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00:00:01Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03This one is for you, Aviva.
00:00:06The sex good and the vibe good.
00:00:09Would I breed you? Yes, I would.
00:00:12She really liked my girl, huh?
00:00:15You're aware of what happened to him in the past, right?
00:00:18Ex-girlfriend from Texas.
00:00:19She wanted to start a family with her, you know?
00:00:23Richie doesn't think you're fully over your ex.
00:00:26Richie was talking crazy.
00:00:28You really are like a one-woman type of guy.
00:00:31Yeah, I could do that.
00:00:33I'm not convinced he's telling me the truth.
00:00:35I haven't been using protection,
00:00:36and I don't want to start a family with a liar.
00:00:40Trust me, baby.
00:00:44Baby.
00:00:49I'm wearing a child.
00:00:50I'm still sick.
00:00:52Daniel and I literally just got engaged,
00:00:54and I'm worried.
00:00:55He's second-guessing everything,
00:00:57and he doesn't want me,
00:00:59and I feel rejected.
00:01:03My ex contacted me.
00:01:06He's trying to get me back.
00:01:08And how did you respond?
00:01:10I didn't even respond, Rick.
00:01:12Look.
00:01:14I've been insecure about Trisha's ex-boyfriend
00:01:17because I know he has a lot of money,
00:01:18and I'm not in a position of these 400 like that.
00:01:22Do you believe me now?
00:01:24I do believe that you're not talking to him anymore.
00:01:27I'm not, Rick.
00:01:28I'm not.
00:01:31Sheena just told me I need her parents' approval
00:01:33to marry her,
00:01:34so now I have to go and get their approval
00:01:37while I have to tell them
00:01:38that their days are basically numbered
00:01:40with getting money away from their daughter.
00:01:42They have a lot of questions for you.
00:01:44First, it's your career.
00:01:47I'm going to have to tell my parents
00:01:49the truth about Forrest's financial situation.
00:01:52The pressure on my shoulders,
00:01:54it's quite hard,
00:01:56so I don't know what's going to happen.
00:02:03With my jobless situation
00:02:06and my debts,
00:02:07I am just broke.
00:02:09Did you say your debts?
00:02:11Yeah.
00:02:11How much is it?
00:02:1250K.
00:02:15That's a lot of money.
00:02:18I'm avoiding telling the entire story.
00:02:22I'm worried if she finds out
00:02:24how I make money sometimes.
00:02:27She could leave me.
00:02:54That's so beautiful.
00:02:56No.
00:03:06You have
00:03:07the
00:03:10nicest ass
00:03:11I have ever seen.
00:03:15I'm blessing.
00:03:19And you know,
00:03:20I always thought your dimples
00:03:21were my favorite thing,
00:03:22but you know what my favorite thing is now?
00:03:26You're not going to...
00:03:27You're belly button.
00:03:29It really is.
00:03:31And it's an Audi.
00:03:33It's not an innie.
00:03:34It's so cute.
00:03:37I feel like I'm on a roller coaster already with Daniel,
00:03:42and it's not even 24 hours yet.
00:03:44I'm engaged.
00:03:46I'm engaged.
00:03:46Day one, I'm freaking engaged.
00:03:48I didn't sleep last night.
00:03:50All I could do was stare at his face.
00:03:53He's everything I could have dreamed about,
00:03:56except he doesn't have to.
00:03:59We have to talk about last night.
00:04:02It was awful.
00:04:06I was upset with you.
00:04:08Why?
00:04:10Because I expected more than what happened.
00:04:17Last night was uncomfortable,
00:04:20and it was strange.
00:04:23He didn't finish.
00:04:27And I don't think he was full-on
00:04:31and I had so much anticipation.
00:04:33I was very
00:04:34so it was almost like we didn't have sex.
00:04:38Even though we had sex,
00:04:40it was almost like it wasn't there.
00:04:42So it just deflated me.
00:04:44I felt like, well, maybe I am too old.
00:04:46Maybe I am, you know,
00:04:48not the shape he wants me to be.
00:04:51I was really questioning myself.
00:04:55I was stressed last night
00:04:57because of, you know?
00:04:58It was really awkward for me
00:04:59because it's been so long
00:05:01since I've been intimate like that.
00:05:04And then you didn't finish.
00:05:07And then it was...
00:05:11I don't know how to talk to you about this.
00:05:14I'm embarrassed.
00:05:16You know, when a man is stressed,
00:05:19he finds it difficult to perform well.
00:05:21So maybe that's what happened.
00:05:24From morning to night,
00:05:28preparing, getting ready
00:05:29to go and welcome you.
00:05:30I was really tired after everything.
00:05:33It was a trial run.
00:05:34Yes.
00:05:35We have a test.
00:05:37It was a test run.
00:05:38Tested it.
00:05:39It was a test run, wasn't it?
00:05:40Yeah.
00:05:41I'm sorry for the first time.
00:05:43But I gave it to you this morning.
00:05:46You did.
00:05:47Yeah.
00:05:51But you want me to be honest?
00:05:53You're a little bigger than I expected.
00:05:56Really?
00:05:57So it was a little painful at first.
00:06:01Is that why you were screaming?
00:06:05At first, it was uncomfortable and painful.
00:06:08Okay.
00:06:08And then it was really sweet and gentle and enjoyable.
00:06:12And I seem to have stretched to fit you just perfectly.
00:06:15And I feel like, I feel like you're, you're made for me.
00:06:20I'm so happy.
00:06:21I'm so happy.
00:06:27I'm so glad I'm here.
00:06:28And I love you so much.
00:06:30I love you, Mom.
00:06:32And I'm so happy to have you here.
00:06:36Now that Daniel and I have been physical and I'm engaged to him,
00:06:42I'm even more concerned how he's going to handle what I have to tell him
00:06:46about being still married and it's a woman
00:06:48and that I've been with women for the past 21 years.
00:06:53I'm already 100% into this relationship physically and emotionally.
00:06:58And it's definitely going to be harder for me to handle
00:07:00if he can't accept my past.
00:07:05You keep saying things like that.
00:07:07We're never going to get out of this bed and get showered.
00:07:37Let's go ride on a trike.
00:07:39Oh my goodness.
00:07:41Oh my God.
00:07:43Oh Lord.
00:07:44Oh my God.
00:07:45Give me strength.
00:07:46This is worse than the bus.
00:07:49She and I getting into this tricycle
00:07:52is like what a sardine feels like being inside of a can.
00:07:56I would never do this with anybody else but you, Sheen.
00:08:01That's pretty great.
00:08:02I get to, you know, get up nice and close.
00:08:04But she's also crushing me to death.
00:08:06I love those.
00:08:07Woohoo!
00:08:08Oh!
00:08:09Whoa!
00:08:11I wish they'd give us a nice, you know,
00:08:13extra wide for my American physique.
00:08:23I'm afraid I'm going to fall off
00:08:24and I don't want two broken legs.
00:08:27Today I'm going to meet Sheena's family
00:08:29for the first time in a province called Covide.
00:08:33So we're almost there though.
00:08:35We'll just have to get along.
00:08:35I'm so nervous, baby.
00:08:38Oh man.
00:08:40Ever since I met Sheena seven years ago,
00:08:42her family has been like these ominous figures.
00:08:46She's told me that they manipulate
00:08:47and exploit her financially.
00:08:56I've always pictured this meeting
00:08:58as me putting my foot down
00:08:59and letting them know that Sheena
00:09:01is going to completely cut them off financially.
00:09:04But now it's turned into something
00:09:05completely and totally different
00:09:07than what I envisioned.
00:09:09You didn't tell me that there was going to be
00:09:11a mountain treacherous hill to climb.
00:09:14Yeah.
00:09:16Oh man.
00:09:18First she told me that I need her parents' approval
00:09:20to marry her.
00:09:21And then she said that they're going to ask me
00:09:24about my career and how I make money.
00:09:26But the truth is I don't have a job.
00:09:28I don't have a lot of money.
00:09:30I'm just this loser who's on disability.
00:09:34Baby, we can do this.
00:09:36Just be careful, baby.
00:09:38So at this point, I'm concerned
00:09:40that I won't be able to get
00:09:41the blessing for Sheena's family
00:09:43that I apparently need.
00:09:47Oh my gosh, is that them?
00:09:49Yes, my love.
00:09:51Oh my goodness.
00:10:00You must be Forrest.
00:10:02Yeah, Forrest.
00:10:02Yeah, my dad.
00:10:03Wow.
00:10:08Hello, sir.
00:10:09It's finally nice to meet you
00:10:10after so long.
00:10:12Nice to meet you, too.
00:10:14Hello.
00:10:15Oh, this is my dad.
00:10:17This is my dad's dad.
00:10:17He said it's Katrina.
00:10:18I'm a little bit of a dreamer, so.
00:10:21Yep.
00:10:22She's just a little shy
00:10:23to my dad's version, though.
