:41Oh, my God!
01:25:41First of all, baby, please
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