00:10:26It's OK.
00:10:27I'm a little shy myself here.
00:10:29Yes, of course.
00:10:30I hope you enjoy your stay here.
00:10:33No, I'm so happy that you're
00:10:34allowing me to stay here
00:10:35and I'm finally getting to meet you.
00:10:42Oh, man.
00:10:43Oh.
00:10:45Sheena told me that her mom is sick,
00:10:47so I won't be meeting her.
00:10:48But her dad and sister
00:10:49seem nice enough.
00:10:50A bit quiet,
00:10:51which I guess is kind of normal,
00:10:53but it's not what I was expecting.
00:10:57You want to take a break
00:10:59from traveling?
00:11:00Yeah.
00:11:00To do that,
00:11:01can you show them?
00:11:02Yeah.
00:11:03Follow me.
00:11:03You want to check the gardens?
00:11:05Yeah.
00:11:05Yeah.
00:11:08So this is a place.
00:11:10Yeah.
00:11:15There's more improvements
00:11:16over the years.
00:11:19Wow.
00:11:20Yeah.
00:11:22Yeah, this is the place
00:11:23where we have our group meals
00:11:26for guests.
00:11:28Boy.
00:11:28OK, cool.
00:11:31Sheena told me that her family
00:11:33runs a bed and breakfast
00:11:34out of their family home.
00:11:35And I've heard over and over again
00:11:37that they need the money
00:11:38to fix this roof.
00:11:39Oh, they need the money to do this.
00:11:41Oh, they need money to do this.
00:11:42That's why they're stealing
00:11:43all this money from me.
00:11:44But it turns out
00:11:45that this is a nice, fancy place.
00:11:48OK, welcome to our house.
00:11:51Oh, wow.
00:11:52I think you're going to be
00:11:53on the second master's bedroom.
00:11:55This place is huge.
00:11:57Wow.
00:12:00So Gary was under the impression
00:12:03that her family
00:12:04might be desolute
00:12:06or they are going to starve
00:12:07without her.
00:12:08It doesn't add up.
00:12:12OK, come on, come on.
00:12:13Thank you very much.
00:12:15We're going to have dinner.
00:12:16Yeah, all right.
00:12:17Enjoy and relax.
00:12:19Yeah, all right.
00:12:20Thank you, guys.
00:12:23Oh.
00:12:27My mind's just confused.
00:12:29I don't understand.
00:12:31So you like the place?
00:12:33Yeah.
00:12:34It was way worth
00:12:35the getting crushed in the bus.
00:12:37Yeah.
00:12:38Your dad seems like
00:12:39a really awesome guy.
00:12:43Yeah, they're great people.
00:12:47OK.
00:12:48Well, I think I want to
00:12:49clean up my face real quick.
00:12:50Yeah, sure.
00:12:50OK.
00:12:51I'm going to head in the bathroom.
00:12:52Yeah, go great.
00:12:53Go very quick.
00:12:56Do you think Forrest
00:12:57was expecting something different
00:12:59from what he's seeing
00:13:01at your family's house?
00:13:03Mm-hmm.
00:13:04Yes.
00:13:05Which is probably my fault.
00:13:07Test for the water
00:13:08if it's good.
00:13:10Wash your face around,
00:13:11wash your hands.
00:13:12Yeah.
00:13:13I'm worried about
00:13:14what I'm going to be honest.
00:13:18And I'm worried
00:13:19about what is going to be said.
00:13:23What Forrest could say,
00:13:24what my family could say.
00:13:27I'm worried
00:13:28that everything could fall apart.
00:13:37Do you think I'm going to marry you
00:13:40for your money?
00:13:42That's what
00:13:43everybody else thought.
00:13:45I thought he was
00:13:47the man
00:13:47who's going to honor
00:13:49the provide and protect
00:13:50that he sold me on
00:13:52in the beginning.
00:13:53And now I don't know.
00:13:54The debt
00:13:55is a big deal.
00:13:58Are you excited
00:13:59about my show tonight?
00:14:01Yeah, I am.
00:14:02What songs are you singing
00:14:04at your show?
00:14:04Mariana,
00:14:06Vicky.
00:14:08So who is
00:14:10Vicky?
00:14:28You can't tell me
00:14:29that's not beautiful.
00:14:30We have like the second
00:14:31most active
00:14:31barrier recently.
00:14:33I'm so grateful
00:14:34that I live here.
00:14:34It's so pretty.
00:14:36Do you want to jump in?
00:14:37Okay.
00:14:38Come on.
00:14:38You know I can't swim.
00:14:39Don't play with me.
00:14:41I don't think about you.
00:14:43I like it
00:14:44I'm feeling for you.
00:14:46I could daydream about you.
00:14:48I could daydream about you.
00:14:51You know what you need?
00:14:52Mm-hmm.
00:14:53Right?
00:14:54Coconut water.
00:14:55We're good for your brains
00:14:56and good for your soul.
00:14:59That sounds good.
00:15:00Wash out of that.
00:15:01What energy?
00:15:03This is Aviva's
00:15:05second full day
00:15:06in Belize
00:15:07and we're here
00:15:08in beautiful San Pedro
00:15:09because I'm going to
00:15:10perform tonight.
00:15:13Yesterday, Aviva was
00:15:14accusing me of not
00:15:15being over my ex
00:15:16from Texas
00:15:16but in a hotel
00:15:18last night.
00:15:19I do believe
00:15:20that I was able
00:15:21to calm her down.
00:15:22I'm old.
00:15:23How are you going to be
00:15:24so fine and want to
00:15:24trip?
00:15:26Huh?
00:15:26Stop stressing.
00:15:28That's right.
00:15:36We had sex three times
00:15:38and no protection again.
00:15:40We're risking it all.
00:15:41We're just going with the flow.
00:15:44How is it?
00:15:46It's good.
00:15:47Mm-hmm.
00:15:47Refreshing.
00:15:48You don't have this in the States
00:15:48in Arizona.
00:15:49No, not like this.
00:15:50Oh.
00:15:55You excited about my show
00:15:57tonight?
00:15:59Yeah, I am.
00:16:01What songs are you singing
00:16:02at your show?
00:16:03Marry a Dark Heart,
00:16:05you know,
00:16:06TMTM,
00:16:09Vicky.
00:16:19Vicky.
00:16:20And I can't help
00:16:22but think of
00:16:23when my Aunt Spring
00:16:24brought up that rumor to me.
00:16:26They actually just did
00:16:28a big concert,
00:16:28like, for Valentine's Day.
00:16:30The first song
00:16:31that was performed
00:16:32was Vicky
00:16:33and she was at the concert
00:16:36and they left together.
00:16:40So who is Vicky?
00:16:46The concept of Vicky
00:16:48is a girl
00:16:50it's a girl
00:16:51I was messing with
00:16:51who had a man
00:16:52and the man
00:16:53wasn't treating her good.
00:16:54She was married
00:16:55and I was the little
00:16:57bartender showing her love.
00:16:59You know what I mean?
00:17:00On the side.
00:17:02So,
00:17:03is it someone
00:17:04you still talk to?
00:17:05Is it someone
00:17:05that you
00:17:07have a past with?
00:17:08I had a past with you.
00:17:09That's years ago.
00:17:12So,
00:17:13my Aunt Spring,
00:17:14she knows a lot
00:17:15of people here.
00:17:16I've heard a lot
00:17:17of rumors
00:17:18that Vicky
00:17:19went to your last show
00:17:21with you
00:17:21and you left
00:17:23the show with her
00:17:24and I just
00:17:25I'm confused
00:17:26and I'm just hoping
00:17:27that you can
00:17:27clear some things up
00:17:28with me.
00:17:36Aviva's Aunt Spring,
00:17:37I never met her
00:17:38I only
00:17:39heard about Aunt Spring
00:17:40but apparently
00:17:41she knows me better
00:17:42than I know myself.
00:17:43Is she
00:17:44the Secret Service?
00:17:46I don't
00:17:47nothing to hide.
00:17:48At the concert
00:17:49I was there
00:17:50with the bros
00:17:51trying to make
00:17:51a good set.
00:17:53You know,
00:17:54trying to
00:17:55make sure
00:17:55the show members.
00:17:56Did you go home
00:17:57with her?
00:17:57No, I did not.
00:17:59Didn't go home
00:17:59with any girl.
00:18:02You don't believe me?
00:18:04Apparently,
00:18:04there was
00:18:05some article
00:18:06or you were tagged
00:18:07in something
00:18:07or she was tagged
00:18:08in something
00:18:10of you guys
00:18:11going home together
00:18:11so I'm not really
00:18:12sure how I'm
00:18:13supposed to believe you.
00:18:14Belize isn't the
00:18:15fake news.
00:18:16Don't let
00:18:16get to your bed.
00:18:22I'm definitely
00:18:23going to do my best
00:18:24to not be in my head
00:18:25about it
00:18:26but you're
00:18:27apparently going
00:18:28to sing it tonight.
00:18:29How do I know
00:18:30she's not going to be there?
00:18:31That's one of my
00:18:31biggest songs in Belize.
00:18:32I can't not sing that.
00:18:34Yeah.
00:18:35You don't want me
00:18:36to sing the song?
00:18:37My biggest song,
00:18:38one of my biggest songs?
00:18:39Yeah.
00:18:41Come on,
00:18:42don't do that.
00:18:46All of my exes,
00:18:47they start off saying,
00:18:49I'm not going to be jealous,
00:18:50I got you
00:18:51but
00:18:53I thought Aviva
00:18:54was going to be different
00:18:55and now I am worried
00:18:57how she's going to react
00:18:58when I perform, Vicky,
00:18:59when I do perform it.
00:19:02Tonight could
00:19:05the whole thing up.
00:19:07I don't want that.
00:19:08If tonight is a problem,
00:19:10that's going to throw me off.
00:19:11I don't know
00:19:12if I can deal with that.
00:19:14That's not what
00:19:15I signed up for.
00:19:18I mean,
00:19:19I'll do my best
00:19:19but I just would
00:19:21feel more comfortable
00:19:21if you didn't perform,
00:19:22Vicky.
00:19:23That's all I can say.
00:19:36I had a lot of people
00:19:38before I came here
00:19:40say that you
00:19:41would only want
00:19:42to be with me
00:19:43because you would want
00:19:44a green card
00:19:46and money.
00:19:48And hearing that
00:19:51kind of makes it
00:19:52seem like
00:19:53that's true.
00:20:09That's what
00:20:10everybody else thought.
00:20:12Did you think that?
00:20:14Well, I don't know
00:20:15right now.
00:20:15I'm literally just
00:20:16hearing about most
00:20:17of this for the first time.
00:20:20Biracon just told me
00:20:21that he's 50K in debt
00:20:23and that he'd
00:20:24flee the country
00:20:25and flee his debt
00:20:26and just ignore it.
00:20:27I'm frustrated
00:20:29and incredibly concerned
00:20:30because it's making
00:20:32me feel like
00:20:33he's just straight up
00:20:34using me
00:20:35to get out
00:20:36of his debt.
00:20:56I know that
00:20:57but
00:20:58I want to make
00:20:59sure that
00:21:00I'm making
00:21:00a smart decision
00:21:01when it comes
00:21:02to future plans
00:21:03like getting engaged.
00:21:06I just
00:21:07got to hustle
00:21:08because money
00:21:09is money,
00:21:10you know?
00:21:13You know what?
00:21:14I'm ready to go.
00:21:15Okay, let's go.
00:21:16Let's go.
00:21:38I'm pretty frustrated.
00:21:40He told me a lot
00:21:41of things at dinner
00:21:42that were concerning.
00:21:44the debt is a big deal
00:21:46to me
00:21:46because he's talked
00:21:47about nothing
00:21:48but like honesty
00:21:49and pride
00:21:49and respect
00:21:50and it's really hard
00:21:51to respect someone
00:21:52that's not outright
00:21:53and straightforward
00:21:54with the truth.
00:21:56I thought he was the man
00:21:58who's going to honor
00:22:00the provide and protect
00:22:02that he sold me on
00:22:04in the beginning
00:22:05and now I don't know.
00:22:10What are you doing?
00:22:13Washing the dishes.
00:22:19Why are you upset?
00:22:21I told you why.
00:22:22I'm frustrated
00:22:23that you let things go
00:22:24the way they did.
00:22:26Why are you mad?
00:22:27Ha ha ha.
00:22:28Don't be cute.
00:22:29That doesn't fix this.
00:22:31You think I'm cute?
00:22:33I'm not going to answer
00:22:34that right now.
00:22:35You got to ask.
00:22:36No.
00:22:36You got to ask.
00:22:37I do not have to answer.
00:22:39You got to ask.
00:22:39You think that you can't
00:22:40Why are you mad?
00:22:41Stop.
00:22:49You think a couple kisses
00:22:51will win me over?
00:22:53You think doesn't?
00:22:55Oh.
00:22:57I'm still feeling nervous
00:22:59about what his intentions are
00:23:01but this is probably
00:23:03all of the fantasies
00:23:04I had had
00:23:05kind of rolled into one
00:23:06in that moment.
00:23:08Having a hot Turkish guy
00:23:09push you up against the wall
00:23:10and make out with you
00:23:12I don't know what it is.
00:23:14I just can't resist him.
00:23:16You're adorable.
00:23:18I know.
00:23:18That's why you love me.
00:23:20Ha ha ha ha.
00:23:23You are here.
00:23:24Oh, it's hot out.
00:23:26Ha ha.
00:23:27Look, look.
00:23:28Little more.
00:23:29Oh, maybe they should
00:23:31buy me some stuff.
00:23:32Maybe this bougie chick.
00:23:35There ain't nobody
00:23:36sugared at him.
00:23:37I don't know why
00:23:39he act this way.
00:23:40It's like he assumes
00:23:42the worst.
00:23:43I'm already doing
00:23:44things for you.
00:23:45So why are you
00:23:46asking for more?
00:23:48Is that what you want me for?
00:24:05Get out of here.
00:24:09David, they didn't give me
00:24:10any kids since this morning,
00:24:12so you need kids.
00:24:15Uh-uh.
00:24:16Watch out.
00:24:19Okay.
00:24:22You ready?
00:24:23Yeah, I'm ready.
00:24:24Okay, let's go.
00:24:32I'm so tired.
00:24:34Why?
00:24:36Because we were
00:24:37packing all night.
00:24:38That's why.
00:24:39Ha ha ha.
00:24:40Ha ha ha.
00:24:43Yesterday was tough,
00:24:45but after we had
00:24:47argument about my ex,
00:24:49we went back
00:24:50to the hotel
00:24:50and we did makeup,
00:24:53sex.
00:24:55It was really good.
00:24:57I love sex
00:24:58after argument.
00:25:00Oh, yeah.
00:25:01Ha ha ha.
00:25:04Woo-hoo!
00:25:06Excited.
00:25:07And it's in the plane.
00:25:09I know that
00:25:11we still have
00:25:12trust issues
00:25:12to work through,
00:25:14but today
00:25:15we are going
00:25:16to a romantic trip
00:25:17that Rick booked
00:25:18for us
00:25:19in Noosie Bay.
00:25:21First flight together, baby.
00:25:23Noosie Bay
00:25:24is a really
00:25:25beautiful island.
00:25:27They do have
00:25:28loomers
00:25:29and
00:25:30a beautiful
00:25:32beach.
00:25:33If you have
00:25:34someone to
00:25:35spend time
00:25:36together,
00:25:37romantic,
00:25:39go there.
00:25:41Ha ha ha.
00:25:42Ha ha ha.
00:25:46Look how beautiful.
00:26:10We are here.
00:26:12Oh,
00:26:13man,
00:26:13you're hot out.
00:26:14Ha ha,
00:26:14really hot.
00:26:15Whoo!
00:26:20Whoo, it's nice and cool.
00:26:23Whoo!
00:26:23Finally.
00:26:27Don't touch me.
00:26:28I'm hot.
00:26:29Oh, my God, baby, are you serious?
00:26:34Okay, I'm going to do you like that.
00:26:42Gee, look, look.
00:26:44Le Mans.
00:26:46Maybe you should buy me some stuff here.
00:26:52Pencils.
00:26:53Here we go.
00:26:54We'll see.
00:26:57I know you got expensive taste.
00:27:01You're so cheap.
00:27:05Tastes good.
00:27:06It's cheap.
00:27:08Huh?
00:27:08It's bougie chick.
00:27:11Is she serious?
00:27:14Man, I'm serious.
00:27:18There ain't nobody sugar daddy.
00:27:28Ever been, ever will be.
00:27:33I don't know why he called me like that.
00:27:35Like, you are a boozy girl, Trisha.
00:27:38I'm not looking for a sugar daddy, and I'm not a sugar baby.
00:27:43I got my own money.
00:27:45I don't know why he act this way.
00:27:48I'm just asking for one thing.
00:27:51And it's like, he assumes the worst.
00:27:54It makes me really angry and hard.
00:27:58I will never ask him for anything.
00:28:01Look.
00:28:08Oh, it's a nice room.
00:28:11Look.
00:28:14See what I set up for you?
00:28:17I don't care.
00:28:19You don't care.
00:28:20You don't care, of course.
00:28:22Because the roses aren't made of gold, huh?
00:28:31So what are we here to do?
00:28:34Huh?
00:28:35I thought we were here to, you know, have a good time.
00:28:37But your answer in the car seems like, I don't know.
00:28:42Well, what are you talking about?
00:28:44You were the one that brought up buying you things.
00:28:47Yeah, but I'm just asking for a little things.
00:28:50You just say, oh, you act like a boozy.
00:28:52Oh, you act like I'm not somebody's sugar daddy.
00:28:56Did I say that?
00:28:58You didn't say it, but you were acting like a sugar baby.
00:29:06I'm already doing things for you.
00:29:08Did I pay your rent?
00:29:09Yeah, you did pay my rent.
00:29:12So why are you asking for more?
00:29:14Is that what you want me for?
00:29:17It's not what I want you for.
00:29:19But I'm just asking for a little things.
00:29:22It's not that much.
00:29:25I'm going to get you what you need,
00:29:27but I'm not always going to get you what you want.
00:29:35So make it easy.
00:29:37Keep your money.
00:29:39See, this type of attitude, I could have found this in the States.
00:29:43I didn't have to come all the way to Madagascar to get this.
00:29:45So why did you come?
00:29:46Because I thought you were different.
00:29:50So I thought also you were different.
00:29:55What did you think I was, like your ex-boyfriend?
00:29:58Because that I'm not.
00:30:03I didn't expect something like this.
00:30:07I'm not with him because of money.
00:30:10I'm just with him for love, but I don't know why he think the opposite.
00:30:17It's crazy. I don't even...
00:30:24What were you expecting from me?
00:30:27You know what I do.
00:30:31So what were you expecting?
00:30:34What were you expecting?
00:30:35I know you were not a rich, Rick.
00:30:36I know that well.
00:30:41I feel like this trip is not starting in the right foot.
00:30:50I mean, what happened to just loving me for me?
00:30:53That's what you were saying in the beginning.
00:30:56What happened to that?
00:31:04Oh, I don't know if I'm buying.
00:31:06I just want to look at them.
00:31:07Hello.
00:31:08Hi.
00:31:09Hi, chick, chick, chick, chick, chick, chick.
00:31:11I'm not going to kill a chicken.
00:31:12You don't kill a chicken?
00:31:13I had chickens.
00:31:15They were my pets.
00:31:16They had a little VCR and a TV to watch.
00:31:19Your chicken watch TV?
00:31:20Yes.
00:31:22Oh, my God.
00:31:25She and his family, they seemed pretty laid back, normal, caring people.
00:31:31What were you expecting when you go here?
00:31:34Oh.
00:31:35This is going to be mind shattering here.
00:31:38Well, I was expecting that I might be walking into a scam.
00:31:58I'll open the door for them, okay?
00:32:00Okay.
00:32:05Oh.
00:32:08I'm getting used to you opening my door.
00:32:10You're such a gentleman.
00:32:12You treat me like a queen.
00:32:23So, that is a taxi?
00:32:26Yeah.
00:32:26Moilue.
00:32:27Moilue.
00:32:28Moilue.
00:32:29Moilue?
00:32:30Yes.
00:32:32And that means what?
00:32:34It's taxi.
00:32:35Oh.
00:32:40Is this where we're going?
00:32:43The market?
00:32:44I have always wanted to go to a market.
00:32:46I can't wait to get out and see everything.
00:32:52This is my first time out of the country.
00:32:55This is nothing like the farmers markets that I have been to.
00:33:03No one thinks the same.
00:33:07Let's go from here.
00:33:08Okay.
00:33:10It kind of reminds me of a flea market, but a flea market with food.
00:33:14And it's little tiny stalls right on top of each other.
00:33:18You can buy anything and everything.
00:33:21There are live poultry.
00:33:23There is dry fish, smoked fish.
00:33:26Hello.
00:33:27There are women doing hair right there in the middle of the market.
00:33:31It looks so beautiful.
00:33:35Oh, I don't know if I'm buying.
00:33:37I just want to look at them.
00:33:39Oh, my goodness.
00:33:43Be careful.
00:33:45Hello.
00:33:46Hi.
00:33:47Hi, chick, chick, chick, chick, chick.
00:33:49She handed me the chicken as if I was going to eat the chicken.
00:33:51I eat chicken.
00:33:53No, no, I'm not going to kill a chicken.
00:33:54You don't kill a chicken?
00:33:56I had chickens.
00:33:57They were my pets.
00:33:58My chickens were spoiled.
00:34:00They had a little VCR and a TV to watch.
00:34:03Your chicken watch TV?
00:34:04Yes.
00:34:06Really?
00:34:09Oh, my God.
00:34:12Bye, chicken.
00:34:15Okay.
00:34:15Let's go.
00:34:16Okay.
00:34:18I have to take you to the stars.
00:34:21I love fabric.
00:34:24Hello.
00:34:25Good afternoon.
00:34:25Good afternoon.
00:34:26They're beautiful.
00:34:28You're welcome.
00:34:29I would like you to check the one that will feed you.
00:34:31Because, you know, my uncle came yesterday to welcome you.
00:34:34And he was there.
00:34:35You saw him.
00:34:39I saw you.
00:34:43I have to pay him a visit.
00:34:46Why?
00:34:47Yeah, because, you know, my uncle have to approve.
00:34:50You know, he doesn't know you that much.
00:34:53So, he'll ask you some questions.
00:34:57I'm confused.
00:34:58What has he not given us approval for?
00:35:00He was very happy at the engagement.
00:35:03Yes, but he has not given us the blessing to marry.
00:35:08The blessing we are getting from my uncle is very important.
00:35:12In my culture, you get blessing from your parents.
00:35:15But my dad is not well.
00:35:17My uncle will have to call my father and report back.
00:35:20But I thought everything was said and done.
00:35:22I thought we were ready to start planning a wedding.
00:35:24I didn't realize there was going to be more to it.
00:35:26That's just a proposal.
00:35:28In America, you have to get blessings before you give the ring.
00:35:31Um, this is Nigerian.
00:35:33I know, so...
00:35:33We have different cultures.
00:35:35We have different way of life.
00:35:37But you didn't warn me about that.
00:35:40He have to see you dressed in a traditional attire.
00:35:45Maybe one of the rapa here.
00:35:48This?
00:35:49This one here.
00:35:49Yeah, this one.
00:35:51You know, my uncle loves, he likes good tea.
00:35:57And this is colorful.
00:35:58Yes, this is a hair tie.
00:36:00You have to tie this one on your head.
00:36:03Okay.
00:36:03Yes, on the head.
00:36:07I'm confused.
00:36:08You're confused.
00:36:09Don't you're confused.
00:36:13Okay, so it gets wrapped around.
00:36:15Yeah.
00:36:18And then it gets tied.
00:36:19Yeah.
00:36:20Just giving you the feel on how to tie it.
00:36:24I can't hear you.
00:36:26It's very loud.
00:36:30Oh, my gosh.
00:36:31How am I going to do this?
00:36:33I have no clue how this wrapping thing works.
00:36:36I have to do this myself when I meet his uncle.
00:36:39And there's no way I'm going to remember how to do everything.
00:36:42Yeah.
00:36:43I don't want to look like a fool.
00:36:45I don't want to look stupid in front of his uncle.
00:36:48Very easy.
00:36:49Very easy.
00:36:51Yeah.
00:36:51It's nice.
00:36:54Looks so close.
00:36:57What should I expect?
00:36:59Like, how will this be wrapped?
00:37:02We have to cut it.
00:37:03Okay.
00:37:04Yeah.
00:37:04We have to give it to a teller.
00:37:06Oh, yes.
00:37:07I can cut.
00:37:08But I don't know because we are a bit fat.
00:37:12The wrapper, if I cut it, it may not go round.
00:37:18Because I'm too fat.
00:37:19Yeah.
00:37:20Let me cut it.
00:37:21I'm coming.
00:37:22All right.
00:37:24I'm too fat.
00:37:26Baby, you're not fat.
00:37:28You're certainly fat.
00:37:29Yeah.
00:37:30Yeah.
00:37:30You're not fat.
00:37:32I'm feeling awful.
00:37:33And I'm kind of taken aback.
00:37:35I have to meet his uncle.
00:37:37And I have to wrap myself up in two layers of this wrap.
00:37:41This big headdress.
00:37:43And I'm going to look fat.
00:37:46Okay.
00:37:46Make your wrap, please.
00:37:52I have to try to impress his uncle.
00:37:53But what exactly happens to get his uncle's blessing?
00:37:58What kind of questions are going to be asked?
00:38:01I'm worried that I may have to reveal things that I'm not ready to reveal.
00:38:07This whole thing could be a disaster for me.
00:38:10So I'm scared.
00:38:15You're welcome.
00:38:19What is that?
00:38:26I'm trying to be supportive, but he's dancing and flirting with some random girl on stage right
00:38:33in front of me.
00:38:37What the f*** is Aviva doing?
00:38:52See, I'm outside in San Pedro on the main street walking holding hands.
00:38:57I have to let the whole world know about my baby.
00:39:00You can't question my love for you or anything at this point.
00:39:12How are you feeling?
00:39:13Are we good?
00:39:14I'm nervous.
00:39:15Don't be overthinking.
00:39:17Enjoy the show.
00:39:18Enjoy the entertainment.
00:39:20Okay.
00:39:21I'm an entertainer, all right?
00:39:22All right.
00:39:23We're good?
00:39:24Yes.
00:39:24All right.
00:39:27I'm a little frustrated with Aviva still for not wanting me to perform my hit song.
00:39:31But listen, I'm still going to go and peace stick the artist and hype this place up.
00:39:35I don't want anything to throw me off my game.
00:39:39Ready?
00:39:40Semi-ready.
00:39:42Ready.
00:39:42I have to say it like me.
00:39:43No, you can't say ready.
00:39:43You can't say ready.
00:39:44Ready.
00:39:44Ready.
00:39:50Come on.
00:39:56That's good, bruh.
00:39:59Trouble.
00:40:00Man, it's in, mother f*****g.
00:40:02All right.
00:40:03Aviva.
00:40:08Welcome to all the part of you guys tonight.
00:40:10Sting the artist in the Benham.
00:40:16I'm super, super excited to see Sting performing for the first time.
00:40:23But I feel super nervous.
00:40:27I still have my suspicions to what Sting's manager in Antspring had to say about Sting and other women.
00:40:35I know there's a lot of girls that throw themselves at him, at his shows.
00:40:41I don't know what to expect.
00:40:43I know there's a lot of girls that came from far for this one.
00:40:54Now I like you.
00:40:57Yeah.
00:40:57Blessings and long life.
00:41:01Too many things.
00:41:03Long time you weren't going to wedding ring, girl.
00:41:06Today I'm going to meet your father.
00:41:08This is what I'm going to say.
00:41:09I'm going to marry your daughter.
00:41:11Can I have your blessings?
00:41:13That would be amazing.
00:41:16I know you think that I'm a bad guy.
00:41:18And I'm going to break her heart.
00:41:20What is that?
00:41:48I'm trying to enjoy myself and I'm trying to be supportive, but he started
00:41:53playing Vicky after I asked him not to.
00:42:02Not only that, but he's dancing with some other random girl and flirting with her on
00:42:09stage right in front of me.
00:42:15It's just really hard to watch and it's making me feel pretty insecure.
00:42:20Hey!
00:42:21Hey!
00:42:22Hey!
00:42:23Hey!
00:42:49What the f*** is Aviva doing?
00:42:54I'm seeing a sea of people partying, having the time of their lives, and Aviva head down
00:43:03in her phone while I'm singing.
00:43:06This is not the behavior I want in my future wife, much less my girlfriend right now, like,
00:43:11come on.
00:43:16Anyway, this is one of my favorite songs on release, yeah.
00:43:37Aviva is still not paying attention.
00:43:51You're distracting me, I am so pissed, I can't even think straight right now.
00:44:04Ah, make it round, make the fufu to be round.
00:44:08How am I supposed to dip it up if it's round?
00:44:10Are you asking me?
00:44:11This is a control thing with Daniel right now.
00:44:21He's pushing me really hard and I'm getting angry.
00:44:24What the hell does Daniel want right now?
00:44:26Can you stand up and walk?
00:44:27Let me see.
00:44:28You want to see me walk?
00:44:29Yes.
00:44:30Are you walking now, ma'am?
00:44:32Watch me walk.
00:44:32Come back.
00:44:33Come back.
00:44:54I'm fuming right now, by the way.
00:44:58You're angry?
00:45:00I'm still frustrated and angry because she called me fat.
00:45:04Don't you know I got nothing to lose?
00:45:07I got something to prove, ah, ah, ah, ah.
00:45:14No, no, you're not fat, baby.
00:45:15Come on.
00:45:17And I'm stressed.
00:45:20No, I need to smoke my vape.
00:45:21That's how stressed I am right now.
00:45:27Do you remember the promise you gave me?
00:45:29I said I wouldn't smoke.
00:45:31I tried to quit and I couldn't.
00:45:34And I, ah, I am so frustrated with you.
00:45:38It's not funny.
00:45:41There are a few things Daniel expects of me.
00:45:44He wants my hair a certain way.
00:45:46He wants me to ask permission for things.
00:45:49I, I have to ask to have a drink of alcohol.
00:45:52He doesn't want me to vape.
00:45:55And I did tell Daniel I would slow down vaping.
00:45:58But I just found out I have to try to impress his uncle for the blessing.
00:46:03And I am feeling so much pressure of who I need to be for Daniel.
00:46:08So I'm stressing out and I want my vape.
00:46:16You surprised me with the uncle thing.
00:46:19How am I going to learn how to tie a traditional attire?
00:46:24I'm going to look ridiculous.
00:46:25So I'm from Ibo land.
00:46:27So we have to learn.
00:46:29Ibo people, we have tradition.
00:46:32And if Lisa wants to marry me, she have to learn all this.
00:46:39Am I dressed okay for this?
00:46:41You look good.
00:46:42You look good.
00:46:43Come on.
00:46:44It's very important for Lisa to learn my language and culture.
00:46:47To impress my uncle.
00:46:50Ah.
00:46:51Oh, thank you.
00:46:52Don't become white.
00:46:53That may be the one.
00:46:54There's a traditional way of blessing power, okay?
00:46:57Okay.
00:46:58You have to shake it.
00:47:00After shaking it, you have to drop it on the ground, okay?
00:47:04The ground must test it first.
00:47:06Then pick it up again.
00:47:08Mm-hmm.
00:47:09Woman's blessing power is ex-abu.
00:47:12It's not good.
00:47:14Can I drink it?
00:47:16Yes, you can test it.
00:47:17But it's very strong.
00:47:19It's very strong.
00:47:20Okay, so don't put too much in my glass.
00:47:24Oh.
00:47:30Yes, sir.
00:47:32It's cassava.
00:47:33Did you pound it?
00:47:35Yes, it's pounding.
00:47:36Oh, okay.
00:47:36Pounded one, okay.
00:47:37Mm-hmm.
00:47:42Okay.
00:47:44You do know that I studied the fufu online.
00:47:46Good.
00:47:48I've done so much research about fufu.
00:47:51It is fermented cassava.
00:47:53I learned how to roll it.
00:47:55I learned you flatten it.
00:47:56I learned you dip it.
00:47:57So I'm prepared, and I'm excited to show him I can do this.
00:48:01Try it.
00:48:02Try it.
00:48:03Try it.
00:48:03Try it.
00:48:07Ew.
00:48:09Ew.
00:48:13Did I do it right?
00:48:15You didn't boil the fufu.
00:48:16You have to boil it.
00:48:18You just swallowed it.
00:48:19Boil it again.
00:48:23All right.
00:48:24Dip your hand.
00:48:28Make it round.
00:48:29Make the fufu to be round.
00:48:30How am I supposed to dip it up if it's round?
00:48:32Are you asking me?
00:48:34Yes.
00:48:41This is really good.
00:48:42This is oha soup.
00:48:44I could just eat that.
00:48:46Good.
00:48:46I need a spoon.
00:48:47Use your hand to eat fufu.
00:48:48I'm not going to eat soup with just...
00:48:50That's what the fufu is for.
00:48:51Dip your hand inside the soup and take...
00:48:54Look, baby.
00:49:00I think Daniel is just trying to prove a point to me,
00:49:03but I didn't think he'd be so forceful about it.
00:49:07I am in the nursing field, and I work in caregiving.
00:49:11I know what kind of germs get under your fingernails.
00:49:15It's one thing to eat with fufu.
00:49:18It's another thing to dip your fingers into the soup,
00:49:21scoop it up, suck your fingers, and lick them dry.
00:49:25That's no.
00:49:26That's just nasty.
00:49:28I think he's being very rude.
00:49:33No.
00:49:36Can you test it?
00:49:40Test.
00:49:41Test. Go on. Go on.
00:49:42Test. Test.
00:49:47You have to respect this to me.
00:49:49I did. I tasted it.
00:49:56Do you know what we call it in our dialect?
00:49:58No.
00:49:59My uncle.
00:50:00My uncle.
00:50:01Eh?
00:50:01I can't say that.
00:50:02What does it mean?
00:50:03My uncle.
00:50:04My uncle.
00:50:05Oh.
00:50:07Call it very well.
00:50:08My uncle.
00:50:09No.
00:50:09No.
00:50:10You drink it.
00:50:11You respect it.
00:50:12No.
00:50:14Stop raising your voice on me.
00:50:17Call it again.
00:50:18Hey.
00:50:19Hey.
00:50:20Hey, don't talk to me that way.
00:50:21Eh?
00:50:22Relax.
00:50:25I'm done talking to you.
00:50:27I hope you're not drunk.
00:50:31What is that?
00:50:32I thought you were drunk.
00:50:33I took one sip.
00:50:34It doesn't matter.
00:50:35Just a drunk can make you change the system.
00:50:39No, I'm not.
00:50:39You're the one who's changing.
00:50:40Look at you.
00:50:41Put it down and talk nicely.
00:50:44This is a control thing with Daniel right now.
00:50:47I understand that he's pushing me really hard
00:50:50to do things of proper etiquette way.
00:50:53But he's being rude to me.
00:50:55What the hell does Daniel want right now?
00:50:57Can you stand up and walk?
00:50:59Let me see.
00:50:59Let me see.
00:51:00You want to see me walk?
00:51:01Yes.
00:51:02Are you walking no man?
00:51:03Watch me walk.
00:51:05You're walking no man.
00:51:06Oh, come back.
00:51:06Come back.
00:51:07Come back.
00:51:08Watch me walk.
00:51:09Come back.
00:51:10Oh.
00:51:22For the last seven years, I've been hearing that Sheena's family has been treating her awfully.
00:51:27But all I know is I need to get their blessing to marry Sheena.
00:51:31It's what you call it.
00:51:32What's your job?
00:51:35The importance you have pants, no?
00:51:38To help her.
00:51:41Well, always.
00:52:04You ready to go yeah, it's already late. I think the boat is waiting for us
00:52:20I think that's the boat right there. We better hurry up before they leave us.
00:52:25Last night was really rough. We got in this big argument. I just thought it was kind of bold of
00:52:33her to just tell me that, you know, she wants me to buy her stuff. I'm not here for that.
00:52:40We couldn't really come to an agreement. So eventually we decided to put a pin in it and enjoy our
00:52:47evening together.
00:52:49Oh my God.
00:52:52But I still feel concerned about whether or not I can fulfill her needs.
00:52:58Slow, slow, slow, slow.
00:53:03Wow, baby.
00:53:12So beautiful.
00:53:14Today we took a boat to an island called Nosy Aranja.
00:53:18This place looks like paradise.
00:53:21I see crystal blue waters,
00:53:24a sandbar that separates two islands that you can actually walk across.
00:53:30It's the perfect place for us to have a really romantic time and be sad, you know, take some strolls
00:53:37along the beach.
00:53:41I'd be afraid to swing that thing.
00:53:46Thank you so much.
00:53:49Do you know how to put this on your head?
00:53:52No, I don't.
00:53:54Seriously?
00:53:55No, I wouldn't have learned a skill like that.
00:53:59We put it there.
00:54:01Like, you see.
00:54:02Oh, man, that's cool.
00:54:04Oh, what?
00:54:05It's not going to fall?
00:54:07No.
00:54:08That's because you got all that hair up there. You got like a nest up there.
00:54:11No.
00:54:12You can do it.
00:54:14All right, here we go. Here we go, baby.
00:54:19I'm here to find my future wife, and I'm serious about Trish being that one.
00:54:26Let's go.
00:54:27She just has a presence that's so captivating.
00:54:31It just makes me want to be close to her.
00:54:34Yeah, I'm doing it.
00:54:36Let me see.
00:54:38But at the same time, we need to work through issues that we have in order for us to have
00:54:44a future.
00:54:45Oh, my God.
00:54:46It's hot.
00:54:47I want to sit down.
00:54:51Man, baby.
00:54:52What?
00:54:53This is beautiful.
00:54:55Mm-hmm.
00:54:56I'm so glad that we're here.
00:54:58That was a rough night last night.
00:55:00Yeah.
00:55:03I want to apologize for what happened yesterday.
00:55:13I just want you to know, like, I know that you are not rich, so I'm not asking a lot.
00:55:22Just, you do money, then that's it.
00:55:28I think when you were asking me for things, that that, you know, kind of triggered some things that I've
00:55:36gone through in the past.
00:55:38What do you mean?
00:55:40I just passed relationships, and I felt like, you know, once I wasn't giving enough, you know, they didn't want
00:55:50to be with me anymore.
00:55:52I just need to make sure that, you know, that won't happen again.
00:55:59Money has been an issue in previous relationships.
00:56:04I was married to Samson and Frederick's mom, Cheney, for seven years.
00:56:09Cheney is from Nigeria, and I brought her over on a K-1 visa.
00:56:14I think Cheney had higher expectations than what I could realistically provide, and it caused a lot of issues between
00:56:23us.
00:56:24That's why I've tried to be really straightforward with Trish about my financial situation.
00:56:31You run with that money.
00:56:34I'm not going to leave you if you don't buy me anything, but I just want to make sure if
00:56:41you buy all my needs, that's it.
00:56:44That's what I'm not asking.
00:56:47You know, when you bring me to the country, I have to let everything in here, my life, my job.
00:56:57Yes, I know that.
00:56:58Yeah, so I just want to make sure that you will take care of me when I'm there.
00:57:05That's the promise that I'm making to you, a promise that I'm going to take care of all your needs.
00:57:10I may not be able to give you everything you want, like your ex.
00:57:15Everything you need, you don't have to worry about.
00:57:20My ex did a lot for me, but I was not happy.
00:57:25With you, it's different.
00:57:29The way you talk, the way you give me a picture, I love that.
00:57:38You think that I'm enough for you?
00:57:41Yeah, yes, you are.
00:57:42You are enough.
00:57:46That means a lot to me.
00:57:48And I love you.
00:57:49That's why I want our relationship worth.
00:57:53This is what I want, too, baby.
00:57:59You ready to go have some fun?
00:58:01Yeah, I want to get in the water.
00:58:03Yeah, let's go.
00:58:06I'm starting to feel better that Trish is reassuring me that I'm enough for her.
00:58:13That's what I need to feel.
00:58:16Because I think that being insecure has caused me to make mistakes in my relationship.
00:58:23I really do care about Trish and want this to work.
00:58:28But it's hard because I still haven't told her what happened between me and my ex in Columbia.
00:58:36We're finally getting into a good place.
00:58:40But everything always feels so fragile between us.
00:58:44I really don't know how to tell her.
00:58:46But eventually, it needs to come out.
00:58:54Do you love me?
00:58:56Of course, baby.
00:59:02Do you love me?
00:59:10Of course, baby.
00:59:12The fruit is ready.
00:59:16Oh, just in time, just in time for dinner.
00:59:19Just in time.
00:59:19Perfect.
00:59:20Yeah, thanks.
00:59:21Good stuff.
00:59:22We hope you enjoy this.
00:59:24This is our native food.
00:59:26Grilled chicken, grilled squid and pork, and our natural tropical fruits.
00:59:31That sounds awesome.
00:59:33Oh.
00:59:34Dinner is served.
00:59:45See how it works in America or in my culture?
00:59:49We normally start with the oldest and we go down the line.
00:59:52We do it first.
00:59:53Since you're the biggest, you start.
00:59:55Oh, I'm the biggest.
00:59:57We go by size here.
00:59:58Yeah, we go.
00:59:59Okay.
01:00:01I just met Sheena's family.
01:00:03And so far, they're definitely not the evil dragons I was expecting.
01:00:08For the last seven years, I've been hearing that they're manipulating her and just treating
01:00:12her awfully.
01:00:13And now, I'm hearing that they are decent people.
01:00:18I feel confused, but all I know is I need to get their blessing to marry Sheena and then
01:00:26go from there.
01:00:31So, how's your travel here?
01:00:33From America.
01:00:34It was long and it was hard, but I got to see my Sheena for the first time.
01:00:41Mm-hmm.
01:00:42And finally, yes.
01:00:44Finally.
01:00:45I'm curious, though.
01:00:46What were you expecting when you go here?
01:00:49Oh.
01:00:51I was expecting, um...
01:00:57Well, I was expecting...
01:01:02It's kind of hard to say, you know, my mom's under the impression that I might be walking
01:01:11into a scam.
01:01:17Every, you know, there's, in every place, there are scammers, no, no, no, not...
01:01:22There's a lot of scammers.
01:01:23She'll be meeting us tomorrow.
01:01:25Prove her wrong.
01:01:27Prove her wrong.
01:01:28That's the rest thing.
01:01:29That's it.
01:01:32How'd you guys feel when you guys heard I was actually here?
01:01:40Yeah, I thought, finally, because it's so long, um, we're not really sure if we're going
01:01:49to meet you in person.
01:01:50No.
01:01:51I have to say, a lot of it had to do with finances.
01:01:56I don't make that much money, unfortunately.
01:02:01Just eat, babe.
01:02:03Enjoy your meal.
01:02:03Okay.
01:02:07Um...
01:02:07But the question is, uh, I don't recall it.
01:02:12What's your job?
01:02:15Yeah.
01:02:18So, this is kind of going to be mind-shattering here.
01:02:24I'm unemployed right now.
01:02:30I'm actually, uh, receiving disability.
01:02:33Disability for what?
01:02:35So, I have, uh, autism.
01:02:37I have problems talking with others.
01:02:40Like, right now, I'm having a terrible, awful time.
01:02:47So, that's enough for you for your daily life?
01:02:51It covers everything in my life right now.
01:02:54But I realize I'm not making enough to support a family right now.
01:03:02But I believe I'll be able to get a full-time job.
01:03:07Just, I just want the world for your daughter.
01:03:10And I was hoping I could get your blessing.
01:03:20Well, Forrest, of course, the importance.
01:03:24You have pants, you know?
01:03:30So, without any funding, how will you survive, you know?
01:03:36The only way to survive is to get a job.
01:03:39Yeah.
01:03:40Proper job.
01:03:41I have the energy.
01:03:42I have the drive.
01:03:43I just want to make sure you guys know I'm completely and totally serious.
01:03:47I'm going to be working full-time.
01:03:48And, yeah, be support for her.
01:03:53I prefer that Sheena has a boyfriend that is capable
01:03:58because it's the guy's obligation to support a wife.
01:04:06And Sheena also is, you know, she's very helpful, you know?
01:04:11There, you know, so talagang hindi mawawala sa akin yan.
01:04:21Okay, you have my blessing.
01:04:26But we're going to help her.
01:04:30She's been helping us also.
01:04:32Oh.
01:04:34How has she been doing that?
01:04:37Sometimes if we lack funds for her, you know,
01:04:41she would help us, you know, pay like that, you know?
01:04:44Oh.
01:04:45I understand.
01:04:48Yeah.
01:04:49Yeah, I'm really looking forward to meeting your parents tomorrow.
01:04:55My mom and dad,
01:04:56they definitely have a lot to kind of talk about tomorrow with you guys.
01:05:03We're looking forward to it.
01:05:05It's going to be a blast.
01:05:07I should be happy that I got their blessing,
01:05:09but I feel like Sheena hasn't been 100% honest with me.
01:05:14What I've seen,
01:05:16it's not the same as what I've been hearing for the last seven years.
01:05:20The way she described her family,
01:05:23the way they live,
01:05:24the whole money situation,
01:05:26the stories are not adding up.
01:05:28And I'm really worried that tomorrow,
01:05:31my mother is going to come in
01:05:33and going to think everything has been a lie this entire time.
01:05:38She's going to basically flip out.
01:05:52Michael,
01:05:54I want you to cut him out of your life.
01:05:58So you're basically giving me the ultimatum of you or him.
01:06:03Yes, you heard me right.
01:06:06This kind of changes my thinking a little bit,
01:06:09and I'm in a...
01:06:10About him?
01:06:11No.
01:06:32I mean, that was definitely fun.
01:06:42I know I killed it, but I forgot my lyrics, middle, cho.
01:06:47my mind, but.
01:06:48Don't be so hard on yourself.
01:06:49I'll always be hard on myself.
01:06:51It's okay.
01:06:54I'm so tired.
01:06:56It's been such a long night.
01:06:57Yeah.
01:06:59We're just getting back to the hotel from Stig's performance.
01:07:02And I felt a little uncomfortable, but I think I did well.
01:07:09I knew I had to hold it together and just push my feelings to the side.
01:07:16My feet are killing me.
01:07:19You want to give me a foot massage?
01:07:21Maybe.
01:07:24Maybe.
01:07:28I had a good time.
01:07:30I thought you did really well.
01:07:35So, did I handle it okay?
01:07:39Like...
01:07:40I guess.
01:07:43You guess?
01:07:44Yeah.
01:07:45What'd I do?
01:07:48How does this girl think that she handled this well?
01:07:52Like, how?
01:07:54You're mad at me?
01:07:57Aviva made me feel like she wasn't interested in my performance.
01:08:01She's on her phone texting while I'm performing.
01:08:05I'm boiling inside.
01:08:08And she thinks everything is fine and dandy.
01:08:13Please tell me what I did wrong.
01:08:16When you were on your phone.
01:08:19Texting.
01:08:21Hmm.
01:08:23Hmm.
01:08:28It wasn't like that.
01:08:30Like...
01:08:31Accelerate my feelings.
01:08:32Being on my phone?
01:08:34Yes.
01:08:34Not the right time for that.
01:08:36You weren't even watching.
01:08:37You were...
01:08:38Yes, I brought...
01:08:39I'm literally performing, singing to you.
01:08:45I wasn't trying to be disrespectful.
01:08:48It wasn't intentional.
01:08:51But...
01:08:51He was dancing with another woman in front of me.
01:08:54And he played Vicky, even though I asked him not to.
01:08:57So...
01:08:58It's a little annoying that he couldn't have just skipped the song.
01:09:01It wasn't even a big event.
01:09:03I just feel like it's not fair.
01:09:12Sorry.
01:09:13Hi.
01:09:13I don't have anybody out here.
01:09:15Like, you have to understand that there is all these girls on stage with you.
01:09:18So I'm going to talk to my people.
01:09:20I'm going to text my friends.
01:09:22I can do that.
01:09:23Well, I can do what you want.
01:09:25Cool.
01:09:26To me, that's...
01:09:30You're supposed to be on my team.
01:09:32A part of my team.
01:09:33That dude did not hype me up.
01:09:36Kind of killed my vibe, actually.
01:09:38That's why I felt like I forgot my lyrics.
01:09:40I was just distracted.
01:09:43They keep talking about these other girls.
01:09:44These other girls having fun, hyping me up.
01:09:47And my girl is there just on her phone.
01:09:52It's my first time in a situation like this.
01:09:55There's lots of beautiful girls around.
01:09:56I just...
01:09:57I felt awkward.
01:09:58I didn't feel confident.
01:10:00And I just wanted...
01:10:00You really think that's the best way to handle it?
01:10:06Anyways, I'm disappointed.
01:10:08Maybe I didn't mean to make you feel a certain way, but okay.
01:10:19BRB.
01:10:21BRB.
01:10:22BRB.
01:10:23BRB.
01:10:28BRB.
01:10:28It's because I am trying my best to not get super jealous, not overreact.
01:10:35But apparently, I didn't do a very good job.
01:10:42I am worried that if he thinks I'm too jealous and crazy, he might just break up with me.
01:10:48I don't want to scare him off.
01:10:50But part of me is terrified that I already have.
01:11:07We are in the middle of nowhere.
01:11:09There is dogs.
01:11:12I don't like dogs.
01:11:14Why?
01:11:15I should say, beat me or bark me.
01:11:19Bark at you.
01:11:21Bark at me.
01:11:22Okay.
01:11:23No, you're fine.
01:11:25My English is...
01:11:26Your English is perfect.
01:11:27Reboot.
01:11:28Reboot.
01:11:39Last night, I found out that BeerCon has an immense amount of debt.
01:11:45And I was worried that he really just does want a green card.
01:11:50But I have put a lot into this relationship, so maybe I just need to give it a little bit
01:11:56more time to see how red the red flags actually are.
01:12:02Maybe they're just a little pink.
01:12:04I don't know.
01:12:11There's lots of evil eyes.
01:12:12Yeah.
01:12:13I like that tree full of them.
01:12:16Today, my plan is taking Laura to the Nazar Koe.
01:12:21I wanted to show her different areas and different villages.
01:12:25And also, it is the place that makes evil eye beads there.
01:12:39When you hear it, it's like something bad, but it is not.
01:12:44But it is for good luck.
01:12:45Can işçiliği gibi, değil mi?
01:12:47Tabii, tabii.
01:12:48Bu antik dönemde, yani 3,000 yıllık bir geçmişi var bunun.
01:12:52Çevir, çevir.
01:13:20Çevir, çevir.
01:13:20Evet, evet.
01:13:24It's not me.
01:13:25I mean, the reality, actually.
01:13:27But I know that Laura, she loves crafting, so she will enjoy.
01:13:37Oh, that's cool.
01:13:38It's not perfectly round, but that looks good.
01:13:41And I suck at every talent thing.
01:13:45No, you don't.
01:13:46Yeah, I am.
01:13:47Check at this.
01:13:47I have no talent.
01:13:49No, it's good.
01:13:49Now you just roll it.
01:13:50It just has a tail.
01:13:55And it just roll.
01:13:58Apparently, I suck at evil eye beads.
01:14:02Yeah, he does.
01:14:03It just makes me angry.
01:14:05I can't even get it out.
01:14:07But this is part of life, you know?
01:14:09Sometimes, I can suck.
01:14:12OK.
01:14:13Enjoy the moment.
01:14:17Artık yaparsınız yani.
01:14:18İnşallah.
01:14:20All of the evil eye stuff.
01:14:22Yeah.
01:14:23Is this something, like, that's common in Turkey?
01:14:25Like, you're taught as a kid?
01:14:26Is that something that your family taught you?
01:14:28Your parents taught you?
01:14:29Yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:14:30They taught me.
01:14:31OK.
01:14:34We hardly ever talk about your family.
01:14:36Yeah.
01:14:37Usually, we kind of dance around that topic.
01:14:39And I'd like to know more about them.
01:14:47Do you see them very often?
01:14:50No, actually.
01:14:52My parents are not so happy because I'm with you.
01:15:03Birhan has been a little evasive about the relationship with his parents.
01:15:08We haven't talked about it in a lot of detail.
01:15:11So hearing that Birhan's parents don't approve of me is really upsetting.
01:15:19My family already doesn't approve of this.
01:15:22And it's just kind of frustrating to have a relationship where I feel like everything is against us.
01:15:31Do you think that there's a point where I would ever meet your parents?
01:15:36I don't know.
01:15:37But I do feel like meeting someone's family is a good way to get to know more information about a
01:15:47person.
01:15:48My family is my friends.
01:15:52I understand that.
01:15:55For me, that's how I feel about my friend Michael, you know.
01:16:00Michael.
01:16:07I don't want you to be too close with him because I don't trust him.
01:16:14Also, I don't like him.
01:16:17Well, he is very important in my life.
01:16:21We literally do everything together all the time.
01:16:36So you're basically giving me the ultimatum of you or him.
01:16:44What is it then?
01:16:46You're gonna choose me.
01:16:50This is the point.
01:16:52We are thinking about marriage.
01:16:54When we get married, he is not gonna be a part of our lives.
01:16:58And yes, you heard me right.
01:17:04I don't like that.
01:17:06He's just my friend and he's not trying to make me cut you out.
01:17:11He can't.
01:17:12This is relationship.
01:17:15This is the one who you get married, not some activity buddies.
01:17:24I've always known that Birkan doesn't love the fact that Michael and I are friends.
01:17:28But when Birkan tells me that I'm gonna have to cut Michael out of my life,
01:17:32it absolutely feels like some weird controlling side of him that I haven't seen yet.
01:17:38And I really don't like.
01:17:40This kind of changes my thinking a little bit.
01:17:43About him?
01:17:46No.
01:17:48He's not trying to force me to make a decision that I don't wanna make.
01:17:52Hmm.
01:17:53So, why don't you tingle a little, you know?
01:17:58I just get some air maybe.
01:18:00Or some peace.
01:18:03I don't know.
01:18:08I am shocked that Birkan decides to walk out on me as a way of ending our conversation.
01:18:16It's super disrespectful to me.
01:18:20Especially when I've tried to be very understanding with the massive amount of debt that he revealed to me.
01:18:30This doesn't really feel like the man that I thought I knew online.
01:18:39I'm mad at the way he talked to me.
01:18:41The way he's shaking his hand in front of my face and .
01:18:43No.
01:18:44No.
01:18:45He's not gonna do that.
01:18:46And if he doesn't come and apologize, I'm getting in the car.
01:18:52Gosh.
01:19:09I'm mad.
01:19:10And he better come and apologize.
01:19:12And if he doesn't come and apologize, I'm getting in the car.
01:19:15I'm mad at the way he talked to me.
01:19:17The way he's shaking his hand in front of my face and .
01:19:19No.
01:19:20No.
01:19:20He's not gonna do that.
01:19:22He's not gonna shake his hand in front of my face.
01:19:25Let me go.
01:19:26Let me...
01:19:28Where is my woman?
01:19:46Oh, shit.
01:19:52Baby, why are you here?
01:19:56Why are you talking to me like that?
01:19:58You raised your voice.
01:19:59You put your hand in my face.
01:20:01No, I gave you pawine.
01:20:02I wanted to know if you had fallen asleep.
01:20:04That's why I did like this.
01:20:07It makes someone...
01:20:08I took two sips.
01:20:09I don't wanna...
01:20:09I'm not even gonna drink it anymore.
01:20:11Even a drop can make someone go...
01:20:13Then why are you drinking it?
01:20:14Why did you order it?
01:20:15I wanted to let you know that we have traditional drinks in our place.
01:20:19Ok.
01:20:20Ok.
01:20:21And don't get mad at me because I can't pronounce everything.
01:20:24I am an American.
01:20:25Daniel, you can't pronounce everything properly.
01:20:28You came to Africa.
01:20:29You came to Nigeria.
01:20:30So what?
01:20:31Don't raise your voice.
01:20:33Oh, come on.
01:20:33How can I raise my voice?
01:20:34I'm a beautiful queen.
01:20:35Come on.
01:20:36You are raising your voice on me.
01:20:37I'm sorry, okay?
01:20:38No.
01:20:40Come on, eat.
01:20:41Are you gonna be nice?
01:20:44I'll be nice always.
01:20:46Let's go.
01:20:46Come and eat your food.
01:20:51My queen.
01:20:53No.
01:20:53Don't put your arm around me.
01:20:56No.
01:20:56No.
01:20:57The most beautiful queen.
01:20:58No.
01:20:59Yeah.
01:21:02I am so upset with Daniel right now.
01:21:05This is our first full day together and I'm seeing this whole other side to him.
01:21:09The way he's behaving has given off warning signs.
01:21:12I don't like it.
01:21:16I'm sorry.
01:21:17I'm a little nervous.
01:21:19My uncle will see you tomorrow.
01:21:21I told him that you're a Christian.
01:21:23I am a Christian.
01:21:24Good.
01:21:26We don't smoke.
01:21:27So you're not allowed to smoke as a Christian.
01:21:29We are not allowed to.
01:21:31I'm trying to quit.
01:21:32So should I tell my uncle that you don't, babe?
01:21:35Or should I tell him that you're a Christian?
01:21:36No.
01:21:37You don't talk about it at all.
01:21:39I don't wanna be a liar.
01:21:42In my family?
01:21:44Mm-hmm.
01:21:45We don't tell lies.
01:21:46We always tell the truth, no matter how hard.
01:21:50Let me ask you this.
01:21:51Okay.
01:21:52If your uncle does not give you the blessing, does that mean that we are not getting married?
01:22:00That's it.
01:22:08You told me you were a man who could make his own decisions.
01:22:11Yes.
01:22:11I came to Nigeria for a reason, and now you're telling me without a blessing that you can't
01:22:16marry me.
01:22:17Yes.
01:22:18I'm a grown man, but I came from somewhere.
01:22:22In my family, we have the way we do our things.
01:22:26And I want everything possible to make sure that my uncle gave us blessing.
01:22:31That's my concern.
01:22:32And that's, and the vaping is the only thing that you're very concerned about?
01:22:36That's your biggest concern?
01:22:37Yeah.
01:22:42Are you worried?
01:22:44I'm thinking.
01:22:46Thinking of what?
01:22:48Daniel is so worried about the vape.
01:22:51But that seems really small compared to all the other things that Daniel doesn't know
01:22:57about me.
01:22:58I'm terrified to tell him my truth.
01:23:01I have no idea if he'll be able to forgive me.
01:23:03And even if he accepted my past, once I reveal my secrets to him, is he going to have
01:23:08to tell all of his family that I've only been with women for the past 21 years.
01:23:13And that I'm still married.
01:23:15If we tell his uncle about that, I'm scared I'm not going to get the blessing.
01:23:20I don't want to lose Daniel.
01:23:27We're here, huh?
01:23:28Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:23:32So cute.
01:23:33Maki Maki.
01:23:34Yeah, the kids will love this.
01:23:36Yeah.
01:23:37It'll be worth it if I can bring a step mommy home.
01:23:40But I want to have my own.
01:23:43If he decided does not want to have kids, I don't know if I could be with him.
01:23:49You want what you don't want.
01:23:54Now that I'm in person with my husband, he's giving me trust issues.
01:23:59Remember what you promised me before you came down here.
01:24:03I was going to stop talking to that person.
01:24:06So can I see your phone now?
01:24:14Tell me something interesting about Birkan.
01:24:17Birkan'ın bilinmeyen bir anı var.
01:24:22Ben söyleyeyim.
01:24:24Laura is already worried about my finances.
01:24:28I don't want to make things bigger.
01:24:30Sen süreyi uzattıkça onun sana olan tepkisi de büyüyecek bence.
01:24:34Wait, what is she saying?
01:24:38Oh yes, moment of truth.
01:24:42Man, this is so beautiful here.
01:24:47Holy .
01:24:48Well, would you look at that.
01:24:51Sheena's expecting me to believe that if her parents don't take her money,
01:24:55that they're going to starve.
01:24:57Tonight, we'll get the truth for Sheena.
01:25:00She told us if she didn't give the money that you would mistreat her.
01:25:07Did you say that?
01:25:12Uncle, whatever that's all.
01:25:15You are not an Igbo woman.
01:25:17I want to know Igbo more.
01:25:20I'm sitting next to the man I love, and he doesn't know **** about me.
01:25:24I don't want to lie to his uncle, but I want us to have this blessing more than anything in
01:25:28the world.
01:25:29Are you a practicing person?
01:25:31I have not always been, but Daniel makes me into a better woman.
01:25:36Are you or were you a lesbian?
01:25:38Are you a lesbian?
01:25:40You just willing to live love, what am I?
01:25:46I am.
01:25:46I just want you to live.
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